A Passover Korech – sandwich – using the Zionist

Ideas to Zionize the Seder, so prepare to celebrate

Israel’s 76th by welcoming some Zionist thinkers to
the seder.
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Zionist Texts from The Zionist Ideas in Conversation with the

Haggadah
(longer excerpts and mini-bios can be found in The Zionist Ideas: Visions for the Jewish
Homeland – Then, Now, Tomorrow)

by Professor Gil Troy, Senior Fellow in Zionist Thought at the Jewish People
Policy Institute, the Global Think Tank of the Jewish People
[email protected]

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A FRAMING: Secretary of State John Foster Dulles confronts Prime
Minister David Ben-Gurion, 1954
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Dulles: “Tell me, Mr. Prime Minister — who do you and your state represent?
Does it represent the Jews of Poland, perhaps Yemen, Romania, Morocco, Iraq,
Russia or perhaps Brazil? After 2,000 years of exile, can you honestly speak about
a single nation, a single culture? Can you speak about a single heritage or perhaps
a single Jewish tradition?”
Ben-Gurion: “Look, Mr. Secretary of State — approximately 300 years ago, the
Mayflower set sail from England and on it were the first settlers who settled in
what would become the largest democratic superpower known as the United
States of America. Now, do me a favor — go out into the streets and find 10
American children and ask them the following:
◼ What was the name of the Captain of the Mayflower?
◼ How long did the voyage take?
◼ What did the people who were on the ship eat?
◼ What were the conditions of sailing during the voyage?
“I’m sure you would agree with me that there is a good chance that you won’t get
a good answer to these questions.
“Now in contrast — not 300 but more than 3,000 years ago, the Jews left the land
of Egypt. I would kindly request from you, Mr. Secretary, that on one of your trips
around the world, try and meet 10 Jewish children in different countries. And ask
them:
◼ What was the name of the leader who took the Jews out of Egypt?
◼ How long did it take them before they got to the land of Israel?
◼ What did they eat during the period when they were wandering in the
desert?
◼ And what happened to the sea when they encountered it?

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 “Once you get the answers to these questions, please carefully reconsider
the question that you have just asked me.”

A SECOND FRAMING: Natan Sharansky’s Exodus from the Soviet Union,

1986
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In February, 1986, after nine years in the Soviet prison system, the Gulag, the
Soviet Communists finally freed Natan Sharansky. This passage from Gil Troy and
Natan Sharansky, Never Alone: Prison, Politics, and My People, invites us to think
about whatever exoduses we have experienced in our lives, other exoduses other
people’s have experienced – and need to experience – and how, we as a people
go from focusing on the important yet defensive lesson of Never Again to the
more affirmative, eternal lesson, that, when you belong to the Jewish People, you
are “Never Alone.”

We landed in East Berlin, the capital of the German Democratic Republic, a city of
bridges and that infamous wall dividing East from West. Berlin struck me as an
odd place for a Jew to get his freedom.
“You see that car, Anatoly Borisovich? Go straight to it and don’t make any turns,”
one escort said calmly, expecting to stay out of camera view and in the warm
cabin of the plane as I walked out into the February freeze. “Is it agreed?”
“Agreed?” I was still in KGB world, and therefore could not agree. “Since when do I
make agreements with the KGB?” I asked. “You know that I never agree with the
KGB about anything. If you tell me to go straight, I will go crooked.”
“You see, you are not serious. We cannot deal with you,” he snapped, as the
minders mumbled among themselves. As a result, two of them got out of the
plane first and flanked me on either side. As promised, I zigzagged across the
tarmac, from the Russian airplane to an East German car. As I lurched left, then
right, the TV cameras were rolling and the KGB agents were yelling at me to
straighten out. One flustered cameraman ended up banging into the window of
the waiting car as he filmed.
The next day, in the final stage of my release, I was driven onto the sub-zero,
snow-covered Glienicke bridge. I was then escorted to freedom by the tall
American ambassador to the Federal Republic of Germany, Richard Burt.

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I didn’t need to zigzag here. I was no longer in KGB hands. Besides, I had a more
pressing worry: those big pants and that flimsy drawstring. I ask Ambassador Burt,
“Where is the border, exactly?” He pointed to a four-inch line the Germans had
kindly cleared of snow. As I marked my entry to freedom, I jumped with joy—and
the string popped. I entered the free world just barely catching my pants before
they fell down.
Somewhere in the Frankfurt Airport, I entered some godforsaken room. There, I
saw the same girl I had taken to the Moscow airport twelve years ago, a few
hours after our wedding. I had promised my new wife we would reunite soon.
Now, trying to control my tears, I said to her in Hebrew, “Silchi li she’icharti
kzat”—sorry I’m a little late. I was living inside my dream, and not resisting it. I
just kept clutching Avital because I feared the dream would stop. Holding her hand
would prevent me from waking up back in the punishment cell.

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 Kiddush ‫קידוש‬
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Before Kiddush:

Sadly, I am updating something I wrote in 2003, when Palestinian terrorists were

targeting Israelis, as they still are today:
Once again, during this year’s Seders, we will celebrate our joyous holiday of
liberation with heavy hearts. Even as we revel in our freedom, some of our
brothers and sisters in Israel, both Jewish and non-Jewish, are in pain. This year,
as in previous years, we must reclaim our symbols, remember our losses, reaffirm
our commitment to Israel, to the Jewish people, and to a true peace.
Over the years, and in this particular evil surge since October 7, when the
Palestinians turned toward violence yet again, too many have died, too many
have been injured , and 245 were kidnapped, with 133 still un-free or
unaccounted for. And too many Seders will have empty chairs: missing husbands,
fathers, brothers, sons; missing wives, mothers, sisters, daughters. How agonizing
is it to know that they will never come home! How agonizing is to imagine them
celebrating the holiday of freedom in captivity, simply because they are Jewish!
The Seder’s power comes from its ritualization of memory. It is a primal, sensual,
literal service. The Seder plate, evoking the mortar used in building with charoset,
and the tears shed by the slaves with salt water, helps us visualize the trauma of
slavery.
The physical acts of reclining, of eating special foods, of standing to greet Elijah
the prophet, help us feel the joy of Yetziat Mitzrayim, of leaving Egypt. And, in an
affirmation of the importance of peoplehood, we mark this special moment not
as individuals but as a community.
In that spirit, we cannot proceed with business as usual during these challenging
times. We must improvise a new ritual that marks our present pain, that
illustrates our vital connection with Israel and Israelis today.

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Let each of us, as we gather at our Seders, intrude on our own celebrations by
leaving one setting untouched, by having one empty chair at our table. Although
this year, as we have both kidnapped brothers and sisters, and murdered loved
ones too, we might consider two empty chairs. Let us take a moment to reflect on
our losses. And let us take the time to learn the name of at least one victim
murdered since last Passover, or one victim murdered years earlier, one Jew who
cannot celebrate this year’s holiday, one family in mourning, one family with an
empty seat at their table and a hole in their hearts.

Let us call out the name of Koby Mandell, age 13, an American immigrant
murdered in May, 2001, whose father, Rabbi Seth Mandell, noted the empty seat
at his Shabbat table and shared the pain of watching other boys grow up,
watching their voices deepen, their shoulders broaden, their gaits quicken, even
as his son lay dead.
Let us call out the name of Hadar Goldin, a 23-year-old soldier killed by Hamas in
August, 2014 but whose remains Hamas holds in a cruel assault on Hadar’s family
and civilized norms.
Let us call out the names of Rabbi Eitam and Naama Henkin, ambushed in
October, 2015, slaughtered in their car’s front seat as their four children sat in the
back.
Let us call out the name of Ezra Schwartz, an 18-year-old Boston kid enjoying his
yeshiva “gap” year, gunned down at a traffic stop.
Let us call out the name of Awad Darawshe, 23, an Israeli medic working at the
Nova concert festival, who refused to leave, telling friends, “I speak Arabic, I think
I can manage.” Hamas terrorists killed him as he bandaged a wounded concert-
goer.
Let us call out the names of Ben Mizrachi, 22, originally from Vancouver, and Itai
Bausi, 22, friends simply attending the Nova concert. As good Zionists and trained
Israelis, Ben, who moved to Israel and served as a combat medic, and Itai, who
was a Duvdevan commando, plunged into action, trying to save others. Killed in a
hail of bullets, both are now buried, in their beloved kibbutz, Kvutzat Yavne.

