Module Two Resource Guide
Module Two Resource Guide
Cover photo: Lawrence Gervais, 40, and Elizabeth Simon, 38, have created a home space for their children
where they can apply the early childhood development skills they’ve learned from a CRS project funded
by the Hilton Foundation in Geita, Tanzania. Lawrence was selected by CRS and the local diocese as a “role
model” male, to be an example for other men and women in the village. Philip Laubner/CRS
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Purpose....................................................................................................................................................v
Learning objectives..............................................................................................................................1
Learning objectives........................................................................................................................... 21
Attachment and its importance in the early stage of child development ............... 26
Learning objectives.......................................................................................................................... 45
REFERENCES....................................................................................................................................67
SAMPLE REVIEW
“This curriculum is very comprehensive and inclusive. Furthermore, it is very
simple to understand; one can even just read it and use it. As long as you know
English, you do not need a tutor to take you through it. You can just go though
it on your own!” (Reviewer: CRS SCORE ECD Coordinator/Association of Sisters
Kenya (AOSK), April, 2015)
“The age group 0-2, which is a gap in the Zambia government ECD policy, is well
covered in this curriculum. We have been equipped with knowledge and skills on
how to deal with this unique age group, which is very critical in human development.
Infants, toddlers, persons with disabilities and children with HIV need appropriate
interventions to fully grow and develop. How this is done is covered in this
curriculum.” (Reviewer: Member of the CRS SCORE ECD Project Curriculum Review
Team, Kenya, April, 2015)
“The counseling card and the child behavior modification techniques are missing
in the Zambia government curriculum; and we found the caregiver counseling card
and the guidelines for disciplining young children very helpful techniques. We
learned that discipline means teaching and not punishing children and the behavior
modification tips are helpful.” (Reviewer: Master Trainer/sister, CRS SCORE ECD
Zambia, July, 2015)
PURPOSE
The purpose of this guide is to provide information on basic concepts of Early
Childhood Development (ECD), including its components, importance, the age
range classification of ECD, and the expected pattern of children’s developmental
skills in all areas of development--physical-motor, social-emotional, spiritual-moral,
and cognitive-language development. Further topics include the importance of
attachment in child development, ability differences among infants, toddlers, and
preschoolers, and the need for caregivers to differentiate their support according
to children’s individual interests and developmental levels, including shaping the
behavior of children through positive care and guidance in partnership with families.
This guide is divided into three sessions:
1. Session one describes the early childhood period, childhood development, and
how investment in early childhood benefits children and society. Further topics
include factors influencing child development, how development takes place,
domains of child development, and ways in which caregivers and teachers can
work with families and set appropriate developmental and learning goals for
children, including children with special needs.
2. Session two describes the importance of maternal and newborn care and explains
how a caregiver/ child early attachment relationship lays a foundation for child
development. The developmental milestones specific to infants and toddlers in
areas of physical-motor, social-emotional, spiritual-moral, and cognitive-language
development are also discussed. Further topics include how caregivers and
teachers can foster learning and prosocial behaviors for this age group of children.
3. Session three describes the special characteristics of preschool-aged children,
including their milestones in physical-motor, social-emotional, spiritual-moral, and
cognitive-language development. In addition, ideas on how to foster learning and
prosocial behaviors for this age group are provided.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
Government of Kenya: Early childhood care and development is a “framework that targets all children
including the vulnerable and marginalized from conception to eight years of age…and all these children
have the same needs which consist of nutrition, health, nurture, protection, stimulation, and training…”
(National Early Childhood Development Policy Framework, Republic of Kenya, June 2006).
Government of Zambia: Early childhood care and development is a provision of support “for every
young child to realize his/her right to survival, to protection, and to care that will ensure optimal
physical and psychosocial development from birth to age eight…including infant stimulation, health
and nutrition, early childhood education, community development…” (National Policy of Zambia on
Early Childhood Care, Development, and Education: Investing into Our Children’s Future, Everyone’s
Responsibility, 1st Draft by Mulenga, n.d.).
Each and every child has a right to early childhood development. The United Nations
Convention on the Rights of the Child Article 6 (Article 6, UNICEF) highlights that
the child has “a right to live…and develop healthy” and that every child has “the right
to a standard of living that is good enough to meet their physical and mental needs”
(Article 27, UNICEF) http://www.unicef.org/crc/files/Rights_overview.pdf.
The ECD policies of Kenya, Malawi, and Zambia recognize that investment in the
early years of life has multiple return values to the development of both children and
society. For example, Kenya’s national ECD policy document (June, 2006, pp. 2-4)
states the benefits of investing in early childhood development as follows:
Brain development: The development of the brain is most rapid during the first three
years of life. Quality early childhood stimulation, nutritional support, and nurturance
Early identification and intervention: Investment will be spent not only to deliver
outcomes but to also reach the children who need it most. Therefore, children with
disabilities and vulnerable children who are socially marginalized and discriminated
against will have opportunities for early detection and intervention which ensures
child’s survival, health, growth, and psycho-social and intellectual development.
School readiness: All children, regardless of their sociocultural background, will have
equal opportunity to enter school at their appropriate age. The opportunity to help
disadvantaged children attain an equal start in schooling is in the early years of life.
The experiences of early years help young children to build their competence in
all areas of development; the physical-motor, the social-emotional, the cognitive-
language and the moral-spiritual, including a positive attitude towards learning.
Cost savings for society: A quality early childhood environment and education will
translate into better health, fewer illnesses, good academic skills, and fewer school
drop outs and repetition, preparing the child to become a productive citizen. Families
and social services will have less cost in child care and intervention and invest in other
family or national development programs.
• The baby’s brain starts to develop soon after conception and the brain cells are
present at birth.
• Most of the neurological cell connections are made during the first three years of life.
By three years of age, a child’s brain is twice as active as an adult’s brain.
• The care and experiences a child has within the first three years determine the
capacity of the brain to develop. Caregivers and early childhood teachers play
an important role in helping children form strong brain connections. Early brain
stimulation has increased significance for vulnerable children who are exposed to
violence and trauma, inadequate nutrition, and toxic environments.
Below are some ways parents and teachers can help children’s brains make
neural connections:
• Pregnant women need to eat nutritious food and not take drugs or alcohol to make
sure the baby is born healthy.
• Give babies breast milk or iron-fortified baby formula to feed their brains with good food.
• Create safe places for them to play.
• Talk to children to help them learn about language and communication.
• Read to children.
• Sing songs with children.
• Dance with children.
1 Britto in Conrad N. Hilton Foundation Human Sciences Research Council Newsletter (13 July, 2014); CRS,
Lesotho (2012); Fox, Levitt, & Nelson (2010); thelancet.com.
[Note: Different programs classify the early childhood period according to their own
context. Therefore, it is recommended that users of this guide refer to their own early
childhood development national policy guidelines when planning and implementing
early childhood programs.]
WHAT IS GROWTH?
Growth refers to a process of change in the child’s physical body and size. Some
examples of growth are a child’s height, weight, head circumference, shoe size, length
of arms and legs, and body shape.
WHAT IS DEVELOPMENT?
Development begins at conception. It refers to a child’s ability to do more challenging
things as they get older. These skills allow a child to become independent (e.g.,
physical development of large and small motor skills to sit, crawl, hold objects etc.)
and develop with age.
• Children inherit physical characteristics from their parents through their genes (e.g.,
skin, hair and eye color, height, gender).
• Children develop and grow at different rates. Some children grow more rapidly
than others.
• Children belong to families with their own culture, language, and traditions.
• Children are born with different personalities and they respond to people and
situations in different ways. For example, some children can be irritable, easygoing, or
indifferent to outside stimulation.
• Children explore roles related to their gender; e.g., girls mimic their mothers and boys
their fathers.
• Children have different interests and often follow them over a length of time.
• Children have preferred ways of learning called learning styles:
• Auditory learners learn best by listening and being told about things.
• Visual learners learn best when they are shown how to do things.
• Kinesthetic learners learn best by moving and doing practical things.
• Children have different life experiences. Some children may have ill health or a
disability, or a member of their family may be chronically ill.
• Some children who live in dire poverty may experience neglect.
• Teachers need to take individual differences into account when planning an
appropriate program for young children.
• Children inherit characteristics from their parents (e.g., height, skin and eye color,
gender, blood type and temperament). Sometimes, medical conditions and
disabilities are also inherited.
• Genetic differences in other children may cause a child to look different.
• A child can be affected by what happens before birth. If the mother is infected with
HIV, she can pass this on to her unborn baby. The effects of alcohol, nicotine, and
drugs can delay development.
