Vanmax 1
Vanmax 1
friend when I came across your profile on Facebook suggestion. You look nice and
have an interesting profile as well. I was hoping we could be able to spend time
getting to know each other better.
I am a single father with a lovely son. My wife died of cancer three years ago.
Since then I have been a single helpless father but my son is with the US military
daycare at Montana Army National Guard Military Base.
I'm working with the U.S military as a military pilot and right now I'm currently
stationed here in Kabul Afghanistan for a peacekeeping mission.
Please I hate to ask this but I hope you don't mind how old are you?
I'm 40 but I will be 41 by November 8 and I believe there's no long way in looking
for a relationship age and distance have no meaning the most important thing is
true love, trust, and time to time conversation.
I like healthy foods such as a good seafood salad,i also love mexican dishes..most
especially chicken tortilla soup I love the color Red.
Sound like fun to me, as for me I enjoy slow or fast dancing, walking in the woods,
holding hands, candlelite dinners, travel, shopping, watching movies, and playing
romantic piano for that special person. I love snuggling and sharing passionate
kisses with that special person too.
That's good for me it's basketball, Football, Golf, Dancing, Running, Swimming,
Volleyball and I most time exercise at least 2-4 times per week.
Do you smoke?
I don't smoke but I do drink though occasionally how about you, how often do you
drink?
Tell me what do you like and dislike about people?.
I don't like cheaters, liars, thieves, or shallow people. Other than that, I'm a
person that likes pretty much everything I'm very easygoing when my loved ones are
happy and when I have a woman who treats me like a King. I do not like the third
party in my friendship, because it brings discouragement, and I don't also like
long-distance friendship but I think I want to give it a try this time, Lol.
I do have a tendency to cry easily, but not always are my tears sad ones I cry also
when I'm happy and surprised. I don't like to cry in front of others so I won't be
embarrassed when I do.
I don't have any reason to be jealous my dear because trust and understanding are
the keys to every relationship and I trust my woman. I'm not the shy type but I
will tell you that I am a bit jealous, that is when other men come too close to my
partner, especially when they are younger men, lol
I'm a hopeless romantic. I love being with my woman and doing little things for her
to put a smile on her face. I enjoy surprising her and doing my part to making her
dreams come true.
My favorite Rose is a Purple rose they are not as common as the other types. My
favorite flowers are Stargazer Lillies and lilac bushes.
Do you have a hangout app? I would love to continue talking with you but here in
the war base we are restricted from so many things, we are not allowed to make or
receive calls, we don't have access to our various accounts just for security
reasons, right now I'm talking to you with my military monitoring desktop and I
could get in trouble talking to you here but I'm been careful here. But I'll prefer
if we talk more on my official mail it will be safer for me here.
Go to your Google play or App store then type in HANGOUT, it will pop out then you
download and sign in using your gmail address.
I love being in the great outdoors seeing the natural beauty God has given to us
that others take advantage of. I love snuggling with the ones I love while watching
a movie. I enjoy meeting others & making a difference in the lives of those around
me. I recently found out that some special people in my life really look up to me &
the feeling of that is AMAZING!
Tell me more about you, are you the only child your parents gave birth to?
I'm actually the only child of my parents, I lost my parents in a fatal motor
accident at the age of 15. I was raised by a late military priest Rev. Fr William
Tracy who introduced me to the military academy. losing my Parents was my worst
experience in life. My Relatives were never cool at all, they maltreated and
abandoned me because of family vendettas, and Joining the military was my only hope
of survival.
I want you to know that I'm searching for a lovely, caring, hard-working, and
family-oriented woman who will be willing to love my son and rekindle him the
motherly love and tenderness which he's been missing since my wife died. It has
always been my dream and intention to start up a new life and a new career once I
return
I'm a Christian
I am not happy with any of our politicians I think they're all a bunch of crooks.
I love music the songs I listen to will usually tell you what kind of mood I'm in
or tell you what's in my heart when words can't begin to describe who I am. When
I'm happy, you'll usually find me singing and I love listening to romantic music or
80's music.
