Definition of Counseling
Definition of Counseling
Definition of Counseling
The Collins Dictionary of Sociology defines counseling as -the process of
guiding a person during a stage of life when reassessments or decisions
have to be made about himself x herself and his or her life course.”
Counselors are professionally trained and certifiedto perform
counseling. Their job is to provide advice or guidance in decision-making
in emotionally significant situations by helping clients explore and
understand their worlds and discover better ways and well-informed
choices in resolving an emotional or interpersonal problem.
G iven that the youth are the future of every nation, the role of
providing guidance to them at critical moments of their growth is a
serious nation-building undertaking. Counseling is a process and a
relationship between the client(s) and counselor. The role of the
counselor is to assist the person or persons (clients) in realizing a change
in behavior or attitude, to assist them to seek the achievement of goals,
assist them to find help, and in some cases, the role of counselors
includes the teaching of social skills, effective communication, spiritual
guidance, decision-making, and career choices. A counselor’s roles may
sometimes include aiding one in coping with a crisis. In some settings,
counseling includes premarital and marital counseling, grief and loss
(divorce, death, or amputation), domestic violence, and other types of
abuse, special counseling situations like terminal illness (death and
dying) as well as counseling of emotionally and mentally disturbed.
individuals. Counseling could be short-term (brief counseling) or long-
term.
Functions of Guidance Counselors
The Philippine Republic Act No. 9258 (Sec. 2-3) defines a guidance
counselor as a natural person who has been professionally registered and
licensed by a legitimate state entity and by virtue of specialized training
to perform the functions of guidance and counseling. The guidance
counselor’s functions include the use of an integrated approach to
developing a well-functioning individual primarily through:
They can administer career advocacy activities. These are activities that
are designed to guide secondary-level students in choosing the career
tracks that they intend to pursue. They also involve the provision of
career information and experiences, advising, coordinating and making
referrals, career talks, career and job fairs, parents’ orientations, and
conducting seminar-workshops on career decision-making.
STAGE I. What’s going on? This involves helping clients to clarify the
key issues calling for change.
STAGE II. What solutions make sense for me? This involves helping
clients determine outcomes.
Many other writers also use a three-stage model that looks at this
working relationship as having a beginning, middle, and end (Culley &
Bond 2004; Smith 2008). Alistair Ross (2003) provides a similar model:
starting out, moving on and letting go. However, stage models have less
use for many informal educators. The sort of relationship generally
involved in informal and community counseling does not generally
involve an explicit contract, and the time, duration, and frequency of
encounters are highly variable. Endings can be extremely abrupt, for
example. This said, by focusing on beginnings, middles, and endings
such models do help us to think about what might be involved at
different moments in relationships and to develop appropriate responses
(Smith 2008).
2. Reflective skills.
These skills are concerned with the other person’s frame of reference.
For Culley and Bond (2004), reflective skills ‘capture’ what the client is
saying and plays it back to them—but in the counselor’s own words. The
key skills are restating, paraphrasing, and summarizing; for instance, the
counselor may begin with, “Did you mean to say…?” (Culley & Bond
2004)
3. Probing skills.
These skills facilitate going deeper, asking more directed or leading
questions (leading in the sense that they move the conversation in a
particular direction). Culley and Bond (2004) looked at the different
forms that questions can take (and how they can help or inhibit
exploration), and the role of making statements. Making statements is
seen as generally gentler, less intrusive, and less controlling than asking
questions—although that does depend on the statement. Probing tends to
increase the helper’s control over both process and content, and as a
result, “should be used sparingly and with care, particularly in the early
stages of counseling” (Culley & Bond 2004). As Alistair Ross (2003) has
commented, counseling skills such as these are important and can be
developed through reflection and training. However, no matter how good
a person’s skills are, they must be matched by relational qualities.
Counselors also need to be strong in their relational qualities. The
distinction between good and poor practitioner lies in the belief system
of the helper, and how it translates into helping the relationship that he /
she puts forward. (Combs & Gonzales 1994)
Four Common Skills
Elsewhere and across applied social science disciplines, there are four
common skills that require studying the curriculum of
accumulated scientific knowledge across disciplines ; which are
skills for communicating, motivating, problem solving, and resolving
conflicts.
