For Men Terrified of Being Average: The Definitive Guide on How to

Build a Social Circle of Heart Stopping Women and Elite Men in 60

Days or Less Without Cold Approaching Ever Again
By Michael Sartain

If you want a scalable and automatic system of meeting high-status men and amazing women,
then this will be the most exciting message you will ever read.

On the same token, if you do cold approach pickup, but want to be in the top 1% of men with a
lifestyle like Dan Bilzerian, then this message can save you hundreds of hours and a great deal
of embarrassment.

Listen, pickup was created because frustrated men saw that elites had incredible friends and
dated classy women which they wanted for themselves. But what started as reasonable
beginnings, quickly morphed into a secretive community of toxicity and far-out fashion which
attracted some… let's say interesting people. It also taught damaging advice that as a net result
has hurt men.

Let me explain.

Men joined pickup to be world-class, but world-class men don’t even know what cold approach
is. Just imagine Drake walking around the mall looking for girls to talk to after he sold 170 million
records.

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Instead of pursuing people to come into their lives, high-status men focus on attracting people
into their lives.

Look at it like this, there’s a wrong method that is secretive and frowned upon and there’s a right
method that has everyone scrambling to meet you.

Wrong method, “I don’t have what I want in life; teach me the shortcut so I can manipulate
people into liking me,” (focusing on what to do and what to have).

Correct method, “I don’t have what I want in life, so I’m going to work on becoming more
attractive so the world will like me,” (focusing on who to be).

Today’s admired, high value men focused on becoming elites, so they could be around elite
women and men. There wasn’t any manipulation or “magic set of steps and words.” They made
themselves valuable to society so intelligent, successful, attractive women and high value men
want to be around them because of who they are.

So it really boils down to this: if you want to have an abundance of outstanding women and
network with elite men, then you need to focus on being high-status.

This doesn’t mean you need to be rich or famous. You can do all of this without knowing anyone
or having a spare dollar to your name.

The point is, to have the best, you have to be the best. It’s that simple.

That’s exactly what this message is all about – unlocking the scientific approach to becoming an
elite man and building a high-status network of stunning women and world-class men in less
than 60 days.

However, this message is not about dating as many women as possible, this is about building
meaningful relationships. This is about creating a network of positive, productive relationships
with successful women, successful men and becoming a high-status person. Once you
understand how to be high-status, dating comes naturally.

A network (or a social circle), is just a collection of your friends. The benefit is that you can
leverage other’s resources to meet new people and add more resources into your social circle.
This creates a system that builds upon itself like a snowball.

The results from this system have been insane and entirely without cold approach or inauthentic
methods of meeting people.

Most importantly, it’s easy to do by anyone, no matter where you’re starting from.

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Meet Justin. Before he started using this system, he only had high school friends and was
meeting average people at clubs. He saw influencers on social media that had an exciting life
and he wanted a piece of it. He knew he needed a change. But, right as that happened Justin
broke six vertebrae in his neck in a horrific car crash.

But that didn’t stop him from taking action. He picked himself
up and within 60 days he built a social circle of incredible
female influencers and
hosted events during
COVID. He kept
compounding his results
and just a year later he
was invited to content
houses such as the Wish
House at Dan Bilzerian’s
old home in Bel-Air, and
now dates a delightful
Instagram model with over 2 million followers.

Recently, Justin networked his way into the P Diddy New

Years Eve Party in Los Angeles where Drake, Justin Beiber,
Lebron James, Jay-Z and 30 other A-list celebrities were
scheduled to make an appearance. The party was so elite
that Justin had to sign a Non-Disclosure Agreement, so
unfortunately he couldn’t tell me the juicy parts.

In addition to his envious social circle, he can leverage his connections to make “$15,000 in just
one contract with six to seven hours of work”.

Justin is now planning to create a content house with other influencers and is getting sponsors
to pay for the project. This is the power of a high status social circle.

Anthony used this system to create a network he could only have dreamed of. Yachts,
helicopters, red carpet events, and parties at millionaire’s mansions are just some of the things
he has access to now. But it wasn’t always like this for Anthony.

At 5’ 3”, balding, and a self-proclaimed introvert, Anthony was

the shy guy growing up. He moved to Los Angeles hoping to
meet high-value men and women, but ended up completely
alone and depressed. He had taken several social dynamics
programs in the past, but none gave him the full picture or the
results he really wanted. He kept trying, but he knew there
must be something more than going to the bar every weekend.

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Through this system, Anthony’s life has radically changed. Instead of going to the dive bar, he is
invited to exclusive events all over LA, including Dan Fleyshman’s Pizza Festival.

But it doesn’t end there, Anthony has hosted dozens of

his own events which garnered him local celebrity
status in Los Angeles. “I'm kind of becoming the hub of
a lot of shit going on in LA,” he says. “It's pretty cool.”

Anthony has grown his Instagram from 0 to 4,000 real

followers in under a year, hangs out with “blue check
marks,” and is in contact with thousands of models that
constantly ask him what he’s doing next.

“Some days I just have to slap myself and be like this is

real”, he says. “Seriously, this has been the best thing
that’s happened in my life”

This is a global system, for anyone, anywhere. Paul is a college student from a small town in
France who was trying everything he could to connect with the top people in his city. He tried
going out to clubs every weekend to meet people but nothing worked.

He assumed that in order to meet the top people in his city, he had to be rich or famous. He had
success with meeting pretty girls but thought it was impossible for him to meet the women that
really excited him because he didn’t feel ‘good enough’.

But, that all changed when he started to use my social

circle strategy. Paul now has a much easier time
meeting people because of his social media and has
been able to network with millionaires.

According to him, Paul’s dating life has dramatically

changed as well. In one instance, he went on a date
with the most beautiful woman he’s ever met and she
asked him if he was a millionaire because of what he
had access to and the network that he created.

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 What’s exciting about this is that Paul is a broke college
student, but was still able to leverage the concepts
taught here to make an exciting life for himself.

Paul now feels like he can give value to anyone. He

receives invites to events with high-level men and
women, has full access to the DJ booth at the top clubs,
and throws world class events all over Europe.

That’s pretty impressive for a full time student.

Who is this for?

This is for YOU if you want to have an abundance of

high-quality women with similar interests and meet them
in an authentic, sustainable and systematic way that
doesn’t consume your life.

If you also care about meeting high status and like-minded successful men then you’re in the
right place.

If you want a system of creating positive relationships with the most sought after women and
men in society, then you’re in the right place.

If you want to feel confident and social, and receive invitations to exclusive events catering to
the best of the best, then you’re in the right place.

If you are not living up to your potential and you’re disappointed with average results and
average people, then stick around.

If you want to find that one amazing girl that makes your heart skip, then stick around.

If you’re afraid of dating beautiful and successful women for fear they’ll cheat on you, then stick
around.

If you’re suspicious of dating products, cold approach, PUA weirdos, and anything else that
might not be authentic to you, then this is for you.

If you feel like you’ll miss out on life if this area isn’t fixed, and with each passing day you
become more devastated with your situation, then this is for you.

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If you’re envious of people with far less intelligence having an abundant lifestyle, and hate
society for telling you the wrong approach to meeting women, then this is for you.

Here’s the truth, you can have an abundance of amazing women and elite connections by
building a powerful social circle and becoming high-status.

However, most men have no idea how to do this because they’re given bad advice from different
self-help gurus and society.

I am the only person dedicated to solving this particular problem for men that want to be
winners.

