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Anonymous
7y

Related What was the last thing you said to your ex

after breakup?
After dating for a year (may be it was just a time pass for
him), one fine day he Informed that his parents have
started looking for a bride.

Me - when will you tell your parents about me now that

they have started looking for a bride?

He - yes I'll but need some time. They will surely oppose.
But I'll try.

(I trusted his words)

After days of assurance from him, I again asked what are

you up to,when will u introduce me to them.

Again the fake promise followed. I still couldn't get the

hint.

After a month -

He - I have already seen a girl of moms choice. I cannot

go ahead with you. My marriage has been fixed. I m
getting married on 27th April.

Me - what !!!!!!!!!!!!!! (Speechless)

Me - you said you will introduce me to them soon. Then

how did all this happen and when ?!?!?! Are you
serious???????????

He - I m serious. Please move on and let me live my life.

I didn't reply for days then. I was so shocked to reply!

On 27th April I messaged him for the last time in this birth
-

Me - Wish you a very happy married life ahead! I have

nothing against you. Hope karma fucks you in the
best possible way! Good luck.

And blocked !!!!

Peace.
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Vaishali Singh · Follow

3y

Related What would you want to say to your ex?

Dear Ex-

Yes, you are still very dear to me, and I'm still unable to
forget us.

You know, when I wake up every morning, my hands

automatically search for the phone just to send you a
good morning msg but the moment I realize that the
situation is not same between us, that feeling kills me
inside.

The day I left you was the day my world collapsed, I

burried all the feelings deep inside my heart.

I really loved you to the moon and back but my life was
getting difficult while being with you. I started forgetting
myself, I lost my own worth, I felt like going through hell.

I found myself fighting for your attention, and my eyes

were always seeking respect in your eyes but that was
nowhere to see.

I know if I wanted I could've had you. I could've tried

and cried again. I could've requested you again to be
with me, but I come to realize that you were not the
same person whom I loved once.

I never thought, there will be a day in my life when I'll

stop seeing your name flashing over my phone screen,
but see it's happening.

It's been 6 months from that day, things has been

changed a lot. My pain and sufferings has been changed.
It doesn't affect me anymore. It's true that somedays I
cry myself to sleep but it is also the truth that now I smile
more. I feel more confidence inside out. And the best
thing is now I have nothing to loose.

Now I don't set my schedule according to your office

hours, now I do it as I please. I don't wait for anyone's call
anymore. There are days when I get no calls from anyone
but this life is more peacefull than that.

At the end I only want to say THANK YOU :)

Yours forgotten

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Anonymous
6y

What did you say to your ex after a

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breakup?
For many years i just kept stalking through her FB,
watching her how happy she was with the new man,
thinking, hoping, that it won’t last long ,she will break that
too as we did. Observing her man, nitpicking, thinking i
was way much better than this jerk. Realizing how happy
they were and how miserable i was, single suffering and
yet she did not even consider it worthy of even just
talking to me as a friend?

Was a simple ‘hello’? or ‘how are you’? so impossible for

her that she couldn’t even care to find out if i was dead or
alive. i called her for the first two three months to at least
continue things as a friend, but she never did, her
numbness, her fake laughs just discouraged me to do
more, then she had a new man, almost immediately while
i was still trying to stand on my feet, i started hating her.
There was no contact for years, I unfriended her deleted
her number.

I started caving in, thinking of impossible scenarios

where i, and her stumble upon in the future and she will
regret what she lost, how miserable she will feel. I
thought of all the things i wanted to say to her, sweet and
mean to make her realize the mistakes she had done of
how i was much better than her current one.

But after years i saw her, just a shockwave ran through

my entire body, of all the years I had prepared to confront
her, yet she stood in front of me not miserable not
regreting but the same girl, with the same charm i fell for.
Her movements gracious her dressing elegant as ever
,reminding you of the girl you loved, the girl you had. She
had been wrong but so was i. of all the things you wanted
to say to her wanted to make her feel your absence. but I
just smile at her she smiles back , not saying a single
word. you remember the devil she was to you and the
demon you were to her. the bad she did to you, the worse
you did to her. maybe she is also realising the same thing,
going through the same feelings.

