Personality Development (PRELIM-MODULE2)
Personality Development (PRELIM-MODULE2)
Personality Development
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Professional Development and Applied Ethics - APR | AY 2122 Date: Monday, April 25, 2022, 12:16 AM
Course:
2nd Semester (Coquia, Rebecca)
Book: Personality Development
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Description
A.
Personality Development
Personality:
It is the sum total of all-natural and acquired traits and qualities an
individual
possesses.
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Table of contents
3. Personal Grooming
3.1. Dress Code
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Before we start this module, let us watch this video on Personality and Personality
Development.
1. WHAT IS PERSONALITY
Personality according to Harold C. Conklin.
A fairy stable configuration, feeling, attitudes, ideas, and behavior that characterized the individual,
making him unique and different from others.
It is the collection of traits that determine the individual’s adjustment to his environment. Each
individual is made up of determining tendencies that play an active role in his behavior. Personality is
what lies behind the specific acts of a person.
Each individual has a unique configuration of motives, traits, values, and interest. Every act
performed by the person bears the stamp of his own distinctive style.
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• It is geared towards the development of an organized pattern of behavior and attitude that make
a person distinctive.
• This course provides the students with the concepts and principles of personality development and
includes discussions on the dimensions of personality and ways of improving one’s personality to help
make the student become a world-class professional.
1. Nature or Heredity
Biological factors such as age, sex, race, height, weight, and built as genes were transmitted by parents
to offspring. There are controversies as to whether intelligence and aptitude are also inherited.
2. Nurture or Environment
a. Consists of a group of individuals, institutions, and surroundings with whom the person interacts
with from childhood to adulthood. From them, an individual may acquire sets of beliefs, ideas, values,
attitudes, and other social-cultural characteristics through the process of socialization.
3. Experiences
a. Openness to experience is a measure of depth, breadth, and variability in a person’s imagination and
urge for experience.
b. Relate to the intellect, openness to new ideas, cultural interest, educational aptitude, and creativity as
well as varied sensory and cognitive experiences.
c. HIGH OPENNESS – Broad interest, liberal mind and like a novelty
d. LOW OPENNESS – Conventional, conservative, prefer familiarity
4. Volition or Motivation
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c. When we put forth any particular act of choice, it is called executive or imperative volition
d. When one imperative choice governs series of actions, it is called predominant volition
Personality Enrichment
The Johari Window was created by Joe Luft and Harry Ingham who were both researchers at The
University of California. They theorize that personality can be expressed as windows that offer a way of
looking into an individual's personality.
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2. Hidden Window
- Contains things that others don’t know and this is kept to us.
3. Blind Window
- Things that others see in us and that the self is unaware of.
- Things that nobody knows yet or the areas that are unexplored
What is personality?
Broadly speaking, we can understand personality as the pattern of thoughts, feelings, and behaviors
which make each individual unique.
Simply put, it's all the features that make you who you are – your
attitude,
personality and nature.
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1. Psychoanalytic,
also called psychodynamic
2. Trait
3. Humanistic
4. Social cognition
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Positive psychology has made one of the main contributions to helping people analyze, evaluate, and
recognize their core strengths and use them to live a productive life (Boniwell, 2006).
Personal strengths within positive psychology are described as our built-in capacity for ways of thinking,
feeling, and acting (Linley, 2008). We also have distinct qualities of character which are associated with the
six principles of positive thinking theory (Seligman, 2002):
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1. Wisdom
Creativity
Curiosity
Love of learning
Open-mindedness
Perspectives
2. Courage
Authenticity
Bravery
Persistence
Zest
3. Humanity
Kindness
Love
Social intelligence
4. Justice
Fairness
Leadership
Teamwork
5. Temperance
Forgiveness
Modesty/Humility
Prudence
Self-regulation
6. Transcendence
5. Religiousness/Spirituality
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Peterson and Seligman (2004) have been researching what personal strengths could look like for three
years and have come up with the list of 24 core strengths above. They called them Character Attributes
and concluded:
Positive psychology allows us to understand that in some ways we may be better and weaker in others,
and that's cool, that's what makes us all special. The aim is to recognize your strength pattern so you can
tap into them to lead a fuller life.
