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SKIP THE DATE

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Jonathan: Guys, this is the center of my entire system. The three emails that I've spent
years crafting, tweaking, testing, to go from a stranger to the bedroom. Just
three simple copy and paste emails. Going to blow your mind.

There's three principles. Each mail has a very specific purpose, and you have to
remember that if you can understand the purpose of these three steps, you'll
quickly and easily be able to create your own variations of my emails that better
suite your personality.

The first email is to ping. It's to get her attention. When I send my first email, all
I'm trying to do is drive her to see my profile. We spent so long on the profile
lesson. That video is almost an hour for a reason. It's the most important part.
Once your profile is bad ass, the emails are so easy.

The first email, all I want her to do is to open it and visit my profile. That's it. If I
can get those two steps, then I'm super happy. That's my goal.

Step two. When she replies to my first email is to escalate, is to become more
than just a profile. Build her attraction. Get her interested in me. Take her to the
next step. Get a little excitement going.

And step three. When she replies again is to close. Get her off the website. We
want to get her into real life as fast as possible. First choice is a phone number.
Back up choice is an email, but really, it's so easy to get phone numbers. Ninety
to ninety-five percent of the time, when I ask for the phone number, I get it. If
there's any push back at that point, if she says, "Oh, I'm not ready to give you my
number yet after three emails," in my experience, even if I do fifteen, twenty, or
twenty-five emails, it never converts to a phone number, so really, whether you
spend three emails investing in a girl, or twenty-five, the same result. Why waste
your time with an extra twenty-two emails.

One, two, three. Ping, escalate, close. Work on your PECs, P-E-C.

Remember, it's all about your profile first. You might be so excited. You watched
this lesson first. You want to start sending out email. You have to have a baller
profile, because you tell a girl, "Come check out my profile," and it's not
completed, or a classic mistake. Here's the classic. Classic mistake. You get
excited. You start working on your profile. You upload a couple of images, and
you start blasting emails to girls.

Every single website has to approve your photos, so you might be sending out
things thinking you have a complete profile, but you haven't realized that your

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 photos haven't been approved, which means she's looking at a profile without
photos, and if there's no photos, your odds of her replying go down twenty
times, so you lose ninety-five percent of your replies by not having your profile
ready, and that's just one little thing. It takes one or two days to get your photos
approved, and that's because people are always uploading nude photos or weird
stuff, so they have to make sure there's nothing illegal. That's what they're
checking for, and so there's nothing you can do. There's a manual review process
on pretty much every online dating site, for that exact reason.

I've seen tons of girls that have tried to slip in nudie photos into their main
profile, and they got to fight against that, because it can get them in a lot of
trouble. For tons of reasons, you got to have your profile first.

Remember, this entire system, everything about Skip the Date, Get the Girl, is
about identity. It's about representing who you are, your character, the totality
of your personality, the awesomeness of you, and so you want to have that
ready, so when you get her to look at your profile … We have a profile driven
system, so your profile has to be ready.

You want to show her that you have an awesome life. That you have
mysteriousness, intrigue, sexuality, sensuality, comfortableness, confidence, all
these elements that you just get from experience. Being comfortable with who
you are. Spending time building a career, building a life, doing all the things that
we do as we get older. That's the key to attraction here, and that's what's going
to attract these girls.

All four of these stunning girls are girls I met off these sites. Every single one of
these is a real photo that a girl sent to me. This is the type of girls you can be
meeting if you have a high quality profile and you take the time.

Let's dig into the emails, and you're going to see how simple it is.

The first email is called the ping. The purpose, to get her to read your profile.
Don't over-think. The classic mistake, we've talked about it before, and I'm going
to talk about it again, is for the guy who spends two hours crafting a custom
email. The number of girls who notice that this message, which I have been using
for four years now, is copy and paste is about one out of every one to ten
thousand girls. Every once in a while, and it's usually a girl that accidentally I've
emailed twice, and she'll go, "Oh, I can't believe you used a copy and paste
message." She still replied. That's how powerful this message is. Even the girls
who notice that it's a copy and paste still reply, and the response rate is way
higher. I've tried. I've done experiments where I sent custom longer emails to
girl. Don't work. You over-invest.

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 What happens is, and this happened to me, you see a girl. Perfect profile. You
get excited. You write her the perfect email. She doesn't reply, and it's like you
invested ... And then it can hurt your feelings. A stranger you've never met. It
might not even be a real profile. It could be a fake profile. How can that hurt
your feelings? But we give it that power.

