Resource Manual Final 9 2015
Resource Manual Final 9 2015
MEN'S MINISTRIES
RESOURCE
INFORMATION
MANUAL
Forward
"Come, follow me…and I will make you fishers of men." (Mark 1:17).
They probably thought it would be an ordinary day. "Life as usual" was no doubt
their feeling as they cast their nets into the sea. But, O, how Jesus changed that
ordinary day into an extraordinary one for Simon and Andrew!
Jesus invited the two brothers to join Him: "Come follow me, and I will make you
fishers of men." The magnetic personality of this Man drew them to follow. And their
lives would never be the same.
How could Simon, Andrew, James, and John realize what lay ahead? Their lives
would become an adventure, a drama of unbelievable miracles, profound instruction, and
unparalleled insight into the kingdom of God. They responded willingly to the challenge
to follow Jesus. They would never be the same again.
The Lord also invites you into the world of fishing for men. The Master has called
and you have responded. Like those apostles, you may not realize the dynamic of the
adventure lying ahead of you. But rest assured, as long as you stay close to Jesus,
unbelievable things can happen.
Since the end of World War II, the body of Christ has focused largely on ministry
to children, youth and women. Unwittingly, we have lost a generation of men to the
cause of Christ and the church. It's time for Christian men to assist their pastors in
reaching, educating, discipling, maturing, equipping and releasing men into ministry.
This manual, the Men's Ministries Resource Information Manual, will assist you
with Men's Ministries and your role as a leader. This manual is designed to spark a
creative flame in your life. Whatever your role in men's work, now or in the future, you
will benefit from your study of this manual.
Bill Terry
Director of Men's Ministries
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MEN'S MINISTRIES
RESOURCE INFORMATION MANUAL
TABLE OF CONTENTS
SECTION I INTRODUCTION
MEETINGS
Regular Monthly Meetings
Planning the Meeting
BUSINESS MEETINGS
Election of Officers
Yearly Planning Meeting
SPECIAL MEETINGS
MEN OF ACTION
FRIENDSHIP EVANGELISM
REACH 3
DISCIPLESHIP TRAINING
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SECTION IV OPPORTUNITIES IN MEN MINISTRIES
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SECTION VI FORMS
RIM - 01, TOPICS FOR MEN'S MINISTRIES MEETINGS FORM
RIM - 02, ANNUAL REPORT FORM
RIM - 03, OPPORTUNITIES IN MEN’S MINISTRIES SELECTION FORM
RIM - 04, MEN'S MINISTRIES PROGRAM PLANNING GUIDE
RIM - 05, MEN'S MINISTRIES IDEA CALENDAR
RIM - 06, MEN OF ACTION SURVEY FORM
RIM - 07, MEN OF ACTION PROJECT CHECK LIST
RIM - 08, OPPORTUNITIES FOR SERVICE FORM
RIM - 09, MAILING LIST
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INTRODUCTION
MEN'S MINISTRIES
Two Worlds
Purpose, Mission, and Goals
Chapter Organization
Characteristics of an Effective Men's
Ministry
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HOW TO USE THIS MANUAL
Men's Ministries does not just happen. It takes prayer, planning, time,
passion, and the anointing of the Holy Spirit.
With all the competition for men's time, it is imperative that men be
able to address their spiritual dimension. We know this should be a priority
for all of us. However, with TV, Monday night football, school meetings,
civic, professional, social, political, and recreational events, we find our
spare time at a premium, and often, the things of God are either off the
stove all together or at least on the back burner.
The success of our efforts will be measured by how well we can meet
the needs of the men in our group and how they, in turn, can minister to the
needs of others.
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MONTHLY MEETINGS AND EVENTS
The heartbeat of the Men's Ministries is the monthly meeting where
men can have fellowship, learn from God's Word, and reach out to others.
Not all of these aspects will come together right away as it takes time for
men to feel comfortable in these types of settings. The key is consistency.
Have regular meetings and don't worry about every one of them being
entertaining or exciting. Don't get into a situation where you think the
success of the meeting is just one person's responsibility.
In Section VI, a Topic Survey Form (RIM-01), has been prepared for
duplication. This form will help you determine what topics the men feel are
important for discussion in the monthly meetings. Duplicate this form; pass
it out to every man in the group. Have the men fill out the form and turn it
in at the meeting. It does not take men long to indicate their interest.
Details for the "a good monthly meeting" are also in Section II.
Note:
The Men of Action Manual, Royal Ranger Sponsorship Manual, and the
Pastor's Prayer Partners Manual (Foundational Ministries) may be purchased
from the Office of Men's Ministries. They are also included on the computer
disk enclosed in this manual. Friendship Evangelism and Reach 3 materials
may be purchased from LifeSprings Resources, PO Box 9, Franklin Springs,
Georgia 30639-0009, Phone: (800) 541-1376, Fax (706)245-5488,
or www.lifespirngs.net.
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CONDUCT MINISTRY OPPORTUNITIES SURVEY
Now that you have explored the interest of the men as far as meeting
topics are concerned, it is just as important that you find out their ministry
interests. In Section IV there is a list of 35 different ministry opportunities in
which your men can participate.
Now, you're ready! You know the interests of the men and their
burdens for the ministry.
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PROMOTE ACTIVITIES
Men's Ministries activities should be promoted in the local church and
in some cases in the community. Obviously, some meetings and events will
lend themselves to outside attendance. Because of all the claims made on
our time, it is important that we let people know what we are planning so
they will respond accordingly.
Section V deals with the ways to promote and maintain a high interest
level in your Men's Ministry.
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MEN'S MINISTRIES
Two Worlds
Christian men live in two worlds: one sacred, the other secular. The
sacred world usually takes place on Sunday and during a mid-week service.
The fellowship, worship, teaching, and hearing of the Word have an effect
on us that is reassuring and brings about a certain peace and order to our
lives.
