508 - Life Skills Mailed
508 - Life Skills Mailed
508 - Life Skills Mailed
ATTITUDE
LEADERSHIP ADAPTABILITY
MOTIVATION
STRESS MANAGEMENT
GOAL SETTING
bona fide record of his / her lab practice of Life Skills and has been
( Internal Examiner)
We are thankful to the English faculty of Polytechnics who have directly or indirectly
contributed and mostly to our students who have been our source of moral strength behind
this task. We hope teachers and students will make an optimum use of this book and give us
their feedback for making improvements in editions to come.
Editorial Committee
Authors & Editors
C20-COMMON- 508; LIFE SKILLS
Editorial Committee:
Course Writers:
Objective of this book: This book titled “Life Skills” is part of the coursework prescribed for
all the fifth / sixth semester of all the Engineering branches of Polytechnics in Andhra
Pradesh. It is the third and final work book in the series of English Work books in C20
Curriculum. You have already made use of the books INTERACT in your first year and
COMMUNICATION SKILLS in second year courses. After having undergone the training in
Functional English and Communication Skills earlier, this year you are going to learn about
Life Skills which empower you with the necessary skill kit. The ultimate purpose of this book
is to enlighten the students about life skills and make them understand, inculcate and apply
them in their personal and professional life and to win the people and situations in their future
work-places and in the society.
Selection of Topics: The basic eleven skills are carefully picked to impart the practical
training to every Diploma student in Andhra Pradesh and make him / her industry ready. The
book starts with the fundamental skill of attitude that helps one think and respond positively
and to become successful in personal and professional life. Then it helps the students to
understand the necessity of getting adjusted through the skill of adaptability followed by goal
setting that make them realise the purpose in life and thus make them achievers. The book
emphasizes the importance of self-motivation without which one can never achieve anything
in life. Further lessons provide the student to hone the skills of time management and stress
management enabling them to learn how to meet the targets on time and lead a tense-free life.
The importance of teamwork and leadership are shown as very necessary skills that make one
endeared in any organisation. The skills of creativity, critical thinking and problem solving
help the students become trouble shooters, shine and excel in their career. Nevertheless, the
book is prepared in view to provide a wholesome practice on the necessary life skills.
How to use this book: All the lessons are framed in a fixed format that help the students
break the monotony and sustain the joy of learning. The objectives provide the bird’s eye
view of the lesson and the preparatory activity draws the attention of the student towards the
target skill with an attempt of introducing the topic. The word bank and additional
information provide the opportunity to gather necessary vocabulary and essential knowledge
of the skill. Each lesson will have three to four activities that make every student think,
discuss, participate and perform to understand and learn the target skill. The exercises are
designed as individual, pair and group activities that make each student a live and vibrant
learner. They can easily pick the essence of each skill through simple anecdotes, grids to fill,
jotting down one’s reflections, recollecting the past experiences, applying the learned skill to
future or imaginary life situations. The wrap up session gives an opportunity to reflect what is
learnt in that class. Assignments are given as homework to brush up the skills for
reinforcement and each lesson ends with suggested readings and web links that give scope to
have a panoramic view of the skill. At the end of the eleven lessons, there are perforated
Assessment sheets, one for each lesson to answer some basic questions and recall what a
student has actually learnt about that specific skill. After completion of each lesson, in the
last ten minutes of the class, every student is expected to answer the Assessment sheet and
submit it to the teacher. The teacher makes an evaluation of the student’s comprehension of
the skill and award marks. In turn, the teacher considers the marks of all the eleven lessons
for awarding sessional marks at the end.
Salient Features: The activities are designed exploiting CLT (Communicative Language
Teaching) techniques that make every student an active participant, where the teacher acts as
facilitator and making the class a learner-centred one. The peer learning, discussion, brain
storm, inferential questions, brief presentations make the student learn by doing rather than
depending on teacher’s explanation. KWL (What I already knew- What I must learn – What I
have learnt ) technique is observed to raise the interest among the students and to make the
journey of learning interesting from known to unknown. The activities vary in their pattern to
continue the interest in learning and help students focus on the target skill. We hope that the
teachers will put their best efforts in imparting the training on life skills and students will
certainly make the best use of this book by learning and applying them in their personal and
professional life.
Editorial Committee
CONTENTS
define „Attitude‟ and realise its importance to become successful in all walks of life
exercise to improve self-esteem, make a distinction between positive and negative
attitudes
make SWOC analysis and adopt „Life-response‟
Mom: What happened to him? Have I not given you both the chocolate bars?
Shalini: Yes Mom, I am eating mine, but brother is trying to grab mine too….
Mom: ( comes to the children) Why Prasanth? Why are you doing so?
Prasanth: Mom, boo…I have already swallowed half. Now I have only half a chocolate left,
….it will also vanish soon…..booo….
Mom: So what? Don‟t act too smart, eat your own chocolate silently. What about yours,
Shalini?
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iv) What are the two kinds of attitudes you find between the siblings?
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Think and gather as many words / phrases as you can about the
traits of the two kinds of Attitude:
Positive Attitude Negative Attitude
( the traits we have to inculcate ) ( the traits that we have to give up )
Optimism Pessimism
Laziness
Cheerful
Enthusiasm
Activity 1 Individual Work 15 min.
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g) Do you feel enthusiastic to face the challenges and prove your ability? Yes / No
j) Do you try to win over laziness, fear, inferiority, negativity etc.? Yes / No
III. Write down the key words/ phrases/ aspects that improve your self-esteem.
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IV. What kind of attitude would one inculcate with the traits you mentioned in the above
answer? ____________________________________________________________________
Read the story below; discuss it with your partner before you
answer the questions that follow:
Many years ago a famous British shoe company sent two of its salesmen to Africa to
investigate and report back on the market potential. The first salesman made a thorough
survey and reported back: "There is no potential here - nobody wears shoes." The second
salesman too investigated and submitted his report: "There is massive potential here - nobody
wears shoes."
a) What was the task given to the two salesmen?
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b) What was the observation of the first salesman?
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Discuss the topic given below with your partner; but fill in the
grid individually with relevant words and phrases. Assess your
own strengths & weaknesses and external opportunities & challenges to make an
honest personal SWOC analysis. Later, plan to address your weaknesses and move
towards positivity.
