Hello Dear,

Do not be too complacent with the people closer and don't also tell secret about
your relationship to them, especially those you trust. Not all of them will save
you in times of trouble, because they will choose their selves first more than
anyone else.
How are you doing and how is everything going on over there with you, i hope all is
fine. Well i just want to tell you about Trust in a marriage life or relationship.
I believe that Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness..... No
matter how much you love someone if you don't have these ingredients you will never
succeed. To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her
first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only
thing that will never fade until you die, your heart. Love is like trust, when you
find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is
what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to. Trust is what makes
everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone
realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help. Love
makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you
are always there for her, to be with her, to make her/him realize how much you
really love her/him....

Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a
wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you
to give again and again. You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but
the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies trust it.There may be many
people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart;
choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can
love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind
can only dream of. Trust your heart. Distance cannot, they are on the inside, but
when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.
Love is patient.

Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud.......... It is
not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of
wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always
protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes,
dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love
is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding
and trust between two people.......

Relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of
being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your
partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest
communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,
that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire.

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time.. When your loved one
does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we
all want to nurture those that we love. We want the best in life for those that we
care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems,
they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many
forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or
something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives
you support when you need it.

When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be

things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise, so
both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch
football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that
your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization
with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with
your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If
someone isn't willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants
and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally
developed enough for you to have your needs met.

Open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to
have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are
they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is
married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie
about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like
everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your
relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a
relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both
partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship.

There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open
and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a
relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss
their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow
and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they
continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These
three qualities alone will help us nurture and develop a deeper relationship when
you and I are together.

I believe that what make real relationship to work is Love, honesty, respect,
humor, laughter, peace of mind. I think a couple should work together on all
aspects of the relationship.Holding hands, protect from harm, hugs and loves daily,
communication is very important, ask your partner to do something instead of
telling them to do something.

We are both adults and need to ask for things not demand them. I think the little
things mean a lot so if you would be thinking about your partner during your day
and you see a beautiful flower you stop and get it for your partner.I will do the
same. Little notes to each other to show we love each other. A sexy text during
day just to say I love you. Never go to bed angry with each other always make
up.If things are not going as you like talk to me, don't hold in till explode that
benefits no one. Never leave the house without kissing and saying love you.Do what
you must to remember important dates like "Birthdays, anniversaries, holidays,
when first kiss, when first date,"I think to keep things frisky we should have a
date night once a month. We should have breakfast in bed once weekly. We should
spend the rest of the time with family breakfast and dinner.We should have family
night twice a month. When sad or upset we should try to make one another laugh
because it can't be as bad as we think at the moment.I like to give gifts just
because of the love we share and they are not too expensive, but if you see
something that reminds you of the other person that you love get it and surprise
them. Try to take into consideration how you would feel if someone did something to
you before doing that to someone else. Take walks together.Don't be afraid to tell
me what it is that you need or prefer. Open and honest totally, is the best
thing.I'm a person who is willing to put everything on the table and together we
can select the best solution to building and maintaining a strong and rewarding
relationship. I hope you do understand everything i have explain, i know it will
take you special time to read it, as i have take special time to compose it as
well. Please let me know what your mind says, i have attach my son photo for you
and his name is James, he is just 12 years old and he so much behave like me and
told me he want to be a Doctor when he is grown. Bye for now..

Warm Regard,
Paul Anderson..