Vincent 2017
Vincent 2017
Vincent 2017
Carol Vincent
To cite this article: Carol Vincent (2017) ‘The children have only got one education and you have
to make sure it's a good one’: parenting and parent–school relations in a neoliberal age, Gender
and Education, 29:5, 541-557, DOI: 10.1080/09540253.2016.1274387
‘The children have only got one education and you have to
make sure it’s a good one’: parenting and parent–school
relations in a neoliberal age
Carol Vincent
UCL Institute of Education, London, UK
Introduction
The words of a white working-class London-based mother, cited in the title, sum up the
sense of responsibility many parents feel towards their children’s schooling. Yet, this is
almost always accompanied by a sense of unease as to how best to ‘make sure’ children
receive a ‘good’ education. This paper examines parents’ responses to this dilemma
drawing on data from my 20 years of research with parents. The data are from qualitative
projects based on semi-structured interviews with parents from a range of class back-
grounds and ethnic origins, and were collected as part of research into parent–school
relationships in primary and secondary schools (e.g. Vincent 1996, 2001); parents’ social
relationships with others unlike themselves (in terms of class and/or ethnicity) (Vincent,
Neal, and Iqbal 2016); middle-class and working-class parents choosing childcare
(Vincent and Ball 2006; Vincent, Ball, and Braun 2010) and the educational strategies of
Black (Caribbean-origin) middle-class parents (Vincent et al. 2012a; Rollock et al. 2015).
Considering this varied data set, I identify and consider four themes that arise. First, I
analyse the messages, shaped by a neoliberal climate, about the responsibilities of
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parents to deliver both the school and home setting which will provide ‘the best’ for their
children. Second, I will discuss the fundamental argument that ‘parent’ is, in practice, rarely
the gender-neutral term that it appears to be. I argue, using examples from my research,
that parenting responsibilities still fall most heavily upon women, and particularly upon
working-class women. Third, and turning to focus in particular on parents’ relationships
with schools and early years settings, I investigate how class and ethnicity shape
parents’ relationships with educational institutions, deploying data from several qualitat-
ive research projects with multi-ethnic groups of parents of pre-school, primary and sec-
ondary aged children. Drawing on Bourdieu’s conceptual framework, I consider how
parental habitus and the forms and volumes of capital they both possess and can activate
inform their struggles for position in the field of schooling. Fourth, I seek to complicate the
binary between middle-class and working-class parents, with the former commonly
assumed to be powerful and effective in the field of schooling, and the latter powerless
and ineffective. I attempt a more nuanced understanding of class position and how this
influences parents’ relationships with schools in two ways, first by drawing attention to
class fractions and the apparently forgotten ‘intermediate’ class, and second by drawing
on notions of intersectionality, and mapping out the potential intersections of class and
ethnicity. These four themes seem to me to address key issues regarding the direction
of contemporary parenting and home–school relations, and the role of class, gender
and ethnicity in shaping both parental experiences of policy and lived interaction with
schools. I conclude by considering the direction of future research on home–school
relations.
and self-sufficiency is, of course, a discourse with some utility when welfare state support
services are being reduced. Hence, the emphasis on parenting quality. For example:
What matters most to a child’s life chances is not the wealth of their upbringing, but the
warmth of their parenting. (David Cameron, Prime Minister 2010–2016, speech to Demos,
January 2010)
What parents do is more important than who they are. (Allen Report 2011, xiv)
Cameron’s speech and Allen’s report focus attention on what all parents could apparently
do to provide not only a consistent and authoritative parenting style, but also support for
their child’s intellectual development, through ensuring a home environment conducive
to learning. Thus, as Hartas (2015) notes, citing the 2011 Patterson report for think-tank
Centreforum, parenting is positioned as ‘an active weapon for counteracting disadvan-
tage’. Such a position acts to minimalise the effect of the social and economic conditions
in which parents are bringing up their children, as if poverty, including mental health
issues (more prevalent amongst the poor, see http://www.poverty.org.uk/62/index.
shtml, also Morgan et al. 2007) and low-quality and/or overcrowded and insecure
housing, does not impact on family life (Hartas 2015). Drawing on quantitative large-
scale data (from the Millennium Cohort Study, specifically data relating to children’s
school performance at 7), Hartas adds to the work of Sullivan et al. (2010) and Peruzzi
(2013) to evidence the argument that there is a ‘significant contribution of families’
socio-economic background (i.e. family income and maternal qualifications) to children’s
schooling outcomes’ (Hartas 2015, 31). Given these data, she strongly criticises the margin-
alisation of the material contexts of parenting, arguing that ‘parental support for learning
and warmth are re-coded as a commodity to maximise children’s human capital’ (Hartas
2015, 22; also Boddy et al. 2016). Dermott and Yamashita make a similar point in relation
to guidance on parenting, compared in England and Japan.
