Jon Bon Jovi
Jon Bon Jovi
Jon Bon Jovi
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JON BON JOVI
HOW A KID FROM NEW JERSEY BECAME A
ROCK ‘N’ ROL
LL LEG
GEND
BON JOVI
RUNAWAY
By 1983, Jon had demos to shop around. Now he
just needed a band and a chance.
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FAMILY MAN
To Jon, family has always been—and remains—a
constant source of support.
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CHALLENGES
The band took a much-needed hiatus in 1991
following a grueling 16-month tour.
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HALL OF FAME
In 2018, Bon Jovi was inducted into the Rock &
Roll Hall of Fame, fulfilling Jon’s lifelong dream.
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INTRODUCTION
WHY WE LOVE
From his early years as an unbelievably ambitious teen and aim higher and higher—always trying to find
singer prowling the clubs of Asbury Park, New Jersey, the next level up for what he might be able to
where he jammed with the likes of Bruce Springsteen achieve. “Anytime that you think you’ve reached
while still in high school, to his ascent into global rock the top of the mountain, the truth of the matter is,
superstardom, Jon Bon Jovi embodies the spirit of the you’ve just reached another mountain,” Jon said on
rock ‘n’ roll American Dream. an episode of Oprah Winfrey’s Master Class. “When
Jon grew up in the humble working-class suburb I heard ‘Runaway’ on the radio, I thought I made it.
of Sayreville, New Jersey. He wasn’t born to a rich or When I got a record deal, I thought I made it. When
influential family—just one that supported the belief we had Slippery When Wet, I thought we made it.
that anything was possible, even if things didn’t When we played the first time at an arena and you
always go your way. headlined, you thought you made it. Each step along
Jon translated that belief into his music, which the way is just a life’s lesson in humility, and it gives
allowed him to connect with people in a sincere and you ammunition to go on and be excited about the
honest way. Almost everyone, no matter where they next day.”
are in life, has lived their own variation of Tommy Jon Bon Jovi is a rarity—not only in music, but
and Gina’s struggle in “Livin’ on a Prayer.” That song in any walk of life: He’s a person who has achieved
transcended its original theme to become a message success without letting success corrupt his values or
of hope—a message so strong that 10 days after how he chooses to engage with the world. Married
the 9/11 terror attacks, Jon performed “Livin’ on a to his high-school sweetheart for more than three
Prayer” on America: A Tribute to Heroes, a telethon decades, committed to family and community more
that raised more than $200 million for the United than he is to fame and fortune, and always striving
Way’s September 11th Fund. to be the best version of himself that he can possibly
As we’ve watched Jon’s career unfold over the be—his is a small-town-boy-makes-good story that
decades, we’ve seen him continue to evolve, mature anyone can applaud and admire.
Jon Bon Jovi performs in concert with his band during a stop on their Lost Highway tour at the Staples Center in Los Angeles,
California, on April 9, 2008.
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Bon Jovi members David Bryan,
Richie Sambora, Jon Bon Jovi,
Tico Torres and Alec John Such
at the Monsters of Rock festival
in England on Aug. 22, 1987.
Clockwise from top left: Bon Jovi
performs in Tokyo, Japan, in
1984; the band plays the city
again in 1985; Jon with his 1958
Corvette in New Jersey in 1988.
Jon and Sambora record in Jon’s
home studio in New Jersey in 1987.
That same year, the pair launched a
publishing company called New
Jersey Underground Music, Inc.
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Clockwise: Jon and wife Dorothea
Hurley in 1998; Jon and Sambora
prepare to shoot a video for the
song “Real Life” in 1997; Bon Jovi
in New York City in 2016.
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Howard Stern inducts Bon Jovi
during the 33rd Annual Rock &
Roll Hall of Fame Induction
Ceremony in Cleveland on
April 14, 2018.
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A young John Bongiovi, still in high
school at the time, with his Atlantic
City Expressway bandmates in
New Jersey in the late 1970s.
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By the time Jon Bon Jovi (then John Bongiovi) reached high school, he firmly believed that he was going to become a rock ‘n’ roll
superstar. His parents wholeheartedly supported him pursuing that dream.
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Southside Johnny and the Asbury Jukes pose outside the Stone
Pony club in Asbury Park, New Jersey, in June 1976. Jon Bon
Jovi was encouraged by the Jersey-bred band’s success.
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War Memorial High in Parlin for junior and senior School in nearby Edison, New Jersey. Together
year, Jon was practicing to be a rock star more than they founded a 10-piece band called Atlantic
he was spending time on schoolwork. City Expressway that covered the music of Bruce
He had flowing long hair, perfectly styled thanks Springsteen, the Animals, Thin Lizzy, and Southside
to his dad. And he wore sunglasses to school every Johnny and the Asbury Jukes.
day, both to look cool and to hide his sleep-deprived Springsteen and the E Street Band had put
eyes. “Studying” meant listening to a lot of Led Asbury on the musical map by name with his 1973
Zeppelin and Aerosmith, two bands whose posters debut, Greetings From Asbury Park, N.J. and then,
hung on the walls of his room. By the time he was 16, in 1975, with the monster success of Born To Run,
his idea of “homework” meant venturing to nearby which hit No. 3 on the Billboard 200 albums chart.
