Living Well Children S Workbook
Living Well Children S Workbook
Living Well Children S Workbook
Children’s Workbook
Christian Practices for Children
Development of Living Well: Christian Practices for Everyday Life was funded, in part,
through a grant from the Valparaiso Project on the Education and Formation of People in Faith.
Living Well Children’s Workbook
Christian Practices for Children
3 Caring for the Body
7 Celebrating Life
11 Discernment—Making Decisions
15 Eating Well
19 Forgiving
24 Keeping Sabbath
28 Managing Household Life
32 Participating in Community
36 Praying
40 Reading the Bible
45 Transforming Community
The Children’s Workbook is designed for parents to use with their children
or for older children to use alone.
You can begin with any Christian practice. Find a chapter you like and begin.
Do the activities. Read the Bible passages. Decide which action ideas you are
going to try. Give yourself time to put the ideas into action. Then do it!
Live the Practice! Children, parents, and the whole family can work together
to do the activities and live the Christian Practices.
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Caring for the Body in My Family
Caring for one’s body involves a lot of different things, and some of the body’s care depends on
your medical care, dentists, water, food, and so on. On the line for each item below, place an “x”
that shows what your family does. The closer your “x” is to the choice, the more often your
household does the practice.
An Example
If we had an item on eating chocolate, it might look like this:
Eat chocolate every day. ……X………………………Eat chocolate a few times a week.
The “x” in the example is closest to “eat chocolate every day” which means that is what your
family usually does.
Eat well
Vegetables, fruit, grains, whole wheat pasta.
Give up sugary cereal if you eat it, and make
sure you eat way more good food than junk
food!
Exercise
Walk or bike or skateboard instead of drive
when safe and possible, take the stairs
instead of elevators, even a 15 minute walk a
day can be an amazing gift for your body!
Sleep
Children need 8 to 10 hours of sleep a night.
Do you get that amount of sleep? Do you fight
going to bed, or say yeah, time to get some
rest so that I can be alive and well tomorrow?
Recreation
Do you have time each day just to hang out?
To relax and read a book, or chat with
friends, or play a game? Re-creation helps to
recreate our minds and hearts!
Stress
Some people would say that children don’t
have much stress. What do you think?
Everyone needs healthy ways to deal with
their stress—writing things out, talking it out,
praying, going for a walk, bouncing a
basketball. What do you do?
Think of the last celebration or special moment that you shared with your family:
Here’s a Scripture match for you to do. In order to explore some of the ways that Jesus
celebrated or spoke about life, you need to look up the Bible passage in the right column and
match it to the correct phrase or summary in the left column.
1. I came that you may have life and have it to the full. Luke 10:38-42
2. Jesus celebrates at a wedding and helps them out. Mark 14:22-26
3. Jesus attends a Festival. Luke 19:1-10
4. Jesus celebrates a special meal with his disciples. John 10:10
5. Jesus hangs out with some little people. John 7:10-14
6. Jesus has a sleep over. Luke 18:15-17
7. Jesus chooses to spend time with his friend. John 2:1-11
(Correct answers for the Bible match activity: 1 = John 10:10, 2 = John 2:1-11, 3 = John 7:10-14,
4 = Mark 14:22-26, 5 = Luke 18:15-17, 6 = Luke 19:1-10, 7 = Luke 10:38-42)
Life is meant to be celebrated. Yes, there are times in our lives when we’re sad and we hurt, but
we always remember that Jesus celebrates life. We have been blessed with hope in the love of
God, and are called to be joyful people!
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Try It ! — Celebrating Life
Is there something special you have coming up in your household that you could plan a
celebration for? Maybe it’s a birthday or important time or a special accomplishment or a local
holiday. Here are several steps for preparing your celebration.
1. Think of a name and a theme for your celebration. For example, “Sarah’s Super Grades” or
“John’s Jubilant Hockey Win.”
2. Designate someone to lead the celebration, kind of like a Master of Ceremonies.
3. Create a “plan” for your celebration.
a. How will you begin? A prayer? A special song? A special greeting?
b. What things will you include in the celebration:
• A Bible reading?
• A short story or poetry reading?
• Story telling about the moment or person being celebrated?
• Slides or pictures?
• A special ritual, like a blessing?