Focusing on advice offered in relation to education and food, we note that in both Japan and
the UK the relationship between money and the ability to perform idealised parenting prac-
tices is rarely mentioned. (Dermott and Yamashita 2014)
Arguments highlighting the power of parenting focus on the soft skills of parents, their
characters, their aspirations, and their temperament. This acts to ‘name the crisis as
moral’ (Jensen 2010), with blame falling on individual parents who fail rather than their
economic circumstances.
This discourse of the power of parenting assumes a causal relationship between parent-
ing and outcomes. As Ramaekers and Suissa (2012) argue, this encourages an approach to
parenting which is technical, about learning skills. Yet, as they argue, parenting a child is
more than the outcome of skills and techniques, learnt and perfected from television
nannies, social media, and parenting courses; it is a complex mixture of decisions,
actions, and emotions.
In affluent countries, parenting, mothering especially, has moved decisively beyond
providing food, shelter, and love. This shift has been referred to as ‘intensive mothering’
(Hays 1996) or ‘intentional parenting’ (Arendell 2001). The parenting practices of the afflu-
ent middle classes have been described by Annette Lareau as ‘concerted cultivation’
(Lareau 2003); that is, ‘becoming a parent means getting engaged in a project called
544 C. VINCENT
child’ (Karsten 2015, 568). As a middle-class London father said to me recently, this means
putting the children at the centre of the family’s activities:
You asking that question [about his friendships] it suddenly popped into my head that the
whole idea of parenting, for me as a parent, or my idea of being a parent was that I was
going to have children with the focus of children. So subsequently I have allowed my friend-
ships to go, my hobbies to decline as it were, my focus is my children. The flipside is that there
are people who have children but carry on with their relationships, with their friendships, with
their hobbies […] Those, I suppose like me, White middle class, do have a very definitive focus
on their children and will, not necessarily drop everything for it, but that is – my social calendar
is dictated by my children, which birthday parties they have got to go to (white middle-class
father, Junction school, London).2
The suggestion is made here that a particular social group – the white middle classes – are
more likely to focus on their children in this way. Implicit in the response is the idea that
this sacrificial approach to parenting (letting adult friendships and hobbies go) is more
than a simple description of the position many time-pressurised parents find themselves
in, but has additional claims to a moral good. This is the way one ought to parent, with the
children’s activities prioritised before all else. Lareau’s (2003) very valuable contribution of
‘concerted cultivation’ describes this way of parenting, which includes involving children
in paid-for extra-curricular activities, and also encouraging a particular style of talk with
debate and discussion, both within the family and without (Lareau describes how
middle-class children are encouraged to ask questions when visiting a doctor, and
begin to develop a conversational relationship of equals with professionals). She also
identifies the cost for parents, especially mothers – financial costs, but also of time,
labour, and effort – of this approach which prioritises the child’s development before all
else. The use of activities (sport, art, music, drama, and so on) aims to develop a portfolio
of skills and talents – what I have called elsewhere a Renaissance Child3 (Vincent and Ball
2007). Lareau has argued that concerted cultivation is a classed style of child-rearing,
prevalent amongst the professional middle classes. However, in a later study, Bennett,
Lutz, and Jayaram (2012) argued that working-class parents were also enthusiastic con-
cerning such activities, but that they were constrained in the options available to their chil-
dren. Working-class respondents relied far more heavily on cheaper activities, provided by
schools and churches, rather than private providers, and there were also lower rates of
working-class participation in elite cultural activities (such as orchestra). Some working-
class respondents saw activities as important, not necessarily for the skills learnt, but for
giving their children access to safe spaces in their neighbourhoods. Bennett, Lutz, and
Jayaram (2012) concluded that the differences between the social classes are therefore
not so much a question of class cultures (i.e. what parents understood to be important)
as ‘class related conditions in which they find themselves’ (152) (i.e. what they were
able to provide given the resources available to them).
