Table of content

Introduction
Chapter one
UNDERSTANDING THE MYSTERY OF SEX
Chapter two
GOD’S ORDINANCES GOVERNING SEX
Chapter Three
DIVERSE EXPRESSIONS OF SEXUAL
IMMORALITY
Chapter four
BIBLICAL CONSEQUENCES OF EMBRACING
SEXUAL IMMORALITY
Chapter five
BIBLICAL TEMPLATE FOR BREAKING THE
YOKE OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY
Chapter Six
THE BLESSEDNESS OF EMBRACING SEXUAL
PURITY
Introduction
Friends we are living in a generation and in an era where
sexual immorality is celebrated, encouraged, and sadly to
say have become the order of the day. This is largely
because the average believer is not taught and rooted in
the revelation of the ways of God concerning our subject
matter. The concept of sexual purity may seem outdated
or even impossible to achieve. However, the truth is that
sexual purity is not only possible but also essential for a
fulfilling and blessed life as a believer in Christ Jesus.
All through the passages of scriptures, sexual immorality
is one of the strongest weapons and devices that the devil
has in his quiver which he deploys to contend with the
individual destinies and cooperate rankings of the body
of Christ in our quest to effectively extend the frontiers
of the kingdom of God on earth until the kingdoms of
this world becomes the kingdom of our God and His
Christ. Friends nothing corrupts and pollutes the purity
of the labors in the righteousness of the believer in his or
her walk with God like a deliberate commitment to a
lifestyle of sexual immorality. This is because sexual
immorality fights aganist your consecration unto God in
spirit, soul, and body which according to Romans 12:1-2
is your reasonable act of worship or service unto God.
friends nothing impedes your journey and truncates your
path to destiny concerning the fulfillment of your
ordination in God like sexual immorality and likewise, a
commitment to a lifestyle of sexual purity with the help
of the Holy Spirit in Christ is the bedrock and true
cornerstone upon which a fulfilled and satisfying life and
destiny is hinged and anchored upon. 

The testimony and witness of scriptures as recorded in

the bible is very clear and sure concerning God's verdict
and standard concerning the issue of sexual immorality
as well the bountiful blessings of the Lord that accrues to
those who embrace with utmost delight God's standard
concerning how we deploy and enjoy Sex. The
exploitation of the appetite for sex outside of the
allowance of scriptures brings you to a point where the
devil can gain a legal premise upon which can
manipulate, deceive and negotiate you out of God’s will
and purpose for your life which ought not to be so
whereas embracing sexual purity as your lifestyle as you
lean graciously under the cannon of the grace of God as
your source of strength brings you a place where can
enjoy the previsions of the manifold of grace to fulfill
your destiny with respect to purpose in a grand style
according to the volumes of the Books of God as it is
written concerning you in the script of destiny and
purpose.

Our generation needs this message to be sounded upon

the rooftops and mountains of families, churches
schools, etc. more than ever before. With the upsurge of
pornography, hookup culture, and sexual exploitation,
we are blitzed with messages from the media and society
that garble and cheapen the value of human sexuality
which is incongruous with God’s divine standard and
order concerning how the appetite for sex should be
explored and enjoyed The consequences of disobeying
God’s word is are very overwhelming, not only for
individuals but also for families, communities, and
society as a whole. But there is hope. By conforming to
God’s pattern and pathway for enjoying sex, we can
experience the flow of divine joy, peace, and blessing
that come from living in alignment with God's design
and plan for our sexuality. We can build healthy
relationships, enjoy fulfilling marriages, and contribute
to the overall betterment of society in respect and
dignity.
It is to this end that this book captioned "Purity Bliss-
The Blessedness of sexual purity" is written. The
motive in love to which this book is written is to
illuminate the hearts of the members of the family Of
God and the society at large about God's perspective
concerning how the appetite for sex should be explored
and enjoyed and also warms about the attendant
consequences that follows when God's stance is violated
and finaaly, God's protocol of restoration to those who
have fallen short of the grace of God concerning living a
sexually pure and consecrated lifestyle. Friends come
with me as we learn the ways of God with the help of the
Holy Spirit as we take a thorough tour through the pages
of God's word to unravel the blessedness of embracing
sexual purity as a lifestyle. Have a glorious reading
adventure.
Chapter one

UNDERSTANDING THE MYSTERY OF SEX

Friends, it is the sound understanding and delightful

application of God’s word that garantees an outstanding
Christian living and experience. The emphasis of this
chapter is to reveal by the help of the Spirit of God in
His word so that we can be brought into the realms of
understanding as touching the mystery of sex.

According to the book of Ephesian, Apostle Paul by the

inspiration of the Holy Ghost reckons marriage is as a
mystery by revelation and it is in the place of sexual
intercourse that the marriage between a man and woman
under the government of God is fully consummated.
Friends Sex is marriage and marriage is sex! It is via sex
that the possibility of husband and wife becoming one
flesh in achieved. (See Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5
Mark 10:8, Ephesians 5:31).

The Definition of a Mystery

A mystery is anything whose essence and realty is
beyond what eyes can eye, what hears can hear and what
the heart of a man can ever know. (1 Corinthians 2:9).
Simply put, a mystery is a secret that is beyond the gaze
and touch of mortal men but can only be revealed by the
custodian of that secret and that custodian is a spirit
being. Therefore in the context of biblical perspective,
when we say sex is a mystery, what we saying in essence
is that the full import, reality and essence of sex as an
appetite is concealed to the understanding of mortal men
and can only be revealed by the Help of Holy Ghost who
is the Spirit of God who knows all things before we can
come into full light and understanding of what sex really
is and represent in the realm of realities.

Sex as a Mystery

 Sex is a Gate of Life and death

Death is anything that fights productivity, effectiveness,

negativity and impact whereas Life connotes anything
that sponsors fruitfulness, effectiveness and productivity
in life and destiny. Sexual immorality is a negative shock
to a productive and effective living. Sex is a gate of life
and death in the sense that, anytime it is deployed in
light which in essence means that the appetite of sex was
explored and enjoyed within the allowance and
provisions of scriptures then the blessings and life of the
lord is released but when this divine order is
circumvented and disobeyed, a cure come upon the life
of the victims and fruits of death- unfruitfulness in every
sphere of human endeavor in a man’s life and destiny. If
you yield the members of your body to obey lustful
desires which is the biat that decives many to indulge in
the unfruitful works of darkness like illegal sexual
experiences like fornication, pornography, masturbation
etc. you expose your body and soul to corruption and
death and likewise if you yield the members of your
body unto righteousness, the dividends of such decision
and transaction is peace and life eternal. Peace and life
eternal is the reward when you consecrate and commit to
a lifestyle sexual purity as you lean on the supply of
grace of God. Many glorious marriages, ministries,
destinies and lives are experiencing death and decay
right now because of giving in to the deception and
seduction of sexual immorality.

