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When you communicate, what do you usually use as a medium? Do you use only
words? Do you use other means to emphasize your ideas? What are they?
Verbal vs Non-Verbal Communication
Communicating meaning utilizes verbal and non-verbal expressions. Verbal
communication uses words which can be expressed either written or orally. (It is
therefore wrong to say verbal to mean “oral”, like, “verbalize” you concern, to mean
saying it orally). Non-verbal on the other hand is a wordless communication. Other
means are used to convey meaning like facial expressions, proxemics,
paralanguage, appearance, gestures, oculesics, body language and posture,
artifacts, haptics and chronemics.
For better understanding about these different non-verbal cues, let us discuss
each of them.
Facial Expressions
Edward T. Hall, the cultural anthropologist who coined the term in 1963, defined
proxemics as the interrelated observations and theories of human use of space
as a specialized elaboration of culture. (study.com)
Proxemics is the study of human use of space and the effect that population
density has on bahavior, communication and social interaction. It refers to an
individual’s perception of the use of space, both personal (how much space do
they take up) and social (distance from one another).
Study this illustration. How can proxemics communicate meaning? Can you easily
detect people who are intimately close without them having announce publicly that
they are in a certain kind of relationship? When you see a couple who are normally
so close everyday, but suddenly sits apart or does not walk side by side, what
usually is your assumption?
People often refer to their need for "personal space," which is also an important
type of nonverbal communication.5 The amount of distance we need and the amount
of space we perceive as belonging to us is influenced by a number of factors
including social norms, cultural expectations, situational factors, personality
characteristics, and level of familiarity.
The amount of personal space needed when having a casual conversation with
another person usually varies between 18 inches to four feet. On the other hand, the
personal distance needed when speaking to a crowd of people is around 10 to 12
feet.
Paralanguage
Paralanguage is the technical term for the voice cues that accompany spoken
words. It is concerned with the sound of the voice and the range of meanings that
people convey through their voices rather than the words they use
The meaning of what you express is contained, in part, in the words you say, but
how you say it also contains powerful meanings. For example, the word “Yes”, can
completely convey different meanings, even in the exact same sentence, depending
on how it is said—whether it is spoken sincerely or sarcastically. The “how”—you say
something—is referred to as paralanguage, which includes your conscious or
unconscious intonation, accent, pitch Opens in new window, pace, pause, silence,
emphasis, word and syllable stress.
Basically, paralanguage is your voice minus the words you speak. Again, it
denotes the tone (sound) of your voice. The sound of your voice communicates,
revealing to others your emotional state, attitudes, status, personality, etc.
The tone of your voice can help you communicate what you mean to convey,
or it can reveal thoughts you mean to conceal. It can reinforce or negate the words
you speak. How you speak influences how others interpret your intentions, as well as
how credible, intelligent, or attractive they judge you to be. With this in mind, you
may assess yourself by responding to the following questions:
Does my voice enhance or detract from the impression I make?
Does my voice support or contradict my intended meaning?
If I were interacting with me, would I want to listen to the sound of my
voice?
Deliberate movements and signals are an important way to communicate meaning
without words. Common gestures include waving, pointing, and using fingers to
indicate numeric amounts. Other gestures are arbitrary and related to culture.
Gestures are woven into the fabric of our daily lives. You may wave, point, beckon, or
use your hands when arguing or speaking animatedly, often expressing yourself with
gestures without thinking. However, the meaning of some gestures can be very different
across cultures. While the OK sign made with the hand, for example, conveys a positive
message in English-speaking countries, it’s consider offensive in countries such as
Germany, Russia, and Brazil. So, it’s important to be careful of how you use gestures to
avoid misinterpretation
Consider how your perceptions of people are affected by the way they sit, walk, stand, or
hold their head. The way you move and carry yourself communicates a wealth of information
to the world. This type of nonverbal communication includes your posture, bearing, stance,
and the subtle movements you make.
6. Oculesics or Eye Gaze
The eyes play an important role in nonverbal communication and such things as
looking, staring and blinking are important nonverbal behaviors. When people encounter
people or things that they like, the rate of blinking increases and pupils dilate. Looking at
another person can indicate a range of emotions including hostility, interest, and attraction.
