Limitless
Limitless
LIMITLESS
“Jim Kwik knows how to get the maximum out of me as a human being.”
— WILL SMITH
“Warriors throughout time prepare and focus. They are unrelenting. Jim
Kwik helps you to conquer your brain and hold your ground against the
forces of distraction and negative thinking. His book Limitless is a must-
read for an unstoppable mind.”
— GERARD BUTLER, award-winning actor and producer
“While I was at GE, Jim Kwik coached our executive team and spoke at
many of our company meetings with high reviews. He is a world-class
expert at delivering the training and tools that high-impact teams need to
elevate their organization.”
— BETH COMSTOCK, former Chief Marketing Officer and Vice Chair at
General Electric and best-selling author of Imagine It Forward
“In Limitless, Jim Kwik shares methods for unlocking your potential. He
guides you, step by step, to become the person you want to be with his
simple-to-start brain-enhancing and learning habits.”
— BJ FOGG, PH.D., founder of the Behavior Design Lab at Stanford
University and New York Times best-selling author of Tiny Habits
“Jim Kwik is like a personal trainer for your brain. He had coached my
team on accelerated learning strategies to help them sharpen their focus,
productivity, and mental performance. I’ve always believed you win in your
mind first, then step onto the playing field, not the other way around. Read
this book, there are no limits.”
— ALEX RODRIGUEZ, 3-time MVP, 14-time All-Star, World Series
Champion, and CEO of A-Rod Corp
“Transformation begins with preparing your mind for change. By the end of
Limitless, you will believe in your untapped potential. New levels of
success are possible and achievable with Jim Kwik as your guide.”
— JACK CANFIELD, award-winning speaker, co-creator of the Chicken
Soup for the Soul® series, and New York Times best-selling author of
The Success Principles
“In the same way that I help students and adults overcome their fears
related to numbers and arithmetic, Jim Kwik helps people overcome their
limiting beliefs about learning. Limitless contains the practical and proven
speed-reading, studying, and memory methods we can all count on!”
— SCOTT FLANSBURG, The Human Calculator®, Guinness World
Record holder, founder of the National Counting Bee, and best-selling
author of Math Magic
“If you think you can’t read faster, remember more, or get unstuck, this
book is for you. It will change your mindset, motivate you, and help you
achieve what you never thought possible.”
— DAVE ASPREY, CEO, founder of Bulletproof 360, Inc., and New York
Times best-selling author of Super Human
“Sleep has a huge impact on brain health, and so does training your mind
for memory, learning continuously, and defeating negative thoughts.
Limitless gives you the toolkit for long-lasting cognitive health. The 10
recommendations Jim shares for generating limitless brain energy are worth
the price of the book alone.”
— MICHAEL J. BREUS, PH.D.,
Clinical Psychologist, a Diplomate of the
American Board of Sleep Medicine, a Fellow of The American
Academy of Sleep Medicine, and best-selling author of The Power of
When
“When it comes to learning faster and keeping your mental game strong,
Jim Kwik is the guy. Get Limitless for a better brain. Save the brain!”
— STEVE AOKI, two-time Grammy-nominated artist, musician, DJ,
music producer, entrepreneur, founder of the Aoki Foundation for
brain science and research and author of Blue
“As somebody who puts lots of emphasis on exercising the brain and not
just the body, I found Jim Kwik’s work very empowering. Limitless will
take you to incredible places you never expected.”
— NOVAK DJOKOVIC, professional tennis player, winner of 17 Grand
Slam singles titles
“When you connect to your true self, something magical happens. I help
people express themselves through movement and dance. Jim Kwik’s
Limitless taps into that same reservoir of belief that anything is possible.”
— JULIANNE HOUGH, Emmy award-winning dancer, actress, singer, and
creator of KINRGY
“In competition and in life, the finest performers stay patient, consistent,
and relentless. Jim Kwik’s Limitless will help you reach a whole new
mindset—one that helps you achieve your dreams.”
— DEREK HOUGH, two-time Emmy award winner, six-time Dancing
with the Stars champion, and New York Times best-selling author of
Taking the Lead
“There’s no genius pill, but Jim gives you the process for unlocking your
best brain and brightest future.”
— From the foreword by MARK HYMAN, M.D., Head of Strategy and
Innovation for the Cleveland Clinic Center for Functional Medicine
and 12-time New York Times best-selling author
“Jim Kwik is just amazing. In my book Use Your Brain to Change Your
Age, I wrote a whole chapter about him because one of the strategies to
reverse brain aging and prevent Alzheimer’s disease is to work on your
brain. And there is no one that I trust more than Jim Kwik and his programs
to optimize brain functioning.”
— DR. DANIEL AMEN, physician, double board-certified psychiatrist, and
10-time New York Times best-selling author
“I’m keenly aware of how important it is to keep your mind and memory
sharp. Jim Kwik’s tools and techniques in Limitless are your brain’s best
friends.”
— MARIA SHRIVER,
Emmy award–winning journalist, founder of the
Women’s Alzheimer’s Movement, and New York Times best-selling
author of I’ve Been Thinking
“As a person who has quested for knowledge his entire life, I fully embrace
what Jim Kwik has to teach in Limitless. When you learn how to learn,
anything is possible, and Jim is the best in the world at showing you how.”
— QUINCY JONES, music producer, recipient of Grammy Living Legend
Award, and New York Times best-selling author of Q
“I want to thank my friend Jim Kwik for all his support of the Stan Lee
Foundation’s commitment to literacy and education. I believe there is a
superhero in each of us, and at Kwik Learning you will discover how to
unleash your superhero powers.”
— STAN LEE, Marvel Chairman Emeritus
“Jim Kwik is by far the world’s best Memory Trainer. Our program with
Jim on Mindvalley became the number one program of the year, and in a
study of almost 1,000 students, the average increase in reading speed was
an astonishing 170% in just 7 days of 10-minute-a-day lessons.”
— VISHEN LAKHIANI, founder and CEO of Mindvalley and New York
Times best-selling author of The Code of the Extraordinary Mind
“Jim Kwik has the ability to expand your mind and shine a light on your
inner genius. Like my song ‘Unwritten’ says—your life is your story.
Limitless will help you write yours with new possibilities.”
— NATASHA BEDINGFIELD, Grammy Award–nominated singer and
songwriter
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Afterword
10-Day Kwik Start Plan
Suggested Reading
Acknowledgments
About the Author
Endnotes
Index
eBook Supplemental Material
FOREWORD
What is your one wish? Seriously, if a genie offered to grant you one wish,
but only one, what would you ask for?
Limitless wishes, of course!
Now, imagine that I’m your learning genie and I can grant you one
learning wish—any one subject or skill. What one thing would you want to
learn? What subject or skill would be the equivalent of asking for infinite
wishes?
To learn how to learn, right?
If you really knew how to learn smarter, faster, and better, then you could
apply that to everything. You could learn to master your mindset or your
motivation, or use the methods to pick up Mandarin, marketing, music,
martial arts, mathematics—there would be no limit! You’d be a mental
superhero! Anything would be possible, because you would be limitless!
My mission with this book is to grant you this wish in the pages that
follow. Let’s start by saying how much I respect and admire you. By
investing in this book and now reading it, you are far ahead of most of the
population who simply accept their present conditions and constraints. You
are part of a small group of individuals who not only want more for their
lives but also are willing to do what it takes to get results. In other words,
you are the hero of this story; you’ve answered the call to adventure. I
believe the ultimate adventure we are all on is to reveal and realize our
fullest potential and inspire others to do the same.
I have no way of knowing how your life’s journey has taken you to this
book. I’m guessing that at least part of that journey is accepting the
confines put upon you, either by others or by yourself: You can’t read fast
enough to keep up with everything you need to know. Your mind is not
agile enough to succeed at work. You’re not motivated to get things done or
you lack the energy to reach your goals. And so on.
The nature of this of the book is transcending—ending the trance: the
mass hypnosis and lies that we learned from our parents, programing,
media, or marketing, that suggests we are limited. That, somehow, we are
not enough, not capable of being, doing, having, creating, or contributing.
Belief that you are limited might be holding you back from your biggest
dreams as well—at least up until now. But I promise you that none of your
beliefs truly constrain who you are. We all have vast potential inside of us,
untapped levels of strength, intelligence, and focus, and the key to
activating these superpowers is unlimiting yourself. For more than 25 years,
I’ve worked with people of all ages, nationalities, races, socioeconomic
statuses, and education levels. What I’ve discovered is that no matter where
you come from, no matter what challenges you face, you have incredible
potential that’s just waiting to be tapped. Every person—regardless of age,
background, education, gender, or personal history—can advance beyond
what they believe they deserve and is possible. And that includes you.
Working together, you’ll come to think of your own limitations as an
outmoded concept.
Now in this book, I refer to superheroes and superpowers. Why is that?
First, I am a bit of a geek that way. Because of my childhood brain injury
and learning challenges, I escaped into comic books and movies to inspire
me during my struggles. I realized that my favorite ones all shared the same
pattern—the Hero’s Journey. Joseph Campbell’s classic plot structure
appears in nearly all famed adventures, including The Wizard of Oz; Star
Wars; Harry Potter; Eat, Pray, Love; The Hunger Games; Rocky; The Lord
of the Rings; Alice in Wonderland; The Matrix, and more.
Think of your favorite story or one of the films or books I just mentioned.
Does this sound familiar? The hero (for example, Harry Potter) starts out in
the ordinary world, the world they’ve always known. The hero then hears
the call to adventure. They have a choice—to ignore and stay in the
ordinary world, where nothing will change, or heed the call and enter the
new world of the unknown. If they heed the call (as Neo did with the red
pill in The Matrix), they meet their guide or mentor (such as Mr. Miyagi in
The Karate Kid), who trains and prepares them to overcome obstacles and
realize new levels of fulfillment. The hero is introduced to new powers and
skills, and encouraged to utilize their current abilities like never before.
They transcend perceived limitations, learn a new way of being, and
eventually face their trials. When they return back to the ordinary world
(like Dorothy going back to Kansas), they take with them the ultimate boon
—the treasure, emotions, strength, clarity, and wisdom they discovered
from their adventure. They then share their lessons and gifts with others.
The Hero’s Journey is the perfect structure to lend power and purpose to
your personal story. In Limitless, you are the superhero.
One of my core beliefs is that human potential is one of the only infinite
resources we have in the world. Most everything else is finite, but the
human mind is the ultimate superpower—there is no limit to our creativity,
imagination, determination, or ability to think, reason, or learn. Yet this
resource is also among the least tapped. All of us can be the heroes of our
own story, dipping into the well of our potential every single day and never
having that well run dry. But so few of us approach our lives this way.
That’s why I wrote this book—to help you realize that no matter where you
are, or where you’ve been, you absolutely can free yourself and go from
limits to liberation. That might be the only “extra” you need to transition
from the ordinary world to the extraordinary world.
This book is going to provide you with that extra. What you’ll get within
these pages is a series of tools that will help you cast off your perceived
restrictions. You’re going to learn how to unlimit your brain. You’re going
to learn how to unlimit your drive. You’re going to learn how to unlimit
your memory, your focus, and your habits. If I am your mentor in your
hero’s journey, then this book is your map to master your mind, motivation,
and methods to learn how to learn. And once you’ve done that, you will be
limitless.