You are going to give a seminar next day on one of the topics of your
core subject. You have prepared everything. It is your first seminar; so
you feel tensed. Make a personal SWOC analysis and fill the table with
words or phrases pertaining to those aspects. You can use the words like: notes, anxiety,
stage fear, Language skills, appreciation, teacher’s presence and evaluation, peer
pressure etc.
4A : Read the following anecdote and answer the questions that follow:
15 min.
In ancient times, a king had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched
to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the king‟s wealthiest merchants and
courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the king for not keeping
the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the big stone out of the way. Then a
peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. On approaching the boulder, the peasant
laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing
and straining, he finally succeeded. As the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he
noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. Be Positive in your …
The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the king
indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the
boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many
others never understand. Every obstacle presents an
opportunity to improve one‟s condition. It is possible to turn
situations into our favour with a positive attitude.
iv) as things that should be ignored and let them take their own turn.
c) Read the following short poem and interpret it bringing out its inner
message in three or four sentences of your own. Source: Pirates of the
Caribbean (film series)
“I salute the divinity in myself; I am strong and able.
Gist: ____________________________________________________________
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Now, Answer the following question individually:
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Wrap up 10 min.
Recall what you have learnt about Attitude. One or two students may make brief
presentations in the class.
Home Assignments:
1: Write a few lines about whose Attitude in your family you like and why.
2: Count the total value of the numbers related to the letters of the following words where: A
=1, B=2, C=3, D=4………X=24,Y=25, Z=26.
The Great are different from The failure in only one thing;
and it is “Different Attitude”
Lesson 1 - ATTITUDE Assessment Sheet: Date: _____________
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2. What are the two kinds of Attitude and which one is better?
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3. What human traits do you think that would form a Positive Attitude?
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a) I am an optimistic person. Y / N
define the skill of adaptability and appraise its importance in real life situations
Observe the following species and think about their special survival skills; answer the
questions that follow:
1. What is the specialty of a chameleon and a moth (in the last picture)? Why do they need that
special quality?
Ans:
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6. What is the common ability or skill that you find among all these animals?
Discuss with your partner and recollect some words and phrases related to the
skill of adaptability:
Adjustment
Change
Accept
Read the following anecdote individually, discuss with your partner and
answer the questions that follow:
There were two dinosaurs living in the interior crates of a huge cave. They
were the last of the species that had survived all the changes and calamities on the earth, and
took rest for thousands of years without coming out of those crates. All other dinosaurs died
while fighting each other or due to wild fire, climatic extremes, volcanic eruption and so on.
They could not adapt themselves to the changes that occurred on earth and so they were extinct.
Now, the last two survived dinosaurs awoke, came out of the crates and decided to dominate the
world with their huge bodies. On leaving their home in which they stayed for thousands of years,
everything was new to them, very different to what they saw earlier. However, for days, they
walked and walked to find other species fight and demolish everything to prove their supremacy.
They stood on a hilltop and found a small town a few miles away. The town, its houses and
people seemed like tiny dots from the hill top. Never having seen the houses and human beings
before, the dinosaurs leapt down the mountainside, ready to destroy anything that stood in their
way. But in contrast, after reaching the town, they found the houses were getting bigger and
bigger, people becoming giants. Dinosaurs stood still at a street corner watching the town‟s
business. Suddenly a school boy of seven years saw the dinosaurs and yelled, "Daddy! Daddy!
I've found here two tiny dinosaurs! Can I keep them as my pets?"
1. Where were the last two dinosaurs sleeping for thousands of years?
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3. How did the houses and people appear to the dinosaurs from the hilltop?
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5. Are the last two dinosaurs huge and mighty now? If not, what could be the reason?
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Adaptability refers to the ability or the skill to adjust and accommodate in ever changing
and often unpredictable physical, interpersonal, cultural, and task environments. One has
to inculcate and exhibit one‟s skill of adaptability in cognitive, behavioral and emotional
fronts. In our life we face the changing phenomena of time, place, comfort levels and
resources that demand the skill of adaptability for our survival and success.
People living in igloos, deserts, forests and on top of the mountains need to adjust a lot
with the minimum resources and harsh living conditions. They should be able to make
changes in response to the environment. The employees of an organisation that is going
through a lot of changes mostly require the skill of adaptability to update themselves and
to get adjusted to the changing phenomena. On the same lines an animal in nature needs
to adjust with different weather conditions, food and other resources for living.
After some days the mice notice that the cheese started getting reduced and they‟re ready to
move on if the cheese disappears. They start checking for the new source of their food and
finally they discover a new station in the maze that has more cheese. One day, the cheese runs
out and the humans are shocked. The humans don‟t foresee this danger. They fail to sense the
danger due to their arrogance and fear of change. They scream angrily, “WHO MOVED MY
CHEESE?”
The humans complain, get bitter and blame each other for lack of
food. They hope that they will get cheese at the same place and try to dig
the wall but of no use. Eventually, Hem gets smart and decides to move
and explore the maze for other sources. He tries to convince his partner
to go with him, but he doesn‟t succeed. He finds tiny bits of a new type
of cheese in the maze. Hem brings new bits of cheese to Haw. Haw
refuses to eat it because it is different in taste and he is reluctant to move
from that place.
Hem pushes past his fears and starts exploring for cheese and learns
many life lessons in his journey. He writes a few lessons on the wall from time to time to
encourage himself to move forward. He also hopes that his friend Haw will someday find his
writings on wall and follow him. Hem finally finds a new place deep in the maze that has a ton
of cheese, including all sorts of new types. He also meets the mice Sniff and Scurry again, who
arrive here long before he does. He decides it‟s best to let Haw find his own way; he realizes
Haw has to change on his own.
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2. What difference do you find between the mice and the humans?
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4. What are the reasons for the humans‟ failure in sensing the danger?
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4. Why does Haw refuse to eat the bits of new cheese? Which trait makes him reject?
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5. How and where does Hem find the new source of cheese?
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7. What do you think are the lessons Hem had learned and wrote on the wall? Try to write four
different lessons that help inculcate Adaptability.
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“You never change your life until you step out of your comfort zone;
change begins at the end of your comfort zone.” - Roy T. Bennett
Assume that you are a B.Tech graduate and have been working as a software
Engineer comfortably in your hometown for a meager salary. Now you are
offered a huge salary with conditions of undergoing a vigorous training for six months at the
company headquarters in the USA and must work for at least three years abroad. Then you will
be given an opportunity to work in India.