8. Appearance
This non-verbal cue is quite controversial. We're taught not to judge a book by its
cover. We can't assess a person's intelligence or demeanor by the clothes they wear. Yet, in
a professional setting, one's appearance does send a message. This is why we wear suits to
interviews or enjoy casual Friday at the workplace.
Our everyday attire and hairstyle sends a message. Imagine a woman who always wears
bright, bold tones. Perhaps she wears orange suits with red blouses or yellow skirts with
royal blue shirts. This is a woman who's not looking to be a wallflower. You can probably roll
the dice on her high level of self-confidence.
On the other hand, just because someone chooses muted tones or grays, it doesn't mean
they're shy. They might simply prefer a simplistic style. To them, less may be more.
Either way, how we present ourselves to people and situations tells a story. We're told to
take our hats off at the table, put a comb through our hair, and wear our Sunday best for a
reason. It shows we put a little thought into the interaction.
9. Artifacts
Objects and images are also tools that can be used to communicate nonverbally. On
an online forum, for example, you might select an avatar to represent your identity online
and to communicate information about who you are and the things you like.
People often spend a great deal of time developing a particular image and
surrounding themselves with objects designed to convey information about the things that
are important to them.
People grow from different cultural backgrounds and beliefs. How they perceive
things therefore differ from other cultures.
For example, basic pleasantries differ from culture to culture. Filipinos usually greet
elders by “pagmamano”; The Japanese bow their heads as a form of greeting or
respect; the Americans shake hands or kiss those who are relatively close to them.
When one is not particular about cultural differences, communication breakdown
happens.
Physical barriers are easy to spot : doors that are closed, walls that are erected,
and distance between people all work against the goal of effective
communication.
Physical barriers can be anything from background noise, distractions,
interruptions, equipment, connection glitches and the like. When on the phone,
and you experience signal interruption, when sending text messages, but you
suddenly run out of load so the message failed to send, when you are talking with
somebody in a noisy environment, when taking a synchronous online exam and
there is a sudden power interruption, those are considered physical barriers.
Examples of physical barriers that prevent individuals from effective
communication include:
Environment -Some barriers are due to the existing environment. For
example, if you are standing in adverse weather conditions, your conversation
would be hampered because you would not be able to pay full attention to what
the other person is saying.
Distance -Distance also plays an important part in determining the course of a
conversation. For example, if the staff in an organization are made to sit in
different buildings or different floors, they might have to substitute face to face
communication with phone calls or emails.
Ignorance of Medium -Communication also includes using signs and
symbols to convey a feeling or a thought. However, if there is a lack of ignorance
about the medium in which sender is sending the message, the conversation can
be hampered.
Perceptual Barriers
We all have our own preferences, values, attitudes, origins and life experiences that
act as "filters" on our experiences of people, events and information. Seeing things
through the lens of our own unique life experiences or "conditioning" may lead to
assumptions, stereotyping and misunderstandings of others whose experiences
differ from our own.
Perceptual barriers are internal. If you go into a situation thinking that the person
you are talking to isn't going to understand or be interested in what you have to say,
you may end up subconsciously sabotaging your effort to make your point. You will
employ language that is sarcastic, dismissive, or even obtuse, thereby alienating
your conversational partner.
Think of movie scenarios in which someone yells clipped phrases at a person they
believe is deaf. The person yelling ends up looking ridiculous while failing to
communicate anything of substance.
Examples of perceptual barriers that prevent individuals from effective
communication include:
Perceptual Filters -We all have our own preferences, values, attitudes,
origins and life experiences that act as "filters" on our experiences of people,
events and information. Seeing things through the lens of our own unique life
experiences or "conditioning" may lead to assumptions, stereotyping and
misunderstandings of others whose experiences differ from our own.
Triggers and Cues -What we say is affected by how we say it (tone, volume)
and by our nonverbal cues, such as body language and facial gestures. For
example, you may perceive a situation differently if the person you are speaking
with is smiling or frowning, has body odour and is standing too close or is not
giving you direct eye contact.
What to do?
To overcome perceptual barriers within the workplace, there are a few things
you can do:
The audience may make assumptions about you or the situation; perhaps you
are new to the organization, or the situation is a challenging one. To get your
message past these barriers, provide evidence to support your claims and enhance
your credibility.
