hw410 Unit 9 Assignment Stacey Story
hw410 Unit 9 Assignment Stacey Story
Stacey Story
Professor Henningsen
Stress management is needed in every area of life. The balancing act of being a parent, a
full-time employee out in the workforce, and being an active citizen is tricky at time and can
cause stress to be elevated. This is particularly challenging for single parents who also work full
time, and specifically single moms. Single moms in the workforce experience burnout levels at
higher rates than home with two parents out in the workforce. According to (Harvard Business
Review, 2021) companies and organizations need to take a more active role in stress
management for their employees, especially single parents. The burnout that single parents
experience is the result of stresses that occur at work and home that can only be alleviated with
holistic approaches to stress management. Therefore, understanding stressors, how to cope with
stress, and ways to manage stress through Stress Management Programs is important. It is
especially important of single moms to learn how to deal with and manage stress because their
daily life loads are extremely heavy with a lot of responsible on the shoulders of just them.
Single working moms need ways to be able to release stress to effectively continue their
demanding job as a single working mom. Stress is defined as events or thoughts that cause
tension, either physical or emotional that evoke negative feelings. While stress is a normal part of
life, there are two different types of stress, acute and chronic, that play different roles within the
normal stress of life. Acute stresses are those that are short lived and are caused by one single
event and the stress ends when the situation is resolved. Acute stress can be beneficial as it helps
you respond appropriately to an event. Chronic stress is stress that remains even when the
situation has been resolved. Chronic stress is unhealthy and can lead to other physical conditions.
Single working moms have tons of stressors, but we are going to discuss some of the
more common ones and how they affect a single mom in her place of employment. Legal issues
are a big stressor for single moms, whether they are single because they divorced, are widowed,
or just not with the child’s father, they all cause some sort of legal issue to be dealt with such as
custody battles, or financial issues because of divorcing or becoming a widow. Another stressor
is worrying about living arrangements and maneuvering children from home to home and
accommodating schedules for two separate homes versus one home. Filing for child support is
another stressor that single moms face, if they cannot get the other parent to willfully help with
the child financially then court ordered child support is needed and that causes extreme stress for
most people. It is a long process and doesn’t always have an appropriate outcome. Issues with
co-parenting is yet another stressor. Single moms have the stress of ensuring that co-parenting is
not toxic and that is does not cause negative effects to the children involved. This is a hard
relationship to reach and maintain and is usually full of stressors. Figuring out the roles that new
relationships with each parent will be is a fifth common stressor among single moms. It is
stressful to know that new parental figure has come into your child’s life and voicing boundaries
and expectations for this new relationship is stressful. The sixth common stress is financial
stability. Single moms have the burden of the cost of everything on their shoulders, especially if
child support is taking a long time to get set up or if no child support is in order. That leads us to
a seventh common stressor of stability in general. Single moms experience stress with providing
stability for their children. It becomes solely their job to meet every need the child has,
financially and emotionally. Social stigma is yet another stress that can be difficult to maneuver.
We live in such a judgmental society and the negative stigma that goes along with being a single
mom is not unfelt by single moms. Finally, we reach the tenth common stressor among single
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moms which is guilt. This can be for many reasons but often is a result of feeling like they failed
their child/children but not having a successful relationship with their father. (Meleen, n.d.).
These common stressors all affect a single mom in the workplace with an added burden
of worrying about getting time off for necessary legal appointment/ court appearances, as well
financial burdens for having to miss additional workdays, as well as feelings of guilt for letting
your work team down for missing extra workdays. There is also the added pressure of missing
additional work because of appointments or different needs the children have that require
missing work such as doctors and dentists’ appointment. Single moms often do not have a great
support system and without the other parent taking equal responsibility for these things it all falls
on mom. The emotional stress single moms go through affects their work productivity as well.
The stressors that single moms face make it difficult for them to balance and meet the demands
of work, parenting, social, and economical responsibilities. This imbalance causes chronic stress
for single working moms which can cause a variety of other health conditions to arise. Some
such conditions that develop due to chronic stress are “Anxiety, depression, digestive problems,
headaches, muscle tension and pain, heart disease, heart attack, high blood pressure and stroke,
sleep problems, weight gain, memory and concentration impairment.” (Mayo Clinic, 2021).
There are plenty of ways that single moms can cope with and manage their stress levels
that arise from both acute and chronic stress. One great way to do this is through a stress
management technique referred to as the STOP method (S=Stop, T=Take a breath, O=Observe,
P=Proceed). This method is beneficial in moments of high stress. When the STOP method is
used, one can get a moment to get a clear mind and have an appropriate response to the stress
instead of reacting irrational, which can cause more stress. (Stahl & Goldstein, 2019). Yoga is
another great tool for managing stress. There are several different types of yoga, and they all
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have great health benefits such as managing chronic pain, reducing stress, anxiety, and
depression, and promotes balance of the mind, body, and spirit. Mindful meditation is another
excellent stress management tool, and just like yoga there are so many different types of mindful
meditation practices such as sitting meditation, body scan, and self-love/acceptance. Mindful
meditation creates a safe space for the mind to be cleared and negative energy pushed out with
health and gaining spiritual connection, as well as balancing the mind and body as one unit.
(Seaward, 2018).
Stress management programs are sometimes frowned upon because people are not sure
about new things. Therefore, the program I want to implement is simple so that anyone can
utilize the program without needing to go through a lot of education or training. This I believe
will help overcome the unsureness our employees may feel about the program. The stress
management program for the workplace that I would like to implement is to add mindful
meditation rooms where employees can practice mindful meditation in a variety of practices as
well as several different types of yoga practices. The only real obstacles to securing a successful
program is getting the employees engaged to begin with and finding the space withing our
building to create these mindful meditation rooms. These obstacles are not huge, and they can
easily be overcome with very little effort. There is a possibility that we could offer an additional
15-to-30-minute break when initiating the program to get employees to utilize the
meditation/yoga rooms and get familiar with the different types of meditation and yoga. The
extra breaks would not be permanent, this would just be an incentive to get the program going
and utilized by staff. We could take a poll of people willing to try the program before we start
this program to measure the stress levels that those employees currently experience and then
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administer the same poll to the same staff that to see how the stress levels change after utilizing
the program for a determined amount of time. This will help us gauge the success of the program
More and more cardiologists are prescribing mindful meditation practices to their patients
because of the heart benefits associated with them. There is more and more evidence being
produced that stress levels affect mental health and mental health triggers negative physical
health conditions that can affect every major organ of the body, including the heart. Cardiologists
are using this evidence to educate their patients on the importance of stress management
techniques such as mindful meditation and yoga. Concerning just the heart, stress can cause
several complications such as heart palpitations, shortness of breath, weakened heart muscles,
coronary heart disease, and even heart failure. To keep the physical heart healthy, cardiologist
and research evidence suggests that the “emotional” heart must be healthy which can be done by
properly managing stress with practices that involve mindfulness in many forms. (Fisher, 2022).
Stress and stress management techniques are both important factors to living a healthy
and balanced life. Figuring out ways to cope and manage stress is important for anyone but
particularly important for working single moms as they do generally have higher stress levels
and burnout rates than their co-workers. Women, especially single working moms, have a lot of
stress in their lives, cooking, cleaning, caring for children, finances, working and so many more
responsibilities fall on their shoulders with very little support. Implementing a program that these
women can utilize at work without judgement creates a safe space for them to begin healing from
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