What this is not about

● Pickup
● Manipulation, persuasion or using people
● A secret community you have to hide from everyone
● One night stands
● Another dating method

Who Am I?

My name is Michael Sartain and I’ve been building and teaching a systematic approach to
networking for the past 20 years.

I don’t say this to brag, but I’ve used this exact system to increase my status which lead me to:
● Build close relationships with top influencers and celebrities with aggregate followings of
200+ million

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 ● Date amazing, jaw dropping women who are way out of my league
● Become friends with a huge array of celebrities, athletes, musical artists, performers,
entrepreneurs, and models
● Become the premier red carpet host for celebrity events and raise millions of dollars for
charity
● Attend some of the top parties in the world such as the Maxim, Ignite, Wish and Playboy
parties
● Host over 50 bikini competitions, including at Wet Republic, which has the largest bikini
competitions in the world
● Use this method to network up the professional ladder to become a millionaire by 29

The Big Secret Society Doesn’t Want You To Know

The crucial element to building an abundant social circle of amazing women is to understand
that humans have socially evolved over tens of thousands of generations. Sex is one of the
main drivers of human pursuit and there are certain “cues” that are given by the males in society
that have the most sex. I can confidently tell you that one of those cues is not daygaming at the
mall.

No matter how good you are at cold approach, you’re

going to be perceived as low status. Women have
associated cold approach with men of lower value.
This is because high-value men do not randomly walk
up to ladies in bars, clubs, or the street.

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There’s a subset of the male population that attracts the most women. These men have one
important characteristic that women respond to. It isn’t physical attraction or wealth. The trait
that women respond to most is social status.

Dr. David Buss, of my alma mater of UT Austin, is the

world’s leading evolutionary psychologist. Buss
specializes in human mating strategies and conflict
between the sexes, among other areas of evolutionary
psychology. Buss has written nine books on
evolutionary psychology; after 43 years of research,
here is what Dr. Buss has to say about status,
“Humans live in a social world in which relative rank
matters for nearly everything — your access to resources, your ability to attract mates, and even
how long you live. From an evolutionary perspective, reproductively relevant resources flow to
those high in status and trickle slowly, if at all, to those lower on the social totem pole.”

In one study conducted by Dr. Buss, published in the Journal of Personality and Social
Psychology, it was found that the highest status males were able to carry out their preferred
mating strategy, whereas the lowest status males were inhibited by their low social ranking.
These results indicate that regardless of the type of dating life you desire, you must attain higher
status. Through status, you can choose your preferred mating strategy; you can have an
abundance of options or one amazing option.

The secret is to focus on being high status. Remember, humans are social creatures and the
most effective way to increase your status is by building an elite social circle.

After successfully building an abundant

social network of celebrities and extremely
desirable women, I’ve discovered three key
areas to rapidly attaining a high level of
social status. I call these the Three Pillars
of High Status which are:

1) Social media
2) Female teammates
3) Exclusive events

Below I outline how you can use these pillars to stop cold approaching and completely change
the way you network with anyone.

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 The Three Pillars of High Status

Pillar One: Social Media

Using social media to meet women is more effective and scalable than cold approach

Cold approach was great in the early 2000s, especially if you had extreme social anxiety or
were a hard case newbie. However, the pickup community has failed to realize that social
circumstances have changed significantly and that cold approach is seen as weird and toxic by
the rest of society.

Guys that use cold approach quickly realize its limitations. Below is a visual on old strategies vs.
new social media strategies.

Old Way Old Result

● Doing cold approach to meet women 1. Huge numbers game
● Brute force approach 2. Uncalibrated
● Walking up to strangers in a bar/club 3. Unsatisfied with the women you meet
● Daygame 4. Must go out consistently to “stay sharp”
● Arithmetic 1+1+1 5. Begins from a place of lack (scarcity)
6. Don’t know how to meet high value
people
7. Out of sync with what the cool kids are
doing
8. Success is slow; start over every time you
go out

New Way New Result

● Using social media to meet women 1. Massively scalable
● Optimized system 2. More response from high value women
● Show your status 3. Much more efficient if you have a busy life
● Demonstrate a cool, fun and interesting 4. “Warm approach” because of your social
lifestyle media presence
● Geometric 2^3 5. Desirable people have a strong, active
social media
6. Logistical access and networking access
7. Your status is portable, it goes where you
go
8. Exponential success that compounds like
a snowball

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Cold approach is great if you have absolutely no social skills and have never spoken with
women. If you’re a hardcase newbie with extreme social anxiety then it's perfect for you. You’ll
get out of your shell, you’ll start meeting women, and you’ll develop some better social skills.

But the more you utilize cold approach, the more you realize how completely inefficient it is. To
start, it doesn’t work with the most desirable women. Smart, attractive women will see that
you’re a phony right away if you start doing some pickup BS. I’m friends with a lot of very
confident, desirable women that get approached by pickup guys all the time. Afterwards, they’ll
tell me about “this super creepy thing that just happened to me”.

This is because you’re fighting an uphill battle from the start. You opened with scarcity.
Remember, women respond to males with the highest status (aka abundance) and daygaming
at the mall is not a high status activity. When you cold approach, you are signaling major
evolutionary indicators that you cannot access scarce resources.

Scarce resources are people, objects,

locations, skills, or information that most
people don’t have. Humans inherently
want to have access to scarce resources.
This is why diamonds are more valuable
than water, even though water is required
to sustain life.

People with access to scarce resources

behave in different ways. This is
demonstrated through behavior,
language, and appearance. Since high value men already have an abundance of women (a
scarce resource) they don’t need cold approach. Just by “striking up a conversation,” you’re
instantaneously seen as low value because high value people never do it.

Homeless people and salesmen randomly walk up to strangers. G-Eazy doesn’t.

This is what makes cold approach such a massive numbers game. Desirable women want high
value men, and you’re seen as low value when you randomly approach. You have to open and
open and open to eventually (hopefully) find something that sticks. Because of this, you’ll be
unsatisfied with the women you meet – they just aren’t the ones that you desire most.

Cold approach is uncalibrated and needy. Uncalled for touching and trying to sleep with every
girl is not what successful guys with abundance do. They do the exact opposite. This is why
pickup is seen as weird by society and why hundreds of pickup artists got deplatformed on
YouTube.

The worst part is, it’s not even your fault! You were just following the advice of people you
thought were getting results.

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Talk to an extremely attractive woman with a boyfriend and ask her how they met. Very rarely
will you hear “he walked up to me in a bar”. Most really attractive women meet their boyfriend
through an introduction from a girl or through social media.

When you have a solid social media profile, you’re showing huge evolutionary signs that you are
a high status male. Having a bad Instagram is incredibly uncalibrated in high level social circles.

The most influential people and desirable women in your

city are on social media. With a proper profile you look very
calibrated and you’ll have a much higher rate of women
responding to your DMs. The best part is that this is
massively scalable.

Based on the quality of your profile, you’re building comfort,

trust, and rapport with everyone that encounters your social
media. The marginal cost of building comfort with one more
girl is zero. One hundred people could see your profile or
one million; your input was exactly the same. This is what
makes this so exciting.

Another drawback of cold approach is that there’s no

system for creating positive male friendships, but this is not
true with social media. As you optimize your social media
presence, both men and women will want to get to know
the guy behind the intriguing profile.

A good analogy for cold approach vs social media is door to door sales and website funnels.
With door to door sales, you go knock doors all day, hope someone answers and if they do you
try to pitch them without a door slamming in your face. That would be cold approach.