In writing elsewhere about intensive mothering/parenting, involving practices of con-
certed cultivation, together with colleagues (Vincent and Ball 2007, Vincent et al. 2013 and
Vincent and Maxwell 2016), I have argued that in affluent countries of the Global North,4
we are moving towards the normalisation of this approach as a parenting strategy for all.
This normalisation imposes particular forms of behaviour on parents, especially mothers,
requiring them to develop self-sufficient, self-regulating children who achieve in a range of
academic and non-academic areas. Paying for piano lessons, sports coaching, drama
GENDER AND EDUCATION 545
employment policy’ and the relatively late arrival of statutory paternity leave (in 2003) to
explain the dominance and continuation of the gendered male breadwinner/female carer
roles. Thus, men’s primary contribution to the family remains that of breadwinner (e.g.
Doucet 2006; Miller 2011; Edwards and Caballero 2015), despite cultural appreciation of
involved fathers. In an earlier study with London-based middle-class fathers, it was clear
that they were in search of an emotionally intimate relationship with their children, but
less concerned with submerging themselves in the details of the organisation and man-
agement of children’s lives, a range of tasks still largely delegated to mothers. In a
follow-up study with working-class families with young children in the same areas of
London, we (Stephen Ball, Annette Braun, and myself) found the same dominance of
the provider discourse for men, and a lack of alternatives.
Neither the middle nor the working-class families presented a serious challenge to a tra-
ditional understanding of practiced family relationships with mothers centre-stage and
fathers on the periphery. Fathers were portrayed by the mothers as ‘helping out’ with the
numerous daily tasks of caring for young children and became ‘good men’ for doing so. In
turn, men in both studies took up their posts on the sidelines of daily childcare tasks. This
is in line with the continuing prevalence and pervasiveness of the discourses that stress the
fundamental and central role played by mothers in bringing up children, as evoked in the
class-crossing messages of ‘intensive mothering’, and coupled with the powerful ideologies
of fathers as financial providers and the primacy of the breadwinner model of fathering.
(Braun, Vincent, and Ball 2010, 33)
Shirani, Henwood, and Coltart (2011) argue that parenting is differently intensive for
men, as the men in their research describe risks and anxieties in relation to financial pro-
vision. However, I would argue a particular public ferocity is retained for women who ‘fail’
their mothering responsibilities (also Klett-Davis 2007; May 2008). There is indeed condem-
nation around absent fathers – think of the terms ‘feckless fathers’, ‘deadbeat dads’ – yet
women with children are discursively positioned as mothers first. If they are in paid work,
the identity of worker is additional; it is not necessarily voluntary as many women have
little or no option but to work, and of course, many women choose to work and are
highly invested in their careers, but this identity is an addendum to that of mother. For
men, as noted above, the situation is largely reversed, the adoption of an identity as
‘involved father’ is virtuous, but also optional.6 Whilst the moral imperative of being a
‘good’ mother remains acute for mothers in general, for working-class and poor women
particularly, adhering to an identity as respectable and responsible mothers can prove dif-
ficult (Skeggs 1997). Elliott, Powell, and Brenton’s (2015) American study of low-income
Black single mothers notes that their respondents emphasised the role of ‘sacrifice, self-
reliance and protection in their mothering practices’ (355). However, the women’s aware-
ness of the gap between their ideal, and the structural and material constraints in their
lives as they juggled insecure employment, poor housing, and institutional racism
impacted on their own well-being. ‘Their mothering largely involved fending off the
dangers, insecurities and vagaries of poverty, racism and sexism’ (366).
Intensive mothering is much easier, made more possible, if the mother has resources:
the ability to work flexibly and with autonomy, the ability to pay for regular, reliable child-
care, a secure and spacious place to live, and so on, what Elliott et al. call ‘privatised
mothering’. They do not define the term but I am suggesting that it signals mothering
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private school. She activated her considerable stock of cultural capital in her initial inter-
actions with the school. However, her refusal to back down from naming racism led the
school to deny her any legitimacy, making Felicia’s cultural capital redundant in this situ-
ation. This example shows clearly that failure to activate capital is not, as might be
assumed, a parental failure. Indeed, we used the example of Felicia to draw attention to
the damage caused by White institutions who actively refuse to recognise the class
resources of Black middle-class parents (Vincent et al. 2012b).
