Communication Preference Guidebook 1
Communication Preference Guidebook 1
Communication
Preference Styles
Reference
Guidebook
Ian C. Woodward
New Edition – (Pre-release version June 2018)
Understanding Communication Preference Styles: Reference Guidebook
Copyright ã 2018 by Ian C. Woodward. All rights reserved. Published in PDF format in Australia.
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The author has made every effort to ensure the accuracy of the information within this publication
was correct at time of publication. The author does not assume and hereby disclaims any liability to
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omissions result from accident, negligence, or any other cause.
Grateful acknowledgement is made for the reproduction cover artwork: “Spring” by Veronica
Yun, which was commissioned for this Reference Guidebook in 2018. Its imagery and colors
suggest engagement between four different communication styles connecting in collaboration.
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Contents
Introduction ........................................................................................................................................................... 3
How to Use this Reference Guidebook ............................................................................................ 3
How Our Communication Preference Styles Reveal Themselves to Others .............................. 3
What We Can Achieve by Understanding Communication Approaches and Preferences ........ 4
Communication Intelligence and Psychometric Principles .......................................................... 5
Part 1: Understanding the Three Dimensions of Communication Approach: Culture, Communication
Preference Styles and Personality ................................................................................................................... 6
1.2 Communication Approach—An Illustration ............................................................................. 6
1.2 How Cultural Background Influences Communication Approach ......................................... 7
1.3 The Four Communication Preference Styles ........................................................................... 8
1.4 Personality Characteristic: Extroverts, Introverts and Ambiverts ....................................... 10
1.5 How Pressure, Nerves and Stress Can Affect Communication Preference Styles ........... 11
Part 2: Interpreting Your CPSS Survey Results............................................................................................ 12
2.1 Your Personal CPSS Results Report ....................................................................................... 12
2.2 Understanding the Five Communication Preference Intensities ......................................... 13
2.3 Communication Preference Styles: Potential Strengths and Challenges........................... 15
2.4 Preference Style Combinations ............................................................................................... 21
2.4.1 Two Styles in Combination ................................................................................................ 21
2.4.2 Three Styles in Combination ............................................................................................. 25
2.4.3 The All Moderate Communicator ...................................................................................... 25
2.5 Communication Preference Annoyance Triggers.................................................................. 26
2.6 Your Results Under Pressure, Nerves and Stress ................................................................ 27
2.7 How Extroversion, Introversion and Ambiversion Affect Communication Approach........ 28
2.7.1 Common Communication Features of Extroverts, Introverts and Ambiverts ............. 29
2.7.2 A Few Notes on Ambivert Communicators ..................................................................... 30
2.7.3 Avoiding Frustration: Understanding “Talk and Think” Processes .............................. 31
2.8 When Strong Personality Meets Strong Communication Preference Styles...................... 32
Part 3: Using Your Survey Results to Improve How You Communicate .................................................. 33
3.1 Nine Steps for Making Positive Changes ................................................................................ 33
3.2 Quick Tips for Building Communication Styles and Overcoming Challenges .................... 34
Appendix 1: Communication Intelligence Model—An Overview ............................................................... 35
Appendix 2: Further Information on the Communication Preference Styles ......................................... 37
Language and Content; Communication Processes; Presence: Nonverbal/Paraverbal......... 37
About the Author ................................................................................................................................................ 43
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Introduction
Communication is vital in every aspect of our lives. Because we are all unique, we favor different
ways of communicating. Becoming deeply aware of our personal Communication Preference Styles
is part of developing our “communication intelligence,” which in turn involves understanding our
own “communication approach” and that of others. Developing this level of awareness can make
us much more effective communicators.
To assist people in developing this awareness, Ian C. Woodward, who is a professor at INSEAD—
the Business School for the World in Singapore—developed the Communication Preference
Styles Survey (CPSS) together with a model of communication intelligence over the past two
decades as part of his ongoing research and lecturing work on effective leadership communication.
This Reference Guidebook is meant to accompany the CPSS and help readers understand their
communication approach, their Communication Preference Styles and their own CPSS results.
The Reference Guidebook discusses the topics of communication approach and Communication
Preference Styles in three parts:
• Part 1 explains the concept of communication approaches. This includes the impact of
culture, Communication Preference Styles and personality in shaping communication
approaches. It also touches upon how pressure, nerves and stress may affect preference
styles.
• Part 2 contains detailed information to help readers interpret their own CPSS results
report. It includes detailed information about the four Communication Preference Styles
and how personality characteristics interact with these preference styles and
communication approaches.
• Part 3 focuses on what we can do with this new knowledge, including how to use the
survey results to become a better and more effective communicator.
As humans are so diverse, there are different levels of intensity and various combinations of
Communication Preference Styles. Each style brings different benefits and strengths in ways of
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communicating as well as potential challenges and difficulties. People with strong preferences may
experience problems and conflict where the communication style of the person with whom they
are communicating is the opposite of theirs.
Each person has his or her own way of transmitting (and framing) and receiving (and interpreting)
communication messages, whether verbally, nonverbally, visually, behaviorally or through
technology. We call this the person’s communication approach. Three dimensions significantly
influence this approach: cultural background (discussed in Part 1), the four Communication
Preference Styles, and personality.
The key personality characteristic of Extroversion, Introversion and Ambiversion is also discussed
in detail in Part 2.
When we become more aware of our own needs (built on our communication approaches) and
those of others, we can connect and engage more successfully. This deep and insightful level of
communication awareness leads first to development and change priorities, then to practice and
finally to performance improvements—that is, to becoming a more effective communicator in all
formats. (For more information about how CPSS survey results can be used to improve
communication impact, refer to Part 3.)
There is value in using a diagnostic tool such as the CPSS not only to identify our own preference
styles, but as a concrete starting point to begin reflecting about styles in general, as well as the
difference between preference and capability—and why preference matters. Preference matters
because it reflects an innate style that people tend to default to whether or not they are aware of it,
particularly in conditions of pressure or stress. (For more on how pressure and stress influence
Communication Preference Styles, see page 11.)