One of the other Positive Psychology aims is to reconcile our perceptions of strengths and weaknesses.
Traditionally, positive psychology believed other fields of psychology had put so much focus on pain,
trauma, and negative feelings and perceptions and tried to change this (Seligman, 2002).
Having that in mind, a weakness in positive psychology is perceived to be one of the 24 Character
Strengths of which you are weaker than, of fact, a full force deficiency. Peterson and Seligman (2004)
agree that each of us carries all the Character Strengths within us and knowing how each fit within our
personal capacity enables us to react and behave more positively.
Positive psychology does not see weaknesses as an 'unfixable' field and we can work through different
positive psychology strategies and resources to improve some of our lower character qualities if we so
wish.
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Building self-esteem
and confidence:
But how can someone else believe in you when you doubt
yourself?
1.
Overcome
Your Self-Limiting Beliefs to Build Self Esteem
The first step to building trust is to push those self-limiting beliefs past. To find your limits
expose yourself to uncomfortable situations. Once you become accustomed to such circumstances,
you will see that your boundaries are self-imposed and that there is no limit to what you can achieve.
2.
To Boost
Confidence, Accept Your Memories Are Not Always Accurate
Recognize that your memory isn't always right to start building trust, and revisit self-limiting
memories to get a correct perspective. For example, it may be a lie that you tell yourself about
performance, or a mistaken impression about how people see you.
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3.
Practice
Positive Self-Talk to Improve Your Self-Image
On average, we say up to 1000 words to ourselves per minute. While this can sound ridiculous
at first, it is very important to speak to yourself. This helps enhance memory, reduce stress, develop
respect for oneself and raise positive self-esteem. However, those benefits rely on how you speak
about yourself. This can also affect your neurobiological responses by improving your self-perception
by speaking kindly about yourself. See problems as obstacles to solve.
4.
Beat
Negative Bias with a Positive Mindset and Self Confidence
Just search for the positive things during difficult times like a rough day at work to counter
negative bias. Note that while good things quickly disappear, the negative ones seem to stick for
longer. Fight negativity with these ideas, and be confident:
Coming up with at least five positive ones for every negative one to combat it.
- Let each optimistic thought remain for a while — about 20 seconds — before continuing to the
next.
- Do not neglect or hide the negative feelings, even though it is easier than confronting them.
- Recognize the negative feeling and then move on with what it really is. So much internalization
of a negative thought or feeling just gives it more control over you.
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5.
Work
on Self-Doubt to Improve Self Confident Attitude
Low self-esteem leads to self-doubt and the feeling of a victim mentality that your life is at the
hands of all else except you. Self-doubt is a very common hindrance to both personal and
professional success. Perhaps you're afraid to apply for a promotion because you don't believe you 're
good enough. Yet no one prevents you from achieving in all that you do except yourself. So, analyze
the ways you doubt yourself, and knock down those walls. Of example, whether it's an interview you
're anxious about only polishing up on the correct body language and etiquette and you're going to
make a better impression.
6.
Conquer
Your Fears to Boost Your Confidence
Fear comes mainly from not overseeing anything. You get nervous when you do not feel like
you're in control. Yet when you have a command-level over something, the anxiety goes away. Mostly
fear is motivated by impulses, not critical thought. Denial or denial doesn't help to solve it; you must
get closer to it instead. Consider the worst fear, and spend some time worrying about it. Take a step
further and consider what the worst-case scenario could come of it. Ultimately, you should know it's
not always as bad as it sounds, and you'll be on your way to conquering your fears.
7.
To
Become Self Confident, Be More Curious
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Curiosity is a must-have quality of someone who wants to be successful and self-confident. Being
curious means being observant of the world around you, able to know and opening yourself to new
experiences. A curious person, in his profession and personal life, can attain life-long development
and growth. So, ask questions and keep your mind engaged whenever possible.
Not only can you consider new possibilities, but you'll also feel more positive in yourself.
