Personal Development Reviewer
Personal Development Reviewer
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Development:
Human Development:
- developing through the many changes that take place in the life of human beings
as a result of many factors
- attempts to understand how humans grow in different aspects: physical, mental,
emotional, social, behavioral, spiritual, etc.
1. Physical - growth of the brain, motor and sensory skills, physical health
2. Cognitive - learn, speak, understand, reason, create
3. Psychological - social interactions with other people, emotions, attitude,
self-identity, personality, beliefs, values
● Heredity: inborn traits passed on by the generation of offspring from both sides
of the parents' families
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● Environment: world outside of ourselves, experienced that result from our
contact, interaction, with interaction world
● Maturation - natural progression of the brain, body that affects the cognitive,
psychological, social, dimension of a person
Defining “Self”:
● Philosophical Terms:
- agent responsible for an individual's thoughts and actions
- intangible entity that directs a person's thoughts and action
● Psychology, Sociology, Religion - essence of a person: thoughts, feelings, actions,
experiences, beliefs, values, principles, relationships
● person's life, purpose, meaning, aspirations
● personality terms (behaviors, feelings, thoughts, motives)
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Lesson 1b - Knowing Oneself
Personality and Its
Dimensions:
Gordon Allport - personality as “a pattern of habits, attitudes, and traits that determine
an individual’s characteristics, behaviors, traits”
Personality:
● refers to the unique and relatively enduring set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts,
and motives that characterize an individual (Feist and Rosenberg, 2012)
● Two key components of personality:
1. Uniqueness
2. Enduring or consistency
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Factors that Influences Personality:
- Openness to experience
- imagination, insight, high in this trait also tend to have a broad range of
interests
- more adventurous, creative
- people low at this trait are often much more traditional and may struggle
with abstract thinking
- Consciousness
- high levels of thoughtfulness, good impulse control, goal directed behaviors
- organized, mindful
- Extraversion
- excitability, sociability, talkativeness, assertiveness, high amounts of
emotional expressiveness
- tend to gain energy in social situations
- people who are low in extroversion tend to be more reserved and have to
expend energy in social settings
- Agreeableness
- trust, altruism, kindness, affection, other prosocial behaviors
- tend to be more cooperative
- those low in this trait tend to be competitive or manipulative
- Neuroticism
- sadness, moodiness, emotional instability
- tend to experience anxiety, irritability
- those low in this trait tend to be stable and emotionally resilient
● Trait theories of personality have long attempted to pin down exactly how many
personality traits exist
● Earlier theories have suggested a various number of possible traits
- Gordon Allport - list of 4,000 personality traits
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- Raymond Cattell - 16 personality factors
- Hans Eysenck - three-factor theory.
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Lesson 2a - Developing the
Whole Person Holistic
Development:
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Holism Development:
- seeing things as a whole and as something that is bigger than the sum of its parts
Gestalt:
- something that is made up of many parts and yet is somehow more than or
different from the combination of its parts; broadly, the general quality or
character of something
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● Happiness
● Sadness
● Fear
● Anger
● Surprise
● Disgust
Feelings vs Emotions:
Attitudes vs Behavior:
● Attitudes:
- thoughts, feelings, and emotions about another person, object, idea,
situation, behavior
- result of a person's evaluation of an experience with another person, idea,
behavior, or situation based on his or her values and belief system.
● Behavior
- manifestation or acting out of the attitudes an individual has.
● Virtues
- trait or quality that is deemed to be morally good
- descriptions of or adjectives that reflect a value
● Values:
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- system of beliefs that adhere to the highest ideals of human existence
- create meaning and purpose in a person’s life that often result in personal
happiness and self-fulfillment
- basic and fundamental beliefs that guide or motivate attitudes or actions
- are usually nouns while virtues are the descriptors that usually mirror the
value it represents
- peace
- freedom
- social progress
- equal rights
- human dignity
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5. Power - social status and prestige, and control or dominance over people and
resources
7. Conformity - restraint of actions, inclinations, and impulses that are likely to upset or
harm others and violate social expectations or norms
8. Tradition - respect, commitment, and acceptance of the customs and ideas that
traditional culture or religion provide the self
9. Benevolence - preserving and enhancing the welfare of those with whom one is in
frequent personal contact (the in-group)
10. Universalism - understanding, appreciation tolerance, and protection for the welfare
of all people and of nature
1. openness to change
2. self-transcendence
3. self-enhancement
4. conservation
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Middle and Late Adolescence
- A major hallmark of this period is the quest for identity and individuality through
assertion of independence.