Sex is Spiritual Binding

The bible say that whoever that is joined to harlot is one

with her. This is kind of joining form a spiritual
covenant and the mechanism via which this done is any
kind of sexual activity that violets the well-established
ordinances governing sex. It is this kind of joining which
establishes a spiritual binding or bounding thus making
the two parties to be recognized in the realm of the spirit
as One Flesh. The resultant effects of such unholy
binding is very grievous in that it leads to soul ties,
transference of evil spirits and negative character traits
like anger, smoking, bitterness etc. including the trading
and exchange of destiny opportunities and fortunes. The
essence of sex is to bring you to a place where the very
substance of your partner being is distilled and
transferred into you to become part and parcel of you
and visa vice and that is why we are cautioned in
scriptures to flee fornication and form of sexual lust. The
greatest yokes to break are those whose strength is
sourced from a covenant and immoral sexual indulgence
is one of such.

Sexual is a Spiritual catalyst

Sex can be rekoned as a spiritual catalyst! Sex is as a

spiritual catalyst functions via two mainstreams of
energy which are spiritual strength and sight. The
synergy of spiritual strength and sight is the secret to
living the victorious Christian life! The essence of sight
in the spirit is divine direction which is a prerequisite for
a life of distinction whereas the essence of strength is
divine preservation and protection which insolates a
man’s life destiny from the attacks and quandaries of the
devil. It is at the day of battle and contention that man’s
strength in the spirit is brought to bear and the Bible says
that if a man fails in the day of battle, then he strength is
small and of the sure way by which this strength is
depleted, reduced and quenched is indulgence in sexual
immorality of any kind and form. Samson as a man of
might, valor and strength before whom the whole army
of the Philippian counting for nothing because the spirit
of the Lord came upon him ended up losing his spiritual
sight and strenght the day he started compromising and
violating God’s ordinance governing the exploration of
the appetite of sex. Joseph on the other side was able to
fulfill the full essence of his destiny as designed by God
because despite the persecution and adverse cruelty he
suffered in the hand of Potiphar wife when he turns
down her numerous immoral sexual advances. He was
willing to suffer persecution because of his conviction
and devotion to God and until we also sustain the same
heart deposition, God cannot trust us with what is called
true riches. Anytime sex is done outside the purity of the
marriage bed, spiritual blindness and weakness becomes
the repercussions. Also anytime sex is done with respect
to God’s ordinances, the fruits of such union are spiritual
strength and sight. This is one of reasons why sex is
reckoned to be indeed as a mystery. Sex is beyond
pleasure, moaning and organsm! It is like a sharpening
instrument which can heighten your spiritual strength
and sight when deployed in light in the day of battle and
when deployed in darkness, blunts your spiritual strength
and sight which will only make you a victim of
causalities in the day of battle and contention. I hope by
now you understand what I meant by sex being a
spiritual catalyst. It can enhance or hamper your destiny.
It can build or destroy you. And it can make or mar your
glorious calling and ordination in God depending on
whether the sex appetite of sex is deployed in the realm
of light or darkness. My dear reader I pray for you, may
the Lord give you understanding in Jesus Mighty name.

 Sex is a spiritual Language:

Sex is a spiritual language and thus speaks at least

three different languages which are very valid and
recognize in the spirit realm which have
consequential effects on the earth. These languages
of sex are priesthood, communion and agreement.
Let’s consider each of them briefly.

 Priesthood

The first language that immortals understand and can

relate with in the spirit realm with is priesthood and one
of the most potency mechanisms of executing priesthood
in the realm of the spirit is sex. This is because sex is a
two-edge sword spiritual energy sex which when
deployed can attract the presence and blessings of God
or attracts the presence and afflictions of devils and
demons. This is because sex outside the allowance and
boundaries of God as enshrined in the Bible creates a
demonic priesthood in realm of the spirit which becomes
the tool by which the operations of devils and demons
are perpetuated in the live and destiny of individuals,
families, etc. Nothing creates a legal premise upon which
the sons of man invite spirit beings and entities into their
sphere of reference on earth like priesthood. Wherever a
person or group of people engages in the activities of
priesthood, the realm of the spirit is opened thus creating
a portal for spirit beings to access the earth realm in
order to do their binding upon the earth via the vessels
they are in league with. Spirits like the presence of blood
which is the legal medium of exchange in the spirit and
so any time you have sex in physical realm with a person
who you are not legally married to, there is a blood shed
as the man releases his sperm into the woman’s vagina
and immediately you have compromise God’s standard,
then that opens the lives and destines of the two people
involved to demonic infiltration, manipulation and
destruction. Therefore in summary just as money is a
language of value in the natural, sex is also a language of
value in the realm of the spirit. Sex is a legal currency in
the realm of the spirit valied for spiritual transcations
and exchanged.

 Communion

The second language that is valid and understood in the

realm of the spirit is communion. Jesus our Lord told his
disciples in the book of John 6:53 that;

“Then Jesus said unto them, verily, verily, I say unto

you, Except ye eat the flesh of the Son of man, and
drink his blood, ye have no life in you.”

According to the very words of Jesus our Lord, one of

the valid the protocols of coming into the fellowship of
His life in light is by the mystery of the Holy
Communion and by partaking in the communion of the
Lord’s body and blood we are regconizsed both in the
spirit realm and natural as His disciples which signifies
that we have the essence and realities of his life and that
we belong to Him. In the same vien, Sex done through
any shape or form outside of the allowance and
boundaries of God’s word constitutes communion in
death , fellowship in darkness, partnership in
lawlessness, concord in rebellion and friendship with the
world which creates a very suitable platform for every
evil work of the devil to prosper in the lives and destinies
of the culprits. The book of 2 Corinthians 6:14 put it
very blunt and clear.

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with

unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness
with unrighteousness? and what communion hath
light with darkness?”

My friend, exploring sexual pleasure outside of the

provisions of God in the Bible is not enjoyment but a
skillful bait of the devil to bring you into bondage and
enslavement. Don’t let the pleasure of sex deceive you
into thinking that all that is it to sex is pleasure. Sex is a
gate into the realm of the spirit where the destinies of the
strong and mighty are decided and negotiated.
Communion is a medium of exchange in the realm of the
spirit, so just as we partake in the Lord’s body and His
blood, we trade our weakness and infirmities that comes
with mortal life with His divine life which is superior to
the onslaughts and blitzes of the devil and his cohorts
which include, sicknesses, weaknesses and death. In the
same view, nothing exposes a person either born again or
not to bodily sickness of all kinds, weakness of all forms
and untimely death like indulging in sexual immorality.
This is because like I said earlier, sex outside the
allowance of scriptures constitutes a communion (union,
intimacy, and partnership) in darkness and fruits of such
union are sickness, weakness and untimely death. Now
brethren let me break it down for your understanding

“For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth

and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning
the Lord's body. For this cause many are weak and
sickly among you, and many sleep.” 1 Corinthians
11:29-30

o Sickness here connotes bodily infirmities such as

HIV/AIDs, Malaria,Cancer etc.
o Weakness here connotes the infirmities of the
soul which expresses itself in the form of a
 weakness the consistent practice of covenant
demands such as prayer, Bible studies, fasting,
Obedience unto God, delightfulness in kingdom
service etc.
o The phrase ‘Many sleep’ here connotes death
which in most cases is untimely.

