Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 35

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 35

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-14-7

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: [email protected]

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Discipline prevents differences. 2) Discipline increases productivity. 3) Discipline prevents disorganization. 4) Discipline in work prevents defaults in products. 5) A reciprocal mature love produces effects on us that only it can produce. 6) Industriousness forms and develops positive attitudes. 7) The more a man has more qualities the more chances he has to achieve efficient co operations. 8) Expostulations only have negative effects and no positive ones. 9) Friendly words can make a lot of good at a right time. 10) Those who cant control their unconsidered words manage to maintain
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true friendships. 11) The wiser we are the more chances we have of meeting more favorable situations. 12) Those who do acts of kindness have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 13) An honest woman more quickly achieves a happy marriage. 14) It is necessary to have as a personal objective the maintaining of team spirit every day, continuously, for as long as we live. 15) Team spirit helps us become more cooperative. 16) Team spirit helps us become more effective. 17) Hesitating behavior is harmful for the achievement of efficient co operations. 18) Hesitating behavior reduces our chances to meet more favorable situations.
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19) The ability of stimulating creativity in others helps us a lot to achieve our personal goals. 20) The ability of adopting visions helps us a lot to maintain efficient co operations. 21) Team spirit increases our confidence in ourselves. 22) The ability to anticipate peoples needs helps us a lot to have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 23) The capacity of anticipating peoples needs helps us achieve more efficient co operations. 24) The ability to anticipate peoples needs helps us have a better life with them. 25) The quality of learning how to learn contributes a lot in maintaining some efficient co operations. 26) The quality of learning how to learn helps us become more operative.
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27) The ability of sensing situations increases our capacity to achieve more and greater successes. 28) The ability of sensing situations helps us avoid arguments. 29) The ability of sensing situations helps us a lot to find the right partner. 30) Orientation towards a future world helps us choose our personal realistic objectives that we can achieve. 31) Orientation towards a future world increases our ability of achieving efficient co operations. 32) Developing our capacity of listening helps us develop our chances to achieve more and greater successes. 33) Developing our ability to loosen helps us develop our objectives. 34) A strategic vision increases our chances to achieve a more beautiful future. 35) A strategic vision increases our
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chances to achieve a more safe future. 36) A strategic vision increases our chances of achieving efficient codevelopments. 37) The strategic vision helps us prevent many traps. 38) A strategic vision helps us maintain a happy marriage. 39) Combining knowledge favorably increases our chances to meet more favorable situations. 40) Increasing the power of our minds creates more possibilities to achieve more true friendships. 41) The ability of optimal adaptation very much increases our possibility to achieve more true friendships. 42) No tolerance for personal imperfections increases our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 43) The ability of taking the rapid
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decisions increases our efficiency a lot. 44) Orientation towards a goal helps us a lot to increase our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 45) The ability of rapid perception helps us a lot to increase our chances to achieve a more beautiful life. 46) Flexibility increases our chances to achieve more outstanding performances. 47) Openness towards the world increases our ability to achieve effective actions. 48) New efficient ways of thinking increase our chances to achieve a more beautiful life. 49) Optimism helps us a lot and increases our chances to achieve a happy marriage. 50) Those who love what they do very much will achieve a beautiful life. 51) Those who truly love people have
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more chances of achieving their personal objectives. 52) By doing the right thing we will succeed in achieving our necessary efficient co-developments. 53) Global co operations contribute to creating a large number of places to work. 54) Past and present experiences contribute a lot in increasing the efficiency of our actions. 55) Humanist global thinking will create the necessary conditions for the satisfactions of the needs of a continuously greater number of people. 56) Humanist global cooperation contributes a lot in reducing the number of armed and unarmed conflicts. 57) Global positive human solidarity helps us a lot to achieve more humanist global programs and projects. 58) Enthusiastic behavior increases our
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chances to achieve more and greater successes. 59) Trust in ourselves makes others have more trust in us. 60) Consciousness helps us become more efficient. 61) A positive life conception helps us and increases our chances of achieving a happy marriage. 62) People with high ideals have much greater chances of achieving efficient co operations. 63) Very sociable and open persons have more chances of meeting favorable situations in life. 64) Consciousness is a quality of the industrious man. 65) Industriousness helps us be happy. 66) Our value system helps us and contributes a lot to becoming more performing.