Let's look at the two parts of this email. The first is the subject. I want you to
look at that sentence, and imagine you got an email from a woman. Moderately
attractive. Nothing special. Middle of the road. You can't really see what she
looks like from the thing, but it says, "I really like ..." Would you open that email?
Yes. Because it has intrigue. You go, "Well, what do you really like?" You want
the answer to that question, right?

Then my answer is, "Your style ... If you like mine, too, message me back, and
let's talk about an arrangement." Smiley face, X. I don't use my name. I say
arrangement, because the sight is Seeking Arrangement.

There's lots of variations here. I use arrangement part of the time. I always vary
the ending to see if it makes a difference. It doesn't. "If you like my style, too,
message me back." Smiley face is more than enough. You can cut off the last half
of the sentence, and you get a lot of replies, too. But this is the original one that I
used for a long time. That's the one I'm showing you, but I want you to see that
you can vary this very easily. "I like your style," is a meaningless sentence. Some
girls get really, really complimented by that. They go, "Wow. What do you like
about my style? What's so amazing about my style?"

A lot of times I'll switch style, and put in smile. Same thing. You're just giving a
neutral, meaningless compliment that is a catch all. Everybody is like, "Oh, you
like my style?" Some people think it means their fashion. It really just means I
like your profile. That's all I'm really saying. I'm not saying I love your fashion
decisions, and all that stuff, which I can jam on about fashion, flirt in that way
and all that stuff, but that's not what I'm going for. I'm going for something that
most people respond to.

You can just as easily use hairstyle. You can say personality. Energy is really good.
I really like your energy, or your positive energy of your profile. If you like mine,
too, all I'm saying ... What am I saying? How can she figure out if she likes my
style? The only way to find the answer to that question is by looking at my
profile, so I'm pushing her to look at my profile. That's what's happening here.

Then I say, "If you like my profile, message me back." I'm telling her what to do,
because otherwise if I just say, "I like your style. Take a look and see if you like
mine, too." If I don't say anything, she goes and looks at my profile and goes,
"Oh, yeah. I do like his profile." On to the next message.

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 I want her to tell me and message me back. Then I say ... After she messages me
back, anything after this is just ... Otherwise it's too short. Otherwise it's thirty
characters, and I think you have to be a certain length. That might be why I made
it longer. Then I say, "X". I don't put my name or any of that stuff. She doesn't
get my name until a couple messages in. At least message two or message three.

Really simple. Really purposeful. The only purpose of a subject line is to get her
to open it. They've changed Seeking Arrangement, which is my favorite site. The
one I've been talking about. That's the one I've been using most recently. I've
used all of them, and all for different variations, but with Seeking Arrangement,
they've taken away subject lines, so now when a girl sees the message, it actually
shows her the whole message. Now I write, "I really like your style ... If you like
mine, too," so the subject and body I combine.

Actually, once you get it down, you can actually skip this message, because now I
don't need to force her to open the first message. I don't need to ping. If you
want to go really wild, you can go straight to message two, and I've done a lot of
testing with that.

But, remember, before we can to message two, I can't harp on this enough.
Profile is so important, because after one email, no matter which email is your
first email, she's going to look at your profile, and your profile is your chance to
show how awesome and amazing you are. It's where you build up your bond
identity and attract her. Your profile is what causes you to email you back, or
even email you out of the blue.

A lot of women will scroll around when they join the site. They're looking at guys
in their area, and boom. Especially if you live in a small town. You might live in a
town where there's only a hundred girls on the site, so maybe a girl joins every
three days that's really attractive, and you're like, "Oh, that's not that many," but
the odds are in your favor, because when she joins, she's going to see the
profiles, and yours is going to stand out, because our system is so powerful.

I get messages all the time. “You got the most amazing profile. You're the first
guy that ever wrote what I ... Something that understands how I feel.” I get those
types of messages, so I know my profile is super tight. Your profile is the key, so
even when you're not paying attention, you're going to get messages out of the
blue. It's really important.

Here's email two, the escalation. Again, you can take this message, and you can
send just this message on sites that don't have a subject line, and test it. Let's
look at what I'm saying. The purpose here is to get her to want to meet me. The
subject line is just, "Hi, cutie." Remember, she's already messaged me, so now at
Seeking Arrangement I do the same thing. I made the subject line part of the

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 body of the email, but these are the two variations. I'll just say, "Hi, cutie. I'm
looking for something like when we're together, we're together. We have an
amazing time and spoil each other. When we are apart, we do our own thing.
Lead our own lives. No jealousy. No stress. Just casual and pleasant. How does
that sound?"

