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DAY 04 YOUR EYES AND THINK ABOUT HOW IT FEELS WHEN YOU
BRING THAT MEMORY TO MIND. WRITE ABOUT THE
SENSATIONS AND THE EXPERIENCE. NOW DO THE SAME
THING WITH A NEGATIVE MEMORY. DOES IT FEEL HEAVY
NOTES OR CONTRACTING WITHIN YOUR BODY? WRITE ABOUT THE
EXPERIENCE AND NOTICE THE CONTRAST. IS THERE AN
UNDERLYING OR CONTRASTING EMOTION THAT YOU
NOTICE IN THE EXPERIENCES?
IF YOU WERE IN THE MIDDLE OF A STORY, MAYBE EVEN A
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WHAT 5 KEY MOMENTS (ACCOMPLISHMENTS OR FAILURES) IN YOUR
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PAST HAVE SHAPED WHO YOU ARE TODAY? HOW DOES YOUR PAST
DAY MAKE YOU FEEL TODAY? NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE THINGS MAY
COME UP. WRITE THEM BOTH. HIGHLIGHT THE POSITIVE THINGS
ABOUT YOURSELF THAT YOU WANT TO HANG ON TO. UNDERLINE
THE THINGS THAT YOU WANT TO LET GO OF.
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WHAT ARE YOUR 5 BIGGEST FEARS? IF YOU CAN’T THINK OF THEM OFF
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THE TOP OF YOUR HEAD, BRING TO MIND THE “SCARIEST” MOMENTS OF
DAY YOUR LIFE? WHAT ARE SOME POSSIBLE WAYS THESE FEARS COULD BE
HOLDING YOU BACK? IF YOU TRIED TO OVERCOME THIS FEAR IN A
SMALL WAY TODAY OR TOMORROW, WHAT’S THE BEST THAT COULD
HAPPEN, AND WHAT’S THE WORST THAT COULD HAPPEN?
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WHAT’S ONE GOAL OR DREAM THAT
DAY 10 YOU’VE NEVER SHARED WITH
ANYONE?
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WRITE A LETTER TO YOURSELF FROM YOUR FUTURE
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SPEND TODAY PRACTICING WTF JOURNALING. THIS MEANS WHENEVER
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WORDS, THOUGHTS, OR FEELINGS COME UP THAT MAKE YOU THINK
DAY WTF?!, WRITE IT DOWN. AT THE END OF THE DAY, JOURNAL THROUGH
THOSE SPECIFIC SITUATIONS. START BY EXPLAINING WHAT HAPPENED
THAT MADE YOU FEEL A NEGATIVE THOUGHT/EMOTION. THEN ASK
YOURSELF, WHY? KEEPING ASKING WHY UNTIL YOU IDEALLY REACH A
NOTES SOURCE SELF LIMITING BELIEF OR PROGRAMMING SUCH AS, “I’M NOT
VALUABLE.”
TAKE YOUR BELIEF OR PROGRAMMING FROM
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WOULD YOU SPEND EACH HOUR, EACH MINUTE? WHY
DAY WOULD YOU WANT TO DO THOSE THINGS? WHO IS THERE
WITH YOU? WHY DO YOU CHOOSE THEM? HOW WOULD
THAT DAY FEEL AND WHAT SORT OF THOUGHTS WOULD GO
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THROUGH YOUR HEAD IN A DAY LIKE THAT?
IF YOU DIDN’T CARE WHAT PEOPLE
DAY 15 THOUGHT OF YOU (INCLUDING THOSE
CLOSE TO YOU) WHAT DREAM WOULD
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YOU PURSUE?
WHAT GUILT DO YOU HOLD ON TO? WHO OR WHAT MAKES
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YOU FEEL GUILTY? BE ATTENTIVE BECAUSE, FOR SOME, GUILT
DAY COMES OUT AS ANGER. HOW IS THIS HOLDING YOU BACK IN
LIFE? WHAT DESIRE DO YOU HAVE THAT YOU FEEL UNABLE
TO PURSUE OR HAVE? HOW CAN YOU PURSUE THIS DESIRE
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ANYWAY? WHAT BOUNDARY NEEDS TO BE COMMUNICATED?
