what are your full names

My names are .................................. .John Hermes...............

Where originally are you from? And where do you live now?
I come from Vienna, Virginia but i live in Austin,Texas i moved here in 2013.

where you born there or you live there because of your Job ? I deal on the
Production and Exploration of (LNG) Liqufied Natural Gas.

Have you ever been married before with kids? i was married for 17 years.
I am widowed since 2013 my wife suffered Leukemia....... i have THREE KIDS 16,14,11
YEARS RESPECTIVELY DAVID,DANIEL,EMILY.

So tell me how long have you been on facebook ? And tell me about those you've met
online?
I am new to Facebook , registered 4 months ago just decided to give it a try and I
contacted you. I really do not have so many clues on how facebook is done.

With the Experience you have had so far do you really believe that you can find
your soul mate Facebook ?
As for me I believe and also have the courage that I will find the woman whom I
which to spend the rest of my life with. I do believe in soul mates. I have
friends that have found theirs and live very happily with them, and I have decided
a while ago that I would never "settle" for anyone less than my soul mate.

Do you believe in distance relationship?

Yes I do believe in distance relationship, because I do have the faith I will meet
the woman whom will love and cherish me as I do.

Are you willing to relocate if you find your soul mate?

To me it depends on my soul mate; if she willingly wants me relocate to her house
of living its ok with me, but if she wants to relocate to my house its ok with me
also, or if she wants us both to relocate to a new location, that again will be ok
with me.

How has your present marital life affected you so far?

Being lonely has really affected me a lot because as humans we all need someone to
lean on in hard times and someone to talk to and share those cheerful moments
with... And my kids also has not been happy because they miss their mom. I need a
woman who would accept and love my kids as much as she will accept, love me and
make me happy and I will be so happy if she gives me the chance to do the same for
her as I will love her and lay a good foundation for her kid(s) if any

How do you normally spend your leisure time?

Listening to music, Cuddling up reading a magazine or watching TV, Cooking.... I
love walking in the Park

How much do you enjoy walking in the park?

I enjoy it a lot; feel the fresh air of the nature, viewing the beautiful green
trees.

Are you a God fearing woman?

I am a God fearing man, I do have my Christian faith to credit for my life,
attitude and success; however, I don't use the name of God to attract women for my
character speaks for itself. I am not the type of man who is focused entirely on
himself.
What are Your Hobbies?
I enjoy Golfing, fishing, Scuba Diving , scrabbling, seeing good comedies.

What�s Your Favorite color?

My favorite colors are both white and red, because the white stands for a pure
heart and the red stands for love, so when you add the both of them together you
have a pure hearted love, that is me because I do have a pure heart for love.

So tell me how big is your family? I mean how many brothers and sisters you have?
What about your parents? my mother died in January 2018 and father in 2010 my
father was a General in the Isreali Army and my Mother is a Nurse. I am the only
one my parents gave birth to, so you see my dear kids are the apple of my eyes and
the only close family I have at the moment.

Do you seek for a particular age before coming into any relationship ? How old are
you?
I do not seek for a particular age, because I feel age is numbers, you do not know
where love can hit you up from. It can be someone younger than you or perhaps older
than you. I'm 53 years old.

How often do you like to go out; I mean going partying?

I do not go out often that much ever since, I lost my late wife, because going out
alone seems not enjoyable to me, so the few time that I go out must be with the
boys and I will be looking forward to go out with that special Someone like you
someday

I had three (3) deep relationships in my life; The first I had was when I was still
a teenager with a girl named Amber, we were both attending the same school she was
from Chicago, then we used to see each other everyday helping each other with our
assignment, unfortunately our final exam at high school, she told me that her
parents will be living the country for Canada and she was going with them also, I
felt like wooh!!!, that means that you are going to live me, she said she does not
know what to do, so they left I was really unhappy during that period.
The second was with my late wife and was my longest..After her death I stayed
Since then, I have been single

Do you know what went wrong in your past relationship?

