Lesson 1 - Stress Management 101
Lesson 1 - Stress Management 101
Understanding why you are under stress is important. This may seem obvious, but it requires deliberate, conscious effort to
pause and simply ponder your situation.
By now, you are familiar with the stress response, the emotional or physical symptoms of uncontrolled stress. Now you need
to try to discover the stressors, the factors of which create the stress in your life.
2. Analyze your Stress Factors and Write Them Down
Write down your response to stress. For example, you may write down, “I feel tired most of the time. My lower back seems to
ache all through the day and night. I miss deadlines and run behind schedule.” Analyze stress responses and consequences,
and consider each item, and ask why. “Why am I feeling tired? Why does my back ache? Why do I run behind schedule?
Carefully consider each answer, because the answers will reveal stressors, such as deadlines, anxieties, trying to do so much,
managing time or money poorly, or poor health habits.
3. Deal with the Stressors
Develop techniques to deal with the causes of stress. The longer you avoid dealing with
the stress factors, the more the stress will build up. If tension comes because you have
put off an unfinished task, restructure your priorities so you can get the task that you
have been avoiding out of the way and off your mind.
4. Learn to Work under Pressure or Unusual Conditions
When you can’t reduce the stressors, you need to manage your stress response. Almost everyone, at least at some point, has
to meet deadlines, keep several jobs going at once, resolve problems that come up, and do extra work when necessary.
However, when the pressure mounts, you can relieve it.
Relaxation is key—but most people must train themselves to relax when the pressure is on.
HOW IS STRESS MANAGED?
There are many ways in which a teenager may be able to handle and cope with stress.
Some of these coping mechanisms are:
1. Talking with other people about what makes teenagers feel stressed
2. Taking deep breaths and reciting a mantra
3. Set small goals and break them up into manageable chunks
4. Exercise and eat regular meals
5. Get proper sleep
6. Practice discipline
7. Focus on what you can control and let go of the things that you cannot
8. Lower unrealistic expectations
9. Schedule breaks and enjoyable activities
10. Accept who you are
These are just some of the ways that a teenager can deal with stress, although they could seek the
help of their parents and guidance counselors should things become more than they could handle.