Important Note: There is no ideal communication preference style or combination. The major
purpose of the CPSS and its results is to promote reflection and deepen awareness. It is a
development tool. It is not about “boxing” people into neat categories or “stereotyping” them.
Any individual may or may not have many of the characteristics described in the Reference
Guidebook. However, the communication characteristics that we can explore based on CPSS
results should reveal important insights into our development as more effective communicators.
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Each style has advantages and disadvantages in different communication situations. Understanding
these Communication Preference Styles can help build awareness of self and others. With
knowledge about our preference styles, we can build our potential strengths, overcome potential
problems, and enhance our capacity to more effectively communicate with those whose preference
styles are different from our own. We can also consider adopting techniques from other styles to
match the needs of a particular communication situation or purpose.
The CPSS is a diagnostic survey built on psychometric principles1 designed to elicit a person’s
responses to, and resonance with, the four Communication Preference Styles. It can be used for
developmental and reflection purposes. It covers a range of personal and behavioral
communication features that affect and influence Communication Preference Styles. As noted
earlier, individual Communication Preference Styles reflect themselves in language, process and
nonverbal signals as well as our overall style and approach to communicating with other people.
They influence perceptions of communication intelligence and likely use of specific
communication techniques.
Various aspects of our selves contribute to our personal Communication Preference Styles.
These aspects include major psychological characteristics—such as personality and traits, learning
styles and thinking orientations—together with gender, social factors, and life, education and
professional experiences. Explicit communication skills, learning or training may also influence
these preferences, if they are deeply developed and practiced over time through extensive
experience.
The online CPSS (V5.1) contains 95 questions spread across five sections. The final results report
reflects the collective and integrated responses to all the questions.
By answering the CPSS questions, we can reveal substantial insights about our own preference
styles in communication—as well as the potential strengths and challenges in our communication
approach. These insights build our capacity to develop communication intelligence. (See Appendix
1 for a description of the communication intelligence model.) The CPSS results also report on the
personality characteristic of being an Extrovert, Ambivert or Introvert, which influences how we
communicate. (For details, see 2.7, How Extroversion, Introversion and Ambiversion Affect Your
Communication Approach, beginning on page 28.)
Sometimes the CPSS survey results surprise people. We all have communication skills that exist in
styles beyond our preferences because we develop skills and capabilities in response to need (as
well as through training) over time. Such skills might not show themselves in our preferences.
However, our underlying Communication Preference Styles represent those that are most natural,
instinctive and obvious in us.
Under pressure, nerves and stress, we will frequently resort to our underlying preference behaviors
and skills ahead of any learned ones. For some people, Communication Preference Styles can
change with intense situations, such as pressure, nerves, anxiety or stress. We can call these
“stressor preferences.” The CPSS research data show that around 40% of people have these so-
called stressor preferences and can shift or change their communication preferences compared
with their general preference state. For more information about how pressure, nerves and stress
may affect Communication Preference Styles results, see page 27.
1Psychometric diagnostic surveys can be used to measure the psychological aspects of a person’s behavioral styles and orientations,
such as attitudes and personality traits. Diagnostic surveys developed on psychometric principles, such as the CPSS, measure
specific characteristics and orientations related to defined parameters (in this case, four defined communication preference styles
and an aspect of personality). Surveys such as the CPSS are designed to be used for development purposes rather than assessment.
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Part 1: Understanding the Three Dimensions of Communication
Approach: Culture, Communication Preference Styles and
Personality
While various factors can influence communication effectiveness in specific situations (such as
knowledge level of a topic under discussion, or the relevance of the content), there are three
communication dimensions that are with us across all communication situations. They are
culture, preference styles and personality. Together, these three dimensions combine to form our
communication approach.
Before explaining the three dimensions (culture, Communication Preference Styles and
personality), here is an illustration of different communication approaches in action: In March
2011, four global investment partners met by video conference to discuss plans for the final round
of a toy design competition they were sponsoring. Their meeting minutes included comments
made by each partner in the order they spoke:
• John: “I like this. Good risk and reward. Timing means committing some real money now,
but with the right business plan, we can target a 20 per cent return in the next year. Given
the market analysis, let’s restrict the design options to two clear segments: younger kids and
pre-high school. I want to make sure the teams know the competition restrictions and the
data we require.”
• Sarah Jane: “I saw some fantastic design teams in the first round who want to go all the
way in the competition. We should look at how innovative and creative their ideas are. I
want to see what their strategies are for the new toys and what their marketing visions are.
It would be marvelous if one or more of these designs won one of this year’s big toy
awards. Energetic team presentations are essential. We must stress how important it is to
show us the promotional visuals for the designs. They can use 3D printing for the
prototypes.”
• Carl: “We need the team members to display how they work together. The people are
important if we are to partner with them by investing for the longer term. How do they
collaborate, and is their passion for their new toys? Are they sensitive to what children and
their parents really want? How do they feel about working with us? We could ask them to
share some personal examples of their previous work. It would be ideal if we could speak
with some of the children who have used their toys in the past and some of their
employees. I believe we need to have some quieter personal conversations with the team
members, not just watch the presentations. I really appreciated being able to talk with the
people we met in the first round to get to know them.”
• Sakura: “We should provide sufficient time to listen to the team presentations carefully
and review their submitted materials to develop thorough questions. From every
presentation, we should be able to evaluate how financially viable the product is, and where
the investment returns may be coming from. It may be helpful to have the teams submit an
implementation plan for their toy designs that covers areas such as operations, logistics and
intellectual property protections. We may wish to reflect upon how comfortable we are—
based on the preliminary analysis and the competition legal protections—that we are
managing our risks in this development funding competition. This is the first time we have
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organized a competition of this kind, and there are many important matters for
deliberation. There are some detailed comments on the 24 items of the competition agenda
rules that I circulated yesterday. On balance, we may wish to consider having the final
teams we choose combine both of the toy segments.”
Each example demonstrates a very different communication approach reflecting some aspects of
the person’s cultural background, Communication Preference Styles and personality:
• John is American based in New York City. He is a strong Style 1 Rational Communicator
and an Extrovert.
• Sakura is Japanese based in Osaka. She is a strong Style 2 Structured Communicator and an
Ambivert.