• The family is the most important factor in a child’s development. All children need
the attention of a warm and loving family, to feel safe and to have their basic needs
met. A child who is neglected, abused or separated from his loved ones may fail
to grow and develop. Some children may live in several different family structures
during childhood and find it difficult to form close and trusting relationships with
their families or caregivers.
• The environment in which children grow up plays a huge part in their development.
An important way to support children’s healthy brain development is to provide a
safe and happy environment for them to grow up in, yet many young children live
in unsafe communities. Some children are exposed to abuse or neglect, which has
profound and long term effects on their development.
• Poverty can negatively affect children in many ways. Families often have to live on
very little money due, for example, to unemployment, sickness, or disability. They
may not have enough money for food, clothing or proper housing and sanitation.
The above areas of development are interrelated and affect each other; therefore,
addressing the whole child requires the consideration of each area of development.
The skills a child acquires are influenced by his/her different developmental abilities.
This means social upbringing influences caregiver/child relationships; cognitive
behaviors promote or limit social skills, and physical activities impact language and
thought processes.
For example, why do some children have good social skills? It is because they are
liked by their peers and they get along with them. To get along with and be accepted
by peers, a four-year-old child may:
1. The physical growth of the child such as size, weight, and height.
2. The large and small motor skills that a child uses to do things.
Motor development: The large motor skills of a child are crawling, walking, running,
skipping, climbing, hopping, and jumping. The small motor or fine motor skills of
a child are the use of the hands and fingers to handle or pick up objects such as a
spoon, toy, or crayon. Children use their eyes to coordinate their movements and
handling of objects, and this is called hand-eye coordination.
3 Copple & Bredekamp (2009); Marotz & Allen (2013); Senefeld (2014).
4 Catron & Allen (2008); CRS, Lesotho (2012).
• Learning how to move their large muscles and feel confident about what their bodies
can do.
• Learning how to control the small muscles in their hands and fingers and develop
their hand-eye coordination.
• Being healthy and physically fit.
Physical development is about how children‘s bodies grow and develop and how
children learn to control the movements of their bodies. Growth is the physical
change in children’s height and weight.
During the first two years of life a child’s growth in height and weight is very rapid.
For example, by the time a child is two years old, he/she should have already reached
half of his adult height.
For healthy physical development children need nutritious food and clean water,
regular exercise, enough rest, and healthcare when they are sick. They need safe,
clean, and open spaces, as well as time and encouragement to explore these and
develop their physical skills.
Children also need to complete the immunization schedule so that they are protected
against diseases. As children grow, it is important to check that they are growing and
developing as they should, so that if there are any concerns these can be managed
as early as possible. This means regularly weighing children to see if they are gaining
enough weight for their age.
Motor development involves skill in using the body parts. There are two types of
motor skills:
1. Large muscle skills: Children need to move the different large muscles in their
bodies so that they can do things like crawling, walking, running, skipping, climbing,
hopping, and jumping.
2. Small muscle skills: Children need to control the small muscles in their hands and
fingers to handle things like a spoon or a crayon, or to pick up an object. These
skills are important for learning to write.
• Children notice similarities and differences in the way things look. This is called
visual perception.
• Children notice similarities and differences in the way things sound. This is called
auditory perception.
• Children notice similarities and differences in the way things feel. This is called
tactile perception.
• Children also recognize similarities in the way things taste and smell. This is called
olfactory perception.
INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES
• It is important to remember that each child develops at his/her own pace and
in their own way. One child may take longer to learn some skills than another.
• There is also a lot of overlap because a child will practice one skill and at the
same time move on to learn a new skill. For example, he/she might practice
throwing and catching a ball and at the same time want to learn how to skip.
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop large motor skills by:
• Giving them plenty of time and space to exercise and practice their skills outdoors.
Play lots of movement games.
• Letting children play hopscotch, racing, and other games involving the use of
large muscles.
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop small motor skills by:
• Letting children draw and paint, model with clay, cut with scissors, thread beads, and
do puzzles.
• Encouraging children to do things for themselves, e.g., pour water into a cup, dress
themselves, and wash their hands.
[Note: Refer to the Developmental milestones in this guide for ideas on supporting
children’s development by ages and stages.]
• Giving them plenty of time and space to exercise and practice their
skills outdoors.
• Playing lots of movement games.
• Letting children play hopscotch, racing, and other games involving the use of
large muscles.
Spirituality is about searching for meaning in life and is often found through a belief in
a higher power such as God or Allah. Many people also find meaning in life outside of
organized religion.
Young children are curious and, by the age of four or five, they start to wonder
and ask questions about life, death, and God. Children at this age are still concrete
thinkers and do not understand abstract concepts of belief. Parents can help their
children learn about the family’s spiritual practices by including them in cultural and
religious celebrations and customs. In this way, they will develop a sense of belonging
within their family and community. Children also need to be helped to value cultural
and religious differences in other people. Children learn common values such as
kindness and compassion when they observe these in people and then imitate them.
Moral development is about knowing and being able to make the right choices.
Children between the ages of two and five years old believe that something is either
Caregivers and teachers can nurture moral development and help children learn
about right and wrong by:
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Social development is about how a child gets along with other people in family and in
the society at large.
Social and emotional development are closely tied. How children feel about themselves
will affect how they interact with others. A child who feels good about himself/herself
will be more likely to feel good about being with other people. As children develop
emotionally they learn to express their feelings in ways that are acceptable.
Development and learning goals for young children in the area of social and
emotional development include:
A child’s early relationship with his parents and family caregivers is very important
for health, social, and emotional development. A child who has not formed strong
attachments in early stages of development may be fearful of interacting with other
children and adults.
A SENSE OF TRUST
During the first year of life, learning to trust is the most important need for babies.
They are totally dependent on their mothers or caregivers to meet their needs. If
their needs are met over and over again in a loving and consistent way, they will learn
to rely on other people and learn to trust them. If the caregiver does not attend to
children when they are upset or address their needs, they may become mistrustful of
others. If they have developed a sense of trust in the early stages of their lives, they
will continue to form trusting relationships with other people as they grow older.
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop a sense of trust by:
• Providing a safe environment and following a regular routine so that children know
what to expect every day
• Developing close relationships by getting to know each child better
• Having simple rules and helping children follow them
• Responding to children’s needs for attention
A child’s self-esteem is how they feel about themselves. If they feel good about
themselves, they will have a high self-esteem. If they do not feel good about
themselves or do not feel valued and accepted, they will have low self-esteem.
The way people respond to children will directly affect how they feel about
themselves. When children are praised for their efforts and achievements, they will
feel confident in what they can do. However, if they are constantly being put down or
scolded, they will start to doubt their abilities.
Parents and teachers play an important role in making children know that they are
loved and appreciated. Making children feel loved and appreciated helps them to feel
secure about themselves and positive about their abilities.
The best way to build self-esteem in children is to make them feel loved, challenged,
and competent. Parents and teachers play an important role in making children know
Children’s self-esteem is hurt when other children insult them or call them names.
Children need to be helped to understand that these behaviors are hurtful and
teachers need to make it clear that they will not be permitted in the preschool.
Children should be helped to learn to care for and appreciate one another.
Children with disabilities will learn and be as much a joy to their families as
any other child. Children with disabilities have the right to be included in every
aspect of family and community life. Parents, teachers, and other children play
a vital role in supporting and including them.
CULTURAL IDENTITY
An important part of a child’s self-concept is their cultural identity. All children
develop within families and communities, giving them a sense of belonging. They are
able to feel proud about who they are and where they come from. Language is an
important part of cultural identity, and families need to be supported in teaching their
children their home language.
Teachers need to be sure that children see themselves and their families in the learning
environment. This includes play, teaching and learning materials, pictures, and books.
Teachers should invite parents, caregivers, and other community members to share
their cultural heritage through stories and other activities in the preschool.
Minority children have the right to practice their own culture, language, and religion,
and it is important for teachers to find ways to bring these practices into the
classroom. Children and families can be invited to share traditions and festivals with
the other children in the preschool.
By the age of three, children are beginning to play cooperatively and friendship
preferences start to emerge. They often play with both genders and friendships
3–4 years
are fluid, with the choice of activity being more important to children than who
else is involved in the activity.
The first stable friendships begin to emerge. Children actively start to seek
the company of their friends. They share willingly with their friends and having
5–7 years friends starts to become important. Sometimes a child may cry if his friend has
not come to school that day. It is also common for children to start to choose
same-sex friends.