Effective communication relies on being aware of nonverbal aspects of
interactions with others. It is equally important to be aware of one's own nonverbal
behaviours and be sensitive to how they may be perceived. For instance,
maintaining eye contact when communicating indicates interest. Staring out the
window or around the room is often perceived as boredom or disrespect.
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Emotional Barriers
Emotional barriers can be tough to overcome, but are important to put aside to
engage in conversations. We are often taught to fear the words coming out of our
own mouths, as in the phrase "anything you say can and will be used against you."
Overcoming this fear is difficult, but necessary. The trick is to have full confidence in
what you are saying and your qualifications in saying it. People often pick up on
insecurity. By believing in yourself and what you have to say, you will be able to
communicate clearly without becoming overly involved in your emotions.
Examples of emotional barriers that prevent individuals from effective communication
include:
Anger- Anger can affect the way your brain processes information given to
you. For example, angry people have difficulty processing logical statements,
limiting their ability to accept explanations and solutions offered by others
Pride -The need to be right all the time will not only annoy others, it can shut
down effective communication. For example, you might focus only on your
perspective, or you might come up with ways to shoot down other people before
you even listen to their points.
Anxiousness -Anxiety has a negative impact on the part of your brain that
manages creativity and communication skills. For example, your constant worries
can hinder your ability to concentrate on the information you are giving or
receiving.
To overcome emotional barriers within the workplace, here are some helpful hints:
Even in a workplace where women and men share equal stature, knowledge and
experience, differing communication styles may prevent them from working together
effectively. Gender barriers can be inherent or may be related to gender stereotypes
and the ways in which men and women are taught to behave as children.
Although not all men or all women communicate the same way as the rest of
their gender, several traits that tend to be more common in one gender or the other
have been identified. Understanding these tendencies is key in creating a work
environment that fosters open communication among all employees.
Women talk about other people. Men talk about tangible things like business,
sports, food and drinks.
Women ask questions to gain an understanding. Men talk to give information
rather than asking questions.
Women are more likely to talk to other women when a problem or conflict
arises. Men are often known for dealing with problems or issues internally
Women focus on feelings, senses and meaning. They rely on their intuition to
find answers. Men focus on facts, reason and logic. They find answers by
analyzing and figuring things out.
A disagreement between women affects many aspects of their relationship and
may take a long time to resolve. Men can argue or disagree and then move on
quickly from the conflict.
Please keep in mind that these are generalizations, and do not necessarily apply to every
individual.
Overcoming Gender Barriers
To overcome gender barriers within the workplace, here are some helpful hints:
Interpersonal Barriers
Interpersonal barriers are what ultimately keep us from reaching out to each other and
opening ourselves up, not just to be heard, but to hear others. Oddly enough, this can be the
most difficult area to change. Some people spend their entire lives attempting to overcome a
poor self-image or a series of deeply rooted prejudices about their place in the world. They
are unable to form genuine connections with people because they have too many false
perceptions blocking the way.
Luckily, the cure for this is more communication. By engaging with others, we learn what our
actual strengths and weaknesses are. This allows us to put forth our ideas in a clear,
straightforward manner.
Did you know that there are different ways to speak the English language? Which
variety should we follow?
How we speak is influenced by many things. Our way of pronouncing words is
all part of learning how to speak and somehow copying the speech of those around
us. Depending on our family history or background, we could ether be monolingual,
bilingual or multilingual, then we may learn to speak English alongside another
language. As we go further schooling, we will eventually learn the standardized
forms of the English language in terms of spelling, punctuation and grammar which
is known as the standard English.
As we move across the country, we experience not only changing landscape
and architecture but also a gradual change in the sounds we hear, in the accents
and dialects that relate to the place in which they are spoken and to which they
belong.
DIALECT – a variety of English that differs from other dialects or varieties in three
specific ways:
Lexis (vocabulary)
Grammar (structure)
Phonology (pronunciation or accent)
ACCENT – refers to the differences in the sound patterns of a specific dialect and
not its vocabulary and grammar
Attitudes towards Variations of English
For mainly historical reasons, certain English dialects or varieties have been
viewed more positively than others. Thus, standard English, because of its
association with being the national English language, has been perceived as the
most prestigious English variety.