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Let us call out the names of Sgt. Eden Alon Levy 19, Cpt. Or Moses, 22, and Lt.
Eder Ben-Simon, 20, three Home Front Command soldiers who died saving over
90 recruits when 8 Hamas terrorists stormed their base from the beach
And let us think for a moment, about a 10-year-old Bedouin girl, whose house
collapsed just days before Passover, injuring her badly, because the Islamic
Republic of Iran, unleashed a barrage of missiles against the Jewish State,
demonstrating that the intense hate against Jews and anyone in Israel, crosses
the 1,157 miles separating Tehran from Jerusalem
As we call out these names, let us commit to some action, to embrace the victims’
families. Moreover, let us build a friendship with Israel and Israelis, which is not
just about politics and not solely about mourning.
And as we call out these names, unlike our enemies, we don’t call for vengeance.
Instead, as we mourn, let us hope; as we remember the many lives lost during this
crazy, pointless war, let us pray more intensely for a just and lasting peace, and
for an end to the global scourge of terrorism afflicting Jews and non-Jews.

Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik

Kol Dodi Dofek, Listen! My Beloved Knocks (1956)

The Kiddush, the prayer blessing the wine, celebrates two nation-defining
experiences: the creation of the world and the liberation of the Israelites from
Egypt. In 1956, Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik asked about the two recent
experiences defining the Jewish people: the Holocaust and the Establishment of
the State of Israel. He warned that Jews must not simply be a “camp people” as
we were in Egypt and Auschwitz, defined by a shared fate, but must embrace
Sinai – and Jerusalem -- which make us a Congregation, an Edah, with a mission, a
message, a destiny. That challenge of the shared mission of the Jewish people,
begins in the Seder Kiddush and resonates throughout the night.

“The mission of the State of Israel is neither to terminate the unique isolation of
the Jewish people nor abrogate its unique fate—in this it will not succeed! Rather,
the mission is to elevate a Camp-people to the rank of a holy Congregation-nation,
transforming shared fate to shared destiny. . . .”

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 ◼ What historical moments define us? Why? How do those moments
shape our identity?
◼ Is it only anti-Semitism that makes us a “camp people” – or do we have
other elements of “shared fate” as Jews, what links us in that way?
◼ What is our common mission – as Jews? As Zionists? Is there a
difference?
◼ Does Israel’ creation emphasize our shared fate – making us a camp
people – or our shared destiny, our common mission – making us a Holy
Congregation nation? ( or, perhaps both)?
◼ Have events since October 7, changed your understanding of the Jew-
glues, what binds us as a nation, and/or our Jew-views, what vision and
values we have to guide us?

After Kiddush:
David Ben-Gurion
Speech to Mapai’s Central Committee on January 16, 1948

This speech by the man who would become Israel’s prime minister in May, 1948,
shows how Ben-Gurion set priorities when he and the Jewish people faced an
existential crisis. With Arab attacks on Jews worsening, his priority was clear: first
survive….

“There is now nothing more important than war needs, and nothing equal to war
needs. And just as I don’t understand the language of ‘state’ right now, I don’t
understand the language of aliyah and the language of settlement and the
language of culture. There is only one criterion: are these things needed for the
war effort or not? If they are needed—let them be done. If they are unnecessary—
let them wait until the crisis is past. There are no exceptions, that is the great
terror and the great misfortune embedded in every war, that is a cruel and jealous
Moloch [god that demands child sacrifice] who knows neither compassion nor
compromise. . . .”
“It is necessary that we take up the yoke of war and show a greater will to win
than those others. We shall do it, precisely because for us war is not a goal in
itself, and we see war as a terrible accursed misfortune, and resort to war only
from lack of choice—war and peace are nothing more than means to something
else—that “something” will give us the advantage that our enemies do not have

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and that is denied to the followers of violence: a vision of life, a vision of national
rebirth, of independence, equality and peace—for the Jewish nation and for all
peoples of the world. . . .”

◼ What other epic events have we experienced in our lifetimes? How

about our parents? Our grandparents?
◼ How did we/they prioritize then?
◼ How does that help us now?
◼ What should our Jewish agenda be- individually and communally?
◼ What plans do you have to celebrate Israel’s 76th birthday?

Urchatz ‫ורחץ‬
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Ze’ev Jabotinsky
The Fundamentals of the Betarian World Outlook (1934)

During the first round of handwashing, the poet, playwright, philosopher and
activist, Ze’ev Jabotinsky, invites us to go personal. “Hadar” essentially means the
glory and dignity you bear when you understand Judaism’s depth and breadth.
“The mission of Betar: The duty and aim of Betar is very simple though difficult: to
create that type of Jew which the nation needs in order to better and quicker build
a Jewish state. In other words, to create a “normal,” “healthy” citizen for the
Jewish nation. The greatest difficulty is encountered because, as a nation, the Jews
today are neither “normal” nor “healthy” and life in Diaspora affects the
intelligent upbringing of normal and healthy citizens. . . . .
“ Hadar: Hadar is a Hebrew word which hardly is at all translatable into another
language: It combines various conceptions such as outward beauty, respect, self-
esteem, politeness, faithfulness. The only suitable “translation” into the language
of real life must be the Betari—in all dealings, actions, speech and thought.
Naturally, we are all as yet removed from such a state of things, and in one
generation cannot be achieved. Nevertheless, Hadar must be the daily goal of

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each one of us: our every step, gesture, word, action and thought must always be
strictly executed from the Hadar viewpoint. . . . Hadar consists of a thousand
trifles which collectively form everyday life. More important is moral Hadar. You
must be generous, if no question of principle is involved. Do not bargain about
trivialities, you, rather should give something instead of exacting it from
somebody else. Every word of yours must be a “word of honor,” and the latter is
mightier that steel.”

◼ Who best lives or lived this ideal of “Hadar”?

◼ In an age of vulgarity and exhibitionism, how can we keep our sense of
“Hadar”: is it more relevant than ever -- or old-fashioned and irrelevant?
◼ Is “Hadar” just an individual, moral standard, or can it be injected into
political life and communal life too- if so how?

Yachatz ‫יחץ‬
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As we break the Matzah, and hide it, building toward the “Afikoman” dessert, we
ritualize the process of breaking and building, of losing and healing, that is a
central part of life – and that has so characterized Israeli life since October 7. To
honor, not just the lives lost – but the lives well-lived, even if shortened, read part
of the letter Ben Zussman z”l wrote before entering into Gaza with his Combat
Engineering unit. And then consider, how his broken-hearted mother Sarit
responded to that letter and her 22-year-old son’s sacrifice, thereby helping Israel
heal too…
Ben Zussman, of Jerusalem, wrote:

“I’m writing you this message on the way to the base. If you’re reading this,
something must have happened to me. As you know about me, probably no one
is happier than me right now. I’m truly on the verge of fulfilling my dream soon.
I’m happy and grateful for the honor I have to defend our beautiful country and
Am Yisrael, the Jewish people.

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Even if something happens to me, I don’t allow you to sink into sorrow. I had the
privilege to fulfill my dream and my mission and you can be sure that I’m looking
down on you and smiling a huge smile. I will probably sit next to Sabba (Grandpa)
and we’ll make up for lost time – we’ll each tell about our experiences and what
changed from war to war. Maybe we’ll also talk a little about politics, I’ll ask him
what his opinion is.

If God forbid, you’re sitting shiva, the traditional seven days of mourning,
transform it into a week of friends, family, and fun. There should be food – meat
of course – beers, sweet drinks, nuts, tea and of course, Ima’s cookies – Mom’s
cookies. Make jokes, hear stories, and meet all my friends you haven’t met yet.
I’m jealous of you, I would have liked to sit there and see everyone.

Another very very important point. If God forbid, I fall into captivity, dead or alive,
I’m not willing for any soldier or civilian to be injured by some deal to free me. I
don’t allow you to lead a campaign or anything like that. I’m not willing for
terrorists to be freed for me – in any way, shape, or form. Please don’t breach my
request.

I’ll say it again – I left home without even being called up to the reserves. I’m full
of pride and a sense of mission. I always said that if I need to die, at least may it
happen while defending others and our country.”

Sarit Zussman said: “He freed us from many doubts. He left with a full heart, out
of great love. He strengthened us and asked us to be happy. There is something
liberating in this clarity that allows you to breathe. We had the opportunity to
meet all his sweet friends, the ones we didn't get to meet and only heard stories
about… We will be sad forever, but we will try to enjoy the pleasures of the little
things in life."

◼ From this letter, what do you know about Ben? What kind of a person was
he?
◼ Zussman makes it clear that he knew what he was willing to die for – and
live for – do you?
◼ How do you explain his mother Sarit’s reaction? Does it make sense to you?
What else could she have said?
◼ What lessons can we learn from Ben hundreds of other soldiers who have
written similar letters?