1. Communication skills.
These include the ability to actively listen, demonstrate understanding,
ask appropriate questions, and provide information as needed. Active
listening involves listening to the words, the gestures, and’ other body
language. It involves listening for what is said and what is not said. It
requires listening to content—its meaning and the emotions behind the
it. Demonstrating understanding includes responding to what is said by
repeating the same words or using other words, stating the meaning of
the words, and describing the feelings that accompany the words.
2. Motivational skills.
These skills are the ones that influence a helpee to take action after the
helping session or consultation. There is an old saying, “You can lead a
horse to water but you can’t make it drink.” Sometimes, we label
students as being ‘hard-headed’ because of their non-compliance with
suggestions. But we do not reflect on the why and how come. There are
varied theories related to this skill area. Needs, desires, incentives, drive,
cognitive dissonance, and other factors have been purported to motivate-
behaviors. Recognizing the client’s readiness for action must be
considered. Does the client have the necessary knowledge, skills, or
ability to perform the necessary tasks to correct the problem area? Are
there (attitudinal) concerns interfering with taking action?
3. Problem-solving skills.
These include differentiating between symptoms and the problem,
pinpointing probable causes and triggers for the problem, and then
generating a range of possible solutions to the actual problem.
I n the school setting, the role of the school counselor is more complex
since the needs of students can vary widely. This.gives rise to the more
dynamic and complex role of school counselors; it depended on a
school’s local circumstances as well as by the dynamism within the
profession itself. As such, school counselors assume many different
responsibilities and tasks based on the particular needs of students and
the school context. Historically, it was understood that “guidance
process occurs in an individual in a developmental sequence to the age of
maturity” (Coy 1999). Guidance, based on this insight, tends to be more
centered on the developmental needs of individuals.
Evidence show that the efforts to delineate the school counselor’s work
have been done in the United States and in the Philippines. In 2003, the
American School Counselor Association (ASCA) National Model was
developed and was “preceded by efforts at delineating the best way to
organize and manage professional school counselors’ work” (ASCA
2005). While professional associations such as ASCA have strongly
encouraged their members to endorse and utilize their model and the
national standards associated with it, school principals have historically
exerted a major influence on the role of school counselors regardless of
recommendations by professional organizations (Paisley & Borders
1995).
In this light, Ward and Worsham (1998) see the primary role of the K-6
or elementary school counselors to include development and
implementation or facilitation of classroom guidance activities,
individual and group counseling, parent education, parent and teacher
consultation, referrals to professionals and public agencies, and crisis
intervention and management. The goal is to address and remediate the
students’ problems early enough to increase the chance of helping them
successfully cope with unique demands that confront adolescents when
they reach middle school and high school. A smooth transition at this
stage prepares students for smoother transition in the next stage of life
and in the future.
o Maintain students’ confidential, appropriate, usable, and regulo.
updated cumulative records, which contain relevant informa
about students such as family background, test data, court,
notes, etc.
o Facilitate maintenance of an active networking with the home,
community, industry, and other relevant agencies for career and
job placement of students/graduates.
o Work in collaboration with all other units and personnel of the
school like the faculty, staff, and administrators to effect a
holistic guidance program.
o Help ensure that academic accommodation is made available to
learners with special needs.
o Provide referrals whenever necessary.
o Provide information materials on career and job opportunities.
o Provide skills development programs.
o Maintain an institutional and valid students’ appraisal data for
curricular and co-curricular placements for students.
o Sustain a continuous follow-up and monitoring of student
placement on a regular basis.
The late 1950s saw three schools of thought in psychology that became
very dominant: psychoanalysis, behaviorism, and the humanistic
perspective.
E lsewhere and across applied social science disciplines, there are four
common skills that require studying the curriculum of
accumulated scientific knowledge across disciplines ; which are
skills for communicating, motivating, problem solving, and resolving
conflicts.
1. Communication skills.
These include the ability to actively listen, demonstrate understanding,
ask appropriate questions, and provide information as needed. Active
listening involves listening to the words, the gestures, and’ other body
language. It involves listening for what is said and what is not said. It
requires listening to content—its meaning and the emotions behind the
it. Demonstrating understanding includes responding to what is said by
repeating the same words or using other words, stating the meaning of
the words, and describing the feelings that accompany the words.
