Talking About Sexuality With Youth
Talking About Sexuality With Youth
Talking About Sexuality With Youth
BEHAVIOR
Background: Young people who have psychiatric problems are more likely than their peers to endure difficulties
during their sexual and gender identity development.
Aim: This study aims to examine the communication between mental health care providers and their patients
about the topics of relations, sexuality and gender identity, including a description of professionals’ attitudes
toward these topics and the factors that contribute to and inhibit communication.
Methods: Study participants (n = 242, response rate = 31%) were a representative sample of a large multicenter
cohort of 768 mental health care professionals (eg, medical doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, group counselors,
parent counselors) of 7 institutions and 5 solo practices in the Netherlands, who completed a survey on commu-
nication about sexuality and gender identity with their young patients (age 12−21 years).
Outcomes: Sexuality and gender identity are infrequently discussed by mental health care providers with their
young patients or their patients’ parents.
Results: Of the study sample, 99.5 % valued sexuality as an important topic to discuss with their patients. How-
ever, only 17.1% of the professionals reported that they discussed sexuality-related issues with the majority (>75%)
of their patients (adolescents: 19.9%, parents: 14.4%) Additionally, only 2.3 % of the participants discussed gender
nonconformity regularly with patients. Information about sexual side effects of prescribed medication was infre-
quently (20.3%) provided: antidepressants (40.0%), antipsychotics (34.0%), benzodiazepines (5.1%) and stimu-
lants (2.4%). The most frequently cited reasons for not discussing these topics were a lack of awareness, own
feelings of discomfort, and the patients’ supposed feelings of shame. There was no gender differences observed.
Clinical implications: Recommendations for professionals include to be aware of these topics, initiating age-
appropriate conversation and use inclusive language.
Strengths and limitations: The present study included a diverse and representative group of mental health care
professionals. Frequency of sexual communication was based on self-report, which brings a risk of bias.
Conclusion: Despite a recognized need to engage in age-appropriate communication about sexuality and gender
identity in youth mental health care, mental health providers seem to remain hesitant to discuss such topics. Bun-
gener SL, Post L, Berends I, et al. Talking About Sexuality With Youth: A Taboo in Psychiatry? J Sex Med
2022;19:421−429.
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KEY WORDS: Child- and Adolescent Psychiatry; Sexuality; Gender Identity; Sexual Health
INTRODUCTION
Mental health counseling of youth involves discussion and
evaluation of a variety of topics, including psychological func-
Received April 21, 2021. Accepted January 1, 2022.
tioning, social functioning and family functioning. Private topics
Center of Expertise on Gender Dysphoria, Department of Child and Adoles-
cent Psychiatry, Department of Medical Psychology, Amsterdam University
such as sexuality and gender identity, though equally important,
Medical Centers, Amsterdam, the Netherlands may be discussed infrequently. This study aims to examine the
Copyright © 2022 The Authors. Published by Elsevier Inc. on behalf of the frequency of discussion of these private themes during consulta-
International Society for Sexual Medicine. This is an open access article
under the CC BY license (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/4.0/)
tion with mental health care providers, as well as contributing
https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2022.01.001 and inhibiting factors.
Sexuality encompasses sexual behavior, gender identities and nonminority adolescent peers to suffer emotional and physical
roles, sexual orientation, pleasure, intimacy and reproduction.1 health concerns, and the suicide risk among adolescents in sexual
Sexual development begins in early childhood and accelerates minority groups is 4.5 till 10 times higher than that of their
during puberty due to the release of hormones. Sexual and rela- peers.27,28,29,30
tional experiences are generally obtained in an age dependent Given these challenges during the developmental phase of
and progressive line of intimacy: at the start of puberty, most adolescence, youth with mental health disorders should have
adolescents have not yet kissed, while at the end the majority opportunities to converse about these challenges and seek help if
have some sexual experience with others.2,3 necessary.31 A consultation with a mental health provider could
Table 1. General characteristics of mental health care professio- is between 0 and 21 years, for this survey the aim was on youth
nals and treated patients 12−21 years.