In order to (partially) address this issue of the different forms and volumes of capital
which parents bring with them into a relationship with the school, I have argued pre-
viously that a more dialogic home–school relationship is required, looking especially at
one-to-one parent teacher meetings as a site for development (Vincent 2014). Currently,
we have a system where confidence and a sense of entitlement allow some parents to
demand and receive teacher time and attention, whilst others speak to teachers rarely.
One mother in my first empirical study of parent–teacher relationships hypothesised
that the sand-tray in the early years classroom was because children from the inner-city
area did not often get to visit to the seaside. Her reasoning, in the absence of any infor-
mation about learning through play, is perfectly logical, but also provides a glimpse of
the myriad misunderstandings possible when pedagogies go unexplained (Vincent
1996, 98). Thus, I have suggested focusing attention on the seemingly mundane
moment of parent–teacher conversations. Changes in the way that these are conducted
would include a discussion about, but also – and importantly – beyond the child’s attain-
ment, to include their relationships with teacher and peers, and their home life, interests
and enthusiasms. The aim is to construct a living, dynamic relationship, a dialogue of
equals, between teachers and parents, and one which focuses in particular on developing
a conversation with those parents who appear to lack the particular social and cultural
resources to allow themselves to be easily heard in school. The difficulty of finding a
space and a language in which to conduct such conversations cannot be underestimated.
However, an expectation of a more dialogic relationship between teachers and parents
would lessen the dependence on an individual parent’s will and capacity to scrutinise
their child’s school career independently.
The binary distinction overlooks at least two points. The first is the idea of class
fractions, that middle-class and working-class parents – usually defined as such by
occupation – are not homogeneous groupings. Class theory influenced by Bourdieu has
moved much more towards a focus on lifestyle and social networks in addition to occu-
pation and income as ways of defining class position. The work of Mike Savage and col-
leagues has been influential here, especially in promoting the notion of the changing
nature of class. The Great British Class Survey with which the team has been associated,
and the subsequent analysis, has had critics (e.g. Bradley 2014) but it has succeeded, in
my view, in promoting beyond academic circles the notion that the established ‘centrality
of the boundary between the middle and working classes’ is inadequate (Savage 2015, 26).
Additionally, it is worth noting that some class positions are largely overlooked in research.
The key example here is the ‘intermediate’ class, those who hold occupations referred to
by the UK National Statistics Socio-Economic Classifications as ‘intermediate’ (e.g. clerical/
administrative/sales positions which offer ‘forms of employment regulation [that] combine
aspects from both the service relationship and the labour contract’ para 2.9, ONS 2010). We
know little about this large group in relation to their values and behaviours around parent-
ing and education, and whether these are distinctive from those of the middle and
working classes.
Broad class groupings such as ‘middle class’ and ‘working class’ are, of course, not hom-
ogenous. Research on middle-class fractions discusses, for example, the relationship
between class fractions and place of residence (Jackson and Butler 2015), school and child-
care choice (Vincent and Ball 2006; Reay et al. 2011), and orientation to children’s edu-
cation (Irwin and Elley 2011). Weis, Cipollone, and Jenkins (2014) have argued in their
study of American, mainly upper middle-class students applying to elite higher education
institutions, that as selective higher education is now understood as a viable destination
by an increasing number of people – a broad band of middle-class families – what we
are seeing in the US is ‘tensions within a social class’ (193) (the middle classes), as a par-
ticularly privileged segment act to accrue and preserve its own advantages in insecure
economic times. Forms of differentiation change in response to the desire of the more
established and secure sections of the middle classes to maintain and reproduce their
advantage (as the Weis et al. study shows). Research on working-class differentiation is
more limited (Vincent, Ball, and Braun 2008), although recent empirical work has
focused on the construction of identity in relation to education (Ingram 2011; Stahl and
Dale 2013; Weis 2013).
