Personal Development m9
Personal Development m9
Personal Development
Module 9:
Social Relationships in Middle
and Late Adolescence
AIRs - LM
LU_Personal Development_Module9
Personal Development 11/12
Module 9: Social Relationships in Middle and Late Adolescence
Second Edition, 2021
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La Union Schools Division
Region I
All rights reserved. No part of this module may be reproduced in any form without written
permission from the copyright owners.
Management Team:
Personal Development
Module 9:
Social Relationships in Middle and
Late Adolescence
Introductory Message
This Self-Learning Module (SLM) is prepared so that you, our dear
learners, can continue your studies and learn while at home. Activities,
questions, directions, exercises, and discussions are carefully stated for you
to understand each lesson.
Each SLM is composed of different parts. Each part shall guide you
step-by-step as you discover and understand the lesson prepared for you.
In addition to the material in the main text, Notes to the Teacher are
also provided to our facilitators and parents for strategies and reminders on
how they can best help you on your home-based learning.
Please use this module with care. Do not put unnecessary marks on
any part of this SLM. Use a separate sheet of paper in answering the exercises
and tests. And read the instructions carefully before performing each task.
Thank you.
Target
This learning material provides you information and activities that will
help you understand the roles of an individual in society, self-perception, and
social relationships in middle and late adolescence.
After going through this learning material, you are expected to:
1. Distinguish the various roles of different individuals in the society and how
they can influence people through their leadership and fellowship (EsP-
PD11/12SR-IIb10.1);
2. Compare one’s perception of himself/herself and how others see him/her
(EsP-PD11/12SR-IIc-10.2); and
3. Conduct a mini-survey on Filipino relationships (family, school, and
community) (EsP-PD11/12/SR-IIc-10.3).
Subtasks:
1. Identify the different individuals in the society;
2. Differentiate the roles of individuals (leaders and/or followers) in society;
3. Describe the types of social influence;
4. Explain the types of leadership and followership theories;
5. Evaluate your self-perception to have self-awareness; and
6. Conduct a mini-survey on Filipino relationships.
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Jumpstart
Activity 1: My Organization!
Directions: Write down the names of organizations you are affiliated with
(outside and inside the school) and your role in the family. Place your answers
in your journal.
MY ORGANIZATION
Name of Organization
Reflection Questions:
1. Who introduced you to the organization?
Answer:___________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________.
2. What is/are your purpose in joining the organization?
Answer:___________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________.
3. What benefits you in the organization?
Answer:___________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________.
4. How would the organization help you develop as a person?
Answer:___________________________________________________________________
__________________________________________________________________________.
Rubrics
Criteria Score
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Discover
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During nCoV19 pandemic, the barangay, municipal, provincial, and national
levels help each other in implementing guidelines for its citizenry. The government
extends it services such as distribution of relief goods, allocation of Social
Amelioration Program (SAP), enhancing the health care services, safeguarding the
entry and exit point through military police, updating communication letters,
reports, and public statements, and implementing curfews, coding of vehicles (public
and private), and so on.
4. Health care workers (Frontliners, Barangay Health Workers, Rural Health Unit,
Nurses, and Doctors) - They assume overall responsibility to ensure that all
necessary preventive and protective measures are taken to minimize occupational
safety and health risks. They provide information, instruction and training on
occupational safety and health. They offer refresher health training on infection
prevention and control and use, putting on, taking off and disposal of personal
protective equipment (PPE). They use provided protocols to assess, triage and treat
patients, treat patients with respect, compassion, and dignity, and maintain patient
confidentiality, etc.
5. School Personnel (Principal, Teachers, and Other School Staff)- The DepEd
Mission: To protect and promote the right of every Filipino to quality, equitable,
culture-based, and complete basic education where:
• Students learn in a child-friendly, gender-sensitive, safe, and motivating
environment.
• Teachers facilitate learning and constantly nurture every learner.
• Administrators and staff as stewards of the institution, ensure an enabling
and supportive environment for effective learning to happen.
• Family, community, and other stakeholders are actively engaged and share
responsibility for developing life-long learners.
7. Clergy -These are leaders within established religions. Their roles and functions
may vary in different religious traditions but usually do specific rituals and teaching
their religion's doctrines and practices. They conduct religious worship, performs
spiritual functions associated with religious faith, and aids in the spiritual well-being
of the congregation. Clergy members provide spiritual, personal, and moral guidance
and assistance to church members, and will offer encouragement to those facing
hardship or illness. They can be spiritual leaders in the Roman Catholic, Protestant
Christian, Jewish, and Islamic religions, and are also known as priests, ministers,
pastors, rabbis, and imams.