Fill in the following table with your worst fears, apprehensions, unforeseen problems
like new place, people, food, language, work culture, hard work, change of weather etc.
and find solutions about how you adapt or adjust to the new challenges and become
successful.
The spokesperson of your group will present the group‟s ideas before the class.
Wrap up 10 min.
Recall what you have learnt about Adaptability One or two students may make a brief
presentation.
Assignment:
1. Write about your personal experience in which you exhibited your skill of adaptability.
2. There are three similar words of the same skill suggested by images in the following picture.
Expand the quote inside the picture and write a paragraph about how those images relate to the
skill of Adaptability.
6. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Bf5YOAxL_s
6. www.success.com/article/do-you-have-adaptability
7. https://www.slideshare.net/pauljlange/adaptability-a-life-process-11760941
8. https://www.slideshare.net/TriFinanceBelgium/adaptability-44871118
The surrounding won’t change for you but you need to change.
Lesson 2 - ADAPTABILITY Assessment Sheet Date: _____________
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3. Do you believe that the skill of Adaptability helps to face any new situation?
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LESSON 3 GOAL SETTING
…end in mind, plan and reach
Learning Outcomes:
On completion of this lesson you will be able to…
define goal setting and attempt to set clear goals.
set personal and professional goals with SMARTER features.
design your personal short and long term & career goals.
Observe the following pictures and answer the questions that follow:
i) What is the common missing thing in the three pictures of the first row?
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ii) What is odd in the three pictures of the second row?
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iii) What is very essential to achieve something or reach a destination?
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iv) What would a journey be like without a destination?
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v) Mention the two essential aspects of a goal that you derive from the pictures.
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Generating Word Bank Pair Work 15 min.
Here are a few words for you to begin with. Think and gather a few
more words related to goal setting
Planning
Motivation
perseverance
A goal is a final destination point to reach. We take up a journey to reach a certain place.
In life, one needs clear goals to achieve something purposeful and enjoy a successful life.
Goal setting is a skill that draws our attention to follow a systematic approach to set, define
our goals, and pursue them till we fulfil our dreams. Life without goals will be aimless,
frustrating and unbecoming. But setting clear and suitable goals and achieving them make us
winners and happy. We may have life term or temporary goals and we can classify them as
short term and long term goals. One can set new goals after achieving the older ones to make
life meaningful and enthusiastic.
A short-term goal is something that can be accomplished in near future, can be
achieved today, tomorrow, this week, this month, in six months or even this year
like getting through exams, winning a medal, writing a story.
A long-term goal is something that can be accomplished in future like building a
comfortable house, buying a luxury car, making a world trip etc. We need to set
personal goals, career goals and sometimes the goals for the common good of our
society.
Every goal must have SMARTER features which makes it wholesome :
S : Specific and Significant (your goal should be clear and well defined and special to you)
M : Meaningful and Measurable (should be quantifiable and meaningful to achiever)
A : Attainable and Acceptable (should be within the reach and acceptable)
R : Relevant and Realistic (should match with your core values, education & career)
T : Time-bound (should be achieved in a specific time period)
(Next two aspects are for assessment of the SMART features of the goal)
E : Evaluation (should be analysed, judged whether the set goal and our approach are fruitful)
R : Rewarding otherwise Readjust (your goal should reward you if beneficial to you;
otherwise readjust it)
Goal setting is important because it:
gives a road map for where you want to go and gives you the focus on your time and
energy.
keeps you locked in, undistracted and motivates you and gives control of your life.
helps you overcome procrastination
enables you to make good decisions
makes you self-confident and
enthusiastic
makes you aware of the new areas of
learning and growth
If you are not working to where you want to be, you are
Wrap up 20 min
Recall what you have learnt about GOAL SETTING. As many students may present as
time permits, about their goals, justifying their SMART features
Home Assignments:
Write a note on your present and future goals, assess your strengths and weaknesses to
achieve them.
Stephen R. Covey
4. Goals!: How to Get Everything You Want -- Faster Than You Ever Thought Possible by
Brian Tracy
5. Goal Setting: The Ultimate Guide To Achieving Goals That Truly Excite You by Thibaut
Meurisse
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9. www.mcas.k12.in.us/cms/lib5/IN01001792/.../86/.../Goal_Setting_for_Students.ppt
10. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LV3LwXL8tPU
Lesson 3 - GOAL SETTING Assessment Sheet Date: _______________
Name of the Student _____________________________________ PIN ______________
1. List out some of your personal and professional goals ( present and future)
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2. Recollect at least three of your past goals. Were you able to reach them? Fill the table
S.No My Goals in the Past Reached Yes / No Reasons for Reaching / not
reaching your goal
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William Tell
Answers: Just write the marking letters of the relevant answers in the table below:
Column A Column B
i
ii
iii
iv
v
vi
Motivation is the force within us that makes us want to do something. It is like igniting a
spark in a person which propels him into action. It is a force that changes our life. Motivation
creates a desire to succeed in life. Without motivation, we can have no pride, no enjoyment
and no satisfaction. All achievers in the world today are highly motivated people.
Inspiration is a thought whereas motivation is an action. Martin Luther King Jr. was
inspired by Mahatma Gandhi. When he put that thought into practice, he achieved
remarkable results for the blacks in the USA.
Motivation can either be external or internal. External motivation comes from society at
large whereas internal motivation comes from within. For example, recognition, position,
money are external whereas pride, belief, responsibility etc. are of internal motivation.
Incentive motivation is an aspect of external motivation caused by offering perks such as
bonus, pay hike, promotion, foreign trip etc. Fear motivation is the motivation which
results from intimidation.
Motivation leads us to achieve our goals in life. Great people like Abraham Lincoln,
Abdul Kalam, Nelson Mandela and Ekalavya in The Mahabharata were able to reach great
heights because they were highly motivated. Swami Vivekananda too highlights the need for
motivation to excel in life.
Internal Motivation External Motivation
“The heights by great men reached and kept were not attained in sudden flight, but
they, while their companions slept, were toiling upwards in the night”.
–Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
P.V. Sindhu was the first Indian woman to win a silver medal
in Badminton in the women‟s singles event of Olympics in
2016. She also won silver in women‟s singles at
Commonwealth Games 2018. She was also a silver medallist
at the Badminton World Championships in 2017.