One of the common sins of the early church as they

sojourned from the land of captivity even Egypt to the
land flowing with milk and honey through the wilderness
was sexual immorality and as a result thousands of them
lost their life. Please brethren I beseech you by the
mercies of God, do not lose your glorious life and
destiny of satan is very envious of to the pleasures of sin
which is but for a moment. (Romans 12:1-2). Your
journey to your promise land can be truncated because
of the momentary pleasures of sin.

Let’s read the scriptural verse below, it is will help shape

our moral values and deepen our convictions about the
ways of the God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.
“6 Now these things took place as examples for us,
that we might not desire evil as they did. 7Do not be
idolaters as some of them were; as it is written, “The
people sat down to eat and drink and rose up to
play.” 8We must not indulge in sexual immorality as
some of them did, and twenty-three thousand fell in a
single day.

Therefore friends if you don’t want be a part and

partaker of the vicious and deadly venom of the devil
that he deploys to destroy the glorious destinies of men
both strong and mighty, educated or illerate etc., stay
away from indulging in sexual immorality of any kind or
shape either fornication, pornography and masturbation
etc. your destiny shall not be lost to momentary pleasure
in Jesus Mighty name.Amen

 Agreement

Lastly, another expression of sex as a language in the

realm of the spirit is agreement and this is very serious
because scriptures reveals in the book of Amos 3:3 that
“Two cannot walk together unless they agree”. One of
the potency medium via this agreement is carried out in
the natural which has very valid spiritual implications is
sex. Exploiting the appetite of sexual pleasure outside
the provisions of God’s word creates a portal of
agreement in darkness which in essence makes such a
person very pliable in the hand of the devil to be used
achieve his demonic intentions in the life and destiny of
the victims. Sex outside marriage produces dead works
because such an action constitue an unfruitful work of
darkness! Anytime God’s children agree in light as
touching as a matter on earth as they pray, their prayer
request is answered by God because the agreement was
done in light and by light and one of the ways people
agree in darkness is by violating the ordinances of God
concerning sex and when this is done, it immediately
enthrones the dominion of Satan over the lives of the
people involved.

Note this, sex outside marriage constitute a legal

agreement and bond in darkness between the man and
woman involved and Satan which is unto death whereas
sex that done within the boundaries of the Word Of God
is also a very legal bond and agreement between the man
and involved and God almighty which is unto life eternal
and peace and cannot easily be broken. (Ecclesiastes
4:12). Friends hear and hear me well either it is an
agreement in light unto life or agreement in darkness
unto death, the unpinning realty is that such bond cannot
easily be broken and this is because a spirit is involved
and the impact of such agreements will be evidence on
the lives of the victims which is consistent with the
nature of the spirit being involved in the agreement. In
the next chapter, we shall be digging deeper in our
research in God’s word as touching God’s ordinaces
governing sex i.e His hallowed perspective of judegment
concerning how the appepitee of Sex should be expolited
by the help of the holy Ghost to help broaden and deepen
our understanding of the subject matter at hand. Come
with me dear reader!
Chapter Two

GOD’S ORDINANCES GOVERNING SEX

God’s ordinance governing how the appetite of sex

should be explored, exploited and enjoyed is clear
revealed within the pages of God’s word which is the
Bible. The ways of God are enshrined in his well-
established ordinance and in this chapter; we shall be
delving deeper in our journey as we look unto the perfect
law of liberty in order to append the standard and
perspective of God governing sex.

1. Sexual Immorality should not be named

among you

“Nevertheless the foundation of God standeth sure,

having this seal, The Lord knoweth them that are his.
And, Let everyone that nameth the name of Christ
depart from iniquity”.2 Timothy 2:19

Also, let’s read this scriptures

“But immorality or any impurity or greed must not
even be named among you, as is proper among
saints”. Ephesians 5:3

“It is actually reported that there is immorality

among you, and immorality of such a kind as does
not exist even among the Gentiles, that someone has
his father’s wife”. 1 Corinthians 5:1

From the above scriptural verses, God’s call, demand

and requirement to those that name the name of the Lord
and have be sealed by the precious Holy Spirit is a call to
depart from every form of iniquity, evil and wickedness.
Sexual Purity is one the key expressions of the identity of
the elect by grace. Sexual immorality of any form or
expression is an act of wickedness and evil and therefore
attracts the judgment of God if such a person does not
repent sincerely before God for mercy.

2. Sexual Immorality is capital sin against your

Body.
“Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man
commits is outside the body, but the immoral man
sins against his own body”. 1 Corinthians 6:8

Sexual sins such as fornication, adultery, pornography,

masturbation etc. are not only sins against God but sins
against the body. What is the implication of sinning
against our body? Anytime you indulge in sexual
immorality, part of the consequences that accrues to
such an unfruitful work of darkness is what makes the
body to malfunction in strength and vitality. The streams
of this malfunctioning is expressed in the form of bodily
sickness, weakness and untimely death. Nothing
strengthens the vitality and longevity of the body like
embracing sexual purity as a lifestyle.

3. Sexual Immorality attracts God’s judgment.

“Nor let us act immorally, as some of them did,

and twenty-three thousand fell in one day”. 1
Corinthians 10:8

God’s judgment and wrath was kindled against 23

thousand and consumed them in his fury because of
their indulgence in sexual immorality. This shows
that God’s justice throne have zero-tolerance for
such an act of wickedness. If the individuals
involved do not repent sincerely before the God of
all grace and mercy for forgiveness and cleansing by
the blood of Jesus Christ, God will judge them
bitterly in the fullness of time. Friends don’t be
deceived, sexual immorality attracts God judgment if
not repent of sincerely!

“just as Sodom and Gomorrah and the cities

around them, since they in the same way as these
indulged in gross immorality and went after
strange flesh, are exhibited as an example in
undergoing the punishment of eternal fire.” Jude
1:7

According to the book of Jude 1:7, an entire

landcape namely Sodom and Gomorrah came under
the bitter judgment of God because of His zero
tolerance towards sexual sins thus rendering it
dwelling places desolate and consuming her
population with fire because of their indulgence of
sexual immorality and perversion. Beloved if God
did not spare the lives and destinies of the people of
Sodom and Gomorrah because they violated his
scared ordinance governing sex, He will not also
spare us if we do not repent sincerely before Him for
forgiveness and cleansing by the blood of Jesus
Christ our Lord and Saviour even though we are
living under the dispensation of grace. This is
because sound biblical grace teaches us to deny
ungodly lust which is the bait by which Satan woos
men into sexual sins and bondages. (Titus 2:11)

“Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and

the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for
fornicators and adulterers God will judge.”
Hebrew 13:4

The honor and glory of marriage is revealed,

preserved and sustained when the marriage bed is not
defiled. Any form of sexual immorality corrupts the
sanctity of marriage which creates a passage for
Satan to carry on his vicious and wicked intentions in
the lives the people or individual involved. From the
book of Hebrews 13:4, God’s justice and judgment
position is revealed towards all fornicators,
adulterers etc. God will judge all the sexual loose
and immoral. In the end of time, the eternal destiny
and destination of those who practice sexual
immorality is revealed in the book of 1 Corinthians
6:9 which reads

“Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not

inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived:
neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers,
nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with
mankind...”