During the toddler years, between about one and two and half years, children want
to explore things they could not do or reach before. They want to do everything
themselves including dressing and feeding themselves. This is also the time when they
start learning to control their bladders and bowels. During this period, children are
still developing their skills and it is important that they are not made to feel shame or
guilt when they do not succeed.
From around three years of age, children further develop their ability to do things
on their own, and start to make their own decisions, choose their own activities, and
explore and learn in their own way. They understand that there are things they should
not do and are able to follow simple rules. Between three and five years of age,
children are developing more self-control, and they can sit and concentrate for longer
periods of time.
EXPRESSING FEELINGS
Children’s emotional development involves identifying, understanding, and dealing
with their own feelings. It is also about learning other people’s feelings and caring
for them. Very young children have angry feelings and get frustrated because they
have not yet developed the language they need to express these feelings. They
may also want to do things that they are not yet able to do. Once children are able
to talk about their feelings, they develop better self-control. By the time they start
school, children are more aware of their own feelings and the feelings of others. This
is a normal part of children’s development and they need help from their parents,
teachers, and other caregivers to manage their emotions.
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop socially and emotionally, helping
them learn to trust other people and things by:
Caregivers and teachers can help children feel good about themselves and what they
can do by:
Caregivers and teachers can help children learn to be independent and develop
self-control by:
• Storing play materials at a height and in areas that they can reach so that they can
help themselves
• Encouraging children to do things for themselves
• Supporting children when they want to try something new
• Setting simple rules
• Helping children control their own behavior
• Helping children resolve issues peacefully
• Modeling good behavior
• Encouraging children to help with preparing and serving food, sweeping the floors,
packing away toys, etc.
Caregivers and teachers can help children learn to express their feelings by:
COGNITIVE DEVELOPMENT
Development and learning goals for young children in the area of cognitive
development include:
• Learning about themselves, their families, and the people around them
• Learning about the environment in which they live
• Learning to concentrate
• Acquiring thinking and problem-solving skills
Cognitive development is the way that children learn about their world, develop
thinking skills, and learn how to solve problems. It is strongly influenced by the child’s
own experiences with objects, things, and the people around him/her.
Learning about the world: Children need to learn about themselves and their families,
and the people around them. They also need to learn about their environment, e.g., all
the different objects around them, and the animals, insects, and plants in nature.
Developing thinking skills: For children to learn about concepts like color, shape,
size, texture, and quantity, they need to develop thinking skills that help them
recognize, match, and classify (group) things that are the same and things that are
different. These thinking skills will help them to better understand numbers and other
mathematical concepts.
INTELLIGENCE TESTING
Until recently, it was believed that children’s intelligence could be measured by
testing. Children were then considered to be intelligent or not intelligent according to
their IQ test score. Today it is believed that people are intelligent in different ways and
being intelligent entails more than doing well on a test. It is important for teachers
to value each child’s own learning style and strengths, so that they can plan suitable
activities to suit the different learning styles.
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop cognitively by helping children
learn more about themselves, their families, and the people around them by:
Caregivers and teachers can help children learn about the environment in which they
live by:
• Taking walks around the neighborhood to help them find out more about nature
• Providing books and pictures about the environment
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop their thinking and problem-solving
skills by:
• Providing lots of things for children to play and experiment with, for example:
• Building with blocks and learning about shape and space
• Making snakes with clay and learning about shorter and longer
• Filling containers with sand and learning about more, less, and how many
• Playing memory games, e.g., looking at a page in a book and then naming
everything from memory
• Putting cards face down and turning them up one at a time to find matching pairs
• Remembering the events in a story or what happened the day before
• Encouraging children to work in their own ways and try to solve their own problem
Language development is how children learn to speak and listen, and later read and
write. Infants, toddlers, and preschoolers need to use language to:
Speaking and listening lay the foundation for writing. Young children learn how to
speak, read, and write through day-to-day interaction and conversation with people,
caregivers reading aloud books to them or listening to oral stories, telling stories,
scribbling and drawing, and early exposure to print materials. This type of holistic
input is referred to as whole language approach.
Children need lots of practice in using words to talk to others about things that
interest them, the things they know, and the things they can do. Children learn to read
by being read to and given the opportunity to explore printed materials. When they
look at books and enjoy them, they will want to read on their own. They also learn
about important print concepts for their own language, such as that print is read from
left to right and from top to bottom.
Research has shown that the way parents speak to their children plays an important
role in language development. Caregivers and teachers need to encourage a home
environment that supports literacy and language.
Although children are capable of acquiring more than one language at a time, they need
to first master their home language before they are ready to learn a second language.
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop their language and communication
skills by:
• Listening to children
• Talking to them about what they are doing and introducing new words
• Playing rhyming games
• Teaching nursery rhymes and songs
• Telling and reading stories
• Encouraging children to make up their own stories
• Providing a variety of books for children to page through
• Ask parents to teach them some basic signs and share these basic signs with
the other children in the class
• Use their own gestures to make themselves understood
• Use pictures and real objects to help children understand
Development and learning goals for young children in relation to approaches towards
learning include:
There are attitudes and behaviors that help children to become good learners and be
successful throughout their lives, such as:
• Creativity
• Initiative
• Curiosity and interest
• Motivation
• Thinking and problem-solving skills
• Persistence
• Attentiveness
• Reflecting to build new knowledge
Caregivers and teachers can help children develop positive approaches to learning by:
• Physical/motor: The child shows fine and large motor skills not quite fitting for
his/her age
Mary comes from Mavuto village in the traditional authority Mzikuwola in Mzimba. Mary (fake name) was
born from an HIV infected mother who died during her birth due to excessive blood loss. The parents
were ordinary farmers in a very rural village. The father too died. Since then, she has been living with her
grandmother who struggles to find ideal food for her.
I came to know Mary when I was going for my routine home visits of other children who are HIV infected
and affected. I met her grandmother, Mrs. Bamusi. Mrs. Bamusi started telling me about Mary’s life and
asked me for prayers. At 24 months of her age, Mary started having on and off episodes of diarrhea and
fevers. Her weight also started to drop. When I saw the child, I did not hesitate to ask the grandmother if
Mary had ever had an HIV test. Her response was that Mary was never tested before.
I counseled the grandmother to have the HIV test done for the child, which she agreed to. They were taken
to the nearest HIV testing center. Mary was tested and was found positive. Mary was then referred to
our community hospital where she was started on ARVs and other treatments and the grandmother was
taught how to prepare locally-found foods to improve the health of the child. After being on treatment for
six months, Mary got better and started gaining weight. Now Mary is four years old and running around like
any other child. The grandmother, who had almost lost hope, amazingly looks at Mary and says she really
looks like her mother. Having improved, Mary was registered at a village preschool. We thank God for it.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
• Describe the stages of development during the prenatal period and factors
influencing fetal and newly born child development.
• Describe how a caregiver/child attachment relationship during the first three years of
life is critical to the development of the whole child.
• Describe the role of caregivers during caregiving routines.
• Understand the developmental skills of infants and toddlers across all the domains
of development.
• Identify ways to foster the development and learning of infants and toddlers.
• Identify ways caregivers can deal with the challenging behavior of toddlers and
promote prosocial behavior.
During the first trimester, conception to three months, the baby develops:
During the second trimester, four to six months, the baby shows:
5 Charlesworth (2012); Diener (2009); Marotz & Allen (2013); USAID Bureau for Global Health & Maternal
Child and Health Integrated Program (MCHIP) (2014).
Health care: A woman needs to have a regular health/medical checkup at all times
(e.g., before, during, and after the prenatal period). By doing this she can prevent:
• Low birth weight (LBW), premature, or still birth, and disabilities that can happen to
the unborn child
• Malaria, tuberculosis or syphilis, which can be dangerous to the growth and
development of the child
• Transmission of HIV to the fetus (this is possible if the mother is positive with HIV and
enrolled in PMTCT services on time)
• Protect her health from any kind of environmental hazards such as pesticides.
• Refrain from harmful practices such as, smoking, drinking alcohol, and taking harmful
drugs. These substances directly affect the wellbeing of the developing child leading
to low birth weight, still birth, or mental retardation.
Healthy nutrition: Good prenatal nutrition ensures healthy development of the child.
Research shows that maternal and child under-nutrition is the cause of 3.5 million
deaths annually (The Lancet, 2008; Hesperian, 2012). Adequate consumption of
nutrition and calories by a pregnant mother can prevent:
• Still birth
• Low birth weight babies
• Newborn death
• Mental retardation; speech problems
• Cerebral palsy
• Rickets
• Epilepsy
6 Burns (2012); Charlesworth (2012); Marotz & Allen (2012); Wittmer & Petersen (2014); Santrock (2013);
USAID Bureau of Global Health & MCHIP (2014).