• Carl is Danish based in Copenhagen. He is a strong Style 3 Expressive Communicator and
an Introvert.
• Sarah Jane is a New Zealander based in Auckland. She is a strong Style 4 Visual
Communicator and an Extrovert.
The Communication Preference Styles and personality characteristics sit underneath our
cultural communication backgrounds and attitudes. Like the umbrella in the graphic, a
person’s cultural background is the overarching dimension of communication approach. Within a
national or ethnic culture, the distinct differences in the four Communication Preference Styles are
likely to be very obvious. But in cross-cultural settings, specific and substantial differences in
cultural/language approaches may lead people to see another person’s preference styles
differently—that is, the cultural differences may be much more significant than the individual
Communication Preference Styles.
For example, in a culture where there is a higher or larger overall level of body language intensity
and louder voice volume compared with another culture (for instance, Italian culture compared
with Thai culture), a person who has equal intensity in the Style 3 communication preference
(Expressive) is likely to appear more expressive to the Thai, and not as expressive to the Italian.
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Similarly, all cultures have Extroverts, Introverts and Ambiverts. Yet if a Dutch Extrovert meets a
Korean Extrovert, the Dutch person may perceive the Korean as more introverted because of
Korean cultural characteristics, such as level of voice volume (lower), intensity of body language
(lower), and highly respectful, less direct speech content.
The Communication Preference Styles Survey (CPSS) does not address cultural similarities and
differences in communication; nor does this Reference Guidebook in detail. The CPSS may be
taken by people of any cultural background. It is highly recommended that leaders and executives
involved in global or cross-cultural business learn more about cultural similarities and differences
in communication. 2 There are many different dimensions of cultural characteristics in
communication. Below are just two examples. Note, however, that people are individuals, and may
or may not fit into one or more of these generalized examples.
High-context cultures tend to have communication that seems more indirect and implied. These
cultures use words that are embedded and interpreted in the situation and relationship. There can
be higher levels of indirect content and multiple possible meanings for words, making language
choice significant to accurate interpretation. Examples of high-context cultures include Japan,
Thailand, Saudi Arabia, Latin America and West Africa.
Low-context cultures tend to have communication that seems more direct and explicit. These
cultures use words and content that can be more task- or outcome-oriented. There can be
forthright and confronting content, with definitive words and phrasing having a single meaning.
Examples of low-context cultures include the Netherlands, Denmark, Germany, Australia and the
United States. One context type is not “better” than the other, but they are very different.
Different cultures also convey different levels of intensity in body language and voice. Body
language differences include the size and frequency of hand gestures, the level of facial expression
movement, and eye contact rules (based on age, position or gender). Vocal intensity and
expressiveness differs from culture to culture. This includes volume of voice, speed/pace of
speech, pitch modulation, and length and use of pauses/silence.
Higher nonverbal- and paraverbal-intensity cultures include those from southern Europe (e.g.,
Italy), the Iberian Peninsula (e.g., Spain) and Latin America (e.g., Brazil). Lower nonverbal- and
paraverbal-intensity cultures include those of north Asia (e.g., Japan), southeast Asia (e.g.,
Cambodia) and northern Europe (e.g., Finland). One level of intensity is not “better” than the
other, but again they are very different.
As discussed above, when we analyze our communication approach and those of others, we should
first consider cultural background as an overarching dimension, since different cultures and
languages significantly influence the way we communicate and provide a rich diversity of
communication features across our world.
2There is a wide range of books, articles and web materials available on cross-cultural characteristics, including: Edward T. Hall,
Beyond Culture (1976); Erin Meyer, the Culture Map (2014); and Geert Hofstede (https://geerthofstede.com/landing-page/). The
examples provided above include material adapted from these sources.
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However, next—at an individual level and sitting below culture—there are two further specific and
crucial communication dimensions to consider and the CPSS presents results for both of these
dimensions:
Communication Preference Styles influence the way we transmit and deliver—as well as receive
and interpret—communication across different situations and different communication formats or
media. The four main Communication Preference Styles that represent a collection of
communication characteristics found in people, each associated with potential strengths and
potential challenges, are:
Style 1 (CPSS Report Color Purple) is the Rational Communicator, whose overall approach
appears logical, factual and direct. The Rational Communicator builds on analysis and
forthrightness while demonstrating a sense of urgency. The Rational Communicator usually prefers
key information that gets straight to the point in communication, and has a communication style
that is outcome-/task-oriented and objective.
Style 2 (CPSS Report Color Silver Gray) is the Structured Communicator, whose overall
approach appears organized, detailed and careful. The Structured Communicator builds on
organization and thoroughness in communication materials and processes while paying significant
attention to accuracy, detail and a comprehensive understanding of facts, information and
language. The Structured Communicator usually prefers stability and sequence in communication,
and has an organized and meticulous communication style.
Style 3 (CPSS Report Color Green) is the Expressive Communicator, whose overall approach
appears interpersonal, emotional and sensitive. The Expressive Communicator builds on
relationship communication and uses description while showing empathy, passion or sensitivity.
The Expressive Communicator usually prefers more descriptive language and interactive body
language in communication, and has a communication style that is collaborative and emotive.
Style 4 (CPSS Report Color Orange) is the Visual Communicator, whose overall approach
appears imaginative, conceptual and animated. The Visual Communicator builds on ideas and
images while displaying creativity and activity. The Visual Communicator usually prefers “big
picture” conceptual language and content with graphic visuality in communication, and has a
communication style that.is creative and imaginative.
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Style 2 Style 3
Silver Gray Green
Style 1 Style 4
Purple Orange
Beyond culture and the four Communication Preference Styles, the third crucial dimension
influencing our communication approach and behaviors is an underlying aspect of our personality:
the degree to which we are Extroverts, Introverts or Ambiverts. This is an important dimension
affecting many of our personal communication behaviors and priorities, especially related to the
extent of our active social engagement and energy of interaction with people in spoken
communication settings or our methods in combining thinking and speaking.
This aspect of our personality needs to be taken into consideration in addition to our
Communication Preference Styles because there are Extroverts, Introverts and Ambiverts in all
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four styles, and their natural tendencies influence their communication energy and structuring,
verbal patterns and nonverbal behaviors. (See Part 2 for more details.)