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67) Receptive persons have more chances to make more favorable situations. 68) People who are confident in others more quickly achieve social relations. 69) People who are resistant to stress have the chances and possibilities of becoming more credible. 70) People who are calm in any situation have more chances of achieving mature love. 71) People with an innovating spirit more easily achieve efficient co operations. 72) An emotionally stable man has more chances of achieving a happy life. 73) A cooperative man in activities is more available to the exchange of information. 74) Prejudices sometimes come before the reality of a positive action.
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75) Prejudices can be prevented through correct and complete information. 76) An understanding man has more chances of meeting favorable situations. 77) Continuous self perfection increases our chances to meet more favorable situations. 78) Reasonable men have more possibilities of maintaining a happy marriage. 79) Concentrating our energies helps us and contributes a lot to achieving a happy life. 80) Energetic men have more chances of achieving more and greater successes. 81) An open man has the chances to achieve a happy life. 82) An imaginative man has more chances of achieving personal objectives. 83) Accomplishing exchanges of information helps us prevent many
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failures. 84) Achieving exchanges of information helps us a lot in global humanization. 85) Corrupt politicians negatively affect our society a lot. 86) A man capable of self control in stressing situations has the power and more chances to meet more favorable situations. 87) A man who is ready at any time to help someone has more chances to achieve a true love. 88) A reliable man has the potential to help himself achieve a happy life. 89) A man willing to try new ways has great chances of achieving more and greater successes. 90) A common man that approaches problems simultaneously from different points of view has more chances and possibilities of becoming even more
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efficient. 91) A man who is satisfied by his own way of socially behaving achieves more exchanges of information. 92) A man who is open towards new ideas has more chances than a greater potential to achieve more outstanding performances. 93) A man who acts continuously, day by day, to become more effective has more chances and a higher potential to find the right partner for life. 94) A realistic man in interpersonal relations has more and greater chances and a higher potential to find the right partner for life. 95) A man oriented towards the outside world has more chances and a higher potential to achieve true friendships. 96) A man who is full of life has high chances and a great potential to achieve
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more and greater successes. 97) A man who acts continuously, day by day to become more organized has more and greater chances to achieve more efficient co operations. 98) A man who is oriented towards a very distant future has more and greater chances of achieving more efficient co operations. 99) A man who deals with the uncertainties that are in a distant future has more and greater chances to achieve more and greater successes. 100) An effective man has more in greater chances to achieve his financial independence. 101) A man who has the ability to mobilize people has great chances of having a life full of successes. 102) A man who has a diversity of interests usually works hard.
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103) A man who acts continuously, day by day to become more economic will mostly succeed in achieving lasting successes. 104) An optimistic man through his optimism motivates people. 105) A conscious man is also an ambitious man. 106) A sociable man many times has the power to mobilize people in a positive way. 107) A realistic man in everything he does can achieve his financial independence. 108) A man sure of himself has great chances of achieving efficient codevelopments. 109) A man who has practical values has more and greater chances of achieving more and greater successes. 110) A man who knows how to protect
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himself has thrust in himself. 111) A pessimistic man usually is less talkative. 112) Those who continuously expand their horizons have more and greater chances of achieving outstanding performances. 113) The richness of our life experience helps us and increases our chances of achieving a happy marriage. 114) The ability of reacting with understanding helps us a lot to achieve efficient co-developments. 115) Those who are independent have the possibility to harmoniously develop their personality. 116) Those who have common sense are most of the times marked by those who have no sense at all. 117) Although it is abnormal for 2007 there are still many situations in which
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those who have common sense are marked by those who do not have common sense. 118) States need to take the necessary measures so that people with common sense are not marked by those who do not have common sense. 119) The states in which those who have common sense are marked by those who do not have common sense are to blame and have the right and obligation to prevent such an abnormality. 120) The states in which only poverty exists are to blame for the existence of poverty. 121) There is incredibly much property in many states of the world. This is due to the inefficiency and the responsibility of state administration. 122) Those who know and have the power to change their inefficient behaviors have great chances of achieving a happy
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life. 123) Sometimes some ideas prevent many misfortunes. 124) The efficient management of our time helps us a lot to achieve ourselves in life. 125) People who have the ability to take risks have great chances to achieve efficient co operations. 126) People who face contradictions have more chances of preventing many failures. 127) People who have the ability of finalizing ideas in most situations succeed in life. 128) People who have spiritual values make many changes of information. 129) People who have the ability of supporting ideas have a great capacity of negotiation. 130) The desire to succeed in life must be
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promoted, supported and rewarded. 131) Those who passionately live their life have great chances of achieving a very beautiful life. 132) Responsibility must always be promoted, supported, appreciated, respected and rewarded. 133) A quiet and reserved man has great chances to succeed. 134) Tact must always be promoted, supported, appreciated, respected and rewarded. 135) An honest man has great chances of effectively managing his time. 136) An intelligent man is also a reliable man. 137) A man with a broad horizon has many chances to achieve efficient co operations. 138) A responsible man is also a reliable man.