Adequate livelihood: Mothers who live in poverty lack sufficient nutritious food and
medical care. To ensure healthy child development, it is important that community
services support poor families with programs such as nutrition supplement,
maternal and child health care, and income-generating and farming activities. The
advantages are:
• Families can ensure nutritious and sufficient food for their children.
• Mothers become healthy and can appreciate breastfeeding, which is helpful for the
healthy growth and development of the child, including prevention of illnesses such
as diarrhea.
Rest: Severe stress on pregnant mothers can affect the child’s development. Some
risks related to maternal stress are:
• Miscarriage
• Premature birth or low birth weight of baby
• Problems related to breathing, newborn irritability, digestion
The most effective method for preventing teen pregnancy is by working on the major
factors that lead to teen pregnancy:
• Providing positive behavior guidance and counseling throughout the period of early
childhood and adolescence
• Helping girls and boys to become successful in school
• Counseling children on early behavioral problems
• Counseling parents on providing healthy and functional family environments for
their children
• Helping families to overcome the pressure that comes with poverty, i.e., establishing
better income and be able to provide food, shelter, health, safety, and education for
their children
• Working with males to help them understand that becoming a father as a teenager
is not good and if it happens, that they need to become responsible fathers and seek
help to become a good one.
It is also important to be mindful that due to culture, some mothers may prefer
to give birth to their child at home, without being aware of the danger signs that
can put the life of both the mother and the child in harm’s way. Some examples of
danger signs are “feeling very weak; pain in the belly; swelling of hands and face;
blurred eyesight; fever” (Hesperian). In such situations, it is important to respect
the families’ norms and values. But it is also important to counsel them about the
danger signs and how to access safe delivery services in case of emergency, or even
for quality safe delivery.
When the caregiver changes the baby’s cloth, the child reacts by moving his/
her body, e.g., arms and legs.
When the caregiver holds the child, he/she snuggles to the caregiver’s body.
When the caregiver plays a game with the newborn by singing or calling his/her
name, the child responds by turning his/her face towards the caregiver.
• An easy child responds positively and happily to routine activities without making
a fuss; he/she gets along well with the caregiver and adjusts quickly to the
surrounding environment. This child often elicits positive reaction and responses
from the caregiver.
• A child with a challenging temperament has difficulty in getting along with caregivers
and routine activities, resists new activities with intense reactions and takes time to
adjust to changes of routines. This child is more likely to elicit unfavorable reactions
or responses from the caregiver. For example, a caregiver might ignore the child; her
indifferent reaction in turn affects the bonding between her and the child and this
can cause the child to experience emotional problems.
• A slow-to-warm-up child is quiet, shows little reaction to changes in routines, and
takes time to adjust to new happenings and experiences. This child may receive
somewhat slow responses and reactions from the caregiver when compared to a
child who engages emotionally with the caregiver.
Because each child has a unique personality, it is important for caregivers to be mindful
of this fact and provide their support as appropriate to each child’s individual needs.
The sisters are working with the community in Turkana where there is a high prevalence of anemia,
malnutrition, early marriages, and conflicts due to cattle rustling. Cases of mothers giving birth to
twins are common. However, most of these children are malnourished as mothers lack the food
they need to produce adequate breast milk. In addition, some children also suffer from anemia at
early ages. Given the harsh climatic conditions, poor transport and communication networks, and
inadequate health facilities, many children below age five die of anemia and malnutrition each year.
Due to inadequacy of resources, the congregation is supporting few marginalized families, e.g., the
elderly, widows, and orphans. Given the great work that sisters are doing in this community, many of
the people believe that the sisters are the only people who can listen to their concerns, especially on
child care and nutrition issues. This makes the congregation overstretch their resources in attempts to
meet the needs of the families.
Another challenge that the families are experiencing is polygamy. Women are struggling to raise
their children in polygamous families since in most instances the father is away or is looking after the
livestock or is with another wife. The men hardly support nor provide for the families. This situation
contributes to high levels of malnutrition.
WHAT IS ATTACHMENT?
A positive, trusting relationship that a caregiver and a child form during the first
three years of the child’s life is called attachment. During this period the child’s brain
develops as he/she actively interacts with the caregiver and learns about his/her
world through the five senses: touch, smell, taste, sight, and hearing. Attachment
7 Balban (2006); Deiner (2009); Gonzalez-Mena & Widmeyer Eyer (2012); Riley, San Jaun, Klinkner, &
Ramminger (2008); Swim & Watson (2011); WHO & UNICEF Care for Child Development (2012).
STAGE 1—PRE-ATTACHMENT
The first stage of attachment takes place between birth to four or six months. The
child easily complies with any caregiver’s comforting gesture (e.g., holding, cuddling)
without fussing. To fulfill his/her attachment need, the child communicates with the
caregiver using body language, gestures, and verbal cues like smiling, crying, and
cooing. Babies cry when they feel hungry. However, when a baby cries continually, it
is a sign of seeking attention and comfort from the caregiver. It is important that the
caregiver responds to the child’s communication needs on time and with sensitivity.
The caregiver can do this by hugging, cuddling, playing, singing, or humming
traditional songs or rhymes and playing with the baby.
STAGE 2—ATTACHMENT-IN-THE-MAKING
The second stage of attachment takes place between four to eight or nine months.
The infant begins to show the ability to recognize familiar voices, faces, or people
around him/her. This ability is related to the cognitive development of the infant
because he/she is now able to tell whether their primary caregiver is present or
absent in the room. The infant follows the movement of the primary caregiver with
his/her eyes, smiles at them, and cries or fusses when the caregiver leaves the room
or when being left with another unfamiliar person. The state of the infant’s ability to
know that his/her caregiver or other object still exists, even if she or it is out of sight,
is called object permanence.
STAGE 3—CLEAR-CUT-ATTACHMENT
The third stage of attachment takes place around eight or nine months up to two
years of age. The infant begins to show interest to actively engage and make contact
with the caregiver. The infant’s relationship with the primary caregiver becomes
stronger and he/she comes to know their caregiver well. Therefore, the infant begins
to show discomfort when being separated from his/her caregiver and/or held by an
unfamiliar person. The infant resists separation by crying and clinging to the caregiver
and hides behind her when seeing a stranger. This state of fear is a sign of normal
cognitive and emotional development and is called separation or stranger anxiety.
Note: Separation or stranger anxiety reaches its peak at about the child’s first
birthday. If the child is adopted or enters a child care facility just at this time, the
transition can be very difficult. Whenever possible, it is better if adoption or the
transition of the child to a new home or caregiver is done before or after the peak of
separation anxiety. But it is encouraging to know that separation anxiety is a normal
developmental process and a sign of strong and healthy attachment behavior. All
children, including adopted ones, who have healthy attachment with at least one
caregiver thrive and become successful in life.
• Mistrust people and expect less positive response from others. Doubt leads to the
child’s learning not to trust peers or adults.
• Have difficulty in learning, such as lack of focus and emotional control
• Show undesirable or challenging behavior like not complying with rules, limits,
and boundaries
• Show withdrawn behavior like not mixing and playing with peers or exploring their
environment freely
Another issue is that newborn orphan infants moved to group home care may not
necessarily get the chance to form a steady and warm relationship with one caregiver
whom they can trust. It is important for group home care providers to recognize
the critical role of attachment on children’s development. The key message is that
newborns need to form a consistent attachment to at least one caregiver before
four to six months of age.
For this reason, most caregivers do not make much effort to engage children in
learning activities. For example, during caregiving routines, many caregivers may
spend a number of hours every day with their children without actively engaging
them in play or conversations. This leads to the children missing the chance to start
learning early in their life.
Caregivers are the main teachers of infants and toddlers. Using caregiving routines as
an opportunity, caregivers can teach infants and toddlers a variety of developmental
and life skills.
Caregiving routines are essential everyday activities that nurture the early growth,
development, and learning of a child. They are times when the caregiver spends a
focused interaction with the child during her caregiving activities. These moments are
ideal for fostering the child’s development, including the development of the brain.
• Feeding
• Toileting
• Bathing, washing, dressing
• Sleeping
• Playing
Think of the time a caregiver spends feeding, bathing, and diapering a child. During
this time, the caregiver can engage the child to play, talk, and explore her/his
surroundings. When she does this the child begins to learn about different things
and develop more curiosity to explore his/her surroundings. This opportunity will not
happen if the focus of the caregiver is only to finish the task and quickly get back to
her daily activities.
The Caregiver’s practice checklist below can help caregivers reflect on their daily
routine activities with young children.
