The Secrets of Successful Female Networkers

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The Secrets of Successful

Female Networkers
From the Magazine (November–December 2019)
Tim Bower
One oft-cited reason why more female executives don’t advance to

top management jobs is their lack of access to informal
organizational and industry networks. Some people blame
unconscious bias: High-ranking men connect more easily with
other men. Others cite professional and personal obligations,
from office housekeeping to child-rearing, that
disproportionately fall to women, leaving them less time to
develop professional relationships.
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But some female leaders do establish strong networks—and they

win greater influence and more-senior positions as a result. What
are they doing differently?
A new study sheds light on their strategies. “I was talking with

many women about how to improve their networks, the
challenges they face, and what they and their organizations could
do better, and I realized that all the studies on the issue were
pretty old and narrow,” explains Inga Carboni, a professor at
William & Mary’s Mason School of Business and the study’s lead
author. “I couldn’t answer their questions.”
The researchers analyzed data collected from 16,500 men and

women in more than 30 organizations across a range of industries
over the past 15 years. Then they interviewed hundreds of female
executives. This led them to identify four characteristics that
distinguish the networking behaviors of more-successful women
from those of their peers. In some cases those matched the
behaviors of high-performing men; in others there were subtle but
important differences.
When shaping their professional networks, top women were:
Efficient.
Studies, including the new one, show that women generally
absorb more collaborative demands in the workplace than their
male peers do. But the female managers with the strongest
networks “recognize that every ‘yes’ means a ‘no’ to something
else,” says Babson College’s Rob Cross, one of Carboni’s coauthors.
He notes that one Silicon Valley executive he knows has adopted
that idea as her mantra. Although these successful female
networkers might feel an identity-driven desire and a stereotype-
influenced pressure to help colleagues out and be a team player,
they try to resist. They prune nonessential appointments from
their calendars, deflect low-priority decisions and requests, run
streamlined meetings, insist on efficient email norms, and set
aside time for reflection and high-level thinking. At the same
time, they make the most of their collaborative strengths and
inclinations by working with others in a way that establishes or
enhances key relationships and ups their visibility.
“At every level in organizations, women are more likely to be

sought out for advice,” Carboni says. “And when asked about the
downsides of saying no, every woman I interviewed said they’d
feel bad.” But she emphasizes that the research is clear: The
female executives who rise to the top are “more strategic and
thoughtful” about how they spend their time. Organizations can
do their part by tracking unseen collaborative work, ensuring that
it’s evenly spread among male and female employees, and
pushing all leaders, but especially women, to unabashedly
prioritize their most important tasks.
Nimble.
The researchers’ data shows that most women’s relationships,
particularly those with female peers, are stickier than men’s,
growing stronger, more mutual, and more interwoven over time.
Carboni and Cross note that this can occasionally be a positive—
for example, an old contact might offer a new opportunity or
employment prospect. But if you work in a dynamic organization
that requires rapid adjustments to changing demands (and who
doesn’t nowadays?), always relying on the same people can hurt
your performance.
Successful female networks are more fluid. High-ranking women

know when to deemphasize old connections in favor of new ones
(whether by proactively cutting ties or by simply failing to
maintain contact). For example, says Cross, “when you’re at an
inflection point at work or are embarking on a new project, you
want to think about your goals and who will help you reach them
—whether those goals are political (gaining early access to
opinion leaders), developmental (supplementing skills gaps),
innovation-oriented (searching for new insights), or related to
best practices (finding people who know efficiencies).” He
acknowledges that some women find this inauthentic, even
Machiavellian, but notes that men interpret the same behavior as
putting the work first. He says it’s OK to have a “tenure bell curve”
in professional relationships. Women should, of course, maintain
some long-known advisers. But they should consistently initiate
new connections, and organizations can help them by instituting
processes such as network reviews at the start of new assignments
or during performance evaluations.
Boundary-spanning.
The highest-ranking, best-networked women connect with people
in a wide variety of functions, geographies, and business units.
Again, less successful female networkers tend to shy away from
the tactic because it feels uncomfortable or overly promotional.
“We heard from women that they liked their own communities,”
Carboni says, whereas spanning boundaries made them wary of
“backlash” and “stressed out.” But that behavior is critical to
accessing new information, leading innovation, and pursuing
advancement, for both women and men. Cross suggests
periodically considering the leaders in your organization and
asking yourself, “Who isn’t in my network but should be?” He
advises approaching them “not with ‘Here’s what I need’ but with
‘Could we grab a coffee and explore ways of working together?’”
Companies including Ford and Booz Allen Hamilton have tried to
institutionalize the practice by setting up cross-functional groups
of female high potentials who meet regularly with C-suite
executives.
“You’re Closer to Everyone Than You Think”
Julie Lodge-Jarrett has worked at Ford Motor Company

for 21 years, holding positions around the world.
Currently the chief ...
Energy-balanced.
More than two decades’ worth of research shows, perhaps not
surprisingly, that the highest performers are seen as the most
energizing people in their networks—as the type of colleague who
makes the work more engaging, which then drives better
performance. But men and women are expected to bring different
energy to relationships, and this is where effective female
networkers set themselves apart from less successful women:
They demonstrate both competence and warmth, both
intelligence and emotional intelligence, as studies—the
researchers’ and others—suggest they must to build trust. “The
most successful women don’t downplay their knowledge, skills,
and accomplishments; they show evidence that they can do
things,” Cross says. “But they also use humor, presence, and small
gestures to signal caring and positivity, and they employ listening
skills to spur creative thinking among their colleagues.”
The researchers say they hope more women will adapt their
networking behaviors in keeping with these four characteristics.
They add that organizations have a big role to play too. “The goal
is to embed these behaviors and practices so that they’re the norm
for everybody,” Cross says.
About the Research: “How Successful Women Manage Their Networks,” by Inga
Carboni et al. (working paper)
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The Secrets of Successful

One oft-cited reason why more female executives don’t advance to

But some female leaders do establish strong networks—and they

A new study sheds light on their strategies. “I was talking with

The researchers analyzed data collected from 16,500 men and

When shaping their professional networks, top women were:

“At every level in organizations, women are more likely to be

Successful female networks are more fluid. High-ranking women

Julie Lodge-Jarrett has worked at Ford Motor Company

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