The problem is that Monday arrives and forces us into that secular
world where peace, order and assurance are not always present; in fact, it is
very seldom the case. Other than a mid-week break, that secular world,
with its pressures and deadlines, will be with us for at least five more days.
That one unaccounted day for many of us is reserved as a "honey do" day.
(Married men will know what we mean by this.)
Co-authors Gary Smalley and John Trent in their book The Hidden
Value of a Man refer to this situation as the man having two swords, one
silver and one gold. The silver (secular) is used more but is not as valuable
as the gold (spiritual), so most of us become proficient in our jobs but not in
the more important areas such as our relationship to God.
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PURPOSE, MISSION, AND GOALS
Men's Ministries groups provide a great way to reach other men who
are caught up in the secular aspect of life and need to be introduced to the
spiritual realm. Monthly meetings, covering a wide spectrum of interests,
can be presented in a very positive way. Meetings that feature interesting
guest speakers (with or without a spiritual message) are best. Other meeting
ideas include outreach and community projects, social gatherings, sports
events, father/son events, and video presentations. There are many
resources which are great "entry doors" to introduce men to the balance
between the secular and the spiritual worlds.
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Purpose
Mission Statement
"Together, we will help our local church present every man in our
community with a credible offer of the Gospel, encourage them to pursue
God, and equip them for spiritual service in the home, church, workplace,
community, and world."
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Goals
Each year, in coordination with your pastor, develop the goals for your
chapter for that year. The following would be an example of a chapter's
annual goals:
Your Strategy
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Essentials for Establishing Goals
a. Who am I?
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The Benefits of Goal Setting
CHAPTER ORGANIZATION
Local
1. Officers
a. The officers of the local chapter shall be elected/re-
elected, or appointed by the pastor, annually in
November, and installed in January.
b. The local chapter committee shall consist of a president,
vice-president, and a secretary/treasurer.
c. All nominees for local chapter officers must be members
of the local church and subject to approval by the pastor.
2. Membership
Membership of the local chapter shall consist of men who are
members of the local Pentecostal Holiness Church and others
who are in harmony with the Pentecostal Holiness Church and
the Statement of Purpose of Men’s Ministries International.
3. Meetings
Chapter meetings are recommended to be held at least monthly.
The local officers and any committees organized within the
scope of Men’s Ministries shall meet as often as deemed
necessary.
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4. Focus and Service
The principal areas of focus and service of the local chapter
committee will be:
a. To function as servants called by Christ in the
community, the conference and the world;
b. To become, under the pastor’s direction, a ministry of the
local church and community;
c. To plan, promote and conduct regular meetings of the
chapter;
d. To assist the conference and denomination in ministry
projects;
e. To promote the implementation of the Statement of
Purpose for the Men’s Ministries into the local chapter
programs;
f. Disciple godly men...soul-winners.
A. Chapter Director
5. Inform the pastor of, and coordinate with him, all chapter
activities.
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B. Assistant Director
C. Secretary/Treasurer
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It shall be his duty to:
F. Chaplain
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3. To promote prayer in the local chapter and to schedule
times for regular prayer meetings.
1. Recruit and involve several men (of all ages) to assist him
in the effective planning and execution of fund raising
events and projects to support the local chapter
ministries.
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I. Visitation Chairman
J. Prison
K. Membership Chairman
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2. Select a committee of men to assist you in accomplishing
these responsibilities.
L. Publicity Chairman
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3. Work with the committee, the president, and the pastor
to develop and implement foreign missions projects and
trips. Coordinate activities in the church.
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CHARACTERISTICS OF AN EFFECTIVE MEN'S MINISTRY
One of the greatest needs in local congregations today is to develop a
strong Men's Ministries. Here are some principles to keep in mind as you
seek to begin or resurrect a men's group.
2. Strong leadership
3. Pastoral backing
6. Ladies involvement
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8. Involvement with the Conference Men's Ministries
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ANNUAL REPORT FORM
Please help us by filling out the Annual Report Form found in Section
VI... RIM-02. We know the last thing you want to do is to fill out a report!
Some of us do this enough on our secular jobs, but the fact remains, we
have no way of assessing the effectiveness of Men’s Ministries in the
denomination without this input from you.
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MEETINGS AND EVENTS
HOW TO HAVE SUCCESSFUL MONTHLY MEETINGS
MEETINGS
Regular Monthly Meetings
Planning the Meeting
BUSINESS MEETINGS
Election of Officers
Yearly Planning Meeting
SPECIAL MEETINGS
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HOW TO HAVE SUCCESSFUL MONTHLY MEETINGS
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MEETINGS
Anyone involved in Christian leadership realizes the Holy Spirit is the
driving force in everything that is accomplished; however, God expects us to
do our part in the planning process. In the paragraphs that follow, we have
included some ideas to help plan a great meeting.
In working with men and getting them to take part, we must proceed
in stages. Don't push a man too fast. Proceed with careful steps to help
him develop responsibility to try new and more challenging things. Most
men are reluctant to stand before a group and speak; however, by patiently
utilizing all men, they can develop their own skills and gifts.
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BUSINESS MEETINGS
ELECTION OF OFFICERS
Officers should normally be elected or re-elected every year, unless
appointed by the pastor, in the month of November. Elections should be
well publicized and include a time of reflecting on the accomplishments of
the past year and the goals for the next year.
Note:
See “Chapter Organization” for recommendations, qualifications, and
procedures for election of officers, and the duties of officers.
Each year the officers of the Men's Ministries, along with the pastor,
should meet to discuss plans for the coming year. This is a time to share
visions, needs, goals, and projects, appoint leaders to special areas of
ministry, and set a tentative yearly calendar of events.
Note:
Included in Section VI is a Men's Ministries Program Planning Guide
.. RIM-04 .. and Men's Ministries Idea Calendar .. RIM – 05 .. which
you will find helpful. Additionally, excellent training of the core
leadership group with the pastor is contained in Section VII, the
Men's Ministries Action Plan.
