Listening As Positive Communication
Listening As Positive Communication
Graham D. Bodie
To appear in Socha, T., & Pitts, M. (Eds.). The positive side of interpersonal communication.
Author’s Note
University.
Studies, LSU, 136 Coates Hall, Baton Rouge, LA 70803; email: [email protected].
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At age 17, Byron Pitts was a first year college student a midterm away from flunking out.
One particularly memorable day began as his English professor handed back his most recent
essay marked with a D+. Shortly after hearing “You are wasting my time and the government’s
money.”, Mr. Pitts began filling out the papers to withdraw from school. Fortunately for Mr.
Pitts, a stranger took the time to listen to his story. As Mr. Pitts describes it, “She stopped. She
helped me…She was encouraging, just like my mother and other people in my life, and she
Although there is much that could be analyzed from this story, the relationship between
Mr. Pitts and his new unofficial mentor began with her willingness to listen. Indeed, listening is
deeply rooted in the context of its ability to help create, maintain, and enhance positive
interpersonal relationships. One might go as far as to say that listening is the quintessential
in the other. Such a statement is not without its empirical warrant: Research shows that feeling
“listened to” (Notarius & Herrick, 1988) or “being heard” (Myers, 2000) is vitally important for
many types of conversations and is an expected part of many relationships from early childhood
to the end of life. Good listening is an important aspect of parenting (Duncan, Coatsworth, &
Greenberg, 2009), marital relationships (Pasupathi, Carstensen, Levenson, & Gottman, 1999),
salesperson performance (Castleberry & Shepherd, 1993), customer satisfaction (de Ruyter &
Wetzels, 2000), and healthcare provision (Watanuki, Tracy, & Lindquist, 2006); and the list
could go on. Good listeners can enhance others’ ability to cope with (Jones, 2011) and
remember events (Pasupathi, Stallworth, & Murdoch, 1998); they are more liked, rated as more
attractive (Argyle & Cook, 1976), and garner more trust (Mechanic & Meyer, 2000) than those
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less proficient; and they have higher academic motivation and achievement (Imhof, 2001;
Schrodt, Wheeless, & Ptacek, 2000), better socio-emotional development (Jalongo, 2010), and a
higher likelihood of upward mobility in the workplace (Sypher, Bostrom, & Seibert, 1989).
Adding to the importance of listening, research finds that natural decrements in the ability to
process speech can negatively impact individual and relational health and well-being (Villaume,
scholars claim listening is the “‘Cinderella skill’ of language, eclipsed by its sister skills of
speaking, reading and writing” (Jalongo, 2010, p. 11). There is evidence, for instance, that
teaching listening” (Janusik, 2010, p. 193); and scholarly attention allotted to listening has paled
in comparison to that paid message production (Bodie, 2011). Thus, listening seems “a kind of
human behavior that almost everyone thinks important” (C. Weaver, 1972, p. 24), though this
One potential reason for this paradox is that although listening has been studied in a
range of specific contexts like social support and physician-patient interaction, it is less often
incorporated into theoretical frameworks that allow for more comprehensive empirical study.
Indeed, most of the research employing the term listening within communication research has
either (a) focused so narrowly on its role in the classroom thus limiting listening to a type of
information processing stripped from its inherent connection with human communication and
relational processes (Bostrom, 2011) or (b) cast such a broad net defining listening as a single
behavior thus suggesting its component parts are unworthy of systematic study (Bodie & Jones,
in press). This chapter suggests that listening be incorporated into a variety of theoretical
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perspectives that can speak to the role and function of an assortment of interdependent
communicative actions and behaviors. More specifically, this chapter attempts to provide a
broader conceptualization of listening and to serve as a ready resource of the myriad perspectives
through which one can come to understand the positive potential of the complex phenomenon
known to communication scholars as listening. In service of this aim, this review is organized in
three sections. Section one sketches a brief history of the study of listening within the
communication discipline. Drawing from the work of Kaplan (1964), the second section shows
that this history has treated listening primarily as a construct rather than a theoretical term. As a
consequence, the term listening is used infrequently and a host of other terms have been
developed that obscure the evidence for the positive potential of listening. The conclusion
focuses on directions for future research and theory building efforts to advance our knowledge of
Although earlier writings exist, many attribute Nichols’s (1948) identification of “factors
which accounted for differences in the comprehension of expository materials presented orally in
a classroom situation” (p. 155) as the catalyst for the systematic study of listening in
communication research. Undergraduates in this study were asked to listen to six, 10-minute
lectures and answer a multiple choice test after each. Student participants averaged 68% on the
composite listening test with higher scores related to both individual (e.g., intelligence) and
situational factors (e.g., listener fatigue). Subsequent interviews with instructors of students
scoring in the top and bottom tertiles of the test revealed that good, compared to poor, listeners
were “more attentive during classroom activities and more conscientious in their…work habits”
(p. 160). From these data, Nichols concluded that factors likely to discriminate among good and
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poor listeners should be afforded empirical attention in the communication discipline and that
instructional efforts should be aimed at improving student ability to comprehend aural input.