4. How will you end the celebration? Special food? A song? Special activities like games?
5. Do you need to decorate for the celebration? Do you need to send out invitations?
Jesus returned from the Jordan full of the Holy Spirit and was led by the Spirit into the desert,
where he was tempted by the Devil for forty days. In all that time he ate nothing, so that he
was hungry when it was over.
The Devil said to him, “If you are God’s Do you ever make choices just to feel good or to
Son, order these stones to turn into find the easiest and quickest way out?
bread.” But Jesus answered, “The
scripture says, ‘Human beings cannot
live on bread alone.’”
Find the words listed below in the word search, and then write out the phrase that
remains with the un-crossed out letters.
S E C N E U Q E S N O C P D A CONSEQUENCES
T I E N G L C S E D I E E S I FAITH
M P O R O T I A N N N T F Y T
I N D I O E S S C O S E L I E FAMILY
R N M E D N M T T U I I I K L FRIENDS
U M A V A B K I R E M T N R O
GOODADVICE
E L Q N D L B T T A N Q P N F
A C P R V Q I B F C J I M O Q LIFE
J P P C I F A I T H U B N M S LISTENING
F G T P C R U C S P O U T G G
K A A C E H G B F Q L A W D X OPTIONS
A Q O Y N Q R D A T D X P O A PRAYER
J A A C F O N R P E H R W B E TIME
S R W W M Y A B D Q J C B Y D
P V Y D M K X T N W U G Q T O TRUSTED
___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___
___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___.
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Try It! — Making Good Decisions
Think of a decision that you just made, or need to make, and practice the process of
“discerning” a decision by walking through the steps below.
The apostles came back and told Jesus everything they had done. He took them
with him, and they went off by themselves to a town named Bethsaida. When the
crowds heard about it, they followed him. He welcomed them, spoke to them
about the Kingdom of God, and healed those who needed it.
When the sun was beginning to set, the twelve disciples came to him and said,
“Send the people away so that they can go to the villages and farms around here
and find food and lodging, because this is a lonely place.”
But Jesus said to them, “You yourselves give them something to eat.”
They answered, “All we have are five loaves and two fish. Do you want us to go
and buy food for this whole crowd?” (There were about five thousand there.)
Jesus said to his disciples, “Make the people sit down in groups of about fifty
each.”
After the disciples had done so, Jesus took the five loaves and two fish, looked up
to heaven, thanked God for them, broke them, and gave them to his disciples to
distribute to the people. They all ate and had enough, and the disciples took up
twelve baskets of what was left over.
Luke 9:10-17
f s s f e o g t l g l s r a
f o o d r c i g r p l f s g
o v o g e r i r f p o o e s
s g f d o e b e e t h l r o
i g a g p t p s g t r o a r
n l n g l a i s o e b o p s
o e f i e r n s s h r a e f
i mo s s r i t g g s m r p
s i n a o s e i r r f l p d
i e s e a o e v s y t e i e
v o e a e n n l r l c c e s
e o gmp s a s b s o a a t
l a em l a i c e p s s o e
e c a r g g s r i t n e i r
t g o e e p a r c m o l c o
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Try It ! — Eating Well
One of the important things we do to “eat well” is to remember to pray and thank God for the
gift of the many blessings God shares with us. Have you ever written a prayer before? Why not
try writing a table prayer to share with your family? Here’s a simple way to write a table prayer.
Next, is your opportunity to thank God for Thank you God for
the food and other blessings of the day.
Amen!
Do you. . .
Just get mad when things go wrong and walk away? YES NO SOMETIMES
Sit down and talk about what just happened? YES NO SOMETIMES
Hide out in your rooms until the storm passes? YES NO SOMETIMES
Make sure no one goes to bed angry with someone? YES NO SOMETIMES
Take time each week to talk about how things are going? YES NO SOMETIMES
Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, if my brother keeps on sinning against me,
how many times do I have to forgive him? Seven times?” “No, not seven times,”
answered Jesus, “but seventy times seven, because the Kingdom of heaven is like this.
Once there was a king who decided to check on his servants’ accounts. He had just
begun to do so when one of them was brought in who owed him millions of dollars.