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REQUIREMENTS FOR A GOOD MEETING
The first requirement is to schedule a meeting. If you wait until you
think you have the perfect agenda, the right speaker, the right program, the
right menu, the right day, the right time of day, etc., your meetings will be
few and far between, and you will not be able to hold the interest of the
men.
PRAYER
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PURPOSE
Every meeting must have a purpose. It has been well said, "If you do
not know where you are going, any road will take you there."
Note:
Does the purpose of the meeting meet the goals of the Chapter and
Mission Statement?
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Plan
A meeting with a great purpose can fail if there is no real plan to
accomplish the intended goal. The greatest salvation message, preached
with the greatest delivery, to the most needy listeners will come up short if
those who needed to hear the message do not get a chance to respond to it
with a decision to accept Jesus Christ. Men's Ministries should have an
overall plan for the year as well as short-term goals for specific meetings or
time periods. Look at the plan for any successful business and you will see
long-range objectives along with short-term goals or milestones leading to
the successful completion of the long-range plan.
Lucy says, "Yes, start with this next inning when you go out to pitch.
See if you can walk off the mound without falling down!"
The short-term goals are there to make sure you are on track in the
successful completion of the long-range goal. It is always better for your
men to realize that the ultimate objective is achieved one step at a time.
Practical suggestions, which call for action, should be presented frequently
at the meetings.
Men tend to talk about doing things but never get around to doing
them. Someone has said, 'When all is said and done, there is more said than
done." How true it is. The best way to learn to live a productive Christian
life is to engage actively in some meaningful Christian service.
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PREPARATION
Take time to prepare for each meeting. The appreciation and
compliments by the men will be a great reward for your efforts. There are
five strong suggestions you may want to consider to help ensure the success
of the event.
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PROGRAM
Many of the programs will draw men who do not attend the local
church and some may not know the Lord Jesus Christ. For this reason the
agenda and the flow of the program should bring a favorable image to the
church and should be a source of interest to the unsaved. It is very easy to
get into a "holy huddle" that looks like you have to be one of the "gang" to
belong. This is a major turnoff to all those attending who feel left out of the
circle, whether or not they are saved.
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PUBLICITY
Note:
Don't forget to invite unsaved friends, family members and fellow
workers.
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Participation
If your group is like many others, your most talented men will be the
ones who volunteer, but you should also strive to work with those men who
appear to be reluctant to become involved. The meeting will be successful
in direct proportion to the number of men involved in the program in a
meaningful way.
POWER
The Men's Ministries logo contains a dove - the symbol of the Holy
Spirit. This is the dynamic that sets Men's Ministries apart from other men's
groups. We are Pentecostal men! We welcome the free working of the Holy
Spirit in our lives. It's great to have a well-planned program but always allow
room for the Spirit to alter those plans whenever He deems necessary.
Ephesians 3:20
"Now unto Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that
we ask or think, according to the power that works in us."
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MEN'S MINISTRIES MEETING FORMAT
AND HELPFUL HINTS
Meeting Reminder:
A Men's Ministries meeting that does not begin on time and close on
time fails in its effectiveness. A well-planned meeting fits the time allotted.
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SPECIAL MEETINGS
The special meetings will always have a publicity aspect to them and
as such need to be done well. They are a chance for us to showcase what
we are doing and express the vision of Men's Ministries.
We have listed some twelve ideas for special meetings for your
consideration. This is by no means a "must" list. You can choose those you
think appropriate for your group or create your own ideas.
VALENTINE/SWEETHEART BANQUET
The men can prepare the meal themselves (ordering pizza won't do for
this occasion!). Have the meal catered or at a restaurant so the men can sit
with their wives or sweethearts and make it a Valentine-type event. It is not
a great treat for the ladies, if their husbands are all busy serving, waiting on
tables, cleaning up, etc., instead of engaging in meaningful conversation and
giving them attention. If, by chance, your men get the bright idea to have
the women pitch in and help, please don't call it a Valentine/Sweetheart
Banquet (Ask your wife what to call it. We are sure she'll have an
appropriate title for the occasion!)
Decorations
Gifts for men to present to sweethearts
Guest speaker with an appropriate topic
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THANKSGIVING BANQUET
This is a great time to have a church-wide event as it keeps the
women’s work down to a minimum (if we men do our job). It lends itself to
helping prepare a meal for others in the church that would not normally have
the resources to have a nice meal. It could also be used as a community
outreach function.
A community outreach meal is a big job and will require a great deal of
planning and coordination plus a lot of hard work, but for those who have
done it before it is a "thanksgiving" we remember above all others.
CHILI COOK-OFF
This idea is a proven method as a means for outreach. The concept is
to have each of the men in the ministry group go outside of the church and
recruit two men to help cook the chili. Up to five teams can be formed and
the competition will be "hot" (no pun intended!). "Secret recipes," unknown
to common man, seem to emerge making it a night to remember.
The local fire department can be invited to judge the entries as they
are accustomed to "hot" situations. Local politicians, athletes, high school
teachers, etc., can be used as judges to bring attention to the event, thus
showcasing the ministry of your men.
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Ladies Night
As you recall, when we covered the Valentine/Sweetheart dinner we
suggested the men stay out of the kitchen, with all its duties, and spend the
evening with their wife/sweetheart. For "Ladies Night" we suggest you roll
up your sleeves, get into the kitchen and don't come out until you are called!
This is the night the men are to be neither seen nor heard but present.
This night is just for the ladies, and all you have to do is to get them there
and serve them. Ladies usually are able to entertain themselves if they don't
have the children to attend to and feel the freedom to just relax and visit.