Beloved reader, if you are reading this book and

paraventure you are a victim of sexual immorality,
please with a heart of humility, response to this call
and repent sincerely before God in prayer and He
will graciously forgive and restore you. (See 1 John
1:9-10)
Chapter Three

DIVERSE EXPRESSIONS OF SEXUAL

IMMORALITY

In this chapter, we delve into the depths of God's word to

confront, identify and understand the diverse expressions
of sexual immorality that plagues the body of Christ and
our societies as a whole. By immersing ourselves in
biblical context, we aim to find inspiration, strength, and
wisdom to navigate these challenges, embracing sexual
purity and holiness in all aspects of our lives and by
doing so we shall be embarking on journey of
understanding and revelation into scriptures, where the
brilliance of God's wisdom will illuminate our path in
order to bring us to a place of sound understanding as to
what the diverse expressions of sexual immorality and
how to spot them by the light of scriptres.

In the vast tapestry of God's word, we encounter a

profound call as Christians to sustain the sanctity and
sacredness of embracing the culture of sexual purity
which entirty emcompasses that of our bodies and
minds, as temples of the Holy Spirit. Amidst the diveres
complexities of life the ordinances of God's word are a
beacon of light, guiding us towards righteous living and
away from diverse expressions of sexual immorality

Friends let me reinterate this for the purpose of

emphasis, exploiting and exploring sexual pleasure by
compromising God’s scriptural allowance and limits
ensnares us into a web of brokenness where our souls
are brought into the dominion and domain of the devil
where he gain legal grounds to lead us astray and also
obstrust our path into fulfilling destiny and purpose
though its allures of sexual tempttions promises to offer
of instant gratification and temporary .

There are disverse expressions of sexual immoralty as

recorded within the pages of God’s word. They include
the following;

. 1. Fornication

Fornication refers to any sexual activity outside the

bonds and limits of marriage as prescribed in the word of
God which includes premarital sexual relations.
Fornication is not only a sin but also constitutes a
violation of one’s body. Friends, anytime we move in
obedienc in the heart posture of deep reverence by
choosing to embrace sexaul purity as aginst the norm of
this fallen and dying generation our relational walk with
God is strengthened thus bring us to a palce of perfect
peace before God which empowers us to enjoy the full
blessings of God in our martial homes and not just that,
such a decision also protects us from the emotional and
spiritual consequences of sexual immorality.

Let’s read and mediate upon the following scriptures as

God;s unwaving stance concerning fornication is brought
to limelight without any form of ambiguity.

"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the

marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the
sexually immoral and adulterous." Hebrews 13:4

Also in th book of 1 Corithians 6:18, we are admonished

strongly by Apostle Paul to;
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is
without the body; but he that committeth fornication
sinneth against his own body.

2. Pornography

Against the numerous assortments of ideas and

perspective that the society and even the sustains about
pornograpgh, I want to say it very blunt and bratal
without any apology to anyone whosoever that
pornograpgh is a sin aginst God ad your body.
Pornography entails the consumption of sexually explicit
materials in form of nude magaines, pornograph vidoes,
books that contain illicit sexual content etc. for pleasure,
leading to addictions which are norally very hard to
break free from if the victim is not willing to be admitted
under the intensive care unit og the grace of God where
he or she is exposed thoroughly to the refining fires of
the Holy Ghost where that caff is burnt off into ashes.
Consumption of pornohrapgh materials courrupts the
purity of your thoughts and makes the mediations of
your heart and the utterance of your lips not to be
acceptable before God which is very greivious state to
weep and moarn about! Please my dear reader don’t let
anyone deceive you into beliving that viewing
pornograph materials is not a sin but is fun and
etertainkent which really in reality is the devil’s biat into
pluging you into enslavement and entanglement.

In the book of Matthew 5:28 the says that

“But I say to you that everyone who looks at a

woman with lustful intent has already committed
adultery with her in his heart."

Friends, by guarding our hearts and minds from form all

forms of impurities and corruption, we are able to honor
God sincerely also and cultivate meaningful, respectful
relationships based on genuine love and understanding.

3. Masturbation

Masturbation refers to the deliberate stimulation of one's

own genitals for sexual pleasure outside the context of
marriage. Porngrapgh and masturbation are like hand
and glove. They go hand in hand. mastubation often
accompanyed with impure thoughts or fantasies.This is
very serious because as Christians our prayers to be
answered, it must emanate from heart (mind) void of evil
intentions or thoghts. In the book of Pslams 66:18, the
bible says “If I regard iniquity in my heart, the Lord will
not hear me”. Which implies that the purity of thouhts
can prevent your prayers from gaining audience in the
presesnce of God in order to attract answers:

"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person

commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral
person sins against his own body." 1 Corinthians 6:18 –

By allowing the Holy Spirit to help us to cultivate the

fruit of self control as we seek God's strength we are
empowered by the grace of God to enable us to redirect
our desires towards healthy and God-honoring
expressions of intimacy.

4. Adultery

Accordinng to the perspective of scriptures, Adultery

involves engaging in sexual relations with someone
other than one's spouse which is a clear violation the
covenant of marriage. Upholding the sanctity of
marriage as desighned and prescribed by the ordiances of
God governing sex in scriptures, it protects the bond
between spouses and fosters an environment of trust,
love, and commitment. Fidelity in marriage fosters trust,
intimacy, and unity, mirroring the faithfulness of Christ
to His Church.

We were instructed and command in the Bible in the

book of Exodus 20:14 that

"You shall not commit adultery."

Dear married man or woman, commiting adultery is a

clear indication that you lack common sense, sound
judgment and void of moral principles and the dividens
of such stupidity is that you end up destroying your
precious soul. In th book of Proverbs 6:32, the amplified
version puts very well and conveys my caution home.

But whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks

common sense and sound judgment and an
understanding [of moral principles]; He who would
destroy his soul does it.
Also lets read and ponder this verse of scriptures because
anytime I rad it my heart quivers. It say;

For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought

to a piece of bread: and the adulteress will hunt for
the precious life.

Friends nothing reduces a mighty prince of strength and

valor to a piece of bread like this deadly canker called
Adultery. Beloved I pray for you, you shall not hunt your
precious life and the worth of your destiny shall not be
reduced to that of a piece of bread because of sexal
immorality in Jeus Mighty name.

4. Phone Sex and Cybersex

Friends we live in a generation and an era where sin

especially sexual sins are so cheap to indulge in and one
of such mainstraeams via which it is expressed is what is
popular known as phone sex. Phone sex and cybersex
involve engaging in explicit conversations or virtual
sexual activities with others, promoting fantasy and
pleasure over reality or better put, Phone sex
encompasses engaging in sexually explicit conversations
or acts over the phone, often outside of committed
marital relationships where the values of scriptures are
honord. This is also form of sexual immorality which
when engaged in violtes our bodies and not just that, it
also attracts God’s judgment. The devil’s aim of
promoting such acts of sexual perversion is to bring
about pollution and corruption in our vessels so that our
rational walk with God will be truncated therey exposing
us to His domain and dominion.