However, website funnels drive specific groups to your site – people are coming to you rather
than the other way around. That’s social media. It is highly scalable – a marriage of efficiency
and effectiveness.

But social media is not to be used as another online dating platform. It’s a constituent of a larger
whole called your social circle. To use social media properly, you need to create the “Social
Media Funnel,” which is the driving force of your social circle.

The Social Media Funnel is a system for adding new people, expanding relationships with
current friends, and a means to invite people to real world events.

Social media is used to demonstrate your status in an irrefutable way. It must be absolutely
undeniable that you are a high status person with a cool and interesting lifestyle. The more

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people that see it, the better. When you meet someone, have them follow you on social media
as quickly as possible because your profile will do the heavy lifting more than your words ever
could.

As people begin to follow you, they become inundated with your life. Stories, posts, captions,
etc. all showing that you have access to scarce resources. This entices people to spend time
with you.

Specifically with women, you want to exchange social medias quickly, or DM them through
social media if you haven’t met yet, so she can see what your life is like. She will watch your
stories and see your posts that irrefutably show that you’re a high status guy (Irrefutable Visual
Evidence or IVE). Eventually, when you want to invite her to an event (more on this later), it’s
effortless. It’s like a warm approach.

This can be done on a massive scale. Tens of thousands of people watch my stories and like
my posts. I then invite the people that have been interacting with my profile to an event, and I
usually do this in between rounds of Madden. It couldn’t be easier.

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 Proof on why using social media is better

Do you want to meet the guy on the left, or the guy on the right?

Same person. Same year. Different framing.

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These clips are from Instagrams of guys that have learned this. See how they are showing
access to scarce resources in every frame? That’s EXACTLY what you should be doing.

Social Media Q&A

What if I don’t have a social media profile?

That doesn’t matter. Better to start from scratch then do nothing at all.

What do I post on my social media?

Make posts that show that you have access to scarce resources. This could be anything.
Mansions. Boats. VIP. Attractive Women. Anything in society that is scarce.

Do I need an Instagram like yours to be successful?

No. Absolutely not. I don’t tell anyone to build an Instagram like mine. You should build a social
media profile that is specific to you and your goals.You could have the social media archetype of
the artist, the business owner, the jetsetter, the photographer, the promoter, or anything you
want as long as you are following the principles of a high value social media profile, which is
about showing access to scarce resources. That doesn’t mean your social media needs to be
plastered with girls. There’s many ways to show access to scarce resources.

Do I have to post women on my social media?

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It helps to show preselection. You don’t have to post girls in bikinis or lingerie . If you’re in an
industry where you’d get in trouble, or you don’t want to showcase that, it’s absolutely ok. You
can still leverage social media to meet people even if you don’t post women. Just show access
to other scarce resources.

What kind of social media do I have to make?

You have to make one that is authentic to you and shows access to scarce resources. That’s it.

Does this only work on one social media platform?

No. This is a principle. Status is conveyed through photos and videos. The platform is relative.

What if I don’t like social media and think that it's fake?
Nobody likes social media. I frequently get annoyed with social media. But it’s too damn
effective to not use it. Social media gets the results I want, so I’ll continue to use it. The key is to
be a producer and not a consumer.

What if my job prevents me from showing a lot of things on social media?

You don’t have to show bikinis and lambos for this to work. As long as you show access to
scarce resources, and a cool, fun, interesting lifestyle then you’re good to go. I have taught
doctors, lawyers, and Harvard professors how to use this strategy and it works brilliantly for
them.

What if I don’t know how to take photos or edit them?

I’ve never taken a photography or editing class and I get by just fine. You don’t have to have
magical composition rules and crazy colors. As long as you show access to scarce resources
you’re good to go.

What if I don’t know where to take photos?

It’s simple. Find scarce resources in your city that are authentic to you and take a picture with
them. Google is your friend here.

What if I don’t have anyone to take photos with me?

Many of my photos are taken by random people, or a tripod. It doesn’t matter. Just get the
photo.

Is this just another method of online game?

No. This is not to be used like a dating app, although if you use it like I describe it becomes the
best dating app ever. You use your social media to fuel your social circle, which then fuels your
social media. It’s an upward spiral. If you use it like a dating app then you’re missing the whole
picture.

So instead of cold approaching, I use social media to invite women to events?

Yes and no. The reason why you use social media is because people see your status, which
makes them more attracted to you. Then you can invite them to anything you want. That could

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be a 1-1 date, but that’s not what I recommend . I’ll touch more on events in the 3rd pillar of
status and why they are important.

Do I have to be a photographer?
No. I’m not a photographer and I get by just fine. The photos don’t have to be world class and
have colorful presets. They just need to show access to scarce resources.

Does my profile have to be public?

It will absolutely help, but it doesn’t have to be. If you’re worried about people judging you for
what you have on your profile then read the question above.

What if I don't like social media?

I don’t like social media either. But I love being on top.

Social media is bad when you’re wasting hours of each day consuming content. This is when it
hurts your psyche. But if you’re the producer people are going to be inundated with your life
which makes them want to be a part of it. It’s like having your own personal TV show that people
tune into everyday. There couldn’t be a more effective tool for improving your social life than
social media.

Whether you like it or not, everyone is using it. For your own selfish benefit you need to be on
social media. Girls are going to DM you randomly, high-status guys are going to invite you to
places, and you’re literally going to be in people’s minds all day long. This is how you start
becoming a local celebrity.

Do I have to buy camera gear / equipment?

No. Almost all of my pictures are taken on an iPhone.

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 Pillar Two: Female Teammates
Female teammates will dramatically increase your ability to network with anyone

Changing this one single thing will completely change how people see you for the rest of your
life. In society, women (and the feminine) are very valuable. The Greeks and Romans carved
statues dedicated to them. Wars have been fought over them. Powerful men have built empires
for them. Like it or not, women run the world.

If you can master the art of having female teammates, then you will be able to access anything
you want, meet the most desirable women, and become extremely valuable.

But cold approach has never seen women in this light before, so this might come as a shock to
you. Here’s the breakdown of this.

Old Way Old Result

● Women are the opponent, or the 1. Lack of understanding of female
obstacle psychology
● Uncalibrated physical escalation 2. Any success is in spite of your game
● Binary thinking 3. You’re unappealing to women
4. Poor logistical access
5. Inability to become calibrated

New Way New Result

● See women as a teammate and/or 1. Get invited to everything because you
force multiplier know a lot of women
● Calibration 2. Constant immersion around beautiful
● Nuanced thinking women causes you to become
calibrated and educated
3. Preselection
4. Logistical access
5. Causes desirable women to chase
after you

Over the years I’ve told many pickup artists to start seeing women as teammates and create
genuine friendships with them, and most of the time they look at me as if I’m insane. I
understand this could be confusing to you. Let me explain further.

Cold approach is about “isolating,” “disarming the opponent,” and “burning it to the ground.”. In a
nutshell, the women (and especially her friends) on the other side of a cold approach are the

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enemy. I find this hilarious and upsetting because most guys get into pickup trying to meet more
women but they actively shun every opportunity to do so.

This is the result of Binary Thinking, or as the toxic pickup saying goes, “Blow me or blow me
out.” This causes you to be extremely uncalibrated. Women can sense the moment you meet
them if you’re just another one of the thousands of thirsty guys that want to sleep with them.

