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Questions To Ask During Dates

These questions appear to be probing for personal details about memories, feelings, physical intimacy, trust, priorities, deal-breakers, attractions, parenting views, family backgrounds, values, hobbies, and life goals in order to assess relationship compatibility and level of intimacy between the individuals. The questions touch on topics like favorite memories together, physical features found attractive, feelings of safety and trust, priorities within relationships, views on commitment and intimacy, childhood upbringings, religious and political beliefs, career aspirations, and goals for the future.
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Questions To Ask During Dates

These questions appear to be probing for personal details about memories, feelings, physical intimacy, trust, priorities, deal-breakers, attractions, parenting views, family backgrounds, values, hobbies, and life goals in order to assess relationship compatibility and level of intimacy between the individuals. The questions touch on topics like favorite memories together, physical features found attractive, feelings of safety and trust, priorities within relationships, views on commitment and intimacy, childhood upbringings, religious and political beliefs, career aspirations, and goals for the future.
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What is your favorite memory of dating me?

What is your favorite memory of us?


What food reminds you of me?
When was the last time you thought about me in a positive way?
What is your favorite thing that I do for you?
What movie reminds you of us?
Which of your parents are you most like?
Which of our kids are most like you? (or if you aren�t parents yet: Do you ever
picture having kids?)
What�s my best physical feature?
What do you like most that I do in bed?
What�s your favorite time of day to be intimate?
Do you like kissing or hugging more?
When did you know you wanted to be monogamous with me?
Do you ever get jealous if you see me talking to other attractive people?
Do you ever dream about me?
What do you think we need to work on the most in our relationship?
If you got sick, do you think I would be there to care for you?
Do you believe that I love you?
When did you know you wanted to kiss me?
What�s your favorite activity that we do together?
As a child, did you trust both of your parents?
What is your favorite thing I ever did for a special occasion for you?
What is your favorite fantasy?
What is your favorite position?
Do you ever think about me during the day?
What is something I could do to make you trust me even more?
When do you feel the most protected and taken care of?
What can I do to make sure you feel safe with me?
When we hang out with friends, do I make you feel like you�re still my
priority?
When we are with my family, do I make you feel like you�re still my priority?
Do you have any deal-breakers, things that would make you seriously reconsider
our relationship?
What was the very first thing you thought about me?
When did you first think I was attractive?
How long do you think people should wait before having kids?
What did you learn about marriage from your parents?
What did you learn about physical affection from your parents?
What is your favorite book?
What is your favorite song?
What was your first favorite movie, as a child?
What do you want to do when you retire?
Do you ever picture having grandchildren?
What�s another career that you think you would love?
What�s your favorite physical feature of your own?
Who was your favorite teacher when you were a child?
What�s your favorite memory with your mom?
What�s your favorite memory with your dad?
Which significant other before me had the biggest impact on you?
What did you think after your first intimate experience?
Did you like high school or college better?
Where have you always wanted to travel?
Did you ever consider a totally different career path?
What was your favorite class in high school?
What was the best party you ever went to?
What�s the happiest you ever felt?
What�s the most anxious you ever felt?
What�s the angriest you ever felt?
Do you believe in God?
What�s a question you�ve never asked me?
What�s your favorite personality trait of your own?
Which of your personality traits do you wish you could change?
Have you ever gotten really obsessed with some topic?
Did you collect stuff as a child?
Which of your parents did you go to when you wanted to talk?
What�s the most scared you ever felt, as a child?
What�s the accomplishment you are most proud of?
Where do you want to be living in 10 years?
Which of your friends would you choose if you had to be on a desert island with
just one?
Which of your friends is most like you?
What do you think about couples who are married but live in different cities?
What do you think about couples who own a business together and spend all their
time together?
Which would you like most: a summer house, a year-long vacation, or a boat?
What would you do with a million dollars?
What would you do with an extra $1,000 to spend only on yourself?
When you were a kid, did you feel that you fitted in?
What was your favorite subject in middle school?
Did you go through puberty before or after everyone else, or right on time?
Who was your first crush?
Who was your first kiss?
Who was the first person to have a crush on you?
Do you think of yourself as an introvert or an extrovert?
If you could go back in time, what age would you be again?
If you could see into the future, what would you want to know?
What�s your greatest talent?
What is your most unique trait?
What makes me different from the other people you�ve been with?
What is the best thing about our relationship?
Do you ever compare yourself to other guys/girls?
Which of my friends do you think is the most fun?
Are you an optimist, a pessimist, or a realist?
When you wake up in the middle of the night, what do you think about?
If you had to change one thing about yourself, what would you pick?
Do you think I�m more of an optimist, a pessimist, or a realist?
As a teenager, did you ever rebel against your parents?
Who�s the closest person to you in your extended family?
Did you ever want more or fewer siblings?
How did you siblings shape who you are?
What was your favorite date night we ever had?
What are your secret thoughts when you see me at the end of the day?
Do you ever wish I could read your mind? When?
What things about me make you know I�m the one for you?