Here’s the door; you know what’s waiting on the other side. Walk
through it.
PART I
BECOMING LIMITLESS
“I’m so stupid.”
“I don’t understand.”
“I’m too dumb to learn.”
These were my mantras growing up. There wasn’t a day that went by that
I didn’t tell myself that I was slow, dumb, and that I would never learn to
read, much less amount to anything later in life. If a pill existed that could
supercharge my brain and make me smarter in one swallow (as there was in
the 2011 movie Limitless, starring Bradley Cooper), I would have given
anything to take it.
I wasn’t the only one who felt the way I did about myself. If you’d asked
my teachers when I was a kid, many would have said that I was the last
person they’d expect to be writing this book for you. Back then, they would
have been surprised to know that I was reading a book, let alone writing
one.
This all stems from an incident in kindergarten that completely altered
the course of my life. I was in class one day, and there were sirens outside
the window. Everyone in the classroom took notice, and the teacher looked
out and said she saw fire trucks. The entire class responded to this
information the way kindergarteners do: We immediately rushed to the
windows. I was particularly excited because, by that point, I was already
obsessed with superheroes (I still am). To me, firefighters were the closest
thing to real-life superheroes I knew. I bolted to the window with everyone
else.
The only problem was that I wasn’t tall enough to be able to look down
at the fire trucks. One kid went to grab his chair to stand on, and that
inspired the rest of us to do the same. I ran back to my desk to get mine,
pushing it right up against the huge iron radiator that ran along the bottom
of the windows. I got up on my chair, saw the firefighters, and completely
lit up. This was so exciting! My eyes stared and mouth gasped as I watched
these courageous heroes in action with their seemingly impenetrable
uniforms and their bright red vehicle.
But then one of the other kids grabbed my chair from beneath me, which
caused me to lose balance and go flying head-first into the radiator. I hit the
metal heater extremely hard and I started losing blood. The school rushed
me to the hospital, where doctors tended to my wounds. But they were
candid with my mother afterward; the injury to my brain was not mild.
My mother said I was never quite the same after that. Where I had been
an energized, confident, and curious child before, now I was noticeably shut
down and had a new difficulty learning; I found it extremely hard to focus, I
couldn’t concentrate, and my memory was awful. As you can imagine,
school became an ordeal for me. Teachers would repeat themselves until I
learned to pretend to understand. And while all the other kids were learning
to read, I couldn’t make any sense out of the letters. Do you remember
getting in those reading circles, passing around the book, and having to read
out loud? For me, that was the worst—nervously waiting as the book crept
closer and closer, only to look at the page and not understand one word (I
think that’s where my crippling fear of public speaking initially came from).
It would take me another three years to be able to read, and it continued to
be a struggle and an uphill battle for a long time after that.
I’m not sure I ever would have learned to read if it weren’t for the heroes
I met and saw in comic books. Regular books couldn’t hold my attention at
all, but my fascination with comics drove me to keep pushing myself until I
could read their stories without waiting for someone else to read them to
me. I would read them by flashlight under my covers late at night. Those
stories gave me hope that one person could overcome impossible odds.
My favorite superheroes growing up were the X-Men, not because they
were the strongest, but because they were misunderstood and weirdly
different. I felt I could relate to them. They were mutants, they didn’t fit
into society, and people who didn’t understand them shunned them. That
was me, minus the superpowers. The X-Men were outcasts, and so was I. I
belonged in their world.
I grew up in Westchester County, a suburb of New York City, and I was
super-excited one night to discover that, according to the comic books,
Professor Xavier’s School for Gifted Youngsters was located near me.
When I was nine years old, I would get on my bike nearly every weekend to
ride around my neighborhood looking for the school. I was obsessed. I
thought, if only I could locate it, I would find in that school a place where I
finally fit in, a place where it was safe to be different, a place where I could
discover and develop my own superpowers.
Often when you put a label on someone or something, you create a limit
—the label becomes the limitation. Adults have to be very careful with their
external words because these quickly become a child’s internal words.
That’s what happened with me in that moment. Whenever I struggled to
learn, did badly on a quiz, wasn’t picked for a team in gym class, or fell
behind my other classmates, I would tell myself it was because my brain
was broken. How could I possibly expect to do as well as others did? I was
damaged. My mind didn’t work like everyone else’s. Even when I studied
much harder than my schoolmates, my grades never reflected the effort I
was putting in.
I was too stubborn to give up and managed to move on from grade to
grade, but I was hardly thriving. While I was advanced in math because of
the help of a few of my academically talented friends, I was horrible at most
of the other subjects, especially classes such as English, reading, foreign
languages, and music. Then, in my freshman year of high school, things got
to the point where I was at risk of failing English. My parents were called in
by my teacher to discuss what I could do to muster a passing grade.
She offered an extra-credit project for me. I was to write a report
comparing the lives and accomplishments of two geniuses: Leonardo da
Vinci and Albert Einstein. She told me that if I did a good job on this report,
she would be able to give me enough points to make sure I passed the class.
I considered this to be a huge opportunity, a chance to hit the reset button
on what had been a difficult start to my high school career. I committed
everything I had to writing the best report I possibly could. I spent hours
and hours and hours at the library after school, trying to learn everything I
could learn about these two brilliant minds while working on this paper.
Interestingly, during that research I came across multiple mentions that
Albert Einstein and Leonardo da Vinci each struggled with alleged learning
difficulties.
After weeks of effort, I typed up the final report. I was so proud of what
I’d done that I had the pages professionally bound. This report was a
statement for me; it was the way I was going to announce to the world what
I was capable of doing.
The day the report was due, I put it in my backpack, excited about
handing it to my teacher and even more excited about the response I
anticipated she would have to what I’d done. I planned to give it to her at
the end of class, so I sat through whatever we were doing that day, trying to
concentrate but constantly finding my thoughts flitting back to the look I
expected to see on my teacher’s face when I presented her with the report.
But then she threw me a curveball I was not prepared to hit. About
halfway through the class period, the teacher ended her lesson and told the
students that she had a surprise for them. She said that I had been working
on an extra-credit report and that she would like me to present it to the class
—now.
I had spent most of my school life trying to shrink so small that I
wouldn’t be called on in class; when you are the broken one, you don’t feel
like you have much to offer. I was beyond shy, and I didn’t like to draw
attention to myself. My superpower back then was being invisible. I was
also deathly afraid of speaking in public. I’m not exaggerating here. If you
hooked me up to a heart monitor at that moment, I might have broken the
machine. On top of this, I could barely breathe. There was simply no way I
was going to be able to stand in front of everyone and talk to them about the
work I’d done. So, I took the only option I saw available to me.
“I’m sorry; I didn’t do it,” I stuttered, just barely getting the words out of
my mouth.
The expression of disappointment on my teacher’s face—so different
from the expression I’d fantasized earlier—was so profound that my heart
nearly broke. But I just couldn’t do what she wanted me to do. When class
was over, after everyone had left, I threw my report in the garbage, and
along with it a big part of my self-respect and worth.
Jim, thank you so much for sharing your superpowers with all of
us. I know you’ve been looking for your superhero school ever
since you were a child. Here’s your class photo.
UNLIMITING TOGETHER
unlimiting
un·lim·it·ing (noun)
One other note about the diagram on the previous page. You’ll see that
where mindset crosses over with motivation, I have the word inspiration.
You’re inspired, but you don’t know which methods to employ or where to
channel your energy. Where motivation and method intersect, you have
implementation. In this case, your results are going to be limited to what
you feel you deserve, what you feel you are capable of, and what you
believe is possible because you lack the proper mindset. Where mindset and
method intersect, you have ideation. Your ambitions stay in your mind,
because you lack the energy to do anything about them. Where all three
intersect, you have the limitless state. You then have the fourth I, which is
integration.
Throughout this book, you’ll find exercises, studies, mental tools, and the
results of exciting work being done both on the frontier of cognitive science
and performance as well as ancient wisdom (for example, how ancient
civilizations remembered generations of knowledge before external storage
devices like the printing press). We’ll approach the 3 M’s in turn:
In Part II, Limitless Mindset, you’ll learn what is possible when you
eradicate limiting beliefs.
In Part III, Limitless Motivation, you’ll discover why your purpose is
your power and keys to unleash your drive and energy.
In Part IV, Limitless Methods, you’ll discover how to learn at your
best with proven processes—the tools and techniques that will propel
you forward toward the life you desire and deserve.
And, at the end of the book, I give you a 10-day plan to jump-start your
progress toward a limitless week and a limitless life.
When you finish this book, you’ll have the ability to be limitless in any
area important to you, whether it’s academic, health, career, relationships,
or personal growth. Since I never truly got to study at the X-Men school, I
created it for you in our online Kwik Learning Academy, where people of
all ages from 195 nations train with us daily to unleash their mental
superpowers. Consider Limitless your textbook. It would be an honor to be
your Professor X, and I’m so excited that you’ve decided to take this
journey with me. Class is now in session. And here’s the best part; your
timing could not be any better.
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I’m a firm believer that we all have incredible superpowers that are waiting
to be awakened. I’m not talking about the ability to fly, create iron-clad
armor, or shoot lasers from your eyes, but real-life practical abilities like
flying through books, iron-clad memory, laser focus, boundless creativity,
clear thinking, mindfulness, superior mental attitude, and more. We are all
superheroes in one way or another.
Just as every superhero has powers, so do they have arch nemeses. Enter
the supervillain. Think the Joker to Batman, Lex Luthor to Superman. The
villains we face may not look the same as they do in the movies, but they’re
still the bad guys—the ones you, as a superhero, need to vanquish and hold
at bay. Modern-day supervillains get in our way and make life harder,
keeping us from our potential. They hold us back and rob us of our
productivity, prosperity, positivity, and peace of mind. And it’s up to us to
recognize and defeat them.
If you’ve ever read a comic book or watched a superhero movie, you
know that supervillains are often borne of unlikely places. Take Harvey
Dent, also known as Two-Face, for example. He starts out with the greatest
of intentions—he’s a prosecutor helping to uphold the law and put the bad
guys in jail, and he’s an ally of Batman. But through an act of revenge,
Dent’s face is scarred, and he turns angry, bitter, and vengeful. He becomes
what he had spent his life fighting: a duplicitous criminal who gambles with
his victims’ futures. The good in him becomes twisted and used for sinister
ends.
In the same way, the four supervillains of learning started out innocent—
they are being fed by some of the greatest advancements that humankind
has made in the last hundred years. They were given rise by technology. To
be clear, technology is a vital part of progress and being limitless. It allows
us to do everything from connecting to learning, making our lives that much
more convenient. But it is possible that we consume digital technology at a
rate that even its creators would find extreme. Much of the technology
available to us today is so new that we don’t know the level at which we
need to control our interaction with it.
Through our educational platform Kwik Learning, we have students in
195 countries and have generated tens of millions of podcast downloads.