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 The Bread of Affliction ‫הא לחמא‬
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“Now we are slaves, next year may we be free”
Natan Sharansky
Fear No Evil (1988)

As we start contemplating the passage from slavery to freedom, we learn from

Soviet Jews who actually made that move. One of them, Natan Sharansky, a
recent Israel Prize winner, teaches that learning about Israel, about Judaism,
about his identity in 1967, is what propelled him to yearn for freedom – and fight
for it, for himself and others. His teaching – and others throughout the night –
challenge us to think about the balance between particular national pride or
identity and the broader quest for universal human rights and freedoms.

“A basic, eternal truth was returning to the Jews of Russia—that personal freedom
wasn’t something you could achieve through assimilation. It was available only by
reclaiming your historical roots.”

◼ How can you achieve “freedom” by “reclaiming your historical roots”:

don’t we usually see our “historical roots” as burdens?
◼ Think of three moments in the Seder that reinforce Sharansky’s notion
that by drilling into history and identity we truly achieve freedom – and
only then can we fight for human rights.
◼ Think of three examples in history or your own life that reinforce that
teaching.

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 Mah Nishtana ‫מה נשתנה‬
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Hillel Halkin
Letters to an American Jewish Friend (1977, 2013)
In 1977, a translator, writer, and intellectual who has lived in Zichron Ya’akov
since the 1970s, challenged his American Jewish friends to think about Israel’s
significance to all of us, wherever we live. In this excerpt from his 2013 re-release,
he invites us to contemplate the many miracles of Israel – and invites us to be a
part of it, somehow…

“A great adventure. I wouldn’t have missed it for the world. There’s been nothing
like it in human history. A small and ancient people loses its land and forgets how
to speak its language; wanders defenselessly for hundreds, thousands, of years
throughout the world with its God and sacred books; meets with contumely,
persecution, violence, dispossession, banishment, mass murder; refuses to give up;
refuses to surrender its faith; continues to believe that it will one day be restored
to the land it lost; manages in the end, by dint of its own efforts, against all odds,
to gather itself from the four corners of the earth and return there; learns again to
speak the language of its old books; learns again to bear arms and defend itself;
wrests its new-old home from the people that had replaced it; entrenches itself
there; builds; fructifies; fortifies; repulses the enemies surrounding it; grows and
prospers in the face of all threats. Had it not happened, could it have been
imagined? Would anyone have believed it possible? Would anyone believe it
possible that one could belong to this people, value one’s connection to it, even
construct one’s life around it, but have no interest in taking part in such an
adventure? Would anyone believe that one could repeatedly declare how much
this people means to one but think the adventure is entirely for others?”

◼ In celebrating Israel’s miracles, this text evokes Dayenu – but it is

perhaps more fitting for Mah Nishtanah – with its pointed question:
how can we turn away from this great adventure, these great miracles?
◼ What is our motivation for joining at the Seder?
◼ What pressing questions do we have in general – and particularly this
year?

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 We Were Slaves ‫עבדים היינו‬
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Sir Isaiah Berlin
Jewish Slavery and Emancipation (1953).
It’s hard to imagine what Eastern European-born Jews like the great Oxford
philosopher Sir Isaiah Berlin experienced watching the Zionist Revolution unfold
as – what everyone called it – a modern day Exodus. Thinking not just about Israel
as a refuge for European Jews, then for Jews from Arab lands, but thinking about
the way having an Israel straightened Jewish backs worldwide, Berlin challenges
us to think about the power of freedom, the importance of dignity, the meaning
of choice, and the inspiration we all get and can get, wherever we live, from that
plucky Jewish democracy in the Middle East.
Israel “has restored to Jews not merely their personal dignity and status as human
beings, but what is vastly more important, their right to choose as individuals how
they shall live—the basic freedom of choice, the right to live or perish, go to the
good or the bad in one’s own way, without which life is a form of slavery, as it has
been, indeed, for the Jewish community for almost two thousand years. . . .”

◼ How did Israel restore to Jews “personal dignity” outside of Israel? Is

that still true today?
◼ What’s the difference here between “personal dignity” and “freedom of
choice” according to Berlin?
◼ How does Israel restore “freedom of choice” in our lives today?

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 Ma’aseh B’Rabbi Eliezer ‫מעשה ברבי אליעזר‬
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Rabbi Eliezer sits with his colleagues: A Mini-Zionist Salon

The great danger of the Haggadah is that the text is so rich, our seder plate and
agenda is so full, that we will just rush through the experience – or simply mimic
the teachings from before. It’s important to carve out time in the seder to debate,
to talk, to learn actively. So, for Israel’s 76th, why not replicate the small “salons”
that popped up throughout Eastern Europe more than a century ago, debating
three key Zionist ideas: that we are a people as well as a religion, that we have a
homeland, and that we, like other nations, have rights to establish a state on that
homeland.

◼ With no additional text, do what Rabbi Eliezer and his colleagues did,
think big: ask: “What’s the most inspiring experience you ever had in
Israel? Jewishly in general?
◼ “What does having a State of Israel mean for us today?”
◼ “What should we be doing to celebrate Israel’s 76th?”
◼ “Do we seek a closer a relationship with Israel – why or why not?

Baruch Ha’Makom ‫ברוך המקום‬

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The power of the seder, the power of each of our family’s itziat mitzrayim, exodus
from Egypt, the power of Jewish history, is the Jew-Jitsu – turning the bad into
good. Even as Rachel Goldberg has crisscrossed the world, trying to find the right
people to pressure the Qataris and then Hamas to free her son Hersh Polin-
Goldberg, she refuses to succumb to despair. The last his parents heard of Hersh,
part of his arm had been blown off by a Hamas grenade, as Hersh and other

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party-goers fled the Nova festival. The Seder will mark the 198th day of captivity –
and worse - for Hersh and others.
This is a poem, this courageous mother wrote for her son, barely two months into
this endless ordeal. Rachel Goldberg read it while addressing the United Nations,
asking for help:

One Tiny Seed by Rachel Goldberg

There is a lullaby that says your mother will cry a thousand tears before
you grow to be a man.
I have cried a million tears in the last 67 days.
We all have.
And I know that way over there
there’s another woman
who looks just like me
because we are all so very similar
and she has also been crying.
All those tears, a sea of tears
they all taste the same.
Can we take them
gather them up,
remove the salt
and pour them over our desert of despair
and plant one tiny seed.
A seed wrapped in fear,
trauma, pain,
war and hope
and see what grows?
Could it be
that this woman
so very like me
that she and I could be sitting together in 50 years
laughing without teeth
because we have drunk so much sweet tea together
and now we are so very old
and our faces are creased
like worn-out brown paper bags.

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 And our sons
have their own grandchildren
and our sons have long lives
One of them without an arm
But who needs two arms anyway?
Is it all a dream?
A fantasy? A prophecy?
One tiny seed.

The Four Sons ‫ארבעה בנים‬

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The Wise One

In this typology, and more broadly, the Wise Child is the one who asks the
open-ended question, seeking to learn. Judaism teaches us to be open-
minded enough to learn broadly, but so open-minded our brains fall out,
meaning we lose any sense of boundaries, or grounding. Unfortunately,
today, too many people are quick to judge, to shut down, to cancel. In the
Jewish Journal, this year, the Tabby Refael showed how to be wise, in
assuming a questioners’ good intentions, and in welcoming us all to broaden
our understanding of Judaism and Jewish peoplehood, beyond our particular
tribe.

From: Tabby Refael, “How Ancient Persians Essentially Saved Judaism as We

Know It Today,” Jewish Journal, March 20, 2024

This time of year, many non-Persian Jewish friends remind me that as an

Iranian Jew, “my holiday” is just around the corner. It’s true that Persian
Jews feel a little possessive of Purim. Esther and Mordechai are even said to
be buried in a tomb in what is now the city of Hamadan in Western Iran. But

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several years ago, one of my Ashkenazi friends offered a bold declaration
during a Shabbat meal: “Tabby,” he announced, “Purim isn’t only a Persian
Jewish holiday. It belongs to all of us, because all of us were there in Persia
with you.”

For a moment, a hush fell over the table as guests looked squarely in my
direction for any semblance of offense. In an age when wokeism has hijacked
much of our mental processing, was this Ashkenazi man, who had wished me
a “Good Shabbos,” and who sat within arms’ reach of a pungent bowl of
German-style brined herring, appropriating my history as a Persian Jew?

Could he actually claim such ownership of Purim? And what was next?
Ashkenazi Jews chasing one another with scallions during the “Dayenu”
recitation of the Passover seder, in true Persian and Afghan Jewish-style?
(One can only hope.)

