Managing and Caring For Self: Unit 1: Intelligent Behaviors: Learning To Be A Better
Managing and Caring For Self: Unit 1: Intelligent Behaviors: Learning To Be A Better
Managing and Caring For Self: Unit 1: Intelligent Behaviors: Learning To Be A Better
Knowing the "self "is not enough. Since "you are" is partly made up of your
choices you must also have the ability to choose especially to be better "you".
There are several techniques that you can adapt depending on your situation
and preferences to make you a better learner. Learning should not just mean
studying for your quizzes and exams in school. Learning could also acquire outside
classroom or even outside school. A certain hobby or skills, your favorite sports are
some examples that you want to enhance and acquire techniques. However some
techniques or new ways on how to study better will be discovered and rediscovered.
What important is you learn how to learn these things at this moment.
We are Homo sapiens or "wise man". We think more complex. But being called
wise man not only about how we think, how you process information and how you
utilize techniques while you are studying. By this you have higher chance of
improving your learning process than those who do not reflect on their methods. This
idea falls under metacognition. Metacognition is defined as "thinking about thinking"
(Livingston 1997, Papaleontioulouca 2003).
The emotional and motivation state is the ideal state for that person in order to
further facilitate his learning.
METACOGNITION elements:
B) Secondly the task variables this is what you know and what you think
about the nature of the task and the task requires.
3. SKIMMING - This is basically browsing over the material and keeping an eye on
keywords, phrase or sentence. It is also about knowing where to search for such key
terms.
4. REHEARSING - This is not just all about repeatedly talking ,writing or doing what
you have learn but trying also to make a personal interpretation or summary of your
learning experience.
Other strategies:
• Self-reflection
• finding a mentor or support if necessary
2. "aware" those who learners know some of their metacognitive strategies but
do not plan on how to use these techniques .
3. " strategic" those who strategize and plan their course of action toward a
learning experience .
4. "reflective" learners reflect on their thinking while they are using the strategies
and adapt metacognitive skills depending on their situation .
The goal of metacognition is for the student to be a self-regulated learning ie, the
education should not be limited by the capabilities of the teachers, in short, you
should have the capability to study things on your own as well as accurately
evaluate our progress.
14 Intelligent Behaviors
Here are the following 14 intelligent behaviors indicative of an efficient and effective
problem-solver, many of w/c were originally compiled by Costa [2000]:
4. Flexibility in thinking
13. Cooperation
Other tips that you can use in studying are the following:
Important reminder: "Utilize and adapt the appropriate techniques in whatever learning
experiences you are about to accomplish and find enjoyment and success in learning
..."Constant practice makes things perfect.”
ACTIVITY 1
Create a diagram or schedule using at least 5 of the metacognitive strategies, skills and
studying techniques mentioned in this lesson on how you would prepare for the nest
days before the final examinations
UNIT 2: EMOTIONAL SELF: ACHIEVING MY EMOTIONAL
COMPETENCIES
The American Psychological Association (2017) has these statements about stress:
LESSON PROPER
The American Institute of Stress (AIS) has distinguished different types of stress
and the human response to it.
Hans Selye defined stress as the body‟s nonspecific response to any demand,
whether it is caused by or results in pleasant or unpleasant stimuli. It is essential to
differentiate between the unpleasant or harmful variety of stress termed distress,
which often connotes disease, and eustress, which often connotes euphoria.
Eustress is stress in daily life that has positive connotations, such as marriage,
promotion, baby, winning, money, new friends and graduation. Distress is stress in
daily life that has negative connotations such as divorce, punishment, injury,
negative feelings, financial problems, and work difficulties.
However, eustress causes much less damage than distress. This demonstrates
conclusively that it is how an individual accepts stress that determines ultimately
whether the person can adapt successfully to change (AIS 2017).
1. The alarm stage - represents a mobilization of the body‟s defensive forces. The
body is preparing for the entire “fight or flight” syndrome. This involves a number of
hormones and chemicals excreted at high levels, as well as an increase in heart
rate, blood pressure, perspiration, and respiration rate, among others.
2. The stage of resistance – the body becomes adaptive to the challenge and even
begins to resist it. The length of this stage of resistance is dependent upon the
body‟s innate and stored adaptation energy reserves and upon the intensity of the
stressor. The acquired adaption is lost if the individual is subject to still greater
exposure to the stressor.
3. The exhaustion stage – the body dies because it has used up its resources of
adaptation energy.