Do I spend enough time to interact and play with the child using
3.
songs, games, toys, stories, etc.?
Do I recognize and value the child’s culture and teach the child in
10.
a way that his/her family values and traditions are respected?
8 Gonzalez-Mena & Widmeyer Eyer (2012); Senefeld (2014); Swim & Watson (2011); WHO & UNICEF Care for
Child Development (2012).
1. What is the difference between the first and the second diaper-changing scenes?
2. Which of the ten caregiving roles in the checklist were applied or not applied by Caregiver 1 and
Caregiver 2?
Physical-motor development
Small muscle development Provide safe objects for babies to look at, grasp,
squeeze, pick up and put in their mouths, e.g., soft
• Opens and closes hands
pieces of fabric, ribbon, or a soft ball.
• Plays with fingers and toes
Put a finger in the baby’s hand and encourage him/
• Takes hand to mouth her to grasp it by closing their fingers around it.
• Grasps and tries to hold objects or a finger Put rattles or other small objects into the baby’s
hand for him/her to hold.
Social-emotional development Respond to the baby’s cries quickly and care for
their needs to be fed, changed, or held.
• Tries to tell you he/she is hungry, tired, wet, or
needs a cuddle Care for the baby in a warm loving way, holding
them close to the body.
• Gets easily excited or upset
Smile, talk, and sing to the baby when changing
• Loves to be held and cuddled
nappies, washing, feeding, or playing.
• Begins to smile in response to someone else
Respond to coos and facial expressions.
• Learns to recognize the faces and voices of
parents, family, and caregivers
• Returns a smile
• Shows excitement through waving arms, kicking,
wiggling
• Scared of loud noises, new situations, and people
9 CRS, Lesotho (2012); Marotz & Allen (2013); Johns Hopkins University and Maryland State Department of
Education (2010).
Physical-motor development
Large muscle development Place a plaything on the floor out of reach and
encourage baby to crawl over and get it.
• Creeps on his/her stomach and crawls
Stand the baby on your lap with his/her feet on your
• Sits alone without support
6-12 legs and let them bounce up and down or dance.
months • Pulls up to a standing position
Put a plaything or object on a chair or table and let
old
• Stands holding onto furniture with support him/her play with toys while standing.
• Stands alone Stand behind the baby, hold him/her under their
• Walks with help or by holding on to furniture armpits and walk forward together.
Small muscle development Hang things just out of the baby’s reach and
encourage him/her to stretch out, reach and grasp
• Grasps objects with thumb and forefinger
them.
• Lets go with hands
Give the baby many things to pick up, hold and
• Bangs and shakes things put in his/her mouth, e.g., a plastic spoon, feather,
• Uses finger to point sponge, piece of cloth, and things that squeak.
• Drinks from a cup Let the baby start holding a cup when he/she
drinks.
• Begins to eat finger foods
Cut food into finger-sized portions and let the baby
• Puts things in boxes and takes them out again pick it up with his/her fingers.
Give the baby boxes, packets, and things to pack
and unpack.
• Shows frustration when needs are not met Play peek-a-boo (hide-and-seek) games.
Pick up the baby and soothe him/her when they are
upset.
Cognitive development Have many safe things that the baby can explore
– look at, touch, taste, and make sounds with, e.g.,
• Repeats actions that cause a response e.g.,
plastic containers and lids, clothes pegs, piece of
shakes a rattle to repeat a sound
fabric, plastic key ring, rattles, soft balls, plastic
• Claps hands, waves bye-bye spoons, coffee cans with lids.
• Solves simple problems, e.g. moves one toy to Provide a safe place for the baby to crawl around
reach another toy and explore.
• Drops toys over and over again Give the baby plenty of time to explore.
• Looks for things not in sight, e.g., a play thing Point to and name the baby’s mouth, ears, nose,
under a blanket fingers.
• Follows simple instructions Play hide-and-seek games with the baby.
• Places objects inside one another
Language development Talk with the baby about what he/she is doing and
name objects around him/her.
• Understands more words, e.g., body parts
Point to and name different parts of the body.
• Makes word sounds
Describe what objects look like or how
• Begins to say first words by the 10th or 11th
month, e.g., da-da or ma-ma they sound.
• Vocabulary between two and twelve words Sit with the baby and show him/her pictures or look
at books about familiar things.
Toddlerhood 1 to 3 years
Physical development Turn on the radio and dance, jump, and clap to the
rhythm with your child.
Large muscle development
Make a ball by stuffing the toe of a sock with plastic
• Walks alone
bags. Throw and catch the ball together.
• Takes a few steps backwards and sideways
1 to 2 Attach a piece of wire or string to a tin, bottle, or
• Pulls or pushes toy when walking cardboard box to make a push or pull toy.
years
• Crawls up steps and climbs onto low furniture Let your child play outside and practice walking,
• Starts to run around running, and jumping.
• Dances to music
• Tosses or rolls a ball
18–24 months
• Uses two or three words in a sentence
• Vocabulary of a few hundred words,
• says ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ if asked
Approaches to learning Encourage the child to work out things for himself/
herself, e.g., “I wonder what would happen if...”
• Moves towards object or asks to play with
something that interests him/her Ask what will happen next, e.g., “We’ve picked the
spinach from the garden. What should we do with it
• Uses senses to learn more about an object
now?”
• Asks “What’s that?” or “Why?”
Join in play, and answer the child’s questions.
• Approaches an unfamiliar adult
Break down a task into different steps.
• Tries new food
Let the child repeat things over and over to learn a
• Plays near others skill.
• Watches how another child plays and then Praise the child for trying to do something, as well
imitates them as when they succeed.
• Likes to try new skills and do them on their own
• Repeats actions to find out more
Large muscle development Walk as much as you can with your child.
• Walks up and down steps two feet at a time Give plenty of opportunities for your child to play
outside, playing ‘follow-the- leader’ games, catch
• Runs easily and stops when he/she needs to
games, and
2 to 3 • Walks backwards
kicking a ball back and forth.
years • Jumps with both feet together
• Kicks a large ball
• Stands on one foot
• Climbs well
Cognitive development Let your child sort things and put things together
according to shape, color, or size, e.g., all the blue
• Matches an object to a picture in a book
shirts, all the spoons, all the boxes of the same
• Plays make-believe with dolls, animals, and size. Name the objects, shapes, and colors that
people he/she is using.
• Completes puzzles with three or four pieces Put small things into pairs of empty cool drink tins,
• Understands the concept of ‘two.’ e.g., seeds, sand, small stones. Tape the tins closed.
Let the child shake the tins and try to find the tin
that has the matching sound.
Match similar objects one-to-one to introduce the
idea of numbers, e.g., “Get one plate for you, one
plate for daddy, and one plate for me.”
Encourage the child to play pretend games.
DEVELOPMENTAL DELAYS
Remember that every child develops and learns at his/her own pace. However, if a
child is far behind in meeting the milestones listed for his/her age group, that could
be a developmental alert and the child may need special help. Remember that
special health watch is even more significant for children affected by HIV and AIDS
and children with disabilities because they are more vulnerable and at risk compared
to children without serious physical and health conditions.
It is very important that caregivers observe each child’s wellbeing every day and
if concerns arise they can refer the child to a health worker for early screening and
appropriate early intervention. Caregivers at all times must put in place contact
information on health referral systems that exist in the community and closely work
with health workers providing services to young children.
Note: Share the above child development information with families. Make a home visit
and share information with parents and family members about child development
and ways in which parents can foster learning for their children. One way to share
information during a home visit is to prepare and use a counseling card that contains
key ideas about how children develop and learn and what caregivers can do to
foster their development. The Positive Parenting Counseling Card developed by
Catholic Relief Services for THRIVE Early Childhood Development Program in Malawi,
Kenya, and Tanzania is a good resource to use. An example of this counseling card is
provided below:
Illustration / CRS
Caregivers and teachers usually find toddlers’ behavior challenging. Toddlers behave
this way because they do not know other ways of expressing their feelings. Infants
and toddlers are not yet able to use words to express their anger, love, or frustration.
Testing limits is also a developmentally appropriate behavior for toddlers.
TODDLERS BITE
It is normal for toddlers to bite a person or an object. They bite because they have not
yet developed the ability to express their feelings in words. Children bite, for example,
out of love, to get attention, when they feel frustrated, to experiment (to see what
happens when they bite), to imitate others; they also bite when someone takes away
their toy or they are afraid and do not feel safe.
• Biting hurts people and should not be allowed. Observe children regularly to prevent
biting. Help the child who is biting to use another means to express his/her feeling.