The second point on the limitations of the middle-/working-class binary is that
although the intersection of gender and class in relation to mothering and schooling
has been the focus of academic attention (e.g. see examples above, discussed under
Theme 2), race/ethnicity is missing from the somewhat simplistic accounts of the
middle-class and working-class relationships with schooling described above. There are
two further observations here. The first is that, despite some studies in the UK and else-
where (e.g. Crozier and Davies 2007; Byrne and De Tona 2012, 2014; Guo 2012 Bhopal
2014; Pattillo 2015), there is still relatively few accounts – particularly sociological
accounts – about the ways in which different minority ethnic groups – both established
populations and more recent migrants – choose and interact with schools. My second
observation is the need to more fully explore how race/ethnicity interacts with other
dimensions of identity to shape relationships with schools (also Theodorou and
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Symeou 2013). This was one of the drivers for our research into the educational strat-
egies of the Black middle classes, to understand the intersection of class and race in
determining parental priorities and actions around the education of their children. This
is not the place for a detailed discussion of intersectionality, and so it is enough to
say here that in a seminal paper, Crenshaw (1991) emphasised that identities are not
reducible to just one dimension; that a theoretical focus on, say, class can simplify and
reduce, and through reduction, miss and misrepresent the experiences of, for
example, Black working-class women, and the inter-related roles of class, race, and
gender in their lives. In contrast, intersectionality theory seeks to understand the com-
plexity of social identity by focusing on gender, class, race, ethnicity, disability, and
sexual orientation – ‘the great axes of social differentiation’ (Bilge 2010, 58) to which
we might also add age and religion – and ‘postulat[ing] their interplay in the production
and reproduction of social inequalities’ (Bilge 2010, 58). Intersectionality emphasises
fluidity, and the importance of different locales, situations, spaces, times, different dispo-
sitions and subjectivities, for understanding particular interactions and identities. All
identities can be conceived of as consisting of intersectional dimensions, although the
focus has more often been on marginality, rather than privilege (Nash 2008).
A challenge in the analysis of the research with Black middle-class parents was to hold
both class and race in productive tension, trying to understand the workings of both, and
their points of interdependence for the respondents, in particular situations. In our pub-
lished work, we have illustrated and analysed the way in which parents carry out what
can be thought of as intersectional work, drawing on the range of economic, cultural,
and social resources available to them (Vincent et al. 2012b; Rollock et al. 2015). The
respondents in our project invested time and energy in the development of their children
as successful learners, confident in their identity as young Black men and women. They
worked to defend their children and themselves from racism, stereotyping, and seemingly
entrenched low expectations. In order to avoid/resist misrepresentations of themselves
and their children, parents deployed a range of strategies. When meeting teachers, they
considered their dress, their demeanour, carefully managed the presentation of their con-
cerns and strategically deployed their knowledge to present themselves as ‘other’ than the
negative, and stereotypical perceptions of Black working-class parents’ behaviours and
attitudes, which they felt informed the perceptions held by white teachers of black
parents.
A more general challenge for researchers is how to use an intersectional analysis,
yet also define the limits of their enquiry in a way that allows focus, without simplifying
and flattening social reality. We (Iqbal, Neal, and Vincent 2016) faced this in a recent
project, exploring the way in which social class and ethnicity affect the friendships
made, maintained or avoided by adults and children living in highly diverse London
localities. Whilst planning the project, we were aware that gender and religion were
also likely to be key dimensions affecting how the adults and children interacted, and
indeed, so it proved. We argued that we could defend our focus on class and ethnicity
as one that could provide us with some analytical focus and coherence, and root our
analysis in the ‘specific ontologies of each set of social relations’ (Bilge 2010, 68),
whilst being open to the myriad points of intersection which compose an individual
identity. However, the degree to which this is a persuasive argument is for others to
judge.
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Conclusion
To return to the words of the mother cited in the title of the paper ‘making sure children
get a good education’ is an uncertain process for most – even leaving aside the contested
question of what constitutes a ‘good’ education. Parents respond to this in different ways
(Symeou 2007). Some may buy a private education – with all the resources, access to net-
works, and a high chance of returns – that that suggests (Kenway, Fahey, and Koh 2013).
Some may seek to manage the ‘risk’ (the risk being that the child’s potential may not be
fully realised) through high levels of monitoring and intervention (Vincent and Martin
2000; James et al. 2010). Others may simply hope for the best (Vincent 2001). There are
gaps in our knowledge as I have indicated above. One is the persistence of the binary
of middle class and working class in analyses of parental involvement that obscures
class fractions and a consideration of who might be understood as ‘intermediate’ class.
Second, a more thorough understanding is required of how intersectional dimensions
of identity (class, ethnicity, gender, religion, and so on) shape both parenting and parental
involvement with schools, and, third, the way in which neoliberal discourses on parental
responsibility and self-sufficiency are taken up and contested by different social groups.