"Set your minds on things that are above, not on

things that are on earth." Colossians 3:2 –

Friends by choosing to focus our minds on things that

are pure and honoring to God, we maintain integrity and
foster genuine connections with others. In essence as
Christians should be full of salt with the capcity to
preserve,edify and encourage our hearers which is a
mirror reflection of Christ's love and purity in all our
interactions. (see Ephesians 5:3)

NB: Sexual immoralty is a departure from God’s

template of enjoying pleasure and intimacy.
In the concluding within the ordinances of God's word
concerning how to explore and enjoy sexual pleasure and
intimacy, we find the blueprint for a life of true
purpose,hostlistic purity, and satisfying fulfillment. As
Christians we obey God’s word in embracing the beauty
of His design for our sexual experiences, we can rise
above diverse expressions of sexual immorality, as we
lean on the supply of spirit of grace and supplication to
help empowers us and others to walk worthy of our high
calling in Christ Jesus daily to the glory and praise of our
father and Lord Jesus Christ. It is my heartfelt and
earnest desire and prayer that our lives we be a testament
and epistle of witness to our world and gmeration of His
transformative power, shining brightly as beacons of
hope and inspiration in a world yearning for truth and
Life.

In the preceding chapter we shall be looking into the

pages of the perfect law of liberty to unravel and bring
to light some of the grievous consequences that waits
someone who embraces sexual immoralty as his or her
way of life. May the Lord give you understanding even
as you continue to read this piece of divine truth and life.

Chapter Four

BIBLICAL CONSEQUENCES OF EMBRACING

SEXUAL IMMORALITY

Friends to everyy action, there is a reaction and to a very

seeed sown, there must be a harvest to stand as a witness
of such investment. This is also ture with the operations
of the God of the Bible. We are strongly caustioned by
scriptures in the book of Galathians 6:7-8 that;

“Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever

a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that
soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption;
but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit
reap life everlasting”.

We should know by that embracing sexual immorality

as a way of life is reckoned in scriptures to be a form of
investment like pregnancy which in the fullness of time,
the ugly repercercsuions will come steering us on the
face. It is therefore great folly and deception for you to
think that you can continue engaging in unfruitful works
of darkness of which sexual immoralty in my own opioin
is the chifest without getting ready ready to bear the full
return of your investment in the flesh and darkness.

Beloved the bible did not leaves us to guess work as

what the consequence of sexual immoralty are but have
offered ample of them rooted in scritptues which are
sufficient enough to serve a deterant and warming for us
so that we all through the comfort of scriptures might
know how we ought to order our lives by walking wisely
and worthy of our high calling in Christ Jesus so that we
may please Him who have enlisted us to His
footsholiders on earth with the entrument of extending
the frontiers of the kingdom of God on eath. Friends
below are a fews of the biblical consequences of
delightflly embraincg the lifestyle of sexual immoralty.

1. Embracing sexual immorlity is a capital sin

against your own body.
The implication of sining against one’s body is that you
expose your body which by desigh is suppose to function
as the temple of the Holy Spirit in full vitality, strength
an health to bodily sicknesses of all kind, weaknesses
and untimely death. And remember you need a very
robust and healthy body to be able to carry on the
assignment God have enstrusted into your hands a
steward. Sexual immorality is a great disservice to your
body. Please be warned in Jesus mighty name.

Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is

without the body; but he that committeth fornication
sinneth against his own body. 1 Corithians 6:18

2. Embracing the way of sexual Immoraltiy

fights against your daily sanctification.

Beloved, nothing in this world stains the garments of the

saints in Christ jesus and drains the untion of the Holy
Ghost upon God’s people like exploring sexual fantasy,
pleasures and pleasures outside of scriptural allowace.
(see Ecclesiastes 9:8 )
Your sanctification is the degree to you are endued and
saturated with the wight of the presence of God per time
which is a very vital demand for living the victorius
Christian life and one of devl’s mechansims via which
the manifested presence of God is leaked out daily from
our regenerated spirit man is by in indulging in sexual
immoralty of any kind or form. Abstinence from sexual
immoralty by denying ungodly lusts from finding
expression in your vessels is the surest wisdom of
maintaining our vital relationship with God daily.

The way of embracing sexual purity is the biblical way

of possessing our bodies in honor and sanctification.

For this is the will of God, even your sanctification,

that ye should abstain from fornication: That every
one of you should know how to possess his vessel in
sanctification and honour; 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4

3. Embracing sexual immorality leads to a

worthless living and premature death

Embracing the doctrine of sexual immorality as a

lifestyle is one of the satan brings his victims into legal
boundages where he hunts their persious souls by
destroying their souls prematurely.

But whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks

common sense and sound judgment and an
understanding [of moral principles]; He who would
destroy his soul does it. Proverbs 6:32

4. Embracing sexual Immoralty will end you in

hell fire if you don’t repent sincerely.

One of regrettable repercurssions of going the way of

exploring sexual pleasures outside of the provisions of
the word of God is an unhindered express highway to
eternal suffering, toture and pain in the everlasting fires
of Hell. My friend, hell is not even a place you wish for
your greatest enemy on earth. This is because Hell is a
place of complete dryness, torture and suffering where
the worth of just a drop of water is more than what our
mundane money can affor. Please if you are a reading
this book and you know that you have fallen short of the
grace of God in this regard, please pause and sincerely
repent before God in prayers by pleading the blood of
Jeuss to forgive of all your works in darkness and as you
do this faith in the name of Jesus Christ, your sins shall
be forgiven you and you shall be resotored.

But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable,

and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers,
and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the
lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is
the second death. Revelation 21:8

5. Embracing sexual immoralty destroys many

glorious martial Homes

Also beloved another grievious consequential effect

which results from embracing sexual immorality even in
the marriage context is that via that violetion, God’s
protective hedge over many glorious martial homes have
been destroyed thus creating an inroute for the wicked
intentions of the devils which is to steal, kill and destroy
to prosper in the lives, marriages and familes of the
victims.
Embracing sexual Immorality as a lifestyle: Takes away
spiritual sight and strength - Samson's downfall:

In the book of Judges 16:17, we see a very tragic

example of how embracing sexual immorality can lead
to the loss of spiritual sight and strength. Meanwhile in
order to emerge in life as a victorious Christian, your
greatest asset of advantage over the devil is divine
strength and sight. Nothinng in life dissipates and leakes
out spiritual spiritual strength and sight like engaging in
unsanctioned sexual expoitation and exploration which is
incongruous to the divine oder as instituted by God in
His word. (See Judges 13-16)It is worthy to note that
Samson’s greatest advantage as designated and
desighned by God as his warfare weapon in order to
facilitate the fulfillment of God’s plan amd purpose for
his life was his strength and sight as such he was a man
uniquely blessed with physical strength by God, but he
allowed his sexual desires to lead him astray. He became
infatuated with Delilah, a woman who was paid by the
Philistines to discover the secret of his strength and
exploit it. Friends, winning in the battles of life as
arraged against us by the devil requires two
indispensable weapons; divine strength and sight but
strength without sight will constitute a great
disadvantage in the day of battle or contention which
will definitely end you a causality of spiritual warfare.