8. Friends and Schoolmates - Real friends help us in our gloomy days. Sometimes,
they push us to our limits. They offer their shoulder when we need someone to lean
on. They give encouragement, support, love, and care. They help us handle stress
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such as relationship problems. While we are depressed, they help us laugh and feel
comfortable. They provide us with good guidance. Friends are ones with whom we
may share deep secrets. They accept all our thoughts, even if they are worst. Friends
never anticipate anything in return. They live with us right through our whole life.
They are the biggest support in our life. We always feel safe in the company of our
friends.
Our society plays a major role in the life of a teenager. Teens must be mindful
of who they follow, go with/join and imitate. Teenagers who join youth groups,
organizations, and clubs are happier and less likely to drink alcohol, smoke, and
take illegal drugs. Research have shown that getting involve in a good organization
and actively serving or volunteering in the community will benefit teens.
Any position in the organization has corresponding roles to be performed.
Local community activities can boost your confidence and self-esteem. It promotes
good mental health and well-being. You can also gain more connections or friends,
and help you build new skills. You can take civic responsibility and be active in your
community by:
• joining community clean-up drives;
• helping community projects;
• promoting cause- example: Clean and Green Program, recycling, get active in
sports;
• volunteering in feeding program, Christmas program, and repacking of goods;
and
• leading online campaigns to save local wildlife animals.
When you get involved in community activities, you will get a lot of personal
rewards and feeling of achievement. There is a big possibility that you will become a
SERVANT LEADER or merely a good follower. All leaders in our community play a
very important role and can affect us through their leadership style. They influence,
guide, direct, and encourage their members in the organization.
A follower is a person who follows his leader in regard to his or her ideas or
belief and discipline. The leader in return follows the rules of the organization. It
means that a person should be flexible either to work as a leader or as a follower.
-Victor Solomon
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Types of Social Influence, and Leadership and Followership Theories
Social relationships refer to our interactions and behavior with one another.
Compared to personal relationships, we offer less intimacy and show less
vulnerability in these kinds of relationships. However, social relationships may still
be exclusive and demand cooperation and a certain level of loyalty.
Our social relationships influence our actions, attitudes, behavior, beliefs, and
perspectives. Social influences include:
1. Compliance occurs when you seem to agree or follows as what you are required
to do or believe in, but you do not necessarily agree or believe in it;
2. Identification occurs when you are influenced by someone you like or look up to,
like actors and actresses, a social celebrity, a superhero, and the like;
3. Internalization happens when you can own a certain act or belief and you are
willing to share it in private and in public;
4. Conformity happens when there is a change in your behavior, belief or thinking
to be like or conform to others. It is very strong among middle and late adolescents
as supported by the fact that at this age, there is a strong need or desire to seek
approval from and be accepted by others. This is brought about by peer pressure and
is one of the reasons why people who belong to the same group look and behave
similarly;
5. Conversion occurs when you wholeheartedly change your original thinking,
actions, beliefs, and attitude to align with others in a group;
6. Reactance happens when you willingly reject a social influence exerted on you by
and individual or a group. This is non-conformity;
7. Obedience happens when you follow what other people tell you to do, although it
does not necessarily reflect your beliefs or values. This is like compliance and stems
either out of fear or respect for other people;
8. Persuasion occurs when you influence other people to change their beliefs,
actions, and attitudes by appealing to their emotions; and
9. Minority influence happens when a bigger group of people is influenced by a
smaller group.
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a. Leadership is situational which means that a leader acts based on what
is required of him in a situation;
b. Leadership is non-hierarchical which means that a leader must possess
certain characteristics, skills, and connections; and
c. Leadership is rational which means that leaders and followers have a
mutual relationship.
8. Heroic Leadership follows four principles:
a. Self-awareness is knowing one’s strengths and weaknesses;
b. Ingenuity is challenging the comfort zones and thinking outside the box;
c. Love promotes positivity and respect; and
d. Heroism involves motivating and inspiring other people to aim for higher
goals.
9. Leader-Member Exchange (LMX) Theory states that the effectiveness of a leader
depends on the quality of relationship he has with his followers.
Leaders can be visionaries (Why Leader), realists (How Leader), and builders
(What Leader).
Self-Perception
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• Self-awareness refers to the extent to which we are currently fixing our
attention on our own self-concept.