Our community has expressed a growing concern about their overreliance
on technology and they come to us to upgrade their brains to find relief
from these “four horsemen” of our age: digital deluge, digital distraction,
digital dementia, and digital deduction. It’s important to note that overload,
distraction, forgetfulness, and default thinking have been around for ages.
While technology doesn’t cause these conditions, it has great potential to
amplify them. The benefits of the digital age are plentiful, but let’s take a
look at how the advances in technology that help you, can possibly also
hinder you.
DIGITAL DELUGE
Do you have too much to process but not enough time? We’re privileged to
live in a world with so much unfettered access to information. In this age of
connectivity, ignorance is a choice. Compared to the 15th century, we now
consume as much data in a single day as an average person from the 1400s
would have absorbed in an entire lifetime. Not so long ago, information
moved glacially through word of mouth, or a newspaper, or a posted
bulletin in a town square. Now we have so much access to information that
it’s taking a toll on our time and our quality of life. The average person
consumes three times as much information as we did in the 1960s;1 a 2015
report indicated that respondents spent eight hours a day consuming media.
In an NPR interview, New York Times tech reporter Matt Richtel said that
after 20 years of glorifying technology as if all of it were good, “I think
science is beginning to embrace the idea that some technology is Twinkies
and some technology is Brussels sprouts. If we consume too much
technology, just like if we consume too much food, it can have ill effects.”2
In a University of California, San Francisco, study on the effect of
downtime, researchers gave rats a new experience and measured their brain
waves during and after the activity. Under most circumstances, a new
experience will express new neural activity and new neurons in the brain—
that is, if the rat is allowed to have downtime. With downtime, the neurons
made their way from the gateway of memory to the rest of the brain, where
long-term memory is stored. The rats were able to record memories of their
experiences, which is the basis for learning.3
Doesn’t that make you wonder what happens if you don’t have
downtime? There is a growing body of evidence that suggests that if we
never let our mind wander or be bored for a moment, we pay a price—poor
memory, mental fog, and fatigue.
As far back as the mid-1990s (when digital deluge was a fraction of the
concern it is now), research was beginning to show that there were real
health risks involved with navigating through an always-on world. A
Reuters study, ominously titled “Dying for Information,” showed that, “Two
out of three respondents associated information overload with tension with
colleagues and loss of job satisfaction; 42 percent attributed ill-health to this
stress, 61 percent said that they have to cancel social activities as a result of
information overload and 60 percent that they are frequently too tired for
leisure activities.” The study goes on to add, “Faced with an onslaught of
information and information channels, they have become unable to develop
simple routines for managing information.”4
What’s more, we also have to contend with the fact that the half-life of
information has decreased. The half-life of information is the amount of
time that passes before that information is replaced by newer or more
accurate information. You can study to your heart’s content; the information
you process now will be outdated sooner than you think. “Facts” written in
articles, books, and documentaries are based on strong evidence and
accepted as truth. But then they are completely reversed when a new study
comes out.
I don’t need to tell you how completely inundated each of us is with
digital details. Even when we try to go “off the grid,” digital information
somehow finds us. While I’m writing this, I’ve shut down all my devices.
But I need to have access to the Internet for research purposes, and a
handful of random notifications and updates still popped up on my
computer (yes, I know I can turn these off as well, but you get my point).
In Chapter 12 (Study) and Chapter 14 (Speed Reading), you will discover
practical ways to catch up, keep up, and get ahead of the digital deluge of
information you must process each day.
KWIK START
Take a moment and schedule 30 minutes of white space in your
calendar for this week. This is time to be spent away from technology,
time dedicated to clear your mind, relax, and be creative.
DIGITAL DISTRACTION
Before mobile devices, we would say “brb” (be right back) all the time
when we were online. We don’t say it anymore. We no longer leave. We
live here now. Because of our always-on, ever-connected devices, we’re
struggling to find connection when we’re with friends and family, and
we’re struggling to stay focused at work. Most of us deal with some kind of
work-life situation where we don’t feel comfortable forgoing digital
connection for large swaths of time every day. So we stay on the grid out of
the fear that if we were unreachable, we would lose out.
The trouble is, we’re wired to enjoy it. Each successive hit of dopamine
we get from the likes we receive on social media, or from the texts we get
from loved ones or friends, only reinforces our behavior. But those rewards
are changing our brains. Instead of relaxing into the downtime that we
might experience when waiting in line, waiting for a bus or an appointment,
etc., we pull out our phones and train our distraction muscles. What
happens when this is our constant way of being, when every loose moment
is filled with shining stimulus?
Staying connected may make us feel more secure, but it doesn’t make us
happier. Ryan Dwyer, MA, of the University of British Columbia, led a
study that showed how our digital habits are affecting our relationships. In
one experiment, more than 300 adults and university students were asked to
keep their phones on the table, easily accessible, while others were asked to
put them on silent and keep them in a container on the table during a meal.
Afterward, participants were asked to respond to a questionnaire that asked
them about their feelings of connectedness, enjoyment, distraction, and
boredom.
The survey also asked them to detail the amount of time they spent on
their phone during the meal. Those whose phones were accessible used
them more often . . . and they described themselves as feeling more
distracted. They also enjoyed the dinner less than the diners who didn’t
have access to their phones. “Modern technology may be wonderful, but it
can easily sidetrack us and take away from the special moments we have
with friends and family in person,” Dwyer says of the study.5
Just as few of us have learned how to learn, not many know how to
process and filter the massive amount of information we are constantly
seeing. We just multitask to get all of it in, and this doesn’t serve us well.
“Asking the brain to shift attention from one activity to another causes the
prefrontal cortex and striatum to burn up oxygenated glucose, the same fuel
they need to stay on task,” notes neuroscientist Daniel J. Levitin in his
book, The Organized Mind: Thinking Straight in the Age of Information
Overload. “And the kind of rapid, continual shifting we do with
multitasking causes the brain to burn through fuel so quickly that we feel
exhausted and disoriented after even a short time. We’ve literally depleted
the nutrients in our brain. This leads to compromises in both cognitive and
physical performance.”6
From app notifications to message alerts, it’s not just adults who deal
with this. With the availability of technology and social pressure to be
online and active on social media, children and teenagers experience the
constant distraction, too.
In Chapter 11 (Focus), you will discover the keys to sustained
concentration and focus development to learn and get things done.
KWIK START
Go to the notification settings of your phone and turn off all
unnecessary and distracting pings and dings. Do this now.
DIGITAL DEMENTIA
When is the last time you had to remember someone’s phone number? I’m
dating myself here, but I’m part of a generation that, when you wanted to
call your friend down the block, you needed to know their number. Can you
still remember some of your best friends’ numbers from childhood? What
about the number of the person you talk or text with every day? You no
longer have to, because your mobile remembers it for you. This is not to say
anyone wants to or should memorize 200 phone numbers, but we’ve all but
lost the ability to remember a new one, or a conversation we just had, the
name of a new potential client, or something important we need to do.
Neuroscientist Manfred Spitzer uses the term digital dementia to describe
how overuse of digital technology results in the breakdown of cognitive
abilities. He argues that short-term memory pathways will start to
deteriorate from underuse if we overuse technology. It’s the same with GPS.
Move to a new city and see how quickly you become reliant on GPS to tell
you how to get around. Then notice how long it takes you to map new roads
in your mind—probably much longer than when you were younger, but not
because your brain isn’t working as well. With tools like GPS, we don’t
give our minds the chance to work. We rely on technology to do the
memorization for us.
This reliance may be hurting our long-term memory. Maria Wimber of
the University of Birmingham told the BBC that the trend of looking up
information prevents the build-up of long-term memories. In a study that
examined the memory habits of 6,000 adults in the UK, France, Germany,
Italy, Spain, Belgium, the Netherlands, and Luxembourg, Wimber and her
team found that more than a third of respondents turned to their computer
first to retrieve information. The UK came in the highest—more than half
of the participants searched online first without trying to come up with the
answer themselves.7
Why is this a big deal? Because such instant information can be easily
and immediately forgotten. “Our brain appears to strengthen a memory each
time we recall it, and at the same time forget irrelevant memories that are
distracting us,” said Dr. Wimber. Forcing yourself to recall information
instead of relying on an outside source to supply it for you is a way of
creating and strengthening a permanent memory. When you contrast that
with the reality that most of us have a habit of constantly looking up
information—maybe even the same information—without bothering to try
to remember it, it seems we’re doing ourselves harm.
Is relying on technology always bad? Many researchers disagree. The
argument goes that by outsourcing some menial tasks like memorizing
phone numbers or doing basic math or getting directions to a restaurant
we’ve visited before, we’re saving brain space for something that matters
more to us. There’s research that says our brains are more like a muscle,
rather than a hard drive that fills up. That the more you use it, the stronger it
gets, and the more it can store. The question is: Are we making those
choices consciously, or are we acting out of unconscious habit?
Too often, we outsource our brains to our smart devices, and our smart
devices are making us, well, a little bit stupid. Our brains are the ultimate
adaptation machines, capable of seemingly endless levels of evolution. And
yet we often forget to give it the exercise it needs. Just as there is a physical
price to always relying on the technology of the elevator instead of taking
the stairs, so is there a price for lazy mental muscles. Use it or lose it.
In Chapter 13 (Memory), I will show you simple tools and techniques to
remember anything from names and speeches to languages, faster and
easier.
KWIK START
Take a minute to exercise your memory: Memorize the phone number
of someone you communicate with regularly.
DIGITAL DEDUCTION
“In a digital-first world, where millennials obtain all their answers to
problems at the click of a mouse or swipe of a finger, the reliance on
technology to solve every question confuses people’s perception of their
own knowledge and intelligence. And that reliance may well lead to
overconfidence and poor decision-making,” says Rony Zarom, founder of
the video collaboration platform newrow.8 The ubiquity of information
about everything also means that there’s a ubiquity of opinion about
everything. If you want to know how to feel about a hot-button issue, you
can just go online and collate the opinions of others. If you want to know
the implications of an event or a trend, a quick online search will provide
endless amounts of analysis. The upshot is that deduction—an amalgam of
critical thinking, problem solving, and creativity that is an essential skill for
being limitless—is becoming automated.
There’s a certain amount of value to this, of course. Before the Internet,
we were limited in our access to the opinions of others. In an ideal world,
being able to get as many perspectives on a topic as possible would be
enormously valuable in helping us to form our own opinions.
Unfortunately, that’s rarely how it plays out in the real world. Instead, we
tend to identify a handful of sources with which we align and then give
those sources extreme influence over our thinking and decision-making. In
the process, the “muscles” we use to think critically and reason effectively
are atrophying. We’re letting technology do the deduction for us. And if
technology is forming our deductions, then we are also ceding much of our
problem-solving ability—something so important and something we will
discuss at length later in this book.