One of the reasons why Samson scummed to the

pressures of Deliah which was responsible for his
compromise in keeping with God’s ordinances
governing sex was because, Samson first and faremost
was never consistent in his prayer alter. A Consistnet life
of prayer or communion with God will form a formiable
and an impregnanble fortress of defence for a man, thus
safeguarding his entire being from bending and summing
to the ungodly lust and pressures of this broken and
persevered world. (Judges 16:17)

Please note that as a child of god, your consecation,

dedication and devotion to God in truth and spirit is what
becomes your weapons of war and one of the ways by
which these mighty weapons of war perished leading to
the fallen away of many mighty men in the kingdom is
via the route of sexual immorality. Your looses in
sustaining your vessel from the stain and corruption that
comes with embracing sexual immorality is what
strengthens the arm of the enemies of God to prosper in
their evil enterprises both individually and cooperately
as a body.

Beloved, Samson's commitment to sexual immorality

blinded him spiritually, causing him to lose sight of his
divine calling and purpose. His moral compromise
weakened his spiritual connection with God, and a result
he lost the ability to discern right from wrong.
Accuraate discernment which is made possible by the
quickening of the Holy Ghost in the hearts of the
belivers of Christ Jesus thus bring into the economy of
things that eyes have not seen, ears have not heard and
such as not yet entered into the hearts of men but
Nothing weakens the belivers ability to discern
accurately and judge prisciely from the lens of the Holy
Spiirt like sexual immorality. Additionally, his physical
strength, which was a gift from God, left him, and he
became vulnerable to his enemies. Ultimately, his
pursuit of sexual pleasure led to his capture, torture, and
eventual death.

6. Embracing sexual immorality as a lifestyle: Attracts a

curse into life - Reuben's example:

In the book of Genesis, we find another tragic example

of how embracing sexual immorality can lead
generational curse. The strength of a generation curse is
to esure that the victim remains a fugitive and a
vagabond for life which is made possible by ensuring the
victims are manipulated by mestries endcoded in
spiritual intelligence to make decsions that will always
take them out of God’s will and purpose for their life
thus exposing them to control and destrcuction of the
devil. In short, generation cures affects your decision
making process negatively! Euben, the eldest son of
Jacob, committed a grave sin when he slept with Bilhah,
his father's concubine (Genesis 35:22) which was not
only an act of sexual immorality butt a gigantic betrayal
of his family trust and worst of its all, his action also
constituted a violation of God’s moral principles as
prescribed in the Bible. In the case of Reuben, the Bible
provides a striking example of how embracing sexual
immorality can attract a curse into one's life. Reuben was
the firstborn son of Jacob, and his actions had significant
consequences on his future and his descendants. In
Genesis 35:22, we learn that Reuben slept with Bilhah,
his father's concubine, an act that was considered a grave
sin and a violation of God’s family boundaries.

As a result of Reuben's immoral behavior, he brought a

curse upon himself and his inheritance. When Jacob
blessed his sons before his death in Genesis 49, he said
concerning Reuben,

"Unstable as water, you shall not have preeminence,

because you went up to your father's bed; then you
defiled it" (Genesis 49:4).

Reuben's actions cost him his birthright and the

blessings that should have been rightfully his, leading to
long-lasting consequences for his descendants as well.
Nothing fights a man’s ability to stay foucus in the
pursuit of His destiny, calling and carrer like sexual
immorality. This destiny disease does not fights focus
but obstructs a man’s ability to be productivity thus
rendering such a man’s destiny and potentials obsolete.

6. Embracing sexual Immorality as a lifestyle:

Negative impact on mental prowess:

All through scriptures, it is an established fact that

Sexual immorality can have a detrimental effect on an
individual's mental well-being. This is because, the Bible
emphasizes the importance of purity and self-control in
one's thought life and actions. Engaging in sexual
immorality can lead to guilt, shame, and inner turmoil, as
it conflicts with the standards of righteousness set by
God an enshrined in God’s word. The apostle Paul
addresses the consequences of sexual immorality in 1
Corinthians 6:18, stating,

"Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a

person commits is outside the body, but the sexually
immoral person sins against his own body."

This verse highlights the unique impact of sexual sin on

a person's psyche and self-esteem. Guilt and shame
resulting from such actions can cloud judgment, hinder
mental clarity, and lead to emotional distress.

Beloved in concludimg the chapter it is very expident to

we all endeavorto heed to the warnings and cautionary
tales and teachings of the Bible about the consequences
of embracing sexual immorality as a lifestyle. These
consequences includes the untimely destruction of a
man’s life, eternal condemination in the after life, the
lost of spiritual sight and strength, attracting curses into
one's life and among others. These biblical abmonitions
and lessons are to serve as a reminder of the importance
of living according to God's moral principles governing
how the appepitte of sex should be exploited and
explored by God’s people in orde for the name of the
Lord to be glorifed. In the chapter we shall be delving
deeper into considering the central burden underpinning
the writing of this book which is captioned “BIBLICAL
TEMPLATE FOR BREAKING THE YOKE OF
SEXUAL IMMORALITY”. Come with me dear
reader!
Chapter Five

BIBLICAL TEMPLATE FOR BREAKING THE

YOKE OF SEXUAL IMMORALITY

In the sacred tapestry of the holy Scriptures, there exists

an unwavering beacon of light, hope and redemption,
guiding those ensnared in the grips of darkness towards
liberation and restoration: "BIBLICAL TEMPLATE
FOR BREAKING THE YOKE OF SEXUAL
IMMORALITY." This illuminating chapter embarks on
a transformative journey through the pages of the Bible,
drawing upon its timeless wisdom and divine revelations
to present a powerful and liberating template for
breaking free from the shackles of sexual immorality.
Inspired by the infallible Word of God, this profound
exposition offers solace to the burdened hearts, a
roadmap to deliverance, and a pathway to experience the
fulness of God's grace and holiness. As the words of
Scripture intertwine with grammatical prowess, this
chapter stands as a clarion call to embrace God's divine
plan for purity and forge an unyielding connection with
the Almighty, breaking free from the yoke of sexual
immorality and embracing a life of true spiritual
fulfillment and blessedness. A few of such biblical
protocols of breaking the yoke of sexual immorality are
briefly discused below.