As society changes, so too do attitudes towards dialect, accent and
variational use of English generally. Until not so very long ago, variational uses of
English were associated with social class. Today, issues of social class are not
straightforward as they were once; increased educational opportunity and economic
prosperity means that more and more young people are exposed to Standard
English than ever before. Also, increased variety of accents in the media for
example, is a great help to break down prejudice towards variational use of English.
There is an old saying that America and Britain are “two nations divided by a
common language.” No one knows exactly who said this, but it reflects the way many
Brits feel about American English. My British friend still tells me, “You don’t speak
English. You speak American.” But are American and British English really so
different
Vocabulary
The most noticeable difference between American and British English is vocabulary.
There are hundreds of everyday words that are different. For example, Brits call the
front of a car the bonnet, while Americans call it the hood.
Americans go on vacation, while Brits go on holidays, or hols.
New Yorkers live in apartments; Londoners live in flats.
There are far more examples than we can talk about here. Fortunately, most
Americans and Brits can usually guess the meaning through the context of a
sentence.
Collective nouns
There are a few grammatical differences between the two varieties of English. Let’s
start with collective nouns. We use collective nouns to refer to a group of individuals.
In American English, collective nouns are singular. For example, staff refers to a
group of employees; band refers to a group of musicians; team refers to a group of
athletes. Americans would say, “The band is good.”
But in British English, collective nouns can be singular or plural. You might hear
someone from Britain say, “The team are playing tonight” or “The team is playing
tonight.”
Auxiliary verbs
Another grammar difference between American and British English relates to
auxiliary verbs. Auxiliary verbs, also known as helping verbs, are verbs that help
form a grammatical function. They “help” the main verb by adding information about
time, modality and voice.
Let’s look at the auxiliary verb shall. Brits sometimes use shall to express the future.
For example, “I shall go home now.” Americans know what shall means, but rarely
use it in conversation. It seems very formal. Americans would probably use “I will go
home now.”
In question form, a Brit might say, “Shall we go now?” while an American would
probably say, “Should we go now?”
When Americans want to express a lack of obligation, they use the helping verb do
with negative not followed by need. “You do not need to come to work today.” Brits
drop the helping verb and contract not. “You needn’t come to work today.”
Language Variety
It is also called lect.
It is any distinctive form of a language or linguistic expression.
it refers to any of the overlapping subcategories of a language including :
a. dialect
b. register
c. jargon
d. idiolect
Varieties of English refer to the different kinds of English used around the
world based on geographical locations.
Several Major Varieties are:
American English
British English
Australian English
New Zealand English
Black English
Other Varieties are:
Singapore English
Philippine English
*These are identified as variations based on the phonological (speech sounds) and
lexical (vocabulary/grammar and construction) levels of use. Language variations are
more or less similar and while most English speakers can understand each other,
problems occasionally arise. (Manzano, et al. 2018)
According to Carolyn temple and Donna Christian in their article, “Applied Social
Dialectology:
“… dialect prejudice is endemic in public life, widely tolerated and institutionalized in
social enterprise that affect almost everyone such as education and media.”
There is limited knowledge about and little regard for linguistic study showing that all
varieties of a language display systematically and that the elevated social position of
standard varieties has no specific linguistic basis.
1. grammar
2. syntax
3. tone
Forms of Language Register
Examples:
o Business letters
o Business reports
o Announcements
o Some essays
o Official speeches
o Professional emails
Rules of Formal Language Register:
a. Do not use contractions – cannot instead of can’t; have not instead of haven’t
b. Spell out numbers less than one hundred – nineteen, seventy-eight, twenty-two, six
c. Write in the third person point of view – avoid using: I, we, you, us
d. Avoid using too much passive voice – Passive: The bone was eaten by the dog;
Active: The dog ate the bone
e. Avoid using slang, idioms, exaggeration, and clichés – awesome/cool, ok/okay,
check it out
f. Avoid abbreviations and acronyms – Department of Education (DepEd), influenza
(flu)
g. Do not begin a sentence with words like and, so, but, also – Use these words
instead: Nevertheless, Additionally, However, In addition, As a result of, Although
h. Always write in complete sentences.
i. Write longer, more complex sentences. – *Longer and complex sentences are
acceptable as long as they do not become wordy. Write using substantial and
meaningful sentences.