Psychologist Jim Taylor defines thinking as, “The capacity to reflect,
reason, and draw conclusions based on our experiences, knowledge, and
insights. It’s what makes us human and has enabled us to communicate,
create, build, advance, and become civilized.” He then goes on to caution
that there is “a growing body of research that technology can be both
beneficial and harmful to different ways in which children think.”9
Patricia Marks Greenfield, Distinguished Professor of Psychology at
UCLA, has been looking at this issue for more than a decade. In discussing
the impact on education, she wrote, “What is the effect on learning if
college students use their laptops to access the Internet during a classroom
lecture? This was tested in a communication studies class where students
were generally encouraged to use their laptops during lectures, in order to
explore lecture topics in greater detail on the Internet and in library
databases. Half of the students were allowed to keep their laptops open,
while the other half (randomly assigned) had to close their laptops. Students
in the closed laptop condition recalled significantly more material in a
surprise quiz after class than did students in the open laptop condition.”10
Because they were engaging their minds in the lecture rather than looking
for what the Internet already thought about the subject, they were much
more responsive when it was time to reason for themselves. Greenfield
analyzed another study that showed that college students who watched a
news program without the crawl at the bottom of the screen remembered
significantly more of what the anchors were discussing.
Playwright Richard Foreman fears that this reliance on the Internet to do
much of our thinking is changing our very selves. “I come from a tradition
of Western culture, in which the ideal (my ideal) was the complex, dense
and ‘cathedral-like’ structure of the highly educated and articulate
personality—a man or woman who carried inside themselves a personally
constructed and unique version of the entire heritage of the West . . . . But
today I see within us all (myself included) the replacement of complex
inner density with a new kind of self-evolving under the pressure of
information overload and the technology of the ‘instantly available.’”11
Do you remember what it was like when you were approaching your
teens and you first started formulating thoughts and opinions independent
of your parents? My guess is that this experience was extremely liberating
for you and that it might have even been the first time in your life when you
truly felt like your own person. What had happened to you, of course, was
that your critical faculties had become refined enough to allow you to
regularly employ reason to navigate through life.
Why, then, would you want to turn this liberating skill over to a device?
Think about it: How do you feel when someone tries to impose their
thinking on you? If a family member, friend, or colleague came up to you
and said, “Don’t think about this; here’s your opinion,” you’d try to get
away from that person as soon as you possibly could. Yet, when we
immediately reach for the Internet to provide us with information, we’re
essentially inviting the same thing.
In Chapter 15, I will provide you with a powerful set of tools that will
allow you to supercharge your thinking and expand your perspective on any
topic or problem.
While these four horsemen are the ones we need to contend with most
vociferously, there’s another digital danger that is worthy of our attention. I
call this digital depression, a result of the comparison culture that emerges
when we let the highlight reels of the social media feeds of others cause us
to perceive ourselves as less than. Now, I enjoy social media. I love staying
connected with our community of students and podcast listeners and staying
updated with the everyday lives of my family and friends. I appreciate it so
much as not only a source of entertainment, but also education and
empowerment. But I only recommend using it consciously, not mindlessly
out of habit, and in a harmonious way so it doesn’t highjack your
productivity and peace of mind.
In the upcoming Part II: Limitless Mindset, I share ideas to mitigate these
feelings of not being enough, as well as fears of looking bad or missing out.
Those are the same limits that stand in the way of personal growth and
learning. In Part III: Limitless Motivation, I will show you how to add,
break, or change these habits.
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Think about a decision you need to make. Schedule some time to work
on that decision without the use of any digital devices.
You may be thinking, Jim, I see what you mean about technology. I
wouldn’t want to live without it, but I do feel more overloaded, distracted,
and forgetful than ever. Here’s the good news: You were born with the
ultimate technology, the greatest superpower.
Let’s take a moment to acknowledge just how extraordinary your brain
is. It generates up to 70,000 thoughts per day. It races with the speed of the
fastest race car. Like your fingerprints, it is uniquely yours—there aren’t
two brains in the universe exactly the same. It processes dramatically faster
than any existing computer, and it has virtually infinite storage capacity.
Even when damaged, it is capable of producing genius, and even if you
only have half a brain, you can still be a fully functioning human being.
And remarkable stories about it abound. Like the one about the comatose
patient who somehow developed a method of communication with his
doctor. Or the woman who could recall important events by date going back
as far as when she was 12 years old. Or the slacker who became a
mathematical genius after suffering a concussion during a bar fight. None of
this is science fiction or the product of a superhero comic. They’re just
examples of the extraordinary function built into that remarkable machine
between your ears.
We take so much of that function for granted. Let’s think about just what
the average person has accomplished simply by being an “average” person.
By the age of one, you learned how to walk, no simple task considering
how many complex neurological and physiological processes are required.
A year or so after that, you learned how to communicate through the use of
words and language. You learned dozens of new words and their meanings
on a daily basis and kept doing so all the way through school. And while
you were learning to communicate, you were also learning to reason, to
calculate, and to parse an endless number of complex concepts—and all of
that was before you read a single page of a book or attended one class!
Our brains are what separate us from the rest of the animal kingdom.
Think about it. We can’t fly, we aren’t particularly strong or fast, we can’t
climb with the dexterity of some animals, we can’t breathe underwater. As
far as most physical functions are concerned, we’re just average. But
because of the power of our brains, we are overwhelmingly Earth’s most
dominant species. By harnessing that incredible mental power, we have
created ways to explore the ocean depths like a fish, move tons of weight
like an elephant, and even fly like a bird. Yes, the brain is quite a gift.
The brain is so complex that we know more about our vast universe than
we do about its workings, and we’ve learned more about it in the past
decade than we’d previously learned over the course of human history . . .
and we’ll learn even more about it from the time this book goes to press to
the time it hits the bookshelves. Our understanding of the brain is ever
evolving, and we know that what we’ve learned about it is only a tiny
fraction of what there is to be learned. But what we already know is
staggering. So, let’s take a journey through your limitless brain.
The brain is part of the central nervous system (CNS). Similar to the
control tower at an airport, your brain acts as its control center, directing all
the comings and goings of information, processes, and impulses. The brain
has three major areas: the brain stem, the cerebellum, and the cerebral
cortex (both the cerebellum and cerebral cortex start with cere, Latin for
“wax,” because of its waxy appearance). The brain is made of fat and water,
weighs approximately three pounds, and facilitates incredible power and
ability.1
The brain stem moderates the basic functions we need to live, such as
breathing, maintaining a regular heart rate, impulses to eat or have sex, and
our fight-or-flight responses. It is located at the top of your spine and the
base of your skull, buried deep within the brain. At the back of the brain,
the cerebellum is responsible for moderating movement and coordination.
There’s also increasing evidence that it plays a role in our decision-making.
The cerebral cortex is the largest part of our brain, where the majority of
our complex thinking, short-term memory, and sensory stimulation take
place. It is made up of the occipital, parietal, temporal, and frontal lobes.
Our frontal lobes are where most of our thinking takes place: where logic
and creativity derive.
The brain is split into two halves that are connected by the corpus
callosum, which acts like a bundle of telephone wires between the lobes,
sending messages back and forth. Right now, you have somewhere around
86 billion neurons (also called brain cells) firing and acting together in
concert as you read these words and assimilate the information on these
pages.2 These neural signals are released into the brain and received by
neurotransmitters, which then pass the message along to other
neurotransmitters or stop the message altogether if that’s the appropriate
response.
We used to think that we reached our neurological peak in late
adolescence, after which our brains never changed—other than to
deteriorate. We now know that this is far from the truth. Our brains have the
capacity for neuroplasticity, which means that it can be changed and shaped
by our actions and by our environments. Your brain is always changing and
molding itself to your surroundings and to the demands you place on it.
Because our brains are subject to the influence of our genes and
environment, we each possess a brain that is entirely unique to us. They’re
like snowflakes; no two are alike. Each brain adapts to the needs of its
owner. Let’s look at someone raised in an environment that was full of
stressors such as poverty, lack of access to food, or lack of safety. That
person will have a very different brain structure than someone brought up in
a very comfortable, affluent, well-cared-for setting. But before you jump to
the conclusion that one environment is “better” than the other and breeds a
better functioning brain, I challenge you to reconsider.
As I stated earlier, the brain is capable of being molded and shaped,
meaning that at any point anyone can decide to change the way their brain
functions. While it’s easy to assume that the individual who grew up in a
more stressful, unsupportive environment may not wind up reaching their
full potential due to their brain’s development under those circumstances,
growing evidence suggests those people are able to thrive and reach new
levels of success due to the mindset they are forced to develop in such a
situation. Based on the number of successful people who overcame troubled
upbringings, it may be that a difficult childhood or challenging upbringing
breeds resilience among other attributes that lead to success.
UNDERSTANDING NEUROPLASTICITY
What can we learn from the brains of London taxicab drivers?
This is the question neuroscientist Eleanor Maguire of University College
London posed as she considered the vast amount of information held in the
brains of the city’s cab drivers, appropriately called “The Knowledge.” To
earn their licenses, applicants traveled by moped through a specific section
of the city—a 10-kilometer radius of Charing Cross station—for three to
four years, memorizing the maze of 25,000 streets within as well as the
thousands of attractions they supported. Even after this intense study, only
about 50 percent of applicants pass the series of licensing exams. Perhaps,
thought Maguire, those successful had larger than average hippocampi.
Maguire and her colleagues discovered that London taxi drivers did
indeed have “more gray matter in their posterior hippocampi than people
who were similar in age, education, and intelligence who did not drive
taxis. In other words, taxi drivers had plumper memory centers than their
peers. It seemed that the longer someone had been driving a taxi, the larger
his hippocampus, as though the brain expanded to accommodate the
cognitive demands of navigating London’s streets.”3
The London Taxi Cab Study provides a compelling example of the
brain’s neuroplasticity, or ability to reorganize and transform itself as it is
exposed to learning and new experiences. Having to constantly learn new
routes in the city forced the taxi cab drivers’ brains to create new neural
pathways. These pathways changed the structure and size of the brain, an
amazing example of the limitless brain at work.
Neuroplasticity, also referred to as brain plasticity, means that every time
you learn something new, your brain makes a new synaptic connection. And
each time this happens, your brain physically changes–it upgrades its
hardware to reflect a new level of the mind.
Neuroplasticity is dependent on the ability of our neurons to grow and
make connections with other neurons in other parts of the brain. It works by
making new connections and strengthening (or weakening, as the case may
be) old ties.4
Our brain is malleable. We have the incredible ability to change its
structure and organization over time by forming new neural pathways as we
experience, learn something new, and adapt. Neuroplasticity helps explain
how anything is possible. Researchers hold that all brains are flexible in that
the complex webs of connected neurons can be rewired to form new
connections. Sometimes, that means the brain compensates for something it
has lost, as when one hemisphere learns to function for both. Just as there
are people who have suffered strokes and have been able to rebuild and
regain their brain functions, those that procrastinate, think excessive
negative thoughts, or can’t stop eating junk food may also rewire and
change their behaviors and transform their lives.
If learning is making new connections, then remembering is maintaining
and sustaining those connections. When we struggle with memory or
experience memory impairment, we are likely experiencing a disconnection
between neurons. In learning, when you fail to remember something, view
it as a failure to make a connection between what you’ve learned and what
you already know, and with how you will use it in life.