Ice breaking questions


What made you want to go on this date?
Who's your closest friend and why?
Would you rather spend a night in with your partner or go out in a large group?
What's one of your favorite childhood memories?
Why did you decide to move to this city or town?
Where is your favorite place in the world?
What's your favorite local spot?
What neighborhood do you live in?
If you could go out to dinner with anyone in the world, who would it *not* be and
why?
What are the greatest and worst books you've ever read?
Do you have a favorite author? If so, who?
What's your favorite movie or television show?
What's the best meal you've ever eaten?
What's the best vacation or trip you've ever been on?
What's your favorite sports team and why?
What was your AIM screen name?
What are you looking forward to right now?
What�s on your bucket list?

WORK QUESTIONS
Where do you work?
How long have you been in this profession?
Who do you hang out with most at work?
What do you love most about your job?
What do you like the least about your job?
What's next for you in your career?
Do you want to grow within your company, or do you see yourself elsewhere?
How did you decide to follow this career path?
What did you study in school?
What's your greatest professional accomplishment?
What's the most embarrassing thing that's happened to you at work?
Who is your least favorite colleague and why?
Who is your professional role model or inspiration?
What does a typical workday look like for you?
How do you get along with your bosses?
How do you think your career does (or doesn�t) fit your personality?
What�s the hardest thing about your job?
How has your role changed since getting hired?

ersonality Questions
Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
Are you an early riser or a night owl?
What does an ideal weekend look like for you?
What's your favorite way to relax?
How often do you like to exercise?
How would you describe your personality?
Do you like to relax or explore while on vacation?
What's your biggest pet peeve, and how do you respond when it happens?
What kinds of things make you the most upset?
What do you act like when you're sad or mad?
What makes you happy?
How do you communicate your feelings to others?
Who do you go to when you need to vent?
Do you consider yourself a calm or anxious person?
What do you like most about yourself?

Family Questions
Do you have any siblings?
How close are you to your siblings?
Who were you raised by?
Are you close to your parents and/or grandparents?
What's it like being around your parents?
How close are you to your immediate family?
How often do you visit your hometown?
How close are you to your extended family?
What was it like growing up in your family?
What was the best part of your childhood?
What were you like in high school?
What's your most embarrassing childhood memory?
Who was the most important part of your youth?
Are you still friends with people you knew growing up?
How would you describe your family to someone new?

Questions about Values


What's your political affiliation?
Who do you plan to vote for in the next election?
Has your political affiliation changed?
What's the social issue you're most passionate about?
What was your life like during the COVID-19 quarantine?
How religious are you?
Were you raised practicing a specific religion?
How important are holidays to you?
What would you consider to be your personal values?
Who are the most important people in your life?
What brings you the most fulfillment in life?
Do you live to work or work to live?
How important is alone time?
How important are other people's values to you?
What role do your friends play in your life?
Who do you admire?
What would you tell yourself five years ago?

Questions about Hobbies


What do you do in your spare time?
What are your hobbies?
What is the hobby you've been doing for the longest period of time?
What's a recent hobby that you've picked up?
How often do you read?
How important are hobbies to your mental health?
What's a hobby you'd pick up if you had more time?
What do you consider to be your passion in life?
How passionate are you about your job?
When do you make time for your hobbies and passions?
Is it important that your friends share your passions?
What do you consider your biggest contribution to the world?
How do you want to feel at the end of your life?
What's something you're really proud of?
If you could do one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
What is it about your hobby that you are drawn to?

Questions about Relationships


What are you looking for in a relationship?
What does your ideal partner look like?
What do you like most about relationships?
What's the best part of dating you?
How do you cope with loneliness?
Who do you go to for relationship advice?
What's the best love advice you've ever received?
Do you like dating apps?
What made you want to start dating?
What was your longest relationship?
What was your shortest relationship?
What's been your greatest heartbreak?
What's romantic to you?
How do you know that you like someone?
Have you ever lived with a significant other?
What is your biggest pet peeve in a relationship?
What are your love languages (to give and receive)?

Questions about Future Plans


What are you looking for in a serious relationship?
How worried are you about the future?
Where do you want to be in five years?
What about the future excites you most?
What about the future concerns you most?
Where do you want to live eventually?
Do you ever think about having kids?
What kind of a parent do you think you would be?
How important is it that you live close to your family?
What's your opinion on marriage?
How often do you want to travel for pleasure?
Is there anywhere in the world you haven't seen yet that you'd like to?
What's your ideal style for a home?
Is there anything you hope to do more of in the future?
What's something you'd like to get better at in the future?

Questions about Sex


How would you describe your sexual orientation?
How would you describe your tastes in the bedroom?
What do you look for in a sexual partner?
How do you define the word 'sex'?
When was the first time you had sex?
What was your first kiss like?
What's your greatest sexual fantasy?
Who's your celebrity crush?
Do you believe in casual sex?
Do you enjoy talking about sex?
How old were you when you had your first crush?
What does sex typically mean to you?
What's your biggest turn on?
What's your favorite movie sex scene?
Is there anything you wouldn't do in bed?
What do you think about sex on the first date?
What do you think about sexual exploration for couples

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