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Understanding the Self

Sociology
Ms. Angelica E. Balatong
What is Sociology?
Sociology
Sociology is the study of the role of society in
shaping behavior. It focuses on how different
aspects of society contribute to an individual’s
relationship with his world.
How do you perceive yourself in
relation to others?
The self as a product of modern
society among other constructions
The sociological theories of the self try to explain how social
processes such as socialization influence the development of the
self. Socialization is the process of learning one’s culture and how
to live within it. In other words, it is the process whereby an
individual learns to adjust to a group and behave in a way that is
approved by the group.
The Agents of Socialization:
Socialization helps us learn to function successfully in
their social worlds. This learning takes place through
interaction with the various agents of socialization, like
our families and peer groups, plus both formal and
informal social institutions, like schools and clubs.
Charles Horton Cooley
He was one of the pioneer contributors to sociological
perspectives. He asserted that people’s self-understanding is
constructed, in part, by their perception of how others view
them—a process termed “the looking glass self.” For Cooley,
we gradually figure out who we are as we grow up. You
figure out what you look like by looking in a mirror. However,
you figure out who you are through social interactions. The
people you interact with become your “mirrors.”
Cooley and the Looking-Glass Self Theory
The process of discovering and experiencing the looking-
glass self occurs in three steps:
First, we imagine how we appear to others.
Second, we imagine the judgment of that appearance.
Third, we develop our self (identity) through the
judgments of others.
George Herbert Mead
He is a well-known sociologist for his theory of the
social self. It is based on the perspective that the self
emerges from social interactions, such as observing and
interacting with others, responding about others’
opinions about oneself, and internalizing them together
with one’s feelings about oneself.
The Social Self
For Mead, our self is not there at birth, but it is
developed over time from social experiences and
activities. Mead believed that as we grow up, our beliefs
about how other people perceive us start to become
more important.
Mead thought that this happens through three different stages:
the preparatory stage
the play stage
the game stage
THE PREPARATORY STAGE
children interact with others through imitation. Children may
play with pots and pans when a person is cooking or use a
broom when their mothers try to clean but are not really true
interactions. As children grow, they begin to focus more on
communicating with others as opposed to simply imitating
them.
THE PLAY STAGE
children start to become more aware of the importance of
social relationships. This is evident in children’s tendency to
pretend to play like other people. They play mommies or
daddies or doctors or chefs, etcetera. And, whereas before
they were incapable of taking on the perspective of others,
now they are beginning to focus on role-taking or mentally
assuming the perspectives of another person and acting
based on their perceived point of view.
THE GAME STAGE
children’s understanding of social interactions become even
more developed. Children begin to understand the attitudes,
beliefs, and behaviors of what Mead referred to as the
“generalized other,” or the society as a whole. With this
comes a full understanding of society. For instance, children
begin to realize that people do not only perform in ways
according to what they personally believe in but also based
on what society expects of them.
Concept of the “I” and the “me.”
For Mead, the “me” is our social self, and the “I” is our response to
the “me.” The “me” is how we believe the generalized other sees
us and what we learn through interactions with others. On the
other hand, the “I” thinks about what those things mean. As an
example, the “me” might understand that women in the Philippines
typically marry in their 20’s, but the “I” might wonder if that is best,
if maybe it would be best if some wait longer and delay marrying
or if they may be travel or enjoy more their singlehood for a few
years.

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