REPORT

Name : VIGNESH N

Register No. : 20L158

Year and Semester : III and V

Branch and Section : ECE and A

Course Code and Title : 18LF01 and SOFT SKILLS

Academic Year : 2022-2023
 MY SUCCESS – MY MOM

INTRODUCTION:

Mothers are the most important person in the family since she is the link
between all of us. She never forgets to look out for the well-being and nutritional
needs of everyone in the household. She is constantly concerned about even the
smallest necessities of the family. She helps manage the house, the academic
performance of their kids, their careers, and their future. The finest creature that
God has ever made in this universe is the mother because she loves her kids and
family without conditions. My mother is a kind lady. She is very good at her
behaviour. Everybody in the family likes her. She has many qualities of head and
heart. She is highly educated and intelligent. She is very hard-working, kind,
caring and loving. Her love for us has no limits. She is kind-hearted, beautiful and
intelligent and takes care of the whole house. She helps me with my studies and
even takes me to the park to play when I have been studying for too long. Then,
she ends my day by reading me stories at bedtime. She is very kind and
compassionate and helps poor people, animals and birds. She is also very active
and talented in keeping the house clean and organised.

Most of the day, she has so much work to do that she doesn’t get much
time to rest. My father helps her at times and asks her to rest. Whenever I tell her
anything, she listens to me patiently. I love my mother. The well-known English
writer Rudyard Kipling once said ‘God could not be everywhere, and therefore
he made mothers’. The statement highlights the importance and role of a mother
as to not less than that of God. A mother is a symbolisation of unimaginable care
and love. A family would never be perfect without the presence of a mother. She
bridges the vacant gaps in our lives and is the idol of selfless love and kindness.
MOM- DEFINITION OF SUCCESS

Throughout our lives, we come in contact with many individuals. Some of

them affect our lives and last a lifetime, while others are quickly forgotten. Some
relations originate by birth, and some are made throughout life. Beyond every
relation or person, there is a person who takes the living beings on this planet.
Who gives us birth, i.e., none other than a mother. A mother is beyond any
relation/person in the world. She acts as a teacher, as a friend, and as a partner. A
mother stands in every situation with her child.Everything in life will hurt you if
you give it the chance. If you get hurt you have to get back up and keep on
pushing through. My definition of success is someone who has overcame a
hardship. First, for me success is defined by someone’s ability to overcome a
hardship. Second, I think my mom is a very successful woman. She has
overcame many hardships throughout her life. Last, my aunt is also a success in
my eyes. She has overcome some of the worst hardships any one person would
have to deal with. Therefore, I think success is based on the ability to overcome
hardships. As a matter of fact, success is how someone comes back from all of
the hardships in life. She has been through a lot of horrific things. She was
basically the grown-up of the family while my grandmother worked. My mom
cooked, cleaned, washed and folded the laundry just so when Grandma came
home and was wore out she would not have to do all of the household chores.

Mom came from barely having money, to having a good job and giving us
all of the things we need. She may not get the most money of be able to buy us
everything in the world that we want, but we have never went without a roof over
our heads and food on the table. Given these points, my mom is the most
successful woman I know. To emphasis, my aunt is also a very strong, successful
woman. My mom and aunt done most of everything on their own. My aunt has
overcame many struggles in her life that could have easily broke the strongest
person in the world. Maa ‘or’ Mama ‘is a word that takes all the children of the
world first in her mouth after coming to this world. Father and mother in this
world are the kind of God who sees us unselfishly, teaches us, sends us to schools,
colleges and always pray to God that our children will not get angry and get all
the success in their lives. We cannot expect a life without a mother, so we must
know the importance of motherhood. If it weren’t for Mom, we wouldn’t be here.
“Maa” is the most natural name globally; in this name, the Lord, he lives.

HOW MY MOM IMPACTED MY LIFE:

There have been many people in my life who have impacted it both
negatively and positively, but no one has had an impact in my life greater than
my mom. This woman is just amazing in my eyes, right from the beginning
because of the way she raised me, if I had children I would raise them the same
way she raised me. The person she is, in general, has really had a great effect in
my life, and also how she has always told me about the struggles shes had in her
life from the ones I didn't see to the ones I have seen with my own eyes. I believe
if I didn't know my mother as well as I do, she wouldn't have influenced me as
much as she does.