Sindhu joined Pullela Gopichand‟s Academy at a very tender age. Her vigorous
practice, support from parents made her a winner. She broke into the top 20 in September,
2012 when she was just seventeen. She received the Padmashri, India‟s fourth highest
civilian honour in March, 2015. Now, she is among the top five women shutters‟ in the
world. Sindhu‟s motivational levels are very high; hence her success as a shuttler.
3A) Now, write just key words and share/ exchange with your partner
about a person who motivates you. Recollect your motivator’s
achievements, ideology, message and how he/she influences you to
reach your goal.
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3B) Now, answers the following questions.
ii) Are you externally motivated or internally motivated to pursue your goals? Justify your
answer.
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iii) Are your ideas, action plan sufficient to reach your goal?
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iv) Did you ever feel demotivated in your journey of pursuing your goal/ studies? If yes, what
makes you demotivated?
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v) How do you try to overcome the aspects that demotivate you?
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vi) How do you look up at your friends, members of the family, hobbies or any other factors
to keep you motivated?
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Home Assignments:
1. Collect information about Sivaguru Prabhakaran, the young man who secured a top rank in
Indian Civil Services Examination, 2017. Write how his life and success will motivate young
people.
2. Create a poster on environmental degradation and ideas to protect so as to motivate your
peers in the college.
“The man who moves a mountain begins by carrying away small
stones.” ― Confucius,
Suggested Readings & Web Links:
1. Dale Carnegie, How To Win Friends and Influence People, Simon & Schuster, 1936
2. Shiv Khera, You Can Win, Macmillan, 1998
3. Robin Sarma, The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari, Harper Collins, 1999
4. Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist, Harper Torch, 1993.
5. Stephen R. Covey, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People Free Press, 1989
6. Napoleon Hill, Think and Grow Rich, The Ralston Society, 1937
7. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TgGc_tUcjgk
8. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xp2qjshr-r4
9. https://www.slideshare.net/harveabella/7-motivation
10. https://www.slideshare.net/readysetpresent/motivation-powerpoint
11. https://www.lifecoach-directory.org.uk/memberarticles/10-questions-to-ask-yourself-to-
increase-motivation
Don’t stop when you are tired. Stop when you are done
Lesson 4 – MOTIVATION Assessment Sheet Date:______________
II. State whether the following statements are True / False or Yes/ No :
i) Motivation enables us to excel in life. T/F
ii) All humans don‟t need motivation. T/F
iii) Ekalavya was a highly motivated person. T/F
iv) Salary, Bonus or perks are examples of internal motivation. T/F
v) There are no demotivating factors in studies. Yes/ No
vi) One can reignite himself even after a failure. Yes/ No
vii) Friends, hobbies can‟t motivate us. Yes/ No
viii) Autobiographies of great people motivate us. Yes/ No
ix) Internal motivation can‟t lead us to success always. Yes/ No
x) You can‟t stop pursuing your goal if you are internally motivated. Yes/ No
LESSON 5 TIME MANAGEMENT
Learning Outcomes:
make out the value of time and manage available time to meet targets
identify and resolve the time wasters
practice „Time Quadrant‟ and prioritization of tasks
Read the following story and answer the questions that follow:
A lecturer at a university is giving a pre-exam lecture on time management. On his desk there
are a bag of sand, a bag of pebbles, some big rocks and a small bucket. He asks for a
volunteer to put all three grades of stone into the bucket, and a keen student duly steps up to
carry out the task, starting with the sand, then the pebbles, then the rocks, which do not all fit
in the bucket. “This is an analogy of poor time management,” trills the lecturer, “If you‟d put
the rocks in first, then the pebbles, then the sand, all three would have fit. This is much like
time management, in that by completing your biggest tasks first, you leave room to complete
your medium tasks, then your smaller ones. By completing your smallest tasks first, you
spend so much time on them you leave yourself unable to complete either medium of large
tasks satisfactorily. Let me show you….” And the lecturer re-fills the bucket, big rocks first,
then pebbles, then sand, shaking the bucket between each so that everything fits.
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2. What is the material used by the lecturer to explain the target skill?
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3. State the right procedure to arrange the three items into bucket?
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4. What do the bucket and three grades of stones suggest when related to the life skill?
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5. Mention aspects that you think are essential in managing our time?
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Generating Word Bank Pair Work 15 min.
Think of more words related to time and its management other than
the given words in the box.
planning
scheduling
monitoring
The class is divided into four or six groups (even number); Name
them as A, B, C, D, E, F
The members in each group should discusses and write a long sentence (a proverb, a
quotation or any statement ) consisting of at least 12 or more words on a strip of the
paper.
Cut your strip into minimum of six pieces, so that each piece will have two or three
words and mix them thoroughly.
On instructions, the group A gives their bundle of cut pieces to B & B to C…..and
finally F to A. Then the Teacher announces to start their task of arranging the right
statement out of the received cut pieces; and then the teacher starts counting time.
Members of each group try to arrange the newly received cut pieces into a meaningful
sentence; raise your hand immediately but only after completing your task accurately.
Your teacher will make note of the time and give ranks to groups based on their time
taken to complete the task.
Now rethink as to how your group got the specific rank and fill in the table
below. One spokes-person from each group shall share their group’s ideas to the
class.
Your strengths for getting your rank Reasons for not getting a better rank
Learning Chest 20 min.
The skill of Time management includes Planning, prioritizing, scheduling and monitoring.
Everyone has 24 hours but how is that some are able to achieve many tasks in lesser time than
others? We can't actually get any more time, what we CAN do is manage time. Tasks can be
done based on the prioritization and this approach is called TIME QUADRANT.
Develop an Anti-Procrastination Plan that stops you from postponing work what
you can complete today until tomorrow. Prepare a list with dates with all your targets and due
dates, so you can cut the large / big tasks into small ones
Set a Study timetable, and stick to it. It is a good idea to have a Do Not Disturb sign on
your door.
TIME QUADRANT
Important
Unimportant
b)
b)
c)
c)
d)
d)
c)
c)
d)
d)
Wrap up 10 min.
Two or three students may present what they have learnt about Time Management
Home Assignments:
1. List out some of your tasks and prioritize them keeping in view of your approaching
exams. You can consider the points: time left, number of subjects to deal, difficulty level of
your subjects, making notes, group discussion, consult the teacher to get your doubts cleared
etc.
Important and Urgent – …………………………………
Important but Not Urgent – …………………………….
Not Important but Urgent – …………………………….
Not Important and Not Urgent – ……………………….