For example, if you feel that something you’ve learned is valuable in the
moment, but that you’ll never use it again, you are unlikely to create a
memory of it. Similarly, if you learn something but have no higher
reasoning as to why it’s important to you or how it applies to your life or
work, then it’s likely that your brain will not retain the information. It’s
totally normal to have a memory lapse—we’re human, not robots. But if we
respond to this lapse in memory with the attitude that “I have a bad
memory,” or “I’m not smart enough to remember this,” then we negatively
affect our ability to learn and grow. In other words, the belief we might
develop in response to forgetting does far more damage than the lapse in
memory. That kind of self-talk reinforces a limiting belief, rather than
acknowledging the mistake and reacquiring the information.
What does this mean for learning? Plasticity means that you can mold
and shape your brain to suit your desires. That something like your memory
is trainable—when you know how to help your brain receive, encode,
process, and consolidate information. It means that with a few simple
changes to something like your environment, your food, or your exercise,
you can dramatically change the way your brain functions. I will share these
energy tips in detail in Chapter 8.
Here’s the bottom line: Plasticity means that your learning, and indeed
your life, is not fixed. You can be, do, have, and share anything when you
optimize and rewire your brain. There are no limitations when you align
and apply the right mindset, motivation, and methods.
YOUR SECOND BRAIN
My students tell me after they learn about the vastness of their brain, they
have a whole new sense of worth, that their self-esteem grows overnight.
Here’s more good news: You are not limited to just one brain, you have a
second—your gut. Have you ever had a “gut feeling”? That moment when
you just knew? If you’ve ever “gone with your gut” to make a decision or
felt “butterflies in your stomach,” did you ever wonder why that was?
Hidden in the walls of the digestive system, this “brain in your gut” is
revolutionizing medicine’s understanding of the links between digestion,
mood, health, and even the way you think.
Scientists call this little brain the enteric nervous system (ENS). And it’s
not so little. The ENS is two thin layers of more than 100 million nerve
cells lining your gastrointestinal tract from esophagus to rectum. Science is
only beginning to understand the brain-gut axis and how it affects our
brains, our moods, and our behavior. You may hear it referred to as the
“brain-gut connection.” In the last decade, we’ve discovered that the gut has
an outsize effect on the way our brains function. One can liken it to the way
a tree functions. The roots in the ground are drawing up vital nutrients and
water from the soil as well as communicating with other plants. Those
nutrients are then brought up into the body of the tree, fortifying and
building the trunk, and giving the tree what it needs to sprout new leaves
each spring, which in turn gather light, another energy source.
In the same way, the nutrients we take in are absorbed through our
intestines. We rely on those nutrients to fuel our brains. While our brains
take up very little of our total body weight, they use 20 percent of the
energy we take in, so nutrients make a huge difference in the way our brains
function on a day-to-day basis.
The gut is lined with more than a hundred million nerve cells, and it
makes up part of the ENS. When a baby grows in the womb, the ENS and
the CNS develop from the same tissue and remain connected via the vagus
nerve. In many ways, the two systems mirror each other in structure. They
also both use many of the same neurotransmitters to function, including
serotonin, dopamine, and acetylcholine. As with CNS, we used to believe
that we are each born with a certain amount of cells—and that’s it. But like
the brain, we now know the ENS makes new neurons throughout adulthood
and can be repaired when damaged.5 The gut is made up of these neurons as
well as a network of bacteria that form the microbiome, and as with the
brain, each of us has our own unique microbiome.
What’s more, these nerve cells operate through startlingly similar
pathways as the brain. In 2010, neuroscientist Diego Bohórquez of Duke
University discovered that the enteroendocrine cells of the gut had “footlike
protrusions” that resembled the synapses that neurons use to communicate.
This caused Bohórquez to wonder if these cells could “talk” to the brain
using signals similar to the way neurons do. He hypothesized that if this
were happening, they would have to be using the vagus nerve, which
connects the gut and the brain stem.6 After further testing, they discovered
that the cells do in fact use the vagus nerve to take up messages and send
them to the brain, faster than could be done via the bloodstream.
TEAM EFFORT
The connection between the brain and the gut is still being explored, but it
seems that they function in very similar ways and that they function in
tandem. The little brain in conjunction with the big one partly determines
our mental state. When you have a gut feeling that something isn’t right, or
conversely that you should follow a hunch, it’s not just superstition—your
gut has its own way of interpreting events and giving your brain signals.
Furthermore, when you feed your gut with subpar food, you’re also feeding
your brain with subpar fuel.
Right now, your gut is digesting the food you just ate and sending that
fuel to your brain. At the same time, a part of your brain is taking in the feel
of the pages under your fingertips (or your e-reader, if that’s your
preference), sensing the comfort of the chair supporting you, and
monitoring the environment around you to make sure you’re safe. Another
part of your brain is taking in the smells of the environment, maybe coffee,
or perfume, or the scent of the book’s pages. Another part of your brain is
absorbing the word-symbols on the page of this book and turning them into
meaning, which is then processed and stored in short-term memory, where
it will then be sent to long-term memory (under the right conditions, which
we’ll get to in a moment).
All of this is to say that you have the ultimate superpower between your
ears. You also have the ability to hone that superpower and make it greater
—or to let it falter and decay. You get to decide what kind of environment
your superpower lives in: one that supports your mission in life, or one that
distracts you from your greatest dreams.
All of this points us in the same direction: We must take charge of our
own learning. If schools tell us what to learn, but not how to learn, then we
need to do the rest of the work ourselves. If digital overload threatens to
hijack our brains, then we need to use what we know about learning to reset
the ground rules. If the workplace is evolving with so much rapidity that we
can never be sure of what work will mean to us tomorrow, then only by
taking complete control of our learning can we truly be prepared for an
unknowable future.
Your time is one of your greatest assets. It’s the one thing you can’t get
back.
As your brain coach, I want you to get the greatest results and return on
your attention, so here are some recommendations on how to get the most
out of this book. You can apply this advice toward practically anything you
want to learn and read.
Let’s start with a question: Have you ever read something only to forget
it the next day?
You are not alone. Psychologists refer to this as the “forgetting curve.” It
is the mathematical formula that describes the rate at which information is
forgotten after it is initially learned. Research suggests humans forget
approximately 50 percent of what they learn within an hour, and an average
of 70 percent within 24 hours.1
Below are a handful of recommendations that will help you stay ahead of
the curve. Later, I will share advanced strategies to accelerate your learning
and retention in the sections on study, speed-reading, and memory
improvement.
Research suggests that our natural ability to concentrate wanes between
10 to 40 minutes. If we spend any longer on a given task, we get
diminishing returns on our investment of time because our attention starts to
wander. For that reason, I suggest you use the Pomodoro technique, a
productivity method developed by Francesco Cirillo based on the idea that
the optimal time for a task is 25 minutes, followed by a 5-minute break.2
Each 25-minute chunk is called a “Pomodoro.” As you read this book, I
suggest that you read for one Pomodoro and then take a 5-minute brain
break before continuing.
When it comes to learning, the Pomodoro technique works for reasons
related to memory, specifically the effect of primacy and recency.
The effect of primacy is that you’re more likely to remember what you
learn in the beginning of a learning session, a class, a presentation, or even
a social interaction. If you go to a party, you might meet 30 strangers.
You’re most likely to remember the first few people that you meet (unless
you’ve been trained to remember names with my method, which I’ll teach
you later in this book).
The effect of recency is that you’re also likely to remember the last thing
you learned (more recent). At the same party, this means that you’ll
remember the names of the last few people you met.
We’ve all procrastinated before a test and then, the night before the exam,
sat down to “cram” as much as possible without any breaks. Primacy and
recency are just two of the (many) reasons cram sessions don’t work. But
by taking breaks, you create more beginnings and endings, and you retain
far more of what you’re learning.
If you sit down to read a book over the course of two hours without
taking any breaks, you might remember the first 20 minutes of what you
read, then maybe you’ll experience a dip around the 30-minute mark, and
then you’re likely to remember the end of what you read. This means the
lull in between, with no breaks for assimilation or thinking through what
you just read, results in a dead space for learning. So, take this book one
Pomodoro at a time so you get the most out of what you read. If you still
choose to cram, you’ll learn helpful methods in the book to retain the “in-
between” information.
Did you know that the very act of reading this book will make you
smarter? I realize that’s a big claim, but I’m completely convinced that it’s
true. On one level, it’s going to teach you to be smarter through the tools
and tactics I share here. But on another level, when you actively read it,
you’ll form pictures in your mind, and you’ll make connections between
what you know and what you’re learning. You will think about how this
applies to your current life, and you will imagine how you can use the
knowledge you’re taking in. It promotes neuroplasticity. Oliver Wendell
Holmes said, “Every now and then a man’s mind is stretched by a new idea
or sensation, and never shrinks back to its former dimensions.”3 When you
read any book, you have the opportunity to stretch the range of your mind,
and it will never be the same.
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Set a timer for 25 minutes right now and concentrate on what you’re
reading in this book for that amount of time. When your alarm goes
off, bookmark this book and close it. Then write down what you
learned within that 25-minute period.
F is for Forget
The key to laser focus is to remove or forget that which distracts you. There
are three things you want to forget (at least temporarily). The first is what
you already know. When learning something new, we tend to assume we
understand more than we do about that subject. What we think we know
about the topic can stand in the way of our ability to absorb new
information. One of the reasons children learn rapidly is because they are
empty vessels; they know they don’t know. Some people who claim to have
twenty years of experience have one year of experience that they’ve
repeated twenty times. To learn beyond your present sense of restraints, I
want you to temporarily suspend what you already know or think you know
about the topic and approach it with what Zen philosophy calls “a
beginner’s mind.” Remember that your mind is like a parachute—it only
works when it’s open.
The second thing is to forget what’s not urgent or important. Contrary to
popular belief, your brain doesn’t multitask (more on this later). If you’re
not fully present, it will be difficult for you to learn when your focus is
split.
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As you are reading this book, when your mind inevitably wanders into
something else—and that something else is important but not urgent—
don’t try to not think of it. What you resist persists. Instead, keep a
notebook close by to capture that thought or idea by writing it down.
You can thus release it temporarily, to be addressed after the task at
hand is complete.
And finally, forget about your limitations. These are the preconceived
notions you believe about yourself, such as that your memory isn’t good or
that you’re a slow learner. Suspend (at least temporarily) what you believe
is possible. I know this may sound difficult but keep an open mind to what
you can do. After all, since you are reading this book, some part of you
deep down must believe there’s more to life than what you’ve already
demonstrated. Do your best to keep your self-talk positive. Remember this:
If you fight for your limitations, you get to keep them. Your capabilities
aren’t fixed, and it’s possible to learn anything.
A is for Act
Traditional education has trained many people that learning is a passive
experience. You sit quietly in class, you don’t talk to your neighbor, and
you consume the information. But learning is not a spectator sport. The
human brain does not learn as much by consumption as it does by creation.
Knowing that, I want you to ask yourself how you can become more active
in your learning. Take notes. Do all the Kwik Start exercises. Download the
Kwik Brain app to test and train your limitless abilities. Go to the resource
page at www.LimitlessBook.com/resources for additional free tools. I
recommend you highlight key ideas, but don’t become one of those
highlight junkies who make every page glow in the dark. If you make
everything important, then nothing becomes important. The more active
you are, the better, faster, and more you will learn.