Stress diseases are maladies caused principally by errors in the body‟s general
adaptation process. They will not occur when all the body‟s regulatory processes are
properly checked and balanced. The biggest problems with derailing the general
stress and causing disease is an absolute excess, deficiency, or disequilibrium in the
amount of adaptive hormones. For example: Corticoids, Adrenocorticotropic
Hormone (ACTH ), Growth Hormones are produced during stress. Unfortunately, if
stress is induced chronically, our defense response lowers its resistance since fewer
antibodies are produced and an inflammatory response dwindles (AIS 2017).
Unfortunately, the body can also overreact to stressors that are not life-
threatening, such as traffic jams, work pressure, and family difficulties.
More preliminary research suggests that chronic stress may also contribute to
obesity, both through direct mechanisms (causing people to eat more) or indirectly
(decrease sleep and exercise) (Health Harvard 2017).
The stress response begins in the brain. When someone confronts an oncoming
car or other danger, the eyes or ears (or both) send the information to the amygdala,
an area of the brain that contributes to emotional processing. The amygdala
interprets the images and sounds. When it perceives danger, it instantly sends a
distress signal to the hypothalamus (Health Harvard 2017).
Functions of Hypothalamus
When someone experience a stressful event, the amygdala, an area of the brain
that contributes to emotional processing, sends a distress signal to the
hypothalamus. This area of the brain functions like a command center,
communicating with the rest of the body through the nervous system so that the
person has the energy to fight or flee (Health Harvard 2017).
The hypothalamus is a bit like a command center. This area of the brain
communicates with the rest of the body through the autonomic nervous system,
which controls involuntary body functions like breathing, blood pressure, heartbeat,
and the dilation or constriction of key blood vessels and small airways in the lungs
called bronchioles. The autonomic nervous system has two components the
sympathetic nervous system and the parasym-pathetic nervous system. The
sympathetic nervous system functions like a gas pedal in a car. It triggers the fight-
or-flee response, providing the body with a burst of energy so that it can respond to
perceived dangers.
The parasympathetic nervous system acts like a brake. It promotes the “rest and
digest” response that calms the body down after the danger has passed (Health
Harvard 2017).
After the amygdala sends a distress signal, the hypothalamus activates the
sympathetic nervous system by sending signals through the autonomic nerves to the
adrenal glands . These glands respond by pumping the hormone epinephrine (also
known as adrenaline) into the bloodstream. As epinephrine circulates through the
body, it brings on a number of physiological changes. The heart beats faster than
normal, pushing blood to the muscles, heart, and other vital organs. Pulse rate and
blood pressure go up. The person undergoing these changes also starts to breathe
more rapidly. Small airways in the lungs open wide. This way, the lungs can take in
as much oxygen as possible with each breath. Extra oxygen is sent to the brain,
increasing alertness. Sight, hearing, and other senses become sharper. Meanwhile,
epinephrine triggers the release of blood sugar (glucose) and fats from temporary
storage sites in the body. These nutrients flood into the bloodstream, supplying
energy to all parts of the body (Health Harvard 2017).
All of these changes happen so quickly that people aware of them. In fact, the
wiring is so efficient that the amygdala and hypothalamus start this cascade even
before the brain‟s visual centers have had a chance to fully process what is
happening. That is why people are able to jump out of the path of an incoming car
even before they think about what they are doing. As the initial surge of epinephrine
subsides, the hypothalamus activates the second component of the stress response
system known as the hypothalamic pituitary adrenal (HPA) axis glands. The HPA
axis relies on a series of hormonal signals to keep the sympathetic nervous system–
the “gas pedal” –pressed down. If the brain continues to perceive something as
dangerous, the hypothalamus releases corticotrophin releasing hormone (CRH),
which travels to the adrenal glands, prompting them to release cortisol. The body
thus stays revved up and on high alert. When the threat passes, cortisol levels fall.
The parasympathetic nervous system– the “brake”– then dampens the stress
response (Health Harvard 2017).
Several techniques to counter chronic stress were presented in the same article
(Health Harvard 2017):
2. Physical activity. People can use exercise to stifle the buildup of stress in several
ways. Exercise, such as taking a brisk walk shortly after feeling stressed, not only
deepens breathing but also helps relieve muscle tension. Movement therapies such
as yoga, tai chi, and qi gong combined with fluid movements, with deep breathing,
and mental focus, all of which can induce calm.
Self-care therapy
Nancy Apperson [2008] of Northern Illinois University has provided steps for self-
care:
1. Stop, breathe and tell yourself: “This is hard and I will get through this one step
at a time.”