This is accomplished by men cooking and serving the meal, waiting on tables
(no buffet line if you want to have a class act and be remembered as the
greatest men's group of all time!) Handle the baby-sitting responsibilities,
along with everything that Mom usually "gets" to do. This night is a lot of
fun for all concerned, and the ladies are usually pleasantly surprised by the
quality of the meal and the attention given them. (Oh, by the way, men also
clean up afterwards!) The ladies always view this event as the men's "finest
hour."
MISSIONS BANQUET
We usually think of foreign soil when we think of missions, but there
is mission work going on in the United States every day and the need is just
as great. So both World Missions and Home Missions can be targeted.
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PRAYER EMPHASIS RETREAT
Get away for a weekend, possibly at an area hotel or camp facility.
Make it a special time of instruction and prayer and spend time in
intercessory prayer and thanksgiving. Invite a guest speaker you know to be
a prayer warrior and who will be able to motivate your men.
ROYAL RANGERS
What about providing a meal to recognize and honor the Royal
Rangers and their leaders. This would be a great time to also recognize
Royal Ranger Sponsors. For a program, let the Royal Rangers show your
men what they have done, are doing, and plan to do.
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FATHER/CHILDREN EVENTS
Most men do not spend enough quality time with their children. As
the Men's Ministries leaders you can be very instrumental in helping to
remedy this serious problem in many of our families. Here are some great
ways for dads to develop fresh new relationships with their children. These
are just a few suggestions of the events you may want to consider. You will
come up with many ideas of your own once you begin discussing which
events to sponsor.
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Couples Retreat
Married couples need to get away to renew their spiritual and
emotional lives. It is of vital importance for us to encourage this type of
weekend. Invite a guest speaker who can minister to the needs of couples
and relate to the ups and downs of married life.
Have the retreat away from the church so participants do not have to
worry about cooking, yard work, children, and all the other elements that
tend to draw people away from each other. This must be a time of renewal.
Note: Done in coordination with Women's Ministries…a great idea!
Fishermen's Banquet
This is an event designed to show the importance of visiting and
witnessing to others. Because we are told to be "fishers of men" this is
major theme of Men's Ministries. Having the banquet coincide with a fishing
trip would certainly add to the meeting. Actually having real fish to eat
would top off the day (this puts pressure on us to catch them!).
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GOLF OUTINGS
A golf tournament is one of the most popular outings you can have
since it has so many different possibilities of prizes and combinations of
people participating. This can include women, children, guests, friends from
other churches, and the unsaved. A well-organized tournament is a great
way to raise funds for your local Men's Ministries.
SUMMARY
These ideas are just a few to help get you started. No doubt you can
think of many more and you are encouraged to do just that. Many events
available to you are native to your particular area and interest. For example:
There are more snow events coming out of Minnesota than South Carolina;
and the lobster in Maine beats any that comes from Iowa. Kentucky salmon
is just not the same as in Alaska. Surfing in California interests more people
than surfing in New Hampshire. With all of our differences, we have a core
of truth that remains the same and that is to spread the gospel and build
strong men for Kingdom work. Put your fingerprint on your ministry for your
people and do it all for the glory of God!
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MAINTAINING THE ENTHUSIASM
Enthusiasm is a vital ingredient in leadership. It seems some people
have more than they could possibly use and some of us struggle to muster
up a pleasant greeting in the morning, but the fact is that people react
favorably to others who exhibit enthusiasm.
Just turn on the TV and see how the world uses enthusiastic people.
With the quality of our product (new life in Christ), it should not be a major
task for us to be excited about what we are doing. The Greek definition of
enthusiasm is "packed full of God."
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Vary the Scripture reading. Always read the Scripture at
every meeting. At times use several men to read from
different translations of the Bible. Other ideas would be
to have a responsive reading, recitation, read around the
group, etc.
The story is told of four scholars who were arguing over Bible
translations. One said he preferred the King James Version because of
its beautiful, eloquent old English. Another said he preferred the
American Standard for its literalism, the way it moves the reader from
passage to passage with confident feelings of accuracy from the original
text. A third man preferred Moffatt because of its quaint, penetrating
use of words, the turn of a phrase that captures the attention of the
reader. After giving the issue further thought, the fourth scholar
admitted, "I have personally preferred my mother's translation." When
the others chuckled, he responded, "She translated each page of the
Bible into life. It is the most convincing translation I've seen."
This story not only gives great testimony to lifestyle evangelism but
also tells us there are other ways to view the same object and still come up
with the correct information. The lesson for us is that variety is good and
will serve Men's Ministries well because of its very nature. We can do
things differently and still maintain the integrity of focus.
Do not get into a rut by doing things the same way each week. A
constant diet of the same food every day will cause us to resent that food
even if it is good. Dare to do things a little different from meeting to
meeting. Entertain ideas from different members. This gives them a feeling
of being able to contribute, which is one of the goals of Men's Ministries.
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Conference, National and
INTERNATIONAL EVENTS
There are regularly scheduled events, which are sponsored by the
Office of Men's Ministries, that provide significant opportunities for spiritual
growth with learning experiences found in other settings.
Some of these are one-time events and others are held annually.
Because of the complexity of the church calendar with all departments
promoting events, we schedule our events in the same month each year, if
possible. For details of several of these events see Section IV. Some of
these events include:
1. Resurrection Breakfast
2. Pastor Appreciation Day
Additionally, networking
3. Father's Day at conference and
national events is an
4. Conferences/Summits invaluable resource to
5. General Convention gain information on
resources, speakers, and
6. Reach 3 ideas.
7. Men’s Ministries Day
8. Disaster Relief USA
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FOUNDATIONAL PROGRAMS
Introduction
Men of Action
Friendship Evangelism
Reach 3
Discipleship Training
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INTRODUCTION
Six “Foundational Programs” are located at each level of Men’s
Ministries... general, conference and local. The use of the word
“Foundational” was selected to illustrate that these ministries are the
foundation of Men’s Ministries and should receive priority at each level.