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139) A competent man more easily and faster achieves, in his area of activity, his personal goals. 140) Fatigue is many times a cause of many mistakes. 141) A man with imagination is an engine of progress in the areas of activity in which he has imagination. 142) A man with courage achieves efficient co-developments also. 143) A giving man is loved and appreciated by people. 144) A kind man more easily achieves true friendships. 145) A man with self control harmoniously develops his personality. 146) Understanding is many times the key of many successes. 147) People with tact have a great potential to achieve many positive deeds. 148) By understanding people we have
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more and greater chances to find the right partner for life. 149) People who have good humor have chances to more easily and quickly achieve their personal goals. 150) Polite people are also serious people. 151) People who are in love usually have a good mood. 152) People who are communicative make many exchanges of information. 153) Industrious people more easily achieve efficient co operations. 154) People who help others manage in making true friendships easier and faster. 155) The richness of the soul contributes a lot to maintaining true love. 156) Spiritual richness contributes a lot in achieving a happy marriage. 157) The richness of the soul is an engine of many charities.
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158) The richness of the soul helps us a lot to become kinder. 159) The richness of the soul prevents much meanness. 160) The richness of the soul cannot be replaced by any other richness. 161) The richness of the soul prevents many arguments. 162) A disciplined man has a greater potential to achieve a happy life. 163) Those who wonder without a purpose in life are not efficient. 164) Those who establish as an objective to be honest and continuously act with commitment to achieve this objective will be honest. 165) Peoples ambition of acting efficiently helps them and contributes to continuously increasing their efficiency. 166) Mans needs of achievement leads to many efficient co operations.
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167) Mens need for safety makes many people maintain their happy marriage. 168) A complete compatibility of training with the objectives assures success in life. 169) An excellent physical health helps us increase our chances of preventing many failures. 170) A balanced marriage helps us a lot to achieve efficient co operations. 171) A non hostile but aggressive behavior increases our chances and all our potential of achieving more and greater successes. 172) Working in teams of people with similar values is beneficial for our health. 173) Working in teams of people with similar values contributes to global humanization. 174) Advanced education contributes a lot to self achievement.
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175) Advanced education contributes a lot in achieving efficient co-developments. 176) Self imposed discipline contributes a lot in achieving some very efficient global co operations. 177) Self imposed discipline helps us and contributes a lot to achieve a happy life. 178) A great desire to succeed helps and contributes a lot to success in life. 179) A great desire to succeed contributes a lot in achieving an efficient co operation. 180) A great desire to succeed contributes in achieving a happy life. 181) Those who have preferences for positive uncontrolled victories contribute a lot in achieving the future. 182) The preference for uncontrolled positive activism must be appreciated, promoted, supported and rewarded. 183) Those who are preoccupied with
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creating an optimal cooperation in a team have a high potential and great chances of achieving efficient co operations. 184) Those who are preoccupied with creating on optimal cooperation in a team have the qualities and a much greater potential and chances to achieve efficient co-developments. 185) Those who are emotionally balanced have a great potential and chance to succeed. 186) A broader area of interests increases the potential and chances of achieving more true friendships. 187) Efficient human communication is the key of many successes. 188) Efficient human communication contributes a lot in achieving more and greater successes. 189) The sense of responsibility contributes a lot in achieving our
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happiness. 190) The sense of responsibility contributes a lot in increasing the efficiency of people who have the sense of reality. 191) The sense of responsibility contributes a lot in maintaining true friendships. 192) The sense of responsibility contributes a lot in achieving personal goals. 193) The sense of responsibility increases our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 194) The sense of responsibility contributes a lot in achieving more and greater successes. 195) The sense of responsibility must be appreciated, promoted, supported and rewarded. 196) The sense of responsibility
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contributes a lot in achieving more efficient co operations. 197) The sense of organization is a very powerful engine of progress in all areas of activity. 198) The sense of organization helps us and contributes to becoming more efficient. 199) The mentality of a winner is a very powerful engine of progress in all areas of activity. 200) The lack of neurotic symptoms contributes a lot in achieving a more beautiful life. 201) The lack of neurotic symptoms helps us achieve a true mature love. 202) Those who build their life on rational conscious bases have great possibilities of success. 203) Those who build their life on rationally conscious bases have great
