m-p I saw your facebook ID when looking through facebook, I said I should say hello

to you...I hope that is not a problem...

I am John Roland by name, from Los Angeles California, but currently living in
Turkey high sea due to my work over here now. I am 60 years of age how abot you?

I would want us to be friends and also want us know more about each other, what do
you say?

I'm a widower with one lovely daughter,she is now schooling in the West African,
she is my one in a million and I love her so much... She is 11 years old..

why is your daughter schooling in west africa

because it's the right for every American to explore their knowlegde about tourism
and other countries culture... both of us went there for vacation , She like it
there .. She told me that she will like to study there

2) what's your religion belief?

I'm a Roman Catholic..I do not disrespect other religions. Because of the respect
of the nationality or individuality

3) what are your hobbies interests?

I like swimming, shopping, listening to good music, dancing to the rhythm when it's
necessary, I like walking along the beach side and above all, I love traveling and
most of all reading.

4)what's your job?

I am a petroleum Engineer presently working in Turkey, with the zion oil and gas
company.
What is yourplan for the future
Mine`is to find a woman and settled down invest outside my country, I really want
to settled down with a real lady that will be with me and love me and my only
son...

do you have the mind to remarry?

Yes, i agree with you because you need a man that will love and care for you, a man
that will be honest and faithful to you, a man that will be with you for better and
for worst, in health or in sickness, a man that will treat you like a queen and
respect your woman right, a man that will always put a smile on your face and give
you his shoulder to lay your head on, a man that will make you feel like a woman
and above all a man that will bring out the beauty in you.

6)Would you consider marrying a smoker? .

7)what is your favorite color?

8)Would you consider marrying someone of a different religion?

9)Are you okay with a long distance relationship?

Distance in friendship can never be a problem, it's just a mile... all we need is
to have good communication always and to be sincere with each other

10)What are your Level of education?

11) Well I will appreciate us being good friends in sincerity, honesty and trust,
although we just knew each other,,, we can share ideas and discuss about more
issues as we talk more about ourselves, and as time goes on there may be something
great for us in the future .What do you say?

12) Thanks alot I assure you that we will be best of friends that people will envy
you and I, all we need to do is to be sincere in our communication as good friends

litle about my life i will want you know?

1) I'm the only son of my parents and My father died at the Age of 83, May 8,2012.
My Mom, 72. Nov. 20.2008. the only family that I got his my daughter.

2) I have only been once in a marriage Life and it end up by me Losing my

wife...She had lung cancer that metastasizes to the brain after being cancer free
for over a year and a half..we both have been together for 20 years before she
departed from me, I love her so much and as the day passes by I do think about all
we have shared together, some time when I look at the Pics of her I cried, thinking
when am I going to have an heart beat Just like her.

3) I need a real lady that will really make me happy, caring and live a joyful life
together.... some one that can makes me forget about that past that the past has
been passed, some one that i can feel the warm full feelings with when ever we're
talking.

4)I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship. I understand it is

important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship. I am not
interested in games or drama

5)I love anything that keep me smiling and never be a dull moment because life is
too short to live and be sad, I am hardworking, I believed in myself and anything
that will uplift the standard of my living.

6)Am interested meeting polite and people... this are little to tell you about me,

When do you feel most afraid?:

I feel most afraid when my physical safety is threatened - ie: hiking in the
wilderness and fearing a grizzly bear might attack,

Why did you join eHarmony?:

My colleague introduce me on skype because he met his wife here.. he told me that I
might be lucky also.

Describe your current emotional health?.:

Life looks very good to me right now. I have been blessed with a good job,good
health, and a great church. All that is missing is someone to share my life with.

Besides love, what one trait have you noticed in couples that have
maintained a successful relationship for many years?:

Communcation is very much apart of it but also acceptance of each others faults
andlooking beyond them with much love.

What interets you the most?:

LIFE,
AND BEING ABLE TO HELP OTHERS
OUT NO MATTER WHAT THE NEED,TO BE THERE
WITH A HELPING HAND. REROOF THEIR HOUSE, WORK ON THERE CAR , OR JUST TO
HELP FOLD LAUNDRY. BUT MY HOBBIES ARE ANYTHING OUTDOORS.

What are you looking for in a relationship partner?

BEING
HONEST,OPEN,CARING,FAITHFULL, EASY GOING WITH A GREAT SENSE OF
HUMOR..ALSO BEING ABLE TO HELP OTHERS OUT NO MATTER WHAT THE NEED, TO
BE THERE WITH A HELPING HAND.WELL IT TAKES MORE THAN LOVE IN A
RELATIONSHIP!

Tonight you can do anything you want, no penalties, no reprisals, and the
cost is unimportant. What are you going to do?:
Tonight,
tonight...hummm...I am going to get on a plane, head to someplace where
there is an ocean, somewhere I have never been before, have a tour
guide to help me navagate the native land, maybe like Hawaii, and since
the cost is no factor, will reside at the finest prettiest layed out
place with someone to bring me supper, then massage, then tuck me in
with the TV on. I will relax, and be ready for a pampering with nails,
hair and hopefully
attend the fire throwing show tomorrow night if I am
still there. (Silly huh?) By the way, do you have a picture to
post?????? I would like to see you and I have mine posted for
you....Thank you in advance,

What do you most like to do on a day off?:

I
love to relax, shopping and sightseeing. Maybe go on a weekend mini
trip or to a sporting event or Christian concert or Church function.
Really it is what we as a couple decide works for us. For instance, you
may like to play golf on Saturday's and I might just putter around the house
cleaning or reading

Looking back on your life, of what are you most

proud?:
I
suppose proud is a word that could apply to many events--a friend used
it to show her toddler how pleased she was that he learned to eliminate
bodily wastes into the proper container by saying, "Proud, proud,
proud!" I'm proud of my wonderful daughter and her accomplishments. I'm
proud of a neighborhood where I sold homes to some terrific people who
are managing to bring some security to their families. I'm proud of a
school where I was pleased to be involved in helping with scholarships
for well-deserving students. Personally, I was a scholarship student
with honors in music.

What is the one dream for your life you most

look forward to having come true?:
JSUT TO CONTINUE WAKING UP EVERYDAY WITH A BIG SMILE, AND EVERYDAY BEING
HELPFUL TO AT LEAST ONE PERSON, AND A HINDERANCE TO NO
ONE.

What interest you the most:

personel
hygine,being with someone that realy cares for me for the person that I
am. and going to church at least on Sunday mornig. and being able to
Love God, because he has done so much for me.

Describe the worst date you've ever been on.:

I realy dont have any answer to that except in HS i remeber I ask the
worst looking guy to a saddiehawkins dance and spent the entire evening
in the men bathroom. the other was when a guy took me to a drive in
movie and i feel asleep the whole evening after working two jobs. other
then that i havent realy dated at all since my late wife passed away
in 2003

What do you most like to do on a day off?:

In
the summer it is to go swimming or rather float around in the pool with
a good book to read and a cool drink. I like to play volleyball, read,
visit with family and friends, movies, or dining out.

What do you like about your body or appearance?:

Hmmm...People
say I have beautiful eyes.....So, I guess that they are right. The rest
of me is OK I guess...You know that women are totally critical of
themselves so...it's hard for us to say what we "like" about ourselves

thanks for your time hope to hear from you soon

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