Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 31

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 31

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-10-9

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: [email protected]

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Kindness makes us be more humane. 2) By reading and applying some meditations written by me, these help us educate and raise our children better. 3) By reading and applying some meditations written by me, we take more care of our children, of those that we love and of others. 4) Those who have wise friends can learn many positive efficient behaviors. 5) Those who have co operations with wise men can learn a lot from their efficient positive behaviors. 6) Those who have co operations with wise people have more chances that their co operations are successful. 7) The desire to succeed of those who
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participate together for an efficient codevelopment helps a lot in achieving that efficient co-development. 8) The desire to succeed helps a lot in achieving more successes. 9) A lot of institutional arrangements are only in favor of institutions and not in favor of the people. 10) Knowledge increases our chances of developing our talents. 11) The development of technology increases our chances to develop ourselves strongly. 12) It is always necessary to adapt to efficient positive changes in society. 13) Those who adapt to efficient positive changes in society will be successful. 14) Those who adapt to efficient positive changes in society will achieve their personal goals and projects.
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15) Those who adapt to efficient positive changes in society will have much more chances to meet more favorable situations. 16) In any situation we must be ourselves. 17) When we are ourselves we can obtain the greatest of successes. 18) Only when we are ourselves we can truly be happy. 19) When we are ourselves we can find much more chances to meet more favorable situations. 20) When we are ourselves we can achieve personal goals. 21) When we are ourselves we can achieve a lot more successes. 22) When we are ourselves we can achieve happy marriages. 23) Each of us must make a vision of our own future.
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24) New ideas must not only be new but also positive and better. 25) It is not enough that new ideas are new but they also need to be effective. 26) No matter how much creativity you have it is not harmful. 27) Creativity is an engine of all progresses in all areas of activity. 28) The world is in a continuous simultaneous organization and disorganization. 29) Developing our thinking needs to take place day by day, continuously, for as long as we live. 30) Developing our thinking helps us increase our chances to meet more favorable situations. 31) Developing our thinking helps us have more chances to achieve more and greater successes. 32) Each of us needs to have as a
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personal goal the development of our thinking continuously, day by day, for as long as we live. 33) Associations of ideas help us create new more effective ideas. 34) Associations of ideas help us increase the possibilities of achieving our personal goals. 35) Associations of ideas help us increase our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 36) Associations of ideas help us increase our efficiency continuously. 37) The activity of producing positive ideas is the most efficient human activity. 38) Our activity of producing ideas helps us a lot in achieving our personal goals. 39) Our activity of producing ideas helps us the most in achieving more and greater successes.
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40) Our activity of producing positive ideas helps us the most to continuously increase our efficiency. 41) Knowledge, sooner or later, produces revolutionary or smaller changes. 42) Knowledge is one of the main engines of progresses in all areas of activity. 43) Knowledge itself helps us a lot in achieving our personal goals. 44) Knowledge itself helps us a lot in continuously increasing our efficiency. 45) The more we increase our knowledge the more we increase our power. 46) The more we increase our necessary knowledge of efficient co operations the more we create more efficient co operations. 47) Advances in knowledge and certain
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new ideas can cause more revolutions in some areas of activity. 48) The Internet, software and technologies of knowledge produce large revolutions in all areas of activity. 49) The Internet, software and technologies of knowledge accelerate progress in many fields of human life. 50) More does not always mean better most of the times. 51) Day by day we have more possibilities of choosing. 52) Today knowledge spreads instantaneously around the globe. 53) Today no one can have a monopole on knowledge. 54) Today, we each have the happy chance of reaching world knowledge wherever we are on the globe. 55) The possibilities to choose are numerous and they impose our attention
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when we make a certain choice. 56) The future possibilities of living are unlimited for most of the population. 57) The continuous, day by day development of knowledge really creates more future possibilities for a better life for more people. 58) The technology of information and communications will be the technology of the future. 59) The technology of information and communications is one of the main engines of present and future progress in all areas of activity. 60) The technology of information and communications will accelerate and contribute in developing efficient codevelopments for more people. 61) The technology of information has created and creates on a daily basis bigger possibilities of creativity.