The purpose of this email is to frame the idea that I'm not going to be jealous
when she does whatever she wants with her life, and the reason I put the word,
spoil, in there, is because I'm screening for the kind of girls I want to avoid. A lot
of girls, the really low quality girls, the girls that are prostitutes, the girls that are
gold-diggers, the girls that have personality flaws, will respond to the word spoil.
They'll read this entire message, and they'll go, "What do you mean by spoil? I
want you to give me money." They'll say something like that, and as soon as they
say that, I know that their personality is not something I'm interested in. That's
not the type of person I want to spend time with. Someone whose response to a
message is, "Okay. I want to have a great time with you. No stress. We're just
having a blast. We have our own lives. All those things are positive," and if they
look at this, and they find one word that they're questioning about, and they
attack. That's their hook. That tells me what I need to know about that girl,
right?

Most people, ninety to ninety-five percent of woman, will respond to the no

jealousy, no stress part. You're going to get a split. A lot of women are interested
in this, and a lot of women aren't. The secret here is that a girl reads this, and
says, "Hey, I want a casual, let's just be friends, and have sex with each other
relationship." Then they read my profile, which is the ultimate romance, let me
take you around the world and change your life, and it sends two completely
different messages, and girls will just choose which one they like, and they'll
message me.

Everyone that my profile screens out, my email screens in. That's what's
happening here. You can do the exact same thing. You can copy and paste the
same messages. Just tweak them up a little bit, in case it's a girl I've already
messaged, and what you'll see is that a girl, once she sees your profile is good,
will look for any issues to connect with you.

There's girls along the whole spectrum. If you're looking for a relationship, you
just tweak the email. "I'm looking for something like we have an amazing time.
We spoil each other. We find what's possible in having an amazing life together,
just like my profile talks about." Something like that, and you're going to screen
in those types of girls. That's what this is. It's like fishing with a net. Not
everything is going to get caught, but the good. You figure out what you want,
and you build an email around that. This is a really simple message, but it's
really, really powerful.

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 If you send just this message first. I did a test where I sent just this message, "PS,
send me your number," and I got a lot of numbers. A lot, a lot of numbers,
something like a hundred phone numbers in one day from that message. That
works.

But I find that asking for the phone numbers, instead of going for one email, at
least doing two is more effective, so it's much better to send this variation, and
then in the next message ask for the phone number. You'll get a higher total
number of phone numbers, even though you do have to copy and paste two
messages instead of one.

Again, the idea here is to say something interesting. I just wrote this out one day.
This didn't come from an escort site or any other ideas. This one I was just,
"What exactly are girls looking for, and what do I want," and I made it really
simple. If you're looking for something ... If you only want to be with a bisexual
girl, you can screen at this point. I tend to wait later to screen for that, but
whatever you're looking for, just let her know, and get her excited. No jealousy.
No stress. No matter what you're describing you should put in there, because
girls want that.

Again, no matter how nice your message is, a certain percentage of woman, a
small percentage, the minority, will say ... Will respond to the no jealousy, no
stress thing. They'll be like, "What are you talking about no jealousy, no stress?"
That tells you that it's not someone you want to spend time with. Anyone who
responds to this message, which is all positive, in a way that's negative, or in a
way that's push back, they're revealing a little bit about their character, and
that's what we want to do. You want to find out if she's the kind of person you
want to invest your time, and energy, and emotions with, right?

If she's the kind of person that is going to stress you out, that is going to be
jealous, no matter what's happening in your life, that doesn't like casual and
pleasant. If someone doesn't want to have a life that's casual and pleasant, do
you really want to spend time with them? I don't. I am trying to make sure that I
don't spend time with anyone who is neurotic. Who responds to stress in a
negative way that makes my life negative. I don't need more stress in my life. I
already have my own business, all my own stuff that is stressful enough. I don't
need another source.

What I need in a relationship, what I look for from a woman I'm with or dating,
or whatever, is to lower my stress level, to make my life better. That's what I'm
looking for. To give me happiness, so I screen out all the bad.

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 Then we look at our response to this second email, and the reason we created all
those hooks in our profile is so she has something to write me back about. My
profile is filled with hooks, and so is that message.