I love all sorts of art but I'm not familiar enough with them yet to know who's
who. Though I do hope to learn more about it all.
I have a few favorite movies. My all time favorite is "City of Angels" it's a movie
where a man sacrificed his life as an angel to experience what it was like to love
the man he was drawn to. I also love Notebook, Sweet November, Sleepless in
Seattle, Grease, Never been kissed, anything with Reese With er spoon. I like
romantic comedies, action movies, Romantic, & ones based on a true story like
Titanic, & Pearl Harbor. There are really so many that I like, I can't really name
them all
I am a very open minded person, someone who accepts people as they are, I am a fair
individual who adapts to changes in life and enjoys life to the fullest, and
looking to meet a woman that I can spend the rest of my life with in good times and
in bad times as well. A woman that I can love and cherished with all my whole being
and heart and I pray to God almighty that he will provide me with that kind of a
woman someday in my life.
I like Football, shooting baskets, playing volleyball, golf and i also love
swimming.
I sing and I play several instruments, I play guitar, French horn, trumpet, oboe, a
little piano and would love to learn.
There are few things about me. I'm a very driven person who does whatever it takes
to change or have a desirable life. I'm very easygoing and enjoy the simple
pleasures of life. I'm very understanding and compassionate towards any situation
and I strongly believe in learning from mistakes and growing together to better
each other.
Do you love to express your feelings or you love to hide your feelings?
I'm a person who would rather express my feelings as I know it's not good to keep
them locked up. It's important to express to others that you care for them & are
there to support & encourage them. I love sharing sweet moments with the woman I
love it makes my heart happy!
Although every relationship has it's ups & downs, I will treat my woman with lots
of love and respect. I like to hold her hand while walking side by side and I enjoy
the little kisses stolen throughout the day and the little smiles she gives me from
across the room. I also believe a man and woman are to walk side by side in life
and so communication and honesty are very important.
My dream is to find a woman who is God fearing who will love, care and support me
and my son and take good care of us and I will love her endlessly too .
Where will you love to spend your honeymoon in case you if am the right man?
I've always dreamed of going to a tropic island for a couple of weeks. We would
stay in a romantic bungalow. Windows open, there would be lace curtains blowing in
a light breeze along with warmth coming from the sunshine shining thru the lace.
Although this would be heaven on earth, I'd be in heaven just being with the woman
God intended me to go thru life's journey with.
I love kids & I treat all kids as if they are my own I favor none but give my love
& support to them & try to be the Godly man I am supposed to be. My son has friends
that call me daddy also.
Cool I love God with all my heart and trust in Him to comfort me and guide me. Only
Him knows what He has installed for us.
Honestly, I haven't gone much in the last few months. In this case, God has come to
where I am spoken to my heart about different situations. I totally believe in
going to church and fellowship however, I don't believe that a person needs to go
to church to be a Christian as going into a chicken house doesn't make you a
chicken.
Yes that's right don't worry when I come home we will always go to church together.
I want to find a woman who would like to share things I learn and am open to
learning new things as well. One who loves to dance would be a miracle, but not
impossible I believe, even if rare, but definitely a bonus, but not a requirement!
lol, I also love a woman who knows how to treat a man like a baby and a baby like a
man.
Same here tell me do you have a place in your heart for a man that is ready to give
you the love and care you ever deserve?
Honestly I would love to be the man you've ever wanted and I believe with time we
will know if we are a perfect match for each other.
It's good to get an upfront and sincere response from you. We need time to talk to
each other and get to know much more about each other, there are a lot of things we
need to know about each other and I'm not the kind of man that rushes into a
relationship or marriage.
MY WORK
I want to tell you more about my work, hope you don't find me boring.
I work with the U.S Special Forces Operational Detachment-Alpha team, assigned to
Company B, 82nd Airborne Division.