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62) The technology of information enormously increases every day the efficiency in many areas of activity. 63) Quality actions increase our chances of meeting more favorable situations. 64) Quality actions help us a lot in achieving our personal goals. 65) Quality actions help us and contribute a lot in forming and developing co-developments. 66) Ethical principles help us a lot in achieving our personal goals. 67) Ethical principles help us a lot in achieving more and greater successes. 68) Ethical principles help us form and develop efficient co-developments. 69) Positive models help us achieve a happy marriage. 70) Positive models help us achieve our personal goals. 71) Positive models help us achieve
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successes. 72) Positive models help us have more chances of meeting more favorable situations. 73) Positive ideas are the engines of progress in all areas of activity. 74) Positive ideas are the engines of achievement of personal goals. 75) Positive ideas motivate people to act. 76) Global development, global projects impel and develop local development. 77) Global co-development amplifies local co-development. 78) Global co-development influences local co-development. 79) Global co-development can sometimes impel local co-development. 80) Global co-development influences in many places local co-development. 81) Local achievements can many times
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influence global developments. 82) Global projects create and impel a great number of local projects. 83) Global co-development creates a large number of jobs. 84) Values motivate people to get to action. 85) Personal values provoke people to positive actions. 86) Personal values help us achieve our personal goals. 87) Personal values help us achieve successes. 88) Personal common values unite people. 89) Personal common values help people achieve efficient co-developments. 90) Personal common values help us maintain a happy marriage. 91) There are situations which influence our life in a positive way even more than
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years or dozens of years. 92) The harmonious development of our personality enormously helps us deal with all human troubles. 93) Those who know how to master time will succeed in achieving their personal goals. 94) Those who know how to master time will succeed in having more chances to meet more fortunate situations. 95) Those who know how to motivate people have more chances to achieve their personal goals. 96) Those who know how to motivate people have more chances to achieve successes. 97) Each of us needs to learn how to change our behaviors. 98) In order to succeed in achieving our personal goals it is necessary that we know how to administer our finances.
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99) The efficient management of our time prevents our stressing. 100) Co-development helps us prevent stress. 101) Positive living models impel us a lot to proceed to action. 102) There are days that can change our life in a positive way. 103) There are people that change our live in a positive way. 104) Each of us needs to learn how to administer our time. 105) Each of us needs to learn to know how to efficiently administer our time. 106) Today, we have many chances of achieving a more beautiful life due to the Internet, the mobile, the development of information technologies, and the knowledge gained in all areas of activity. 107) Each of us needs to know to distinguish between what is necessary to
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do in order to earn our living and to succeed in life. 108) Those who want everything in achieving personal goals have great chances of obtaining them. 109) Efficient work is one of the keys to achieving successes. 110) Efficient work is one of the keys to achieving personal goals. 111) Those who have successful people as friends, have the possibility to take from these many influences that will help them achieve more successes. 112) The strong desire to succeed helps those who have it very much in managing to achieve their personal goals. 113) Taken from anyone, any practical ideas help you in life to achieve your personal goals. 114) In order for you to become happy it is necessary that you learn what is needed
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to do in order to become happy. 115) Without knowing what is necessary to do in order to become happy you have no way of becoming happy. 116) Generosity makes us more likable. 117) Generosity helps us make more friends. 118) Generosity is a quality that makes us more humane. 119) Generosity brings people closer to us. 120) Positive ideas who can change peoples life for the better need to be promoted continuously, day by day, on the Internet and through other technologies of communications. 121) Each achievement was realized only due to the fact that the rules necessary to realize it were respected. 122) Professional achievements can be more easily realized if we have a happy
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marriage. 123) A happy marriage is the basis of many outstanding successes. 124) A happy marriage always charges our batteries. 125) Freedom in thinking makes us stronger. 126) Each of us can be free in thought only due to preconceptions, superstitions and the absence of the necessary knowledge and of creative attitudes. 127) Creative attitudes contribute a lot in spiritual self development. 128) Creative attitudes contribute a lot and mental self development. 129) Experience is a richness which increases continually, day by day, for as long as we live. 130) Human experience depends from man to man, it is neither big nor small, even if some people have that will and
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some days lived. 131) Human experience can be continuously increased day by day through more and more methods. 132) Those who have more experience in certain areas have more chances of achieving their personal goals in those areas. 133) Some young people have a lot more experience, even if they are young, than many older persons. 134) Those who are a lot more active, who work daily accumulate more experience than those who are lazy and less active. 135) The size and quality of experience is not only given by a lifes duration but also by the intensity with which it has been lived, how much time was the work day by day, the area one has worked in, what one has worked, the qualities, and
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abilities, aptitudes and attitudes that man has, etc. 136) The strategies of acting to achieve each personal objective help us more or less in their achievement, this depending on their quality and efficiency. 137) The richness of our experience never lessens. 138) The richness of our experience can be continuously increased day by day for as long as we live. 139) The richness of our experience can be multiplied n times due to the continuous development of growth. 140) The Internet increases our spiritual richness daily. 141) Our spiritual wealth can be increased exponentially if we dedicate ourselves to spiritual development day by day, for as long as we live. 142) Spiritual wealth itself leads to
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increasing the spiritual wealth. 143) The richness of experience can be increased by itself. 144) True friendship meets itself. 145) Collective joys create a mass optimism. 146) Efficient work creates many joys. 147) Each of us needs to learn how to control our emotions in any situation no matter how surprising or difficult it is. 148) The self control of emotions is a very valuable quality that helps us a lot in achieving our personal goals. 149) Many of us can make life more beautiful than we think we can. 150) Our life at the moment offers a great number of people, more and greater chances of having a happy life, but unfortunately many are too passive, too inactive and wait for luck to run them over.