2. Motivational skills.
These skills are the ones that influence a helpee to take action after the
helping session or consultation. There is an old saying, “You can lead a
horse to water but you can’t make it drink.” Sometimes, we label
students as being ‘hard-headed’ because of their non-compliance with
suggestions. But we do not reflect on the why and how come. There are
varied theories related to this skill area. Needs, desires, incentives, drive,
cognitive dissonance, and other factors have been purported to motivate-
behaviors. Recognizing the client’s readiness for action must be
considered. Does the client have the necessary knowledge, skills, or
ability to perform the necessary tasks to correct the problem area? Are
there (attitudinal) concerns interfering with taking action?
3. Problem-solving skills.
These include differentiating between symptoms and the problem,
pinpointing probable causes and triggers for the problem, and then
generating a range of possible solutions to the actual problem.
School Setting
In the school setting, the role of the school counselor is more complex
since the needs of students can vary widely. This.gives rise to the more
dynamic and complex role of school counselors; it depended on a
school’s local circumstances as well as by the dynamism within the
profession itself. As such, school counselors assume many different
responsibilities and tasks based on the particular needs of students and
the school context. Historically, it was understood that “guidance
process occurs in an individual in a developmental sequence to the age of
maturity” (Coy 1999). Guidance, based on this insight, tends to be more
centered on the developmental needs of individuals.
Evidence show that the efforts to delineate the school counselor’s work
have been done in the United States and in the Philippines. In 2003, the
American School Counselor Association (ASCA) National Model was
developed and was “preceded by efforts at delineating the best way to
organize and manage professional school counselors’ work” (ASCA
2005). While professional associations such as ASCA have strongly
encouraged their members to endorse and utilize their model and the
national standards associated with it, school principals have historically
exerted a major influence on the role of school counselors regardless of
recommendations by professional organizations (Paisley & Borders
1995).
In the Philippines, the roles of schools counselors have been prescribed
and professionalized the practice (Republic Act No. 9258). However, due
to lack of qualified school counselors, the guidance counseling functions
are rarely fully implemented and provided. Furthermore, school
counseling programs are understaffed and school counselors are faced
with an increasing student to counselor ratio. A ratio of 250 students for
every counselor is recommended by ASCA while the Commission on
Higher Education (CHED) for the Philippines recommends 1:500 or in a
worse situation, 1:1000 (CMO 21 s. 2006). Far from providing a full
range of guidance services, schools’ guidance programs have tended to
provide the minimum services such as administering psychometric tests,
interviewing new students and transferees, reacting to problems of
students, and counseling the problematic students.
In this light, Ward and Worsham (1998) see the primary role of the K-6
or elementary school counselors to include development and
implementation or facilitation of classroom guidance activities,
individual and group counseling, parent education, parent and teacher
consultation, referrals to professionals and public agencies, and crisis
intervention and management. The goal is to address and remediate the
students’ problems early enough to increase the chance of helping them
successfully cope with unique demands that confront adolescents when
they reach middle school and high school. A smooth transition at this
stage prepares students for smoother transition in the next stage of life
and in the future.
o Maintain students’ confidential, appropriate, usable, and regulo.
updated cumulative records, which contain relevant informa
about students such as family background, test data, court,
notes, etc.
o Facilitate maintenance of an active networking with the home,
community, industry, and other relevant agencies for career and
job placement of students/graduates.
o Work in collaboration with all other units and personnel of the
school like the faculty, staff, and administrators to effect a
holistic guidance program.
o Help ensure that academic accommodation is made available to
learners with special needs.
o Provide referrals whenever necessary.
o Provide information materials on career and job opportunities.
o Provide skills development programs.
o Maintain an institutional and valid students’ appraisal data for
curricular and co-curricular placements for students.
o Sustain a continuous follow-up and monitoring of student
placement on a regular basis.
Community Setting
The community has the greatest and widest application of counseling
services considering the diversity of people who constitute the
community. There are people who are in conflict with the law, socially
marginalized, people who suffer a loss of all kinds, those living in
institutional homes, and those experiencing different types of life
transitions that need counseling support and services. The community
setting creates a crossroad for individual context and group context.
Therefore, the needs recognized and addressed on other levels are
equally present in the community setting.
Culley and Bond’s Foundation Skills in
Counseling
2. Reflective skills.
These skills are concerned with the other person’s frame of reference.