They send two different messages. They're contradictory, and instead of her
seeing this contradiction between the perfect romance, amazing relationship
guy, and short term relationship, just fuck buddies, friends with benefits, those
two things, they're not ... How could that be the same guy? She'll respond to
whichever one she wants.

Again, I email so many girls that I see. I'll send that message to a thousand girls,
and one out of a thousand girls will be like, "Wait. Which one do you want? Do
you want this or do you want that?" Even when she's caught up, she's still
messaging me to find out, and then once I look at her profile, I'll tell her which
one ... Whatever she's looking for, I'll say I’m looking for the same thing. I don't
really know until I meet her, but if I'm interested in her at that point, I'll move to
the meet.

Most women will give me their phone number by the second reply. I send one
message. She's like, "Oh, that sounds interesting. I do like your style. Tell me
more." Then I send my second message, which is copy and paste.

If the girl is in a foreign county or something, or she asks a question, I'll add
whatever she says. If she asks a really specific question, "What type of books do
you write," a lot of girls ask me, or if I'm traveling they're like, "Oh, you do know I
live in England," or whatever, and I'll be like, "I'm going to be there next week,"
and they I just copy and paste the rest of the message. Whatever she writes,
even if it's five paragraphs, my second email works as a response, and she feels
like I've answered her whole email.

Remember, the purpose of everything is to get her to be interested in me, and

want to reply. That's all we're looking for. Once you actually meet her, you can
go through everything else, but really the whole purpose of the profile is to get
her interested enough to email you. The whole purpose of the emails is to get
her to give you her phone number. The whole purpose of the phone number is
to get her to meet you. Once you meet her, then you're golden, right? You can
go forward. You're pre-selected. She's already attracted to you. You don't have
to earn any attraction, because she's chosen. Especially when she asks you to
meet, which most of these girls will do once you've shown that you’re cool and
you have a great profile. It's so easy.

You've created all these hooks. There's all these different things she can respond
to. For mine, some girls will talk about the artist they like, some girls will talk
about jazz. Some girls will talk about drinking fine wine. They'll find something in

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 there that attracts them, and they'll give themselves the date they want out of
my choices. I basically have given them ten different date choices, and they
select the one they want out of my profile, and tell me, and then we can meet,
and do whatever we want to do from the options of my profile. Out for a jazz
club, and having a couple glasses of wine. That's a great time, whether you're by
yourself, or you're with a girl. That's what you're creating. Once you meet her,
you can see if there's chemistry, if there's a real connection.

If a girl doesn't give you her phone number without ... Right after the second
email, which has happened, I sent the third email. This is the close. This is get her
to [inaudible 00:17:54]. I just say, "Reply to Hi, Cutie. Perfect. Email me and let's
talk details. There's my email address.

I do recommend that you set up an email address just for your online dating
profiles. That's what I did here. As you know, I guess you can all email me to my
dating email address. The last author, Hotmail dot com. Any email I get there, I
know it's from a girl I met off a dating site. I have it all isolated, so it's not mixed
up with my other emails or whatever. It makes it really easy.

Just as easy, I didn't want to put my phone number in here, so I don't have my
number, I usually ... If it's a girl local to me, and I want to just text, I'll say, "Text
me and let's talk details," and I'll have my phone number there.

What I do recommend, if you're really going to go all out and go crazy, is to get a
burner phone. I do use an app on my iPhone, called Hushed. There's two. There's
Hushed and there's Burner, and they're cool, because they give you a fake phone
number, so you get the text to your phone, but you can't send and receive
picture messages, so I don't like that as much, but I don't really want to give
away my main work phone number or my main cell phone to tons of random
girls, because you go out with a couple hundred girls, one of them is going to be
texting you and stuff all the time. I would recommend getting a second phone, or
at least getting an app on your phone so you have an isolated phone number,
but I recommend the second phone if you can do it. It's way easier. Connect it up
to this email account.

That's me, because I do such volume. I try to get out with twenty to thirty
women a month, so I have to do a lot of stuff to help me organize that. This is
really simple. This is when she gets my name. If she hasn't given me her number
yet ... A lot of girls give me their number and they go, "Here's the number. By the
way, what's your name?"

This is the email close. Really simple. Again, she can write any reply, and as long
as her reply is positive, I just go, "Perfect. Email me and let's talk details," no
matter what she says, and it works out really great.

