Individual Report of Keren

Individual report
First of all, a divorced family refers to the legal course of action that terminates marriage. Divorce are
continuously affecting children health and attitude and my individual report topic is family and my
question is “how has divorce been affecting children’s wellbeing and attitude because its affected on
social life and divorce is on the rise and it has far reaching consequences as I am going to explore. The
main reasons of divorce according to institude for divorce financial analysis; Lack of commitment is 43%,
domestic violence is 5.8%, communication issues are 1.2 %, money is 22% and lastly infidelity which is
28%/
Here are some causes of divorce,
Infidelity the level of most breached by infidelity makes it very difficult to move fast meaning that any
marriage where one of the spouse cheats, risk to divorce.
Financial issue is also one of the causes of divorce because when a couple faces financial issues and are
unable to solve it, this leads to divorce.
Furthermore, lack of intimacy is also a cause of divorce because a court may find that a spouse has
committed constructive abandonment of the marriage when he or she has failed to fulfill the obligations
of marriage and has become emotionally and mentally absence from the marriage.
More so, lack of commitment is also in the causes of divorce since when partners are not committed to
each other, they may feel the need to put enough effort in to their relationship.
In addition, domestic violence is one of the most common causes of divorce because first of all domestic
violence refers to many kinds of abused committed by a member of a family, a household, or an
intimate partner, against one of the members of the family, household or an intimate partner.
Last sense of self, as I have mentioned, it’s important to sacrifice sake of unfiled marriage.
Marriage at a young age in a relationship with young people, it won’t work because they will because
they will not be behaving enough
Repercussion
As all that will be done Infront of the children, here are some consequences;
The children will start to have poor performance in academics, divorce is difficult for all members of the
family for children trying to understand the changing dynamic of the family may leave them more
distracted. Children are the more likely to not be able to focus on their school work.
More so, children will be emotionally sensitive feeling of loss, anger, anxiety, and many more. All may
come from this transition; divorce can leave children feeling overwhelmed and emotionally sensitive
Additionally, children will be feeling guilty because children of teens wonder why a divorce is happening
in their family, they will be curious and look for reasons wondering if their parents no longer loved each
other or if they have done something wrong.
Furthermore, introduction of destructive behaviors because while children go through divorce,
unresolved conflicts and may lead to future unexpected risks research has shown that children who
have experienced divorce in the previous 20 years, were likely to participate in crimes.
Increase in health problems because the process through divorce and its effects on children can be
stressful dealing with these issues can take its toll, including physical problem
Loss of interest in social activity: Research suggested divorce can affect children socially, as well, children
whose family is going through divorce may have harder time relating to others, and tend to have fewer
social contacts
Anger
in some cases where children feel overwhelmed and do not know how to respond to the effects they
feel during divorce can correctly lead to anger of children
Solution
The parent can avoid speaking negatively about the other parent. The most common issue I see in many
divorce cases is a parent speaking negatively about the other parent. Children know that they are part of
their father and a part of their mother.
Parent should also avoid to say too much because remember when speaking to your child, that person
listening to you is your child not a friend in who you can confide, leave that to your therapist or adult
friends who are better equipped to be a support to your children.
The parent should take care of their elders because while the children need plenty of support during
these time parents should not disregard their own needs and as to also always remind and convince
them that they are loved by both parents when they feel triggered by the actions of their parents. Being
honest to their children when talking about what went in their relationship to be caused like that and
keep in mind the children’s age and understanding. To parent’s when children are asking them a lot of
questions, its effective to listen than speaking and answering the questions the children be asking which
will definitely help the parent(s) to open up
Keeping the family’s usual routine like going to school and specific meal times can slowly of make
children forget about any incident of their parents
PERSPECTIVE
As a global perspective student my personal perspective is that divorce in general has led to many
problems as kinds of having depression, hatred towards his or her family members or even fail in
academics and there should be immediate courses of actions taken in order to reduce chances of
divorce because divorce is simply a rule break and a sin.
Globally, in many African countries, divorces are taken as something which should not take place against
married couples because the presumption is that couples must stay together till death and in China,
Korea; divorces are not granted because it has many bad effects
Nationally, the Rwandan law provides for age of majority as 18 but however the right age of marriage is
21 years and the authority is responsible for witnessing marriage laws between couples and will not
allow any such of marriage take place. Lawyers In Rwanda they say that they that couples through their
legal advisors may seek counseling before they hope to seek legal remedy in courts of law because a lot
is left ats take and children are the most losers in all this.
COURSE OF ACTION
My actions to be taken are to condemn and campaign against by talking to talking to lovers or hire an
expert in order to reform a connection by talking to them through it and carrying out different
workshops in order for them to have less conflict or have arguments and sometimes to get over their
past and focus only on their future. Secondly is to create a web against divorce and raising awareness
about the mostly the bad effects and lastly, is to go in some divorce houses and learn how the children
are with this divorce if they feel comfortable or not however they may not act accordingly if there are
some guests in their house responding to how they react or if they feel comfortable but its worth a try.
Conclusion
I would say that divorce has become very global issue and has wors effects on children but if we work
together, we can stop it before doing this report I didn’t know it was way too serious but now am aware
of the bad effect of divorce to children.

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