The Miracle Morning
The Miracle Morning
By Hal Elrod
You've heard the saying, 'Today is the first day of the rest of your life.'
Well, according to Hal Elrod, a morning ritual comprising of six steps is all
we need to get started.
This Briefer summary explores the core practices, namely the SAVERS,
that are recommended to create magic before 8 am. However, before we
talk mornings, we'll look at mindset, and discover why Elrod believes that
we need to strive for more than just mediocrity when it comes to creating
the life we want
A morning routine can be a lifesaver. We all know that how we start each
morning sets the tone for the rest of the day, but it can also set the tone
for the rest of our lives.
In Extreme Ownership, Jocko Willink and Leif Babin argue that every day is a
series of tests and choices. The very first test we face is waking up.
Oversleeping, hitting the snooze button, or delaying getting out of bed
determine how we face up to the day ahead. Hence, discipline and taking
responsibility are crucial to reaching daily goals and finding success.
Willink explains that 'Discipline equals freedom.' The more disciplined we
are, the more freedom we have to do the things we want.
Elrod believes that how we wake up is pivotal. He developed his "Miracle
Morning" routine after suffering two massive hits. One was a horrific car
accident at the age of twenty, that left him with brain damage and
numerous broken bones. He was declared dead for six minutes after a
drunk driver hit him head-on. After being in a coma for six days, he was
told that he would never walk again. The next hit was financial – his
business collapsed, and he slid into a crippling depression during the
2008 global recession. Our author says that his life fell apart when his
income was cut in half, landing him in massive debt. Not only were the
financial effects disastrous, but he was mentally, physically, and
emotionally spent. Elrod says that he hit rock bottom and felt an extreme
sense of anxiety and depression. He read numerous self-help books,went
to workshops and seminars, but nothing worked.
Wake Up To Responsibility
Elrod argues that this isn't always a bad thing. Reframing how we
compare ourselves to others can be helpful. For example, we should start
thinking about the fact that if a person can overcome a huge obstacle,
then so can we. We need to embrace the perspective that other people
provide evidence that anything can be overcome, no matter our
circumstances, provided we take responsibility and have the desire to
get to where we want.
The first step is that we need to accept total responsibility for every
single aspect of our lives. We came across this idea in Extreme Ownership,
where we're taught that the only way to solve problems is to own them.
So often we blame others, blame external factors. Still, as Elrod explains,
'The degree to which you accept responsibility for everything in your life,
is precisely the degree of personal power you have to change or create
anything in your life.'
In 2008 Elrod turned his life around by taking the first step and telling a
friend that his life was miserable. His friend suggested that he start
running, and although he was reluctant, Elrod took the advice and went
for a run. This run was the catalyst for significant change and inspired our
author to implement other meaningful changes in his life. He created a
"daily personal development routine," and it worked. The result was
"Miracle Morning."
Wake Up To Mediocrity
Evidence shows that most Americans fall short of their potential. The
Social Security Administration says that out of 100 people, observed for
40 years from the beginning of their working life, most will be mediocre.
One will become wealthy, four will be financially stable, 36 will have died,
and 54 will rely on others for support. This is a grim picture of people just
"getting by," as opposed to leading fulfilling lives. And it's not just the
financial insecurity that people face. Numerous studies show that the use
of prescription drugs is on the rise, half of marriages in America end in
divorce, there's an obesity epidemic, and incidents of heart disease and
cancer are increasing.
Despite this bleak picture, we can all make the necessary adjustments to
lead better lives and to reach our potential.
Wake Up To Potential
According to Elrod, there are three factors that we need to address. The
first is rearview mirror thinking. So many of us view our lives in relation to
past experiences. We're often so caught up in our perceived limitations
that we fail to move forward. We need to shift our attention to the road
ahead by embracing positivity and confidence.
The next factor is that we view small actions in isolation. We've all
thought to ourselves, 'It doesn't matter if I have this slice of cake now, I'll
start my diet tomorrow,' or, 'I can skip the gym today, I'll try again
tomorrow.' While it's OK to have treats and to take a day off once in a
while, the problem with minor exceptions is that they add up. Small
exceptions become the norm, and we fall into bad habits very quickly.
Each decision that we make has a compound effect, and we need to
realize that our lives are a sum of each decision we make.
Finally, there's the idea that we're influenced by the people that we hang
around. Who are the five people that you spend the most time with?