To make matters worse, there’s “negs” where PUAs will actively try to make women feel like
shit. It’s horrible. All these terms make it sound like there’s a Machiavellian social war going on
between men and women.

As an effect of this behavior, you likely have

a lack of understanding of true female
psychology, and importantly, any success
with women is despite your game – the girl
liked you before you did any of the weird
pickup shit. But because you continue to do
the weird pickup shit, you become
unappealing to women in general.

Remember, desirable women want high status men. Women don’t want to be around pickup
artists that bark at them and say mean things. Women also don’t want to feel like an object for
men’s sexual gratification. Between seeing women as the opponent, and Binary Thinking there
is a downward spiral of poor behavior with women which leads to even fewer results.

But there’s a solution. Instead of seeing women as the opponent, see women as teammates.
Your female friends will provide more value to you than most male friendships ever could. When
you start creating authentic friendships with women, you start becoming the cool guy that isn’t
creepy. This causes even more women to be around you. In evolutionary psychology, this is
called “Mate Choice Copying,” but I like to call it preselection.

Preselection means just what you think it does – the choice has already been made. It goes like
this: if a male has already been chosen by a desirable woman, then that man must be desirable.
Put another way, women see men as more attractive when that man is around beautiful women.

In a meta study in Adaptive Human Behavior and Physiology, the researchers reviewed 42
studies on the topic of preselection and firmly concluded that, “Women were more likely to rate
male targets as more desirable when presented alongside a female.”

You’ve probably experienced this yourself. How many times have you seen a man with multiple
girls and you think, “What’s special about this guy?”

Think of it like this: a man’s status is contextual, and a woman's status is static.

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If you didn’t know who Drake was when you saw him at Starbucks, he would look like every
other dude. But put him around beautiful girls in VIP and he looks like a king. This is because a
man’s status is inferred based on the environment.

The opposite is true with attractive women. Their status is static, meaning it doesn’t change. If
you see her at Starbucks or the club you’re always going to think that she’s attractive no matter
the environment. This is because a woman’s status is inferred based on her appearance.

For women, their status is “on” all the time, but as a man you have to “prove” your status. I call
this The Law of Contextual Status. As a man, you want to associate yourself with scarce
resources as often as possible, otherwise you look like every dude. This is why social media is
so effective because you can take your status with you everywhere you go.

To put this together, preselection and The Law of Contextual

status go hand in hand. When you’re around women, you
inherently become valuable because of your context. So if you
can be around desirable women by having female teammates,
you will have more status.

This leads people to want to meet you, and it especially leads

to more women wanting to meet you. You have high-status,
and you have preselection so she assumes you must be a
cool guy. This is why high value men have women DMing
them – she’s trying to get on their radar.

But that’s not the only thing that happens when you have
female teammates. Women get invited to literally everything.
They have options all the time. Men, and even other pretty
women, want their attention. By having female teammates, you will, as an extension of them,
get invited to places that you normally can’t go. Importantly, you can actually get in because you
have girls with you opposed to your “wingman.”

It doesn’t stop there though. Because everyone sees that you know a lot of girls, opportunities
will start to come into your life. Men, women, event invites, business opportunities – doesn’t
matter. You have status because you have access to a scarce resource (an abundance of
women) which makes people want to meet you. This couldn’t be a more valuable networking
tool.

However, I want to make this very clear that this isn’t about using women to climb the social
ladder. If you’re being inauthentic, creepy, or manipulative then women will sense it a mile away.
Women are incredibly intuitive, so much more than men. They will know if you’re just trying to
use them. It happens to them all the time. You have to fundamentally care about them and have
empathy.

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This is also what makes this incredibly hard for most men. They just want to “shoot their shot”
the moment they can. I’m telling you to stop this right now.

Instead of trying to pull the trigger with 100% of the girls you meet, try to make genuine
connections with them and feel empathy for their situation. Every single man on earth is
screaming for a women’s sexual attention, so when you do the opposite, they trust you and
choose to be around you. This is why gay men have insanely attractive female friends – there’s
no pressure. Only trust. There’s no “this guy is just trying to sleep with me”.

Here’s what this looks like: in order to have female

teammates you have to remove the pickup mindset of
Binary Thinking (“either she sleeps with me or she’s
garbage”), which moves you into Nuanced Thinking. In
Nuanced Thinking, you start to build empathy for
women, and care about who they are, their goals, and
their struggles. This causes you to become calibrated.

Because you’re becoming calibrated, more women

choose to be around you which allows you to deeply
understand female psychology, and gives you
preselection, which leads to even more women
choosing to be around you because “you just get it”.

Through knowing more women, you’ll get invited to

exclusive events, which causes you to network with
even more desirable women and high status men,
which gives you even more preselection. It’s the start of a dramatic upward spiral where you
can’t comprehend the opportunities that will come to you.

Here is the number one thing you should get from this: The more female teammates you have,
the better your life will be.

If you’re thinking, “this sounds interesting but when do I sleep with them?”, then that’s a perfect
example of Binary Thinking and the core reason you don’t have more women in your life. The
truthful answer to that is when a boy and a girl like each other the natural thing that happens is
sex. It's been like this for millions of years. You are the product of billions of successful
reproductions since the dawn of life. Literally not a single point of failure otherwise you wouldn’t
exist.

Your DNA knows what to do. It's really about doing less work and not getting in the way of your
success. Just be cool and know a lot of girls. Make female friends, meet their friends, date the
girls you like. It really is that simple.

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This doesn’t mean you need to chop off your dick and become celebate. Just don’t pull the
trigger with every girl you meet. Play the longer game, which lets you meet more women, and
higher quality women, while also giving you insane logistical access, high status connections,
empathy, and calibration.

Proof Why Female Teammates Will Completely Change your Life

These clips speak for themselves. If you don’t want to network with a guy like this then re-read
the last section.

Female Teammates Q&A

How do I make female friends?

You make female friends just like you would a male friend. You casually meet. You learn more
about each other. You exchange contact information. Then invite her to places just like you do
when you meet anyone new. You don’t need to over complicate things.

What’s the difference between female friends and female teammates?

It’s the same thing. Over the years I’ve called them “female friends” but this completely explodes
mens’ brains. They get so hung up on the “friends” part of it that they think they need to become
a monk and never be attracted to women again.

I now call them teammates to reduce the confusion. It’s ok to be attracted to women. If you’re a
cool guy then they’re probably attracted to you too. Don’t get tangled up in the words. Just stop

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the Binary Thinking of seeing women like objects and make real friendships with all of them,
then date the women you are attracted to. But don’t force it like pickup artists do.

Do I get to sleep with my female friends?

Whether or not they’re your friends and whether or not you’re sleeping with them have nothing
to do with each other. In reality, several of your female friends will try to sleep with you.

Do you buy things for your female friends?

Not unless I’m feeling particularly generous. Do you buy your male friends something every time
you go out?

Do I need to talk to girls differently to make them my friends?

No, talk to them like normal people. Talk to them like they are your male friends.

How do you become friends with other girls’ friends?

You ask her to introduce you to her friends, and then do the same thing that you do with
everyone else.

What do I do if I’m attracted to one of my female friends?

The point is to immerse yourself with so many female friends that your attraction towards one
doesn’t affect you. If you’re attracted to one of your female friends then you need 100 more
female friends.

Do you pay the girls to hang around you?

Nope. Never have. Never will, when you lead with money, you always have to lead with money.
The moment you pay for a girl, you can never go back. You lose all possibility of making a
genuine connection with them based on your personality. She’s now going to see you as a piggy
bank instead of a possible mate.