- Has eight stages of development which defines each stage of human development
with a crisis or conflict.
- The stages are borderless and flowing, not strictly fixed and definite.
- Personality develops in a predetermined order, and builds upon each previous
stage, this is called epigenetic principle.
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> Puberty involves the physical changes that happen during the adolescent stage.
> Cognitive development also happens during adolescence as the brain continues to grow
and develop
> New cognitive skills develop such as reasoning, abstract and hypothetical thinking, and
increased intelligence
> Cognitively, the adolescents are now formal operators (Piaget's Stages of Cognitive
Development)
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Moral Development
> Lawrence Kohlberg believed that in Piaget’s theory and expanded to add complex
comprehension.
> Kohlberg’s stages of moral development has levels with two stages each founded on
Piaget’s theory.
> Morality, is the individuals capacity to know what is right from what is wrong.
> Moral, is “the perceived sense of right that either comes from societal, group, or
personal preferences.”
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Social Development
> Happens during adolescence when adolescence desire for more autonomy and
independence from their family.
> Beliefs and values are formed at this stage, sometimes even questioning the existing
and accepted norms.
> With puberty, the adolescence also goes into experimentation of their bodies exploring
their sexuality, as well as substances such as alcoholic drinks or drugs, which may result
in addiction or crime.
Self-identity or self-concept
- evolves from an individual's own set of beliefs and value system, in the roles he
has identified for himself, the responsibilities he recognizes and owns, and the
expectations others have on him.
1. Developing Occupational Skills - skills that can help the adolescent develop
responsibility as a preparation for gainful employment ahead.
2. Self-reliance - the ability to identify their own skills and knowledge, capabilities,
and resources to engage in meaningful activities and not rely too much on others.
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3. Ability to manage their finances - be able to discern what’s the difference between
“wants” and “needs” and to learn self-control when handling their finances.
4. Social responsibility - should be able to see beyond themselves, take into
consideration the greater community around them, and see their role in
improving and developing these communities, serving as change agents.
5. Mature work orientation - develop pride in what they do, and raise standard of
excellence in the quality of their work.
6. Personal responsibility - be fully responsible for h\your owon decisions and
actions by owning them.
7. Positive attitude towards work - developing a healthy and positive attitude toward
work menmas that we see work as an expression of our love for people who are
important to us, including ourselves. “Work is love made visible.” (Kahlil Gibran)
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Lesson 4: The Challenges in
Middle and Late Adolescence
> Attitude plays an important role in facing these challenges.
> If these challenges are taken as necessary stepping stones toward greater maturity, the
adolescent can then transition more smoothly to adulthood with more confidence and
self-esteem.
> Puberty drives the adolescents to experience surges of sexual desires which
often lead to experimentation and exploration.
2. Academic concerns
> The role of a student is the primary role of an adolescent who is still in school
>Shows good memory and understanding. cooperation and team work, respecting
other people's opinion and beliefs, social interactions, leaderships and followership
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3. Group Belongingness
> Healthy and wholesome organizations whose objectives aim to help individuals
develop themselves are better choices. They respect the individuality of each
person and would not lure them into doing something that goes against time
honored human values.
> A healthy mind and a healthy body is what every adolescent should strive for.
> You should be objective and balanced when viewing yourself; see your strengths
and weaknesses
>Proper grooming and self-care can help improve ane's feeling and attitude about
oneself.
6. Roles
> Adolescents must learn to integrate all their roles and it should be clear that
these roles are related to the tasks expected of them
> Discipline and time managernent can help in balancing the different roles an
adolescent has.
7. Material Poverty
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8. Parents working abroad
9. Career Choice
> In pursuing a career, look at what you love to do and are passionate about
10. Relationships
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