Cheating and lies made my last relationship ended. I am a very compressive person.
When there is something wrong with my relationship, I don�t fight, and be
hysterical, I like to talk. A better conversation is always the best solution for
everything, But of course with every experience you learn more how to deal, and
always there is something new to you discover.

What are your goals or dreams in life?

My goals and dreams in life are to be with the woman of my life whom I will call my
wife, who I will love and we will both live together and have a loving family
forever

Do you smoke cigarettes or drink alcohol or do drugs?

I had never smoked in my life neither used drugs, and never pretend too, its not
for me. If I drink alcohol, Well I drink socially, if I go out with some friends
and they are drinking something light its okay

So tell me what is your favorite food?

I'm proud to be a vegan.. I make a huge pot of steel-cut oatmeal on Sunday evening
and spoon out a cup every morning--I reheat it in the microwave and then add a
tablespoon of local honey, frozen organic blueberries, and almond milk. Very
satisfying and extremely good for you!

I eat whole wheat bread with peanut butter every morning.

What�s your favorite drink?

My favorite drinks Red Wines, but I prefer Champagne more likely.

Do you like sports? And what are your favorite sports?

I have a passion for sports and my favorite sport is football.

Do you have any favorite sport team you support in particular?

NBA is my favorite Sport, I'm a Big Fan of Lakers Of Los Angeles, I also love the
Miami Dolpins too. Daniel enjoy watching Soccer

What inspires you in life?

God Inspires me

Do you believe in true love?

Yes i do

How do you feel when someone upset you? And what will you do to calm yourself down?
I do feel unhappy for that moment then i go to quite place and listening to a cool
music that will calm me down.

Anything fake, lies, deceit, cheating, quarreling and argument turns me off.

If you could change something about yourself, what would it be & why?
I am who I am, accept me, reject me, but I'm still me

What motivates you?

I'm motivated by life itself, because life is what you made it.

What attracts you to a man?

Truthfulness and respect. It really makes me get closer to a lady is the person
inside, I do considers that more important because beauty fades with time but the
person inside appreciates with time.

What do you go for in a man?

I go for the inner beauty, it radiates and it speaks for itself over time and for
women like you who are family oriented is an added advantage to me.

What are your likes and dislikes?

I like Faithfulness,honesty and Trustworthiness and I dislikes dramas, cheating,
lies, unfaithfulness and racist.

So what do you expect from me ?

I expect Love, Trust And Understanding

Can you drive ?

I can, I have a Black BMW Car

Who is your mentor ?

My mentor is my late dad, he was a nice, caring and understanding dad, who loves
and take good care of his family, he always speaks the truth and he is a self
discipline man, my dad is ready to risk everything he has for his loved ones, but I
do feel the pain because he never lived to enjoy me, he was really the best dad in
the world. he always tells me that uneasy lies the head that wears the crown, so
for you to be successful in life you have to face some challenges.
So tell me , What are some of the places you have visited ?
I have been out of the States several times on different occasion, maybe on a work
trip, or vacation trip. My work has took me to places like Italy, Spain,
Ghana,west Africa . while on vacation trip I have been to Switzerland, Italy,
Paris of France and Dubai, and I would love my next vacation trip to be with you .

What is your biggest fear?

my biggest fear is Losing my loved ones.

What has been the best decision you've ever made?

Taking the roll of a father and mother for my boys has been the best decision I
have ever made .

What's the best dream you've ever had?

Sex Fantasy Of Me and You

Describe the perfect vacation you have had!

Flying to Paris, then taking a train through France, Switzerland, Italy, Then
spending 1 month on a Greek Island together with my Boys ,I had the best time of my
life, and these are my fondest memories. I will do it again.

What are the five most important things in your life ?

God, Family, health, Living to help others without asking for anything in return.
Finally living long enough to tell you that I think you are great. Remember this. I
live to help and if you ever need my help, it's there for the asking Good luck and
much wisdom.

What do you spend most of your money on ?

