Self Confidence Final Term
Self Confidence Final Term
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Self-confidence: is your belief in yourself and your abilities.
This can change depending on the situation. It's normal to feel
quite confident in some circumstances and less confident in
others.
A healthy amount of self-esteem is necessary to have the self-
confidence to meet life's challenges and participate in things you
find enjoyable and rewarding.
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9 Traits of Self-Confident People:
1. They don't compare themselves to others. Robin has a
bigger house than me; John drives a more expensive car;
Marsha received a promotion. Making these types of
comparisons is self-defeating. Self-confident people focus
on how they feel about themselves, irrespective of how
others are doing.
2. They exercise regularly. Self-confident people know that
exercise makes us healthier, happier, and more satisfied
with ourselves. They work out often and reap the rewards.
3. They dress for success. Confident people know that the
better they look, the better they feel about themselves.
That doesn't mean wearing the most expensive clothing; it
means looking put together and having great personal
hygiene, with neat hair, clothes, and shoes.
4. They sit up straight. Body language counts for a lot.
Confident people sit up tall, make eye contact, rarely fold
their arms across their chests, and smile often.
5. They speak positively. Confident people don't dwell on the
negative-about themselves or others. Rather than
badmouth fellow workers, pick fights, or gossip, they speak
well of others whenever they can.
6. They ask for help. Confident folks know when they need a
helping hand and they're not too proud or too afraid to ask
for it.
7. They don't give up. Obstacles are seen as barriers to be
overcome, not set backs to success. When confronted with
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problems, big and small, confident individuals hunker down
and power through.
8. They help others. The desire to help others gives confident
people a greater sense of purpose and an outward focus
that brings them immense satisfaction,
9. They act confident. Of course, even self-confident people
sometimes feeling secure. When they do, they don't let on;
they continue to act assertive and self-assured until they
regain their footing.
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2. Lack of Control People:
Who have low self-confidence often feel that they have little
control over their lives or what happens to them. This might be
due to the fact that they feel that they have little ability to create
changes either in themselves or in the world. Because they have
an external locus of control, they may feel that they are
powerless to do anything to fix their problems. Research has
found that in situations where people do have little control over
what happens, having higher self-esteem can help relieve some
of the negative effects of this loss of control, which ultimately
benefits mental health.
3. Negative Self-Talk:
Low self-confidence causes people to focus on their flaws rather
than their strengths. Rather than build themselves up with
positive self-talk, they always seem to have something negative
to say about themselves. They blame themselves when things go
wrong and always find some fault with some aspect of
themselves, whether it is their appearance, their personality, or
their abilities.
4. Fear of Failure:
Because people lack confidence in their abilities, they doubt
their ability to achieve success .While they might fear failure,
they tend to either avoid challenges or give up quickly without
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really trying. This fear of failure can be seen in behaviors such as
acting out when things go wrong or looking for ways to hide
feelings of inadequacy. People might make excuses, blame
external factors, or try to downplay the importance of the task.
5. Life Experiences:
A number of individual experiences can lead to feeling
completely unsure of your worth. Physical, sexual, and
emotional abuse can all significantly affect our feelings of self-
confidence.
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Focus on the messages that make yourself, and turn down those
that make you think negatively about your value or ability.
Reprogram your thinking with positive self-talk and affirmations.
5.Praise yourself :
Celebrate your achievements as you practice building your self-
esteem and self-confidence. Make time to treat yourself with
experiences and activities you value. Share with others If you
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can, tell a good friend what you're doing. Their encouragement
and feedback on the changes you're making could be invaluable
support. You can also help other people to see themselves as
capable and worthwhile.
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Conclusion
Self-confidence is the most important skill of a life. A confident
man or women enjoys more successful life than the un-
confident. Everyone can upgrade its self-confidence, by its own
practice. No other than yourself can change your life. You have
to do it by yourself.
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