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I'm also an information management technologist by discipline. My job here is to
monitor military Intelligence including network administration, database
management, and computer hardware and software implementation. I also join the
combat team on special missions
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I have been here for 9 nmonths and I've got less than 3 months to complete my
assignment here and return back home
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Here in Kabul, we have a lot of departments, units, and subunits including 1st,
2nd, & 3rd Infantry BCTs (Airborne), & CAB as Well as social workers such as
Military doctors and chaplains, nurses, qualified teachers as well as the
administrative and logistics unit, etc. All having a common goal in the fight
against terrorism and insurgence.
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SECRET CHATTING!!!
I want you to know that right now I'm using Military WiFi to chat with you because
I don't own a personal computer, or private cell phone, Soldiers on mission are
restricted from using these devices to ensure proper discipline and good behavior.
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I also want you to understand that chatting with you here in the Military
monitoring unit is prohibited and punishable under the camp rule and Military code
of conduct. If I'm caught in this act, I will have to face a trial or suspension as
the case may be for contravening the camp rules. I know I shouldn't be telling you
all this because my situation here is very critical although I see you as a very
understanding and caring woman. We will be safe as long as no one gets to find
about us. I find pleasure chatting with you notwithstanding the rules which attract
punishment for defaulters.
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they all useless rules and I hate this govt so much We are been used as mercenaries
rather than Patriotic U.S soldiers and citizens. Our patriotism and love for our
father's land are being taken for granted and it hurts so much. The govt has
refused to re-deploy some of our troops who have been serving here for quite a long
time unless by emergency leave which is oftentimes not granted. Our families and
loved ones mean absolutely nothing to the govt. This is a huge failure on their own
part.
Our politicians only use us to enrich themselves and increase their status quo to
the detriment of our lives and families. We risk our lives here for almost nothing
It's hard to imagine, I earn about US$245,300 per annum together with my
allowances, but I don't have full access to them here in the camp until my contract
ends. The condition here is becoming very unbearable for soldiers who constantly
risking their dear lives for humanity and for their fatherland.
Though We are not lacking anything here. Everything we need here such as Food,
water, and shelter, medications are being provided by the U.N Government.
Coming to our feeding habit in the camp, It's been long I ate good home made food,
most of our food comes from the US army and Red cross international, most times
canned food. Gaining access to the kitchen at Officers mess can be wise but most
times I don't have that kind of time or zeal to cook, here on free time. It pains
me a lot that my work is a life line one and any one can die at any time.
A lot of soldiers have died here and some even had mental problems because of work.
Anyone here has the ability to have a mental illness because of the continuous
situation of events. Many soldiers here have died saving the world and innocent
citizens. Last 2 months, a soldier died saving a little girl from being run down by
a vehicle driven by isl terrorist group.
Most times doing what we do here comes from the heart but remembering that we are
being used as machinery in securing wealth, in terms of natural resources in order
to enrich themselves other than doing the normal serving humanity.
Tell me what would you consider a real fun thing for a couple to do
together?...................
there are so many scenarios I could mention here & each depends on the
friendship/relationship. I like romance either way so anything where we would have
a little privacy to talk & stare into the eyes of each other.
1. Do you enjoy a kiss with your eye open or your eye closed?
2. Honey The man you want is the man I want to be, but without you, I can't be that
man
LOVE CONFESIONS/FILLINGS.
The very moment you came into my life I keep thinking about you, you have captured
my heart unconditionally that I think of nothing else but you.
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I want you to know that you have created a positive impact on me that I would love
to spend more time with you here more often, I thoroughly want you in my life and I
know we could work together to actualize this dream.
Your love laying in the deepest grounds of my heart, making naked hopes clad, not
leaving me to my plight or leaving me to crash. Your kind of woman is rare and I
just want to scream for everyone to know that I love you more than words could
describe.
I�m trapped. Not by a snare but by you and even in this trap, I feel all the joy
I�ve desired in a woman and all my hopes are being fulfilled in you. So I�m not
really trapped, just captivated by the kind of woman you are.