This study was most important, however, because it suggested a conceptualization of listening
that set the research agenda throughout the 1980s (see also Bodie, Worthington, Imhof, &
Cooper, 2008).
Early communication scholarship was primarily concerned with identifying specific skills
necessary to attain competency in various areas (e.g., public speaking, listening) and designing
interventions to make students more proficient (Bostrom, 2011). Thus, combined with the
conceptualization of listening set forth by Nichols, it is not surprising that early listening
In general, these tests included at least one measure of memory for facts presented in a lecture,
and most utilized multiple choice questions scored as right or wrong (for review see Watson &
Barker, 1984). The fact that these standard elements of listening tests were also found in tests of
reading comprehension and tests of mental ability led Kelly (1965) to argue that these “tests
upon mental factors that are far from specific to audition” (p. 139). Kelly showed that the
correlation between two commercially available and widely used listening comprehension tests –
the Brown-Carlsen Listening Test (BCLT; Brown & Carlsen, 1955) and the Sequential Tests of
Educational Progress (STEP; Service, 1957) – was similar in magnitude to the correlation
between each listening test and a test of general mental ability.2 From these data he concluded
that (a) “our traditional procedures for testing listening are sterile,” (b) “currently published
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listening tests are not valid measures of a unique skill,” and (c) “listening should be considered a
abilities, some of which are related to other language abilities like reading, some of which are
related to mental acuity and intelligence, and some of which are unique to aural processing (see
C. Weaver, 1972, pp. 9-10). Research conducted prior to Kelly’s study suggested that
processing speech was a distinct language ability (for review see Caffrey, 1955), and several
large-scale factor analytic studies around the time of Kelly’s work proposed “a constellation of
interrelated listening abilities” (Lundsteen, 1966, p. 311). This line of thinking, along with
research questioning the validity of existing tests, spearheaded efforts in the 1970s and 1980s to
Each multidimensional test developed during this time held the assumption that there
exists some identifiable set of skills that can be taught in order for a person to become a good
listener, though agreement about which skills to include was far from universal (Brownell, 2010;
Ridge, 1993). The two leading tests were the Watson-Barker Listening Test (WBLT; Watson,
Barker, Roberts, & Roberts, 2001) and the Kentucky Comprehensive Listening Test (KCLT;
Bostrom & Waldhart, 1983), each of which was developed to measure five components of
listening. The KCLT was developed to measure short-, intermediate-, and long-term listening
abilities, reflecting the relationship between listening and memory, whereas the WBLT focuses
on interpersonal listening abilities chosen to reflect the most basic skills necessary for listening
These tests were quite influential for a variety of reasons. First, their development
spawned a litany of research aimed to demonstrate their validity, and this research was basically
the whole of listening research during the 1980s and 1990s (Rhodes, Watson, & Barker, 1990).
Unfortunately, research has yet to generate a stable factor structure for either the WBLT or
KCLT or to offer much published validity evidence (Bodie, Worthington, & Fitch-Hauser,
2011). Second, the “methodological fixation” driving research during this time (Bostrom, 2011)
appears to have promoted concerns about how to “correctly define” listening (see ILA, 1995). A
Listening as Responding
The first alternative view to listening as comprehension attempted to shift the focus from
something internal to the listener to her overt behavior. Scholars began discussing listening
interlocutor based on a range of verbal (e.g., asking questions, paraphrasing) and nonverbal (e.g.,
eye contact, backchannel responses) behaviors that can be executed more or less skillfully (for
review see Bodie, St. Cyr, Pence, Rold, & Honeycutt, in press). Primary among the concerns of
these scholars were developing measures that could capture “good listening” in particular
contexts and attempting to compare self-reports of competent listening to those obtained by close
paraverbal actions that “signal listening has taken place” was contested by some (for review see
Ridge, 1993). Weaver (1972) first suggested the term listening be reserved to describe the
cognitive processes internal to a communicator as she took on the role of message recipient, a
position that was popular with a range of scholars throughout the 1980s. When the debate finally
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settled, behaviors encompassing the listening response were largely drawn from the work of
Gordon (1975) and the term “active listening.” Indeed, this debate occurred around the same
time that Rogerian methods for therapy were being applied to a variety of academic disciplines.