The way my mom raised me has made me the person I am today, so if I

were to say she didn't impact my life I would be lying. The work values she
instilled in me made me the hard worker I am, from my first job ever to all the
hard work I am putting into my education now. I thank her so much for this
because if I didn't have that in me I don't know where I would be today. She
always tries to fulfill all my smaller needs. She was the one who showed me how
to walk, how to talk, and how to take care of myself. Similarly, my mom is
entirely responsible for significant advancements that I've made in my life. If she
hadn't shown me how to take baby steps, I won't be able to take these more
significant moves in the right direction.
IMPORTANCE OF MOM:

"Maa" is not just a word; it's a feeling in itself. When we say maa, many of
our problems seem to fade away magically. Moms play crucial roles in every
aspect of our life from early in the morning till she goes to bed in the night without
any expectation. She always makes us happy without letting us feel down for a
moment. Without mom, we cannot imagine our life. Mother gives us hope and
motivation for every up and down of our life. She is the only one who knows their
kids very closely and deeply. No matter where children are in life, whether they
are starting school, getting married, or having a child, they always need their
mother's help. She is the one who shows kids what it means to be a strong support
system they can count on. When I think of love, honesty, truth, and compassion
in this world, the first person that comes to me is my mother. My mum has always
been a source of motivation for me. She is a remarkable human being. She is the
lady whom I look up to and respect the most. She is the first person who wakes
up each and every morning in the house. She gets up at 5 AM in the morning and
comes near me to adore. This is the first thing she does every day.

After that, she gets my brother and me out of bed and gets us ready for
school. She then prepares tasty breakfast and lunch for us, and she has a new dish
each day. After that, she goes to wake up my father with a cup of tea. My mother
and father take us to the bus station and leave. Mom's reassuring hand wave is a
constant reminder that she will be there for us forever. She is helpful to us with
our schoolwork and studies. When any of us become ill, she is the one who stays
up through the night worrying about us. She is always highly worried about our
well-being, especially our schooling and health. In addition to us, my mom takes
care of my dad and grandparents. We all look up to her as a pillar of strength. All
my family members are bound by her strong bonds, and she is responsible for
creating them. She always meets my grandparents' all needs at the right time. She
never turned down helping our neighbors or friends. She always set herself as a
role model for us. For me, my mother is the real superwoman. In a crisis, a mother
may go to bed hungry at night, but she will never let her children go to bed
hungry. My mother lives like this. The mother loves her children very much, even
though she wears old clothes, but she buys new clothes for her children, sleeps in
her wet place, and sleeps comfortably with her children. A mother is a very
important part of a family.

She teaches her children to be polite, honest & behave in a proper manner.
As her children grow up she becomes their friends. She picks them when they
fall, takes them in her cozy arms when they cry, loves them even when they make
mistakes & is always there for them like a shadow in every phase of life. The
most important role that mother plays is the role of a teacher. She teaches
everything to her children since they are born. She teaches them how to laugh,
talk, walk, eat, dance, sing, love, write & read. She teaches her children the
importance of being disciplined. A mother guards her children from various tough
phases of life. She teaches them ways on how to fight with difficulties & life
challenges to achieve success. Every mother deserves love & respect from her
family members. Mothers are one of the first indications of the sovereignty of
God in our lives. Mothers teach us to have confidence and belief in ourselves.
Mothers knew from experience how important for people to believe in themselves
in order for children to be whole, strong and grow with a healthy estimation of
oneself.

THE EXISTING BOND:

A special bond between a mother and child is a bond so trustworthy

and genuine to reach an end. The bond I share with my mother is something that
I will cherish throughout my life. Her love and constant prayers towards my
family and me is the intense willpower that keeps us going. She understands the
wrongdoings and remains patient and calm, forgives, and helps me solve all
problems. She is my protector on earth who shields me from all hatred and bad
vibes around me. My mother is an essence of love, sincerity, and truthfulness.
She is the sole reason for the abundance of love and blessings in the family. Her
selfless and myriad of love and care is directional with no demand for anything
in return. My Mother cares for everyone in the family and inspires me to be a
devoted, sincere, hardworking, and fearless person in the near future. A mother’s
love is not constrained and restricted for the family and shares her passion and
act of kindness towards animals and others in need. Due to these actions, she is
always sensitive to animals and the environment. She helps manage the house,
the academic performance of their kids, their careers, and their future. The finest
creature that God has ever made in this universe is the mother because she loves
her kids and family without conditions.