But you let everything go, seeing her happy just lightens
up your heart, you’ve finally grown up, matured. you’ve
finally moved on
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Siddarth Bhatnagar · Follow

Divorcee,Love & Dating Advisor, Writer, Disk Jockey (DJ),
HR · Updated 5y

Related What was the last thing you said to your

ex?
Me: Hey, why you called me here?

She: Sid, I want to tell you something very important and I

am serious.

Me: Ok! Tell me.

She: Sid, if you remember I’ve told you about my crush,

few months ago I found and messaged him on “Orkut”
and fortunately he replied me back. We have been talking
for last two months and last night I told him that he is my
crush and he responded positively and proposed me.

Me: So why are you telling me this now?

She: Because I think this is a right time to tell you that I

don’t want to continue this relationship, I know I did
wrong but I love him and he loves me too. Please forgive
me and forget me and try to move on. I am sure you will
get a girl soon better than me. I can be your friend if you
want and will help you to find a nice girl for you.

Me: Are you serious? I can’t live without you, how can I
forget you, how can I forget the time which we spent
together? I know you are kidding me.

She: No, I am serious, if you don’t believe me, see our

conversations and still if you believe wait I will call him.

Me: Ok.

She: (calling him) Hi! Avinash , I am with Sid and I told him
everything about us but he is not believing me, now you
tell him that how much you love me, I am on loudspeaker
mode.

Avinash: Hi! Sid, hope you don’t mind, I feel sorry for you
but I really want to tell you that I don’t love her.

She: What?? Stop kidding me, we are waiting for this day.

Avinash: I am not kidding, I am serious, I don’t love you.

Bye!

She: Hello! Avinash, Hello!! WTF!!

Me: Hahahaha.. Relax darling relax, let me confess to you

now. He is one of my close friend, when you told me
about him, I just had to make this plan to double check on
some stuff I've been hearing about you.

I know being a lover it is wrong to test you like that, but

I've got a lot of warning & negative reviews from well-
wishers about your reputation when it comes to loyalty, I
also know everyone has his or her past but practically we
all want to be secured when it comes to any relationship.
So, I had called Avinash and told him everything that you
are the crush of my Gf, we both were laughing and
making fun of each other, he was pulling my leg. I asked
him to visit your Orkut profile so that you can see his
profile on your timeline. I was sure that you will definitely
try to contact him.

Everything was fine, you talked to him, you messaged

him, all things were ok because I was assuming that you
will tell me soon that you are talking to your crush and all,
but you didn’t. I cried like hell but your ignorance made
me stronger and stronger. When you were busy with your
crush, I moved on and started giving time to my friend
(Now my Wife) and the best thing is she knows
everything about you but I didn’t tell her that you were
ditching me. Now this is the right time to tell her that I've
broken up with you.

She: You are such a bastard!

Now my last words which I said to my EX:

Me: I am happy for you now because of this incident you

became stronger and smart. Hope you've learnt lots of
things from this incident. Now you can fool others more
effectively and efficiently, but don’t try to apply this on
me in future because my answer would be “Fuck Off”
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Anonymous
Updated 6y

Related What was the last thing you said to your

ex?
We tried very hard but our families didn’t agree. She left
her job at TCS because of this matter. Her parents took
her to her hometown.

She: You have to forget me. Now I am at my home and

my parents will not agree (I was able to listen voices from
background of her parents).

Me: but how can I ? How can we forget the time we

spend in college. I can’t imagine my life without
you(crying).

She: We tried very hard. You know my family's condition.

if my father wouldn’t have this serious health problem, I
would marry you but you know he will die. He already
suffered a lot (suddenly a sound of slapping from her
mother. her mother was pulling her hair as she was
screaming “mummy,please 2 min. baat kar lene de,wo
pagal ho jayega”).

Me: I attached everything with you. I can’t imaging

anything without you. I will die. I can’t forget every
moment which we spend together. Memories will kill me
alone(crying with tears in eyes).

She: Even I can’t forget you(weeping) but we will not talk

in life after it.

PHONE CUT…

Nothing happened. just another love-story of a small

town died by the powerful caste system.
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Updated 3y

RelatedWhat was the last text message you sent to

your ex?
Originally Answered: What was the last text message you sent your
ex?