For example, if the child bites out of love, show hugging as an alternative means of
expressing emotion.
• Give approval to the child when he/she shows positive and desirable ways of
expressing feelings.
• Recognize that developmentally, toddlers are not yet capable of sharing. As they
grow and develop, they will develop increased mental and emotional abilities that
enable them to share gradually. Before they share, toddlers need to first learn how to
take turns. Therefore, teach and model turn- taking during play activities. Providing
enough and duplicate toys can also minimize fighting over toys.
10 Dodge, Rudick, & Berke (2011); Gonzalez-Mena & Widmeyer Eyer (2012); Senefeld (2014); Swim & Watson
(2011); Tadesse (2014).
• Assist toddlers’ effort to become independent. This can be done by engaging them
in the daily routines of a household or daycare activities. Allow toddlers to make
choices about what they want to do within a reasonable sense of limits. Choice
gives toddlers a sense of self-accomplishment. Avoid offering a toddler too many
choices because it can be confusing. Usually two realistic choices work best for the
toddler’s thinking ability. For example, say, “You can eat the bread or the rice.” An
example of an unrealistic choice is, “You may come with me now or you may stay
alone on the playground.”
• Adjust or change the environment. If you think the toddler may be in harm’s way,
modify the environment by removing dangerous objects or by putting the child into
a new and safe place. If the child is crawling, avoid coarse areas and place him/her
on a smooth surface or grass. Explain to the child what you are about to do and why.
Know the child’s needs and behaviors well and arrange the environment as suitable for
anticipated behavior. Doing this prevents problems and encourages positive behavior.
• Observe a child and know why he/she is likely to get upset and try to remove the
things causing the behavior.
• Always set a transition time between activities and let the toddler know about it. You
can do this by singing a transition song, ringing a bell, clapping hands, or repeatedly
saying, “It’s time to…” When you do this, you are giving toddlers a sense of order
and predictability; they gradually learn the routines and comply with rules without
throwing tantrums.
• Remember children learn through modeling! If a toddler is in a tantrum, try to calm
yourself and then calm the child with a controlled and soft voice; make sure the child
is not hurting himself/herself and you are there to help him/her.
• Give approval to a desirable behavior. For example, you can tell a child who was
about to throw a piece of block, “John, I saw that you are keeping the blocks and did
not throw them, that is good.” By making the “I see..” statement, you can prevent the
undesirable behavior in toddlers.
• Use simple rules that toddlers can understand easily. State your rules in positive
terms. For example, instead of saying, “Do not eat before you wash your hands,” say,
TODDLERS FIGHT
Toddlers fight because they do not yet have the ability to express their feelings in
words. When they are angry they fight. They usually get angry if someone takes away
their possessions, if they want a thing that belongs to another child and cannot get
it, or if people stop them from what they are about to do. They scream, cry, push, or
snatch from or throw things at a child.
• Recognize the toddler’s feelings and offer help. For example say, ““You are angry and
that is okay. But I will not let you hit a child because that hurts him/her. Let me help
you so that you stop hitting.”
• Encourage and teach toddlers to use appropriate words for their feelings.
• To an angry toddler you can say, “Paul, if you are angry with Anna then say to
her, ‘I am mad.’”
• To a child who snatches away a ball from a child, you can say, “Jane, if you want
Paul’s ball then say to Paul, ‘I want your ball, please.’” Shouting at toddlers and
punishing them may not yield the desired behavior.
Overall, the first step to teach toddlers prosocial behavior is to observe and identify
the problematic behavior and prevent it. Remember that there is no one correct way
of disciplining toddlers because each child develops as an individual in different social
and cultural contexts.
LEARNING OBJECTIVES
By the end of this session, participants will be able to:
• Identify the role of teachers in the development and learning of preschool-aged children.
• Describe the developmental milestones of preschool-aged children across all
domains of development.
• Identify ways to foster the development of preschool-aged children.
• Identify ways to foster the spiritual and moral development of preschool-aged children.
• Identify guidance techniques to promote prosocial behavior among preschool-
aged children.
• Describe strategies that can influence positive parenting among families.
Preschoolers show increased desire for independence and want to master skills such
as climbing, jumping, drawing, writing, counting, reading, building, pouring milk into
cups without spilling, constructing, etc.
It is common to hear preschoolers saying, “I can do it!” and expect adults’ approval
for what they have created or accomplished. Their increased mental ability allows
them to imagine and create things and ask “Why?” questions repeatedly. They enjoy
activities such as fantasy play, storytelling, constructing things, and group play.
Caregivers/teachers need to encourage preschoolers’ effort for self-dependence
through positive guidance and assistance, as needed.
The Preschool Teacher Practice Checklist 11 below can help you to assess and reflect
on your own work with young children or invite a mentor or a supervisor to observe
your work and provide you with comments. The checklist provides some of the
main expected and appropriate practices of a preschool teacher. The teacher or
the observer rates how often (A=Always, S=Sometimes, R=Rarely) the teacher
demonstrates these specific practices and provides their feedback in the comment/
reflection column.
COMMENT/
PRACTICE A S R
REFLECTION
Facilitating interaction
Indicators:
Nurturing
Indicators:
Indicators:
COMMENT/
PRACTICE A S R
REFLECTION
• Encouraging children to talk about what they feel and to ask
questions
Indicators:
Indicators:
• Encouraging children to play and learn with things that are relevant
to their own life and familiar to their surroundings and culture
Providing clear direction and guidance on how to master daily life and
developmental skills
Indicators:
COMMENT/
PRACTICE A S R
REFLECTION
• Assisting each child so that he/she can master new challenges
during learning
Indicators:
Learning
Indicator:
• Physical-motor
• Spiritual-moral
• Social-emotional
• Cognitive-language
The chart below shows preschoolers’ milestones by age and what caregivers and
teachers can do to foster development12:
• Walks on tiptoe Let children play hopscotch, racing games, and other
games involving use of large muscles.
• Stands on one foot
Small muscle development Let the child do things for himself/herself, e.g., dress,
comb hair, brush teeth, wash hands, pour water or juice
• Builds a bridge of three blocks
into a cup, serve food onto a plate, wipe the table.
• Makes snakes and balls from clay
Collect plastic bottles and lids. Spread them out in front of
• Pours from jug into mug your child and let him/her find the lid that goes with each
• Begins to put together simple puzzles bottle.
Dresses fairly well
• Can feed self (with some spilling)
• Puts shoes on (but cannot tie laces)
• Brushes teeth, washes hands
• Likes to do the same things as other children Make a doll from cotton balls, pieces of clothes, etc.
• Enjoys playing house and copying others’ Encourage the child to notice the way people are the
behavior same and different.
12 CRS, Lesotho (2012); Johns Hopkins University and Maryland State Department of Education (2010);
Senefeld (2014); Touro Institute and University of Minnesota (n.d.).
Language development Encourage the child to talk with you and other people
around him/her.
• Uses three to five words in a sentence
Listen to what the child says and answer his/her questions
• Uses lots of verbs
in ways they can understand.
• Uses some prepositions, e.g., in, on, under
Sing favorite songs together.
• Most of what is said is understandable
Read a book with the child.
• Likes to repeat words and sounds
Tell a story to the child and ask what will happen next.
• Asks questions (Who? Where? Why?
Let the child clap out the syllables of his/her name or
What?) and enjoys singing, stories, and
other words.
rhymes
Spiritual-moral development Encourage children and model the use of words such as
please, excuse me, thank you, sorry, and may I.
• Has difficulty understanding the concept
of God Read books or tell stories to teach right and wrong, as
appropriate to the child’s culture.
• Develops an inner sense of right and wrong
Create a task that invites children to work and make things
• Wants praise and avoids punishment and
together and help each other, e.g., make a pot out of clay.
reprimand
Tell stories to children about people who were kind,
• Controlled by adults’ approvals; he/she
helpful, and thankful to God.
fears punishment and loss of approval
Teach children to learn the name of God or recite poems
• Understands that actions have penalties or
about God as appropriate to the child’s family faith.
rewards
Make available picture books, magazines, holy books
• Begins to feel a sense of guilt, e.g., blames
(e.g., the Bible) and discuss the pictures; let children sort
self or others for wrongdoing
out model postures and gestures used in praying, as
• Be able to tell what good behavior looks appropriate to the family’s faith.
like and perform good behavior to get
Teach prayer by modeling, as appropriate to the child’s
approval and prevent punishment
faith; encourage children to lead a prayer through
modeling.
Let children sing religious songs they learn and know from
their family.