1. Embrace Genuine and Godly Repentance with

produces friuts worthy of respentance

My dear reader, the initinal point in our journey to

breaking the yoke of sexual immorality over our lives is
to sincerely from our hearts acknowledge our sins before
God and genuinely repent. Psalm 51:2-3 emphasizes the
importance of coming clean before the Lord: "Wash
away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. For I
know my transgressions, and my sin is always before
me." The constrast between godly sorrow and wordly
sorrow is that , godly sorrow that is accordance to the
will of God produces fruits of repentance whereas
worldy sorrow produces death. (see 2 Corithians 7:10).
Therefore Confession is not merely an admission of
wrongdoing but a heartfelt plea for God's mercy
forgiveness and cleansing which when appropriated from
a man with a constriet spirit and broken heart will
definetly attracts the love and mercies of God upon such
an individual. This is because in the book of Psalms
51:17 the word of God says “The sacrifices of God are a
broken spirit: a broken and a contrite heart, O God, thou
wilt not despise.” God’s best which includes His mercies
goes in the direction of a constreit spirit and a broken
heart. Such a man that acknowledged his numerous
infrimmities and thus only trust and depend on God as
his the lifter of his or head! Notice that The bible records
how the prodigal son was forgiven, welcomed and
received by his father after many years of wandering in
the world. No in is too grievous for God not to forgive.

2. Daily Renewing of Your Mind with God's

Word

Beloved in order to successful break the yoke of sexual

immorality over one’s life, we must accepte the
responsibility to daily renew our minds through the
transforming power of God's Word. Romans 12:2
exhorts us, "Do not conform to the pattern of this world,
but be transformed by the renewing of your mind." The
Scriptures provide the ultimate truth and wisdom,
guiding us away from the deceptive paths of sexual
immorality and toward God's righteous ways. God’s
word imparts with us the grace that is required to lived-
out the realities of God’s word by the operations of the
law of the Spirit of life which is in Christ Jesus so that
we are empowered daily to live the victorious Christian
Life. As it is written in the book of 2 Corithians 3:18 that
“But we all, with open face beholding as in a glass the
glory of the Lord, are changed into the same image from
glory to glory, even as by the Spirit of the Lord.” The
word of God hidden or treasured in your heart is your
ticket of dominion over sin daily. (see Pslams 119:11).
Mediating or pondering on God’s the mechanism by
which the life and Spirit of the scriptures is assimilated
and digested into our regenerated human spirit thus
empowering our spirit, soul and body to align with the
desires and dirsctions of the Holy spirit per time leading
to our daily victory over sin including sexual sins.

3. Flee the appearance of evil and sexual

Temptations
Friends, In our the pursuit of sexual purity as sons and
daughters of the true God, we must of necessity learn to
flee from the appearance of every form of evil which
includes sexual temptations. 1 Corinthians 6:18
admonishes, "Flee from sexual immorality." So Instead
of flirting with danger and despondency, we must take
proactive measures to distance ourselves from situations
and circumstances that could lead to sexual sins. Joseph's
example in Genesis 39:12-13 illustrates the importance
of fleeing from the appearance of evil which includes
sexual temptations, as he refused to succumb to
Potiphar's wife and ran away from her advances.

The biblical remedy for continuous victory over sexual

temptations and sin is one: FLEE!

4. The Responsibility of Guarding the Eyes of

your mind and Heart

Friends, Proverbs 4:23 wisely instructs us, "Above all

else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from
it." To break the yoke of sexual immorality, we must
guard what we allow into the eyes of our hearts and
minds. For this matter there is hugh call to caution as to
how we surf the internet and to mindful of the kind of
content we feed on social media, the company we keep,
and the thoughts we entertain. By fixing our gaze on
what is pure and praiseworthy (Philippians 4:8), we
strengthen our defenses against the allure of sin. The
battlefield of sexual sins is that of the mind and therefore
as we heed to the call to guard our hearts with all
diligence, we are being delivered from biats that satan
deploys to bring into sexual bondages on daily because
they are very irresponsible with the kind of thought the
entertain in their mimd.

5. Practice Self-Control and Discipline

Friends Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit (Galatians

5:22-23) that needs to be cultivated in our christain walk.
This is because it a key component in breaking the yoke
of sexual immorality. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 urges us to
"abstain from sexual immorality" and to exercise self-
control over our bodies. By submitting our desires to
God's will and aligning our actions with His Word by the
help of the Holy Spirit dwelling in our regenerated
human spirit, we can cultivate the discipline required and
necessary to resist sexual temptations of all forms and
fashions as we lean on the spirit of grace to quicken us
by taking full advantage of the supply of the grace of
God to live out God’s expectations towards out lives as it
is written the Holy Scriptures..

6. Embrac Godly Relationships and Cultivate

Accountability

A crucial aspect of our journey towards sexual purity is

the presence of accountability. Proverbs 27:17 states,
"As iron Sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."
By finding trustworthy individuals who can provide
support, encouragement, and accountability, we create a
network of love and understanding. Through these
relationships, we can share our struggles, seek guidance,
and find the strength to resist sexual immoral
temptations when they arise.

Beloved, in breaking free from sexual immorality

requires one to posses the virtues of humility, meekness
and vulnerability. James 5:16 encourages us to "confess
your sins to each other and pray for each other so that
you may be healed." Seeking accountability from trusted
fellow believers who can provide support, prayer, and
encouragement on your journey toward sexual purity is
not a sign of weakness but a proof of great strength.
Virtues such as meekness and humility are great
weapons of mass liberty to those who are wise enough to
deploy them irrespective of the status quo. Friends
bewared that pride is the bedrock for the falling of any
great destiny! Swallow your overblotted pride and seek
geninue help from people whom the Holy Ghost will
guide your feet to help you gain your total deliverance
from the chains of sexual immorality before what you
are hiding from the gaze of the public declears you a
public scandle! This is because the power of secret sins
like sexual immorality thrives in its secrecy or darkness!

NB: NB: We shouldn't live in denial of the obvious truth

of our struggle. Openness is the virtue that calls for
assistance. Imagine someone battling chronic chest pain,
and he decides not to disclose his pain or symptoms to
the doctor. Such a man can not receive assistance much
less cure for his pain. Likewise, when we come to God
openly accepting our limitation and expressing our
desire for help, he will gladly help us. Openness and
admitting our limitation before God is not a weakness
but strength. It communicates our willingness to start
right with God.

Moreover beloved, in order to sustain your liberty from

the yoke of sexual immorality, you must of necessity
endeavor to Surround yourself with the company of
godly individuals who uplift and inspire you to pursue
sexual purity and righteousness as we are clearly
instructed in the book of Proverbs 13:20 reminds that,
"Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion
of fools suffers harm." Building strong relationships
within a supportive Christian community fosters an
environment conducive to breaking the yoke of sexual
immorality and growing in bearing the fruit of the Holy
Spirit to the glory and praise of God the father.

7. Establishing Boundaries In our Rationships

with the opposite sex:
In recognizing our vulnerabilities, wisdom demands that
we must establish boundaries to protect ourselves from
falling into the sexual immoral traps set by the enemy.
Proverbs 4:23 wisely advises, "Above all else, guard
your heart, for everything you do flows from it." We
must be vigilant in avoiding situations, environments,
and media that may ignite sinful desires. By setting
healthy boundaries, we create a safe space in which our
minds and bodies can flourish in purity.

8. Deploying the culture of prayer always and

fasting often.