WHAT MAKES YOU ANGRY? WHAT
DAY 17 SITUATIONS AND PEOPLE MAKE YOU
FEEL THAT WAY AND WHY?
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WHAT ARE YOUR CORE VALUES? (YOU MAY NEED TO SEARCH
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A LIST OF CORE VALUES). VALUES ARE THINGS THAT YOU, OF
DAY COURSE, VALUE, BUT ALSO FULFILL YOU. ARE YOUR CURRENT
CORE VALUES EXTRINSIC OR OUTSIDE OF YOURSELF (SUCH AS
AFFIRMATION OR ACHIEVEMENT)? WHAT INTRINSIC CORE
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VALUES CAN YOU REPLACE YOUR EXTRINSIC VALUES WITH?
WHAT ARE 3 THINGS YOU’VE DONE IN
DAY 19 YOUR LIFE WHERE YOU FELT PROUD OF
YOURSELF?
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MAKE A LIST OF ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT TO
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NOW? WHAT CAREER DO YOU WANT TO PURSUE? HOW DO YOU
DAY WANT TO FEEL? WHAT DO YOU WANT TO SPEND YOUR DAYS
DOING? WHERE DO YOU WANT TO BE IN THE WORLD? A YEAR
FROM NOW, WHAT WILL YOU SAY YOUR GOALS ARE? HOW MUCH
MONEY DO YOU EARN? WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENTS HAVE BEEN
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WHAT ARE THE MOST COMMON THINGS THAT STRESS YOU OUT
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IN A DAY? IS IT BEING LATE FOR SOMETHING? IS IT BEING
DAY AROUND CERTAIN PEOPLE? IS IT PRESSURE YOU PUT ON
YOURSELF AT WORK OR PRESSURE FROM OTHERS? WHY DO YOU
FEEL STRESSED BY THESE THINGS? WHAT POSITIVE THINGS CAN
YOU TELL YOURSELF TO NOT FEEL THIS WAY IN THOSE
NOTES SITUATIONS? HOW CAN YOU MODIFY YOUR ROUTINE TO REDUCE
YOUR STRESS?
WHAT SKILLS ARE YOU GOOD AT THAT OTHER PEOPLE
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MONEY? IS IT SCARCE, OR EVIL, OR ABUNDANT? WHAT EMOTION
DAY COMES UP WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT MONEY? WHAT DOES MONEY
ALLOW YOU TO DO? WHAT DOES MONEY PRODUCE IN YOUR LIFE
THAT CREATES INTRINSIC FULFILLMENT? DOES THIS THING THAT
MONEY PROVIDES ALIGN WITH YOUR INTRINSIC CORE VALUES? IF
NOTES MONEY WASN’T AN OBJECT, WHAT YOU GO DO WITH YOUR LIFE
TODAY AND THIS YEAR?
WHAT HEALTHY HABITS WOULD BE MOST BENEFICIAL FOR YOU?
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THIS COULD BE SOMETHING LIKE LIMITING CAFFEINE OR ALCOHOL
DAY OR IT COULD BE SOMETHING LIKE MEDITATING FOR 10 MINUTES
EVERY DAY AT 5 PM NO MATTER WHAT. IT COULD EVEN BE A
MENTAL HABIT LIKE CATCHING YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHT
PATTERNS AND LETTING THEM GO. WHICH ONE OF THESE HABITS
NOTES CAN YOU START INCORPORATING INTO YOUR DAYS NOW.
CAN YOU THINK OF A TIME WHEN YOU OVERTHOUGHT YOUR
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EMOTIONS AND IT LED TO MORE NEGATIVE EMOTIONS?
DAY MAYBE YOU NOTICED SOMETHING UPSET YOU BUT THINKING
ABOUT IT JUST MADE YOU MORE UPSET? PRACTICE NOTICING
AND SURRENDERING TODAY. AS EMOTIONS COME UP, GREAT!
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BUT BE SURE TO LET THEM GO AND SURRENDER.
LIVE AS IF EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE HAS BEEN
DAY 29 DONE, ACCOMPLISHED, AND PRESENT IN YOUR LIFE.
WHAT WOULD YOU DO DIFFERENTLY TODAY?
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LIST 30 THINGS YOU ARE GRATEFUL
DAY 30 FOR.
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