Some day soon we will dance holding hands more often Kiss away each other�s tears.
Share moments of joy, stare into your eyes more often and cheer each other up at
every instance.I love you and I patiently look forward to that day.
You�re the definition of perfect love. You�re the epitome of awesomeness. I love
you beyond words.
I�ve got my mind made up and I won�t turn back from loving you. You�re my lasting
breath!
I�ve only caught a glimpse of love until I met you. Now my whole world is wrapped
in an endless measure of love�s dictates!
You�ve shown me the reason to keep falling in love with you. I�ve finally found a
place to live and that�s your heart!
I keep wondering how I�ve managed to live without the awesomeness that your love
now gives! I�m loving you forever, my queen.
HOOD BLOOD LOVE
1 Honey I promise you that distance cannot come in between our love no matter
where I am, my love can travel millions of miles in split seconds, just know I am
always with you because you are here always in my heart. I never thought I would
fall so in love with one like the way I am overwhelmed by your love. You are the
sunshine of my life, for eternity you will be in my heart.
2 Honey I know that I can�t give you the world, but I promise to hold on to you
forever, there is nothing that would give me greater joy than to see you happy
always, you are the best thing since God made man, forever you will be the queen of
my heart, your love is everything to me.
3 Honey There are thousands of yesterday and there are billions of tomorrows but
there is only one today and I will not let the day go by without showcasing my love
for you, telling you how I feel about you each day, I love you every day of my
life.
4 Honey When we grow old things are certainly going to change our hairs will turn
gray our skins will wrinkle, our teeth might even fall out, but nothing can change
my love for you, not even old age. I love you, sweetheart.
5 Honey Nobody tells the breeze to blow, cock to crow, fish to swim or the sun
to shine, just like I don�t need anybody to remind me to tell you I love, because
it�s a default setting in me, I can�t stop telling you I love you because I can�t
stop loving you.
6 Honey Love can be tough at times, that�s why it can be learned, love cannot be
bought because love is to be given, love cannot be kept it should be free, love can
never grow old for it is everlasting, my love for you is forever.
7 Honey You want to know how long I will need you. The answer is Forever
8 Honey I bless the day I met you because being your friend has really changed
my life, falling in love with you was beyond my control, you are one in a million,
you are priceless, you are very precious to me I will love you forever.
1. Never forget that you are a talented, amazing, and wonderful woman in the world.
2. I was told that I would fall in love with a gorgeous woman, but I could never
imagine that this woman will be fantastically pretty with the most extraordinary
personality I�ve ever met.
1. Your love is like a warm blanket that protects me from the misery and pain that
engulfs the world. My knight, my protector, my provider, I love you
3. HONEY I think the way you think. I dream the way you dream. I breathe the way
you breathe. I love you the way you love me!
4. Honey I never knew I was this romantic, until I fell in love with you. I can
say you�re such a great teacher!
5. Honey I think I�m addicted to you,because I�m thinking of you all the time,
which means I�m always intoxicated
6. Honey I used to live in emptiness, trying to find a reason to live. Then You
came into my life and gave me something to fight for.
8. hONEY Some people believe that money can buy you happiness. But there are some
things that money can�t buy. The love that I have for you is proof of that fact.
Honey there�s nothing I can�t do just to be with you; I will mount the tallest
mountain to be by your side, my love. I love you beyond words.
Your love has taught me so many things, like good things do come to those who wait,
your love has also shown me real happiness, in my life I have never felt such joy
spending time with you, times with you is simply nothing short of satisfaction, no
wonder I believe you were created for me. I swear to love you for as long as I
live.
Thank you, What more can a man say to the woman who opened her heart to him,
allowing him to feel the warmth of her love across the great distance that
separates them? You truly have no idea what I feel for you I try to put this
feeling into words, but fail miserably
This feeling of being both scared and at peace, of having both butterflies and a
sense of calm, is a feeling that I have only dreamed about. As the days continue to
pass, my love for you continues to grow