Take children for nature walks and talk about God’s
creation; about people, animals, birds, plants, insects,
seas, oceans; show local churches, mosques, temples.
Praise children with spiritual blessings for showing good
behavior, following rules, or accomplishing a task.
Social-emotional development Give the child a chore to do with one or more other
children.
• Plays with other children and chooses who
to play with Play games where children must cooperate and follow
rules, e.g., singing songs or dancing to a rhythm.
• Begins to share
Praise and encourage what the child does or tries to do.
• Understands and obeys simple rules
• Enjoys involved make-believe play
• Has trouble understanding what is real and
what is pretend
• Can be jealous
• Enjoys showing off: “Look what I did!”
• Tells tales about other children
• Uses words to express emotions
Language development Encourage the child to talk with you and other people
around them.
• Understands most of what is said
Listen to what the child says and answer their questions in
• Communicates clearly
ways they can understand.
• Talks in longer, more detailed sentences
Sing favorite songs together.
• Asks lots of questions
Tell a story and ask what will happen next.
• Follows simple commands
Use an old sock to make a puppet. Make a face from off-
cuts of fabric, paper, or wool. Show the child how to move
the mouth up and down. Encourage him/her to tell you a
story with the puppet ‘speaking.’
• Begins to have the concept that God Model appreciation of others by giving good remarks
or a higher power can reward or punish about a child’s good behavior and abilities to do things,
behaviors e.g., “I like the way Michael helped Betty put on her
sweater.”
• Likes to participate in rituals, bedtime
prayers, religious holidays, and mealtime Avoid belittling, shaming, or scolding a child for not
blessings and imitates the behaviors of accomplishing a given task or misbehaving, give guidance
adults in these practices and simple rules that the child can understand and follow;
make the rules together with the child.
• Learns simple, short prayers through
repetition and recites them with caregiver Help children draw and label family members to show
modeling each family is special and unique in the eyes of God.
• May increasingly express their Take the child for a neighborhood walk and show places of
understanding of God to their family; ask worship, and how people worship and keep holy books in
questions about God and death prayer places (church, mosque, or temple).
• Asks God for something special in their Help the child celebrate religious events observed by his/
own words her family and let other children participate in the activity
to be part of a community and appreciate their own faith
as well as others’--prepare decorations, make cards, share
sweets with friends, etc.
Prepare a quiet small place, a prayer corner, or a
meditation place for the child to pray or to comfort
himself/herself at a time of distress; sing religious songs or
turn pages and look at pictures of people in a holy book
(e.g., the Bible).
Read aloud stories from religious books about people who
helped others and talk about being helpful and sharing,
e.g., the story of the Good Samaritan.
THE STORY OF FOUR GIRLS, CHOOLWE, MAMPI, CHITALU, MISOZI, AND THEIR BANANA
Contributed by Religious Sisters of the Holy Spirit, Zambia
Once upon a time in a village there lived a group of young girls. These girls had a good social life,
they helped their parents a lot, and their behavior was good so that most of the people in the village
admired them. One day, the girls decided to go into the bush and while there, they found nice looking
bananas and so they plucked them and agreed that they would bury them until the day they thought
they would be ready. They agreed and went away and before the agreed day came, one of the girls
decided to betray the friends by uncovering the bananas and eating them all. When the day for
checking bananas came, they all went to the site and to their surprise, they found no bananas. They
asked among themselves if anyone knew where the bananas went, but none answered. A few minutes
later, a bird came back singing, telling them who ate the bananas because the bird was watching.
When the bird finished singing, telling them who ate the bananas, the girl who ate them came out and
apologized to the friends and they all forgave her and continued to be friends until they grew up.
1. For which age group is the story more suitable: toddlers, preschoolers, or both? Why? What ideas
influence your decision?
2. What does the story teach children?
3. Which developmental domain is most emphasized in the story? Explain why.
4. Role-play: How would you tell this story to children if you wanted them to understand the message
of the story easily and clearly?
A. Make a list of ideas on how you will tell the story to children.
B. Demonstrate your ideas in action through role-play.
• Let parents know that they are the main actors in their children’s learning.
• Take time to get to know parents and build up trusting relationships.
• During your meetings, help parents feel valued by:
• Greeting them by name and with a smile when they bring and fetch their children.
Illustration / CRS
Positive discipline strategies focus on the positive aspects of a child’s behavior and
help young children learn to control their own behavior
All young children misbehave at one time or another for various reasons. Teachers
often do not understand what causes children to act this way and most children are
too young to explain their actions. It can be frustrating for teachers when children do
not listen or behave as expected.
Understanding some of the reasons why children misbehave can help teachers be
more effective when dealing with this type of behavior. Teachers will also be able
Children show different types of behavior as they grow and develop. It is helpful for
teachers to know which kinds of behavior are normal for the ages of the children in
their care, so that they know what is reasonable to expect from them.
For example, many preschoolers get angry and hit, push, or shout nasty words when
other children try to take their toys away. This is an example of the frustration children
feel when they can’t express in words what they want to say. Teachers can help children
learn the words they need to express how they are feeling and what they want.
• Children need to feel a sense of control over their lives. When all their decisions are
made for them by others, they often feel that they have no choice. Children often
respond by misbehaving or breaking rules to show that they can have their own way
and be in control.
• Children need routine in their lives to feel secure. When there are changes in the daily
program at the preschool, children may feel uncertain about what is going to happen
and react in different ways. For example, if a field trip has been planned, children may
find it hard to control their excitement.
• Children feel secure when they know what their limits are. Rules tell children how to
behave. However, having too many rules makes it difficult for children to follow them.
Rule setting for children should focus on explaining how the children should behave
rather than how they should not behave.
• Children misbehave when they are made to feel bad about themselves.
• When children are made to feel that they can do nothing right, they may become
discouraged and believe that there is no reason to behave well.
• When children feel hurt, they will often want to hurt others.
• Children sometimes misbehave just to test their limits, to learn about whether rules
are consistently applied, and to find out what will happen if they break a rule.
• Many children live in stressful environments. For example, families living in poverty
may not have enough money for food, clothing, or proper housing and sanitation.
These problems cause stress amongst family members, which children can sense and
be affected by. Children may respond by expressing their feelings of fear, hurt, or
anger in unacceptable ways.
• Changes at home can be upsetting for children. There may be a new baby in the
family, sickness, or even death. Children may get less attention than they usually do
and as a result feel unloved. They may respond to this by seeking attention through
misbehavior at preschool as well as at home.
• Children who are tired, hungry, or ill may not have the language to explain that they
feel bad and often become short-tempered and misbehave.
• The way the preschool environment is set up and the kinds of activities that are
provided can contribute to children’s misbehavior.
• If there are large empty spaces in the classroom, children may be tempted to misbehave.
• If the activities are not suitable for the children’s ages or there is not enough for them
to do, children may start to misbehave.
• If children have to sit for long periods of time without being actively involved in their
learning, they will get bored and start to misbehave.
Note: Teachers can read the Developmental milestones chart on pages 49-53 of
this guide to promote their understanding of the typical developmental stages
that children go through.
• There needs to be enough space for children to play and move around without
bumping into one another or knocking things over.
• Check the classroom layout to make sure that there are no large open spaces or long
pathways where children will be tempted to run up and down.
• Provide hands-on activities that do not involve children having to sit still for long
periods of time.
• Provide enough age-appropriate activities and toys for the number of children so that
they will not have to share. If possible, have duplicates of favorite toys so that children
do not have to wait too long. This will also help to prevent children fighting over them.
• Arrange the materials on low shelves so that children can choose what they want on
their own.
• Divide the learning corners to help children concentrate better without being distracted.
• Plan activities that will encourage children to express their feelings, e.g., fantasy play,
painting and drawing.
• Provide lots of physical activities throughout the day so that children can run around
and move in different ways to release their energy.
• Keep group times short and find ways for children to actively participate in some
way. Avoid telling children to sit still or to stop fidgeting. Plan to sit near children who
may cause problems or pair them with more responsible children.
• Be aware of when children become bored, and add new and stimulating materials for
them to explore.
Note: For tips on how to organize the classroom, refer to Resource Guide, Module 4.
Note: For tips on how to plan a daily program, refer to Resource Guide, Module 4.
• Have rules that are based on keeping children and others safe from harm and that
protect the environment from damage.
• Choose a few essential rules for the classroom. When there are too many rules children
will find it hard to remember and follow all of them. Thinking about what will happen
if children break a rule will help teachers decide whether the rule is necessary. For
example, will someone be hurt or put in danger if the rule is broken? Will something
get damaged or broken if the rule is broken? If not, is there really a need for the rule?