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What is one thing you will do to make reading this book a more active
experience? Write it down.
S is for State
All learning is state-dependent. Your state is a current snapshot of your
emotions. It is highly influenced by your thoughts (psychology) and the
physical condition of your body (physiology). Your feelings or lack thereof
about a subject in a specific situation affect the learning process and
ultimately the results. In fact, when you tie a feeling to information, the
information becomes more memorable. To prove this, I’m guessing there’s
a song, fragrance, or food that can take you back to your childhood.
Information times emotion helps create long-term memories. The opposite
is also true. What was the predominant emotional state you felt back in
school? When I ask audiences this question, most people in the room shout
out “boredom!” In all likelihood, you can relate to this.
If your emotional energy at school was low, it’s no wonder you forgot the
periodic table. But, when you take control of your state of mind and body,
you can shift your experience of learning from boredom to excitement,
curiosity, and even fun. To achieve this, you might try shifting the way your
body moves in a learning environment or piquing different moods before
you sit down to learn. Change your posture or the depth of your breathing.
Sit or stand the way you would if you were totally energized and excited for
what was coming. Get excited about how you will benefit from what you
are about to learn and what you will do with your new knowledge.
Remember, all learning is state-dependent. Consciously choose states of
joy, fascination, and curiosity.
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How motivated, energized, and focused are you at this moment? Rate
your current state on a scale of 1 to 10. What is one thing you will do
right now to increase that number?
T is for Teach
If you want to cut your learning curve dramatically, learn with the intention
of teaching the information to someone else. Think about it: If you know
you have to give a presentation on what you learn, you will approach how
you learn the topic with the intention of mastering it well enough to explain
it to someone else. You will pay closer attention. Your notes might be more
detailed. And you might even ask better questions. When you teach
something, you get to learn it twice: once on your own, and then again
through educating another person.
Learning isn’t always solo; it can be social. You may enjoy this book
more if you invite someone else to learn with you. Buy a copy for a friend,
or, even better, start a Limitless Book Club that meets weekly so you can
discuss the ideas and concepts in this book. You’ll enjoy learning more
when you’re making memories with a friend or group of friends. Working
with someone else will not only help you stay accountable, but it will give
you someone to practice this method with.
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Find a learning buddy to read this book with and hold each other
accountable. Write down the name of that person (or persons).
E is for Enter
What is the simplest and most powerful personal performance tool? Your
calendar. We enter important things on our schedule: work meetings,
parent-teacher gatherings, dentist appointments, taking Fluffy to the vet,
and so on. Do you know what a lot of people don’t schedule? Their
personal growth and development. If it’s not on your calendar, there’s a
good chance it’s not getting done. It’s too easy for the day to slip by with
you “forgetting” to work out your body and brain.
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Take out your calendar and enter your Limitless readings for the next
seven days. Label these LIMITLESS ME, GENIUS TIME, BRAIN
TRAINING, CONVERSATIONS WITH JIM, or anything else
provocative enough to guarantee that you’ll keep this date on your
calendar.
R is for Review
One of the best ways to reduce the effects of the forgetting curve is to
actively recall what you learned with spaced repetition. You are better able
to retain information by reviewing in multiple spread-out sessions. Going
over the material at intervals increases our brain’s ability to remember it. To
leverage this principle, before you begin your reading session take a
moment, if only a few minutes, to actively retrieve what you learned the
session before. Your brain will give greater value to the reviewed material
and prime your mind for what’s to come.
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Before each reading, take a few minutes to talk about or write what
you remember from the previous reading.
CHOOSE WISELY
The French philosopher Jean-Paul Sartre noted that, “Life is C between B
and D,” meaning that the life we live is the choices we make between the
“B” of birth and the “D” of death. The profound simplicity of that statement
is particularly relevant to the journey we’re engaged with here. Being
limitless is a choice, and that choice is entirely yours, regardless of your
circumstances. You can choose to give up this power, but why would you
when you know that you can truly live a life without barriers? But choosing
is an active thing, and the time to make this choice is right now.
So, I want you to resolve and commit. Most people are sincerely
interested in doing something that they know they should do. But they don’t
do it, because they consider it a preference not a promise. There’s
tremendous power in making a real resolution. I want you to write down
your commitment to complete this book. When we write something down,
we’re more likely to do what we promise.
Below, I’ve included a commitment page for you. See eBook
Supplemental Resources for a PDF download. If you want extra points, take
a photo of your signed promise, then post it on social media. This public
resolution will help you stay accountable. Tag me @JimKwik
#LimitlessBook so we can cheer you on!
I, _________________________________, commit to reading this
book in 10- to 25-minute increments until it is finished.
I commit to being active in the process. I will do all the Kwik Start
exercises, take notes, highlight, and practice asking myself relevant
questions as I read.
And finally, I commit that even if I “mess up” with any of the
above, I won’t beat myself up. I’ll get back at it and do my best.
Signed,
___________________________Date: __________
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What is one dominant question you ask yourself? Write it down.
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These are your three magic questions: How can I use this? Why must I
use this? When will I use this? They will help you integrate the
knowledge from this book into your head, heart, and hands. Ingrain
them. Write these questions down where you can see them—on your
desk or in your phone.
LIMITLESS MINDSET
THE WHAT
mindset
mind·set (noun)
The deeply held beliefs, attitudes, and assumptions we create about who we
are, how the world works, what we are capable of and deserve, and what is
possible.
The first element of the three-part Limitless Model is Mindset, which is the
mental attitude or disposition that predetermines a person’s responses to and
interpretations of situations. Mindset is made up of beliefs, assumptions,
and attitudes we hold about ourselves and the world around us. All behavior
is driven by belief, so before we address how to learn, we must first address
the underlying beliefs we hold about what is possible.
We’re not born with pre-installed mindsets about what we’re capable of
achieving—we learn these fixed and limited ways of thinking from the
people in our lives and the culture we experience growing up.
Think of a young elephant tied to a stake in the ground. When it’s a baby,
the elephant isn’t strong enough to pull the stake up, so it eventually stops
trying because it learns the effort is futile. As the elephant grows, it gains
more than enough power and strength to pull out the stake, but it remains
tied up by something as inconsequential as a rope and a flimsy piece of
metal because of what it learned as a baby. In psychology, it’s called learned
helplessness.
Most of us behave like that elephant. At some point, we had an
experience that gave us an impression of what we’re capable of, and our
belief about our potential has been set ever since. But just as helplessness is
learned, it’s just as possible to learn to be limitless. In this section, you’re
going to learn about the seven lies we’ve been taught about our potential
and how to replace them with new beliefs.
I use the term LIE intentionally. In this case, LIE is an acronym for
Limited Idea Entertained. If you are like the vast majority of people out
there, you are entertaining ideas about yourself that define you as
something less than what you truly have the potential to achieve. You’re
giving these ideas energy and allowing them to take residence in your mind,
but they’re really nothing but BS (in this case, an abbreviation for Belief
Systems). Over the coming chapters, you will discover where these lies
come from, how they imprison you, and what you can do about it. And keep
asking yourself this question: How many of my perceived constraints are
nothing more than LIEs and BS? I think you’re going to be stunned with the
answers, and that these answers are going to be liberating.
A quick story before we get going. One of the most cherished friendships
of my life was the one I shared with Stan Lee. As you know, Stan’s Marvel
creations helped me through some of the biggest challenges of my life when
I was younger, and they continue to be a nonstop source of inspiration to
this day. My conversations with Stan were always engaging and very often
illuminating.
I remember one such conversation when we were in a car together on our
way to a dinner. Stan looked resplendent in his suit with a bold Spiderman
tie, and I was inspired to ask him something I’d always wanted to ask.
“Stan, you’ve created so many great characters over the years, like the
Avengers and X-Men,” I said. “Who’s your favorite character?”
He didn’t even hesitate a second.
“Iron Man,” he said. “And who’s yours?”
I pointed to his tie. “That would be Spiderman.”
Stan nodded and said, “With great power comes great responsibility.”
“That’s so true, Stan. And the opposite is also true: with great
responsibility comes great power.”
He seemed to like that, which tickled me to no end. But while I’d never
phrased it that way before, I realized that I was voicing one of the key
tenets of the limitless mindset. When we take responsibility for something,
we are imbued with great power to make things better.
That’s what a limitless mindset is all about. Our background and
circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we must be
accountable for who we become. It’s about understanding that we are
responsible for our assumptions and attitudes. And when you accept that all
of your potential is entirely within your control, then the power of that
potential grows dramatically.
So, superhero, let’s get started on unlimiting your mindset. As Stan
would say, “Excelsior!”
5
Grab some imaginary popcorn, because we’re going to take a quick side trip
to the movies. The scene goes like this:
A bridge is about to collapse because a supervillain has weakened the
supports to the point where the entire thing is going to go crumbling into
the river. As the bridge creaks and teeters, our superhero learns about the
crisis and races to the scene. She’s the only person with the strength to avert
catastrophe and save hundreds of lives.
Our superhero is less than 10 seconds from the bridge now. But as she
gets closer, a voice in her head reminds her of the time she face-planted
while doing a somersault in elementary school. A couple of seconds later,
she recalls her father telling her that it would be best if she set her sights
low for her future. With the bridge in sight, another vision emerges in front
of her: her former best friend ridiculing her for her delusions of grandeur.
Rubble from the bridge topples into the water. The creaking gets louder.
The screams of dozens and dozens fill the air.
And our superhero, overwhelmed with doubt, sits down by the side of the
road, covers her face with her hands, and drowns in self-pity.
Wait . . . what?
You’ve never seen that scene in a superhero movie, right? There are some
reasons for that. One is that it would be a terrible story. Another is that,
regardless of the darkness in their pasts or the moral conflicts they might be
facing, superheroes don’t become true superheroes by giving in to limiting
beliefs. Superman doesn’t think that, maybe on a good day, he might be
able to leap a tall building or, maybe, you know, a couple of stories at least.
Tony Stark doesn’t think, “This Iron Man suit is probably going to fail me
at the worst possible time because I’m inherently a screw-up.” Captain
Marvel doesn’t break through our atmosphere and suddenly start thinking,
“I’m not sure I have the emotional capacity to fly solo through space.” They
have superpowers, and any sense of restriction be damned.
And you know what? You have superpowers too. How do you realize
them? You begin with your mindset.
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What would you say is your genius? Write it down.
There’s a very good chance that your own genius is a combination of two
or more of these. Very few of us are only data people or are only adept at
being empathetic. But what’s important for you to understand here is that
genius extends far beyond your ability to excel at academics or recite the
periodic table on command—and that you have genius inside of you.
If you find that last statement surprising, you might want to go back and
reread some of the earlier chapters in this book. Making yourself limitless is
all about unleashing your innate genius. Maybe you aren’t the dynamo of
Shakespeare or the blaze of Oprah, but there is some combination of genius
inside of you that is either waiting to express itself or waiting to express
itself more. The key is letting it free.