3. Jargons
refers to the specialized language of a professional or occupational group.
Such language is often meaningless to outsiders.
George Packer describes jargon in a similar vein in a 2016 article in the New
Yorker magazine:
“Professional jargon—on Wall Street, in humanities departments, in government
offices—can be a fence raised to keep out the uninitiated and permit those within it
to persist in the belief that what they do is too hard, too complex, to be questioned.
Jargon acts not only to euphemize but to license, setting insiders against outsiders
and giving the flimsiest notions a scientific aura.
In other words, jargon is a faux method of creating a sort of dialect that only those on
this inside group can understand.
Jargon has social implications similar to dialect prejudice but in reverse:
It is a way of making those who understand this particular variety of language more
erudite and learned;
those who are members of the group that understands the particular jargon are
considered smart, while those on the outside are simply not bright enough to
comprehend this kind of language.
Types of Lects
1. Regional dialect:A variety spoken in a particular region.
Examples:
Ilocano
Chavacano
Waray
2. Sociolect: Also known as a social dialect, a variety of language (or register) used
by a socioeconomic class, a profession, an age group, or any other social group.
Examples:
gay lingo
jejemon
Korea
In a country where almost half the population have the same last name, you may be
forgiven for becoming a little confused about who is who and what is what. Valuable
for anyone researching Korean culture, customs, language, society, manners,
etiquette, values, business norms and essentially wanting to understand the people
better.
Whether visiting South Korea on business, for tourism or even hosting Korean
colleagues or clients in your own country, this guide will help you understand your
South Korean counterparts, improve communication and get the relationship off to
the right start. How do we know all this information? Well, we are experts in cultural
awareness training courses on Korean culture!
Communication style
Communication can be complicated in South Korea due to an inherent dislike of
saying ‘no’ as it is considered poor etiquette
Discussions can be prolonged due to the avoidance of declining or refusing
If disquiet is verbally or visibly displayed it is a sure sign that something is amiss
Good posture and positive body language is most beneficial in meetings; patience
and politeness must be maintained throughout
Do not use excessive or overt body language
Use two hands, or support your right arm with your left, when passing on business
cards, gifts, or when receiving an item
Respect, trust and satisfaction are displayed through a deeper bow
Personal Space
It is insulting for Koreans to be touched by someone with whom they are unfamiliar;
don’t pat them on the back or hug them
Prolonged, direct eye contact can be inferred as a challenge and is seen as impolite,
especially when dealing with others of a higher social standing
Keep your body within its own personal space; avoid extended or crossed legs and
limit arm movements when explaining something so as to evade others’ personal
space
If calling someone over to you do not point with your index finger, instead use your
hand palm down in a claw movement
In cities (especially Seoul) pushing, shoving and touching are regular occurrences –
don’t be offended by the lack of apologies
Friends, of both sexes, will often walk arm in arm together, especially teenagers and
the younger generations
Gift Giving Etiquette
Visiting a home
Always remove your shoes before entering a Korean home (in recent years there
has been an increase in Western culture and this may not always be the case -
follow the lead of your host if unsure)
It is possible to arrive up to thirty minutes late without causing offence but punctuality
is highly respected
Remember, never pour your own drink. The host will do this in your presence
Being invited into a Korean’s home is considered an honour (especially if it is for a
meal) so it is essential to treat it as such. Be polite, respectful and observe their
customs
Bring a gift to reciprocate your host’s kindness
Once the party is over you will usually be escorted to your car or the gate by the
host. This is a sign of respect
If you are considering doing business in South Korea, or with a South Korean, it is
essential to understand their culture and business etiquette to maximise your
potential and avoid any unnecessary awkwardness.
Korean culture is profoundly influenced by Confucian principles and this pervades not only
personal lives, but also business. Confucianism supports group harmony, respect for elders
and authority, the importance of family, friendship and ancestors, and also, tradition. Kibun
(equivalent to face, or honour) is highly significant to Koreans and they will always attempt to
maintain their Kibun, or personal dignity. Confrontation is to be avoided at all cost as once
Kibun is lost it cannot be regained.