Sexual impurity often stems from our lack of self-control

and the indulgence of fleshly desires. Fasting serves as a
powerful tool to discipline the body and train it to submit
to the Spirit (1 Corinthians 9:27). By denying ourselves
physical nourishment, we gain a heightened awareness
of our dependence on God and cultivate the discipline
necessary to resist sexual temptation. Coupled with
prayer, fasting intensifies our spiritual focus, directing
our thoughts and desires toward God's will and away
from sinful distractions. The battle for sexual purity is
ultimately a spiritual battle, as stated in Ephesians 6:12:
"For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but
against the rulers, against the authorities, against the
powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces
of evil in the heavenly realms." Fasting and prayer serve
as powerful weapons in this warfare, as they enable us to
tap into God's supernatural strength and authority.
Through fasting, we weaken the hold of the flesh and the
enemy's influence, while prayer activates God's power to
break strongholds, release healing, and provide
deliverance

Fasting and prayer foster an environment conducive to

spiritual renewal and transformation in our journey
towards gaining total liberty from all forms of sexual
bondgaes. Sustaining the culture of praying always and
fasting often opens our hearts to the Holy Spirit's work,
thus exposing hidden sins and impurities. As we seek
God's face, confess our weaknesses, and surrender our
struggles, He purifies our hearts, cleanses us from
unrighteousness, and empowers us to walk in sexual
purity (Psalm 51:10). Fasting and prayer also cultivate a
deeper intimacy with God, allowing us to experience His
love, grace, and forgiveness in profound ways.

NB: Anything that plagues man has its roots in the realm

beyond the natural. It is therefore prudent that we

outsource direction and strength beyond this cosmos.

The right place help is from God. Sexual immorality is

backed by a spirit that seeks to further pervert the people

of God, therefore , to fight it and win, we must seek

guidance and help from God

In conclusion this chapter, It is obvious that breaking the

yoke of sexual immorality is a challenging but essential
journey for every believer.Therefore dear reader in our
quest to breaking the yoke of sexual immorality it is
imperative to note that it is a transformative journey that
requires humility, reliance on God's strength by the
Suppy of His grace, renewal of the mind, fleeing
temptation, guarding the heart, accountability, self-
control, and godly relationships. By embracing this
biblical template, individuals can find freedom and
restoration in Christ, living lives that honor God in our
bodies and spirits which reflects His holiness. The path
to breaking the yoke of sexual immorality is not easy,
but with God's grace and the power of His Word, victory
over sin is possible, and a life of purity and freedom
awaits those who seek it with all their hearts.
Chapter Six

THE BLESSEDNESS OF EMBRACING SEXUAL

PURITY

In the hallowed pages of Scriptures, amidst the sacred

verses of divine wisdom that illuminate the path of of the
righteousness, lies an unequivocal proclamation of
divine truth that resonates through the ages: "THE
BLESSEDNESS OF EMBRACING SEXUAL
PURITY." This profound chapter delves deep into the
profound blessedness of maintaining sexual purity in our
intimate relationships, drawing upon the timeless
wisdom of the Bible to unravel the kind reward that
awaits those who against the status quo choose to plough
the path of maintaining sanctity and purity with respect
to how the explore the appepitte of sex . A few among
the many blessings of embracing sexual purity as a
lifestyle are briefly examined below.

 Eembracing sexual purity deepens our

rational walk with God.
As we align our lives with His design, we draw closer to
Him and experience His presence in a profound way.
Our hearts become attuned to His voice, and our purpose
becomes clearer. Our fulfillment is no longer dependent
on fleeting pleasures, but on the joy of knowing and
walking in step with our Heavenly Father.
 Embracing sexual purity fosters healthy and
meaningful relationships with others.
When we honor God's plan for sexuality, we build a
foundation of trust, respect, and selflessness within our
relationships. By cultivating emotional intimacy without
the distortion of lust, we learn to appreciate and value
others as whole persons, rather than mere objects of
desire. This leads to deeper connections and lasting
fulfillment in our interactions with others.
 Living a life of sexual purity also protects us
from the devastating consequences of sexual
immorality.
It shields us from the pain of broken relationships, the
guilt of moral compromise, and the physical and
emotional burdens that can accompany sexual
promiscuity. It frees us from the bondage of shame and
regret, allowing us to experience the liberating grace and
forgiveness of God.
 Moreover, embracing sexual purity sets a
powerful example to the world around us.
Friends as we live in a culture that often glorifies
and normalizes sexual immorality, our commitment
to purity stands as a beacon of light,hope and truth
therefore inviting others that have fallen short of the
grace of God in this regard repent sincerely and align
with God’s moral standards which is a life marked
by integrity, and a pursuit of true fulfillment that can
only be found in a deep and vital relationship with
God.
Friend living a life of purpose and fulfillment is
intrinsically connected to embracing sexual purity as the
way. It is a journey that requires strength, discipline, and
the empowering grace of God. As we commit ourselves
to this path, we discover a depth of joy, satisfaction, and
peace that far surpasses all understanding going beyond
any temporary pleasure the world offers. So let us fix our
eyes on Jesus, who is the author and perfecter of our
faith (Hebrews 12:2). Let us surrender our desires, fears,
and struggles to Him, trusting that He will guide us
towards a life of purpose, fulfillment, and sexual purity.
For it is in Him that we find our true identity and
strength to thrive successfully over very form of sexual
temptation.
"In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make
straight your paths." - Proverbs 3:6

As we conclude on this transformative journey into

exploring the blessedness of sexual purity, it is crucial to
reflect upon the profound biblical truths that have guided
us thus far. Throughout this book, we have delved deep
into understanding the mystery of sex form the
perspective of scriptures, God’s ordinances govering sex,
the Biblical consequnences of embracing sexual
immorality as a way of life, the Biblical template of
breaking free from the yoke of sexual immorality and so
on.
The blessedness of sexual purity is a lifelong pursuit and
a journey filled with challenges and triumphs, failures
and victories. It is a calling to embrace the divine order
for enjoying the pleasure of sex which God’s template
by which we can truly honor Him with our bodies and
minds. Through His Word and the power of the Holy
Spirit, we can navigate the complexities of this world
and emerge victorious.

Beloved may this book serve as a constant reminder of

the sacredness of sexual purity, an anchor in times of
temptation, and a source of hope for those who long to
experience the glorious and abundant life that God
promises in His Holy Scriptures. Let us remember
embracing sexual immorality have far-reaching
consequences both individually and corporately.
With hearts ablaze and spirits fortified, let us go forth
into the world, shining the light of sexual purity as a
testimony of God's transforming grace. May our lives be
living testimonies, drawing others to the love and purity
found in Christ alone. As we journey together, let us fix
our eyes on Jesus, the author, and perfecter of our faith,
for in Him, we find the strength to walk this blessed path
of sexual purity. “The path of the righteous is like the
morning sun, shining ever brighter till the full light of
day." - Proverbs 4:18.
Now, armed with sound biblical knowledge and fortified
by faith, we stand at the threshold of a new beginning.
MY PERSONAL TESTIMONY AND
CONCLUDING THOUGHTS