Shirley - 2017 - Overcoming Digital Distance The Challenge of Developing Relational Disciple
Shirley - 2017 - Overcoming Digital Distance The Challenge of Developing Relational Disciple
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Abstract: Jesus’ model for discipleship (John 15:1-16) is grounded within a context of human and
divine relationships: abiding in Christ, fellowshipping with other disciples, and ministering to needs
of others in the world and in the church. As the Christian community becomes increasingly reliant
on digital technology and the Internet to provide an environment and resources for disciple-making,
we must also be familiar with the available options and understand the benefits and limitations of
using these methods as we seek to establish and enhance these essential spiritual relationships.
Introduction
Out of eternity, the Son of God, who was in perfect fellowship with his
Father and the Holy Spirit, came to earth in the form of a man. Although his
entire earthly life was focused on his relationship with the Father, the Son
also spent three years in a relationship with his disciples, preparing them to
carry on his ministry and message. Their preparation was an interplay be-
tween developing an intimate relationship with Jesus, forming a community
of love among the disciples, and ministering to those inside and outside the
fellowship. Within this relational framework, Jesus’ disciple-making tools
included the Scripture (Matt 13:13-15; 24:37-40), his authoritative teach-
ing (Matt 5:21-48), his miracles (Luke 6:30-44), the community of disciples
(Luke 22:7-22), and hands-on ministry experiences (Luke 10:1-15).
Two thousand years later, disciples are made in much the same way. Dis-
ciple-making tools still include the Scripture (the Old and New Testaments),
the community of disciples called the church, and ministry experiences.
However, disciple-making is increasingly mediated through a digital process,
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Living in Christ
In John 15:4, Jesus calls his disciples to abide in him. A simple under-
standing of the word abide is to live, dwell, or stay in a particular location; the
Greek term meno is also associated with continuing perseverance and con-
sistency (Borchert, 2002, p. 142-143). Additionally, in this occurrence there
is a sense of “harmonious intimacy and reciprocal exchange( ״Adams, 2006,
p. 291) that Jesus had previously described as a prerequisite for abiding in
him in John 6:45 (“He who eats my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me
and I in him”; [NASB] ) and John 6:35 (“I am the bread of life”). Just as Jesus
lived in a dependent relationship with Father (John 6:57), so he called his
disciples to abide or live in dependence upon him (Hutchison, 2011). The
disciples’ relationship with Jesus is what sustained their spiritual health and
vitality (Burge, 2000). According to Jesus, abiding is the most significant pri-
ority for a disciple, affirmed by John’s use of meno 10 times in John 15:4-10
(Hutchison, 2011, p. 64). The disciples’ spiritual formation and effectiveness
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would be contingent upon this sustaining relationship: one in which the dis-
ciple receives a constant flow of spiritual nourishment from the divine source.
Without this sustenance, the disciple is incapable of any growth and devoid of
spiritual power (John 15:5-8).
There are two keys in the text that speak to the relational conditions for
an abiding connection to Christ: obedience and bearing fruit. In John 15:10,
Jesus describes the litmus test for discipleship: “if you keep my command-
ments, you will abide in my love. ״He follows this conditional statement by
once again describing their relationship with him as a reflection of his with
the Father. The call to obedience was not issued as a prerequisite for salva-
tion; the Master had settled that question with his assurance that the disciples
were already “clean” on the basis of their response to the gospel (Segovia,
1982, p. 120). Their acceptance of his message justified them before the Fa-
ther; they were pure, innocent, and clean (katharos) because of their relation-
ship with Jesus (Borchert, 2002, pp. 141-142). Nevertheless, the quality of
their continuing connection with him would hinge on their obedience to his
commands as evidence of their relationship with him. While Jesus called the
disciples to express their love through obedience, he promised to listen and
respond to their needs: “Ask whatever you wish and it will be done for you”
(15:7).
Another proof of their affiliation with Jesus, mentioned six times in John
15:1-16, was to “bear fruit.” Jesus draws a logical conclusion for determin-
ing the relationship between the vine (Jesus) and the branches (disciples).
The branches that remain attached to the vine would bear fruit; the branches
that fall away from the vine would wither, die, and become fuel for fire. Once
again, implied within Jesus’ illustration is a dependent relationship or “vital
union” between him and the disciples (Hutchison, 2011, p. 65). As they re-
mained inextricably connected to him, they would receive what they needed
to remain obedient and productive. In turn, their words and actions would
be a reflection of their relationship with him. Jesus once again refers to the
Fathers role in the process—the Father receives glory when the Sons disciples
bear “much fruit”—and promises the disciples that the Father will honor their
fruit-bearing relationship with Jesus by listening and responding to whatever
the disciples asked in Jesus’ name (15:16).
disciples to express towards each other. Jesus’ command to love one another
was an appeal to community (Gench, 2004; Wilkins, 1992). As the embryonic
church stood before him, Jesus exhorted these future leaders to express their
love for him through loving relationships with one another. This would be the
greatest witness of their relationship with him (John 13:35).