The theory, together with the research reviewed here, suggests that
positive emotions: (i) broaden people’s attention and thinking; (ii)
undo lingering negative emotional arousal; (iii) fuel psychological
resilience; (iv) build consequential personal resources; (v) trigger
upward spirals towards greater well-being in the future; and (vi) seed
human flourishing. The theory also carries an important prescriptive
message. People should cultivate positive emotions in their own lives
and in the lives of those around them, not just because doing so makes
them feel good in the moment, but also because doing so transforms
people for the better and sets them on paths toward flourishing and
healthy longevity.9
The new mindset that comes from silencing your inner critic presents you
with a world of possibility. When you’re surging with positive emotions,
you’re seeing—and seizing on—opportunities you might never have
noticed before. And with a high sense of motivation (and, really, how could
you not be motivated by this?) and the right methods, you’re well on the
road to becoming virtually limitless.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
To learn faster, we must transcend the narrow definition of what we believe
is possible for ourselves. In the following pages, you’ll learn about the
seven learning lies that are the most common limiting beliefs that hold
people back. I’ve seen students and clients cling to these beliefs throughout
my decades of teaching people how to learn. These restrictions are the only
real barrier you face. After all, people can’t learn to read faster if they
believe it isn’t possible. They can’t learn to memorize things more
efficiently if they keep telling themselves they have a bad memory.
Everything else falls into place once you snap out of the trance of these so-
called “limitations.” By tackling these lies, you’ll be tackling the core
blocks that keep you from being limitless. Here are a few things to try
before going on to the next chapter.
You’re being lied to. Constantly. Sometimes by yourself. We are all subject
to an endless stream of misinformation about our constraints to our
capabilities, and we receive this information so often that most of us have
no other choice than to believe it. The problem is that these messages
directly oppose your quest to become limitless. These limited ideas
entertained (LIEs) in our mind can stall us or steer us in a direction we
don’t want. So, let’s bring seven to light, examine them for what they are,
and replace them with something better.
Studies of damaged brains show that there is no single area of the brain
that can sustain damage without a loss of ability, contrary to earlier
theories. Brain scans have shown that all brain areas are active, no
matter what the activity. Even while we sleep, all parts of our brains
show activity.
Our brains are energy-hogs. The brain takes up only 2 percent of space
by weight, and yet accounts for 20 percent of energy consumption,
more than any other organ. We wouldn’t need such an incredible
amount of energy for an organ that functioned at 40 percent or less.
Scientists have also determined that the brain’s regions have distinct
functions that work together. After extensively mapping the brain over
decades, they’ve concluded that there are no functionless areas of the
brain.
Finally, as we’ve learned, the brain uses a process called synaptic
pruning. If we didn’t use a large portion of our brains, we would
expect to see large areas of degeneration (we don’t—unless brain
diseases are present).14
To sum up, this myth just isn’t true. In an interview with Scientific
American, neurologist Barry Gordon from Johns Hopkins School of
Medicine in Baltimore, said that the idea is “so wrong it is almost
laughable.”15
Here’s the truth: What I want you to take from this is that you have all
the power of your brain available to you now. The utopia that each of these
movies and TV shows depicts is already possible for you. While we use all
of our brain, some people use their brain better than others. Just as most
people use 100 percent of their body, there are some bodies that are faster,
stronger, more flexible, and more energized than others. The key is to learn
how to use your brain as efficiently and effectively as you possibly can—
and by the end of this book, you’ll have the tools to do so.
New belief: I am learning to use my whole brain in the best way
possible.
Even though school was hard at first, she found other ways to make up
for her disability, and because of her ability to adapt, she became the kind of
problem-solver who could not only learn but could contribute to research
that changed the way we view cancer. Learning was hard for her, but she
figured out how to work around her disability. After all, it’s not how smart
you are, but how you are smart. Because Greider had to problem-solve her
way through learning, she now has a career that is having an impact on the
world.
The truth is that learning won’t always be easy, but the effort pays
dividends. In fact, learning should be at least a little uncomfortable;
otherwise you’re mostly reinforcing what you already know. If you’ve ever
tried to cut wood with a dull blade, you know that it takes far more time and
energy to accomplish the task than it should. In much the same way, lacking
motivation or having inadequate methods will slow you down and make
you feel as if learning is too hard (and we’ll show you how to address those
issues later in this book).
The key is taking small, simple steps. Think about a stonecutter. The
stonecutter may sit there and hammer away at his block of stone for what
feels like an eternity, making only small chips and dents here and there. But
in one moment, the stone will crack open. Was it the one time that did it?
No—it was all the sustained effort that prepared the stone to split.
Approach your learning like a stonecutter. It will require you to cultivate
patience, to have a positive attitude, and to be adaptive to your own needs.
If you are the kind of learner who does best with a book in your hands,
that’s fantastic. But if you already know that doesn’t work for you, why
keep trying the same thing? Look for other ways to learn that do work for
you.
Know that it won’t be hard, but it will require effort—though perhaps not
as much as you think. The key is consistency. You must have the patience to
consistently come back at it again and again. When you do, you will not
only reap the rewards of your hard-earned knowledge, but you’ll be a better
person for having cultivated the tenacity to keep trying.
Here’s the truth: Sometimes it is hard to learn new things. What’s more
accurate is to understand that learning is a set of methods, a process that can
certainly be easier when you know how to learn.
New belief: When you learn new ways how to learn, the challenge of
learning new things can be fun, easier, and more enjoyable.
LIE NO. 6: THE CRITICISM OF OTHER
PEOPLE MATTERS
Years ago I was a keynote speaker at an event hosted by Deepak Chopra.
After my presentation, I sat down in the audience to watch the rest of the
programming. To my surprise, a tall figure approached and loomed over
me, and I looked up to see one of my favorite actors, Jim Carrey.
What followed was a deep conversation in the lobby about creativity. At
one point he said, “Jim, I’m working on Dumb and Dumber 2, and I need to
get really smart to be dumb and dumber.”
A few weeks later, we spent a day together at his home. During one of
our breaks, while making guacamole (one of my favorite brain foods) in the
kitchen, I asked, “Why do you do what you do? You’re such a unique actor,
and you’re a little bit extreme on camera.” Jim said, “I act that way because
I want to give the people who are watching permission to be themselves.
The biggest travesty in the world is people preventing and limiting
themselves from expressing who they really are because they’re afraid of
what other people think.” This sentiment comes close to a religion for Jim;
he calls it “freeing people from concern.” He elaborated on this during a
commencement address at Maharishi International University:
The fastest learners on the planet are children, and that’s partly because
they don’t care what others think of them. They have no shame around
failing. They will fall 300 times and get up 300 times in the course of
learning to walk, and don’t feel embarrassed; they just know they want to
walk. As we get older, we have a harder time staying this open. We might
take a singing lesson, or maybe a coding class, and if we hit a flat note or
make a mistake as we learn, we shrink or stop.
Part of being limitless is learning to let go of the fear of criticism from
other people. History is littered with examples of those who overcame the
negative opinions of the people around them. The Wright brothers
accomplished their incredible feat of making a machine fly through the air
—and initially received virtually no acclaim for it. When they returned
home from their inaugural flight on December 17, 1903, they were not met
with brass bands and cigars and streamers. They were met with doubt.
Their biographer, Fred Kelly, wrote that the neighbors had a hard time
believing what had happened. Said one: “I know you boys are truthful and
if you say you flew through the air in the machine, I believe you. But then,
down there on the Carolina coast, you had special conditions to help you.
Of course, you couldn’t do it anywhere else.”27
Hardly the enthusiastic response one would expect, right?
The papers and media didn’t report on their accomplishment, either.
According to Kelly, noted scientists of the time had already explained why
man couldn’t fly, so no newspaper reporter was willing to report on the
story for fear of being humiliated.28 No editor wanted to print a story that
directly refuted a respected scientist’s proclamations that flying was not
scientifically possible. The lack of public recognition didn’t faze the Wright
brothers. They knew they had more work to do and set about perfecting
their flying machine, which eventually did earn the recognition that it
deserved.
Most of us fear the opinions of other people when we simply think about
trying something new. What the Wright’s story shows is that public
imagination is woefully underwhelming, and people have a hard time
reconciling what they believe is possible with what is actually happening.
Here’s the truth: Creating the life you want can be scary. But you know
what’s scarier? Regret. One day we will take our final breaths and not one
of other people’s opinions or your fears will matter. What will matter is how
we lived. Don’t take criticism from someone you wouldn’t take advice
from. People will doubt you and criticize you no matter what you do. You
will never know your true potential until you break the unfair judgements
you place on yourself. Don’t allow other people’s opinions and expectations
to run or ruin your life.
New belief: It’s not your job to like, love, or respect me. It’s mine.
LIE NO. 7: GENIUS IS BORN
Bruce Lee is known today as a film star, philosopher, and one of the most
accomplished martial arts fighters in the history of the sport. And yet, given
his background, you wouldn’t have pegged him as a future icon if you were
under the assumption that genius is born.
Lee’s family moved from San Francisco to Hong Kong shortly after he
was born.29 Not long after they arrived, Hong Kong was occupied by Japan,
making it a politically and socially tumultuous place to grow up. As a
young man, Lee was faced with the difficulty of being the ultimate outsider.
He was not purely Chinese, so the students in his classes made fun of him.
He also wasn’t British like other kids in his private school, so he was
frequently taunted for being “oriental.” The feeling of tension was ever-
present for him—so he turned to fighting to battle his way through.30
Fighting began to define him. His grades were low, and he fought so often
in school that he transferred to a different primary school.
When Lee was 13, he met his teacher Yip Man, who taught him Wing
Chun. He was accepted into this famous teacher’s school and began to learn
this style of Kung Fu. Not unlike the rest of his education, he was still
taunted by the Chinese children who felt he was not enough like them to be
“allowed” to learn the technique. He constantly had to prove himself and
his abilities, and his fighting spilled over into the streets. This internal
tension, coupled with Hong Kong’s slide into gang violence, led to Lee
fighting far more often than learning. He developed a reputation for being
street-tough through his willingness and propensity for battle.
After one particularly bad street fight, a high-ranking police officer
approached Lee’s parents and told them their son would be arrested. The
boy he had beat up the night before was the son of this police officer. Lee’s
father quickly arranged for Lee to go back to America; after all, he still had
citizenship. So, off Lee went with $100 in his pocket. “Like most Chinese
kids who had just gotten off the boat, my first job was washing and bussing
dishes,”31 said Lee in a later interview. He worked to support himself with
odd jobs and eventually started teaching martial arts.
Lee wasn’t just talented—he was also willing to teach other people, and
he accepted everyone who came to him as a student, regardless of their race
or background. This soon ruffled the feathers of the Chinese community in
Oakland, who felt that these techniques should not be taught to anyone who
wasn’t Chinese. Eventually, he was forced to defend his right to teach. The
Chinese traditionalists challenged him to a fight, saying that if he won, he
could keep his school. But if he lost, he would be forced to shut it down and
stop teaching to people outside of their ethnic group.
Lee’s style was different from any one form of martial arts. When he was
still living in Hong Kong, he took dancing lessons, and in 1957 he was so
good he won the cha-cha championship. He added the movements he
learned in dance to his fighting techniques. Where other fighters took a
mostly solitary stance with their feet, he kept his moving constantly, which
fueled his ability to adapt to his opponent’s moves. Lee did this with
everything he learned later in life. Eventually, his style incorporated not
only Wing Chun, but boxing, fencing, and dancing.