I’ve been around thousands of top models and never paid them once. Ever. With the amount of
girls I hang out with I’d have to shell out tens of thousands per week.

Take Dan Bilzerian. A lot of people think that he pays to be around girls, but that’s far from the
truth. When people see guys having success they immediately think they’re cheating, lying, and
manipulating the system. But the truth is, what girl wouldn’t want to hang out with Dan? She’s
going to fly in private jets all over the world, stay in incredible mansions, hang out with other
beautiful girls, and party like the world has never seen. Girls literally beg to hang out with Dan,
not the other way around.

If I’m only making female friends, how do I get laid?

If you think about it, you’ve probably talked to hundreds of girls, but only a small percentage of
them actually end up sleeping with you. If you only date 3 out of 100 girls then what happens to
the other 97? Instead of never seeing them again (and 97 girls thinking you’re weird), why not
focus on making 100 female friends and only date the girls where you have a genuine

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connection with each other? That way you’ll have 100 female friends, plus all of their friends,
which is a huge abundance of girls that think you’re cool and not a weirdo.

It's all about patience and strategy. I use an evolutionary psychology concept called “Mate
Choice Copying” (aka preselection). At the basics it states: If you place a man in two scenarios,
one without girls and one where he is with girls, women will rate the man as more attractive in
the instance where he is around girls. This is because a man’s value is contextual and not static.

As for sex, it’s the natural thing that happens when a boy and a girl like each other. You are the
product of 40,000 generations of successful reproduction. Literally not a single point of failure
otherwise you wouldn’t exist, and there definitely wasn’t pickup thousands of years ago. The
biggest thing is to not get in the way of your own success. Don’t try to force your way in, which
pickup gets so wrong.

So place yourself in environments where you have preselection by having female friends, and
more women will like you. Because more women like you, even more will be attracted to you
and you’ll meet a girl with whom you have genuine attraction for each other. It’s not hard.
Billions of people find romantic relationships all the time without knowing what pickup is.

How do you friendzone girls?

You treat them like your male friends and don’t hit on them.

How do you make it clear to girls you’re just trying to be friends?

You don’t hit on them and call them your friend.

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 Pillar Three: Exclusive Events
Exclusive events are more effective and time efficient than cold approaching in random
venues

Usually when PUAs go out, they go to the club in General Admission (GA) with the tourists, or
they go to local college bars. The strategy then is to open as many people as possible and find
something that sticks. Like I mentioned earlier, this is complete brute force.

A better networking solution is to get exclusive access to the top venues in your city where the
movers and shakers go. From there, focus on meeting a small number of the highest value
people. This is the 80/20 rule of networking. If you want to meet the best people, then you need
to go where the top 20% are, not the bottom 80%.

Here’s the breakdown of this:

Old Way Old Result

● Cold approaching in random venues 1. Low quality
● Daygame in the street 2. Have to ask “Can we get in” at high
● Online dating apps status venues
● “Away game” 3. Surrounded by undesirable drunk
people
4. Lurking around the venue hunting for
girls
5. No VIP access
6. Arithmetic

New Way New Result

● High status logistics 1. Massive social proof
● Exclusive venues 2. Everyone is friendly to you
● VIP access 3. More time efficient
● “Home” game 4. Congregation of the highest value
people in one area
5. Your status continually increases
6. Geometric

When you’re cold approaching in General Admission or at a college bar you’re fighting an uphill
battle. To start, the quality of people is low, and they’re usually obnoxiously drunk. Then to top it
off, you’re lurking around the venue probing for girls to talk to which is insanely creepy. It

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screams scarcity and desperation. Not only is the average quality of people much lower, but
when you do find someone of value, they already see you as low status because you look like
everyone else.

Cold approach in general is an inefficient, arithmetic process. Arithmetic means you have to go
one by one by one. Not only are you meeting lower quality people based on your choice of
venue, but you’re also meeting people in the most inefficient way. This forces you to employ
weird strategies to convince people to stay after the first five minutes of the interaction. This is
why there’s “routines,” “peacocking,” and “opening manifestos.”

No wonder why you have approach anxiety. Your gut knows it's a socially strange activity. The
most desirable women actively avoid getting approached by weirdos – they go out to have fun
not to be creeped out. Ask one of your new female teammates how many times she gets
approached when she goes out. The number will shock you.

But despite these shackles, you continue to cold approach or daygame at random venues
thinking that your lack of results is because of your game. This is where you fall into the trap of
buying a dating course, after dating course, after dating course, expecting a different result from
the same method. Complete insanity.

The most desirable women and high status guys don’t go where pickup artists go. Instead, they
go to exclusive venues where as a pickup artist you’d have to ask, “Can I get in?”

If you want to network with the top people in the city, do

this: get access to exclusive venues, private parties, or
VIP sections. When you’re surrounded by all the cool
kids then you’re building a perpetual motion machine
with geometric results. I call this “Away Game vs Home
Game”.

I don’t mean this in the sense of “Pickup game.” I

literally mean sports games. When you play any sport
on home turf, you have something called “home field
advantage”. You’re in a familiar area, you have the
crowd cheering for you, yet at the same time the crowd
is booing the opposing team. This is EXACTLY what
happens when you get into exclusive venues.

Everyone is going to talk to you, extremely desirable

women are going to be very friendly to you, and
everyone is going to proactively keep the weird people
out. It’s amazing.

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People are friendly and open because your status is assumed. If you’re in an exclusive area,
where the quality of people is high, and you’re not being a weirdo PUA, then you must be cool.
You don’t have to do anything other than exist in that area for people to be intrigued by you.

Coming from a background of “the weight of the interaction is on you” then this might be mind
blowing. Consider this, if you walked into a room that you had to pay $1,000,000 to get into, and
there were 20 strangers in there, would you consider all of them wealthy?

This is the situation with high status venues. People normally have to work hard to gain
entrance (or use the female teammate shortcut like I describe in Pillar 2), and everyone
assumes that you worked equally hard to be there. It’s Operation “Just-Be-Cool”. The harder
you try, the more you look like someone who isn’t supposed to be there.

This leads to powerful networking. Because the weirdos are out, everyone you care about
meeting is congregated in one location. Extremely desirable women, business owners, etc. The
women are some of the most vibrant in the city, and the men are usually successful and have
their shit together.

You can attend an exclusive event once a month and batch all of your networking, making this
extremely time efficient. Events, like social media, are scalable. The marginal cost of meeting
another person at an event is almost zero. If you have a busy life then this is going to make
networking a lot easier, instead of having to go out four nights a week to “stay sharp”.

I use the vague word of “events” so people don’t get hung

up on a particular activity. It could be parties, charity
events, photoshoots, brunches, dinners, club outings,
game night; they could be 4 people or it could be 400. It
doesn’t matter. The important thing is that the event is
doing the work for you, and you’re networking with
valuable people.

The goal is to do less work by doing efficient work. Events

allow you to control the environment and allow status to be
inferred because of the law of contextual status (you’re in
a high value environment so you must be high status).

The event also doesn't need to be your own, it can be

someone else’s and that's what I recommend to start. If
you want to host your own event later, that’s fine, but first
you need to bring six of your female teammates to someone else’s event.

Another important thing to note is this isn’t supposed to be “lead gen” for your dating life.
Otherwise you’ll go back to the arithmetic process of 1 + 1 + 1 because people will see that
you’re just a thirsty guy. Remember, men with abundance aren't thirsty.