I spend most of my money Investing on business, going shopping and spending
vacation abroad with my family.

What would you cook for a date at home?

Smiles!!! That is going to be a secrete because I will be making her favorite
meal...Even if I do not know how to, before then I must get instructions from good
quality chefs and also read cooking books, to meet up to perfection the day I will
cook the meal.

What are your favorite movies

I love the Avengers, patriot, Romeo and Juliet, Pearl Harbor, Fly Boys, Titanic,
Superman so many of them but this few I have just listed are my top list.

What are your favorite TV Shows

My favorite Tv shows are Merlin, Smallville, One Trill Hill, Everybody Hates Chris,
Ellen De Generes, Oprah, TSCC, Heroes, Jerry Springer, Keeping up with the
Kadershians�etc.

What brand of music do you like

I love blues, 80s, 90s, Rnb, Jazz, Hip Hop, Gospel Jams, RocknRoll.

Do you have a favorite musician in particular ?

hmmm, Phil Collins is a nice singer who inspires me in terms of music for that he
is my number one musician

What about your favorite music band ?

Mine is ABBA

Tell me one special place you would like to take me to when I come to you
We would go to Tahiti for a 2 weeks vacation, just the two of us....Tahiti is the
largest island in the Windward group of French Polynesia, located in the
archipelago of the Society Islands in the southern Pacific Ocean.

Do you think you can be trusted by your man?

Yes I can be trusted, because I am ready to open up my mind and my heart and also
lay down my life for the woman I love.

What positive lessons have you learned from your past relationships that will help
you succeed in future relationships
I learnt to Love, Trust And Understanding.

Marriage they say "Is For Better, For Worse" do you believe in this principle
Yes I do believe in that, because that is where you have to show that you love your
partner very much.

On a serious note; have you ever thought of leaving your country in search of the
man you want to be with in the future?
Yes so that I learn from her culture and also she learns from my culture.

If you are at a loose end what are some of the following things you do ?
I will have hope and never to give up.

What do you think is the biggest mistake that men/women make in their relationships
?
Not trusting, understanding and trying to find time and share things with each
others.

If you could wake up tomorrow with any superpower, what would it be?
For me it would be the power of clark kent also known as superman, I wanna be the
one to save the day.

Describe some of the most important things in your life

My daughter happiness and me having a complete family is the most important thing I
pray for in my life.

Do You like to re-marry again?

I can remarry again when she love me and love my Daughter so much that she care
about the family been together as one big family with so much

If you are found guilty of a crime, would you admit yourself and accept your
mistakes?
I will admit my self, accept my mistakes, and face the consequences, because I do
abide to the truth.

If you see somebody who needs help, would you be of any support?
Yes I would help in anyway, because it's good to help those that are in need, and
God loves a cheerful giver.

In a relationship how do you see a situation whereby the woman earns more money
than the man
A good relationship where two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for
each other and they respect one another, I don�t think that there will be problem
about that, to me is no problem as far as they both love their selves.

So baby tell me ! What the plan for the first night we met
A room full of Rose flowers... Hot Oil and candles... I will welcome my Queen to
our new World of undying Love and forever happiness, I will lay you on our bed like
a Queen and take off your clothes one by one, and you do the same to me too. And we
start from the Bathroom, we bath each other and make sweet love from the Bathroom
to our room and then continue from where we stop all night long

Are you financially stable

Yes of course I am financially stable, I do receive a Valueable income and I can
take good care of my family, make and keep them happy

What is Your best Moment in Life

My best moment was the day I went to the hospital when my wife was giving birth and
I heard the voice of my daughter crying and then I knew I'm a father with so much
joy in my heart.

Your worse moment in life

When i watched my Wife die before my face ... she couldn't make it through alive

Do you like holding hands and exchanging casual kisses with your partner
Yes..Holding her close and make her feel the warmth of my body while kissing her.

Have you talked about your feelings with someone else?

Yes and you are the only person whom I am sharing my feelings with.