2. Collect the information about routines and time management techniques adapted by the
following successful persons ( as many as you can ). Compile from their Time management
techniques that suit to achieve your personal and career goals. Mahatma Gandhi, Dr.B.R.
Ambedkar, Subhash Chandra Bose, Warren Buffett, Indra Noyi, Ratan Tata, Bill Gates,
N.R.Narayana Murthy, Azim Premji, Anand Mahindra, Steve Jobs, Oprah Winfrey, P.V.
Sindhu, Abdul Kalam, Sachin Tendulkar etc.
Suggested Readings & Web Links:
2 The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt
Free Life, Neil Fiore, Paperback, 2007.
3.http://blog.readytomanage.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/time-management-cartoon.jpg
4.https://www.slideshare.net/readysetpresent/time-management-powerpoint
5.https://www.skillsyouneed.com/ps/time-management.html
6. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zc8zCSQxBhM
7. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F5JI_6nsgaM
8. www.jsums.edu/ugstudies/files/2012/.../Academic-Survival-at-JSU-note-taking-skills.p.
9. https://www.slideshare.net/ubatool3/time-management-ppt-15402539
10. https://www.slideshare.net/StephinAbrahamSabu/time-management-skills-73181757
1. The tasks I work on at present are the ones with the highest priority. YES /NO
2. I find myself completing tasks at the last minute, or asking for extensions. YES /NO
3. Instead of wasting time on planning, I just plunge into doing a task. YES/ NO
7. I write things down rather than trying to remember everything in my head. YES/ NO
B) For each set of two/ three statements below, circle the number that best describes
you:
Read the following passage and answer the questions that follow:
It is one of the most celebrated anecdotes in the history of science. One day young Isaac
Newton was sitting in his garden when an apple fell on his head. It was
a moment of illumination; he came up with his famous theory of
gravity. No doubt the story looks embellished, both by Newton and the
storytellers who came after him. However, no one can deny that the fall
of apple inspired the understanding of gravitational force.
i) What was „one of the most celebrated anecdotes‟ being referred to here?
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ii) Did Newton embellish the story? Can you guess why?
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iii) What did the fall of apple lead Newton to?
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iv) What kind of thinking led Newton to know the truth?
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Generating Word Bank: Pair Work 15 min.
Here are a few words for you to begin with. Think and gather a
few more words related to thinking and analytical ability:
Fact
Assumption
Relevance
Critical thinking is defined as the ability and willingness to examine claims and
make objective judgments on the basis of reasoning. This skill enables one to think from
different perspectives, look for flaws in arguments and reject claims that are not supported by
evidence. It includes the ability to engage in reflective and independent thinking. Persons
gifted with this ability move away from rote learning, fixed assumptions and conventional
thinking. In a nutshell, critical thinking is “thinking
about thinking”.
Critical thinking skills are not restricted to a
particular subject area. Lawyers, doctors, teachers,
judges, students and researchers need these skills.
Being able to understand the relevance of ideas and
connect them logically, solve problems in a systematic
way and use valid arguments to justify beliefs is
an asset for any career. Critical thinkers… Sigmund Bertrand
•show curiosity and ask pertinent questions. Freud Russell
•distinguish between facts and assumptions.
•make assertions based on sound logic and solid evidence.
•are able to define clearly a set of criteria for analyzing ideas.
•reject incorrect/ irrelevant information.
•suspend judgment until all facts have been gathered and examined .
•are ready to modify their opinions when new facts are found.
Thus logic and evidence are the two most crucial components of critical thinking.
2. The other night the four friends, Ajith, Arun, Ramky and Sitaram went to MGB Mall for a
night of bowling game. As they were short on funds, it was agreed that each player would
play each of the other three players only once. In all, how many matches were played that
night? Ans : _____________________
(Source: Charles Barry Townsend, World’s Most Incredible Puzzles)
The essence of the independent mind lies not in what it thinks, but in how it thinks.
Lesson 6 - CRITICAL THINKING Assessment Sheet Date:________________
Learning Outcomes:
On completion of this lesson, you will be able to…
define creativity and attempt to bring in something new
make hypothetical propositions creatively
solve riddles to expand imaginative skill
Here is an interesting anecdote for you. Go through it and answer the questions that
follow:
Once John Keats, a well-known English poet, went to
spend a few days with his friend’s family. They had a nice
time together. One morning they were taking tea under a
tree when a nightingale came and sat on the tree. It began
to sing and Keats was enjoying the melodious music. After
a few minutes, Keats’ friend and his wife went into the
house. After an hour or so, Keats came back to them with a
sheet of paper in his hands. The poem “Ode to John Keats
Nightingale” was ready!
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ii) What was the reaction of Keats’ friend and his wife to the song of the nightingale?
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Generating Word Bank Pair work 15 min.
Given here are a few words related to creativity Add a few more:
Spontaneity
imagination
Inspiration
a) Composer
b) Architect
d) Poet
e) Film Maker
ii) “Creativity is any thinking process in which original patterns are formed and
expressed. - H.H. Fox
Creativity does not necessarily mean inventing something new. Familiar objects
can be put to creative/ imaginative use. We can also use our creativity to get out of
tricky or dangerous situations. Edward de Bono calls it “Lateral Thinking” or
“Thinking out of the Box”.
A. If mobiles were to talk, what would be the five major complaints they would have?
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B. Graffiti ( vulgar writing ) on your college compound wall is a nagging
problem. Think of creative ways in which you can stop this from happening.
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Think and jot down your answers as a group. The spokesperson of each group can
present their creative answers before the class.
1. You have two jugs; a three-litre and a five-litre capacity. Then how can you measure out
exactly six litres of water?
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2. There are a dozen eggs in a carton. Twelve people should take one egg each.
But there should be an egg in the carton. How is it possible?
Ans: : ________________________________________________________
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3. A rich man wanted to test the intelligence of his three sons. He asked them to take as much
money they want and fill a room entirely with something they would purchase. But the
person who fills it with less expenditure will be given the lion’s share of his property. If you
were one of the sons, what would you do ? Give your creative answer.
Ans: _____________________________________________________________________
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4. A farmer has a small boat to cross the canal along with a fox, chicken and a bag of corn. In
his absence, fox might eat chicken, corn will be eaten by chicken. The boat will
accommodate only one item along with the farmer. How can all reach the other bank?
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5. Shalini’s mother has four children. The first child's name is Spring, the second child's
name is Summer and the third child's name is Autumn. What could be the fourth child's
name?