1.5 How Pressure, Nerves and Stress Can Affect Communication Preference Styles
Under situations of pressure, nerves, stress and anxiety, some people change their behaviors,
including shifting their specific communication preferences. The CPSS describes these as stressor
preferences. Generally, people will do one of three things:
Consider these examples of the four Communication Preference Styles under situations of pressure,
nerves, stress and anxiety:
Stressor
Potential Strengths Potential Challenges
Situation
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Part 2: Interpreting Your CPSS Survey Results
Below is an example of a full personal results report from the Communication Preferences
Styles Survey (CPSS).
The left had side of your CPSS Personal Results Report deals
with your general or usual Communication Preference Styles, and
shows your results with:
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On the bottom right side of your results
sheet is a Summary Data table. It is
provided to compare your overall results
information, including your general scores
and intensity in each of the four styles and
the most significant phrase or word
chosen with its style category.
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The CPSS research data shows the majority of people who take
the survey tend to exhibit at least one Very Strong or Strong Remember: Pressure, stress
style result operating in combination with a Strong or Moderate and nerves can affect your
second preference style. While few in number, it is also communication preference
completely normal to have a series of Moderate results. styles in certain situations.
However, at least one or two of these is likely to be the more
important preference combination for that person—and make a See Part 1.5 (p. 11) and Part 2.6
slightly greater contribution to their overall communication (p. 27) for more information.
approach—while the other results provide an influence as well.
Q: My most significant chosen word or phrase description is not in my highest preference style result. What does
this mean?
A: Around two-thirds of people choose their significant word or phrase in the same style as their
highest result. The majority of the rest of people choose their word or phrase in their second
highest result. A smaller number choose a word or phrase not in their highest or second highest
result. If this is your situation, you will likely display the communication behaviors or approach
represented by that word or phrase depiction, but are unlikely to hold most of the other
characteristics of that style. Nevertheless, the communication features specifically represented
by the phrase/word will be an important and noticeable feature of your overall communication
approach.
Q: I have three or four styles that are close in score or intensity to one another, yet my results show only some of
these in combination. What does this mean?
A: Quite a few people hold a series of results that are close in percentage score or intensity. At
least one or two of these are likely to be the more important preference set and make a slightly
higher level of impact on the person’s overall communication approach, although the other
results will also contribute. The CPSS calculates the results to take account of this. It also
reports where you may have three or four styles in combination.
Q: I have some results Moderate) across one or more styles. What does this mean?
A: Many people get one or more preference results at a Moderate level of intensity. If that was
your result, it simply means you will draw some of the key characteristics—positives and
negatives of these preference styles—into your overall communication approach. However, the
intensity will be less compared with someone who has a Very Strong or Strong Result. There is
a rarer group of people who have all moderate preferences, a potential strength is that they use
communication characteristics that connect with many styles. A specific challenge is that they
may not develop communication characteristics that stand out compared with someone who has
a higher intensity. preference in that style.
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2.3 Communication Preference Styles: Potential Strengths and Challenges
Style 2 Style 3
Structure & Details Expression & People
Style 1 Style 4
Rational & Facts Visual & Ideas
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Style 1 The Rational Communicator –
Purple Logical, Factual and Direct
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Style 2 The Structured Communicator –
Silver Gray Organized, Detailed and Careful
• Communication attention is on details, accuracy and structuring.
• Focuses on precise, detailed language in written and spoken communication.
• Translates ideas into implementable steps with a systematic sequence and flow,
leading to a comprehensive outcome.
• Meticulously builds and organizes messages, content, activities and materials in an
orderly and methodical way incorporating comprehensive layers of specific,
relevant, practical information.
• Uses multiple structures and processes, such as sequencing, categorization, and
other language or content structuring devices, agenda-setting, documentation,
minute-taking, follow-through and proofreading (hears, sees and reads small
Potential
communication “errors”).
Strengths
• Can involve others in discussion through structured involvement, planned and
prepared materials, and listening/participation processes.
• Listens with controlled discipline in turn, giving attention to others before
contributing, and making strong use of clarifying questions.
• Generally, has the second-highest level of interpersonal eye contact of any style.
• Sensitive to reading and using head nodding as agreement and structuring signals.
• Maintains organization, consistency and steadiness in communication approach
and body language.
• Appears effective in communication situations that need emphasis on detailed,
comprehensive and organized materials and processes.
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Style 3 The Expressive Communicator –
Green Interpersonal, Emotional and Sensitive
• Communication attention is on expression and interpersonal connection.
• Extensively uses descriptive adjectives and storytelling.
• Is likely to adapt message to others’ personal needs, emphasizing human and
emotive factors; organizes material by descriptive iteration.
• Is usually a good listener and question-asker, except when overly emotional or
under pressure.
• Is passionate and enthusiastic, creating and transmitting personal energy.
• Focuses on engagement communication to foster collaboration and teamwork.
• Influences and engages through personal connection, making messages personally
or emotionally relevant with content designed to touch or evoke “feelings.”
Potential
• Can use humor or personal anecdotes as well as drama and theater.
Strengths
• Generally, demonstrates the highest interpersonal eye contact of any style;
connects facial expression, eyes and fluid/expressive body language.
• Displays authenticity, interest and emotion by effectively reading and using
nonverbal (body) and paraverbal (voice signals) communication.
• Builds communication activities and materials on narrative and relationships with
an emphasis on passion, empathy and sensitivity.
• Spoken communication tends to be extensive and illustrative; written
communication tends to be shorter, with high levels of qualitative language.
• Appears effective in communication situations that need emphasis on people-
centered interactivity, emotionality and engagement.
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Style 4 The Visual Communicator –
Orange Imaginative, Conceptual and Animated
• In summary: may lack the communication capacity for sufficient details and
concreteness.
• May overuse visual messages, metaphors, conceptual and abstract language,
which others may find obscure, imprecise, ambiguous, impractical or obtuse.
• May miss conveying explicit facts and details (unless with Style 1 and/or 2).
