The Gender Identity and Expectations in Society

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The Gender Identity and Expectations in Society

Your anatomy doesn't determine your gender.

Even though, the concept behind gender is understandable; however, gender is perceived several times
as the sex of the person. However, that is not the case because gender is demonstrated as the act of
portraying the sex after birth. When children are born, they are given a gender: male or female.
However, this gendering of children is based by their genital part rather than their identity. The
gendering of children demonstrates a different meaning than what most people will perceive it as.
Gender being used as the equivalent of sex creates misinterpretation of what gender suggests and
eventually creating harmful identities for individuals.

Gender cannot be considered the equivalent of sex since sex refers to male and female. In the scope of
sex, gender associates with sex in being a factor to determine what a person’s gender is.

We have two categories in Western society for identifying males and females. "Sex" is the name of this
category. Gender identification refers to a person's actions or how they are described (masculine or
feminine). Sex (male/female) is a biological and genetic trait. The preconceived notion that parents are
the first to teach their children about sex and whether it makes them masculine or feminine shapes their
gender identity. For example, if her child is a girl, she may know that she wants to outfit her in pink or
pastel hues. Forcing people to identify with one gender is problematic since they are unable to freely
express themselves without being classified as male or female.

This has personally affect me because I am a lesbian father who is currently teaching my adopted child
on how to take on gender roles. Although, some people may disagree that parents do not assign gender
roles it is important to realize that different gender roles are negatively affected both men/women. Men
and women in society are judged based on their physical appearance, choice, teachings and practices.
People are not satisfied until they are able to properly identify other individuals as male or female.

Although, some people may disagree that our gender roles are not constructed by our parents, it is
believed that we are put under extreme pressure by expectations within our sex category. Women
struggle with job opportunities such as not getting as much equal pay as men or simply because society
believes that we are just meant to only bear children and care for them. This gender role difference
limits women from expanding their opportunities. And that there is also a misconception between the
words, “sex” and “gender.” These two words almost sound the same but are not true. Sex is the biology
and anatomy to what makes a person male/female.

Gender is the way we behave, think, or carry traits such as masculine/feminine. The word masculine has
a positive connotation versus feminine. People are starting to undermine the word “feminine”, which
refers to women. This changes the view of a woman’s role in society. She is devalued and
unappreciated. Gender roles have changed significantly in our society. Sometimes a lot of families do
not have a manly figure in their lives. Women are now able to play both mother and father roles. We
can make society a better place to live in if we can challenge and preserver through the expectancy of
gender roles.

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