Everyone waited for my reaction. After a few seconds, I smiled, slammed my

hand on the table (the herring was a safe distance away) and shouted, “Of
course! You were there as well!”

I immediately understood what my friend meant…. every Jew today owes

ancient Persian Jewry a debt of gratitude for having essentially saved
Judaism and Jewish learning. And… at a time when the regime in Iran has
never been more dangerous and provocative against the Jewish state, it was
precisely the ancient Persian empire [of Cyrus the Great] that also played a
role in saving Judaism [by proclaiming religious freedom throughout his lands
and allowing the Jews to return to Jerusalem after the First Exile]….

“When you’re Jewish, it’s all in the family. We truly are one big, extended
family….Persian Jewish history is rife with paradoxes: For every Haman or
rabidly antisemitic Ayatollah, there was a Cyrus…”

◼ What is the power of true inclusivity, of seeing all of us as sharing our

story, rather than getting possessive regarding one ethnic or tribal strain
versus another?

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 ◼ How do you balance telling your particular family story with the wider
story of the Jewish people?

◼ How do you explain this duality, this dance between the good and the
bad, in Persian Jewish history, in Israel since October 7, in Jewish life, in
life?

The Rebel or “Wicked” One:

Berl Katzenelson
“Revolution and Tradition” (1934)

The second of the four children in the famous Passover story has always been
seen as wicked. But what if he is actually the creative rebel, the questioner, the
challenger, the smasher of idols and the pursuer of truth? A Labor Zionist thinker,
Berl Katzenelson, wrote an amazing essay in 1934 warning traditionalists not to
be too staid – handcuffed by memory – and rebels not to be too sweeping –
addicted to forgetfulness. That’s the key to what Theodor Herzl called
“altneuland,” Israel as the old-new land, and that’s what the seder is all about –
retaining tradition while still evolving in the modern world.

“A renewing and creative generation does not throw the cultural heritage of ages
into the dustbin. It examines and scrutinizes, accepts and rejects….. People are
endowed with two faculties—memory and forgetfulness. We cannot live without
both. Were only memory to exist, then we would be crushed under its burden. We
would become slaves to our memories, to our ancestors. Our physiognomy would
then be a mere copy of preceding generations. And were we ruled entirely by
forgetfulness, what place would there be for culture, science, self-consciousness,
spiritual life?”

◼ How does the Seder navigate this tension between memory and
forgetfulness, rebellion and tradition?
◼ How does Israel/Zionism?
◼ How do you in your own life?

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 The Four Sons
One Who Cannot Ask
Anne Roiphe: Generations of Memory (1981)

It’s interesting to contemplate whether the “wicked child” is better or worse than
the one who cannot ask. If the child is too young to ask, that’s one thing but, as this
passage about modern American Jewish distance from traditional Judaism
suggests, what if you are so distant from all this ritual, all this primitive stuff, that
you show up – but don’t even try rebelling, don’t even try changing, you just sit in
silence, drifting away – isn’t that worse? And, as the feminist writer and novelist
Anne Roiphe suggested back in 1981, perhaps we need to go beyond our rational,
universal liberal selves some time, and be passionate, primitive, mystical and
mystified.

“… when I think of our traditions of the family, traditions that are eclectic, thin,
without magic or destiny of time, I can see that we have made an error. I appreciate
our Thanksgiving and Christmas. I know that I will make beautiful weddings for our
daughters and that our funerals will serve well enough. But I do believe that the
tensions of the ancient ways, the closeness of primitive magic, the patina of the
ages and the sense of connection to past and future that are lacking in our lives are
serious losses.”

◼ How important is tradition to you? Is your life “thin” – lacking in

commitments and connections -- or “thick,” layered, anchored, deep?
◼ What’s the connection between “primitive magic” and modern
“thinness”?
◼ How does Zionism bridge the “connection” between “past and future” –
does it help avoid the “serious losses” Roiphe fears?
◼ Consider also, from 1862, Moses Hess’s rejection of assimilation in Rome
and Jerusalem.
◼ What are both Hess and Roiphe saying about the balance between
assimilating and belonging? Between universalism and particularism?

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 Moses Hess
Rome and Jerusalem (1862)

“As long as the Jew denies his nationality, as long as he lacks the character to
acknowledge that he belongs to that unfortunate, persecuted, and maligned
people, his false position must become ever more intolerable. What purpose does
this deception serve? The nations of Europe have always regarded the existence of
the Jews in their midst as an anomaly. We shall always remain strangers among
the nations. . . .

“The really dishonorable Jew is not the old-type, pious one who would rather have
one’s tongue cut out than utter a word in denial of his nationality, but the modern
kind who, like the German outcasts in foreign countries, is ashamed of one’s
nationality because the hand of fate is pressing heavily upon one’s people. The
beautiful phrases about humanity and enlightenment which these types use so
freely to cloak their treason, their fear of being identified with their unfortunate
brethren, will ultimately not protect them from the judgment of public opinion.
These modem Jews hide in vain behind their geographical and philosophical alibis.
You may mask yourself a thousand times over; you may change your name,
religion, and character; you may travel through the world incognito, so that
people may not recognize the Jew in you; yet every insult to the Jewish name will
strike you even more than the honest man who admits his Jewish loyalties and
who fights for the honor of the Jewish name. . . .

“The national character of Judaism does not exclude universalism and modern
civilization; on the contrary, these values are the logical effect of our national
character. If I nonetheless emphasize the national root of Judaism rather than its
universalist blooms, that is because in our time people are all too prone to gather
and deck themselves out with the pretty flowers of the cultural heritage rather
than to cultivate them in the soil in which they can grow.”

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 "And There Became a Nation" ‫ויהי שם לגוי‬
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David Ben Gurion

“Am Segula” (1970)

What makes any nation a nation – and what makes this particular Jewish nation, a
nation? As the Haggadah tells the story of the Jewish people, we encounter a
nation like others – but one that embraces a special mission. David Ben-Gurion,
Israel’s founding prime minister, didn’t want his new country just to be another
post-colonial state. He wanted Israel to be a light unto the nations, tapping what
he called, in his excellent phrase, Jews’ “chronic idealism.” Decades later, his
protégé Shimon Peres popularized the flip side of that by discussing the Jewish
people’s “Dissatisfaction gene,” which Peres – and his mentor – believed – came
not from crankiness but from this chronic idealism, from high expectations that
Israel would be an Am Segula, a virtuous nation.

“Am Segula implies an extra burden, an added responsibility to perform with a

virtue born of conscience and to listen to what Elijah later called ‘the still, small
voice.’ . . . I have always been very concerned, secularist though I am, with this
country’s spiritual state. . . . You cannot reach for the higher virtue without being
an idealist. The Jews are chronic idealists, which make me humbly glad to belong
to this people and to have shared in their noble epic….”

◼ Ben-Gurion defined “Am Segula” as a virtuous nation – do you agree

that you need to be an “chronic idealist” to achieve his lofty goals?
◼ How central is this mission to your understanding of what the Jewish
people are all about? To what Israel is all about?
◼ How does Israel live about to these ideals? How does it not? How can
we – and the Zionist Idea– help Israel reach higher?

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 “And Numerous” ‫ורב‬
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David Mamet and Anita Shapira
Perhaps the most-compelling Zionist bridge to this year’s still Corona-shadowed
Seder, can be built via a pithy line by the American playwright David Mamet (b.
1947) – and a longer comment in a 2012 essay by the Israeli historian Anita
Shapira (b. 1940). Our mass experience of enforced isolation just a few seders
ago, these improvised rules about social distancing, could have spun us further
and further away from each other, burrowing ever deeper into our high-tech age
of hyper-individuation. Instead, this social deprivation has increased our collective
craving for collectives. Why???? This Passover, let’s contemplate how much
richer our lives are by a thick web of associations, commitments, references,
rituals. And how much more meaningful life is when played out in plural than
alone.
David Mamet writes:
“Real life consists in belonging.”
Anita Shapira writes:
“Zionism has always focused on the collective, its assumption being that national
redemption would also promote personal redemption. It is high time that we
recapture the sense of togetherness we’ve lost, the togetherness that was the
cohesive power—and gift—of Zionism.”

◼ “Numerous” is about size but it’s also about the meaning of collective
power – going from the I to the us, the individual to the community.
What have we learned about the power of community these last few
weeks?
◼ How is real life defined by belonging? How is it not?
◼ How do we build a cohesive power – as Jews? As citizens?