The servant did not have enough to pay his debt, so the king ordered him to be sold as
a slave, with his wife and his children and all that he had, in order to pay the debt. The
servant fell on his knees before the king. “Be patient with me,’ he begged, “and I will
pay you everything!’ The king felt sorry for him, so he forgave him the debt and let him
go. “Then the man went out and met one of his fellow servants who owed him a few
dollars. He grabbed him and started choking him. “Pay back what you owe me!’ he
said. His fellow servant fell down and begged him, “Be patient with me, and I will pay
you back!’ But he refused; instead, he had him thrown into jail until he should pay the
debt. When the other servants saw what had happened, they were very upset and went
to the king and told him everything. So he called the servant in. “You worthless slave!’
he said. “I forgave you the whole amount you owed me, just because you asked me to.
You should have had mercy on your fellow servant, just as I had mercy on you.’ The
king was very angry, and he sent the servant to jail to be punished until he should pay
back the whole amount.”
And Jesus concluded, “That is how my Father in heaven will treat every one of you
unless you forgive your brother from your heart.” (Matthew 18:21-35)
What would you say to Jesus’ question: Will you forgive your parents, brothers, sisters,
friends? Write your response here.
1. Your little brother takes one of your toys or games without asking and accidentally breaks it.
Would you:
a. Yell at him, call him names, and maybe even hit him.
b. Try and explain to him how what he did hurts you.
2. Your Mom forgot to wake you up on Saturday morning so that you could watch your favorite
TV program. Would you:
a. Get real mad and throw a fit.
b. Assure your mom that it’s OK. You can watch it next week.
4. Your friends convince you to steal something from a local store. Would you:
a. Return to the store later and confess what you did and pay for it.
b. Pretend it was no big deal and not bother admitting your mistake.
How does Sabbath fit into your weekly schedule in your home? Circle the 8 activities you spend
the most time doing. How many are Sabbath activities? The activities marked with an “S” are
really good Sabbath activities!
• eating (S)
• sleeping (S)
• going to school or work
• participating in church activities (S)
• participating in organized sports
• participating in clubs like Scouting
• doing household chores like dishes,
cleaning the house, and yard work
• serving others like visiting an elderly
neighbor (S)
• doing fun activities as family (S)
• using the computer and internet
• exercise like walking and riding a bike (S)
• hanging out with friends (S)
• spending time with family (S)
• watching TV
• playing video games
• reading a book (S)
• praying
• reading the Bible (S)
• doing an arts and crafts project like
drawing or creating something (S)
• watching a movie (S)
1 Then Jesus went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath he went
as usual to the synagogue. He stood up to read the Scriptures and was handed the book of
the prophet Isaiah. (Luke 4:16-17)
2 Then Jesus went to Capernaum, a town in Galilee, where he taught the people on the
Sabbath. They were all amazed at the way he taught, because he spoke with authority.
(Luke 4:31-32)
3 But the news about Jesus spread all the more widely, and crowds of people came to hear
him and be healed from their diseases. But he would go away to lonely places, where he
prayed. (Luke 5:15-16)
4 One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he had finished, one of his disciples
said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.” Jesus said to them,
“When you pray, say this: “Father: May your holy name be honored; may your Kingdom
come…” (Luke 11:1-2)
(Answers in order: 1) read the scriptures, 2) taught the people, 3) he prayed, 4) Jesus was praying,
5) went to eat a meal, 6) teaching in the temple, and 7) began to teach in the synagogue)
Who does all the chores? Place the person’s initials beside each action to specify who usually
does that chore. Once you’ve assigned each chore, add up how many chores each person has. Do
the chores seem equally divided? Why or why not?
Jesus offers us some wisdom in some of his parables and stories about what kind of choices we
are called to make.
1 2 3 4
1 As Jesus and his disciples went on their way, he came to a village where a woman named
Martha welcomed him in her home.
2 She had a sister named Mary, who sat down at the feet of the Lord and listened to his
teaching.
3 Martha was upset over all the work she had to do, so she came and said, “Lord, don’t you
care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her to come and help me!”
4 The Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha! You are worried and troubled over so many things,
but just one is needed. Mary has chosen the right thing, and it will not be taken away from
her.” (Luke 10:38-42)
Is this passage telling us to give up our household chores and just spend all day at Jesus’ feet?
No, it’s telling us that we must keep our priorities straight. We must love God, and serve
others—managing our households and doing our chores needs to be rooted in God’s love for us,
and from that love flows our love for others by doing our chores.