To date, active listening is used most often to describe how listeners should act in a range of
contexts, even though the evidence supporting this claim is scant (see Weger, Castle, & Emmett,
2010) and some research suggests that engaging in typical active listening behaviors is likely less
effective than “normal” listening practices (Armstrong, 1998; Pasupathi, et al., 1999).
Listening as Relating
One important context for listening is the interpersonal relationship within which it takes
place. Especially when used to refer to an action that occurs in close relationships, listening
generally suggests an active presence of another individual who is typically acting with empathic
tendencies (Bodie, in press; Gearhart & Bodie, 2011). In close relationships, listening signals
affection, support, empathy, and understanding; “to listen” is a positive characterization made of
others who are attentive and empathic during interaction (Notarius & Herrick, 1988).3
one from the perspective of the individual; the other from the perspective of the relationship.
completely aware (i.e., “empty”) to what is happening in and around us (Lipari, 2010). This
“style” of listening is juxtaposed with ways of listening that are more oriented toward acquiring
and critiquing information (Bodie, 2010a; Watson, Barker, & Weaver, 1995). From the
something that occurs within a dyadic system and helps to define that system (Halone &
Pecchioni, 2001; Pecchioni & Halone, 2000). Using this conceptualization, listening is defined
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in a manner similar to some definitions of intimacy (Reis, 1990) and social support (Burleson,
Though grounded in theory, little research has explored the ramifications of these
speculations. For instance, measures for attitudes and predispositions toward active-empathic
listening have only recently been developed (Bodie, in press; Drollinger, Comer, & Warrington,
2006; Mishima, Kubota, & Nagata, 2000) or have questionable validity (Bodie & Worthington,
2010), and no research has sought to verify that these attitudes actually lead to more effective
listening. Though some research suggests that “active engagement” may enhance relational
satisfaction (Fassaert, van Dulmen, Schellevis, & Bensing, 2007), the precise communicative
actions that lead such outcomes are largely unspecified (Bodie & Jones, in press).
Though listening has been defined in numerous ways, those outlined above have been the
most notable themes in research to date. Starting with the work of Nichols, listening has largely
been conceptualized as an aural processing competency that helps (or hinders) student learning
host of specific skills and manifest in various behavioral responses that are likely employed
differently and mean different things within unique relational contexts. Though each perspective
on listening has its individual limitations, it is perhaps more informative to focus on a set of
shared limitations and to offer a potential solution that fosters a conceptual space for the study of
The first general limitation of past work on listening is how the term has been treated.
Grounded in pragmatism, Kaplan (1964) recognized that the utility of a concept depends on its
use and suggested that terms can be conceptualized as either constructs or theoretical terms.
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While a construct is defined individually and in relationship with observables, a theoretical term
derives its meaning “from the part it plays in the whole theory in which it is embedded, and from
the role of theory itself” (p. 56). To date, listening has largely been treated as a construct. For
example, tests of listening comprehension are fundamentally based on the idea “that if scholars
could develop a clear, comprehensive, and consensually agreed upon definition of [listening] and
create reliable and valid measures of that concept, then we could get about the business of
developing an encompassing theory” of listening (Wilson & Sabee, 2003, p. 7). Although some
models of listening have been based on theoretical perspectives like human information
processing (Goss, 1982), schema theory (Fitch-Hauser, 1984), or theories of memory (Bostrom
& Waldhart, 1988; Janusik, 2005), the goal of most extant research has been to create a
consensual definition of listening and, subsequently, measures that assess all of its constituent
parts (ILA, 1995; Fitch-Hauser & Hughes, 1988). Even when scholars do discuss the need to
theorize about listening, the sentiment is that “in order to develop a theory we must first agree
upon a definition of the [construct]” (Barker, Barker, & Fitch-Hauser, 1987, p. 15).