2. Acknowledge to yourself what you are feeling. All feelings are normal so
accept whatever you are feeling.
3. Find someone who listens and is accepting. You do not need advice. You
need to be heard.
f. Escape for a while through reading books, watching movies, or short trip.
Self-compassion theory
It is another counter stress by Kristin Neff [2012] in her article “science of self-
compassion]
One of the most consistent findings in the research literature is that self-
compassion is linked to less anxiety and depression. The key feature of self
compassion is the lack of self-criticism, and self-criticism is known to be an important
predictor of anxiety and depression. Self-compassion is not merely a matter of
looking on the bright side of things or avoiding negative feelings. Self-compassionate
people recognize when they are suffering, but are kind toward themselves in these
moments, acknowledging their connectedness with the rest of humanity. Self-
compassion is associated with greater wisdom and emotional intelligence,
suggesting that self-compassion represents a wise way of dealing with difficult
emotions.
1. Candidly describe problem that tends to make you feel bad about yourself, such
as a physical flaw, a relationship problem, or failure at work or school. Note what
emotions come up – shame, anger, sadness, fear – as you write.
2. Think of an imaginary friend who is unconditionally accepting and
compassionate; someone who knows all your strengths and weakness,
understands your life history, your current circumstances, and understands the
limits of human nature.
3. Finally, write a letter to yourself from that perspective. What would you friend say
about your perceived problem? What words would s/he use to convey deep
compassion? How would your friend remind you that you are only human? If your
friend were to make any suggestions, how would they reflect unconditional
understanding?
4. When you are done writing, put the letter down for a while and come back to it
latter. Then read the letter again, letting the words sink in, allowing yourself to be
soothed and comforted.
Less stress, more care
You should be in control of the stress that confronts us every day. Self-care and
self-compassion are two ways to positively confront stress. We should love and care for
our self-more and more each day.
ACTIVITY 1
Make Self – care plan. Design for your self-care plan for the whole school year.
Unit 3: RESPONSIBLE SELF: MY COMMITMENT TO LIFELONG
GROWTH
LESSON PROPER
Contributors to intelligence
Two factors: heredity [nature] – refers to genes one inherits from his/ her
parents, w/c provide the upper and lower limits of his/her intelligence quotient; and
environment [nurture] – involves the experiences and psychological and physical
exposure of the individual to the various influences around him/her. It been resolved
that heredity and environment both interact to contribute in intelligence and
personality.
While you may be low on certain skill, there might be other capabilities that you
are. Just discover and develop them further.
Motivation
b. Drive reduction theory – this theory explains that organisms are driven by
physiological needs. A need energizes one‟s drive to eliminate or reduce the
deprivation, ex. If one feels hunger, hunger is the motivator in order to satisfy the
need.
d. Cognitive approach – there are two aspects of this approach, namely: intrinsic
motivation [refers to inherent or internal stimulus of an individual to satisfy his/ her
drive w/o the need for reward and punishment]; and extrinsic motivation [based on
incentives w/c are artificial devices w/c are employed to evoke conducive
satisfaction]. Therefore, the former refers to internal factors like self-determination,
curiosity, challenge and effort. The latter involves outside factors such as rewards
and punishment.
Reasoning
People make decisions every day. Making a decision involves picking or
selecting the best option that will give the best consequences. Reasoning is a
cognitive or intellectual skill. It is a way to determine if a choice is the best from
among several options. It is a mental process that involves using and applying
knowledge to solve problems.
Both intellectual and emotional abilities are necessary tapped in decision making.
ACTIVITY 1
One of Canfield‟s featured quotes about success is “by taking the time to stop
and what you have achieved – and perhaps learned through a few mistakes, stumbles
and losses you actually can enhance everything about you. “Self-acknowledgment and
appreciation are what give you the insight and awareness to move forward higher goals
and accomplishments” (Brown 2016)
LESSON PROPER
The Bobo Doll Experiment was studied by Dr. Bandura in 1950‟s. In this
experiment, the sample children were presented with new social models of violent and
nonviolent behavior towards an inflatable redounding Bobo doll. The result were: the
group of children who saw the violent behavior model became violent to the doll, while
the control group who was presented with the nonviolent behavior model was rarely
violent to the doll. Dr. Bandura introduced the social learning theory that focuses on
what people learn from observing and interacting with other people.
It states that people are active participants in their environment and are not
simply shaped by that environment. Dr. Bandura continues to do research such as self-
efficacy, stress reactions, and effects of modeling on human behavior, emotion, and
thought.