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 ‫ַוי ֵָּ֧רעּו אֹ ָּ ָ֛תנּו ַה ִּמ ְצ ִּ ִ֖רים ַויְעַ ּ֑נּונּו‬
And the Egyptians abused us and afflicted us
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This year, many of us have confronted Jew-hatred for the first time in our lives.
We need to decide: do we flee or fight, do we dodge confrontation or keep living
our lives, as some try to make anything Israel, Zionist, or even Jewish radioactive.
On March 7, 2024, David Suissa of the Jewish Journal warned “We Can’t Allow
Fear to Quiet Us Down”:
“Instead of caving… our community should push back at every turn. One, we
should continue the fight to eliminate the harassment and intimidation of Jews
using all legal means at our disposal; and two, stage more and more Jewish events
while insisting on better and tougher security.

What shouldn’t be an option is to give in to the intimidators. Any time we do so is

another victory for the haters. As a friend mentioned recently, Jew haters would
love nothing better than to move Jewish and Zionist voices “underground,”
perhaps because they know the power of our collective voice.

Indeed, if there is one freedom Jews have valued in our long journey in America it
is the freedom to speak freely and without fear. That freedom is priceless not just
for Jews but for anyone who understands the soul of our country.

How ironic that haters are now using their own freedom of expression to
suffocate ours. It’s the cynicism of “freedom of speech for me, but not for thee.”

It’s bad enough that we’re forced to confront a troubling rise in antisemitic
bullying. The least we can do is make sure we come out of this fight with a louder
and more assertive voice, not a quieter one.

And that includes not moving our events to Zoom

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 ◼ Have you or friends of yours experienced Jew-hatred this year? What
happened? How did you feel?

◼ How do you think your local Jewish community has responded to the
upsurge in Jew-hatred? What has been effective – what hasn’t worked?

◼ Do you agree that the community needs to be more pro-active and more
proud?

◼ What can we do to reach out to our non-Jewish friends – explaining to

them that Jew-hatred is actually the disease of the non-Jew, not the
problem of the Jew?

The Ten Plagues ‫עשר מכות‬

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Muki Tsur
The Soldiers’ Chat (1967)

We express our ethical concerns and try to fulfill our moral mission to the world by
never rejoicing in our enemy’s sorrow. Spilling wine for each of the ten plagues --
and then some -- teaches that we are all God’s creatures. Sometimes, we cannot
avoid war, but we must never forget our responsibility to minimize the violence –
and acknowledge the mutual suffering. Even in 1967, thousands of years later,
when Arab armies sought Israel’s destruction, Muki Tsur and his comrades on
kibbutz quoted in the famous book The Seventh Day – in Hebrew The Soldiers’ Chat
-- remembered their moral responsibilities – and expressed their regrets. Even in
1967, this new generation of Israelis still felt the pain of Europe, the warnings of
Europe, the fear of enjoying their newfound power too much.

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 “Our feelings are mixed. We swore never to return to the Europe of the Holocaust;
yet we refuse to lose that Jewish sense of identifying with victims. We are the
ultimate contrast to the ghetto Jew who witnessed the slaughter, felt utterly
helpless, heard the cries, yet could only rebel at heart while dreaming about gaining
the strength to react, strike back, fight. We do react, strike back, fight, for we have
no choice—while dreaming of being able to stop one day, and live in peace.”

◼ How does an army balance between “striking back” and “identifying

with victims?” Does Israel succeed or fail in striking that balance? How?
◼ In what other ways do you sense the desire to “contrast” with the
ghetto in Modern Israel?
◼ How in Israel – and our own lives -- have we left the ghetto Jew behind?
How have we not?
◼ In these days of division and confusion, how do you experience Muki
Tsur’s challenge to fight – because there’s no choice – without stopping
to dream about the day after?
In that context, consider the assessment of John Spencer, an urban warfare
expert at West Point: “The truth is that Israel has painstakingly followed the laws
of armed conflict and implemented many steps to prevent civilian casualties,
despite enormous challenges. Israel's military faced over 30,000 Hamas militants
in over 400 miles of defensive and offensive tunnels embedded in and under
civilian areas, populations and protected sites such as hospitals, mosques,
schools, and United Nations facilities across multiple cities…. Ultimately,
comparisons with both past and modern cases highlight the fact that there is
almost no way to defeat an entrenched enemy defender without destruction,
even while implementing all feasible precautions and limits on the use of force
required by the laws of war.”
Newsweek, 12 Feb 2024

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 Dayenu ‫דיינו‬
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A Modern Dayenu Celebrating Israel’s 76th Anniversary
After thanking God for the many miracles of the Exodus, the flight from Egypt,
let’s contemplate the amazing self-generated miracles of the Zionism movement.
This was a flight from a latter-day Egypt of Exile, of powerlessness and
humiliation, into a movement that helped create a modern state that, for all its
challenges, still makes all of us prouder, stronger freer. This year, let’s use the
Seders not just to start counting the Omer toward Shavuot, but also to count
toward the Yom Ha’atzmaut, Israel Independence Day celebrations, even with the
fears and challenges of this moment!

How many benefits did we generate for ourselves and the world with the Zionist
Leap of Hope—Theodor Herzl’s vision that tomorrow will be better than today,
and that it is our responsibility to roll up our sleeves and make it happen?

If Zionists had only re-established Jewish sovereignty in the Jewish homeland—

Dayenu! That, would have been miraculous enough.

If Zionists had only offered a welcoming Jewish home to Holocaust survivors,

refugees from Arab lands, and other oppressed Jews while preserving civil
liberties and free immigration for all—Dayenu! That, would have been miraculous
enough.

If Zionists had only returned the Jews to history, transforming Jews’ image from
the world’s victims to actors on history’s stage, with rights and responsibilities—
Dayenu! That, would have been miraculous enough.

If Zionists had only built a western-style capitalist democracy with a strong Jewish
flavor—Dayenu! That, would have been miraculous enough.

If Zionists had only created a dynamic old-new Jewish culture making Israel a
central force in revitalizing Jewish secular and religious life in the Jewish
homeland and abroad while serving as a bastion of Western culture too—Dayenu!
That, would have been miraculous enough.

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If Zionists had only revived Hebrew, developing “lashon hakodesh,” the Holy
Language, into a living language for everyday life reflecting and fueling our
national revival—Dayenu! That, would have been miraculous enough.

If Zionists had only strengthened a proud Diaspora, giving all Jews throughout the
world more spring in our steps and more inspiring songs in our hearts—Dayenu!
That, would have been miraculous enough.

How much more so are the many benefits that Zionism doubled and
quadrupled for us, in Israel and throughout the world? Thanks to this movement
of Jewish nationalism, rooted in our sense that we are people, Am Yisrael, with
ties to a particular homeland, Eretz Yisrael, and rights to establish a state in that
homeland, Medinat Yisrael.

Therefore, in merely 76 years since 1948, we, the Jewish people:

◼ Re-established Jewish sovereignty in the Jewish homeland.

◼ Welcomed home over three million Jewish refugees.
◼ Transformed the Jew’s image from the world’s victim to actors on
history’s stage.
◼ Built a western-style capitalist democracy with a strong Jewish flavor.
◼ Created a dynamic old-new Jewish culture.
◼ Revived Hebrew.
◼ Strengthened a proud Diaspora.

We did all of this while being well-aware that we must keep dreaming, building,
improving. Because for all we have achieved, we have not yet fulfilled all our high
ideals. Still, at this moment, we celebrate all the good, keep striving for better,
continue to escape from our old traumas, our old weaknesses, our perennial
powerlessness, our ever-so-draining victimhood, and sing “Dayenu!”
Gil Troy

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Follow-up Thoughts:

◼ Some might prefer to thank God, others thank the Zionists, still others
thank both. Think about it. Did Zionism have to be secular enough
to succeed yet Jewish enough to be legitimate -- or Jewish enough
to succeed yet secular enough to be legitimate? No matter how secular and
person-centered you might be, it was the Jewishness of the state, the
longstanding ties to this particular homeland of Israel, that united Jews,
mobilized them, and connected them to one another and to Israel. And no
matter how religious and God-centered you might be, if you credit God
with creating the State, the Zionist movement still had to speak the secular
languages of nationalism and national rights and democracy and national
institutions, to function in the modern world and be accepted in the
community of nations.

◼ More simply, this is a chance to ask about the “miracles” of Israel. How do
they affect your life? And what is the next miracle we most desperately
need in the Promised Land today?

Rabban Gamliel ‫רבן גמליאל‬

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It’s a fascinating paradox. Just as the Haggadah reduces this wonderfully complex
holiday of Passover to three fundamental symbols – Pesach, Matzah and Maror --
the Paschal sacrifice, the bread of affliction, and bitter herbs – it goes wildly
philosophical on us too. “Al Shoom Mah,” it asks – “what’s it all about, what does
it mean?” That open question, which inviting debate, helps us understand one of
the great paradoxes of Israeli and Jewish history. Most of Israel’s founders, and
most of the three million immigrants Israel has absorbed, did not come from
democracies. But Israel has a robust democratic culture, because Judaism itself
inculcates within its most traditional adherents the democratic ideas that we all
have inherent rights and dignity because we are created in God’s image – and
that we all have something to say and argue and yell and scream about.