His issuance of a command—as well as his sacrificial act of washing the
disciples’ feet—implies that Jesus considered love to be more action than
emotion. He would go on to “lay down his life” at the cross for these friends,
and thereby fulfill the symbolism of his servant act in John 13. These two ex-
pressions of love serve as literal and figurative standards of the way in which
Jesus’ disciples should relate to one another. In 13:34-35, he codifies his ex-
ample by issuing a “new” command: love one another. The importance of this
command cannot be denied; Jesus repeats this relational decree three times
and qualifies their commitment to him based on their willingness to obey
(“you must love one another”).
Later that evening, Jesus again commands his followers to express their
commitment to him through their relationships with each other (John 15:12,
17). On this occasion, he plumbs the deeper meaning of love. “As I have loved
you” is Jesus’ initial description of the quality of love to which he is calling
them. For three years the disciples had followed their Master, listening to his
loving words, watching his loving actions, and receiving his loving direction;
even his rebukes were delivered with loving intentions. Having had their feet
washed by their leader and teacher would also be a reminder of the depth
of Jesus’ love for them. Foreshadowing his crucifixion, Jesus shares with
his disciples the deepest meaning of love: “that one lay down his life for his
friends” (15:13). Inherent in this description is the quantity of love required
from those who follow Christ: the willingness to sacrifice anything and every-
thing for another disciple. There is no “greater” expression of love than this
(Borchert, 2002). The authentic disciple builds loving relationships within the
body of Christ and expresses that love through a willingness to deny self-
interest in deference to the needs of fellow disciples.
Digital Discipleship
The design for discipleship presented in John 15:1-17 focuses on the im-
portance of relationships with Christ, one another, and the world. In increasing
numbers, disciples are bypassing human interaction for their spiritual nourish-
ment, community resources, and ministry tools. Grey Matter Research (2013)
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found that 44% of American adults with online access are using the Internet
for religious purposes: visiting church websites, obtaining religious instruc-
tion, reading religious blogs, participating in social networks, and following
churches and/or religious leaders on Twitter. Not surprisingly, well over half
of these adults were under the age of 35 (Grey Matter, 2013). Young adults are
typically spending over 20 hours a week online (Carr, 2011). The Internet has
become a significant purveyor of spiritual development resources for Chris-
tians of all traditions. The following discussion is a review of a variety of Inter-
net resources having a direct or indirect impact on the formation of Christian
disciples in their relationships with Christ, one another, and the world.
There are more people alive now than at any point in history, and they
are more connected than ever before. We believe that this could become
the most Bible-engaged generation in history. I want to leverage tech-
nology to its fullest to advance the gospel. (Crosby, 2012, p. 38)
Digital Discernment
Advantages
The Internet has experienced tremendous growth over the last two de-
cades. As the online world has enlarged, so has the variety of tools for spiri-
tual formation, including online Bibles, commentaries, study courses, social
media, and e-books. All of these items are directly accessible to anyone at any
time. Opportunities that may have been possible only for those with special
training, time, and financial means are now available for those with access to
a laptop, smartphone, or tablet.
The Internet is pervasive in most industrialized nations. With the inven-
tion of the smartphone and the tablet, the demand has increased for wireless
technology in restaurants, shopping malls, churches, airplanes, homes, and
any other place where people gather. The advantage of accessing the Internet
is heightened by its ubiquitous presence. Consequently, the Internet has be-
come as necessary for functioning in our society as the car or the telephone.
From a spiritual perspective, the Internet has increased the availability of
the Bible and other related scriptural resources. Like the Gutenberg press, the
Internet has provided the technology for disseminating Gods Word through-
out the world. In John 8:31, Jesus told his followers, “If you hold to my teach-
ing, you are really my disciples.” Similarly, in John 15:10, he said, “If you keep
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Disadvantages
The advantages of the Internet are related to its greatest drawbacks.
Shane Hipps (2009) describes this paradox: “Every medium when pushed
to an extreme will reverse on itself, revealing unintended consequences” (p.
315). What began as a tool for efficient communication has turned into a
relatively uncontrolled and ubiquitous force that dominates our lives in un-
intended ways.