Asbury Park to play (and hang out) at clubs. With Atlantic City Expressway, an underage Jon
Jon’s partner was keyboardist David Bryan played shows in Asbury clubs until 3 a.m. and was at
(Rashbaum), a student from J.P. Stevens High school by 8. During class, all he thought about
Above: After his mentor Al Parinello died in 1995, Jon Bon Jovi carved “AP 95” into the upper bout of his black Takamine EF341SC to
honor Parinello’s memory and to remind himself to practice every day. Right: The singer performs with the Atlantic City Expressway.
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Left: The Atlantic City Expressway regularly played gigs in Asbury Park clubs including the Stone Pony and the Fast Lane. Above:
The Stone Pony, pictured here in 2020, also played a role in launching the career of New Jersey music icon Bruce Springsteen.
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Jon performs with his band
the Rest. Conversations with
mentors including Bruce
Springsteen encouraged the
ambitious young musician to
move on from cover bands.
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New York City brush manufacturer James A. Bradley founded Asbury Park in 1871, and its many attractions made it a popular resort
town. But in July 1970, a race riot caused by a lack of jobs and poor living conditions drove many people away.
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was moving to the southeast corner of Fourth and Zandt, and all of those guys. I’d see them all through
Kingsley, otherwise known as the Jefferson Hotel, all the years of playing the clubs. I was in high school
where the owner would keep the bar open after and I’d play with those guys.”
hours just so the bands could hang out and relax. Springsteen, in particular, was a monumental
Still only a teenager, Jon Bon Jovi was part of figure in Jon’s formative years. Jon spent practically
that scene. all of his money on Springsteen bootlegs and
“Bruce and anyone else in that band, or that thoroughly immersed himself in the deep cuts.
clique that was down there, was very, very, very One night in January 1980, Springsteen came to the
supportive of myself and groups that I played in,” Fast Lane to check out Atlantic City Expressway—the
Jon said in a 1987 interview. “Bruce used to come Jersey Shore cover band fronted by Jon. When the
down a lot, and Southside Johnny, and Steve Van opening harmonica intro of “The Promised Land”
sounded, Springsteen came onstage and shared the
THROUGH ALL THE YEARS but hadn’t recorded in the studio. Jon had picked
up the song from one of the bootlegs. At one point,
OF PLAYING THE CLUBS. I Springsteen even called Jon to let him know that he
and the band had recorded one of Jon’s original songs
A view of Asbury Park, New Jersey, in 1978. Southside Johnny and Bruce Springsteen were in Asbury regularly, strolling the
boardwalk during the day and going to music venues like the Fast Lane and the Stone Pony to listen to their friends play at night.
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After Atlantic City Expressway, Jon joined up with a band called the Rest (below), followed by John Bongiovi and the Wild Ones. He
was focused on developing his own material.
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gig came when Tony’s production partner, Meco idols. When the studio wasn’t being used, Jon was
Monardo, was at the Power Station recording the allowed to use the facility to record demos with
novelty children’s release Christmas in the Stars: Star whatever combination of players he could convince
Wars Christmas Album. Accompanied by a choir of to join him free of charge. Jon made full use of this
kids, Tony recommended Jon as the lead voice for the opportunity, and through repetition, practice and
track “R2-D2 We Wish You a Merry Christmas.” the chemistry of being joined by actual professional
This wasn’t exactly the kind of song Jon session players, Jon started to produce demos that
wanted to be known for. But Tony convinced showed promise.
him the initial exposure might start his career One of his Power Station demos was a re-
rolling. Unfortunately, RSO Records, the album’s recording of a song that Jon wrote in 1981 when
label, went out of business on the evening of the he was with the Wild Ones. It was a song about a
album’s release. This meant that only the original rebellious teenage girl, nothing too original, but the
150,000 copies went to press, which, while not intro had an infectious keyboard hook. Recorded
insignificant for an aspiring musician, was far at the Power Station, it sounded better than the
below the numbers needed to give Jon fame or original version.
fortune. Jon made very little money for the Star The song was called “Runaway.” And once it
Wars gig, then returned to sweeping the floors. was recorded and pressed as a demo at the Power
But there was another perk to working for Cousin Station, it was about to make all of Jon Bon Jovi’s
Tony, besides getting coffee for some of his rock dreams come true.
When the Power Station recording studio wasn’t booked, Jon was allowed to use the facility to record his own demos. He made full
use of the opportunity and, backed by professional session players, started to produce demos that showed promise.
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Jon Bon Jovi poses for a portrait
in New Jersey in 1984, the year
his band Bon Jovi’s debut album
was released.