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chances to achieve a true mature love. 204) Those who have the sense of efficiency also have a lot of responsibility. 205) Those who have the sense of efficiency have a higher potential to succeed in life. 206) Those who have the sense of efficiency have a higher potential to achieve a happy marriage. 207) Those who have the ability to dissociate emotions from their responsibilities are objective people. 208) Those who have the ability to dissociate emotions from their responsibilities have the chances and the potential to maintain a mature love. 209) The ability to dissociate emotions from responsibilities must be appreciated, promoted, supported and rewarded. 210) Those who cherish their collaborators have a higher potential to
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succeed in life. 211) Those who value their collaborators have a greater potential to achieve a mature love. 212) Those who cherish their collaborators must be appreciated, promoted and supported. 213) Those who voluntarily assume certain risks when they have the increased chance of obtaining their objective are engines of progress in all areas of activity. 214) Those who voluntarily assume certain risks only when they have the increased chance of reaching their objective become more effective. 215) Those who have the ability of facing mental stress have more chances and a higher potential to achieve their desired future. 216) Those who have the ability to face mental stress have greater chances and a
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higher potential to achieve more and greater successes. 217) Ambiguous situations create many difficulties in achieving personal goals. 218) Some ambiguous situations create many difficulties in achieving more and greater successes. 219) Sometimes even ambiguous situations increase our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 220) Sometimes even ambiguous situations create the possibility of achieving more and greater successes. 221) Correct relations with coworkers contribute lot in achieving more and greater successes. 222) Correct relations with coworkers help us become more efficient. 223) Correct relations with coworkers help us achieve more harmonious social relations.
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224) A low tolerance for personal imperfections must be appreciated, promoted, supported and rewarded. 225) Low tolerance for personal imperfections contributes a lot in achieving success in life. 226) Sometimes luck only appears because of a great exchange of information. 227) Sometimes luck appears only because of perseverance. 228) Sometimes luck only appears because of efficient co operations. 229) Sometimes luck appears only because of true friendships. 230) Honesty brings us luck. 231) Wisdom many times brings us luck. 232) Sometimes only common sense brings us luck. 233) Although it is easier to have common sense unfortunately, there are
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still a lot of people who have no common sense. 234) Credibility many times brings us luck. 235) Wisdom contributes the most to succeed in life. 236) Wisdom contributes the most to achieve outstanding performances. 237) Efficient co-developments sometimes help us be lucky. 238) If there were much more happy marriages in the world there would be less unhappy children. 239) Unfortunately, parents never give the necessary attention and time to their children. 240) Each parent needs and must give the necessary attention and time to his children. 241) True friendships many times bring luck.
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242) We must capitalize favorable situations whenever we meet them. 243) Mature love many times brings us luck. 244) A creative man has many chances and high possibilities of having luck. 245) A creative man has a greater potential to become more efficient. 246) The greater good is desired by almost all people, but unfortunately, few of them do something concrete to achieve the greater good. 247) AGC mediations help us become more respected. 248) AGC mediations help us become more organized. 249) AGC mediations help us become more optimistic. 250) AGC mediations help us become more active. 251) AGC mediations help us become
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better. 252) AGC mediations help us become more correct. 253) AGC mediations help us become more humanist. 254) AGC mediations help us become more popular. 255) AGC mediations help us become more famous. 256) AGC mediations help us become more selfless. 257) AGC mediations help us get out of the state of despondency. 258) AGC mediations help us get out of the state of pessimism. 259) AGC mediations help us get out of the state of despair. 260) AGC mediations help us get out of the state of passivity. 261) AGC mediations help us get out of the state of inactivity.
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262) AGC mediations help us are just meditate more and more carefully the problems we have to solve. 263) AGC mediations help us change our lives for the better. 264) AGC mediations help us make ourselves a more beautiful life. 265) AGC mediations help us increase our chances to find the right partner for life.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: [email protected] www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-14-7

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