For Culley and Bond (2004), reflective skills ‘capture’ what the client is
saying and plays it back to them—but in the counselor’s own words. The
key skills are restating, paraphrasing, and summarizing; for instance, the
counselor may begin with, “Did you mean to say…?” (Culley & Bond
2004)
3. Probing skills.
These skills facilitate going deeper, asking more directed or leading
questions (leading in the sense that they move the conversation in a
particular direction). Culley and Bond (2004) looked at the different
forms that questions can take (and how they can help or inhibit
exploration), and the role of making statements. Making statements is
seen as generally gentler, less intrusive, and less controlling than asking
questions—although that does depend on the statement. Probing tends to
increase the helper’s control over both process and content, and as a
result, “should be used sparingly and with care, particularly in the early
stages of counseling” (Culley & Bond 2004). As Alistair Ross (2003) has
commented, counseling skills such as these are important and can be
developed through reflection and training. However, no matter how good
a person’s skills are, they must be matched by relational qualities.
Counselors also need to be strong in their relational qualities. The
distinction between good and poor practitioner lies in the belief system
of the helper, and how it translates into helping the relationship that he /
she puts forward. (Combs & Gonzales 1994)
Core Values of Counseling
C ertain values are considered core to counseling and are reflected and
expressed in the practice of counseling. All counselors are expected to
embrace these and similar set of core values as essential and integral to
their work. These values are:
Respect for human dignity. This means that the counselor must
provide a client unconditional positive regard, compassion, non-
judgmental attitude, empathy, and trust.
Counselors shall:
1. Act with care and respect for individual and cultural differences and the
diversity of human experience.
2. Avoid doing harm in all their professional work. Actively support the
principles embodied in the Treaty of Waitangi (a formal agreement
between the British Crown and Maori signed on February 6, 1840, at
Waitangi in the Bay of islands, which technically made over 500 Maori
chiefs to become a British Colony starting with the initial 43 Northland
Chiefs.
3. Respect the confidences with which they are entrusted.
4. Promote the safety and well-being of individuals, families, and
communities.
5. Seek to increase the range of choices and opportunities for clients.
6. Be honest and trustworthy in all their professional relationships.
7. Practice within the scope of their competence.
8. Treat colleagues and other professionals with respect.
Principles of Counseling
Advice.
Counseling may involve advice-giving as one of the several functions that
counselors perform. When this is done, the requirement is that a
counselor makes judgments about a counselee’s problems and lays out
options for a course of action. Advice-giving has to avoid breeding a
relationship in which the counselee feels inferior and emotionally
dependent on the counselor.
Reassurance.
Counseling involves providing clients with reassurance, which is a way
of giving them courage to face a problem or confidence that they are
pursuing a suitable course of action. Reassurance is a valuable principle
because it can bring about a sense of relief that may empower a client to
function normally again.
Clarified thinking.
Clarified thinking tends to take place while the counselor and counselee
are talking and therefore becomes a logical emotional release. As this
relationship goes on, other self-empowering results may take place later
as a result of developments during the counseling relationship. Clarified
thinking encourages a client to accept responsibility for problems and to
be more realistic in solving them.
Reorientation.
Reorientation involves a change in the client’s emotional self through a
change in basic goals and aspirations. This requires a revision of the
client’s level of aspiration to bring it more in line with actual and
realistic attainment. It enables clients to recognize and accept their own
limitations. The counselor’s job is to recognize those in need of
reorientation and facilitate appropriate interventions.
Listening skills.
Listening attentively to clients is the counselor’s attempt to understand
both the content of the clients’ problem as they see it, and the emotions
they are experiencing related to the problem. Counselors do not make
interpretations of the client’s problems or offer any premature
suggestions as to how to deal with them, or solve the issues presented.
Good listening helps counselors to understand the concerns being
presented.
Respect.
In all circumstances, clients must be treated with respect, no matter how
peculiar, strange, disturbed, weird, or utterly different from the
counselor. Without this basic element, successful counseling is
impossible. Counselors do-not have to like the client, or their values, or
their behavior, but they have to put their personal feelings aside and
treat the client with respect.
Peers as Context.
Friends’ attitudes, norms, and behaviors have a strong influence on
adolescents. Many personal issues are often introduced to the individual
by their peers. Parents can have much influence over their adolescent
children. Critical family issues involve family roles, both positively and
negatively. In most cases, the impact of parent influence can help
counter the negative influence that peers have on the adolescents’ issues.