Listening should, instead, be viewed as a theoretical term and allowed various meanings
depending on the practical purpose pursued by an individual or team of scholars (see also Bodie,
2010b). Treating listening as a theoretical term moves us away from concerns over definitional
harmony and towards attempting to understand listening in all its complexity. To agree on a
definition necessitates that scholars are working from similar assumptions with similar goals and
under similar sets of rules for what listening means, why it is important, and how it might
scholars who lack a theoretical framework to explain listening are “like the blind men [in the
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John Saxe poem The Blind Men and the Elephant], who lacked an overarching theory of
elephantness and could not find it through local observations” (p. 334).
The second general limitation of past work on listening seems to follow from the first –
when scholars become primarily motivated to assemble the definition of a term, thus treating it
as a construct, its theoretical association with other phenomena is largely ignored. Consequently,
the extant literature becomes littered with a host of terms that seem to describe ostensibly
analogous processes. Several have highlighted this problem in the literature on communication
competence with terms such as social competence, interpersonal competence, social skills, and
communicative competence being used interchangeably and often defined quite similarly (see
Wilson & Sabee, 2003). Likewise, terms such as conversational involvement, conversational
sensitivity, interpersonal sensitivity, and interaction involvement also seem to tap a component
of what most would typically label listening. Instead of viewing listening as a term that deserves
theoretical understanding and can help to link various lines of research, scholars seem intent on
forwarding new terms and content with treating “the term ‘good listener’ ... [as merely]
complex (a) cognitive processes, such as attending to, understanding, receiving and interpreting
content and relational messages (Imhof, 2010); (b) affective processes, such as being motivated
to attend to those messages (C. Weaver, 1972); and (c) behavioral processes, such as responding
with verbal and nonverbal feedback (Weger, et al., 2010). As a cognitive phenomenon, listening
conversational sensitivity (Daly, Vangelisti, & Daughton, 1988), perspective taking (Ebesu
Hubbard, 2009), and various information processing dispositions (e.g., styles of thinking; Bodie,
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2010a, Study 3; need for cognition; Worthington, 2008). “Good” listeners are also described as
more likely to hold certain attitudes like empathic concern (J. B. Weaver, III & Kirtley, 1995)
and a willingness to listen (C. V. Roberts & Vinson, 1998) or to formulate certain listening goals
that increase attentiveness to others in conversation (Burleson, 2011). Similarly, listening seems
to share conceptual space with other terms used to describe behavioral involvement including
(Coker & Burgoon, 1987) and adaptation and coordination (Ebesu Hubbard, 2009).
Taken together, when we talk about “good listening” we are likely talking about a variety
of skills and abilities, some of which have been afforded extensive empirical attention, though
their nomological connection to listening has yet to be clearly specified. In many areas of
interpersonal communication, especially those like social support and the communication of
rapport that are inherently related to the “positive side”, scholars largely ignore listening as a
central and important component in their research (Bodie, 2011). This is quite surprising given
that a good deal of positive interpersonal communication research at least implicitly recognizes
listening as an important concept, and the term is used quite often when scholars are asked about
the practical implications of their research (e.g., Burleson, 2007). It is likely, therefore, that
myriad theories can be used to locate listening as a theoretical term. A sample of those theories
is provided in Table 1 with the corresponding definition of listening suggested within each
specific theoretical framework. While some of these definitions have been explicitly stated (e.g.,
Burleson, 2011; Powers & Witt, 2008), others were derived based on the use of similar terms
within theories (e.g., Coker & Burgoon, 1987) and/or applications by other scholars (e.g., Schrodt,
2008). Though an in-depth analysis of each theory and the entire range of implications for
listening is beyond the scope of this chapter, the sections that follow attempt to highlight relevant
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literature from within a sample of these frameworks to illustrate the positive potential of listening
expression of feelings of closeness, care, and fondness for another” (Floyd & Morman, 1998, p.