Note: It is recommended that a committee and committee chairman be
selected to assist in implementing these ministries.
MEN OF ACTION
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MEN OF ACTION IS…
Note:
The Men of Action Manual is included on the computer disk enclosed
in this manual…and may also be ordered from the Office of
Men's Ministries.
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Additionally, the Royal Ranger Sponsorship Program has been designated as
one of our Foundational Ministries to highlight its priority.
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4. Areas of Support - in addition to the above, the local
Men's Ministries should consider:
Note:
The Royal Ranger Sponsorship Program is included on the
computer disk enclosed in this manual…and may also be
ordered from the Office of Men's Ministries.
FRIENDSHIP EVANGELISM
WHAT IS IT?
A training program to instruct and motivate laity – men, women, and
youth – to actively participate in evangelism. It’s simple, it’s doable … and
it’s good.
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BIBLICAL BASIS
Not every Christian is an evangelist, but all can and should be
witnesses for Jesus Christ. Some Christians are good at witnessing and
some are not. GOD’S EXPECTATION IS THAT ALL WILL ENDEAVOR TO
SHARE THE GOOD NEWS OF THE GOSPEL. Jesus did say, “As you are
going – make disciples.” Matthew 28:18-20. What He was saying here
was that while men are going in normal pursuits of life they are to influence
individuals for Christ.
PURPOSE
The purpose of the material is to provide a short evangelism-training
course to enable men, women, and youth to become more actively involved
in the harvest of souls. It is hoped that laity will discover the Scriptural basis
of the dynamics of personal evangelism and to discover the opportunities for
evangelism that most Christians will find are readily available.
THE COURSE
The course is a complete, turn-key, evangelism tool. Resources
include: a “Teacher’s Manual” containing lesson plans and over 44 black and
white overhead masters, A “Student Manual,” a PowerPoint Presentation on
CD with 44 full color slides, and Color
Overheads .. these are 44 full color overheads .. versions of the ones found
in the “Teacher’s Manual.”
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Churches and Conferences have taught the sessions in a variety of
other ways. Some have taught it on a Monday through Wednesday night
services (1½ to 2 hours each night). A Friday night (1½ hours) and
Saturday morning (3 hours) arrangement has been used. There have been
Conference Training Sessions (all in one day) and District Training (2 to 3
nights) sessions. The material is very flexible and easily adapted to a
variety of teaching opportunities.
MOTTO
“THIS WEEK I’M GOING TO TELL SOMEONE ABOUT JESUS.”
GRAND GOAL
FOR EVERY MAN, WOMAN, AND YOUTH TO BE ABLE TO OFFER
CHRIST
REACH 3
Each member of your Men's Ministries group, along with women and
youth of the church should do the following:
Note:
Reach 3 is a denominational emphasis for the decade. It has been
adopted by many different organizations and denominations with the
goal to present a sensitive, credible offer of the gospel in America to
each man, woman and youth, three at a time! For more information,
contact the Office of Men’s Ministries.
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DISCIPLESHIP TRAINING
Concerns Surrounding Discipleship
In the past several years, new buzzwords have surfaced in ministerial
circles. Among the words are: mentoring, accountability group, visitor
assimilation, purpose-driven church, people building skills, seeker sensitive,
promise keeper. Each of these buzzwords or phrases have a meaning and
purpose. All of them are new ways of looking at the need for building a
discipleship process in our lives and in the church at large.
The awareness level of the need for discipleship is at a new height and
the need to get back to the basic command to go and make disciples is
paramount. Pastors are sensing a new awakening within themselves and
among their people for something beyond multiple programs that require a
time commitment and struggle for volunteers. Ministers are also struggling
with burnout due to the lack of commitment of church attendees. The
average attendee asks, “Why should I be involved beyond the Sunday
morning service?” Many pastors are asking themselves, “Is there a better
way?”
The materials in this section on discipleship are taken from the Balanced Strategy Section of the
HonorBound Local Church Men’s Ministry Manual, Springfield, Missouri.
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Problems Surrounding Discipleship In The Local Church
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Important Principles
Of Discipleship!
Discipleship is just for new converts and Disciples make disciples that
newcomers. It is for preachers and other mature make disciples that make
Christians too. It is important for each member disciples.
of the Body to Identify where they are in their
Christian walks as diciples, and grow from there. Discipleship requires
commitment and priority on
every level.
Discipleship is an investment,
not an expense.
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Discipleship is not my ministry. It must be! We can never forget that
it is not a program, portfolio, ministry gift, or niche; it’s a command
(Matthew 28:19). Discipleship in the minister’s life in the church should be
like the hub of a wheel. All the spokes of ministry are connected and flow
from the hub-discipleship.
Many churches simply do not have a plan for discipling people and
launching them into the harvest. Remember, discipleship is not an option; it
is a mandate which must be lived out with strict devotion to the Lord’s
command.
With our desire of reaching lost souls for Christ around the world, our
objectives for Men’s Ministry must be to win people to Christ, build people in
Christ, and to send them back into the harvest.
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STEP 2 - PREPARE FOR POSSIBLE OBSTACLES
If your men have a hard time reading the Bible, if they have a hard
time concentrating when they pray, if they have a hard time witnessing to
their families and friends, or if they’re up and down in their Christian
experience, then they need discipleship. Advertise your discipleship classes,
and enroll participants into the discipleship program with this in mind. Don’t
be afraid to ask people one-on-one to enroll in a discipleship class. Don’t
count on announcements alone.
The biggest challenges will come in the fact that it will require
possibly another night out during the week, or prior to a Sunday night
service. It requires a lot more time than what is offered in a Sunday School
hour.
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Church things are scheduled over the top of scheduled classes.
Some may feel the materials cost too much. Actually, the participants
get what they pay for. It has been proven that the harder the course and the
more expensive, the less dropouts there will be. And the cheaper and easier,
the more dropouts you will have.