• May be overly idea-focused, with insufficient attention to people/emotions (unless
with Style 3).
• May jump too quickly from one idea or big message to another, seeming
unstructured and potentially unrealistic.
• May be seen as “performing,” giving the impression of “telling” rather than
Potential
engaging.
Challenges
• Can be too forceful or domineering in pushing own views, interrupting too
frequently, and not using deep listening or question-asking, seeming inattentive,
distracted, insensitive, non-empathetic, or arrogant.
• May play devil’s advocate for the sake of it; e.g., framing statements as questions
from their own point of view.
• Generally, has issues with unfocused eye contact (second-lowest level among the
four styles).
• May disengage when communication moves away from visuality, ideas, creativity
or animated interaction and becomes factual, detailed or emotional.
• Main solution: Borrow some of the Style 2 potential strength techniques.
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In the current CPSS research data, some of the most frequently occurring illustrative words and
phrases for each style of communicator include:
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2.4 Preference Style Combinations
The overwhelming majority of people display characteristics in more than one of the four
Communication Preference Styles even though their highest intensity style tends to be significant
in influencing their overall communication approach.
The most recent CPSS research data shows that around 15% of people taking the survey show an
overwhelming orientation to one style only. However, in the majority (around 64%), people’s
Communication Preference Styles are a combination of two styles operating together—even
though these may not be of the same intensity level.
Importantly, where two styles work in combination, there are some other areas that should be
considered as potential strengths and challenges in addition to the characteristics of the four
single styles. These style combinations are:
Additional information on these combinations is summarized in tables on the next few pages.
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Combination Potential Strengths Potential Challenges
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Combination Potential Strengths Potential Challenges
The Debater
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Combination Potential Strengths Potential Challenges
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2.4.2 Three Styles in Combination
The most recent CPSS research data shows around 19% of people taking the survey have a three-
preference style combination. Where there are three styles in combination, the characteristics
(positive and negative) of the intensity level of each of these styles will be apparent. To interpret
your results, look closely at any single or combined two preferences here with Very Strong or
Strong results, and the information already provided on these for potential strengths and
challenges in those respective styles or combinations. In the three-way combination, the person
will include potential strengths from all three styles, with most emphasis on any Very Strong or
Strong results of the three. The most significant additional issues are:
• the additional effects (positive and negative) of the combination of the two highest results
of the three (see the double combinations discussion in the earlier section); and
• the style not in the combination. (This style result will be Low or Very Low). The absence
of the communication characteristics associated with this “missing” style is likely to be
obvious to other people, particularly those with a Very Strong or Strong preference for that
particular style. Furthermore, the style diagonally opposite the missing style is likely to
show more of its challenges or negative characteristics. as there is no counterbalance. For
example, a Style 1+2+3 has both 1 and 3, tending to balance between them. However,
there is no Style 4 as a counterbalance to their Style 2 result, with a consequently greater
chance of Style 2 challenges.
The final combination is someone who draws reasonably even intensity across all four
Communication Preference Styles. This all Moderate Communicator preference combination is
extremely rare. The most recent CPSS research data shows around 2% of people taking the survey
have this result. This person will draw some of the key characteristics—positive and negative of all
of these styles—into their overall communication approach at a Moderate level. However, the
intensity of any specific style will be less compared with someone
Appendix 2 provides more
who has a Very Strong or Strong result.
detailed information on the
four communication
For Moderate Communicators, a major potential strength is that preference styles and their:
they can use and adapt easily to communication characteristics that
connect with any of the styles in some way. On the other hand, a • Language, Content and
major challenge is that they may not develop characteristics that Approach;
“stand out” compared with someone who has a higher-intensity • Communication
preference in a specific style. If the circumstances for effective Processes; and
communication require a larger focus on one of the styles (e.g., • Presence: Nonverbal
rationality, logic and directness from Style 1), this person might not and Paraverbal
(including body
be able to demonstrate it as clearly as needed. That is, they may
language and voice)
appear “too balanced” or “even” when more intensity is required. characteristics.
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2.5 Communication Preference Annoyance Triggers
When we become irritated or annoyed in a communication situation, our response is often to become
even more like our underlying natural preferences (their strengths and weaknesses) or shift to our
stressor preferences, unless we consciously adjust and control for this. The table below shows the
potential irritation and annoyance triggers for the four single Communication Preference Styles.
There is a description of how other people’s possible communication approaches to you, and these
might trigger a reaction in yourself. How many of these likely triggers you may have will depend upon
whether you have other styles in combination with the examples.
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• Where there is too much information in writing, with an absence of visuals,
graphics or visual body language.
• Where others are unable to see metaphors or conceptual ideas or where they
are less active or seem passive.
• Where communication activities and content are unsurprising, expected and
tedious.
• Where another communicator uses too many details, data or information, or is
Style 4
taking too long to move on to another subject.
• Where there are rigid communication processes or structural constraints.
• Where there is limited use of visually descriptive language, symbols, or
interesting images and sound.
• Where communicators are seen to be overly prescriptive, detailed or
emotional.
As noted previously, the CPSS results report also demonstrates your likely communication
preferences under pressure or nerve situations. The results for these stressor preferences are found
in the Summary Data table on the lower right side of the results sheet. You can compare your
general results and your results under pressure or nerves and see whether they are similar or
different.
A change of 6% points or more in any of the four communication styles (between your general
and pressure results) indicates some likely change in communication behaviors under pressure or
in stressful situations. The larger the percentage score change, the more significant this is likely to
be. Generally, there are three types of stressor results:
1. Stay in Preference: This is where a person remains in their preference style(s) under
pressure or nerve situations that are similar to their general preference results.
2. Preference Extension: This is where a person extends one or more preferences to a much
greater extent under pressure or nerves compared with their results in general situations.
3. Preference Shift: This is where a person shifts preferences significantly to a different
major preference or different preference combination compared with their general
preferences. It can also include people who dramatically reduce their result for a high
general preference style result as well.
Whether you stay in preference or have a preference extension or shift, reflect upon your results.