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In the early 1980s, with professional demos in hand, Jon tried to get the attention of every record company and manager possible
but wasn’t successful. So, he went straight to radio station DJs instead.
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put his tape in the hands of DJ Chip Hobart and than Elvis: “So … let me know when you put a
promotion director John Lassman. band together.”
When the two listened to “Runaway,” they heard It was game on. Jon first reached out to David
a hit. Lassman immediately asked Jon if he wanted Bryan, who at the time was a pre-med student
the song to be included in a compilation album at Rutgers University. Bryan had just gotten
of homegrown talent that the station planned to an audition for the Juilliard School, the most
release called New York Rocks 1983. WAPP was prestigious music conservatory in America, and was
going to use the sampler album to promote its first planning to go there if he was accepted. When Jon
summer in the New York market. At first, Jon wasn’t told him about his PolyGram deal, Bryan dropped
particularly interested. He wanted his own record everything and never looked back.
deal, not to be included on a compilation. But he Next up was bassist Alec John Such, who was in
soon realized that this was a decent opportunity, a cover band called Phantom’s Opera, in addition
so he seized it. (The sampler also included another
then-unknown act called Twisted Sister.)
At left: Derek Shulman of the British progressive rock band
Released under the artist name John Bongiovi, Gentle Giant, in London in 1975. Shulman later joined PolyGram
“Runaway” received airplay not only in New York but and played a key role in signing Jon. Below: Bon Jovi bassist
other major markets from Tampa to Chicago. The Alec John Such performs with the band in Los Angeles in 1984.
song was soon a national hit that cracked the Top 40.
Now all the major labels had their eyes on Jon. He
couldn’t get their attention before, but with a radio
hit to his name, they wanted to release the album
that would cash in on the hit single. A bidding war
broke out, and, in the end, PolyGram won.
Derek Shulman, former frontman of proggers
Gentle Giant, had just joined PolyGram as an A&R
representative. In his third month at the job, he
heard about Jon through his network of people.
Shulman checked out the WAPP sampler, and his
interest was piqued. He went to Sayreville to meet
Jon and immediately saw a young man that was
impossibly driven. “He told me ‘I want to be bigger
than Elvis, and he didn’t look at me laughingly. He
meant it,’” Shulman recalled.
Now Jon had a record deal and a hit song. But
what he didn’t have was a band to back him. The
all-star talent that helped him record the Power
Station demos would be almost impossible to gather
as a touring group—some came from Springsteen’s
E Street Band as well as Rick Springfield’s band, an
artist who was very hot at the time.
Jon was on the clock because Shulman wanted
him to cut a full album as soon as possible. As he
said to the young artist who wanted to be bigger
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Above: Dave “Snake” Sabo of Skid Row joins guitarist Richie Sambora onstage during a Bon Jovi concert at Giants Stadium in East
Rutherford, New Jersey, in June 1989. At right: Sambora poses for a portrait in Tokyo, Japan, in 1985.
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Richie Sambora, Jon Bon Jovi
and Alec John Such of Bon Jovi
put on a show at Nakano
Sunplaza in Tokyo, Japan, in
April 1985.
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the hair: long, flowing, sometimes fluffy, always in black leather. Besides, you hardly even notice
well-conditioned hair. them because Jon fills the screen, singing with great
The two classic hair metal bands were Mötley intensity as he looks into the camera with a clean-
Crüe and Ratt, and their image was as loud and shaven baby face and gentle eyes. The rest of the
explosive as their music. Members of both groups band gets more screen time during the instrumental
wore their long hair teased up. They also wore break, but by then it doesn’t much matter. The face
makeup. Their choice of clothing was an interesting you remember is Jon’s.
blend of glam, punk and BDSM influences, with But even from the beginning, Bon Jovi was never
tight leather or spandex pants, ripped shirts, spiked truly a hair metal band. Most of those groups sprung
armbands and headbands all part of the uniform. from the West Coast, cutting their teeth at clubs on the
The recipe worked—these bands cranked out music Sunset Strip. Their sound was different too, rooted in
videos that generated screen time, and the screen heavy metal. Bon Jovi’s music had more of an R&B and
time sold records. blues influence, which wasn’t surprising because that
When the video for “Runaway” was released, was at the heart of the Jersey Shore sound.
Bon Jovi definitely looked like a new hair metal The catalyst that influenced Bon Jovi to adopt—
band. They checked all the boxes: Jon’s shoulder- at least visually—a hair metal vibe was Doc McGhee.
length hair is practically drenched in Aqua Net. He After the band was assembled, he gradually
wears a ripped white shirt beneath a brown fringe transitioned into becoming its manager. He replaced
jacket with tight spandex (or possibly leather) Peter Mantas, Jon’s childhood friend, who had stuck
pants, the color of which is lavender. The rest of with the band through the rocky early days but knew
the band behind him is dressed for the occasion he couldn’t support them much longer as they were
as well, but compared to Jon they look like bikers becoming too big, too fast.