It you don’t demand a lot, you won’t get a lot. Lay out the goal and
the expectations for the material and the group ahead of time. This will give
individuals an opportunity to count the cost and then commit to the goal.
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No freebies – get what you pay for.
Reward completion.
It does not matter how old a person is, feeling a sense of achievement
is important, especially when a sacrifice has been made. Publicly
highlighting those who complete discipleship will emphasize the importance
the church leadership attaches to making disciples. It shows that the goal of
every believer is to become a disciple.
Require accountability.
What’s next? – They seek the Lord for the next course of
action once they have completed the discipleship class.
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Check-off – This is a tangible way to chart the progress
of a participant. It can be a real source of
encouragement, as well as evaluation.
Investigate
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What will the material cost each participant?
Will you, the leader, like it? Will you, the leader, grow
from being involved in it?
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number 26-0585. Spanish Edition – 26-0668.
Skills Taught:
Contents:
Godly Fathering
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4. Equipping The Saints School Of Ministry is a curriculum
of the Pentecostal Holiness Church and is designed to
lead men in their personal development. Level I courses
cover basic Christianity; teach the essential truths every
Christian should know. There are six courses:
Spiritual Discipline
Lifestyle Evangelism
Power Ministry
Body Life
Godly Fathering
Discipleship Ministries
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STEP 6 - ENLISTMENT OF PARTICIPANTS
This can be other adults and participants. There are many people who
have not been discipled. The most effective way of recruiting is one-on-one.
“Come follow me,” Jesus said, “and I will make you fisher of Men”
(Matthew 4:19).
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STEP 7 - UNDERSTAND SMALL GROUP DYNAMICS
DON’TS
Fabricate – To gain the most from a small group, all members must be
truthful with everything that is shared. The truthfulness of answers will
greatly depend on the commitment to confidentiality.
Agitate – Not everyone has a great day every day. Coming to a small
group and being confronted with personal shortcomings may not be
pleasant, and may come out negatively when pushed too far.
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Procrastinate – When action points are stressed in the group, be
certain to follow up on one another within 48 hours to see that everyone is
making time to grow in the action point. If one falls down, the other should
pick up and carry, and when one slows down, others need to help that
person pick up the pace for the whole group.
DO’S
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STEP 8 - EVALUATE YOUR DISCIPLESHIP MINISTRY
As a result of discipling, men will learn how to share their faith, how
to nurture people, and how to lead them to Christ. People will come to
Christ at a restaurant or at work. Personal evangelism will go beyond the
altar call, in Sunday School, or on a Sunday night. It will happen all over
your community. Don’t limit yourself to having a men’s group; launch
yourself into a men’s ministry through discipleship. Launch men to go
beyond the walls of the church and actually ministry in the community.
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To a disciple, Bible reading and prayer is not done out of obligation or
guilt. The disciple develops a great love for Jesus and a great joy for
spending time with Him and in His Word. He is madly in love with Jesus, to
where we can’t get enough of Him. Spending time with Jesus isn’t an
obligation to him, but is life’s greatest joy, as he develops a passion for God.
Men, there are very few generations and very few groups of leaders
who ever have the opportunity to stand at the threshold of the biblically
miraculous and watch prophecy being fulfilled before their very eyes. We
not only have the opportunity of our lifetimes, but possibly in the history of
the Christian Church. God is touching men’s lives as never before.
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OPPORTUNITIES IN MEN'S MINISTRIES
FOUNDATIONAL MINISTRIES
EVANGELISM MINISTRIES
OUTREACH MINISTRIES
SPECIAL MINISTRIES
SOCIAL ACTIVITIES
SPECIAL PROGRAMS
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INTRODUCTION:
You will discover as you go through this material that it is not all-
inclusive. This is by design as it would appear overwhelming if we included
all that is available on all subjects or possible areas of Ministries. Your
interest should not be confined to these topics alone. There may be many
ministry opportunities available in your particular location. The opportunities
available in a larger metropolitan area are not the same as those which
present themselves in rural areas. Be open to what God may bring across
your path.
After careful review with your men, have each one fill out the
Opportunities in Men's Ministries Form. In Section VI .. RIM 03 .. a form is
provided to be duplicated for this purpose. By doing this you will know the
area in which your men feel led to focus their ministry efforts.
Also, please note the Opportunities for Service Form found in Section
VI .. RIM-08. It may be duplicated as needed. The form points out the
desires of the men and their specific skills. This is vital information for the
leader to have as you may want to steer your men away from a construction
project if you find you have no one in your group who has any knowledge or
experience in this area.
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OPPORTUNITIES IN MEN'S MINISTRIES
Foundational Programs
Men of Action
Friendship Evangelism
Reach 3
Discipleship Training
Evangelism
CHURCH VISITATION
TELEPHONE EVANGELISM
Praise God for the art of letter writing! Have you ever
considered the fact that most of the New Testament
books are letters that were written by the apostles to
Christian groups of believers?
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A personal letter to a lost loved one, to a friend or
relative, or even to a stranger can be the vehicle for
compassionately communicating the Gospel of Jesus
Christ. This is a chance for the local church to reach the
unreached.
OUTREACH MINISTRIES
JAILS/PRISONS
NURSING HOMES
HOSPITAL VISITATION
Call them what you will - home cell units, sharing and
caring groups, neighborhood Bible study cells, or
something else - home cell groups are the attributed
method for causing phenominal growth for hundreds of
modern-day churches. Yet this method is not really
something new. It is as old as the church itself.
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BUS MINISTRY
LITERACY TRAINING
If you can read this article, then you are most fortunate.
Statistics show that the number of illiterates is growing
every day! This is sad, but you and other church
members can help allevaite the problem. By opening your
church on a weekly basis, your people can become
certified literacy teachers. This is truly an outreach
ministry and can be utilized within your church, in the
community, or in the local jails or prisons.