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Make this a geometric process. Meeting one person (including women) should mean you meet
many. Play a longer game and I promise the quality of your dating life will sky rocket to elite
levels.

Instead of trying to hit a home run, you focus on people collecting, exchanging social medias
with everyone and meet the guests people have brought. Then set up times to meet in the
future. This is called “driving through people’s networks” which creates a networking snowball
quickly and efficiently.

Proof Why Exclusive Events Is Where You Should Network

Badass people go to badass places. If you want to meet badass people then go to badass
places. It’s that simple.

Exclusive Events Q&A

Do I have to throw my own events?

No. I suggest you go to someone else’s events until you get the feel of how it works, and can
bring six of your female teammates to one event.

What if I don’t know where to find these events?

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That’s why you need to make female teammates first, and when you do, ask them. They know.

How do I access the events if they’re exclusive?

Go with your female teammates. Women get into everything.

How often do you have to talk to the people you meet to keep the relationship going?
You don’t. This is what social media is for.

I’m confused on what events are, can you explain it further?

I use this “events” word loosely. It really just means “collecting the people you want into a
location you can control”. This gives you status and leverage. You could invite people to your
house, a bar, a club, or the park as long as you have a small degree of control or social proof in
that environment.

Events do not have to be massive list parties, charity events or photoshoots. They can be as
small or large as you like. They also don’t even need to be yours. You can do all of this using
someone else’s events.

How often should I do events?

Depends on the kind of event you’re talking about. There’s micro and macro events. Big and
small. Smaller events are used to meet people quickly and more frequently as it’s easy to set up
and a low pressure environment. Think like brunches and dinners.

Macro events or bigger events are usually every other month. These are big parties,
photoshoots, or charity events for example but it depends on the route you want to take. This is
where you meet lots of people and use the smaller events to promote the big events.

What if I don't want to throw events?

I use this event's word very loosely. If it helps you think of it differently, use the word “gathering”.
It can literally be anything. Outing to a baseball game, poker night, a thousand person seminar
or a three person dinner. The only thing that matters is that it shows you as high status. It also
makes it easier to invite people to something when you say “My friends and I”, or “a group of
us”. If you want to continue to cold approach in GA then that’s fine – keep wasting your time
wondering why you’re not getting results.

What if I don’t want to be a host?

You don’t have to. The first step is to assist or attend someone else’s event. Only then should
you consider hosting your own events.

Do I have to pay for the dinners / brunch / events?

No. If you frame it properly by letting people know that it’s a group event, then most people
understand that they will be paying for themselves. Set clear expectations.

Do I pay for the girls at events?

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No. Just like you don’t pay your male friends it's the same thing when you make genuine female
friendships. They show up because they’re friends with you.

Also, for most events, you’ll be inviting girls to something they’re already going to or events they
would love to be a part of.

What makes girls want to come out to the things you’re inviting them to?
You have to have the Bigger Better Deal (BBD). If you’re trying to invite girls to a house party
but Drake is playing that night, then you’re going to get shut down. Either have the Bigger Better
Deal of the night or be the only Bigger Better Deal.

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 Putting This All Together

This is the start of what I call the social avalanche. It’s not a “snowball”, because it grows way
too rapidly and becomes much too powerful.

Here’s how this all ties together:

1) Improve your social media
2) Increase your network by including female teammates
3) Attend exclusive events with your female teammates
4) Meet more high value men and women at events
5) Add these people to your social media funnel
6) Repeat these steps

Preselection + Social Media Funnel + Exclusive Events = High Status Social Circle

You can see how this grows on itself. You attend exclusive events where you meet new people
and create a better social media presence, which gives you more preselection, which allows you
to meet more women, which allows you to attend more events, and so on…

This is how to build an abundant social circle of desirable women and high status men in less
than 60 days.

Now there are a few ways to achieve this:

Option one is to cold approach using this method, however:

● Cold approach will always be seen as an exceptionally low status activity.
● It would still be an inefficient use of your time.
● If you want to be in the top 1%, then you need to do what they do, which is point and
laugh at people who cold approach.

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Another option is to figure it out on your own, but that would:
● Take you decades to figure out, like it did me.
● Leave you stuck until you crack the code.
● Frustrate you even further.

Or learn from the best, me. I have the breadth and depth of education, experience, and boots on
the ground knowledge to teach you to attract extremely desirable women, interact in high level
social circles, and most importantly, to increase your social status.

Again, this is for winners that want to have a scalable system of meeting the most outstanding,
and jaw dropping women without cold approaching, and also network with other elite people.

Does This Actually Work?

Yes it does. It’s undeniable how effective my techniques are. Check out these results from my
customers.

Mossab - Texas

Mossab was focused on cold approach to meet women which had him
banging his head against the wall due to poor outcomes and time
commitment. But within 60 days of using this method he was able to attend
several noteworthy events where he made authentic connections with the
incredible women he was searching for.

“I was going out and then as soon as those

two events happened, it was just smooth sailing,” said Mossab, “It
was just day and night before and after.”

You can watch the full case study of Mossab here.

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Adam - Las Vegas / Los Angeles

While stationed overseas, Adam was focused on cold approaching

in dive bars. He was sick of going out all the time with no sign of
upward growth.

He implemented the Pillars of Status

and within 90 days was able to utilize
social media to meet people and
attend exclusive events. At the events
he connected with extremely desirable
women and also made the positive
male friendships that helped him
grow.

“Dare I say, other than joining the military, this is probably the most
life-changing thing I've done personally. There's nothing else that
I've done that's had the same impact.”

You can watch the full case study of Adam here.

John - London

John tried many different methods of socializing with high value

people, but couldn’t quite put the pieces together. He was getting
results, but he wasn’t completely satisfied, and didn’t feel he was
being authentic..

In just 3 months, John was able to

use this method to attend “event,
after event, after event,” which
broadened his social circle and
enabled him to interact with more
people that he wanted to start mixing
with.

“We started putting [events] up on our social media, and the

responses we got were incredible. The people who were in our
DM's, the people who were coming back to us, the following we
were getting. It was amazing.”

You can watch the full case study of John here.

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Jonnie - Rural Washington Farm Town

At the age of 47, Jonnie moved to a small rural town in Eastern

Washington. He had a hard time building a new social circle in his
rural community with cold
approach. To top it off, he’s also a
grandfather.

Within a month of learning my

strategy, he threw a 60 person
house party in the middle of “the
middle of nowhere”. Shortly after,
he networked with a boat owner and started to throw parties
there. Jonnie started throwing so many parties that he
became known as the “Dan Bilzerian'' of his town. I see it. It’s
kind of hard to tell them apart.

You can watch the full case study of Jonnie here.

Here’s what is going to happen when you do this

● You will meet the most desirable women in your city within 30 days
● You will create “growth-centered”, positive male friendships with the movers and shakers
in your city.
● You can finally get rid of cold approach and pickup.
● You can forget about feeling like you’re stuck at “average” and not having an abundance
of incredible relationships.
● You will feel confident and high-status forever because I will teach you science-backed,
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 ○ Before, when you wanted to meet women, you would have to cold approach
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5. Red-rope Protocol: Events Phase
○ Before, you would have to ask “Can I get in” to high status venues. But after I
show you how to attend the most exclusive events in your city you’ll be able to
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Is the course taught by anyone else?
How long are the Live Trainings?
How many people join the Live Trainings?
What will my week look like in the program?
Do I have to throw photoshoots?
What if everything is closed because of COVID?
What if I don't have any friends right now?