In the Bon Jovi music video for "Runaway," Jon sports long hair teased up with hairspray, a ripped white shirt beneath a brown fringe
jacket and tight lavender pants.
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McGhee had managed Mötley Crüe and took
them to the top. In Bon Jovi, he saw a way to evolve “IT TOOK US THREE
ALBUMS TO REALLY GET
the formula to something even more successful.
One day in 1983, Jon and McGhee went to a record
store together. As they looked at album covers, they
started talking about huge acts like Van Halen and
Journey. McGhee said to Jon, “We could be like IT RIGHT.... BY THE THIRD
them. Only bigger.”
McGhee’s confidence appealed to the always-
ambitious Jon. It matched his goals precisely. By
ONE, WE GOT IT.”
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the time Bon Jovi broke into the Top 40 of Billboard’s
Hot 100, McGhee had set up a host of gigs for the
band—domestically and abroad—to get them even status in 1987. This success opened many doors for
wider exposure. The band toured the United States Bon Jovi, and they secured their first headlining
with the Scorpions, Europe with Kiss and Japan slots in Japan, where they sold out 10 shows.
with Whitesnake. Behind the scenes, McGhee believed that the
In March 1985, Bon Jovi released their secret ingredient to make Bon Jovi bigger than the
sophomore album, 7800° Fahrenheit. The album rest was Jon himself. No matter how he dressed,
was received favorably by fans, and two songs, how long his hair was or how hard he rocked, there
“Only Lonely” and “In and Out of Love,” made it was no disguising that beneath it all he had the face
to the Billboard Hot 100. The album stayed on the of a good guy. People liked him—especially young
Billboard 200 for two years and reached platinum women. And unlike Mötley Crüe, mothers liked the
David Bryan and Richie Sambora of Bon Jovi greet fans on the rooftop of Seibu Department Store in the Ikebukuro district of Tokyo,
Japan, in April 1985. The success of Bon Jovi's sophomore album led to the band securing their first headlining slots in Japan.
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rock hard enough. Child and Sambora were sure the boardwalk down at the Jersey Shore. In the
it was going to be a hit and had to plead with Jon original cover photo, Chidnese is shown wearing
to record it. The finished product would later be a wet yellow T-shirt with “Slippery When Wet”
named one of the 500 Greatest Songs of All Time by written on it, framed inside a pink border. This
Rolling Stone. cover got scrapped just before the album’s release,
These songs all ended up on Bon Jovi’s third and was replaced with a picture of a wet black
album, Slippery When Wet. When that album garbage bag with the album’s title written on it.
dropped, the band’s success jumped to another level. The explanations for the change were that the label
Now they weren’t just another hair band—they were feared public outcry over the sexist imagery, and
something unique unto themselves. “It took us three that Jon also disliked the pink border. Still, the
albums to really get it right,” Jon would later say. controversial image was used in Japanese versions
“Though the first two did OK, by the third one, of the album.
we got it.” Slippery When Wet was a massive commercial
Slippery When Wet added a polished commercial success, hitting No. 1 on the U.S. Billboard 200
sheen to the band’s core rock sound and transformed chart, where it remained for eight weeks. It was
Bon Jovi into pop megastars. Jon continued to 1987’s top-selling album and is one of the best-
make sure there was just enough edge to add some selling albums in U.S. history. The album also
danger to the band. The title Slippery When Wet spawned three Top 10 singles: “Wanted Dead or
was inspired by a sign at a Vancouver strip club. Alive,” “You Give Love a Bad Name” and “Livin’
The original album cover featured an image of a on a Prayer.” The latter two songs reached No. 1.
voluptuous young woman named Angela Chidnese As Child later concluded: “It was one of those
that photographer Mark Weiss’ assistant found on moments where a star is born.”
Above from left: Australian fans wear Bon Jovi T-shirts to celebrate the band’s arrival in Sydney in September 1987; Jon plays
acoustic guitar while singing “Wanted Dead or Alive” in 1987. At right: Jon at Madison Square Garden in New York City in 1987.
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Above: Jon and his parents, Carol and John Sr., attend the Silver Clef Awards in 1990. At right: Jon and Dorothea take in the premiere
of Moonstruck at the Museum of Modern Art in New York City in December 1987.
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and said ‘why should I sit here and wait?’” The right through the screen door, and was like, ‘Woah!’
couple broke up, and Jon was seen out on the town I f--ked up, man. That’s good, though. That’s why I’ve
with actress Diane Lane. Jon and Dorothea reunited never been a drug guy. I’ve always felt I didn’t have
after the 7800° Fahrenheit tour was over when Jon the mental stability to handle drugs.”
came back to New Jersey. He begged Dorothea to Unbeknownst to Jon, his daughter Stephanie
reconcile, and they’ve remained together ever since. also experimented with drugs. This led to a very
On April 29, 1989, Bon Jovi was in Los Angeles disconcerting event that took place on Nov. 14,
for a sold-out three-show run at the Forum. Jon and 2012. While a freshman at Hamilton College,
Dorothea were staying at the St. James Club in West Stephanie was found unresponsive in her third floor
Hollywood. When Jon opened the curtain, his view dorm room. She had overdosed on heroin and was
directly faced a billboard with his face on it. It was
a surreal moment that inspired Jon and Dorothea
Stephanie walks the White Trash Beautiful fashion show at the
to sneak off to Las Vegas and tie the knot. Together, IndigO2 in London in 2010. The clothing line was a collaboration
they have four children: Stephanie Rose (born 1993), between Richie Sambora and designer Nikki Lund.
