CCode Part1

The document discusses techniques for improving charisma and attractiveness. It emphasizes controlling one's thoughts to feel the right emotions. Other topics covered include subcommunications, emotional contagion, cultivating intuitions, approaches, conversations, signs of interest, and achieving a state of flow.

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CCode Part1

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David Tian, Ph.D.

presents…

CHARISMA CODE: www.auratransformation.org

Part 1
What You’re Going To Learn
❖ Everything…
❖ It all starts with your beliefs and thoughts
❖ Feelings
❖ What to do
❖ What to say
❖ How to be your best self on a consistent basis
What’s The REAL Problem?
❖ It’s NOT that you don’t know what to say or do
❖ It’s not even bad Body Language, Eye Contact, Tonality
❖ It’s that YOU (your character) are not ATTRACTIVE enough
❖ Because you THINK the wrong things and BELIEVE the wrong
things
❖ Which leads you to FEEL the wrong things
❖ Which leads you to say and do the wrong things
❖ And when this happens consistently, it creates a character
Think and Get Laid: My Secret
❖ So it all starts with your THOUGHTS
❖ That’s why mastering women is thoroughly covered in ancient
philosophy
❖ Starts and ends with transforming your thoughts and your
“self”
❖ Moral Self-Cultivation (Confucian, Daoist, Buddhist, Greek,
Stoic, Christian)
❖ Flow (Peak Performance, Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy,
and the good Self-Help)
Sub-Communications
❖ Attraction is an emotion, not about logic or rationality
❖ Attraction is due 90%+ to your body language and tonality
(not your words)…and your BL and T are almost always
due to your emotions
❖ We are constantly sub-communicating our emotions to
other people and unconsciously reading other people’s
sub-communications
❖ Micro-managing sub-communications is almost impossible
and counter-productive
Emotional Contagion
❖ Mirror Neurons
❖ Extracts emotional meaning from nonverbal images
unconsciously
❖ Bypasses brain’s verbal processing areas
❖ Go First
❖ Induce the desired emotional state in others by first
generating it in yourself
GAZE FOR A MOMENT
AT THIS FACE:
Cultivate Your Intuitions
❖ The secret from ancient and medieval Asian philosophy
❖ Natural: Automatic responses, Unconscious cognitions
❖ How?
❖ INTERNAL change: Change your thoughts to change your world
❖ EXTERNAL change
❖ Fundamentals (BLTEC)
❖ Do your Reps
❖ Drill, Rehearse, Practice (10,000 hour rule)
❖ Surround yourself with your goal (mentors, visualisations, environment)
Your Thought Life: The Deep Secret
❖ 80%+ of the secret to successful transformation is controlling your “thought
life”
❖ Christian, Confucian, Buddhist, Daoist, Islamic, Greek, Stoic, Cognitive-
Behavioural Therapy, Peak Performance, plus every effective
transformational method
❖ Monitor your thoughts “like a cat catching mice” (Buddhist/Neo-
Confucian) to root out any inappropriate thoughts or replace limiting beliefs
❖ Carefully select what you let into your mind
❖ People you spend time with
❖ What you see and hear
Review I
❖ What’s the Real Problem
❖ What Really Matters
❖ Think and Get Laid
❖ Sub-Communications
❖ Emotional Contagion
❖ Cultivate Your Intuitions by Controlling What You Allow Into Your Mind and
Monitoring What Your Thoughts
❖ How: Both Internal (~80%) and External (~20%)
❖ NEXT: Approaching and opening, Conversation, How to know whether she
likes you
Let Me Show You

❖ Wedding Crashers
❖ Russell Brand
❖ Aviator
❖ The Departed
Approaching and Opening
❖ Warm Up “approaches”
❖ Get in a social and talkative mood
❖ Stream of Consciousness drills
❖ Talk to EVERYONE
❖ Litmus Test
❖ Outcome Independence
❖ Direct. Implicit Direct. Indirect. Observational. Nonverbal. Playful. Low
Value. High Value.
❖ Best are unscripted, spontaneous Flow State openers
Controlling Conversations
❖ Good vs. Bad Threads
❖ Emotions vs. Logic/Rationality
❖ Other negative threads
❖ Speak from the Self: I, me, my, mine, etc.
❖ Threading: Words, Phrases, Themes
❖ Thread Amplification
❖ Thread Reversal
Conversational Hook Point
❖ Required for key escalation windows
❖ Basic Structure
❖ Your question/statement
❖ Her response
❖ Your response to her response
❖ PAUSE
❖ Her re-initiation
❖ Max 3 cycles
❖ Why Pause?
❖ “You can’t talk a girl into bed. Only she can talk herself into bed.”
How to Know She Likes You
❖ Physical
❖ Preening, Proximity, Directionality, Eye Contact,
Touching, Following, Arousal
❖ Verbal
❖ Agreement, Reactivity, Excitability, Attention,
Questions, Contributing to Conversation,
Vulnerability
❖ Investment: Time or Effort or $$$
Review II

❖ Approaching and Opening

❖ Basic Conversation
❖ Hook Point
❖ How to know she likes you
❖ NEXT: How to hack into your naturally attractive state
so that girls love you with hardly no effort by you at all
FLOW
❖ Effortless Excellence
❖ Think back to a time when…
❖ Key characteristics
❖ Attainable challenge
❖ Immediate feedback
❖ Time distortion
❖ Flow through life (the secret of ancient philosophy)
Paradox of Flow & Outcome Indepedence

❖ Must be outcome independent to get the outcome

❖ “Try not to try”
❖ The common theme of ancient philosophy and religion
❖ The Indirect Method to Salvation
❖ Figure out what will get you to your destination…
then forget the destination…and lose yourself in the
journey or process
Borrow from the Tao of Steve

❖ 1. Be Desireless
❖ 2. Be Excellent
❖ 3. Be Gone
Flow Hack
❖ This should occupy 90% of your mental processes during the
social activity:
❖ 1. Have Fun
❖ 2. Make Others Have Fun
❖ 3. Make Connections and See If People Meet Your Standards
❖ Screening Frame
❖ Remaining 10% can be Logistics and Your Sticking Points
❖ Prepare, rehearse, and drill BEFORE going out, not during
Other Flow Hacks I
❖ Quick-fixes for Flow (in the moment, in the venue)
❖ Mr. Bean Method
❖ Immersion in Environment
❖ Immersion in Ancillary Activity
❖ I-Spy
❖ Let the Body Lead
Further Reading on Flow

❖ Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly

Csikszentmihalyi
❖ The Rise of Superman: Decoding the Science of Ultimate
Human Performance by Steven Kotler
❖ Trying Not To Try: The Art and Science of Spontaneity by
Edward Slingerland
Review III
❖ Flow
❖ The Paradox of Flow and Outcome Independence
❖ Be Desireless
❖ Flow Hack
❖ Other shortcuts to Flow
❖ NEXT: What women really want, what Value is and
how you can have it so that women want YOU