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In that spirit, and well-aware of the robust debate occurring in Israel today about
what it means to create a modern Jewish democracy, let’s debate what it means
for Israel to be the first democracy in world history that is Jewish, and the first
polity in Jewish history that is democratic:
◼ “The Land of Israel was the birthplace of the Jewish people. Here their
spiritual, religious and political identity was shaped. Here they first attained
statehood, created cultural values of national and universal significance and
gave to the world the eternal Book of Books.” Israel’s Declaration of
Independence, 1948
◼ My Zionism is a secular nationalism. The Jewish people have a twofold
character: We are a nation—Am Yisra’el, the people Israel—and we are
what Americans call a “community of faith.” This is not a common
combination; it is shaped by the peculiar history of the Jews. But statehood
requires separation: the Jewish state should be an expression of the people,
not of the faith (which many of our people don’t share, at least not in its
Orthodox form). . . . Michael Walzer (b. 1935)

• “If you are religious you are supposed to be right-wing. If you are left-wing,
you’re supposed to be secular. Now, it’s not just the fault of the religious
that have moved so dramatically to the right, I think it’s also the fault of the
secular Israelis who have gotten it into their heads that they can do away
with their Jewish identity, with their Jewish culture. This is ridiculous. I
annoy my secular Israeli friends by telling them from every podium that if
they do not see themselves as Jews that means that they are imperialists,
colonialists, who have no business being here. They should leave the land to
its native people. The indigenous people then are the Palestinians. The
reason you are here is because you are a Jew! . . .” Leah Shakdiel (b. 1951)

• “A fundamental argument divides the Jewish public in Israel: Is the core

principle we are called upon to uphold that of human freedom and dignity,
the defense of which is the state’s primary objective, or is it the preservation
of the Jewish people and Jewish identity? These values may be compared to
two carts, which on a broad flat plain can travel side by side in perfect
harmony. On a steep and narrow incline, however, when one cart is forced
to stand aside to make way for the other, liberals will prefer the cart
bearing democratic values while the guardians of tradition will opt for the

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 second cart. I count myself among the second group and the basic unit to
which I belong, for better or worse, is that of the Jewish people.”
Rabbi Ya’akov Medan (b. 1950)

◼ Which texts best represents your position – how do you balance “Jewish”
and “democratic” -- which cart should go first when turning a narrow
corner?
◼ Do you accept the balance of Israel’s Declaration of Independence, trying to
synthesize both positions?
◼ More personally, do you define yourself as more of a religious-Jew, more of
a peoplehood-Jew, or both? And what do your closest friends and relatives
think?

Bitter Herbs ‫מרור‬

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Hayyim Nahman Bialik
City of Slaughter (1903)

You taste freedom by remembering unfreedom – the misery in Egypt, the

pogroms in Russia, the Holocaust. The seder challenges us to remember what our
people suffered thousands of years ago – and subsequently. Feeling the pain in
the great poet Hayim Nahman Bialik’s poem, the Jewish Guernica, written after
the Kishinev Pogroms in 1903, we wonder, “why anti-Semitism,” why have so
many hated the Jews so much? why does it continue, today? And what can we
learn from that?

“Arise and go now to the city of slaughter/ Into its courtyard wind thy way;/ There
with thine own hand touch, and with the eyes of/ thine head,/ Behold on tree, on
stone, on fence, on mural clay,/ The spattered blood and dried brains of the
dead….”

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 ◼ How central has Jew-hatred been in shaping your understanding of
Judaism?
◼ How problematic has Jew-hatred been in your own life?
◼ How do you balance Katzenelson’s memory and forgetfulness regarding
Jew-hatred?
◼ How do you feel when Nazis yell “Jews will not replace us?” and take
their hatred of the Jewish people out on individual Jews?
◼ How do you feel when some Progressives protesters falsely blame the
Israeli army for American police brutality celebrate the rape and murder
of October 7 as some victory, and take their hatred of the Jewish state
out on individual Jews?
◼ Why do we have such a hard time recognizing that Jew-hatred today
sometimes comes from the Left and sometimes from the Right?

In Every Generation ‫בכל דור ודור‬

______________________________________________________________________________

Yehudah Amichai, All the Generations Before Me (1968)

We are compelled to tell and retell the story, not just to remember our ancestors’
suffering, not just to echo the Zionist line “Never Again,” but to learn from the
past. The poet Yehudah Amichai wondered what materials, experiences, and yes,
values and beliefs, came from his ancestors – and what kind of obligation that
entails – which is what the Seder and Zionism are all about.

“All the generations before me contributed me/ Little by little so that I will arise
here in Jerusalem/ All at once, like a synagogue or a charitable institution/It
obligates. My name is my donor’s name./It obligates.”

◼ How did all the generations before you contribute to you?

◼ Does it obligate? How? Why?
◼ Now, read the late Israeli jurist Ruth Gavison. How does Amichai’s sense
of rootedness, of obligation, help people be “thick” and not “thin” in

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 their identities? How does this help us understand the balance between
Israel as Jewish and democratic, not always choosing between the two?

Statement of Principles Gavison-Medan Covenant (2003)

“I believe that a humanism or liberalism advocating a “thin person,” limited only
to one’s self or one’s family, is unnecessarily sterile. Affiliations with particular
group identities offer individuals central foundational missions in their lives.
Indeed, the human rights tradition recognizes freedom of religion and association
along with a people’s right to self-determination. There is, then, a general
universal demand that individuals or groups be permitted to act on behalf of
collective particularistic goals (within the operative constraints of the general
humanistic framework). I, therefore, reject the claim that there is a built-in
contradiction between the Jewish nationalist movement, Zionism, and human
rights, which differs in some essential way from the perennial tension between
universal values and a particular culture. It is interesting to note that many of
those who insist on this alleged contradiction nevertheless champion other
national movements enthusiastically, including Palestinian nationalism. . . .”

When Israel Left Egypt ‫בצאת ישראל ממצרים‬

(mini-Hallel in Maggid)
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Rabbi Yitz Greenberg, The Jewish Way, 1988

The trauma of exile and of slavery hangs over the Hagaddah, even as we sing
songs of Praise, the first Hallel. Rabbi Yitz Greenberg has built his extraordinary
career on that classically Jewish seesaw, teaching about the Holocaust, mobilizing
to free Soviet Jewry, while delighting in Israel and our newfound freedom. In his
classic holiday guide The Jewish Way, this theologian and historian turns
accountant, showing how Israel Independence Day, then Jerusalem Day, cancel
out one day of mourning at a time, adding celebrations of thanksgiving in return.
This process challenges us to wonder how much we internalize the historical

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trauma – and the ongoing hurts of anti-Semitism and anti-Zionism – and to
wonder how to move forward to celebrate Israel, to celebrate Jewish life today.

“For nineteen hundred years, as the role of Jewish suffering unfolded, the Jewish
calendar expanded with days of sadness…. In Israel’s War of Independence an
aroused Jewry beat back the invaders by the narrowest of margins. The victory
upheld the state, and the celebration of that redemption added Yom
Ha’Atzmaut—a happy day—to the calendar. Since Independence Day fell during
the Sefirah Period, the modern Exodus reclaimed one day from the ranks of the
days of sorrow and added it to the days of joy…. Step by step, victory by victory,
the Jewish people are reversing the tide of Jewish history from mourning to
celebration, from death to life.”

◼ Think of one or two historical periods when your ancestors celebrated

the Seder – compare their tone and content and ours -- what do you
imagine was similar? What was different?
◼ How can Israel, with all the challenges we read about in the paper, be
the 5th happiest country in the world? What does that teach us about
Judaism? About Zionism?
◼ Does the Jewish calendar need to be shifted in tone, or is the balance
just right now? How could that be done?