Jesse James Louis (born 1995), Jacob Hurley (born
2002) and Romeo Jon (born 2004).
Relationships like Jon and Dorothea’s are
unicorns in rock ‘n’ roll. A comparably strong
example that comes immediately to mind is Rolling
Stones legend Charlie Watts, who was married to
Shirley Shepherd for 57 years before he died in 2021.
But as amazing and admirable as that marriage was,
Watts was also the band’s drummer, not the lead
singer, a position that openly invites temptations,
mistakes and bad behavior on a regular basis. (For
the record, Mick Jagger has been married—and
divorced—only once, but has children from eight
different relationships.)
Jon is a different breed. He has never claimed
to be a saint, but he also appears to have never let
any of his missteps get out of hand. He told Men’s
Health, “I did the drug thing very young and wised
up very young too, because I was into drugs a little
too much. I mean, I was entrepreneurial even then,
buying quarter pounds of dope and trying to make
a couple bucks. But then, did you ever smoke dope
that was laced with PCP and then have that whole
summer of hallucinations? It was f--king awful. I
was the guy who bogarted the joint all the time, ran
At left from top: Jon and Dorothea and their children Stephanie,
Romeo and Jacob attend the Centrepoint Winter Whites Gala in
London in 2013; Jon enjoys the gala from the audience.
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“I FEEL IT WAS A
TERRIBLE TRAGIC LESSON
OF LIFE BUT I THANK GOD
EVERY DAY BECAUSE SHE
IS WHOLE. IT HAPPENED
AND IT HAS GONE.”
—Jon Bon Jovi
Dorothea, Jon and their son Romeo attend the Love Rocks NYC
benefit concert livestream for God’s Love We Deliver at the
Beacon Theater in New York City in June 2021.
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pandemic, the Bongiovis passed the time watching Jon agrees: “Having grown up together and
movies, baking and doing crafts together. grown together… we really like each other. We want
“For about a month, our whole family was intact. to hang out.”
Then the big kids finally said, ‘We’re out,’ and Musically, Jon revealed what family means to
made a run for it,” Jon recalled. Son Jacob later him in the song “Story of Love” from Bon Jovi’s
caught a mild case of COVID and recovered. Jon 15th studio album, 2020. The song’s sentimental
also tested positive right before a show in Florida music video features never-before-seen pictures and
in late October 2021, requiring him to miss the videos of Jon’s family, including a vintage clip of his
performance. But he appeared to be feeling fine and parents, John Sr. and Carol, dancing. The opening
cancelled only because it was required. lyrics read:
“Our focus has always been family first and
making sure that people are doing well,” Dorothea Fathers love daughters like mothers love sons
told People in explaining how she and Jon have been They’ve been writing our story before there was one
able to maintain such a strong bond. “We like each From the day you arrive, ’til you walk, ’til you run
other. We spent a lot of time together.” There is nothing but pride, there is nothing but love
At left: Jon and Dorothea attend the 48th Golden Globe Awards in Los Angeles in January 1991. Above: The couple attend the Jackie
Robinson Foundation ROBIE Awards Dinner, where they were honored for their humanitarian work, in New York City in March 2020.
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From left to right: David Bryan,
Alec John Such, Jon Bon Jovi,
Richie Sambora and Tico Torres
in August 1992.
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Above: Fans clamor to get a good look as members of Bon Jovi arrive for their Slippery When Wet tour dates in Sydney, Australia, in
September 1987. By the end of the tour, the band had played more than 200 sold-out shows worldwide, leaving everyone exhausted.
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addition to three other Top 10 hits. Then Bon Jovi
embarked on another tour to support the album that
spanned 230 shows over a 16-month period.
At the end of the New Jersey tour, everyone went
their separate ways without any formal goodbyes.
For seven straight years, the members of Bon
Jovi had spent practically every waking moment
together. Now they were sick of one another. In
January 1991, the band took a hiatus that lasted
about a year.
That didn’t mean the members of the band stopped
working. Richie Sambora released Stranger in This
Town, his first solo album, in 1991. David Bryan, Tico
Torres and guest star Eric Clapton appeared on the
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Clockwise from left: Jon wins a Golden Globe for his Young Guns II
song “Blaze of Glory”; Bon Jovi promote their 1988 album New
Jersey; Richie Sambora and Cher at Sambora’s Stranger in This
Town album release party; Jon and Sambora in Moscow in 1989.