145). According to affection exchange theory (AET), both the expression and reception of
affection serves fundamental human needs (Floyd, 2006). From this perspective, listening is one
type of affectionate communication (see Pendell, 2002) that fosters intimate interaction by
(Prager & Buhrmester, 1998). When we feel “listened to” and understood, we are more satisfied
with our relationships and life in general; this increased well-being can also have a profound
effect on physical health. Not only does listening positively influence the recipient, but the
listener can also garner positive outcomes (Notarius & Herrick, 1988). As reviewed by Floyd
fruitful area for future research the documentation of specific roles listening plays in this process.
the role of social perception (Burleson & Bodie, 2008). In general, this framework proposes that
our cognitive structures help determine how we will produce and process messages and manage
messages, whether those messages are aimed at persuading, informing, or comforting, are more
tailored to the subjective viewpoint of the recipient (i.e., "person centered"; Burleson & Rack,
2008). From this perspective, skilled listening is defined as efficiently and effectively
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“interpreting the communicative behavior of others in the effort to understand the meaning and
manner; Burleson, 2011). Using this definition, listening is located as an information processing
task that can be done more or less competently, a view shared by several other theories listed in
actions in the social world. People who are more cognitively complex are better able to (a)
“store, retrieve, organize, and generate information about people and social situations … [which]
enables them to make better judgments and decisions in the social world” (Burleson & Rack,
2008, p. 54); (b) take the perspective of another and, thus, (c) craft highly person-centered
messages which are more likely to assist in reaching social goals, particularly when dealing with
complex situations (Burleson & Caplan, 1998).4 These more proficient listeners tend to employ
more sophisticated persuasive, comforting, regulative, and informative messages and model
these competencies for their offspring (Burleson, Delia, & Applegate, 1995).
communication within families and the values families place on communication help to explain
is, a primary reason that adult children manifest particular ways of relating and communicating
with close relational partners (friends, romantic partners) is because of how they were taught to
think about and value communication from their parents. Perhaps the most influential theory of
FCPs has been aided by the two-dimensional typology of Fitzpatrick and her colleagues (for
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review see Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2002). This typology asserts that FCPs are determined by two
underlying orientations toward communication, orientations that reflect both how families talk
and how families think about communication. The conversation orientation reflects “a climate in
which all family members are encouraged to participate in unrestrained interactions about a wide
array of topics,” whereas the conformity orientation reflects a climate that places a premium on
harmony, particularly concerning values and beliefs (Koerner & Fitzpatrick, 2002, p. 39). As
listening is concerned, families exhibiting a higher conversational orientation are more likely
than families with a high conformity orientation to entertain a variety of opinions, enjoy talking
(and listening) to one another, and value the importance of understanding each other irrespective
of agreement or dissention; indeed, several items on the primary instrument used to assess these
orientations highlight the role played by listening (e.g., My parents like to hear my opinions,
As stated by Schrodt (2008), however, “while listening is an implicit part of both the
theoretical and methodological underpinnings of the FCP research tradition, researchers have
generally neglected how listening facilitates the development and communication of family
conversation and conformity orientations during the socialization of family members” (p. 2).
The one study to date that has directly addressed the relationship between listening attitudes and
communication patterns within families found that adult children from families high in
conversation and low in conformity orientation were less likely to report anxiety toward
listening. The authors suggest that “when families create an environment where family members
are encouraged to openly discuss a variety of topics, children may be more likely to learn how to
process complex and ambiguous information without anxiety” (Ledbetter & Schrodt, 2008, p.
397). Schrodt (2008) further outlines three key developmental stages (early childhood,
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adolescence, emerging adulthood) representing the family life cycle “where listening may be
particularly important for family socialization” (p. 3); future research thus seems bright for
uncovering how listening can “carry conversation and conformity orientations from one
success and promoting “more effective leadership through the development and maintenance of
mature leadership relationships” (Graen & Uhl-Bien, 1995, p. 220). LMX primarily focuses on
the relationship between leaders and followers and suggests “that effective leadership processes
occur when leaders and followers are able to develop mature leadership relationships
(partnerships) and thus gain access to the many benefits these relationships bring” (p. 225). In
general, as the quality of the exchange between leaders and followers increases, positive
outcomes such as increased performance, commitment, satisfaction, and loyalty are more likely,
and negative outcomes such as stress and burnout are less likely.