1 month back my ex approached me and seeing her

message surprised me.

She: Could you please reply and give me 5 minutes.

Me: What happened?

She: Congrats on your CAT result.

Me: Thanks a lot.

She: You didn’t even ever approach me again. It’s been

nearly 3 yrs since we are apart and I still love you and
miss you.

Me: Why should I, you could have also tried. Relationship

binds two people together. It was your call that we should
separate.

She: I know but I’m still waiting for you, still thinking you
would give me a chance.

Me: You left me when I needed you the most, and if you
think I would forget that, then sorry.

She: I still love you and want you back in my life.

Me: Mistakes happen only once my dear.

Ps: Blocked her & I’m in peace. The breakup was the
best thing that happened for me & that made me so
strong ❤

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Durga Upadhyaya · Follow

Officer at State Bank of India (SBI) · 6y

What did you say to your ex after a

Related
breakup?
An ex is an ex for a reason.

We did not maintain any contact after break-up-no

meetings,no phone calls and no texts. Although I didn't
block her from facebook, I never stalked her on social
media thereafter.

One fine evening, she just called me up to enquire about

me. She too asked me if I had any hate feelings against
her. I said:

“I don't carry hate in my heart.If I loved you before, I

have still got some sort of love for you.STAY AWAY
FROM ME,THOUGH.”

We have moved on.

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Anonymous
8y

Related I sent this message to my ex: 'This may be

the last time I contact you. I want to say I love you,
but I realized that we can never be together again.
I wish you and I would find our own happiness'.
Does this make me look weak?
Originally Answered: I just sent message to my ex saying 'this may be
the last time I contact you. Just want to say that I love you then until
now but today I realized that we can never be together again. Wish
you and I would find our own happiness'. Does this make me look
weak?

I'm a dude and I sent a message to my ex as my last

"closure" email a very long time ago. At that time, she
didn't reply. Does it make me look weak? I don't think so
because I had the courage to express all my thoughts to
her. Most people don't do this and they just cut off
contact. I think the people who at least take the time to
give closure are the best. It's not weakness and you
should never think that way. Be content that you did it
and now move on.
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It's only random to everyone else · Upvoted by… · 6y
Ashima Gupta, Software Engineer at Lowe's Home
What did(2017-present)
RelatedImprovement you say to your ex after a
breakup?
I’ll never forget it. My ex was a chronic cheater who, I
could tell, expected me to get emotional the day of our
divorce. I walked into the courthouse, stood before the
judge, said ‘yes’ and ‘no’ at the appropriate times, signed
the papers and walked out. On the courthouse steps, he
stopped, expecting me to say something. And I did. I
said, “Thanks, I’m finally free! I have to go, I’m on my way
to celebrate.”

NOT what his arrogant self expected… :)

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Vijay Sharma · Follow

 Works at Decline To State (2018–present) · 3y

I never messaged however she called me a narsacist

indirectly^^, I never really said a thing because I know
myself and I know how far I go to please other people.
However this was the first time I never fought back, I kept
my self respect, pride at the backseat and let her say
whatever she wanted, Hell I had a quote page on
Instagram She read those and called me a mental torture
whereas other people who don't even know me they sent
me DMs stating you should write more oftenly. I didn't
fight back and took a stand for myself just because I
loved her too much^^ and cared more for her. Anyway
the only last words I can think of is “Sayonara” :D
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Gurmeet Bishnoi · Follow

Lives in Berlin (2023–present) · 2y ·

RelatedIf you could tell your ex one last thing, what

would you say?
After couple of months,

Yesterday I texted my ex first time. No, I wasn't missing

her. I was checking through my contacts and saw her
name, so thought of texting for normal hi-hello.

I texted,

Me: Hello, my limited forever one.

She came online and saw my message. But she didn't

reply. I got busy in other chats. When I visited status
section after few minutes, I noticed that she has put a
status after seeing my text.

This was her status:

(Translation: What happened?)

I realised that she has put this for me in reply of my text. I

didn't get why she did this.