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since its inception. Original bassist Alec John Such In 2008, Sambora was pulled over after a police
was fired (reportedly for poor live performances) officer saw his car weaving in and out of lanes in
and replaced by Hugh McDonald, who had played on Laguna Beach, California. Sambora’s girlfriend,
Jon’s early “Runaway” demo. along with two children—Sambora’s 10-year-old
Privately, other band members were also going daughter Ava and her cousin—were in the car, and
through dark times. In 2006, Sambora’s wife, actress when Sambora failed his field sobriety tests, he was
Heather Locklear, filed for divorce, and during arrested on suspicion of driving under the influence.
this period, Locklear’s best friend, actress Denise He faced six months in prison but struck a plea
Richards, was also in the process of divorcing Charlie deal and got off with three years of probation and
Sheen. Sambora and Richards then hooked up, which a $1,600 fine, in addition to having to attend three
provoked a rash of distracting tabloid headlines. months of a first-offender alcohol awareness class.
Both Sambora’s father and Richards’ mother were Torres also struggled with alcohol addiction and,
also battling cancer, and when Sambora’s dad passed in Jon’s words, was a “very mean, mean man,” when
away, the stress caused him and Richards to break up he was drunk. Torres traced this to the lifelong
as well. anger from his father leaving him when he was a
Above: Richie Sambora with then-wife Heather Locklear in 1995. Opposite page: Bon Jovi in concert in Boston in April 2018. Guitarist
Phil X replaced Sambora in the band after Sambora’s sudden departure in 2013.
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kid. He went to rehab and sorted himself out, later which involved shocking the finger by poking it
discovering golf and art as new passions. into buckets of ice, Legos and other things, his
Keyboardist David Bryan suffered through finger returned to normal.
a particularly wicked stomach illness that he But the biggest challenge to Bon Jovi was
believed came from parasites he got in South yet to come. In Calgary in 2013, just before the
America while on tour with Bon Jovi. He was in the 21st show of the “Because We Can” tour, Richie
hospital for around two weeks and left 40 pounds Sambora didn’t show up to the concert. It wasn’t
lighter. After that, Bryan’s luck didn’t improve. an accident. Sambora had decided—suddenly and
His right index finger was sliced to the bone in an unexpectedly—to quit the band after 30 years. There
accident with a circular saw. Even after numerous were 82 more dates scheduled on the tour, and
surgeries, doctors told him he wouldn’t be able to guitarist Phil X was recruited to fill in, becoming a
use that finger again. Bryan was out of commission full-time member in 2016. “It was personal issues.
for over a year but still wouldn’t give up. After He was never fired, and as he finally admitted on
intense physical therapy and “nerve resetting,” television, there was never a fight. He just didn’t
show up,” Jon told Today Australia. “He didn’t do it
to hurt me. He didn’t do it to hurt David or Tico. He
did it for personal reasons.”
Sambora’s departure put Jon in a deep depression.
The two men still haven’t patched up the hurt
feelings that resulted. A few years after the split,
Jon told the Sun, “It was a very, very difficult time
that I haven’t fully rebounded from yet.”
In 2015, Bon Jovi released Burning Bridges,
the band’s first album without Sambora. The
name of the title track summarized how everyone
in the band felt—especially Jon—about what
had happened with their longtime guitarist,
collaborator and friend.
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Jon and Dorothea speak to the
media after opening the BEAT
(Bringing Everyone All Together)
Center—where families in need
can access food and other
resources—in Toms River, New
Jersey, on May 10, 2016.
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From left: Bon Jovi members Phil X, Tico Torres, Jon Bon Jovi,
David Bryan and Hugh McDonald pose for a portrait while
promoting their album This House Is Not for Sale in 2016.
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every single decision. “Jon is the leader of this turn around and go, ‘You know what? Let’s just make
organization. It’s defined,” Richie Sambora told this a complete democracy.’”
60 Minutes in a 2008 interview, a few years before As the leader of Bon Jovi, Jon shoulders pressures
he left the group. and responsibilities that no one else does. The cost of
It’s a power dynamic that has sometimes led to doing business is high. Between the wardrobe stylist,
tension. But all of the band members knew what sound guy and the countless other people behind the
they signed up for from the start—the days when scenes, many depend on Jon for their livelihood. Each
“Runaway” was a radio hit credited only to Jon, live show costs millions to produce, and if Jon can’t
leaving him with the task of hiring a band to support make a show, there’s a huge price to pay.
him on an album. In the early days, Jon and Richie Sambora
As keyboardist David Bryan explained, “We’re found success writing songs on the side for artists
hugely successful, so you gotta go, ‘OK.’ Can’t fight including Cher. (Sambora dated Cher for a time
City Hall, you know what I mean? He’s not going to as well.)
Above: The band appears on Late Night With Jimmy Fallon in 2009. At right: Richie Sambora and Cher attend the 1989 MTV Video
Music Awards. Cher’s 1987 single, “We All Sleep Alone,” was written and produced by Jon, Sambora and Desmond Child.