• Help children understand the reason behind each rule. When children understand
what will happen if the rule is not kept, it will be easier for them to follow it. For
example, “Sit down when you cut with scissors. If you run or walk with scissors, you
may fall and cut yourself.”
• Have rules that teach children what to do rather than what not to do. For example,
instead of a rule that says, “Do not run around,” make the rule, “Walk from one place
to another.” Instead of a rule that says, “Do not leave toys lying around,” make the
rule, “Put the toys away when you have finished playing with them.”
• Children of four years and older can help the teacher to come up with ideas for rules.
This will help children to feel that they have made their own rules, making it easier
for them to understand the reason for a rule and remember to keep it. For example,
if there is a problem with the children leaving toys lying around, the teacher can ask
the children what rule they would suggest that might solve the problem.
• Be consistent in upholding the rules and let children know what will happen if they
break a rule. For example, “The rule is to put the toys away when you have finished
playing with them. You will not be able to play in another learning corner until you
have put these toys away.”
• Teachers need to remind children often of the rules as they play. They can also create
and display illustrated posters at children’s eye level as a reminder.
• Make sure that parents understand the rules and the reasons for them and agree to
them, so that they can be consistent with putting them into practice at home. All
adults working in the preschool should also all agree on the same rules.
Teachers also need to focus on the behavior and not the child when he/she
misbehaves. When adults routinely label children as naughty, lazy, or dishonest the
children start to believe what adults tell them and behave accordingly.
Giving children choices does not mean allowing children to do whatever they want.
Teachers should give children limited choices with a few options that allow them to
make decisions for themselves. For example:
Punishment is a strategy to make children “pay” for what they have done wrong
and forces children to behave in a certain way. It teaches them that adults are
responsible for the way children behave and that adults have the power to
control their behavior.
• The most effective ways to manage children’s behavior is not to involve punishment.
Teachers need to use positive discipline strategies that help children understand that
some behaviors are wrong.
Research shows that not only are punishments harmful and affect the way children
grow and develop, punishment does not work.
• Punishments are designed to make children behave in a certain way rather than
to make them want to control their own behavior. Children may stop the behavior
for a short time, but will do so out of fear of punishment rather than having an
understanding of how the behavior affects other people or what to do instead.
• Punishments make children feel bad about themselves and lower their self-esteem.
• Children learn that they will be punished if the bad behavior is found out. They often
find ways to repeat the behavior without being caught.
• Children learn by imitating the behaviors of others. When children are punished by
being spanked or hit, they get the message that it is then acceptable for them to hit
other people. Research shows that children who are spanked or hit are more likely to
become aggressive themselves.
• Children lose trust in parents and caregivers who hurt them.
TIME OUT
Time out is used to remove a child from the place where the misbehavior is happening
to sit in another part of the room and calm down for a few minutes (and not more
than five minutes). The purpose of the time out is to help the child gain control of
his/her emotions and give them time to think about their behavior. The caregiver
sits together with the child during the timeout moment and gets to know the child’s
feelings. Time out should never be used as a punishment; children should not be
put in another room or left alone.
Time out is not suitable for children younger than thee years of age, as they will not
understand the concept of waiting. A guide for time out is one minute per year of age:
Time out does not work when it is used too much or when it is used as a form
of punishment. When the child is sent to another room or is made to spend an
unreasonably long period in the time out area, this is a punishment. The child may
correct his/her behavior but does so out of fear of being treated in the same way again
if he/she misbehaves. He/she is not helped to understand why the behavior was wrong.
• A child does not wear his/her coat to school. They get cold.
• A child leaves a ball outside instead of putting it away. It gets stolen.
Natural consequences as a discipline strategy are effective only if the teacher does
not interfere. If the teacher brings the ball inside, the child will not learn that bad
things happen as a direct result of his/her behavior.
Natural consequences are the best way for children to learn. If something unpleasant
happens as a result of their behavior, they will not want to repeat it. Sometimes
natural consequences are not suitable or safe. For example:
When natural consequences are not appropriate, teachers can use logical
consequences to help children understand and learn to control their behavior.
LOGICAL CONSEQUENCES
Logical consequences also happen as a result of the child’s behavior, but they are
arranged by the adult to help the child understand what will happen as a result of his/her
behavior, such as when rules are broken. For example, if the child handles a book roughly
and the pages tear, he/she must help to repair the pages while other children are playing.
1. Made in advance. Tell the child what the consequences will be if the rule is broken.
2. Related directly to the behavior. The consequence needs to make sense to the
child. If the child runs with scissors, it does not make sense for him/her to have to
sweep the classroom.
3. Reasonable. The consequence should help the child learn from the experience, not
punish the child. In the above example, removing the scissors would help the child
to make a better decision in the future.
4. Consistent. Children will not respect the rule if it is not followed through every time
the behavior occurs, and will probably repeat the behavior because they think they
can get away with it. For example, “Daniel, the rule is to sit down when you cut with
scissors. If you carry on walking around with the scissors, I will pack them away for
the rest of the free-play time.”
Teachers who choose this strategy will need to be well-prepared and think of what
consequences will encourage children to think for themselves.
ACTIVE LISTENING
Active listening involves encouraging children to talk about what they are feeling:
When children have someone to listen to them and try to understand how they are
feeling, they will feel accepted and loved and encouraged to work through their
problems and behave differently in the future. For example:
SAYING SORRY
Children should not be forced to say they are sorry when they may not be ready
to apologize. If children are not really sorry, the words are insincere (and often
angry). The goal is for children to understand why the behavior was hurtful and
regret it, and to think about how to make the situation right.
REWARDING BEHAVIOR
Giving rewards is one way that teachers respond to positive behavior. For example,
many teachers give children stars or sweets. Rewarding children for good behavior
does help them learn to control their own behavior, but children tend to be motivated
by the reward for doing something good rather than by a desire to do something well.
• Stay calm and keep personal feelings under control. Here are a few suggestions:
• Take deep breaths, count to ten. Think about how best to respond to the behavior
while counting.
• Plan ahead of time, when calm, how to respond to the problem behavior when it
happens.
• When very frustrated, leave the situation for a few minutes to calm down.
• Treat each child as an individual and with respect.
• Discipline the child immediately after the behavior.
• Be on the alert for problems and try to prevent them.
CULTURAL APPROPRIATENESS
Children will be taught the rules of good behavior by their families and the
community. These may be different from culture to culture and from family to
family. Teachers need to be respectful and sensitive to these practices. They
should find out from families how each child is expected to behave so that
behavioral issues can be managed in the same way at the preschool.
Culturally, many parents in Africa still believe in spanking a child, but this
practice is being discouraged in preschools; the trend is that government
policies and guidelines discourage spanking in all schools and take action
against teachers and schools that are known to punish children harshly.
Teachers are encouraged to use positive discipline strategies as described in
this section. There are also cultural practices that avoid physical punishment
when disciplining young children such as staring at the child who misbehaves
without speaking until the child realizes he/she is doing wrong, or explaining the
reasons why something is wrong.
Parents and caregivers have definite beliefs about how their children should be raised,
and they have the right to decide what is best for them. It is important for teachers to
work together with parents and caregivers to find ways to promote children’s good
behavior as well as to manage their misbehavior in ways that are positive as well as
consistent between home and the preschool.
AUTHORITARIAN PARENTING
Authoritarian parents or caregivers value obedience and are strict and controlling.
Children are told how they should behave. Rules are made without discussion, and
children are expected to obey them. When children disobey the rules, they are
punished. Children are not allowed to question authority and to do so is considered
disrespectful and impolite. Independence is discouraged and children are seldom
given choices.
PERMISSIVE PARENTING
Permissive parents make no demands on their children. Children are allowed to do
whatever they choose. Parents leave it up to the children to set their own rules and
make their own decisions.
MODERATE PARENTING
Moderate parents set clear and reasonable rules and explain to children why they
are important. When children break the rules, their parents and caregivers help
them to take responsibility and learn from their mistakes. Parents and caregivers
recognize children’s rights to be heard, encourage independence, and give children
choices. Parents and caregivers praise children’s good behavior rather than focus on
negative behavior.
One of the educational goals for young children is to help them learn to be
independent and develop self-control. Whatever the preferred parenting style,
parents and teachers can help children learn how to manage their own behavior
by finding a balance between setting limits and encouraging children to take
responsibility for their own actions.
Parents and caregivers need to know that harsh punishments are harmful to
children and affect the way they develop and learn. These include hitting,
locking the child in a room, forcing the child to stay outside the house,
threatening or shaming the child, or keeping food and water from him/her.