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151) Luck runs into the one who is active, dynamic and industrious. 152) Favorable situations are met especially by those who persevere in achieving their personal goals. 153) Magnanimity is a quality that makes us very appreciated by people. 154) Magnanimity humanizes us. 155) Magnanimity makes us become more respected by people. 156) A magnanimous man is also a good man. 157) Magnanimity helps us make friends. 158) Magnanimity helps us achieve efficient co operations. 159) Magnanimity can be met both in women and men regardless of their age. 160) We must teach people how to make a more beautiful life because many of them do not know how although they want to.
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161) Positive activities create many joys. 162) Some people are glad when they succeed in developing their knowledge. 163) Some people are very glad when they succeed in developing their experience. 164) When we believe in certain values we feel happy. 165) When we have hope we feel happy. 166) When we trust ourselves and our forces we feel happy. 167) Some people, when they create new ideas, feel happy. 168) Some people are happy when other people have successes and joys. 169) Some people are happy when they escape. 170) If we are stressed and we get rid of stress, we become more confident in ourselves and in our forces. 171) If we get rid of stress we become
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more joyful. 172) When we are unstressed we are more alive. 173) When we are stressed there are great chances of making more mistakes. 174) Fatigue makes us become less alive. 175) Life can be beautiful and it is not worth consuming it with small things. 176) The more experience we have the more we trust ourselves. 177) Experience makes us more confident in ourselves and more optimistic. 178) Experience increases our chances of making a beautiful life. 179) Experience helps us use and develop our abilities. 180) The more we document to achieve personal goals the greater and more chances we have to achieve those personal goals.
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181) Global co operations accelerate and increase the number of local co operations. 182) Global projects contribute a lot in creating and achieving a lot of local projects. 183) Global projects create a high number of workplaces. 184) Co-development increases our chances of achieving global objectives. 185) Co-development makes us stronger. 186) Co-development develops our social qualities. 187) Co-development develops our ability to understand others. 188) Co-development helps us develop our ability of working together with others. 189) Co-development is much more efficient than individual developments. 190) The harmony in a marriage helps us maintain that marriage happy.
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191) The harmony in a marriage makes us feel better. 192) Those who work with commitment have more chances to achieve personal goals. 193) Some exaggerations can lead to successes; some can lead to very big failures. 194) Some exaggerations are very harmful. Before exaggerating it is necessary to analyze the possible negative and positive effects and if it is worth to exaggerate. 195) Trust in ourselves makes us surer of ourselves. 196) Luxury is an illogical waste of many and great resources. 197) Each of us must fight against luxury. 198) Luxury is very harmful for many persons.
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199) Luxury can be easily prevented through more effective measures. 200) A behavior oriented towards luxury is a primitive behavior. 201) A behavioral oriented towards gambling is a behavior of despising the workplace. 202) A behavior oriented towards luxury is a behavior that despises man. 203) Rich people are not acting humane when they waste through luxury, gambling absurd amounts of money. 204) True people who have riches do not waste them for luxury, gambling and absurdities but for useful actions for themselves and for society. 205) A wasteful behavior is a very harmful behavior both in society and for the one who wastes. 206) Violence can sometimes be generated by many social injustices.