DISASTER RELIEF
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SPECIAL MINISTRIES
Discovering Spiritual Gifts
The Bible is very clear in its instruction to us as leaders to
train and equip the saints for effective ministry outreach.
Most of us thinkthat charge is only for the pastors, but it
is clear that it is for all of us who find ourselves in a
leadership position. (Ephesians 4:11-13).
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Paul was concerned that his leaders were operating
within their gifts. How mistaken the churches are today
who fail to see the necessity of operating within the gifts
God has given to their leadership. Men need to follow
Paul’s example and find out their gifts so that they can
do what God has gifted and called them to do.
PRAYER WALKING
Note:
Prayer Walking is included on the computer disk enclosed
in this manual…and may also be ordered from the Office Of
Men's Ministries.
MISSIONS
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ALTAR COUNSELING
GREETERS/USHERS
SOCIAL ACTIVITIES
RETREATS
FELLOWSHIP MEALS
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informative, inspirational, and also a time of soul-winning.
Recent church visitors, unsaved people, and newcomers
to the community can all be invited to attend.
CROSS CULTURAL
SPECIAL PROGRAMS
RESURRECTION BREAKFAST
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Key ingredients for a successful Resurrection Breakfast
are:
Note:
Call or write the Office of Men's Ministries with your results so we
can rejoice with you. The Office of Men's Ministries has a complete
planning guide with all the information you will need to put on a first-
class event, and it is included on the computer disk enclosed in this
manual.
Planning
Place the event on the church calendar well in
advance
Make sure to involve your pastoral leadership in
developing the day’s schedule of events
Father’s Day would be exceptional for this type of
event
Execute with excellence
Prayer emphasis
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This special day has two purposes:
Note:
Guidelines containing a brief overview of this event are available
on the computer disk enclosed in this manual…and may also be
ordered from the Office Of Men's Ministries.
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OPERATIONAL AND RESOURCE IDEAS
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ORGANIZING YOUR MEN
Men's Ministries
Mailing List
Please Print:
Name
Address
Apt. # Route #
City State Zip
Home Phone
Work Phone
E-Mail Fax
Second, gather all of the names of the men in your church, put them
in alphabetical order and compile a mailing list. If the list is aligned properly
on the page, you can purchase blank adhesive labels and duplicate the
addresses of the men Xeroxing them directly onto labels for a mail out.
Third, make copies of this address list and give to key leaders in the
men's group (i.e., secretary, publicity chairman, phone group chairman, etc.).
Fourth, update the list on a regular basis. Add all new names of men
who are interested. In fact, have the names of all the men in your church on
your list.
Note:
You will want to mail promotion items to as many men as possible.
It is quite easy to set up a mailing list on a small home personal computer.
Ask if anyone would volunteer his computer for use by Men's Ministries
in the event the church does not have one, or if they will volunteer their time.
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APPOINTING SECTION LEADERS
In order to better organize the men, it is good to divide them into small
groups. Section leaders should be assigned by the Men's Ministries officers.
These groups can function in several ways:
Bible Studies
Accountability
Phone Contacts
Advertising and Promotion
A list of all the men of the church can be maintained and divided
randomly between section leaders in clusters of 5-10 men. As membership
increases, a new section should be organized. Each year after election of
officers, the new section leaders are appointed (if current ones have
indicated they do not wish to continue). It is good to change men around
each year to new sections in order for new friendships to develop. It is also
good to get at least a few new section leaders each year. This will help
create enthusiasm and will tap new sources of ideas.
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HOW TO KEEP THE MEN'S GROUP ACTIVE
How do we keep our men coming to the Men's Ministries meetings?
Once organized, the local church men's group is a powerful tool for Christ's
ministry. Satan knows this well…his desire is to neutralize Christians. Not
so much to get them to commit open sin (of course, he would love to do
that!), but if he can just get men to be satisfied and complacent, he will
score a real victory. Here are some ways to keep your men's group active.
Plan your meeting with all the men in mind. Involve the
men of your group in the planning and promotion for the
meetings.
Note:
Use our logos! You will notice we have included a logo sheet at the
end of Section VI and on the computer disk in the pocket of this
manual. Please use the logos to help give your promotions visual
impact.
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Advertising Men's Ministries Activities
COMMUNICATIONS
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PRACTICAL WAYS TO BRING BACK INACTIVE MEN
1. Phone 'em up - Phone them sometime during the week prior to the
meeting and offer a ride to the meeting, if necessary.
2. "What did you like?' - Conduct a survey asking the men "Which
meeting did you enjoy most and why?" In response to the men's
replies, plan meetings which appeal to their interests.
3. Care visit - Appoint someone from the group to visit the absent
person and include as part of the visit a heart-to-heart talk about
why he did not come. (Be open to hear criticisms which, if valid,
may help direct the meetings to become attractive in the future.)
4. Where are you? - Take a polaroid picture of the group and send it
with a note saying, "What’s wrong with this picture? You're
missing!"
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SAMPLE LETTER TO MEN ANNOUNCING A MEETING
The programs of our Men's Ministries are designed to help bring men
into a closer relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ in every phase of
their life.
God Bless!
Your Friend,
Men's Ministries
(officer's name and title)
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FINANCING MEN'S MINISTRIES
There are four major methods for financing Men's Ministries in the
local church:
All four methods presented are being used by local men's groups. In
most churches a combination of methods is used to provide the means to
carry out the activities and ministries of men.
CHURCH BUDGET
A budget is a blueprint, a guide for accomplishing a desired goal.
Long-range planning is important in formulating the blueprint for the Men's
Ministries goals for the year.
List the activities and ministries the men wish to pursue during the
year. How much money will it cost to carry out the desired goals? List the
estimated expense involved beside the activity. The goals of the men's
group should include the necessities for operation as well as some optional
functions which could be postponed, if necessary. Praying for the correct
blueprint is vitally important. Note: Assist the Royal Ranger Outpost to be
included in the church budget.