I texted in her inbox again but she was replying through

her status. This thing was frustrating me. Now I wanted
her to make her text in my inbox at any cost.

Me: I wanted to tell something important to you so I

texted.

She:

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(Translation: tell.) Learn more

Me: Leave, Like this I can't discuss that...

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Related What would you want to say to your ex?

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2.
1. It literally give me shivers whenever I think of that first
touch!

3. Remember the first time we kissed?

4.
1. It will always be special for me since it was my first
kiss!

5. Remember the first time we had your favourite

“paratha and chilly chicken”?
6.
1. You had your first bite yourself but I gave my first bite
to you which made you blush so much!

7. Remember the day you slept in my arms while I didn't

move even a bit despite being uncomfortable so that it
didn't disturb you?
8.
1. That innocent face of yours while you slept still gives
me goosebumps!

9. Remember the first time you cheated on me with that

“ABC” guy?
10.
1. I still curse myself for forgiving you after that.

11. Remember the first time we cried in front of each

other and ended up in each other arms?
12.
1. It still gives me nostalgia whenever I think of it!

13. Remember the day you left me saying “I love you and
always will. Goodbye”?
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Robert Puckett · Follow

Content Creator at Quora. 2017-present · 5y

Related What was the last thing you said to your

ex?
Ex: We have some donuts if you want some.

Me: Oh cool. Where did those come from?

Ex: Deborah brought them in.

Me: Nice, nice. Oh, did you get that email I sent last
night?

Ex: Yeah, I’ll look into it.

Me: Thanks. Just come in my office when you’re ready to

go over it.

That’s why you don’t date people you work with. You still
have to see each other.

All. The. Time.

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Collie Maguire · Follow

English Teacher · 5y

RelatedWhat is the best way to say goodbye to my

ex (who left me)?
Goodbye has been said. Move on now. If you want, a
small ritual of letting go could help you. You can write a
letter to yourself remembering the good stuff, and finding
gratitude for the experience and the lessons learned.
Then burn it. I know it’s not easy, you are grieving for the
relationship. But respect yourself, and move on. You are
growing. The correct person for you, is waiting for you to
step into your best self.
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Anonymous
Updated 4y

RelatedWhat was the last text message you sent to

your ex?
We were in relationship for 8 years, since our high school
days.

We used to attend classes together, tutions together and

also used to share lunch with each other.

In everyone's life there comes a time when u have to give

importance to certain things more than relationships, and
that was my CAREER (and OUR FUTURE. )

Everything was going fine we used to meet once or twice

in a month I was more than happy as i thought she is so
understanding…………..

“But I was WRONG"

She was doing her graduation and I was preparing for my

PG entrance exams.sleepless nights, hungry
stomach,depressed mind ,unhealthy and unclean
environment of my rented room.my life was HORRIBLE
during my preparation days.

Last time when I met her at one of the NOT SO GOOD

restaurant according to her. She started scolding me.

She-are you out of your mind? u brought me to this

shitty place!

Me - I am sorry but this is not that bad and moreover i

don't have much money left with me and in that i have
to spend my whole month.

She- if you can't afford me then u shouldn't have

called me out.

Me- i know but i wanted to meet you. U know right i

am preparing for my PG entrance exams. meeting my
loved ones will bring me relief and boost my
confidence so i came here to meet you.

She-i don't care…I have my own standards and if you

can't meet my demands and it's better to end this
shit!

Me - i know u are angry but try to understand me.......

Once i clear my exams we wlll go to better place.

She - I don't care, and right now i am leaving........

* she left the restaurant without having anything but i

had to pay the bill which was equivalent to price of 15
days of my mess food.

I tried to call her but she didn't recieved my call, i thought

she might be angry on me.

2 days later it was birthday of my roommate lakhan

.we asked him for a party ( just because i didn't had
enough money back then for dinner)

Me,lakhan and 2 other friends went to fancy restaurant

and it was First time in last sixth month we ate something
TASTY…..and MOREOVER LAKHAN WAS GOING TO
PAY FOR THAT.

In the restaurant i saw her with our common friend i was

just about to go to there table when she woke up and
gave a tight hug to that guy.

I was freezed!