Reading on the Internet or an electronic format is now the norm rather
than the rule. The average adult spends between 17 to 20 hours per week
online; most Americans spend over eight hours a day in front of a computer,
television, or smartphone screen (Carr, 2011, p. 83). Online reading has fun-
damentally changed the way we read and access information: “A screen-based
reading behavior is emerging.. .which is characterized by browsing and scan-
ning,· keyword spotting, one-time reading, [and] linear reading. The time
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like the Bereans (Acts 17:11), we must use Scripture to evaluate the claims for
truth we find online. Even using online resources for interpreting Scripture
requires that we understand the background and authority of the writer. To
press the point once more, an abiding relationship with Christ depends on
our correct handling of the word of truth as we grow in our understanding of
the source of truth.
The last caution addresses a problem we face in relating as disciples to
one another and the world. Social media has created a smaller world by elec-
ironically connecting people and establishing relationships across natural
boundaries. However, authentic relationships require a “high degree of inti-
macy, permanence, and proximity” (Branson, 2003), something the Internet
cannot provide. We practice an incarnational faith based on the example of
our Lord, who “made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant,
being made in human likeness, and being found in appearance as a man”
(Phil 2:7-8a). However, the Internet can hinder our ability to relate to one
another in incarnational fashion, which requires physical presence. Pea, et al.
(2012) discovered a negative correlation between the time people spend on-
line and face-to-face communication (p. 327). Predictably, young adults, who
are the most voracious consumers of online time, are “losing their ability to
relate to one another in an offline context” (Challies, 2011, p. 77).
Loving one another, sharing our faith, and making true disciples are
based on optimizing human relationships as a response to our love for Jesus
Christ. Social media is a technological tool we can use alongside our per-
sonal words and actions, but not as a replacement for direct contact. The local
church is composed of people who choose to submit their individuality to
their identity together in Christ. Echoing 1 Corinthians 12:5, Hipps (2009)
says, “The church does not exist only for us, we exist for it—each an essential
part in the incarnated body of Jesus in the world” (p. 177). The Internet can
be used in effective ways in reaching the world for Christ and supplementing
the work of the church in managing communication and resource sharing,
but we still need “skin to skin contact with other people for whom [we] have
become responsible” (Rice, 2009, p. 177).
form the world. However, the methodology and technology for accomplish-
ing our mission changes over time. Our responsibility is to stay focused on
the mission and make wise choices about the tools God has given us to ac-
complish it.
In 1 Chronicles 12, we find an interesting reference to a pivotal point
in Davids quest to accomplish Gods will for Israel. He surrounded himself
with men from every tribe to join him in the fight against Saul. One group
in particular provided the future king with a necessary ingredient: “Of the
sons of Issachar, men who understood the times, with knowledge of what
Israel should do, their chiefs were two hundred; and all their kinsmen were
at their command” (1 Chr 12:32, NASB). In order to best navigate the digi-
tal landscape, as individuals and as the church, we must seek to “understand
the times” rather than simply dive aimlessly into the electronic ocean of the
Internet. Awareness of the nature of the Internet, as well as its benefits and
drawbacks, is a first step.
When Paul counseled the Corinthian Christians about their relation-
ships, he reminded them that God had called them to be holy: ‘“Therefore,
come out from their midst and be separate, יsays the Lord” (1 Cor 6:17a).
The Internet represents a world system, one of which we are part, yet at the
same time, we are distinct from it. We should prayerfully seek Gods wisdom
and listen to his Word to guide our decisions about how we best use Internet
tools. How we access the Scripture—bound Bible, laptop, smartphone, or tab-
let—is a personal choice. But, even though the Internet is challenging the way
we read and learn, God still calls us to read deeply, memorize, and meditate
upon his Word. We have the power to obey and “come out from” the influ-
ence of the world through the Spirit of Christ who lives within us.
One of the struggles we have with the concept of biblical community
is rooted in our culture. We live today in a highly individualistic culture, as
opposed to the strong group orientation in the early church. The Internet
is a perfect illustration of the tension we experience between the ideal and
the reality. Social media highlights the importance of relationships, collab-
oration, and group life, but the personal, private, and distant nature of the
online environment is counterproductive to the goal. Authentic community
demands face-to-face interaction. Therefore, we must challenge ourselves to
be in proximity with one another and make intentional choices to walk away
from the electronic community and spend more time building relationships
inside and outside the church.
Our call from Jesus Christ is still intact: abide in him, love one another,
and bear fruit. Each of these marks of a disciple involves a relationship. As we
consider our spiritual formation in a digital world, the medium can influence
the process. If our development is controlled by the implements and ethos of
the electronic age, these relationships will suffer. However, if we “understand
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the times” in which we live, remain aware of the holistic impact of the Inter-
net on our lives, allow the Spirit to guide our choices, and prioritize personal
contact, we will produce “much fruit and so prove to be My disciples” (John
15:8).
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