• Self-consciousness is experienced when our self-concept becomes highly
accessible because of our concerns about being observed and potentially
judged by others.
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Explore
Column A Column B
My Imperfections My Lifetime Goal
1.
2.
3.
4.
5.
Rubrics:
Criteria Score
Answer is correct; it is organized and complete; it explains ideas; 4
it has lots of details to show understanding of the question
Answer is correct and mostly organized; it has some details to 3
show understanding of the lesson; it explains ideas
Answer is almost right; it doesn’t have enough details to show 2
understanding of the question
Answer doesn’t make sense; it has no details; it has no 1
explanation or ideas.
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Deepen
Important Notice: In the conduct of your mini survey, please strictly follow safety
procedures and practice social distancing.
Interview Questions
Direction: Put a check (√) inside the box.
1. To which groups or organizations do you belong?
Band/Choir School Paper
2. Have you ever been forced to change your actions and beliefs just to join
any organization or group mentioned above?
Yes No
4. List down the three biggest factors that made you decide to join the
organizations or groups in number 1.
a. ____________________
b. ____________________
c. ____________________
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5. Do you agree and follow requests or what’s required of you to do or believe
in, but not necessarily agree or believe in it?
Yes No
6. Does someone you like or look up to influence your actions, behavior, and
beliefs to some extent?
Yes No
7. Do you use your power or authority over other people to get them to do
what you want them to do?
Yes No
11. Are you familiar with the people in your school and community?
Yes No
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15. How will you describe leadership and followership?
Answer:___________________________________________________________________
______________________________________________________________
Description/ Score
Criteria
4 3 2 1
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Gauge
Multiple Choice
Directions: Choose the letter of the correct answer. Write your answers on a
separate sheet of paper.
___1. Who is responsible for maintaining and restoring human health through the
practice of medicine?
A. Doctor B. President C. Police D. Teacher
___2. Who is responsible for maintaining public order and safety, enforcing the law,
and preventing, detecting, and investigating criminal activities?
A. Doctor B. Driver C. Priest D. Police
___4. He is a ritual expert, the one who has a special and sometimes secret knowledge
of the techniques of worship, including incantations, prayers, sacrificial acts,
songs, and other acts that are believed to bridge the separation between the
divine or sacred and the profane realms?
A. Nurse B. Priest C. Police D. Principal
___5. Who are the personnel in charged in motivating and inspiring the students,
providing guidance, dedication, and passion to the young people through the
power of quality education?
A. Doctors B. Nurses C. Police Officers D. Teachers
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___8. Some Philippine town mayors came up with novel situations to battle
the spread of coronavirus disease in their municipalities. Which principle of
heroic leadership is illustrated?
A. Heroism B. Ingenuity C. Love D. Self-Awareness
___9. Our LGUs have been addressing COVID-19 issues the best and quickest
ways they can. Which leadership axiom is shown?
A. Leadership is relational. B. Leadership is situational.
C. Leadership is hierarchical. D. Leadership is non-hierarchical.
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___13. Which of these situations show identification?
A. We can choose to post anything in social media because we are free to do
it, but we can’t have it all. Know your limits.
B. Minors are not allowed to go out, but some hard-headed teenagers do not
heed the warnings of law enforcers and still go out from their homes and get
caught.
C. A man was made “new in Christ” after his recovery from the disease.
His experience in battling the disease has become his testimony to the
people who followed his social media accounts.
D. Being locked down at home for many months, with more time to
spare, many of us spent hours in binge-watching Korean dramas and
became Yoon Seri’s and Ri Jeong Hyeok’s for a while.
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Gauge
Multiple Choice
1. A
2. D
3. A
4. B
5. D
6. C
7. A
8. B
9. B
10. D
11. C
12. B
13. D
14. B
15. C
Answer Key
References
Printed Materials
Santos, Ricardo R. (2016). Personal Development First Edition (pp. 152-159). Rex
Book Store, Inc. Sampaloc, Manila, Philippines
Department of Education (2016). Personal Development Reader First Edition (pp. 36-
45). Sunshine Interlinks Publishing House, Inc. South Triangle. Quezon City,
Philippines
Department of Education (2016). Personal Development Teacher’s Guide (pp. 42-52).
Sunshine Interlinks Publishing House, Inc. South Triangle. Quezon City, Philippines
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Department of Education. K to 12 Most Essential Learning Competencies with
Corresponding CG Codes
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