Building self-esteem and being positive is a phase, not a point you can come up with in a single
move. With these tips, start building your confidence little by little today and you'll soon achieve your
goals.
WORKING ON ATTITUDE
Values
References
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Personal Grooming from Nexus Academics
Training Centre Pte. Ltd., Singapore.
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Personality Development by Raniela Santos from
OLP, Academia.edu.
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Personality Development by Lightbulbskills.com.
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Self-image is a Learning product. Influences of early childhood, such as parents and careers, have a
significant impact on our perception of ourselves. They are mirrors which reflect an image of ourselves
back to us. The encounters with other people, including teachers, friends and relatives, contribute to
the mirror image. Relationships reinforce what we think about ourselves and believe for ourselves.
In the mirror the picture we see can be a true or distorted perception of who we really are. We are
developing either a positive or a negative self-image based on that view. We've taken on the
strengths and limitations that influence how we behave today. In several areas, we constantly take in
information and evaluate ourselves, such as physical appearance (How do I look?), performance (How
am I doing?), and relationships (How important am I?).
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Specific steps to
enhance body image:
Explore your personal body image with its strengths and limitations.
Confront thinking distortions related to your body.
Challenge misleading assumptions about body appearance.
Accept and love who you are.
Be comfortable with your body.
Have positive experiences with your body.
Be a friend to your body with positive affirmations.
References
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Personal Grooming from Nexus Academics
Training Centre Pte. Ltd., Singapore.
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Personality Development by Raniela Santos from
OLP, Academia.edu.
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Personality Development by Lightbulbskills.com.
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3. Personal Grooming
Personality Grooming
Personal grooming has become essential in our daily life. A well-groomed individual stands out amongst
the crowd. Acquire the basic skills to care for your skin and learn makeup tips to enhance your personal
appearance. Make a positive impact on your social engagements through proper personal grooming
skills.
Personal grooming is very important especially when it comes to the first impression. It creates a
tremendous impact when you meet someone for the first time they will make their minds up about you
based upon:
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When we talk of Personal grooming, we should also look upon the totality of ourselves, the way we talk, the way we
walk, the way we sit, and the many aspects of our personality. Let us watch this video and learn how to handle our personal
grooming, makeover, and personal hygiene.
Reflection:
changes that you need to look upon in your personality and personal
hygiene? How will you go about your makeover?
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Deportment basic is one of the most important areas of leaving a good impression. It is how you carry
yourself, developing an upright positive posture when meeting people. It also a lot about the kind of
person you are, the types of habits you have and it shows if you are interested in what you are doing.
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Upon looking at the different postures at the images below, what would you do to change your bad posture, if
there is any?
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Proper grooming and professional appearance are important to gain not just a positive impression but
also respect in the workplace. First impressions matter and the way employees look and carry themselves
create impact with customers, and potential clients. Proper grooming and professional appearance are important to
both men and women. Lack of these may lead to poor image and can interfere with the company brand and reputation.
One of the grooming that professionals should look at is the dress codes which are used to communicate to employees what the
organization considers appropriate work attire. A dress code or appearance policy allows an employer to set expectations regarding
the image it wants the company to convey. Dress codes can be formal or informal and might include the use of uniforms.
Some of the important aspect of good grooming for the right dress and wardrobe management are as
follows:
When we hear the phrase “dress code” we're most likely to associate it with workplace rules.
Lots of jobs still have written guidelines for employee attire – with varying degrees of strictness.
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These written requests for attendee attire are usually only one or two words long, printed on an invitation
and meant to be understood by all guests.
Unfortunately – universal understanding of social dress codes is going the way of cursive handwriting.
It has an old-fashioned appeal to some people but most of us don't bother with it anymore.
So if you've been invited to an event with a dress code – or you're planning an event and you want to
request a specific sort of attire from your guests – look no further!
Women on the other hand are also required to have their own dress codes for most occasions. Please watch this
video.
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References
- Personal Grooming from Nexus Academics Training Centre Pte. Ltd., Singapore.
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