Although LMX does not detail specific behaviors likely to foster partnerships among
leaders and followers, it stands to reason that “listening leaders” are more likely to foster
partnerships than leaders who are not perceived to understand subordinate needs (Steil &
Bommelje, 2004). Some empirical work is available to back this speculation. For example,
programs that train supervisors in listening and “feedback skills” as well as social support can
increase the quality of partnerships (Graen, 1989), and research consistently mentions listening
to problems and being attentive as important behaviors that assist the creation of partnerships
(see Anderson & Williams, 1996). Likewise, items on a popular scale assessing organizational
climate seem to suggest the importance of listening (e.g., X values my contribution to its well-
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being; X would ignore any complaint from me) (Eisenberger, Huntington, Hutchison, & Sowa,
which is linked to job satisfaction, commitment, and productivity. Since most past research on
this topic only leads to informed speculations about the role of listening within organizations,
however, research is needed to detail those specific elements of listening most important for
Conclusion
Scholars from a variety of fields have investigated listening from multiple perspectives,
providing a rather large literature scattered across specializations (Bodie, et al., 2008). Within
relationships as well as for students of all ages. Research on social support demonstrates
listening as one of the most helpful behaviors in times of distress, and scholars readily assert that
leader, and creating a client-centered business model (for reviews see Bodie, 2011; Bodie &
Fitch-Hauser, 2010). Indeed, when we provide “a sympathetic ear” we are doing more than
receiving and processing information (Floyd, 2006, p. 34), we are displaying to others that they
matter; we are, in essence, stopping, encouraging, and planting seeds of kindness and optimism.
From the extant literature across communication and allied fields, it is clear that listening
is an important and positive communication behavior. Even so, the positive potential of listening
has yet to be fully realized perhaps because the term has yet to be fully incorporated into a
variety of theoretical frameworks that pose distinct roles and functions for the cognitive and
behavioral components of this complex social skill. To date, the full realization of listening’s
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positive potential has been limited by research treating it as a construct and by the proliferation
of other terms that are merely synonyms for what we attempt to understand, listening. By
treating listening, instead, as a theoretical term, scholars are warranted in defining listening in
multiple ways and encouraged to incorporate the term into theoretical frameworks capable of
explaining how listening works and functions to the betterment of people’s lives. If our ultimate
goal is to train or teach someone how to be a better listener (which it often is) as opposed to
understanding listening in some theoretical sense, a theoretical structure can aid in choosing
relevant skills upon which to focus. This approach not only reduces the number of skills to a
more manageable subset, thus allying concerns relevant to test construction, it also stands to aid
Overall, this chapter has attempted to provide an historical sketch of the research on
listening and how the term has been treated in past communication scholarship. In addition, I
was to carve a more sophisticated conceptual space for its study. By unpacking the implicit
recognition of listening and making the term a more central focus of our research we can begin
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Table 1
Communication the ability to accurately receive and interpret another’s sensory output
Dialogic Theory of one among many skills needed to foster dialogue which “involves
Public Relations creating a climate in which others are not only encouraged to participate
Implicit Personality one among many cognitive categories used to evaluate others during and
Adaptation Theory which participants are enmeshed in the topic, interpersonal relationship,
(Table continues)
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Table 1 (continued)
Leader-Member sensitivity and openness to the particular issues raised by each member
Exchange Theory of one’s work team which leads to positive relationships, mutual trust,
Communication
Relational Framing the process of making sense of relational messages within social
Theory of one half of coordinated action that involves the conscious selection of,
Notes
1
This is a summary of a story which aired on NPR in Baton Rouge, LA on November 16,
2009. The quotes were drawn from the transcript available here:
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=120463986.
2
Although not frequently cited, Kelly also reported the partial correlation between the
listening tests after removing variance shared with the test of mental ability (Otis). That
correlation, r = .33, suggests that BCLT and STEP, as measures of listening ability, were tapping
something not assessed by the Otis. Whether that something was “aural-processing ability” was
never addressed primarily because scholars seemed to focus on the strong correlation between
the active listening paradigm discussed above; instead, activity refers to general involvement in a
conversation, whereas empathy refers to an overall focus on the other person and his or her
perspective. Even within contexts such as psychotherapy and healthcare where training in active
listening is an accepted practice, there is little agreement as to the specific skill set that
constitutes active listening. Though many would agree that paraphrasing and backchannel
responses, for instance, should be included, agreement about other actions such as non-directive
skills including comprehension (Beatty & Payne, 1984; Sypher, et al., 1989), memory for
conversations (Neuliep & Hazleton, 1986; Stacks & Murphy, 1993), and the ability to