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ANNUAL CONTRIBUTIONS
IPHC Men’s Ministries requests that every local Men’s Ministries
support the general program with an Annual Contribution of $50.00. These
funds are not for administrative purposes, rather for enabling Men’s
Ministries to stay on the cutting edge in Men’s Discipleship. The annual
contribution can be sent directly to the office of Men’s Ministries or through
the conference office.
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FUND-RAISING PROJECTS
There are many kinds of projects from which money can be made. Be
selective so everyone will feel good about the project and God will receive
the glory.
1. Pray
2. Plan at least six months in advance
3. Decide on the date, time and place
4. Advertise the event. Utilize posters, advance tickets,
church announcements, the radio, newspapers and word
of mouth
5. Secure enough workers to make the project go smoothly
6. Keep in close touch with all those assisting... last-minute
drop-outs could ruin a good project
7. Make a final report to the group showing them what they
have accomplished
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Fish fry - This has worked well in certain areas and can
be done in conjunction with a fishing tournament. Men
catch the fish and keep them in storage until the
announced fish fry. Some groups purchase the fish and
charge the people for the fish dinner, with the
understanding the profits are going to a charitable cause.
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Bowling tournament - Sometimes you can rent a bowling
alley for your men's group. You are not bothered by
outsiders or any kind of refreshment problems. The men
may pay a fee to bowl in the tournament. Trophies are
awarded to the winners and the proceeds are then given
to the men's group. Be sure to check the rental fee
before setting the bowling tournament fee.
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USING RESOURCES EFFECTIVELY
CRITERIA FOR MEN'S MINISTRIES
The local Men's Ministries is based on a fourfold approach to the
needs of men in the church. It is important to keep these criteria in mind in
the selection and use of resources for your men's group. In Section I we
mentioned the four areas of the Men's Ministries approach. They are:
AREAS OF NEED
The ongoing day-to-day support and teaching that men need to grow
comes with consistent small-group interaction. The following are the areas
of need you should address if your Men's Ministries is to be successful.
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Men need to read the Bible daily - A good start in your
Bible reading venture is to get a systematic program that
gives clear guidelines and commentary for daily readings.
Many opt for a program that allows them to read the
complete the Bible in one year. For those with
computers, there are many excellent programs that guide
you through this undertaking. Some even remind you if
you are on schedule or behind as soon as you boot up
your computer. Audiotapes of the entire Bible are
available and are reasonably priced. This is a great way
to convert non-productive driving time into personal
ministry time.
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Section VI
FORMS
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TOPICS FOR MEN'S MINISTRY MEETINGS
Survey Form
Please check any of the following topics you would like our Men's
Ministries to discuss throughout the year in our meetings. The topics most
requested will receive top priority in scheduling.
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ANNUAL REPORT FORM
Attendance
3. Number of meetings this past year: _____________________
4. Estimate average attendance per meeting: ______________
Men of Action
5. Do you have Men of Action projects? yes or no
Please tell us the number and describe your projects on the back of this form.
(Please send any photos. . .we want to spotlight your projects.)
Evangelism
6. Participated in “Friendship Evangelism?” yes or no
7. Did you have a Resurrection Breakfast this year? yes or no
8. Do you have a Tract Ministry? yes or no
9. Are you participating in Reach 3? yes or no
10. Are you participating in The Lighthouse Ministry? yes or no
Prison Ministry
11. Does your chapter participate in prison ministry? yes or no
If yes, would you share on the back what you did this year?
Pastor Appreciation
12. Did your chapter sponsor or participate in Pastor Appreciation Day? yes or no
Please submit a short report on back, so we can share what you did and any
recommendations you have.
Royal Rangers
13. Does your chapter sponsor a Royal Ranger Outpost? yes or no
14. Have you implemented the Royal Ranger Sponsorship Program? yes or no
Please tell us about your boys program.
Tell us!
15. What has been your most exciting activity during this year? __________________________
16. How can we help your chapter? ____________________________________________________
17. Comments. . . use reverse side.
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OPPORTUNITIES IN MEN'S MINISTRIES
Ministry Selection Form
Choose six areas you feel the church needs to reach out to or deal
with as a ministry - #1 being the highest priority, #2 second in importance
and on down to #6. The first two choices are areas that you would be
willing to be active in if the opportunity should present itself. This sheet
should be returned along with your signature.
EVANGELISM
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PROGRAM PLANNING GUIDE
Type of Meeting:
Use this form for making plans for your regular men's meeting.
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IDEA CALENDAR
OF ACTIVITIES FOR ONE YEAR
This is only a guide to show the available programs and when they can be planned.
Insert other programs and activities as needed. For further details on any of the activities
listed, refer to the Men's Ministries Resource Information Manual, Section II.
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MEN OF ACTION
SURVEY FORM
Review the following list of persons, places, and needs. Check the
areas you feel have needs which men can meet. Also, check any area with
which you personally would like to work.
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MEN OF ACTION PROJECT CHECKLIST
3. Do the men feel a true sense of leadership from the HolySpirit?Yes No
5. Does the Men's Ministry have the time, money and skills
to conduct this project? Yes No
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OPPORTUNITIES FOR SERVICE
SURVEY FORM
Note:
Suggest this be given out during the first or second meeting. Fill out and turn in
(because when they are taken home, often they are not brought back). This form will
help to determine the interest of the men in a specific ministry. This should be done
each year because people's desires change.
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MAILING LIST
Men's Ministries
Mailing List
Please Print:
Name
Address
Apt. # Route #
City State Zip
Home Phone
Work Phone
E-Mail
Men's Ministries
Mailing List
Please Print:
Name
Address
Apt. # Route #
City State Zip
Home Phone
Work Phone
E-Mail
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