All participants Respondents were invited to participate in an online survey
Variabele N = 242 (%) through a variety of methods, including targeted mailings, and per-
Age at assesment sonal invitations. Three reminder notifications were sent out after
M(SD) 40.01 (11.31) the initial invitation, and a gift certificate was raffled among the par-
Range 23.00 - 65.00 ticipants as an incentive to complete the survey. For privacy reasons,
responses). Two questions with multiple choice options were conducted to compare the frequencies in communication
included regarding participants’ reasons not to discuss sexuality between the 4 groups of mental health care professionals: medical
and the specific topics they chose to discuss. All respondents doctors, psychologists, group counselors and parent counselors.
were asked whether they regarded their knowledge sufficient on A Bonferroni correction was applied for post-hoc analyses. Chi-
sexual development, referral options, treatment options and devi- square tests were also used to analyze differences in communica-
ant sexual development (yes/no responses). Questionnaire items tion among subgroups.
regarding gender identity included: the share of patients (adoles-
cents or parents) with whom the participant discussed the topic
Table 2. Communication about sexuality with young patients and parents by mental health care providers
Medical doctorse Psychologistsf Groupcounselorsg Parent counselorsh All health care providersb
Patientgroupa N= 42 N (%) N = 115 N (%) N = 56 N (%) N = 29 N (%) N = 242 N (%)
Adolescentsc
0% 0 (0.0) 1 (0.9) 3 (6.8) 0 (0.0) 4 (1.9)
1−5% 0 (0.0) 9 (8.3) 5 (11.4) 2 (8.7) 16 (7.4)
6−25% 9 (22.0) 20 (18.5) 15 (34.1) 4 (17.4) 48 (22.2)
26−50% 10 (24.4) 18 (16.7) 15 (34.1) 4 (17.4) 53 (24.5)
51−75 % 17 (41.5) 27 (25.5) 4 (9.1) 4 (17.4) 52 (24.1)
> 75 % 5 (12.2) 33 (30.6) 1 (2.3) 4 (17.4) 43 (19.9)
Parentsd
0% 1 (2.4) 5 (4.7) 11 (21.6) 0 (0.0) 17 (7.4)
1−5% 13 (31.0) 21 (19.6) 15 (29.4) 0 (0.0) 49 (21.4)
6−25% 15 (35.7) 24 (22.4) 19 (37.3) 8 (27.6) 66 (28.8)
26−50% 8 (19.0) 24 (22.4) 3 (5.9) 5 (17.2) 40 (17.5)
51−75 % 4 (9.5) 15 (14.0) 2 (3.9) 4 (13.8) 25 (10.9)
> 75 % 1 (2.4) 18 (16.8) 1 (2.0) 12 (41.4) 32 (14.0)
a
% of patients or parents where sexuality is discussed by the respondent.
b
For description see below.
c
Adolescents > 12-21 years.
d
Parents of young patients in mental health care.
e
Medical doctors: child- and adolescents psychiatrists, residents (MD, medical doctor, either specializing/non specializing).
f
Psychologists: psychologists of all levels, psychotherapists, education generalists, creative therapists.
g
Group counselors: sociotherapists, psychiatric nurses.
h
Parent counsellors: system therapists, social workers.
sexuality were observed, in that psychologists communicated Table 3. Communication about gender non-conform behavior and
about this topic more often (30.6%) than medical doctors gender identity
(12.2%; x2(1) = 4.72, P < .05). Group counselors communicated Gender non conformb Gender identityc
a
about sexuality significantly less than participants in all other pro- Frequencies N (%) N (%)
fessions (2.3%; x2(1) = 9.17, P < .05). No gender differences
0% Never 49 (21.4) 59 (25.8)
were observed between male and female professionals in terms of
1−5% 68 (29.7) 96 (41.9)
frequency of discussing sexuality-related topics (adolescents: 6−25% 65 (28.4) 47 (20.5)
x2(1) = 1.78, P = .18; parents: x2(1) = 3.06, P = .080).
youth mental health care.10,31,34 One even stated: Not asking increasing. In the USA 1.8% transgender and 1.6% is question-
about these (sexual) experiences can be compared with not mea- ing. This can remain undisclosed for a long period and psycho-
suring head circumference of infants during the first year of logical problems, including suicidality frequently occur
life.31 We are not convinced that sexuality should be discussed associated with these struggles.26,27,28,41Therefore, MHP work-
with all young people at all times. There are situations such as an ing with adolescents could create a safe environment to enable
acute psychiatric situation (eg, severe manic episode or psycho- young persons to talk about their (gender) identity.26,27,28
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with boys / girls?)
2. With what percentage of young people do you discuss gender iden-
tity? (like: Do you feel like a boy or a girl? Would you rather be of
APPENDIX 1. QUESTIONNAIRE the opposite gender?)
Communication about sexuality 3. Do you have sufficient knowledge of the normal gender identity