1. Each week our household makes up a schedule for the Yes No Sometimes
week, noting events and who does what household chores.
2. We have time limits for how much TV we get to watch Yes No Sometimes
each day or week.
3. We follow a budget, and everyone knows how much money Yes No Sometimes
has been assigned for rent/mortgage, food, clothes,
transportation, entertainment, donations, and so on.
4. We choose to make gifts or do special things for each Yes No Sometimes
other or making a donation of time or money in one
another’s name, rather than buying a gift.
5. Our weekly schedule includes time for prayer and Yes No Sometimes
attending church.
6. We take time each week to be with friends and family. Yes No Sometimes
7. We clean our closets and drawers on a regular basis, and Yes No Sometimes
give away items to people in need.
Which communities are you and your family involved with? Draw a picture of your household in
the center circle, then draw an arrow from there to all the communities your household is
connected to. Add any communities that we missed that you are a part of.
Read the Bible passages below, and then think about what it means to participate in community.
Jesus went all over Galilee, teaching in the synagogues, preaching the Good News about
the Kingdom, and healing people who had all kinds of disease and sickness.
(Matthew 4:23)
Participating in community means helping those who need help, including the sick.
Jesus went into the Temple and drove out all those who were buying and selling there.
(Matthew 21:12-13)
Participating in community means doing the right things in the right places.
On the first day of the Festival of Unleavened Bread the disciples came to Jesus and asked
him, “Where do you want us to get the Passover Meal ready for you?” (Matthew 26:17)
Participating in community means joining with our church to celebrate the feasts
of our faith.
Two days later there was a wedding in the town of Cana in Galilee, Jesus’ mother was there,
and Jesus and his disciples had also been invited to the wedding. (John 2: 1-2)
We have many parts in the one body, and all these parts have different functions.
In the same way, though we are many, we are one body in union with Christ, and
we are all joined to each other as different parts of one body. So we are to use our
different gifts in accordance with the grace God has given us. If our gift is to
speak God’s message, we should do it according to the faith we have; if it is to
serve, we should serve; if it is to teach, we should teach; if it is to encourage
others, we should do so. Whoever shares with others should do it generously;
whoever has authority should work hard; whoever shows kindness to others
should do it cheerfully. (Romans 12:4–8)
Now underline all of the gifts that you read in the Bible passage.
Imagine !
Have you ever imagined what it would be like if everyone in the world used their gifts in service
to someone else, so that the world and all its communities would be a better place? Let yourself
dare to imagine, and finish each sentence below.
Example: Imagine if those who could sing shared their gift at Sunday worship. . .
The church would rock! God would be praised! Even I would enjoy going to church and singing!
Imagine if those with food shared with those who don’t have food. . .
Imagine if everyone shared their gifts and talents with their communities. . .
Put your glasses on, what needs do you see that you and your household could help meet? What
will you do to meet the need?
Neighborhood
A Need I See. . .
School
A Need I See. . .
Church
A Need I See. . .
Town/City
A Need I See. . .
World
A Need I See. . .
On the “post it notes” attached to the bulletin board below, write words or draw images that
say what prayer is for you.
When we celebrate
Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane: sacraments pray for
“Then he went off from them about the distance sacramental moments or
of a stone’s throw, and knelt down, and prayed,
remember the anniversaries
‘Father if you will take this cup of suffering from
of sacraments like
me...’” (Luke 22:41)
baptism or marriage.
Today we’ve come to realize how important it is for everyone to read the Bible. Children, young
people, adults—everyone who wants to be in relationship with Jesus needs to meet him in the
Bible!
Where and when do you read or learn about the Bible? Check off all the places below that fit.