Neighborhood as Context.
The interactions between the family and its neighborhood as immediate
context are also important to consider. A family functions within a
particular neighborhood. The behavioral problems in this particular
neighborhood require that families work against crime and social
isolation that may impact them. This is much easier in countryside
communities where a community network of parents, teachers,
grandparents, and civic leaders exist and where a sense of collaboration
in raising the children of the community forms part of shared ethos. For
this reason, neighborhood context is an important consideration in
counseling. It can both introduce additional strengths or challenges to
parenting and resources that should be considered when working with
families.
Culture as Context.
Culture provided meaning and coherence of life to any orderly life such
as community or organization. Various sectors of community families,
peers, and neighborhoods are all bound together by a cultural context
that influences them all as individual members. Therefore, the cultural
context is a major consideration in counseling. Extensive research on
culture and the family has demonstrated that so much influence on the
individual child and family is exerted by the cultural contexts
(Santisteban et al. 2003; Szapocznik & Kurtines 1993). Culture is the
source of norms, values, symbols, and language which provide the basis
for the normal functioning of an individual Understanding the cultural
context of a client makes it easier for a counselor to appreciate the
nature of their struggles as well as their cultural conditioning that
informs certain personal characteristics such as degree of openness to
share personal concerns, self-revealing, making choices, and personal
determination for independence (Corey 1991). Therefore, effective
counseling has to take into full consideration the culture of both the
counselor and the client especially in multicultural situations. The
cultures of the client and that of the counselor and other stakeholders
can all affect the nature of counseling.
Counseling as Context.
The National Institute of Health recognizes counseling itself as a context.
Regardless of a therapeutic approach in use, the counseling situation in
itself is a context. There is a deliberate specific focus, a set of procedures,
rules, expectations, experiences, and a way of monitoring progress and
determining results in any therapeutic approach (Corey 1991).
Counseling can therefore be affected by the counseling context.
From the counseling context, other success factors such as client factors,
counselor factors, contextual factors, and process factors should be
managed well so as to contribute toward the success of the engagement.
1. Client Factors. The client factors are everything that a client brings to
the counseling context. He or she is not a passive object receiving
treatment in the manner of a traditional doctor-patient situation. The
clients bring so much to the counseling context and therefore it remains
imperative that they are considered as an active part of the process.
Very often, the expectations and attitude of the client define the result
of a counseling process and experience. The success or failure of the
counseling process depends so much on the client.
2. Counselor Factors. The personality, skills, and personal qualities of a
counselor can significantly impact the outcomes of the counseling
relationship (Velleman 2001). The counselor’s personal style and
qualities can make the interventions successful. The conditions for self-
restoration or experience of self-empowerment in a client are some
qualities that a counselor usually brings about. The experience of
positive or negative conditions can be attributed to the counselor. This
may be amplified or aggravated by the choice of counseling methods
that the counselor uses in his or her practice; this makes counseling
both a science and also an art.
3. Contextual Factors. The context in which counseling takes place can
define the outcomes. Counselors are therefore concerned with the
environment and atmosphere where to conduct the sessions. There are
ideal contexts and not ideal ones. For example, physical noise and
distance trigger the feeling of emotional safety of the client. A noisy
place can be a distraction that prevents healing. A place where a client
feels strongly fearful can provide a blockage from genuine engagement
with counseling process and procedure. A client has to feel comfortable
and positive. Ideally, counseling should take place in a quiet, warm,
counsel and comfortable place away from any distraction. Unless the
counselor effective and client talk in comfort and safety, there is no
way steps of healing degree can commence and yield desirable
outcomes.
4. Process Factors. The process factors constitute the actual counseling in
order undertaking. Vellemean (2001) presents the following six stages,
which for him apply to all problem areas in the process of counseling.
o Developing trust. This involves providing warmth,
genuineness, and empathy.
o Exploring problem areas. This involves providing a clear and
deep analysis of what the problem is, where it comes from, its
triggers, and why it may have developed.
o Helping to set goals. This involves setting and managing goal-
directed interventions.
o Empowering into action. This means fostering action to
achieve set goals.
o Helping to maintain change. This means providing support
and other techniques to enable the client to maintain changes.
o Agreeing when to end the helping relationship. This implies
that and assurances are there that guarantee the process is being
directed by the client and toward independence.