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Wrap up 10 min.
Recall what you have learnt about Creativity. Two or three students may give a brief
presentation.
Home Assignments:
1. Imagine you were to step forward 100 years in time from now. Write how you would
communicate with others then.
2. You are making an ad film with an alien (a creature from another planet) in the lead role.
What theme (s) will you choose for your ad film?
3. Take some colour papers, gum, cello fin tape, scissors and try to create the form of any
bird or an animal with your own imagination.
Suggested Readings & Web Links
1. Steal Like An Artist by Austin Kleon,
2. The Art of Creative Thinking by Rod, Judkins
3. The Accidental Creative by Todd Henry
4. Creative Confidence by Tom Kelley & David Kelley
5. The Myths of Creativity by David Burkus
6. A Whole New Mind by Daniel Pink
7. https://www.slideshare.net/readysetpresent/creativity-powerpoint-presentation
8. gauss.ececs.uc.edu/Courses/C702/Franco/creativity.ppt
9. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fz_7-SYf7oM
10. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FTvr8RBsYpU
Creativity is putting your imagination to work, and it's produced the
most extraordinary results in human culture. - Ken Robinson
Lesson 7- CREATIVITY Assessment Sheet Date: ____________
Read the following passage and answer the questions that follow:
A large cosmetics company had a problem that some of the soap boxes coming off the
production lines were empty. The problem was quickly isolated to the assembly line, which
transported the packaged boxes of soap to the delivery department: some soap boxes went
empty through the assembly line.
The management asked its engineers to solve the problem. They spent much time and money
in devising an X-ray machine with high-resolution monitors managed by staff to watch all the
boxes on the line to make sure they weren't empty.
A workman hearing about this came up with another solution. He got a powerful industrial
fan and pointed it at the assembly line. As each soap box passed the fan, the empty boxes
were blown off the line. Sometimes a simple solution would be a better one.
solution
Suggestions
Panic
“Happiness is not the absence of problems; it's the ability to deal with
Problems are difficult or unpleasant situations that come our way at any moment of our life.
But they are actually opportunities to prove our capabilities in many areas. As there is no lock
without a key, there is no problem without a solution and every problem has many alternative
solutions. We should not panic at the problems but believe that there is always a way out that
is possible with self-confidence, sincere efforts and a right approach. We have to follow a
systematic approach to solve a problem that consists of five steps.
Here is the IDEAL matrix of the problem solving:
Identify the problem
Define the problem
Explore possible solutions
Act on solution chosen
Look for the consequences
We must identify the actual root cause and understand the nature of the problem.
Believe that there are many alternative solutions for any problem. We need to gather
them from our own and others’ experience, past history, brain storming, keen
observation, from discussion with peers and elders, books and online sources.
The best solution can be extracted from all of them by checking each solution
thoroughly if it is a long lasting one. It should also be realistic and feasible. It should
be within our reach in terms of time and other required sources like money, effort,
equipment, men and material. If a solution doesn’t work well, we must choose the
next best solution, apply it and monitor the progress. Critical thinking and decision
making skills help us getting better results in solving a problem.
Problem: You are seriously listening to your teacher in the class. But the boy behind you
is humming some lyric, trying to talk and distract others. You feel disturbed but you don’t
want to miss the lesson. You decided to fix the problem and teach him a lesson.
Identify the Define the Explore possible Act on the best Look for the
problem problem solutions solution chosen consequences
1.
2.
3.
Wrap up 10 min.
Recall what you have learnt about the skill of ‘Problem Solving’. One or two students
can make brief presentations. You can also present your personal experience where you
have faced and solved a problem.
Home Assignments:
1. Your friends have started calling you by a nickname that you don’t like. You have asked
them to stop, but they laugh and tell you that they are just trying to be funny. Write how you
would solve this problem.
2. Write about a problem that you have faced recently and how you have solved it. Now, if
you were given one more chance, write how you would solve your problem through IDEAL
from this lesson.
Suggested Readings:
1. Problem Solving 101: A Simple Book for Smart People by Ken Watanabe
2. Six Thinking Hats ,Edward de Bono
3. Think Smarter: Critical Thinking to Improve Problem-Solving and Decision-Making Skills
by Michael Kallet
4. Creative Problem Solving Techniques To Change Your Life (Creative Thinking Book 1)
by Colin G Smith
5. https://www.slideshare.net/readysetpresent/problem-solving-power-point-content-
presentation
6. srmuniv.ac.in/downloads/it0104_unit1.ppt
7. www.csub.edu/~rmejia3/Problem%20Solving.ppt
8. https://youtu.be/6_LX9mo0Thw
9. https://youtu.be/FzAyOddR5u4
“Life is a series of problem-solving opportunities. The problems you face will either defeat
you or develop you depending on how you respond to them.”— Rick Warren
Lesson 8 - Problem Solving Assessment Sheet Date:______________
Name of the Student: __________________________________PIN:________________
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LESSON 9 TEAM WORK
… together everyone achieves more
Learning Outcomes
Observe the following pictures and discuss with your partner the actions and
people/ species involved in them.
1 2 3
4 5 6
7 8 9
B) Now, segregate the above pictures into two groups; just write the numbers of the
images in the following table.
C) Write down the names of the Team activities or tasks in which you
are a part:
Work with your partner and jot down the words related to Team work.
Cooperation
Coordination
Mutual respect
Recollect and jot down your role in a group activity and how you performed as a
team player.
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Sometimes there may be certain problems in team work like individual‟s self-
centeredness, half-heartedness, being uncooperative, stubbornness, lack of trust,
misunderstandings, conflicts etc. But these can always be resolved with proper discussion,
positive thinking, sharing responsibility, recognising one‟s efforts and making the members
realise the advantages of the teamwork.
Activity 2 Pair Work 20 min.
Read the following story and answer the questions that follow:
For the first round, he told everyone to blow a balloon kept on the table and then write
their name on it without bursting it. All the team members blew the balloon and wrote their
names on it. Then he told everyone to wait outside for the next round.
After some time, he called them into the room for the second round. Now there were
more balloons scattered around without names in them. He told them to find one‟s own
balloon in fifteen minutes without bursting it. The first three persons to find their balloons
will be the winners. Everyone started searching but failed to find one‟s own balloon.
For the third round, the manager told them, if any team member finds a balloon with a
name on it, he has to give the balloon to the person whose name was on it. Everyone started
searching, and after a couple of minutes, everyone received the balloon with their name on it.
