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We all know that self-esteem sometimes referred to as self-worth or self-respect, can be an important
part of success. Too little self-esteem can leave people feeling defeated or depressed. It can also lead
people to make bad choices, fall into destructive relationships, or fail to live up to their full potential. A
grandiose sense of self-esteem, as exhibited in narcissistic personality disorder, can certainly be off-
putting to others and can even damage personal relationships.
Self-esteem levels at the extreme high and low ends of the spectrum can be harmful, so ideally, it's best
to strike a balance somewhere in the middle. A realistic yet positive view of yourself is generally
considered the ideal. But what exactly is self-esteem? Where does it come from and what influence does
it really have on our lives?
What Is Self-Esteem?
In psychology, the term self-esteem is used to describe a person's overall sense of self-worth or personal
value. In other words, how much you appreciate and like yourself.
Self-esteem is often seen as a personality trait, which means that it tends to be stable and
enduring.
Self-esteem can involve a variety of beliefs about yourself, such as the appraisal of your own
appearance, beliefs, emotions, and behaviors.
By contrast, having a healthy self-esteem can help you achieve because you navigate life with a positive,
assertive attitude and believe you can accomplish your goals.
Additionally, your inner thinking, age, any potential illnesses, disabilities, or physical limitations, and
your job can affect your self-esteem.
Confidence
Ability to say no
Positive outlook
Ability to see overall strengths and weaknesses and accept them
Negative experiences don't impact overall perspective
Ability to express your needs
Signs of Low Self-Esteem
You may need to work on how you perceive yourself if you exhibit any of these signs of poor self-
esteem:
Negative outlook
Lack of confidence
Inability to express your needs
Focus on your weaknesses
Excessive feelings of shame, depression, or anxiety
Belief that others are better than you
Trouble accepting positive feedback
Intense fear of failure