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Does this work for business networking?
How do I meet high value guys with this method?
Can I still cold approach?
Is there homework?
Is this just another digital course?
How hard do I have to work for this?
How long do I have access to the program?
Do I get direct access to Michael / Does he offer private coaching?
What if I really like the pickup shit and want to continue doing it?
Still have questions?
I was burned and ripped off by another social circle mentor in the past. How do I know this is
going to be different?

How do I know you are legit?

Over 400 people have joined Men of Action. There’s over 50 video testimonials on my website,
and hundreds of testimonial screenshots of success. We have free Discord and Facebook
groups where you can ask other people about their experiences.

Will this work for me if I’m in [country]?

Yes. This works anywhere in the world, except North Korea. This is about raising your status
and building an abundant social circle. So as long as you’re around humans as opposed to
goats and chickens this will work.

We have members in the USA, Canada, Mexico, Costa Rica, Panama, Colombia, Brazil, UK,
Scotland, Ireland, Portugal, Spain, France, Germany, Netherlands, Italy, Denmark, Sweden,
Switzerland, Hong Kong, South Korea, Singapore, Taiwan, Thailand, Dubai, Australia, India,
Pakistan.

What does a “Ridiculous Success Obligation” mean?

Think of it like a guarantee. I call it an “obligation” because I mean what I say: I am going to
build you a high status social circle or else you don’t pay, and I will continue to work with you
until you build one.

There’s absolutely no chance of you not achieving your goals. That’s how serious I am about
your success.

What are the terms of the “Ridiculous Success Obligation”?

If you follow the steps laid out in the program and you don’t build a social circle, then you won’t
pay for the remainder of the program, and I will continue to work with you until you build a social
circle.

How long is the program / what is the time commitment / How many hours each week will the
program take?

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The program was originally designed to be a 12-week, 90-day course, but on average it takes
longer to complete. This is a long term approach to gaining exponential results so it doesn’t
happen overnight.

As for the time commitment I recommend four to five hours a week, so about 30 minutes a day.
It shouldn’t be something that takes up all your time. Obviously you can go as crazy as you
want, but most of the time this is the average I see for people to start seeing results.

How long before I can expect results?

From having over 300 customers go through the program and 2 and a half years of daily
coaching, the average timeline I see from start to results is about 30 to 60 days. It depends on
how fast or slow you want to take things. We’ve had customers see massive results in 14 days
and others that take more time. But the exact steps are there; you just need to determine how
fast you want to go.

What if I’d rather focus on business right now?

You’ve heard the saying “Your network is your net worth” right? One of the biggest reasons why
I made a million dollars before my thirties was because of my ability to network. The only reason
why I work at an options brokerage is because of my ability to network.

Your ability to network is your business. The doors you’ll open by meeting other entrepreneurs is
incredible. Everyone on my team was from my network first.

There’s just no comparison. Focus on business of course, but build a network to help facilitate
that.

What if this isn’t a good time?

There’s never going to be a good time. Trust me. It’s always going to be scary to jump into
something new. The alternative is to keep doing what you’re doing and have subpar results.

Or you can buckle down and start ramping up to a high-status social circle and never have to
worry about this again.

What if I want to wait because when I do something I put all of my focus and effort into it?
Waiting any longer is going to force you to continue having the results you have right now. This
isn’t something that’s going to take 16 hours a day for a year straight to accomplish. You’ll see
results in 30 to 60 days if you follow the protocol.

There’s Harvard Professors that take this program while managing research and teaching. It’s
not difficult.

Do you have to be rich for this to work?

Definitely not. I’ve had dozens of customers see massive success and they’re just above the
poverty line.

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It’s not about paying your way into things. This is about learning the social skills needed to build
actual networks.

Girls don’t care if you have money. The actual object of money isn't what girls are attracted to.
What girls want is the lifestyle that money brings. So you can shortcut this by using social skills
to create an abundant lifestyle. And then you show that with social media to massively reduce
the amount of work you need to do.

Do you have to be famous for this to work?

No you don’t need to be famous or wealthy for this to work.

Girls just want the lifestyle that wealth and fame bring. Girls are not physically attracted to large
amounts of currency on a screen or follower count. But they are attracted to that lifestyle of the
rich and famous.

So you can use this as a cheat code. By using the social skills I teach you, you can create an
abundant lifestyle by using other people’s resources and value arbitrage. You don’t need to
have any extra money other than the investment into the course.

What if I’m an introvert?

Most of our customers are introverts. But that’s the beauty about social circles: you can set it up
exactly how you want. It doesn’t matter if you're introvert or extrovert because you’re building
something that suits your lifestyle.

Some people want to go to the club every weekend, and I have some customers who only do
Yoga retreats for their events every few months. As long as you are following the framework you
can set this up however you want. You don't have to go out to the bar every night to meet
people.

Do I have to lose sleep for this?

Not if you don’t want to. The point about all of this is setting your social circle up to revolve
around your life, not for you to revolve around it. If you don’t want to go to the club and stay up
all night then you don’t have to. There’s many other things you can do, such as brunch or
dinners for example.

What if I’m a business owner?

That’s great. This won't take away from that and will only help you network with more
high-quality people. If you’re worried this is going to take all your time, then read the question
below.

What if I don't have any specific goals yet?

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That’s completely fine. That’s why the first step is defining your goals. I am going to teach you
how to exactly define your goals, and teach you how to reverse engineer them so you know
what steps to take.

What if I have a busy life?

Of course you do. If you’re a high value person then you’ll naturally have a busy life. I have an
extremely busy life too. Between managing a successful business, a successful podcast,
hosting hundreds of events, and my cats, I’m booked full.

But if I were to do any other method of networking then I’d have even less time. This method is
SPECIFICALLY for busy people because I’m incredibly busy. I was forced to create it like this.

In the beginning, it will take you about four to five hours a week to get things set up. From there,
things start becoming automatic and you don’t have to put so much time into things. I spend no
time at all planning events, and I go out six to seven times a week. I just get invited everywhere.

What if my career takes a lot of my time?

Read the answer above.

What if I'm not ready to do this yet?

I totally understand that feeling, I was there too once. But you’re right – you probably don’t feel
ready to improve your life. But have you ever felt ready?

If you look back on your life I bet you can see how fast decisions were made. Opportunities
come and go quickly which is why it's important to capitalize on them quickly. I can truthfully tell
you that you will never feel ready to improve your life. That’s why you just need to take the leap
of faith and jump in.

Will I actually meet the girls I’m interested in if I join the program?
84% of relationships come from your social circle. You’re more likely to meet the woman of your
dreams implementing my system than any other way.

The higher status you become, the more exclusive events you attend, the higher quality of
women you’ll meet. One thing I tell people is, “usually, the issue isn’t your ability, it's your lack of
access to high caliber girls.”

I’ve done other programs in the past that promise big results but never quite deliver. How is this
different?
I’ve been doing this for over 15 years and everything I teach is exactly what I do. More
importantly, the 300+ customers around the world, from all different backgrounds and ages,
have been able to produce similar results and completely transform their social circle.

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I also have a legal obligation to your success. It’s called my Ridiculous Success Obligation: If
you don’t build a high status social circle with amazing women, then YOU DON’T PAY, and I will
continue to work with you UNTIL YOU ACCOMPLISH YOUR GOAL.