‫ גאל ישראל‬,‫ברוך אתה אדוני‬

Blessed are You, God, Redeemer of Israel
______________________________________________________

My cousin, Adele Raemer, spent 11 hours in her protected room on Kibbutz Nirim.
Miraculously, she and her family survived. But she knows that the problems
multiplied after October 7th – so, do, did the opportunities for redemption as she

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wrote on March 5, 2024, “My View from the Border: One Hundred and Fifty Days
Into Swords of Iron”
“….October 7th was just the beginning. It triggered a series of challenging events
that continue till today. It has led to the indefinite uprooting of residents from our
homes, families, places of work, and schools. With no idea of how long we would
be hosted in hotels in Eilat, refugees in our own land, uncertainty loomed over
when or whether we would ever be able to return home. The sense of
displacement and loss is a heavy burden to carry as we grapple with an uncertain
future and the daunting task of preserving the fabric of our community and
rebuilding our lives from the ground up….
One of the bright lights was that, in our darkest times we received amazing hugs
from Am Yisrael – the people of Israel – as well as philanthropic bodies such as
the International Fellowship for Christians and Jews and different retailers (Fox
Home, Azrieli). They provided generous donations to purchase clothing and other
basic items at our darkest time of need, after having left everything behind in a
warzone. I will never forget the site that greeted us in the hotel that very first
night when we arrived in Eilat, traumatized and weary after surviving the attacks,
being awake for most of the previous two days and evacuating under fire through
an active war zone. There, an entire hall of essential items awaited us in the hotel.
It was jam-packed with clothing of all sizes, toothpaste, diapers and other basic
supplies that had been donated by individuals and retailers, collected already on
the 7th and 8th of October by the citizens of the city to help those of us who
escaped with nothing but the clothes on our backs. Our homes had been
destroyed, but thanks to the people who welcomed us so warmly, our spirits were
being protected….
It’s hard to believe that this nightmare from which I am still hoping to wake up
began 5 months ago, during the swan-song of summer and here we are: fields
of red anemones are already making way for the yellow and white
chrysanthemums of spring. We haven’t yet taken down our traditional Sukkot
holiday huts, but Passover is already just around the corner. In the same way that
the mantra of the Nova festival survivors is: “We will dance again,” my mantra
and that of many from my kibbutz and my region is: “We will build again.” Bigger.
Better. Safer. Stronger. We will again be pioneers, as we were 77 years ago when
our veteran members founded our kibbutz in the barren desert, leading the way
and inspiring other communities to return and rebuild, as well. For ourselves, and
for the young families whom we hope will return, and the new ones we hope will
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can’t even say if my daughter will return with my grandchildren. But I will return,
because if you allow terror to chase you away, you had better get used to
running….”
◼ Did you help give the “amazing hug” Adele and others experienced? What
did you do? If not, what can you still do?
◼ How does Israel move forward? What should the Day After look like,
ideologically, theologically, not just politically?
◼ What can the modern pioneering look like in Israel, throughout the Jewish
world?

The Meal ‫שולחן עורך‬

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This year, some may question how we can have a festive Passover at all, with so
much death hovering about, with so many threats still not resolves. The Jewish
and Zionist response is – how can we not. Israelis keep shouting “Lo Nafseek
Lirkod,” We won’t stop dancing! And that is the message of yet another
heartbreaking Last Will and Testament, written by a 21-year-old soldier,
Staff Sgt. Shachar Fridman, 21, a member of the Paratroopers’ Brigade 101st
Battalion, killed while fighting Hamas terrorists in Gaza on November 19. Fridman
was interviewed shortly after his unit fought off terrorists on October 7. Still
reeling from the fights in Tel Aviv over publicly observing Yom Kippur, he
admitted he even considered leaving the country. But he told his interviewers,
that after Octoberr 7: “I see the nation now, and I see a future for our state… I am
ready to fight for a country like this.”

A month later, Israelis were moved by his Ethical Will, which can inspire us – and
free us – to enjoy ourselves over this Pesach meal, and holiday:

Be Good People
Smile.
Strive to make every person you meet smile too.

Be open to criticism and always try to improve yourself.

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Know that the greatest quality a person can have is the ability to make another
person happy.

Open your ears to the needs of others and open your eyes to their pain.

Try to smile as much as possible even when it’s hard.

Pay attention to the small people who fall in the corners of the eye.

Appreciate the little things the world has to offer, especially nature and music.

And most importantly, be good people in your own way. Don’t let society
dictate to you what makes you good people, just try as hard as you can, and
even when you fall, know that that’s the road to success.

Love yourselves and the world. When you radiate happiness, a circle of joy will
slowly form that will create a better world.

Song of Ascent ‫שיר המעלות‬

(before Birkat HaMazon)
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Rabbi Ben-Zion Meir Chai Uziel (c. 1950)
You cannot sing Birkat HaMazon, the Grace after Meal, without constantly
bumping into the Land of Israel – and Jerusalem. This powerful poetic presence
reminds us how central the Land of Israel is to the Torah and People of Israel, and
how deeply spiritual the Jewish and Zionist ties are to the land. The first Sephardi
Jewish rabbi, Rabbi Uziel, who helped write the Prayer for the State of Israel,
captures this by taking a classically Western idea “nationalism” and showing not
just its Jewish roots and resonance, but its deep spiritual and moral power.
Navigating all these worlds helps us understand why American Jews fit so well in

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America. Many of the building blocks of America, of liberal democracy, are
equally steeped and shaped by the Bible, by Jewish ideas, and by what really is
this parallel Zionist sensibility.
Nationalism is “a worldview committed to improving our human life on earth. It’s
about achieving the peak of human consciousness and success, by imparting the
truths about goodness and law and morality to our descendants and spreading
these spiritual ideas and ethics ‘not by power and not by force’ but with
explanations and insights that foster appreciation of these attitudes’ spiritual
power and truth, and that cultivate goodness within all those who follow their
ways. . . .”
◼ Is there a spiritual power to nationalism in general? To Zionism in
particular?
◼ How can nationalists tap into this positive power Rabbi Uziel addresses,
and not the negative power we often see today?
◼ Compare the text with the Song of Ascents: what’s Zionist about both?

Compare the text with Yuli Tamir’s thoughts on nationalism and

particularism, when she writes, in A Jewish and Democratic State
(2000)
“This ideal state of neutrality misconstrues the role of culture in public life.
Trying to restrict culture to the private sphere, it empties the state of its symbolic
role. The result is a state that can serve all its citizens impartially but cannot be a
home to any of them. A home is not an institution, not even a fair and efficient
one, but a place to which one is tied emotionally, which reflects one’s history,
memories, fears, and hopes. A home cannot have merely universal features; it
must always be embedded in the particular.”

◼ How do we have a “home” and not just an “institution” as a nation –

what are the advantages and disadvantages?

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 Pour out Your Wrath ‫שפך חמתך‬
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Leonard Fein
“Days of Awe” 1982

My late grandfather Leon Gerson z”l really did pour out his wrath when chanting
this passage, summoning centuries of suffering as his voice quivered and he read
these words every seder. The writer and social activist Leonard Fein was well
aware of the psychic, moral, and physical costs required to keep alive what he
called the “Jewish body,” but he never stopped worrying about the Jewish soul.
His charming call for a “nervous breakdown” is that rare acknowledgment – which
flows through the Haggadah -- that life is complex, that there are competing
forces and impulses we as humans have to balance, which Fein did for decades as
an American Jewish leader – and critic.

“There are two kinds of Zionists in the world: most of us are both. We want to be
normal, we want to be special: we want to be a light unto the nations, we want to
be a nation like all the others. … I vastly prefer a people that chooses to risk a
collective nervous breakdown, as we do, by endorsing both visions, both versions.”

◼ What kind of Zionist are you? Do you want Israel to be normal or

special?
◼ How is Israel normal? How is it special?
◼ What are the benefits of Fein’s “nervous breakdown”?

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 Hallel ‫הלל‬
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Golda Meir
“Speech at the UN Marking Israel’s 10th Anniversary” (1958)

Just as the Haggadah ritualizes the giving of thanks, so, too, we should ritualize
moments to appreciate the miracle of Israel, its many accomplishments. Thinking
back to 1958 – it’s amazing how much had already been done – and equally
amazing how much has been done since.

“… our purposes since the establishment of our state have remained unaltered: to
rebuild a poor, barren land, to enable the return of an ancient people to its source,
to regain our independence and national self-expression, to live in peace with all
peoples near and far, and to take our place in the community of free nations.”

◼ How many of those goals has Israel fulfilled?

◼ How many new goals and achievements would you add for a 76th
anniversary celebration?
◼ What achievements do you hope Israel will be able to celebrate on its
80th?

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 Next Year in Jerusalem ‫לשנה הבאה בירושלים‬
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Naomi Shemer
Yerushalayim Shel Zahav (1967)
All countries have capitals that house their government buildings, few nations
have capital cities that house their people’s souls. Think about the many ways
Jerusalem functions as a metaphor in the Haggadah – and through Jewish history
– of Jewish freedom and of power, of Jewish longing and of spirituality. That one
songwriter could capture that so well in 1967 as Naomi Shemer did, especially,
then, on the eve of a terrifying yet ultimately transformational war, is one of
those cinematic moments come to life you couldn’t make convincing in a novel,
but the historian records and tries to explain as well as humanly possible.

