Parent-Teacher Interviews at Primary School: What To Expect

Parent-teacher interviews: primary school
Key points
• At parent-teacher interviews you can discuss your child’s development at

school. You can also share information about your child.
• Going to parent-teacher interviews shows your child that you’re interested in

their learning and life at school.
• Prepare for interviews by thinking about areas of your child’s progress and
development that you’d like to discuss.
Parent-teacher interviews at primary school: what to expect

Throughout your child’s time in primary school, you might be asked to go to
parent-teacher interviews or conferences.
These interviews are usually short meetings – about 10-15 minutes – between you
and your child’s teacher or teachers. Every parent is invited to attend at least one
interview a year. At some schools, children also take part in interviews.
Your child’s school will probably use its parent portal or newsletter to tell parents
that interviews are coming up. They’ll ask you to make an interview time with the
teacher using an online booking system or sign-up sheet at school.
Interviews might be held during school hours, before or after school, or in the
evening. It’s good to make a time when both parents can go along, if you can. If you
can’t manage any of the available times, you can usually call the school to arrange
another time.
It’s important to be on time for parent-teacher interviews. But be aware that

teachers might be running late because previous interviews have run over time.
Why it’s important to go to parent-teacher interviews

Parent-teacher interviews give you a great opportunity to:
• learn more about your child’s academic, emotional and social development
• meet and get to know your child’s teachers

• help your child’s teachers understand more about your child
• make plans with the teacher about how you can both support your child
• build a relationship with your child’s school

(https://raisingchildren.net.au/school-age/school-learning/working-with-
schools-teachers/relationship-with-school).
If you don’t have any particular concerns, you might wonder whether it’s worth
going to parent-teacher interviews. But going along is one way to show your child
that you’re interested in their learning and what’s happening for them at
school.
Of course, if you do have concerns, it’s a chance for you to raise them with your
child’s teacher if you haven’t done that already.
You might feel a bit nervous about going to parent-teacher

interviews. That’s normal. It might help to know that teachers can
feel the same way, especially if there are difficult or sensitive issues
to discuss, or if they’re not used to giving parent-teacher
interviews.
What to talk about at parent-teacher interviews

To get the most out of parent-teacher interviews, it helps to be well prepared.
Interviews might be held early in the school year so the teacher can find out
more about your child. For this kind of interview, it’s a good idea to think about the
information you want to share with the teacher. For example, you might want to
talk about your child’s strengths or interests, or areas of learning where your child
might need more support.
Interviews for children in primary school are also often held around the time
school reports come home. One of the first things you can do for this kind of
interview is read your child’s school report carefully and note down anything you
want to ask about. You can also use interviews at this time of year to share
feedback about your child’s experiences at school.
It can help to take a list of questions with you to interviews so you remember what
you want to talk about. The interview time tends to pass quickly.
If you’re not sure what to talk about, here are some questions to get you started:
• What are my child’s interests and strengths?
• What does my child struggle with?

• How much homework (https://raisingchildren.net.au/school-age/school-
learning/school-homework-tips/homework) should my child be doing every
night?
• What can I do at home to help my child with schoolwork?
• What can you tell me about my child’s behaviour in class?
• How is my child getting along with other students?
• What support services are available for my child at this school?
If you don’t get through everything you want to discuss, you might need to arrange
another meeting with your child’s teacher. If your child is present during the
interview, you might want to request a separate meeting without your child to
discuss any concerns.
Talking with teachers at parent-teacher interviews: tips

Being open and friendly will set you up for positive communication with the
teacher. You can show that you respect what the teacher is saying by listening
carefully and trying not to become defensive, even if you disagree with feedback
about your child.
It’s important to get as much out of the meeting as you can, so it’s OK to be direct
when you need to be. For example, you can ask the teacher to explain, clarify or
say more if you don’t understand what’s being said.
If you have a concern about something, try to be specific and avoid

blame. Combining a request with understanding will usually help. It can also
help if you mention something positive at the same time. For example, ‘Freya says
that when you explain things it makes it clearer to her. Would you mind if she
asked you to take more time to explain when she’s learning something new?’
If you have to discuss problems with the teacher

(https://raisingchildren.net.au/school-age/school-learning/working-with-schools-
teachers/problem-solving-for-parents-teachers), it helps to come ready with some
possible solutions, or at least some positive and practical suggestions. Be willing to
listen to the teacher’s ideas too.
If you make any decisions, it’s good to agree on who will follow up and when.
Should children go to parent-teacher interviews?

Some primary schools have student-led conferences instead of parent-teacher
interviews. In this case children are expected to attend and lead the discussion
about their work.
If you want your child to be part of the interview and this isn’t what the school
usually does, it’s best to ask the teacher about it before the interview.
You might prefer to keep the meeting between you and the teacher, especially if
you feel the focus of the interview will be on things your child is struggling with.
That way you can talk to your child’s teacher freely and can discuss the meeting
with your child afterwards.
After the parent-teacher interview

You and the teacher need to follow up on any decisions or solutions that you agree
on at the interview. For example, you could arrange a second meeting or a follow-
up phone call in a month’s time.
If you agree to try some new strategies, a follow-up discussion gives you both the
chance to check how well they’re working. If you need to, you can adjust them.
Arranging parent-teacher meetings at other times

If you have any concerns about your child’s social or academic development, you
don’t have to wait for a formal parent-teacher interview to talk about them.
Your child’s teacher will be happy to arrange a meeting with you to discuss any
issues. You just need to contact the school to make an appointment. Some
teachers are also happy to be contacted via their school email account.
Parent-teacher interviews are often held in open or public areas. If you know that
you want to raise a sensitive or confidential topic with a teacher, it might be a good
idea to arrange a separate meeting.
You can also arrange a separate meeting if you want to discuss something that
might take longer than your allocated 10-15 minutes. For example, you might want
to tell your child’s teacher about something going on at home that could be
affecting your child’s behaviour or academic performance, like the death of a
grandparent or a parental separation.
Informal contact with teachers

If you have opportunities to meet your child’s teacher at information nights or
other school events, it can be a good time to socialise and build relationships. This
can help when you meet for formal parent-teacher interviews.
Acknowledgements
This article was developed in collaboration with Andrea Krelle, Centre for Adolescent
Health (https://raisingchildren.net.au/_media/external-links/c/centre-for-adolescent-
health), The Royal Children’s Hospital, Melbourne.
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Parent-teacher interviews: primary school

• At parent-teacher interviews you can discuss your child’s development at

• Going to parent-teacher interviews shows your child that you’re interested in

Parent-teacher interviews at primary school: what to expect

It’s important to be on time for parent-teacher interviews. But be aware that

Why it’s important to go to parent-teacher interviews

• meet and get to know your child’s teachers

• build a relationship with your child’s school

You might feel a bit nervous about going to parent-teacher

What to talk about at parent-teacher interviews

• What are my child’s interests and strengths?

• What does my child struggle with?

• What can I do at home to help my child with schoolwork?

• What can you tell me about my child’s behaviour in class?

• How is my child getting along with other students?

• What support services are available for my child at this school?

Talking with teachers at parent-teacher interviews: tips

If you have a concern about something, try to be specific and avoid

If you have to discuss problems with the teacher

Should children go to parent-teacher interviews?

After the parent-teacher interview

Arranging parent-teacher meetings at other times

Informal contact with teachers

Clemensen, J.M. (2021). Engaging parents through student-led parent teacher

Victorian Government Department of Education and Training. (2020). Student reports

Last updated or reviewed

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