The manager went to the dais and said, “You see, in the 2nd round, no one was able to find
their balloons as we were working on individual targets. But in the final round, within two
minutes, everyone had their balloon with them. That‟s the power of teamwork and sharing”.
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2. What was the issue being faced by the manager?
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3. What was the activity in the first round?
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4. What were they asked to do in the second round?
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5. How did everyone get his / her balloon finally?
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6. What lesson did the employees learn from their team outing?
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7. Write down the key words or phrases in the grid below:
2
3
Procedure:
All the students are formed into several teams with seven or eight students in a team.
Each team is provided with a stack of newspapers, a gum tape, a pair of scissors and
TEN minutes of time to build a paper tower on a table.
They should not use any other material except the provided ones. Otherwise the team
is disqualified.
Group starts building a paper tower (like a big cone or box or in any other shape that
is tall ) at the signal of the teacher „START‟ and after ten minutes they must „STOP‟
at the teacher‟s signal.
The teacher will measure the height of each tower and decides the tallest tower and
gives ranks to others. If a tower collapses at the time of measuring, it is disqualified.
One spokesperson from each group would present before the class how his/her team
worked together and what they have learnt from this activity.
Wrap up 10 min.
Recall what you have learnt about Teamwork. One or two students may make brief
presentations in the class.
"Talent wins games, but teamwork and intelligence win championships."
-Michael Jordan
Home Assignments:
1. Recollect how you have carried out your project work as a team. Write a paragraph about
your experience working in your team; mention the merits and demerits of your team.
2. Imagine that one of your team members is a bit lazy, unpunctual, less committed and
unable to deliver. Write a few suggestions to resolve the issue and make him focussed on
the teamwork.
1. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FQC5jnj68ko
2. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fm1gh5GAmWc
3. https://www.slideshare.net/raganuu/team-work-pptall-in-1
4. ncr.mae.ufl.edu/funstuff/Teamwork.ppt
5. https://www.slideshare.net/ct231/teamwork-presentation-2012-15054766
6. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O-Hzzg1AtVs
8. The 17 Indisputable laws of Teamwork: Embrace Them and Empower Your Team by John
C Maxwell
9. Help the Helper: Building a Culture of Team work by Kevin Pritchard and John Eliot
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Learning Outcomes
Role play the following dialogue with your partner and answer the questions that
follow:
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Given below are a few words related to leadership; add some more desirable
qualities of a leader:
Identify the people in the following pictures. Pick up the words from the word
bank and give relevant words to describe them.
A) B) C)
D) E) F)
A) ------------------- D) ----------------------
B) -------------------- E) ----------------------
C) -------------------- F) -----------------------
Leadership is influencing and guiding others selflessly towards some common goal. It is not
about a person or a position but it is a complex moral relationship among people, based on
trust, commitment, emotion, and a shared vision for the common good.
Styles of Leadership
a) Autocratic or Authoritarian Leadership (high task, low relationship): It is a style of
leadership in which power and decision making is centralized. It is based on leader’s
commands, hard tasks, tight schedules, threat of punishments and the leader alone assumes
entire power and responsibility. The followers tend to be less motivated and can’t act on their
own. They become resentful and frustrated to reach the goal but are unilaterally forced by the
despot to complete the task.
• There may be some more styles of leadership as the categorization depends on the
nature of the task, purpose, situation and skills of the leader and the members.
• Boss gives orders to employees authoritatively, enjoys power and controls them.
Whereas, a leader influences, motivates, supports and encourages a group of individuals, and
works continuously along with them to achieve the common goal.
• A good leader must be a visionary, motivates his followers, communicates well, and
possesses knowledge, confidence, empathy and integrity. He wins the trust of his team mates,
attributes the success to all and takes responsibility for failures. The leaders who did not
have the traits mentioned proved themselves to be weak and unsuccessful.
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Who is your favourite leader in the following areas? Write the qualities
you like in him/her:
SI Qualities you like in
Area of Interest Name of the leader
No. him/her
1. Sports & Games
2. Politics
3. Industry JRD. Tata Dynamism & optimism
4. Film making
5. Environment
6. Family
7. Literature William Shakespeare Innovativeness, mastery
over language
8 Social Service
9 Science & Technology
10 Education
Leadership
Activity 4 is not a positionGroup
or a Work
title; it is an action and an example
15 min
Observe the picture below and read the following words/ phrases and segregate them
into TWO groups in the table below:
Boss Leader
Activity 5 A Group Work 20 min.
One of the members from each group would present about an instance
where he/she personally demonstrated his/ her leadership qualities in two to
three minutes.
Wrap Up 10 Min
Recall what you have learnt about Leadership. One or two students may make brief
review of the class.
Home Assignment :
2. Gather information about one of the leaders from the activities 3 or 5A and make a poster
to present in the next class. Include his/ her picture, quotes and ideology.
3. Write your response in a paragraph about the situation: You are one of the main student
leaders of your college. In a leader’s meeting, one of the younger student questions a decision
you have made. What would be your reaction? How do you deal with the situation?
5. https://www.slideshare.net/mithisood/presentation-on-leadership-9401617
6. https://www.slideshare.net/gayatrishelke94/leadership-ppt-presentation
7. sites.ieee.org/sem/files/2012/09/Leadership-Presentation.ppt
8. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2lEp4TVpxgA
9. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xduc6otOzk
10. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PjQXhoXvln4
11. https://www.imd.org/imd-reflections/reflection-page/leadership-styles/
1. What is leadership?
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Learning Outcomes:
Read the following passage and answer the questions that follow:
A lecturer was talking to his students on the last day of their college. He wanted to talk
something relevant to their everyday lives. He put a half-filled glass with water on table. Some
smart and self-motivated students thought that he might be trying to know the positive attitude
of the students! Some started saying „Half-full‟, while some said, „Half-empty‟! But the
lecturer smiled gently and asked the students, “How heavy is this glass of water?” First
surprised, but then the students started giving their responses. The responses were ranging from
50 gm to 250 gm! The lecturer listened to all their responses with a smile on his face.
