Act Like AMan
Act Like AMan
Act Like AMan
A Woman
Time: 75 minutes
Activity Objective:
Examine how cultural messages about gender can affect human behavior in women and
men
Materials:
Activity:
1. Ask the participants if they have ever been told to “act like a man” or “act like a
woman” based on their gender. Ask them to share some experiences in which someone
has said this or something similar to them. Why did the individual say this? How did it
make the participant feel?
2. Tell the participants that we are going to look more closely at these two phrases.
Explain that by looking at them, we can begin to see how society can make it very
difficult to be either male or female.
3. In large letters, print on a piece of flipchart paper the phrase “Act Like a Man.” Ask
the participants to share their ideas about what this means. These are society’s
expectations of who men should be, how men should act, and what men should feel and
say. Draw a box on the paper, and write the meanings of “act like a man” inside this
box. Some responses might include the following:
• Be tough.
• Do not cry.
• Yell at people.
• Show no emotions.
• Take care of other people.
• Do not back down
4. Once you have brainstormed your list, initiate a discussion by asking the following
questions
5. Now in large letters, print on a piece of flipchart paper the phrase “Act Like a
Woman.” Ask the participants to share their ideas about what this means. These are
society’s expectations of who women should be, how women should act, and what
women should feel and say. Draw a box on the piece of paper, and write the meanings
of “act like a woman” inside this box. Some responses may include the following:
• Be passive.
• Be the caretaker.
• Act sexy, but not too sexy.
• Be smart, but not too smart.
• Be quiet.
• Listen to others.
• Be the homemaker.
6. Once you have brainstormed your list, initiate a discussion by asking the following
questions:
7. Close the activity by summarizing some of the discussion and sharing any final
thoughts. A final comment and question could be as follows:
The roles of men and women are changing in our society. It has slowly become less
difficult to step outside of the box. Still, it is hard for men and women to live outside
of these boxes. What would make it easier for men and women to live outside of the
boxes?