What is clear is that the category of ‘the parent’ presented as such, in broad and apparently
neutral terms, hides a wide range of behaviours, privileges, and disadvantages. Parental
ability to exercise agency varies, as agency is a ‘socio-culturally mediated capacity to
act’ (Ahearn 2013, 240). An understanding of these socially structured constraints and
opportunities is crucial if we are to understand the transmission of cultural capital
within the family: what Bourdieu calls ‘the best hidden and socially most determinant edu-
cational investment’, that is the awareness ‘that ability or talent is itself the product of an
investment of time and cultural capital’ (2004, 17).
Therefore, as I see it, there is a need to develop further analyses of family life with regard
to parenting and parental involvement with schools. That is analyses of how the individual
habitus is affected by having children. Boterman and Bridge (2015) write of the way
habitus is rearticulated (to various degrees) in relation to entering the new field of parent-
hood, and of how families develop particular practices, assumptions, expectations. Explor-
ing ‘families as realised social fictions’ (Burke, Emmerich, and Ingram 2013, 172), the stories
families tell about themselves – how ‘we’ do things here, what ‘we’ value, how ‘we’ spend
time – will allow us to analyse how their understandings shape and affect parental invol-
vement with education.
Notes
1. CANParent trials ran from 2012 to 2014 (with a later period of extension) in three areas of
England with different demographies. The aim of the trial was to stimulate a market in uni-
versal parenting classes. Parents of children aged up to five (later six) were given a voucher
to ‘spend’ on classes offered by a range of providers. There was a low take up (about 4% of
the eligible population) but high degree of satisfaction reported amongst those who did par-
ticipate (over 90% of participants were mothers) (Lindsay et al. 2014). Cameron seemingly
had had plans to continue with the aim of universalising such classes. See, for example,
Cameron’s speech in January 2016 on ‘life chances’. https://www.gov.uk/government/
speeches/prime-ministers-speech-on-life-chances. The direction on families and parenting
by Theresa’ May’s Conservative government remains unclear at the time of writing (Decem-
ber 2016).
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2. This ESRC-funded project explored the way in which social class and ethnicity affected the
friendships of adults and children living in super diverse areas in London (see e.g. Vincent,
Neal, and Iqbal 2016 for more details).
3. Renaissance child is an adaptation of the idea of Renaissance man – used to refer to men with
a range of talents and knowledge across a wide range of areas. The term refers back, of course,
to the Italian Renaissance, starting in the late middle ages.
4. The literature drawn on here is largely Anglo-American but see also, for example, Karsten’s
(2015) work in Hong Kong, Bach’s (2014) in Denmark, Stefansen and Aarseth (2011) on
middle-class parenting to ‘enrich intimacy’ in Norway, and Cho (2015) on extra-curricular
music activities in Korea.
5. Supernanny is a reality TV show, first broadcast in 2004, in which Jo Frost, the ‘supernanny’,
was shown helping families with their children’s behavior. The series also has a website:
http://www.supernanny.co.uk/
6. O’Brien et al. (2016) note the need for more research on fathers from minority ethnic groups.
7. ‘From 1 July 2015, all schools [and registered childcare providers] are subject to a duty under
section 26 of the Counter-Terrorism and Security Act 2015, in the exercise of their functions, to
have ‘due regard to the need to prevent people from being drawn into terrorism. This duty is
known as the Prevent duty’ (Department for Education 2015, 4; Coppock and McGovern 2014).
8. Helicopter parenting is a popular term that describes parents who hover closely around their
older children, trying to micro-manage their lives.
9. The letter of a headteacher in Darlington who wrote to parents in January 2016 asking them
not to wear nightwear when visiting the school was widely commented on in the media, see
for example, http://www.theguardian.com/education/2016/jan/27/wave-support-schools-
ban-parents-wearing-pyjamas-skerne-park-darlington
Disclosure statement
No potential conflict of interest was reported by the author.
Funding
This work was supported by grants from the Economic and Social Research Council [grant numbers:
R000239232 (Choice and Provision in local pre-school child care markets); RES-000-23-0770 (Local
Childcare cultures: Working class families and pre-school childcare); ES/G0349X/1 (The Educational
Strategies of the Black Middle Classes); ES/K002384/1 (Adults’ and Children’s Friendships Across
Social Class and Ethnic Difference)].
Notes on contributor
Carol Vincent is a Professor of Sociology of Education at UCL Institute of Education. She has
researched and written extensively on parents and home-school relations. She is currently research-
ing how teachers understand and promote ‘community cohesion’ and British Values’.
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