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207) In order to prevent violence in society the state needs to prevent injustice, discrimination and everything that is harmful to people. 208) In achieving many successes patience has contributed the most. 209) Respecting promises makes us more credible. 210) Respecting promises helps us achieve more and greater successes. 211) It is not shameful to allow ourselves to be influenced by positive influences, but on the contrary it is a great quality. 212) Positive influences help us increase our efficiency in everything we do. 213) Each of us needs to have the power to see negative influences. 214) A daily balanced life helps us maintain our health. 215) A daily balanced life helps us be more effective in our job.
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216) A balanced life helps us a lot to maintain our marriage happy. 217) A balanced life is a main factor of many successes. 218) A balanced life helps us a lot to have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 219) States need to administer more effectively their resources in the interest of all people. 220) States need to foresee and prevent the development and making of some luxury products. 221) States need to encourage, stimulate, and reward the more effective use of societys resources both by people and companies for the good of people and society. 222) Permanent self education helps us a lot to achieve more and greater successes. 223) Permanent self education increases
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our power continuously. 224) Permanent self education used in solving personal problems increases our trust in ourselves and in our possibilities. 225) Permanent self education helps us become wiser. 226) Wisdom helps us become wiser. 227) Mistakes must be avoided. 228) We can avoid mistakes by eliminating their causes. 229) Annoyances harm us a lot. 230) Annoyances can be prevented. 231) Repeated annoyances can be very harmful to our health. 232) Annoyances stress. 233) The annoyances of spouses in a marriage are bad for the marriage. 234) Annoyances create stress. 235) People who get annoyed often are rejected by people. 236) The repeated annoyances of a
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spouse in a marriage are very harmful to the other spouse. 237) Self-control helps us prevent annoyances. 238) Skill helps us more easily achieve our personal goals. 239) Skill must be developed continuously in the activities we achieve. 240) Skill can be formed. 241) Skill can be developed. 242) Skill increases our efficiency a lot. 243) Skill creates quality. 244) Skill prevents many mistakes. 245) Skill helps us a lot to achieve records. 246) Skill contributes a lot to achieving bigger or smaller successes. 247) Skill can be formed. 248) Skill can be developed. 249) Skill can be increased. 250) Skill can assure the existence of a
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work place. 251) Envy is a default. 252) Patience can be formed. 253) Patience can be increased. 254) Patience has contributed to achieving many successes. 255) Patience has contributed a lot to achieving very successful marriages. 256) Patience has contributed a lot to maintaining happy marriages. 257) Patience has prevented many divorces. 258) Patience contributes a lot to maintaining true love. 259) Patience has contributed to achieving many true loves. 260) Patience is a quality necessary to each person. 261) Patience can contribute to preventing many car accidents. 262) Patience can prevent many
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arguments. 263) Self-control helps us form patience. 264) Self-control helps us maintain patience. 265) Self-control helps us develop patience. 266) Patience must be appreciated. 267) Patience must be supported. 268) Patience must be developed. 269) Patience must be achieved where it doesnt exist. 270) Patience contributes a lot to achieving happiness. 271) Kind people are unfortunately sometimes not considered. 272) Arrogance is repelling. 273) Arrogance is very harmful to interhuman relationships. 274) Harmony in human relations brings a lot of good. 275) Harmony does a lot of good to
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people in human relations. 276) Harmony must be appreciated in human relations. 277) The harmony in human relations must be respected. 278) The harmony in human relations must be supported. 279) The harmony in human relations must be encouraged. 280) Contentious behavior is very harmful to inter-human relations. 281) The contentious behavior of the spouses is very harmful for the marriage. 282) The contentious behavior of friends is very harmful to the friendship. 283) The contentious behavior of those who cooperate is very harmful to cooperation. 284) Contentious behavior must be prevented. 285) Contentious behavior must be
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eliminated in inter-human relations. 286) Arguments must be prevented. 287) Self-control helps us prevent arguments. 288) Arguments complicate problems even more. 289) Arguments must be avoided in any marriage. 290) Greed sometimes has enormously great negative effects for the greedy one. 291) Repeated offenses between spouses can lead to divorce. 292) Repeated offenses between friends can lead to the breaking apart of the friendship. 293) Repeated offenses between lovers can lead to the destruction of love. 294) Offenses can be prevented. 295) Offenses between those who cooperate are very harmful to the cooperation.
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296) Offenses between those who cooperate can lead to the destruction of the cooperation. 297) A woman with an inner beauty has more chances to raise children with inner beauty. 298) A woman with an inner beauty is a gold mine, is priceless to her husband. 299) A woman with an inner beauty deserves to be loved. 300) A woman with an inner beauty must be appreciated.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: [email protected] www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-10-9

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