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Cher’s song “We All Sleep Alone” was written him right after “Runaway” hit, when Jon was still
by Jon, Sambora and Desmond Child, and hit trying to put his band together. Jon and Sabo made
No. 14 on the Billboard Hot 100. Together, Jon and a pact that if one of them made it big, he’d help the
Sambora formed a publishing company, New Jersey other one out. Jon made it huge, and true to his
Underground Music, Inc., which produced bands word, in 1989, Jon helped Sabo’s band Skid Row land
like Loverboy. a record deal with Atlantic Records. Jon then took
New Jersey Underground Music, Inc. also played Skid Row on the road as the opening act for Bon
a part in the saga of Skid Row. Dave “The Snake” Jovi’s New Jersey Syndicate tour. Skid Row’s self-
Sabo, a childhood friend of Jon’s from Sayreville, titled debut album went quintuple platinum and
helped Jon by playing on several showcases with reached No. 6 on the Billboard 200.
That’s when things took a sour turn. As they were
SAMSON AND DELILAH when the money came rolling in, most of it went into
their pockets. Sambora later gave his share back to
HERE. I DIDN’T LOSE MY Skid Row, but Jon did not. Jon’s relationship with
the members of Skid Row grew so strained that
STRENGTH OR NOTHING
there were threats of violence, especially between
Jon and Skid Row front man Sebastian Bach.
Members of Bon Jovi, the Ozzy Osbourne band, the Scorpions and Skid Row arrive at the airport for the Moscow Music Peace
Festival at Luzhniki Stadium in Moscow, Russia, on Aug. 9, 1989.
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understood from the start that if he didn’t adapt to makeover. While musically, Crush was a far cry from
trends and work to stay relevant, his star could fall the heavy edge Bon Jovi’s early albums had, lyrically,
as quickly as it rose. Jon still touched on a lot of the working-class
As ridiculous as it may seem, Jon took a huge themes that brought him his early fame. He even
business gamble in 1992 when he decided to cut his referenced “Tommy and Gina” on the lead single,
hair. The haircut was such big news that even CNN “It’s My Life.”
covered it. Industry insiders were worried that he Jon’s early songs like “Wanted Dead or Alive” and
would lose some of his female following. Jon knew it “Blaze of Glory” teased country elements. When
was time for a change, that it was better to be ahead country music became popular on mainstream
with his look rather than behind, and he was able to radio, Jon fully exploited the country side of his
handle the attention around his hair with charm and musical personality. He performed with Sugarland,
humor. “It’s not a case of Samson and Delilah here. a country duo, in September 2005 on an episode
I didn’t lose my strength or nothing when I cut my of CMT Crossroads. This performance marked the
hair,” he said in a 1993 interview. debut of “Who Says You Can’t Go Home,” a duet
The haircut marked the band’s comeback album with Sugarland’s Jennifer Nettles. The song was
after a long hiatus. Keep the Faith eschewed many of later released as the second single from Bon Jovi’s
the ’80s glam metal elements that characterized Bon ninth album, Have a Nice Day. This album featured
Jovi’s sound in favor of a more modern pop sound. two versions of “Who Says You Can’t Go Home,” one
Even with this drastic change in image and music, of which is the duet with Nettles that hit No. 1 on
Keep the Faith was still a smash hit, reaching No. 5 Billboard’s Hot Country Songs chart.
on the Billboard 200 and going double platinum. A strong believer in a diversified portfolio, Jon is
By 2000, metal was mostly gone from popular also involved with business ventures that indulge
culture. Accordingly, for Crush, Jon transformed his passions away from music. A lifelong football
the band’s sound again with an adult contemporary fanatic, Jon became co-owner of the Philadelphia
Clockwise from left: Jon cut off his famous long locks in 1992; Jennifer Nettles of Sugarland joins Bon Jovi to sing “Who Says You
Can’t Go Home” in Atlanta in January 2006; Nettles performs with the band at the CMA Awards in November 2005.
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Soul, a team in the Arena Football League, in 2004. the running joke is that rosé is the water of the
He later teamed up with Maple Leaf Sports & Hamptons. And so, you know, me and my buddies
Entertainment and tried to buy the NFL’s Buffalo started calling every rosé ‘Hampton water.’ And
Bills. Donald Trump also bid for the Bills, but both one night, like two in the morning, I was sitting on
he and Jon eventually lost out. the porch. And my dad came out; he’s always been a
Jon devotes a huge amount of time, energy and big rosé drinker, and he calls it ‘pink juice.’ He goes,
resources to support philanthropic causes, focusing ‘Do you want another glass of pink juice?’ And I go,
specifically on housing and hunger. His Jon Bon Jovi ‘Dad, listen, you’re in East Hampton, you’re sitting at
Soul Foundation has funded affordable housing for your beautiful beach house, you’re not drinking pink
those in need, and he runs two JBJ Soul Kitchens, juice, you’re drinking Hampton water.’ And he lit up.
which are nonprofit community restaurants where He was like, ‘Oh my god, we might as well put that on
both paying and in-need customers are served. a bottle. People would love it.’”