MY MOTHER’S STRENGTH:

Although my Mother is not physically a strong-willed person, she still

faces every hurdle of her life and her family. She is a constant source of
motivation who teaches me to never submit during difficult times. Above all, my
Mother is my significant source of encouragement which helps me improve my
overall skills, studies, and talents. She motivates me to try again and never give
up and also strive till I achieve success. My Mother is my life saviour during
troubled times. Even though she scolds me and corrects me, she is the only person
strong enough to solve the problem, whether school-related or life-related. She is
my guide and mentor, who lights the path and directs during the darkest times.
Above all, she never leaves my side even in the hardest and darkest of times. She
is the best teacher, a strict parent, a true friend, and a lovely companion. Not just
my Mother but every Mother is an incarnation of God who lives her life entirely
for her family and deserves much credit and praiseworthy applause. "The strength
of a mother is second to none. Even when she is in times of stress, when she is
fighting her own demons, when she is beyond exhausted both mentally and
physically nothing will stop her from finding the strength, she needs to do for her
children what she needs to get done.I am a strong woman because I was raised by
a strong woman.” “My mom is a strong-willed lady. She taught me to believe in
myself, no matter what anybody else said.” -Tracy Edmonds.

“A mother's love is stronger than anything else in the world.” "Being a

mother is learning about strengths you didn't know you had, and dealing with
fears you didn't know existed.” Parenting is always challenging, but the
challenges reach new heights when you are parenting a child with disabilities. It
shifts the foundation of a family and adds unimaginable complexities for
everyone involved. From unmet milestones, activities that you must avoid, and
even denied experiences, all because of what your child cannot do. Some days I
don’t know if I’m doing this right, as I’ve learned that my path is never seen as a
straight line. The hindrances that come with raising Bella have hit our family
hard, however the challenges make the triumphs even sweeter. What is labelled
as a weakness is accompanied by an amazing strength. And this is what I continue
to learn every damn day.

MY MOTHER’S ROLE:

My Mother plays an instrumental role in the development and welfare

of my family. She is the adhesive that holds the family together through
unconditional love, care, and support. She provides the ideal environment for my
family and educates us appropriately by being the best role model.I often quote
my Mother as the reader of non-verbal cues that she has created a better bond
with the family, making her the lifesaver during any emotional, physical, or
behavioural changes without much difficulty. She instils the teachings of trust,
confidence, and emotional stability. She has been a crucial part of the behavioural
development of my siblings and me. She serves as the emotional backbone and
contributes immensely to the positive effect of my family. A mother contributes
her whole life for the betterment of her family. She tries to maintain peace in the
family by creating a sense of togetherness & providing unconditional love to the
family. She provides live, support, care, affection to all the family members
especially to her growing children. mother teaches her child everything that she
knows right from talking, walking to living a fulfilling life. She is also the one
who disciplines and educates a child for a better living.

Right from getting up to sleeping, a mother teaches all she knows. Mothers play
a critical role in the family, which is a powerful force for social cohesion and
integration. The mother-child relationship is vital for the healthy development of
children. And mothers are not only caregivers; they are also breadwinners for
their families. A Mother plays many roles in her life. She acts like a protector,
nurse, mentor, guide, friend & a teacher for her children’s. She also acts as a
leader who can lead her family. She scarifies so many things in life for her family.
She rejoices when her children rejoice & she gets hurt when her children hurt.
But in return she expects nothing from them except health & happiness of her
children. She takes care of the health of the family members ignoring her own
health. She cooks food, washes clothes; sweep & mop the house to keep it clean
& tidy. She is an important part of a parental team. She is her husband’s helpmate
& soul of the entire family. She fights with various kinds of evil to protect her
family.
CONCLUSION:

A mother is a person who wakes them up on bad days with their

children’s illnesses overnight. It involves him in all its pleasures, and he
understands everything he likes and dislikes. Maa often guides her children to the
right path and encourages them to walk in the right direction in life. She is our
first teacher to teach us new lessons in all aspects of life and distinguish between
right and wrong. She always teaches us and describes us morally, ethically, and
with a commitment to the role of family, community, and the world. I hope you
like this story about the importance of mothers in our lives. No amount of money
can ever repay what a mother has done for us. Our only duty is to repay her love
and affection. We should always make our moms feel special with small and
sweet gestures, even though she won't ask for anything in return for her love, care,
and protection. It is our duty to express to her how much we love her if we want
to make her feel special. We should always be sweet and kind to our lovely
mothers. My Mother is a sacred statue of forgiveness, selfless love, kindness,
boldness, fearlessness, and patience. My Mother’s selfless love towards our
family can never be replaced by anything or anyone in this world. In my opinion,
the mother figure plays the most instrumental and pivotal role in a child’s life and
upbringing because she is the most significant role model for the child. It is our
responsibility to bestow her with the sam love and affection during her golden
days.