Then he replied, “The weight of the glass is indefinite!” Everyone was startled. Then
the lecturer explained, “The actual weight of the glass doesn‟t matter at all. All that matters is
how long you hold it. If you hold it for a minute, that‟s not heavy at all. If you hold it for ten
minutes, then you will sense a negligible pain. If you hold it for one more hour, you will have
ache in your arm. But if you keep holding it for the entire day, your pain in the arm gets
unbearable and finally you may need a doctor to attend you!” At this moment, the students
were listening to the lecturer very keenly. The lecturer continued, “The weight of the glass is
always same, but the longer you hold the glass, the heavier, painful and stressful it grows!” The
lecturer continued, “The example of holding the water glass is very similar to what happens in
our lives. If we carry our problems, worries, tensions, fears, and all that are negative and
harmful, very soon the burden becomes heavier. Ultimately, we cannot bear it any longer. So,
just as we do with the glass, we need to put the burdens down, and take some rest. Once you
get back to normalcy, take those burdens again. Similarly, in your professional life, don‟t carry
the burden of work to home. Start afresh tomorrow with your full commitment and energy.
Then you will never feel the burden heavy”. (Adapted from
https://www.habitsforwellbeing.com/story-stress-management/)
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c. What do you think is the water glass in the story related to in real life?
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d. What makes us feel heavier ? Is it the problem or the stress related to it?
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The following are a few words that are related to Stress. Pair up with your
friend and try to generate as many words related to stress as you can.
Depression
Fear
failure
Not over yet! Try to pool up some words that show signs of composure. Here are a few
examples.
confidence
Cool
Activity 1: Pair Work 15 min.
Given below are the various factors that cause stress in our lives. Discuss with your
partner, observe them carefully and categorise them into positive and negative stressors
causing Eustress and Distress respectively.
Eustress Vs Distress
What should we do when we are burdened with stress? Carry it or Get rid of it?
Activity 2: Individual Work 20 min.
Stressometer: Know your Stress levels: The following table has a list of
symptoms related to stress in our everyday lives. Put a tick (√) mark
against the frequency with which you have experienced each of these
problems during the past one semester. All the Best!
The following statements present you different situations where you feel stressed. Read
them carefully and tick the appropriate response. Discuss your responses with your teacher.
1. You have to face a tough interview for a reputed organisation as part of the campus
placement.
a. I would avoid the interview because it is tough _____
b. I am an average student and I won‟t get selected in such a reputed organisation _____
c. I would evolve a strategy to attempt the interview successfully _____
2. You got injured while playing cricket and recovered after two months.
a. I curse my fate and would never play cricket again _____
b. I would gradually get used to play again _____
c. I would start playing another game _____
3. You have to start your first job in a distant place after your diploma.
a. I would not take up the job _____
b. I would take up my favourite hobby along with the job to keep myself happy _____
c. I would ask the recruiter to appoint me in my hometown _____
4. Your father has acquired huge losses in his business and you are the only breadwinner in the
family now.
a. I would not share the responsibility since it was your father‟s mistake _____
b. I would curse my fate for having to take up responsibilities at a young age _____
c. I would understand the hardships my father had gone through for educating me _____
5. Your elder brother has lost his job due to recession in the IT industry.
a. I would say that IT jobs are not at all secure and he has made a wrong choice. _____
b. I would ask him to take some time and update his skills for securing a new job. _____
c. I would start feeling that it has become burdensome to bear the family‟s responsibility ___
6. Having discharged from the hospital after a terrible accident, you are suffering from
nightmares.
a. I would completely avoid driving a bike _____
b. I would take some tablets to sleep well _____
c. I would practice meditation and other techniques to be calm and composed _____
7. You are given a very challenging assignment by your superior officer to be completed in
short time which will offer you a chance for promotion.
a. I would conclude that my superior has personal grudge for giving me the assignment _____
b. I would decide that I better look for a new job instead of taking up the assignment _____
c. I would see the assignment as an opportunity to prove my ability and get promotion _____
9. You are very short and your height is not enough for the job of Police officer.
a. I can never make a successful career in my life _____
b. I can choose any different career that suits my physical traits _____
c. I would undergo a surgery that may increase my height _____
Imagine that you are in your final year B.Tech and attending Campus
interviews. There is a prestigious company recruiting the candidates
offering handsome salary to the students who fare well in academics and in the interview. You
have secured requisite percentage of marks but feel stressed to face the interview tomorrow.
Write a paragraph about how you will manage your stress. Write down the stressors and
strategies to manage your stress.
Your Stressors: ____________________________________________________________
_________________________________________________________________________
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Wrap Up 10 min.
Recall what you have learnt about Stress Management. Two or three students may give
brief presentations. / You can also share your experiences where you felt stressed and
managed or got relieved of it.
Now, check your Stress levels that you have recorded in Activity 2.
b) 11-20 → Moderately Stressed, Needs a slight change in the lifestyle, Need to be health
conscious
(* the given scale is just for the purpose of illustration to the students; it is not scientifically
based)
Home Assignments:
1. Ask and gather information from your close friend/ father/mother or any elderly person
known to you about his or her experience with a stressful situation and how he / she dealt with
it.
2. Recollect one past incident in which you felt highly stressed in your life and how you were
able to control it. If the same incident were to occur in future, how would you manage it in the
light of the present techniques you have learnt?
1. Why Zebras Don’t Get Ulcers (The Acclaimed Guide to Stress, Stress-Related Diseases, and
Coping) by Robert M. Sapolsky
2. Fighting Invisible Tigers: A Stress Management Guide for Teens by Earl Hipp
3. Monkey Mind: A Memoir on Anxiety by Daniel Smith
4. Hardwiring Happiness: The New Brain Science of Contentment, Calm, and Confidence — Rick
Hanson
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKPh-eZDoTU
6. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pHbPTON5Omo
7. https://www.slideshare.net/alshafipdk/stress-management-presentation-4267473
8. https://www.mansfield.edu/fye/modules/upload/STRESS_MANAGEMENT.ppt
9. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t8aDrpMX7OA
10. https://stress.lovetoknow.com/Stress_Management_PowerPoint_Presentation
11. https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/types-of-stressors-eustress-vs-distress/
Lesson 11: Stress Management Assessment Sheet Date:___________
Name of the Student: ____________________________________PIN:________________
________________________________________________________________________
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2. What are the negative stressors that you usually face in your everyday life?
________________________________________________________________________
________________________________________________________________________
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4. What are the techniques that you would like to adopt in future to deal with the negative
stressors?
__________________________________________________________________________
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5. Mention a few stress triggers that people mistake for stress busters.
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10. Stress buster means the activities that enhance stress further True/False