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 It's really simple. One, two, three. Ping, escalate, close. These emails work over
and over and over again. I've gotten probably ten thousand messages from
women based off of these. Thousands of phone numbers. All these amazing
things. That's all it is. It's really simple, and just keep the idea down.

You want to escape the trap that a lot of people fall into of slowing things down.
I have some clients that I get them phone numbers. I help them all the time, and
we have that service now. We're expanding, so maybe you guys might be
interested in that. Here's the thing. Once you get her phone number, you've got
to take action, because as soon as you get her off the site, you've separated
yourself from the masses. You want to be the only guy she's thinking about.
Once she's texting you, she'll stop logging into the site for at least a day or two
days. You have to meet her as fast as possible, and that means meeting within
seventy-two hours. That is crucial.

If you get a girl's number, and then your plan is to text for two weeks before you
meet her, whatever your reason is. Maybe it's you want to be less nervous, or
you have business, whatever it is, that will tank you. I wish I could say it any
other way. What will happen after seventy-two hours is this.

Young women have short attention spans. Her attraction is just coming out of
the oven. It's hot, but the longer you wait, it just cools down. Once you wait
more than seventy-two hours, when you meet her you actually have to rebuild
all of your attraction from scratch, so everything about your profile, you have to
re-demonstrate in person. Then, you actually have to start dating. If you blow
your strike window, if you blow your time frame, then you push yourself out of
the skipping the date, and back into dating.

The whole thing about dating, and this is really important to understand. Dating
is all about meeting a girl, building attraction, convincing her to like you, jumping
through hoops. Seeing if you like her. Slowly escalating. Am I going to hold
hands? Is she going to hold my hand? How expensive of a restaurant do we have
to do to? Did I buy enough bottle of wine? What if she doesn't like her food?
What if I take her to a movie and she doesn't like the movie? She doesn't like
me? Take her to her house. Now we're at her front door. We haven't kissed yet.
Is she going to kiss me at her front door? Is going to slam the door in my face? Is
she going to kiss me, or is she going to slam the door?

All that awkwardness and horribleness, that's what you don't want. I don't want
that either. All of that goes away because we push her through three phases.
You're on the website, so you're pre-selected, because it's a site for elite men.

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 Step two. You have a great profile, which builds attraction. Pre-selection,
attraction. After attraction comes getting physical, building intimacy, so we're
bypassing the date, but if you take too long, you lose that. It's like imagine if you
go on the best date of your life with a woman. You get to her front door, and
then you go home, and a week later you come back to her front door, and try to
go in and have sex with her. All the motion, heat, is gone. You can't pause in the
middle of that part of a date. It breaks it. That's why you got to escape that delay
trap, because that will kill you.

You have her attention right now. Don't give other guys the chance to send her
messages and distract her, because if you start texting a girl, after about thirty-
six to forty-eight hours, she'll start checking her emails again on the site, and it's
very easy to lose it. There's no reason for that to happen.

Honestly, a lot of this can be same day. Taking control of your schedule, and you
just have to meet her for twenty minutes or an hour. I often meet girls ...
Sometimes I'll be in a new city. I'm traveling. I'm on a book tour. I'm at a
conference, and I'm like I want to hang out with a girl tonight. I'll message every
girl in the city that I think is beautiful, even if it's a small city, like Charlotte,
North Carolina. I did this once, and I met a stunning girl within forty-five minutes,
and she was back in my hotel room half an hour later. It was really cool. We
were having a blast. She was like, "Fuck it, let's go hook up. I don't want to do
anything else." She was into what I was into, and we had a blast. She just wanted
to be in a hotel room. Simple. She left two hours later to go ... I don't know. Out
to dinner with her friends or something, and I went to a work event. Really
simple.

It can be quick. Quick, quick, quick. Don't waste your time, don't waste her time.
The secret to the system is following every step, and as long as you stick to the
method and stick to the rhythm, send her emails one, two, three, or just send
emails two, three, you're going to get really great responses.

Once a girl has given you her number, you got to take action. It's good to go.
Once a girl has given you her number, there's a ninety to ninety-five percent
chance that she's going to have sex with you on the first date, so don't fuck it up.
Please, have that date.

This is the three emails from SkiptheDate.com, Skip the Date, Get the Girl. This is
how to go from stranger to indoor bedroom in three magic emails. I've done this,
and my other private clients have done this. This works. I can't wait for you to
start sending your emails. It's going to blow your mind how many responses you
get

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