Efficacy Expectation - is the conviction that one can successfully execute the
behavior required to produce the outcomes.
Weibell (2011) stated that Dr. Bandura defined self-efficacy as “people‟s beliefs
about their capabilities to produce designed levels of performance that exercise
influence over events that effects their lives.” He identified acts of people with high
assurance in their capabilities such as:
Dr. Albert Bandura‟s quotes about self- efficacy (Kendra 2017) are as follows:
“Self efficacy is the belief in one‟s capabilities to organize and execute the
sources of action required to manage prospective situation.”
“If efficacy beliefs always reflected only what people can do routinely, they
would rarely fail but they would not set aspirations beyond their immediate reach
nor mount the extra effort needed to surpass their ordinary performances.” (from
Encyclopedia of Human behavior, 1994)
“Self-belief does not necessarily ensure success, but self-disbelief assuredly
spawns failure.”(From Self- efficacy: The exercise of control, 1997)
“By sticking it out through tough times, people emerge from adversity with the
stronger sense of efficacy.”(From Encyclopedia of Human Behavior, 1994)
CAROL S. DWECK’S FIXED AND GROWTH MINDSET THEORY
Graduated from Bernard College in 1967 and earned her PhD from Yale University in
1972. She taught at Colombia University, Harvard University, and University of Illinois
before joining Stanford University in 2004(Up closed 2017) Her research focuses on
why people succeed and how to foster success.
Fixed and growth mindset
Dr. Dweck described people with two types of mindset. People who believe that
success is based in their innate abilities have a “fixed” theory of intelligence, which goes
under fixed mindset. People who believe that success is based on hard work, learning,
training, and perseverance have growth theory of intelligence, which goes under Growth
mindset. According to Dr. Dweck, individuals may not necessarily be aware of their own
mindset, but their mindset can still be discerned based on their behavior.
For example, children given praise such as “good job”, and you like “good job,
you worked very hard” are likely to develop a growth mindset. In other words, it is
possible to encourage students to persist despite failure by encouraging them to think
about learning in a certain way.
Edwin A. Locke is internationally known for his research on goal setting. He was
born on January 5, 1938. He is a Dean‟s Professor (Emeritus) of leadership and
motivation at the Robert H. Smith School of Business at the University of Maryland,
College Park.
This theory was first studied by Dr. Locke in the middle of 1960s. In 1996, he
published another article entitled “Motivation through Conscious Goal Setting.” Locke
(1996) first described that the approach of goal setting theory is based on what Aristotle
called final causality; that is, action caused by a purpose.
Goal Attributes
Goals have both an internal and an external aspect. Internally, they are ideas
(desired ends), externally, they refer to the object or condition ought (e.g., a job, a sale,
a certain performance level). The ideas guide action to attain the object. Two broad
attributes of goal are content (the actual object sought) and the intensity (the scope,
focus, and complexity, among others of the choice process). Qualitatively, the content
of a goal is whatever the person is seeking. Quantitatively, two attributes of content,
difficulty, and specificity, have been studied (Locke 2017).
14 research findings:
A research was made by Locke (2017) under the article “Motivation through
Conscious Goal Setting”. The research has the following findings:
13. Goal setting and goal-related mechanisms can be trained and/or adopted in
the absence of training for the purpose of self-regulation.
The lesson further explained the various tools available. However, you are
encouraged to do research on other tests or measures relevant to your needs. In the
use of tools, two general approaches to measurement namely formal and informal, were
presented.
One of the closest experiences you have w/ assessments is taking a writing test
and going through interviews w/ academic officials before enrolling in a school of your
choice.
Kinds of assessment
The following are the kinds of test according to purpose, ie. in terms of
characteristic they intend to measure:
a. Achievement test – this test measures what has been learned w/n a specific
period of time.
b. Mental ability test – measures one‟s level of mental ability, such tests are known
as IQ tests.
The kind of test to use or apply is determined by its purpose. Using inappropriate
assessment tools invalidates the results.
There are two methods: formal assessment [standardized and generally carried
out in professional settings by experts in the behavior being measured; the bases for
the assessment of a person are his/her responses or scores on a test]; and informal
assessment [do not observed formal process; the bases for assessing a person are
unstructured or simple observations of his/her behaviors in informal settings and
occasions]. Informal assessment gives a clue to what might be happening w/ the
behavior being studied for described.
Application of assessment
ACTIVITY 1