“Back to the wells and to the fountains/Within the ancient walls/ The sound of
horn from Temple mountain/ Loudly and proudly calls…” [or just sing the whole
song!!!]

◼ What was your first impression of Jerusalem? Why is it such a powerful

symbol to Jews? To others?
◼ What significance, if any, in your life, does the Jews’ return “Back to the
wells” have?
◼ How do you navigate Jerusalem’s poetic and political significance,
especially with the ongoing controversy around the US embassy re-
location to Jerusalem – which few other countries have followed? Does
that typically Zionist fusion lead to inspiration or just confusion?

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 Rebuild The Temple ‫אדיר הוא‬
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Theodor Herzl, Der Judenstaat (1896)

Theodor Herzl was not the first Zionist, or the first Zionist visionary. He was,
however, the founder of the formal Zionist movement and the man thus most
responsible for helping modern Jewry leave its Egypt of perma-exile and reach the
promised land of a rebuilt and now thriving Jewish state. So as one of the Seder’s
final songs contemplates the building of the Temple, it’s worth contemplating the
re-establishment of the Jewish State.

“We shall live at last as free people on our own soil, and die peacefully in our own
homes. The world will be liberated by our freedom, enriched by our wealth,
magnified by our greatness. And whatever we attempt there to accomplish for our
own welfare, will react powerfully and beneficially for the good of humanity.”

◼ How can one people’s return to their “own soil” do “good” for
humanity? Are there better and worse forms of nationalism?
◼ How has this people’s return to their soil helped the world?
◼ What do we hope to be liberated from now – personally? Collectively as
a people? Universally in the world?

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 Chad Gadya ‫חד גדיא‬
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Rachel Sharansky Danziger (2018)

Finally, as Chad Gadya shows us the interconnectedness of it all, we end by

looking at ourselves, the Torchbearers. We are the heirs of Moses and his
generation. We are the heirs of Herzl and his generation. We are the heirs of Ben-
Gurion and Meir and Sharansky and their generations. And we still have work to
do, as Rachel Sharansky Danziger, the daughter of Natan and Avital Sharansky,
reminds us.

“In Israel, we grow up in the shade of bigger-than-life heroes…. Our parents’

heroism enabled us to establish a living, happy society in Israel. As we participate
in civil society, as we interact with each other, as we do our jobs well, we are
building Israel from within.”

◼ How do you build a country “from within”?

◼ What indeed remains to be done in your country? In Israel?
◼ How do you personally contribute? How can you?

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 DESSERT!

20 ZIONIST ONE-LINERS:
These can be linked to multiple passages but also:
They can be shared with seder-goers, with each person getting one quotation on a
small slip of paper and sharing one of three reactions either
1. “Hmm, this is interesting, it explains something Zionist ideology or history”
2. “Uh-uh I disagree with the quotation”
3. “Wow, this really speaks to me and describes my Zionist vision (or one aspect of
it).

Leon Pinsker (1821-1891)

The Jews are ghosts, ethereal, disconnected…. This pathological
Judeaophobia will haunt Europe until the Jews have a national home like all other
nations.

Theodor Herzl (1860-1904)

We are a people – one people… We shall live at last as free people on our
own soil, and in our own homes peacefully die.. The world will be liberated by our
freedom, enriched by our wealth, magnified by our greatness.

Rachel Bluwstein (1890-1931)

I have not sung you, my country, not brought glory to your name with the
great deeds of a hero or the spoils a battle yields. But on the shores of the Jordan
my hands have planted a tree, and my feet have made a pathway through your
fields.

Ahad Ha’am (1856-1927)

Judaism is fundamentally national, and all the efforts of the ‘Reformers’ to
separate the Jewish religion from its national element have no result except to
ruin both the nationalism and the religion…. From this center, the spirit of
Judaism will radiate to the great circumference to inspire them with new life and
to preserve the over-all unity of our people.

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Ze’ev Jabotinsky (1880-1940)
The phenomenon called Zionism may include all kinds of dreams—a ‘model
community,’ Hebrew culture, perhaps even a second edition of the Bible—but all
this longing for wonderful toys of velvet and silver is nothing in comparison with
that tangible momentum of irresistible distress and need by which we are
propelled and borne.

Rav Abraham Yitzhak Kook (1865-1935)

The State of Israel, “is ideal in its foundation . . . the foundation of God’s
throne in the world.” Eretz Yisra’el is part of the very essence of our nationhood;
it is bound organically to its very life and inner being.

Henrietta Szold (1860-1945)

The Jewish national home will be “… a blessing for all future times
redounding to the benefit not only of those who will make use of their sanctuary
rights in Palestine, but also those who like ourselves remaining in a happy,
prosperous country, will be free to draw spiritual nourishment from a center
dominated wholly by Jewish traditions and the Jewish ideals of universal peace
and universal brotherhood.”

David Ben-Gurion (1886-1973)

Israel cannot just be a refuge. . . . it has to be much, much more…. The new
Jew builds Am Segula, an enlightened people… There are also Jews in the lands of
prosperity who are deeply apprehensive about the growing assimilation and the
fragmentation of the Jewish soul in the Diaspora, who are increasingly aware that
only in Israel can a Jew live a full life, both as a Jew and as a human being. . . .

Amos Oz (1939-2018)
I cannot use such words as “the promised land” or “the promised borders,”
because I do not believe in the one who made the promise. Happy are those who
do: their Zionism is simple and self-evident. Mine is hard and complicated. …I am
a Zionist in all that concerns the redemption of the Jews, but not when it comes
to the redemption of the Holy Land. . . .

Menachem Begin (1912-1992)

The fighting Jew . . . whom the world considered dead and buried never to
rise again, has arisen.

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Abraham Joshua Heschel (1907–1972)
The State of Israel is a spiritual revolution, not a one-time event, but an
ongoing revolution.

Letty Cottin Pogrebin (b. 1939)

I am a feminist Zionist.
Zionism is to Jews what feminism is to women. Zionism began as a national
liberation movement and has become an ongoing struggle for Jewish solidarity,
pride, and unity. Similarly, feminism, which began as a gender-liberation
movement, has become an ongoing struggle for women’s solidarity, pride, and
unity. …
Zionism is simply an affirmative action plan on a national scale.

Eugene Borowitz (1924–2016)

There has been a tremendous positive, constructive, worthwhile impact of
the State of Israel on Jews of my persuasion and on myself. That specific impact . .
. has been a general sense of positive Jewish self-acceptance and . . . to help the
synagogue point to a place where being a Jew is not only real, but visible… In my
own case, what has strengthened and deepened has been a very personal
existential sense of the particularity of what it is to be a Jew, the specificity of
being a Jew as a member of an ethnic community.

Yael “Yuli” Tamir (b. 1954)

A home is not an institution, not even a fair and efficient one, but a place to which
one is tied emotionally, which reflects one’s history, memories, fears, and hopes.
A home cannot have merely universal features; it must always be embedded in
the particular.

Stav Shaffir (b. 1985)

Occupy Zionism!
Don’t preach to us about Zionism, because real Zionism means dividing the
budget equally among all the citizens. Real Zionism is taking care of the weak.
Real Zionism is solidarity, not only in battle but in everyday life, day to day to
watch out for each other. That is Israeliness. That is Zionism…

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Benjamin Ish-Shalom (b. 1953)
Outside the land and without sovereignty, each person is responsible only for
himself and his dependents. Inside the land with sovereign existence,
responsibility becomes a national one, and an individual must choose the good of
the collective over his own....

Einat Ramon (b. 1959)

My particularist perspectives: I am a Womanist and a Zionist.
Living in the Land of Israel grants Jews the opportunity to indulge their
particularism at its best, expressing Jewishness every moment…. We not only
celebrate the Sabbath and the holidays on Jewish time and in our Jewish space,
but, today, we run Israeli military, agriculture, industry, and economics on Torah
time and in the Torah’s sacred space. …

Jonathan Sacks (1948-2020)

The Israel of continuity must become Jewry’s classroom, the Diaspora’s
ongoing seminar in Jewish identity. Once, Israel saved Jews. In the future, it will
save Judaism. . . .
The immediate question is less whether Jews are at home in London or
Jerusalem than whether they are at home in their Jewishness….

The World Zionist Organization

Zionism, the national liberation movement of the Jewish people . . . views a
Jewish, Zionist, democratic and secure State of Israel to be the expression of
the common responsibility of the Jewish people.

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