In thinking about your stressor preference results, the most important insights to consider are
these:
• You will bring out some of the potential strengths of the Communication Preference Styles
in pressure or nerve situations. Yet it is very likely that more of the significant challenges or
issues of that communication preference style will emerge. For many people, this happens
in a way that is not fully conscious and can often indicate “blind spots” in a person’s
communication behaviors. This matter is especially important for people who shift or
substantially extend a preference intensity.
• It is completely usual for stressor preferences to exist. The CPSS research data shows that
around 40% of people actually shift or extend their preferences under pressure or nerves.
However, you should think about the potential weaknesses or issues that might be
emerging for you when you communicate under pressure or nerves, as they may lead to
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communication practices (positive and negative) that differ significantly from your general
state—giving rise to perceptions of inconsistency, unpredictability and adverse impression.
• If your tendency is to “stay in preference,” pay particular attention to a potential increase in
the challenges of your general preference style or combination under stressor situations.
In addition to the communication preference style results, the CPSS Report includes information
on the important and fundamental personality characteristic of being an Extrovert, Introvert or
Ambivert.
Extroverts, Introverts and Ambiverts are found in all four Communication Preference Styles and
in all cultures. The CPSS measures this personality characteristic with respect to its influence on a
person’s communication approach.
• A gross score out of 50 points for both Extroversion and Introversion, together with a
description of its intensity (from Very Strong to Very Low) and a net score:
o With a Very Strong or Strong intensity, you will likely demonstrate Extrovert or
Introvert communication behaviors very frequently.
o With a Moderate/Strong or Moderate/Low result, you may exhibit some of the
characteristics of Extrovert or Introvert communication behaviors frequently.
o With a Low or Very Low result, you will be unlikely to display many of the relevant
characteristics in your communication behaviors.
o The survey may show your net result as Ambivert. This means your
Extrovert/Introvert scores are approximately equal and are Moderate in both.
Extrovert or
Introvert
• The “net score” allows you to reflect upon the relative balance Result Score
(out of 50) Intensity
of Extroversion and Introversion, or whether you are more
Ambivert. 40 to 50 Very Strong
35 to 39 Strong
o If the final net score demonstrates a clear Extrovert or 29 to 34 Moderate/Strong
21 to 28 Moderate
Introvert preference, the relevant communication 16 to 20 Moderate/Low
behaviors should be frequent. If it is very low (i.e., 10 to 15 Low
0 to 9 Very Low
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under +9 points), you may move between Extrovert and Introvert behaviors and
use a combination of both to some extent and at different times. If you are
relatively evenly balanced between both Extrovert and Introvert, your results will
describe you as an Ambivert.
• A diamond graphic combining your Communication Preference Styles scores together with
an outward, convex curve (Extrovert) or inward, concave curve (Introvert) is also displayed
for reference. An Ambivert would not see a curve in their diamond results, but rather see a
near straight line.
Extroverts derive much of their psychological “energy” from outside themselves in the external
environment through engagement with others, while Introverts derive much of their energy from
their internal environment inside themselves, or from solitude or quietness. Ambiverts can
encompass and combine attributes of both Extrovert and Introvert personality characteristics,
depending on their needs at the time or situation.
Think of this personality energy as a “battery.” Extroverts recharge their communication batteries
through activities like multi-person, interactive communication and gregarious engagement. They
need to do this to have sufficient energy to enter into passive and energy-draining communication
such as deeper, focused listening situations. Introverts recharge their batteries through activities
like quiet communication with self and a few. They need to do this to enter into more
performance-oriented and expressive multi-person situations that can drain energy. So, through
their communication practices, Extroverts and Introverts need to undertake “battery management”
to have the personality energy to undertake their opposite communication behaviors.
3 This table is collated and adapted from multiple sources in the well-known academic literature on personality traits.
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Common Extrovert Common Introvert Common Ambivert
Communication Features Communication Features Communication Features
• Deep and engaged listening in • Energy and activity in public or • Perceptions of inconsistency.
interpersonal communication performance communication. • Losing energy or focus after
over time. • Perceptions of being too passive staying for a period of time in
• Perceptions of over-dominating or quiet, not contributing enough. either their Extrovert or Introvert
group conversation or being too • Perceptions of being difficult to side.
forceful and interventionist. read or hard to know. • May be viewed as unpredictable
• Perceptions of over-talking, • Perceptions of not speaking up or by Very Strong Extroverts or
including frequent interruptions out, of being too rigid or Introverts.
of others. seemingly disinterested. • May feel uncertain as to their
• Perceptions of being • Perceptions of disinterest and personality not understanding the
inconsistent or too interested in disconnection as body language shifts between each side.
their own views. of concentration may be misread.
• Perceptions of “not seeming to • Over-using written
listen” and being distracted. communication formats.
• Over-using talk and face-to-
face communication formats.
The major advantage of being an Ambivert is the ease with which these people can move between
Extrovert and Introvert communication behaviors. In other words, they can have a breadth of
repertoire and can usually enact some Extroversion and Introversion behaviors in the situations
where these are needed and often seem “middle of the road.” When making a switch, Ambiverts
can usually enter their Extrovert or Introvert behaviors without suffering immediate battery drain.
However, there are two disadvantages: if the Ambivert stays in communication behaviors for too
long on one of their Extrovert or Introvert sides, then they tend to lose energy on the other side,
lose focus and suddenly seem out of balance. The second issue is perceptions of inconsistency, as
to others they sometimes seem Introvert or sometimes seem Extrovert. So, there are two
important issues to manage for the Ambivert: energy generation and others’ perceptions.
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The Need for Proactive Battery Management for Ambiverts
If your survey results indicated that you are an Ambivert, take advantage of targeting and
extending your Extrovert or Introvert behaviors to the needs of the communication situation:
proactively plan for this and manage your timings and program of activities. This is because, as an
Ambivert, once you have entered either an Extrovert or Introvert activity, there is potential for
suddenly losing focus, concentration or energy after a while, especially after too long on one side
of your communication behavior. You may also suddenly feel “out of balance.” This is because
your other Extrovert or Introvert “side” needs attention. Manage both sides proactively for
balance and focus throughout the day by designing activities that shift in rotation between both
sides.