According to Elrod, we are a product of the people we spend the most
time with. The circle of influence means that we'll likely be negative if
we're surrounded by five negative people. Whereas if we spend time with
five positive and driven people, they will inspire us to reach our potential.
Wake Up To Success
Wake Up To Routine
We're all tempted to hit snooze, some more so than others, but by doing
this, we delay the inevitable and make a subtle but profound change to
our mindset. It's those mornings when we feel the most reluctant to get
out of bed, that we should be the most determined. Tough patches are
made more challenging when we wallow and delay the inevitable. Elrod
suggests that we should "make our purpose bigger than our problems."
Having a deep sense of purpose creates excitement, and this means
we're more focused and energized.
This might sound like bad news for night owls, but Elrod explains that
starting a routine immediately, means we're less likely to skip and delay
important things such as exercise. No one is resistant to temptations and
distractions, so the sooner we tick things off our list, the better.
However, there are some ways to make getting into the routine a lot
easier. For starters, remember that a good morning starts the night
before. This means getting enough sleep. And often, we're our own worst
enemies when it comes to sleep. How often do you go to bed thinking,
'This is far too little sleep, I'm going to be so tired tomorrow'? By doing
this, we've ruined the next day before it's even started. Elrod argues that
if we tell ourselves that we'll feel refreshed and ready for the day ahead;
no matter how much sleep we get, it'll feel like enough.
And, if you're the type of person who can't resist hitting snooze, then
why not put your alarm somewhere where you have to get out of bed to
turn it off. It's a lot harder getting back into bed once you're out. And if
you're still tempted for a snooze after this, put on your workout clothes,
brush your teeth, and have a glass of water.
Once you've done this, you can get started on making your way through
the six steps that constitute a miracle morning.
Wake Up To Silence
It's argued that practicing purposeful silence each morning helps to fight
stress and gain clarity. Whether it's meditation, prayer, reflection, deep
breathing, gratitude, or a combination of these, we should all make time
for moments of silence. As long as we start the day in a way that's quiet,
reflective, and where we feel connected to something bigger than
ourselves, we're on the right track.
Wake Up To Exercise
Plato said that 'For man to succeed in life, God provided him with two
means, education and physical activity. Not separately, one for the soul
and the other for the body, but for the two together. With these means,
man can attain perfection.'
Exercise doesn't just keep us fit, but it's good for the whole body. Healthy
brains need us to exercise. When we exercise, the brain releases
dopamine, norepinephrine, and brain-derived neurotrophic factors
(BDNF). Have you ever noticed how much sharper and more focused you
are after exercising? Well, these chemicals are to thank for that.
So the lesson is that we all need to find an exercise that we can commit
to, because exercise gives us an increased ability to absorb knowledge.
And it's not just reading, but writing that we need to focus on. Mental
notes often fade, but the simple act of writing something down makes
the idea stick. Rolf Smith brilliantly said, 'The problem with making mental
notes is that the ink fades very rapidly.'
Get into the habit of carrying a notebook around with you and write down
the ideas you have and the things you have learned. Write down how you
feel, the insights you've gained, lessons you've learned, what you're
grateful for. Everyone needs to read more and write more, because these
practices lead to significant changes.
Commit to 30 Days
We've learned from Eat That Frog that the best way to attack a task is to
divide it into more manageable parts. Elrod applies the same logic and
says that we can create a new habit in 30 days, and make it easier by
dividing it into three parts. In the first ten days, we have to commit
wholeheartedly to our habit. If we break the chain, we need to start
again. After this, it'll be a lot harder to break the developing habit, even
though it might be uncomfortable at first. The last ten days are where the
magic starts to happen; the new habit might even become enjoyable, or
at the very least, highly rewarding.
So maybe it's time to tackle that one thing that you've been wanting to
start doing but have never had the determination or motivation to do?
In Conclusion
We're all in the process of writing our life's story, and no good story is
without a hero or heroine overcoming their fair share of challenges. In
fact, the bigger the challenge is, the better the story is. All of us need to
embrace every challenge and use it to make our life stories better.
Furthermore, Elrod explains that the key is 'to not wish for our challenge
not
to be there, but rather for the strength to endure and overcome.' And, our
author's own life is an excellent testimony to this.
This might be just the book to set you on the path of creating the best
story for your life. Focus on your challenges, own up to what you need to
do, and stop making excuses for not living up to your potential.
Miles Davis said, 'My future starts when I wake up every morning. Every
day I find something creative to do with my life.' So why not make
tomorrow morning your very first miracle morning?