( if you are from south india you can understand the

situation. public display of affection is a kind of taboo
in some of the places and we used to live in one such
places. in our 8 years of relationship we hardly
hugged twice or thrice.)

I was pretty much disturbed after this event. I just left the
place and packed my bags.went to my hometown as i
knew that this thing will haunt me.

On the way i called her near to 20 times.she didn't picked

up phone. even i texted her but she didn't even replied to
my messages.

Next morning i got a message.

” it's over between us i don't have any feelings for u.

U have changed earlier i used to be your world but
now u are busy with ur carrer and u are neglecting
me. u are no more the same guy for me it's better to
end this relationship here only.never contact me
again, and I hope our path never crosses once again
GOOD BYE"

I was angry, sad, crying and what not….. I cried, i pleaded

her to come back, i was unable to concentrate on my
studies.

My mother was my biggest support, she stood beside

me . she consoled me and helped me to get distracted
from this post break up TRAUMA.

when you put ur efforts on something it becomes your

only GOAL. Superadded with anger /frustration and a
feeling to take revenge on someone who left you.just
because u were working hard for the future of both.

I worked hard, gave NEET pg exams, got not so good

rank but good enough to fetch me a clinical branch .

After this…..

I went to our farmhouse just to get myself away from city

life and i wanted to be alone and have some ‘ME TIME'.

She texted me on my whatsapp and this happened.

(pic- old screenshot from my mobile, which i took

before blocking and erasing her number from my
mobile)

And i blocked her.

Do i miss her? - yes, i do.

Do i hate her? - no, i don't.

Do i trust her? - no, i don't.

Edit 1–thanks you guys and girls for this overwhelming

response.

Someone asked “you should have thought about 8 years

of relationship before ending it , and you should look for
the good things which they have done in past
years?”………..hey girl , by your profile picture u seem to
be a medical student, don't you just understand it's
human psychology that you will always look- one mistake
rather than 1000 good things done by them.

And moreover i was getting a payment during my

internship and we used to go to fancy restaurant.she
never paid even single time in these years and even i
didn't asked her as she was also a student just like me.

But during PG preparation i was jobless , the money

which i had was the savings from my internship days and
moreover I didn't wanted to ask money from my parents
just to feed my girl friend.

yes we are rich enough to have a farmhouse, but that

doesn't mean, i should ask money to my parent's. After
certain age boys generally( i don't know about girls) feels
awkward to ask money from parent's.

I am a young doctor, who have a MBBS degree. I can earn

in lacks together if I want, but getting a MD or MS was
necessary for my better future (our future) and for that
reason i was preparing for NEET pg exams.

I used to get some money from my parents( they used to

put some money in my account because they knew i
won't ask them) but with that I was supposed to pay rent,
pay mess fees, my travel expenses and my books and
notes.

And most importantly ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A

CHEATER.

but i wish for her well being, hope she deserve what she
wishes for and SHE GETS A GUY WHICH SUITS HER
STANDARDS.!
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Anonymous
Updated 8y

What is the most epic breakup or post

Related
breakup message ever written?
Nothing Epic though.

It was a relationship of 4 years; the last 1 year he was in

another country. 2 months post breakup constant
stalking helped me know that he had fallen ill.

with trembling hands I sent an email.

How’s your health now? Please take medicines properly.

Take care.

I got a reply in the next 15 minutes

Do you even have some self-respect? How many times

should I tell you not to contact me? You think I am
mourning for the loss of this relationship? Screw you. The
gifts you sent me has already gone to the trash.
Remember the ring Continue
we exchanged?
Reading I sold it for 200
dollars and ha
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Anonymous
Updated 7y

RelatedIf you could tell your ex one last thing, what

would you say?
I hate to go anonymous but I have to for this one.

My ex left me because I was poor.

He is extremely rich. He didn't appear that way (he had a
very poor sense of dressing anyway) and love just
happened. It was going very good. I did think we would
get married, but he backed out. He said money was more
important to him. After I saw that he didn't deserve me, I
was depressed and heart broken and gave my consent
for an arranged marriage with a guy of my social and
economic status.