Here are some common examples of miscommunications between Extroverts and Introverts
giving rise to unnecessary and counterproductive frustrations:
• An Extrovert may think an Introvert is not
contributing and active when in fact they are actively Extroverts talk to think. Talk is
listening and focusing before contributing (or being their starting point. Introverts
think before they talk. For them,
invited to do so). speech marks completion.
• An Introvert may think an Extrovert is over-
contributing and dominating when in fact they are As a result, Extroverts may
trying to engage energy, verbalize their thoughts and misunderstand Introverts and
needing others to be active (without invitation). view them incorrectly as less
• An Extrovert may think an Introvert is rigid and not engaged, flexible and active.
For better communication, they
open because they may make a major statement and need to open space for Introverts
stick to it, when in fact they have thought carefully and invite their contributions.
about what they would say, and their comments are
largely settled. Similarly, Introverts may
• An Introvert may think an Extrovert is continuously misunderstand Extroverts and
changing their mind because they keep presenting ideas see them incorrectly as overly
or thoughts, when they are in fact talking out their talkative, dominating, unclear
and prone to changing their
thinking—their views may not be settled yet. minds too quickly. For better
• It is a misconception that Introverts cannot be actively communication, Introverts need
social or effective public performers. When they wish to claim space from Extroverts.
to be, they can (e.g., Bill Gates, Sir Laurence Olivier,
Warren Buffett, Emma Watson, Mahatma Gandhi and
Audrey Hepburn). However, they will likely need solo time for energy generation and
battery management to prepare beforehand and recover afterward.
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• It is a misconception that Extroverts cannot be passive reflectors, deep listeners or
observant participants. When they wish to be, they can (e.g., Bill Clinton, Margaret
Thatcher, Winston Churchill, Muhammad Ali, Martin Luther King and Oprah Winfrey).
However, they will likely need active time for their energy generation to prepare
beforehand and to recover afterward.
Some potential positive and negative implications of being a Very Strong/Strong Extrovert or
Introvert combined with Very Strong/Strong Communication Preference Style are:
Very Strong
Extrovert Introvert
to Strong
• Emphasizes knowledge clarity in
• Emphasizes knowledge authority in language with insertion of crucially
language, directness in tone, and important questions/observations to get
energy focus to complete the task. to the point or highlight a key
Style 1 • overlooked fact.
• High perceptions of assertiveness and •
forcefulness; low levels of • High perceptions of passiveness and
interpersonal listening. aloofness with low levels of active
participation.
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Part 3: Using Your Survey Results to Improve How
You Communicate
Awareness is the grounding point for effective communication and communication intelligence.
Having taken the Communication Preferences Styles Survey (CPSS) and thought about your
results (your Communication Preference Styles, style combinations and
Extrovert/Introvert/Ambivert characteristics), you are likely now more aware of your own needs,
preferences and approaches to communication—and more aware of other people’s, too.
You now have the opportunity to turn this knowledge into a deep and insightful level of
communication awareness. You can make decisions for communication development and change
priorities, then practice these to achieve performance improvements and effectiveness as a
communicator in whatever formats you use. Focus on making a few very important changes in
your communication approach at first. Do not try to change everything. It will not work, nor will it
seem authentic.
There are eight recommended steps for helping you decide on the most important communication
changes for yourself:
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6. Consider your personality (Extrovert, Introvert or Ambivert). What are the implications for
your “battery management”, “talk/think process” and communication approach?
7. Consider further insights about your cultural background and its potential influence on
your communication approach in interacting with others.
8. Get feedback from people who know you to assist your reflection and decision-making on
communication change and development priorities. Decide what key and significant actions
you will take to build strengths further or overcome your challenges. Put these into practice
and get further feedback from others. Record these commitments for change in a
communication skills development agenda or plan.
9. Develop the habit of continuous observation—looking for the communication approach
(cultural background, Communication Preference Styles and personality) in other people
and in different communication situations.
3.2 Quick Tips for Building Communication Styles and Overcoming Challenges
There are some very simple practices, habits and actions you can use to build a more specific
communication preference style and overcome some of its challenges if needed.
Style 1: • Add key facts that get directly to • Increase interpersonal eye contact.
Rational the point. • Add descriptive and emotive
(Logical, • Organize arguments logically. adjectives and language.
Factual and • Create a short summary of the • Use more open, expressive body
Direct) key facts or bullet points. language.
• Add layers of detail to key
Style 2: • Have an overarching or overview
messages.
Structured summary message.
• Plan outlines for communication
(Organized, • Add visuals and pictures.
materials and proofread.
Detailed and • Summarize long content in a series
• Structure agendas and discussion
Careful) of short bullet points.
processes.
• Add eye contact, body language
Style 3: and voice modulation to active • Add structure and prepare an
listening. outline for communication
Expressive
• Use descriptive adjectives, materials or speeches.
(Interpersonal,
including words of emotion or • Use a few key, quantifiable facts
Emotional and
feeling. that get straight to the main point.
Sensitive) • Include people-based story • Add visuals and pictures.
examples.
• Break ideas into steps and
organize materials by building a
logical argument.
• Add visuals and pictures.
Style 4: • Use more direct eye contact and
Visual • Use future-oriented messages
conversational voice tone and ask
and the language of imagination.
(Imaginative, more open questions.
• Use messages that answer “why”
Conceptual and • Use some key, quantifiable facts
something is relevant and
Animated) that are explicit to the point of the
important, not just what it is.
idea or concept; or specific,
concrete and practical examples of
the “big picture.”
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Appendix 1: Communication Intelligence Model—An
Overview
Communication Intelligence is one model for effective communication that fully integrates eight
elements: four mindsets (the things we need to think about for effective communication); and four
clusters of communication techniques and qualities (the ways we need to undertake
communication activity to be effective). These four clusters are very closely related to the four
major Communication Preference Styles seen in people and discussed extensively throughout the
Reference Guidebook. Sometimes, communication intelligence is referred to as your CI.
Communication intelligence applies across the different kinds of communication situations,
ranging from public to group and interpersonal and intrapersonal (with self). People with high
levels of communication intelligence use all the mindsets and techniques from all four clusters: not
only those that are natural from their preference styles, but those they have learned from the other
clusters.