But don’t just take my word for it, hear what customers have to say and the results they were
able to achieve here.

Is this just another dating/pickup course?

No this isn’t a dating course. It's a course on how to build a social circle and be of higher status.
However, you will have a better dating life as a byproduct of this. All of our case studies have
said so (there’s over 50).

Is this another self-help course?

This isn’t a “self” help course. I’m right in the trenches with you so you’re not alone. This also
isn't a self-help, feel good and cry about it course. It's a course on how to build a social circle
and be of higher status.

Is this just videos and mentoring calls like everything else?

No. There’s modules and mentoring calls yes, but a lot of this is Done-for-you, and
Done-with-you. Read the offer again.

Do I have to go to clubs for this to work?

No. I like the clubs because I live in Vegas and it's the best city in the world for nightclubs.

There’s a lot of other ways to meet people and going to clubs doesn’t have to be a part of it. I
teach you how to use social media to meet people and then you can do any kind of event that is
authentic to you.

What if I live in a small town / I don't live in a big city?

No. You can do this wherever you’re at. I get this question a lot and I have a lot of customers
that don’t live in major cities. Here’s one of our case studies, Jonnie:

Jonnie lives in a town of 14,000 people. It’s in the middle of the middle of nowhere. Even with
those circumstances he’s still able to build an impressive social circle for himself.

He can do this because what I teach you isn’t based on some trick or a tactic that’s only for the
United States and large cities. This works because I teach you the science of evolutionary
psychology and social media, which is available with one person or 10,000,000.

Does my age matter?

No. I have customers that are in high school and some that are retired. All of them saw results.

Can I do this in college?

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I wish I had learned this in college. The whole environment is a social circle. Just think about it:
everyone wants to party, everyone is looking for new friends, you’re surrounded by girls, and the
stakes are so low.

Do I need money for this?

Generally no, but you can if you want. I will tell you first to build a social circle using the skills I
teach because then you don’t come off as the “money guy”. You can never go back from that.

I’ve never bought my way into a social circle because I focus on providing value instead. In the
long run this is the most effective approach because there’s so many ways of providing value.
That’s all money really is: a storage of value. So if you can find what people want WITH the
money and you provide that value instead WITHOUT money you’ll become massively valuable.
This is called finding primary driver emotions and value arbitrage.

Do you have any members in my city/country?

I have customers all over the world. Hot spots are in red. I even have a database of which city
customers are in (opt-in only). This makes connecting with other men in the community easy so
you can hit the ground running.

America North / South Europe Asia

America

Las Vegas North UK, London Singapore

Los Angeles Montreal France Thailand
Austin, TX Toronto Spain Dubai
Seattle Vancouver Portugal Sydney
Orange county Mexico City Germany Melbourne
Nashville Netherlands India
Dallas South Italy Hong Kong
Medellin Denmark Seoul
San Antonio
Florianopolis Taiwan
Houston Sweden
São Paulo
Phoenix Switzerland
Miami
Tampa
Atlanta
DC
Philadelphia
Pittsburg
New York
Chicago
San Francisco
San Diego

Is this just an event throwing course?

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Yes and no. You can throw as many, or as few events as you would like.

The thing that works massively is status. So you want to do anything that raises your status.
Exclusive events are highly leveraged items for that.

The reason I cover events is because it’s one of the most efficient ways to meet a lot of
high-status men and women in a short amount of time, in one location.

Do I already need to have connections or access to scarce resources (mansions, yachts, etc)?
No. I teach you how to do that using value arbitrage.

Does this only work on Instagram / do you teach any other social media platforms besides
Instagram ?
Yes. This is about teaching you principles, not hacks. This method will work on any social media
platform that exists now, and in the future. Instagram is just the most effective platform right
now.

Is the course taught by anyone else?

The course is taught by me. I’ll be answering most of your questions. There are other assistants
to help you get your questions answered the fastest.

How long are the Live Trainings?

They are scheduled for an hour but usually go longer since my number one rule for these calls
is, “I keep going until every single f$&king question is answered”. The record for the longest call
is currently 8 hours long.

How many people join the Live Trainings?

It varies. It can range from 5 people to 40. On some of the bigger calls when I bring on female
influencers more people tend to join so they can ask questions to them.

On average I would say there’s 15 to 25 people on the calls. But not all of them have questions.

What will my week look like in the program?

To start you’ll go through the digital protocol and go through the modules and complete the
action steps. From there you'll join either of the live calls and ask specific questions related to
your situation. From there it's just following the steps lined out in the program. Every week is
different but you’ll have guides to direct you.

Do I have to throw photoshoots?

No. The reason why you see that in some of the case studies is because during COVID the only
high leverage activity during the lockdown was to throw photoshoots.

You can literally do any kind of event. You can do brunch, dinners, club nights, parties, board
games, poker night, zoom meetups, etc.

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What if everything is closed because of COVID?
It doesn’t matter. Our customers were still able to create social circles during the pandemic, and
they were better than before. People still wanted to have fun and meet people. Our customers
were able to attend and put together exclusive events despite the world being shut down and
show people a good time.

The good news is that COVID is over in most of the world and I’m sure your city isn’t far behind.
You can use this situation to your advantage and provide value where people are looking for it.

What if I don't have any friends right now?

That’s a good thing. The reason why is because you’re not going to have anyone slow you
down. This isn’t reliant on you knowing anyone. I teach you the exact steps with an easy to
follow framework for making friends no matter where you are.

Does this work for business networking?

Absolutely. This isn’t just for meeting high-quality women. You’ll be able to take these skills and
easily be able to network with business people.

Status is status is status. So no matter who is in front of you, when you have status they know it.

How do I meet high value guys with this method?

By going to exclusive events where high value guys are.

Can I still cold approach?

Sure. It’s not that cold approach is useless. Its a good skill to be able to walk up to people and
strike a conversation. When cold approach goes bad is when you start doing pickup shit.

If you’re going to continue to cold approach, then cold approach for your social circle. Don’t be
weird. Make female friends. Go to events.

Is there homework?
Yes. You will have action items to complete.

Is this just another digital course?

There’s a digital course portion of the program but it’s mainly a done-with-you system. You’re
not going to be alone doing this.

You’ll have over 100+ mentoring calls with me and access to a mastermind community of 300+
men all holding you accountable and providing you support.

How hard do I have to work for this?

If you don’t want to do any work then please don’t join at all. It’s called Men of Action for a
reason. However this shouldn’t take more than four to five hours a week when first starting out.

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Like a snowball, once you first build it and generate initial momentum, it grows rapidly on its
own.

How long do I have access to the program?

Depending on the tier you choose, you’ll have 6-month, 1 year, or indefinite access.

Do I get direct access to Michael / Does he offer private coaching?

Yes. Ask about it on your strategy call.

What if I really like the pickup shit and want to continue doing it?
Then you do not belong here. Stop reading this immediately and go watch infield.

I was burned and ripped off by another social circle mentor in the past. How do I know this is
going to be different?
I know it sucks to get ripped off. But you’re not alone, many other people have been ripped off
by who you speak of. Here’s exactly why this is different. I have:

● Over 300 happy customers

● Ridiculous Success Obligation to You (either you build a social circle or you don’t pay)
● 50 video testimonials
● Discord and Facebook Groups with over 4000 people
● An actual Instagram profile
● And a real company

Still have questions?

Then book a call below with myself or my team and we’ll answer them in depth

Take the Men of Action Quiz here

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