Wow! My hubby is the exact same person that I am. We

have a lot of interests. We love
Continue sports, we love video
Reading
games, we l
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Anonymous
7y

RelatedIf you are asked to send a message to your

ex, what will you write?
I miss you.Yes its been almost 3 years. Yes I know you are
quite happy with your new gf and I am happy for you.
Maybe a part of me still loves you which does not let me
move on in life or maybe I am just not good enough for
anyone. No, I don't want you back in my life because I
know that won't be possible ever but a part of me still
waits for you. I just want a closure. I just want to know
what exactly was going through your mind during the
entire relationship so that maybe I will stop blaming
myself for ending everything though it was meant to be.
Continue Reading
Maybe that will help me to trust any other gu
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Anonymous
6y

Related What was the last thing you said to your ex

after breakup?
I was in a relationship with girl for about 7 months. She
suddenly started ignoring me when I asked her for reason
she just said we are of different poles and am not
interested in you any more.

I was shocked and i didn't know how to react at that

particular moment. All my dreams with her faded away, all
promises were broken with a single sentence AM NOT
INTRESTED.

Next day I messaged her again for exact reason.

Me: The more hard am trying come close to you the more
farther your going.

She: relationship is not possible now

She: my priorities and life style

Continue got changed. We will stay
Reading
as normal friends
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Chandni Jain · Follow

Realist, Procrastinator and an Eager Beaver · 5y

RelatedWhat is the last thing you told your ex

boyfriend/girlfriend just before the breakup?
Me: (sobbing) Can we atleast remain friends?

Him: Depends on you. If you don’t act like a maniac, we

would be best buddies for years for years to come.

I got over him much earlier than expected.

I didn’t act manic nor did we remain friends.

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Insta Dulce’ · Follow

Updated Oct 29

Related I sent this message to my ex: 'This may be

the last time I contact you. I want to say I love you,
but I realized that we can never be together again.
I wish you and I would find our own happiness'.
Does this make me look weak?
It makes you look sad which is sweet, sane & normal—to
a narc, sad is a clown. They can’t relate to sad, love,
empathy—-—to them it’s weak bc they can’t recognize it.
What they recognize is ignorance, anger, ugliness and a
hit to their ego. A hit & mean it. Then no contact.

That’s a love letter to their ego.

They won’t get it which is why you’ll receive no reply or

get laughed at and called a clown.

Go gangster then go home.

Then go to the gym & get yourself healthy & fit.

Narcs are disordered and primitive. They are threatened

& intimidated by highly civilized
Continue behaviors & reactions.
Reading
Narcs are only
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Chandni Jain · Follow

Many Relationships to Boast About; Now an Expert · 5y

What is the perfect message to your ex

Related
who dumped you 3 years back?
I smiled when I saw this question. I can finally say things I
wanted to to the ex who dumped me. Here goes my rant:

Looking back, I think it would have made more

sense to have thrown coins into the wishing well
than to have “invested” in your foolishness.

It’s only after you left me that I realized that life’s

indeed full of beautiful people. Thank you for
opening my eyes!

I have something for you that you truly deserve. I

have waited years to give this gift but I never
found a better time than now. Promise me, you’ll
cherish it forever. *shows middle finger*

You know what,Continue

there are some things t
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Shagun Rishi · Follow

6y

RelatedWhat was the last message to your ex

before your breakup?
Before your breakup? There obviously were some sweet
nothings. But my last msg was an email to him and after
that i completely disappeared.

Been two years ever since i wrote this email though.

It has been over five months of you deciding to walk out

on me out of no where.

Apparently that should make me hate you. For a while

there, after you arrogantly asked me to "Move On", I did.
Well, I could not hate you, but basically I did lose my
feelings for you. There are a hundred reasons why I
shouldn't be with you and I always knew at the back of
my head that I would never marry you.
Continue Reading
It's funny because
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ShresthaSimanta Sarmah · Follow

3y

RelatedWhat are some good parting words for an

ex who used you?
The best answer is to be silent , sometimes its better not
to use your brain in things like this, just start loving and
respecting yourself , you will have much time to use on
yourself than to use your precious time in someone who
really doesn't need it . find your strength and weaknesses
,and you know what ,when you don't react to something
that means you are not bothered by it , just be practical.

lots of love xxx

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