In South Korea, good relationships are crucial to success both in personal and business
circles, and these are assimilated within the business world. Korean’s make friends first, and
clients second. To make the most of your business acumen you must also appear
trustworthy, honourable and respectable in a social and business setting.
Korean business is founded upon relationships; even large corporations are often
family managed with members still acting in executive positions. The Confucian
principles regarding respect for age, family, rank and tradition have ensured the
continuance of this system. There have been recent calls for reforms, due to
economic downturns, in Korea but this will take time due to the entrenched systems
in place.
Alongside the formal power structures in place within a company one must learn to
recognise, and assess, the informal structures which may be based on long-standing family
ties, personal relationships and allegiances. Insight into these practises will ensure a greater
comprehension of Korean business etiquette.
What to wear?
Dress is conventional and conservative for both women and men
Dark suits, white shirt and tie are accepted as the norm for men
Suits, dresses, or blouse and skirt are acknowledged for women. Trousers are not
generally worn for business
Women should avoid sleeveless, tight-fitting garments
Colours should be understated and traditional
Good quality accessories are accepted
Be aware that winter can be very cold, and summer very hot, in South Korea
Titles
As discussed previously, Koreans have three names; they are used in order of
surname, generation name, and then given name.
If unsure address people as Mr_____ (surname) or surname ______ and then their
title (teacher, professor, etc)
Generally, Koreans will offer you their name, which may be a westernised version of
their Korean name
Business cards
Business cards are considered important and ritualistic in Korea
It is advisable to have one side printed in English and the other in Korean
Give and receive cards with both hands, with the Korean side uppermost for ease of
reading
Take time to read and examine the cards you are given – it is respectful
Place cards in a holder to keep them safe and show you are treating them well
Never write on or mark the cards you are given
Meetings
Organise your meeting ahead of time, giving plenty of notice
Arrive punctually and be prepared
The most senior Korean will enter and be seated first
As Koreans live and conduct business within a Confucian framework, initial meetings
are often used in an introductory fashion and business may be instigated later
Do not show impatience at this stage as these pleasantries are a way of getting to
know you
Only remove your jacket once the senior Korean does
Choose delegates who are on par with their Korean counterparts – this shows
respect and knowledge
Exchange business cards in a respectful manner after the initial introductions
Ask open ended questions that do not require a yes or no answer as Koreans dislike
refusals
Negotiating
Allow the senior Korean to instigate business discussions
Phrase questions in a manner that allows for discussion (Ask ‘When can we expect
delivery?’ And not, ‘Will delivery be within two weeks?’)
Avoid using an outright ‘No’ in response to questions
Be aware of others’ Kibun – do not force an issue if you sense reluctance as you
may harm you own dignity and lose their respect
Always show respect for senior colleagues and management
There are often times of silence during meetings, try not to break these as they are
moments of contemplation and show consideration for others
Avoid a hard sell and forceful negotiations – remember Kibun
Management
Korean business and personal lives are based upon strict hierarchical structures
Confucianism supports this structure within the family and workplace
Older and senior delegates should be deferred to at all times
'Sonsaengnim' means "respected person" and is frequently used when addressing
someone of a higher position
In South Korea managers take a paternalistic role with employees and may be
familiar with staff in a personal manner
This allows for a mutual respect and understanding so don’t be put off if asked
questions of a personal nature
Arabic is the official language of the UAE although English is widely spoken and
understood.
Since the UAE is home to a large expatriate community, a number of other languages are
widely spoken which primarily include: Persian, Hindi, Urdu, Bengali and Chinese.
A long but steady handshake is common. Ensure you only use your right hand.
Greetings between individuals of the same gender who know each other well are
often warm and include hugs and embraces.
Arab men or women may decline to shake the hands of those from the other sex.
This is a religious adherence practiced by many male and female Muslims. It is not
personal and it should not be taken offensively. We suggest therefore, that men wait
to see if a female offers her hand prior to offering his.
Likewise, if a female offers her hand and it is refused by a male, then we suggest the
use of a gesture that is often used across the Muslim world as an alternative greeting
whereby the right hand is placed flat over the heart, coupled with a brief nod of the
head and a smile.
It is polite to greet the oldest or most senior members of the group first.