Structural Expressive
Awareness
Message
Presence
Format
Rational Visual
Mindsets are the things we need to think about for effective communication, being:
• Awareness: of self, others, context and purpose. This is the ability to be deeply aware of the
communication requirements and preference styles of all those involved, as well as the
situation and intent of the communication activity (e.g., informing, inquiring, influencing,
persuading, entertaining, motivating, inspiring, listening, collaborating). The awareness
mindset also encompasses understanding your own communication skills development needs
and reading the styles of others, as well as considering the cross-cultural, gender and
generational issues.
• Message: the core meaning and content of the communication, supported by structure and
appropriate details, as well as messages that are relevant, clear, compelling and
comprehensible.
• Presence: beyond the words—the nonverbal (e.g., body language and gestures), paraverbal
(e.g., sound/tone of voice) and visual, symbolic or expressive features of the communication.
• Format: the choice and effective use of different communication formats, media and
repertoire that are “fit for the purpose and situation” (e.g., behaviors, spoken, written,
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listening, thinking/reflection, novels, text, email, instant messaging, video, technology and the
like). It also includes understanding when some formats will not be effective, as well as how to
use different formats successfully.
• Rational: techniques and qualities that affect the logic, factuality, knowledge level, intellectual
substance and language comprehension in communication.
• Structural: techniques and qualities that affect the clarity, order/flow, construction, precision
and levels of detail and accuracy in communication.
• Expressive: techniques and qualities that affect the expression, emotion, interactivity,
personalization and authenticity of communication.
• Visual: techniques and qualities that affect the appearance, visuality, conceptuality, creativity
and symbolism of communication.
There are literally thousands of communication tools and techniques spread across these four clusters
and used in the various formats of communication that exist. Some features of specific
communication techniques in each cluster are in the diagram below.
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Appendix 2: Further Information on the
Communication Preference Styles
Language and Content; Communication Processes; Presence: Nonverbal/Paraverbal
This appendix contains detailed information relating to the four Communication Preference Styles,
with a focus on: (A) Language and Content; (B) Communication Processes; and (C) Presence:
Nonverbal and Paraverbal (including body language and voice).
Usually, some of these characteristics are obvious in people with a Very Strong or Strong preference
style intensity, though people will not usually have every characteristic described. In situations of
communication pressure, stress and nerves, many of the presence, body language and voice
characteristics described will change substantially in response to the effects of adrenaline on the
brain and body (“fight, freeze, flight”).
One important note: the characteristics described are relative to cultural norms—that is, within a
specific culture, the characteristics show themselves relative to others from the same cultural
background. Major differences in cultural background between two people might overshadow these
characteristics. In that case, someone with the same preference style might see a person from
another culture differently. For example, the level of intensity in body language, facial expression
and voice volume differs dramatically across the many cultures of the world. Cultural differences can
obscure the similarity of styles.
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Style 1 Style 2 Style 3 Style 4
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(B) Communication Processes
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Style 1 Style 2 Style 3 Style 4
• One person speaking • One person • More than one • More than one
at a time is preferred speaking at a time person speaking person speaking
for oral is preferred for oral at a time is at a time is
communication. communication. comfortable in comfortable in
oral oral
communication, communication
provided another provided the
person is not person can be
dominating. active themselves
when they want to
be.
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(C) Presence: Nonverbal and Paraverbal
(Including Body Language and Voice)
• Body stance and • Body stance and • Body stance and • Body stance and
posture: tight, rigid posture: leaning in posture: relaxed posture: tight body
and task-focused. toward others; quiet and with fluid with strong
but intense. movement, but movement in feet
may become very or hands/arms.
animated (or • Portrays a sense of
alternatively, activity, animation
frozen) under or visuality.
stress.
• Face: displays • Face: displays open • Face: displays • Face: face displays
intensity of interest in interest in detailed intensity of intensity of
intellectual content content of emotions and conviction of idea
and seriousness of discussion. interest, under discussion.
discussion. • Frequent use of including
head nodding for frequent smiling
agreement/ or obvious
disagreement emotional
without vocal expression.
interruption.
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Style 1 Style 2 Style 3 Style 4
• Hands: very limited • Hands: limited • Hands: often • Hands: often large
visual hand or visual hand large and or forceful hand
directive gestures; gestures; often very dramatic hand gestures; mainly
often closed arm and small gesturing. gestures; mainly open body
inward body language. Moderate use of open body language except
Strong use of monitoring or language except under stress, when
monitoring or evaluating gestures under stress, voice increases
evaluating gestures by by placing hands on when closure or together with
placing hands on face. face. freezing is forcefulness of
apparent. gestures.
Limited use of Moderate to strong
monitoring or use of monitoring
evaluating or evaluating
gestures by gestures by
placing hands on placing hands on
face. face.
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About the Author
Professor Ian C. Woodward
Dr. Ian C. Woodward specializes in leadership and communication. He is a Professor of Management
Practice at INSEAD. He lectures in a range of INSEAD programs and is Director of its
flagship Advanced Management Programme as well as the Leadership Communication with Impact
course. He was Co-Program Director for the INSEAD Master of Finance degree. He also lectures
and consults in leadership and management practice for high performance, as well as leadership and
strategic development in organizations as diverse as financial and professional
services, utilities, energy and the public sector. He has been guest faculty at
leading international business schools, including Associate Faculty Director for
Columbia Business School’s Senior Executive Program.
He was Chairman and broadcaster on Sydney’s classical music radio station and co-produced a special
series of Deutsche Grammophon recordings dedicated to the legacy of conductor Arthur Fiedler. He
also combines leadership development with the arts through innovative learning experiences using
orchestras and musicians. His recent published research includes articles in the Journal of International
Management, Australian Communication Journal, and Communication Research and Practice. He also has many
articles online at INSEAD Knowledge and a TEDx talk on the “Altitudes of Leadership.”
Ian is an alumnus of the University of New South Wales, the Australian Graduate School of
Management, University of New England, Macquarie Graduate School of Management, and
Columbia Business School.
© All materials in this Reference Guidebook are strictly copyrighted and may not be copied or
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