There are no prices on the menu, but a donation is In April 2018, Jon and Jesse launched Hampton
suggested, and if you can’t make a donation, you Water, and even before the official release, the
can volunteer. initial run was sold out. That year it was also named
The common denominator for all of Jon’s Wine Spectator’s best rosé and was No. 83 on the
business ventures is that he likes to identify magazine’s top 100 list.
opportunities, move fast and commit to achieving Jon is proud of his success in business, but he
the highest level possible. One night, an doesn’t think he necessarily has a magic touch or
interaction with his son Jesse spawned another skills beyond good common sense. “Don’t chase fads
new undertaking, Hampton Water. As Jesse or fashions,” he explained on CNBC. “Whatever it is
explained to wmagazine.com: “I came up with the that you’re going to do, do it because you believe in
name—basically, if you’ve spent any time out here, it. And then success is just a matter of time.”
At left, from top: Jon celebrates the Philadelphia Soul’s win over the San Jose SaberCats at Arena Bowl XXII in 2008; Jon co-founded
the Hampton Water Wine Company along with son Jesse Bongiovi (right) and Ali Thomas (left). Above: Hampton Water rosé.
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Jon performs onstage with Bon Jovi during the 33rd Annual Rock & Roll Hall of Fame induction ceremony at Public Auditorium on
April 14, 2018, in Cleveland.
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The Hall of Fame ceremony marked the first time Sambora had
played with Bon Jovi since his sudden departure in 2013,
bringing the band one step closer to closure.
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called “Do What You Can.” the song, he presented an iPhone demo recording
“Unbroken” began when Jon was asked to write a of himself singing it with an acoustic guitar to the
song about PTSD in soldiers for a documentary film film’s director, Josh Aronson. Jon immediately
called To Be of Service. Though his parents met in received Aronson’s approval. Then Jon sent the
the Marines, it was a topic he was unfamiliar with, recording to the soldiers, and their reaction was, in
and he was initially torn about getting involved. Jon’s words, “everything I had hoped for. Because I
But after deciding to meet the challenge, Jon did a wanted them to feel proud of the song.”
deep dive into the subject. When he finished writing Positive moments of pride is a great way to sum
up what Jon feels now, as he nears the age of 60.
He’s aged gracefully. No cosmetic surgery, no Botox,
“HONESTLY, AT THIS
no hair transplants and no dye jobs. “Let me tell
you, I’ve earned this gray hair,” he told USA Today
Above: Jon presents Pink with the Icon Award at the 2021 Billboard Music Awards. At right from top: The band attends the MTV
Europe Music Awards in 1995; Jon and Prince Harry meet with the Invictus Games Choir at London’s Abbey Road Studios in February
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philanthropy, it’s impossible to know where When asked by 60 Minutes Australia what
inspiration might lead him next. chapter of the Jon Bon Jovi storybook he’s currently
“I’m not old enough to start thinking about at, Jon said: “I don’t know, that’s the beauty of it.
mortality,” he told GQ. “But the idea that we’re not We’re just … a little more than halfway there.”
the kid in the room anymore—48, 58—you’re sort It’s a perspective Jon wears well because it comes
of accomplishing or have accomplished the great from a place of gratitude and contentment. He
things that you’re gonna do, and that’s all well and has never forgotten how the journey started, and
good, but what matters more is what you’re building how much work and sacrifice it took to reach the
with your family. Because those two chapters, you fortunate place where he is today—not only from
can’t f--k up either one of those or they’re gonna him, but from all the people who have supported and
scar you. Fix those circumstances and get them loved him over the years. “It’s a gift that God gives
right now, [then] start writing your own chapters. you the job you wanted when you were a kid, and
Live with them. Make them something worth that I get to do it still,” he says. “I’m the luckiest man
reading again.” in the world.”
Clockwise from top left: Grace Potter and Jon at the Love Rocks NYC benefit concert in June 2021; Jon and Dorothea accept the
Humanitarian Award at the JRF 2020 Robie Awards dinner; Jon performs at a rally for then-presidential candidate Joe Biden (2).
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EDITORIAL DIRECTION BY
Creative Director
Ian Knowles
Executive Editors
Bob Der & Scott Gramling
Art Director
Crhistian Rodriguez
Writer
Joe Charupakorn
Production Editor
Corinne Cummings
Copy Editor
Monica Riese
Special Contributors
Billy Smith, Pat Celi
CFO
Bill Houston
Vice President
Holly Oakes (Consumer Marketing)
Tom Maloney (Consumer Marketing & Sales)
Circulation Manager
Bill Fiakos
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HOW A KID FROM NEW JERSEY BECAME A
ROCK ‘N’ ROL
LL LEG
GEND
“SUCCESS IS
FALLING DOWN NINE TIMES
AND GETTING UP TEN.”
– JON BON JOVI