1. I read the Bible each morning when I wake up.
2. We read and talk about the Bible at school.
3. In our home we like to read the Bible as part of the grace for our supper meal.
4. We have a copy of the Bible in our car or van to read whenever we get a chance.
5. I read the Bible whenever I am trying to figure out what to do with a problem in my life.
6. We read the Bible together every night before we go to sleep.
7. We have a Bible in our living room and every now and then we pick it up and read it.
8. I have my own Bible and I use post-it notes or bookmarks to keep track of what I’ve read.
9. I hear the Bible read at church every Sunday.
10. I go to Vacation Bible School in the summer to learn more about the Bible.
The first time we hear about Jesus and the Bible is in the Gospel of Luke:
Then Jesus went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath
he went as usual to the Synagogue. He stood up to read the scriptures and was
handed the book of the prophet Isaiah. He unrolled the scroll and found the place
where it is written, “The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he has chosen me
to bring good news to the poor.” (Luke 4:16-18)
Do you remember Jesus’ parable of the Sower? If you don’t remember, open your Bible and read
Luke 8:4-8. In that story Jesus is trying to help his listeners see and understand that we need
to open our hearts and minds to hear God’s word in our lives.
What kind of soil are you? Circle the picture below that best describes how God’s word is
growing in your heart.
One of the important ways that we get to know about God is to read the Bible. Reading the
Bible helps us to build our relationship with Jesus and learn how to best love God and our
neighbors. Reading the Bible and living the Bible work together—it’s not enough just to read
about how to live, we must live that way too!
Pretend that you have just been hired by a top advertising firm to create an advertisement to
promote the reading of the Bible to your friends and family. The one condition is that you must
create an acronym (see the example below) using the word “Scripture” as your advertisement.
S ___________________________________________________________
C ___________________________________________________________
R ___________________________________________________________
I ___________________________________________________________
P ___________________________________________________________
T ___________________________________________________________
U ___________________________________________________________
R ___________________________________________________________
E ___________________________________________________________
Example: Gospel of Matthew (3:13): Where did John the Baptist baptize?
Answer: The River Jordan
3. Gospel of John (11:3): Which friend of Jesus got sick and died?
_____________________________________________________________________
6. Gospel of Matthew (17:3): Who was Jesus talking to on the mountain when he was
transfigured?
_____________________________________________________________________
(Answers: 1) Luke 2:4 - Bethlehem, 2) John 2:9 – water to wine, 3) John 11:3 – Lazarus, 4) Mark 3:14 – 12,
5) Matthew 8:23 - a storm, 6) Mathew 17:3 – Moses and Elijah, 7) Luke 9:10-17 – 5000,
8) Luke 11:27-28 – those who hear the Word of God and obey it)
Circle all the words or phrases below that you think best explain what transforming or
serving the world means:
giving from what you need changing things so people aren’t poor
Jesus also made it clear, through the story of the Rich Man, that transforming the world is an
unending challenge that we all need to participate in. Let’s visit the story:
“A Jewish leader asked Jesus, “Good Teacher, what must I do to receive eternal life?”
“Why do you call me good?” Jesus asked him. “No one is good except God alone.
You know the commandments: ‘Do not commit adultery; do not commit murder; do
not steal; do not accuse anyone falsely; respect your father and your mother.’”
The man replied, “Ever since I was young, I have obeyed all these commandments.”
When Jesus heard this, he said to him, “There is still one more thing you need to do.
Sell all you have and give the money to the poor, and you will have riches in heaven;
then come and follow me.” But when the man heard this, he became very sad,
because he was very rich. (Luke 18: 18-23)
Use your imagination and consider what the rich man decided to do after his conversation with
Jesus. Do you think he just walked away? Do you think he waited a few days then shared more
of his money with others? What do you think?
Complete this word search below, and think about what you and your family can do.
S G H P M T T E V O L T B I C BE GENEROUS
Q U J E U I D N O T I C E L L
BE KIND
B C O I Q J V R U G G E K L S
V S P R U N H D O D X P I J D FORGIVE
Z U M O E M F V S Q I S N E E
E E F O T N H L D H G E D J E LISTEN
L S R E T T E L E T I R W V L LOVE
R I M O I X O G M H A M I F X
U I S N G E F D E V G G S S J NOTICE
I V R T S R G A S B R E Z K B
RESPECT
Y Q Q E E O V R J O Y A R R L
S N R Q G N K I F T M B G I W SERVE
Y V R E J M H V D K A N V E M
E Z Y P K B N R S R H W F H N WRITE LETTERS
I K E V S N J S W Y Q M E S S
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Try It — A 30-Day Challenge
Are you up for a thirty day challenge? Here it is:
In the next 30 days, do something each day, alone or with your family, to
transform or serve the world. Once you make it through 30 days, see if you can do
60 days, or 90 days, or every day of the year!!!