It was a major turning point—the old vanguard against the new. Lee’s
wife Linda was eight months pregnant at the time, and she remembers the
scene vividly, almost comically. She recalls it took three minutes for Lee to
get his opponent down to the ground; before this take-down, the opponent
had run around the room, trying to get away from Lee.
After the fight, Linda found Lee with his head in his hands, despite his
victory. He told her that his training didn’t prepare him for this kind of a
battle. As she describes it, this was the beginning of the evolution to his
own way of martial arts.
After this battle, Lee no longer tried to fit his knowledge and teachings
into one box and discarded most of his original training. He openly took
influences from areas of fighting outside of Wing Chun and Kung Fu, using
them to form a philosophy of martial arts. In a later interview, he said, “I do
not believe in styles anymore. I do not believe there is such a thing as the
Chinese way of fighting, Japanese way of fighting.”32 Instead, Lee’s
approach focused on fighting as a way of ultimate self-expression. “When
people come to me to learn, they’re not coming to me to learn to defend
themselves. They want to learn to express themselves through movement,
anger, or determination.” He believed that the individual is more important
than any style or system.
No one remembers Lee for his academic endeavors. Lee is remembered
for his tenacity, his ability to defeat his opponents, his philosophy, and for
the way he managed to break out of the box of orthodox thinking and bring
different styles of fighting together to create an entirely new philosophy. So
was he a natural genius, someone born to achieve outsize physical, mental,
and philosophical feats?
In The Talent Code, author Daniel Coyle delves into whether talent is
innate or whether it can be developed. He argues “greatness isn’t born, it’s
grown.” Through deep practice, ignition, and master coaching, anyone can
develop a talent so deep that it looks like genius.33
Bruce Lee’s daughter Shannon spoke at our annual conference about her
father’s approach to memory and learning. She said that, by the time Lee
was a film star and notable teacher, he had already achieved thousands upon
thousands of hours of deep practice, at least in part because of his early
days in fighting on the streets. Later in life, Lee didn’t master the famous
one-inch punch in a day. That alone took years of hard repetition and
practice. Lee continued to train and condition himself even with a back
injury—it was a daily commitment. Ignition is the motivation, the fuel to do
what you do. It seems Lee’s initial fuel was the tension he felt as a Chinese
American in a place that didn’t accept him as either. Later, his ignition
seems to have been his drive for ultimate self-expression. And finally, Lee
had training from a master teacher, Yip Man, who himself was trained by
several master teachers from the time he was a child. When Lee became his
student, he had been teaching Kung Fu for decades.
Lee’s talent was born of a confluence of experiences and circumstances
that served him well, although they may have defeated someone else. How
many of us would look at a young child with a propensity for fighting and
poor grades and predict that he would become a master teacher and
philosopher?
Here’s the truth: Genius leaves clues. There is always a method behind
what looks like magic.
New belief: Genius is not born; it’s made through deep practice.
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How many of the LIEs described above did you believe in before
reading this book? Are there any other ones you would add? Write
them down.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
Understanding that these commonly held limiting beliefs are nothing more
than myths is an essential part of becoming limitless. When you convince
yourself that any of these are true, you’re giving yourself an unnecessary
burden to carry around. While these seven are among the most common,
keep your radar up for any “conventional wisdom” that has the effect of
putting constraints on your potential and examine that wisdom very
carefully. In most cases, you’re going to find that such constraints don’t
apply to anyone willing to push beyond them. Before going to the next
chapter, give these things a try:
Take a good look at some of the mistakes you’ve made. Have you let
these define you? How have your feelings about these mistakes
changed after reading this chapter?
Find a way to put something you’ve recently learned (even today) into
action. Notice the difference it makes when you turn knowledge into
power.
Think about a situation where you allowed the opinions of others to
sway your actions. How would you approach that same situation
differently if the only opinion that mattered was yours? Get my 4Gs to
a limitless mindset, including more strategies for replacing limited
beliefs, at LimitlessBook.com/resources.
PART III
LIMITLESS MOTIVATION
THE WHY
motivation
mo·ti·va·tion (noun)
The purpose one has for taking action. The energy required for someone to
behave in a particular way.
In the movie Limitless, writer Eddie Morra was completely unmotivated,
unfocused, and had no energy. When he popped the pill that made him
suddenly take action, his life drastically changed for the better because he
was able to make things happen.
Let’s unlimit a few LIEs commonly held around motivation. Contrary to
popular belief, like your mindset, motivation is not fixed. No one has a set
level of motivation. And when people say they are unmotivated, it’s not
completely true. They could have a high level of motivation to stay in bed
and watch television.
Motivation also doesn’t mean you must enjoy something that you need to
do. My friend, entrepreneur Tom Bilyeu, hates working out, but he has a
clear and compelling reason to do so, so he does it every morning. I really
don’t like taking cold showers, but I do it daily (I’ll explain why in Chapter
8).
Finally, motivation is not something you wake up with or not. We put
ourselves in a trance when we say, “I don’t have any motivation.”
Motivation is not something you have; it’s something you do. And it’s
entirely sustainable. Unlike a warm bath, it’s not something that you
experience for a moment and then lose unless you heat it up again.
Motivation isn’t derived from a seminar that temporarily pumps you up. It’s
a process. And since it’s a strategy, you have control over it and can create
it consistently by following the right recipe.
When you combine purpose, energy, and small simple steps (S3), you get
sustainable motivation. And the ultimate form of motivation is the state of
flow. Think about it as energy management. Creating it, investing it, and not
wasting it. A clear purpose or reason gives you energy. Practices you
employ will cultivate energy for your brain and the rest of your body, and
small simple steps require little energy.
In this section, we’ll talk about how to cultivate powerful sustainable
motivation around learning and life that lasts. We’ll achieve this by getting
clear on your purpose, fostering the mental and physical energy that will
sustain you, and establishing small simple steps. And tapping flow states.
Purpose drives us to act, and our purpose must be clear enough that we
know why we’re acting and what we’re hoping to gain. Generating
sufficient energy is vital—if you’re tired or sleepy, or if your brain is foggy,
then you won’t have the fuel to take action. Small simple steps take
minimal effort and keep you from being paralyzed with overwhelm. And
finally, finding flow is the ultimate boon to motivation.
7
PURPOSE
How do certain defining phrases determine who you are?
How do your values define you?
What does your sense of purpose say about who you are?
For the longest time, my kryptonite was lack of sleep. Sleep has never been
easy for me. As a kid for years I was pulling regular all-nighters, studying
long hours trying to compensate for my learning challenges. I developed
bad sleeping problems. I was always tired at school, but I would plow
through the fatigue anyway because I had a strong desire to work hard and
make my family proud. My purpose and reasons were super-clear, so I was
plenty motivated. Even after I learned accelerated learning skills at age 18
and I no longer had to put in crazy hours, my sleeplessness continued into
adulthood and has grown steadily worse—two to four hours total of very
interrupted sleep for about 20 years.
The longer you go without sleep, the harder it becomes to maintain a
sense of reality—or motivation, for that matter. Lack of sleep compromises
all of your cognitive skills, your focus, your memory, and your overall brain
health. A common contributing factor for depression and many mood
disorders is lack of sleep. I can attest to the dark places I’ve found myself in
as a result of lack of sleep. My intense speaking and global travel schedule
certainly did not help; one year I was on the road for 235 days. Time zones,
jet lag, unfamiliar stale hotel rooms, you get the picture. And my brain was
feeling it; just imagine a memory expert forgetting what city he is waking
up in.
This puzzled me, because as a long-time meditation student, my mind
was not ruminating or racing at night; it was as calm as could be. It was
only a handful of years ago, when I ended up hospitalized from multiple
nights without rest, that I participated in an overnight sleep study and was
diagnosed with severe obstructive sleep apnea, a physical disorder where
evidently I stopped breathing more than 200 times each and every night.
Today, after multiple treatments, I’m happy to say my sleep is worlds
better. Once I was able to fix the physical obstruction with surgery, I was
then able to optimize my sleep with a number of tools I will cover in
Chapter 8.
During my most difficult moments, I’ve asked myself why I continue to
do what I do. Why struggle when I could easily tell myself I don’t have the
energy for this? As a child, my purpose and motivation (motive for taking
action) was to compensate for my lack of talent with hard work, to prove to
myself I was capable. But once I’d leveled up my learning, why did I
continue to work so hard—despite being exhausted, sleep-deprived, and an
extreme introvert—to make speech after speech, video after video, podcast
after podcast? It’s the same thing that drove me as a child: I have clear and
definite purpose. I don’t want anyone to struggle and suffer the way I did.
The mission that drives me is to unlock better, brighter brains.
Often our greatest struggles lead to our greatest strengths. My two
biggest challenges as a child were learning and public speaking. Life has a
sense of humor because I spend most of my life public speaking on
learning. I couldn’t read, and now I teach people from all over the world
how to read better. I struggled to understand my brain, and now I speak in
front of audiences of thousands to help them understand the amazing tool
they possess. I’ve learned there is a gift in most challenges. In the same
way, decades of lack of sleep has given me two very important lessons.
First, it’s forced me to live everything in this book. I wouldn’t be able to
perform at the level I do without the tools I’ve learned, so I’ve doubled
down on everything I teach. I rarely have to prepare for a speech, because I
use these skills every single day. I live them. It’s who I am.
Second, I’ve had to become really clear on my purpose, my identity, my
values, and my reasons for doing what I do every day. When you don’t
sleep, and you have a very limited amount of energy and focus, you don’t
waste it. You prioritize and get crystal clear about your commitments and
why you are making them. All of those choices have led to inexhaustible
motivation. That’s what we’ll talk about in this chapter.
S is for Specific: Your goal should be well defined. Don’t say you
want to be rich; say you want to make a certain amount of money.
M is for Measurable: If you can’t measure your goal, you can’t
manage it. Getting fit isn’t measurable—running a six-minute mile is.
A is for Actionable: You wouldn’t drive to a new town without asking
for directions. Develop the action steps to achieve your goal.
R is for Realistic: If you’re living in your parents’ basement, it’s hard
to become a millionaire. Your goals should challenge and stretch you,
but not so much that you give up on them.
T is for Time-based: The phrase, “A goal is a dream with a deadline”
comes to mind. Setting a time to complete your goal makes you that
much more likely to reach it.
The challenge for many people is that this process, while logical, is very
heady. To get your goals out of your head and into your hands, make sure
they fit with your emotions—with your HEART:
H is for Healthy: How can you make sure your goals support your
greater well-being? Your goals should contribute to your mental,
physical, and emotional health.
E is for Enduring: Your goals should inspire and sustain you during
the difficult times when you want to quit.
A is for Alluring: You shouldn’t always have to push yourself to work
on your goals. They should be so exciting, enticing, and engaging that
you’re pulled toward them.
R is for Relevant: Don’t set a goal without knowing why you’re
setting it. Ideally, your goals should relate to a challenge you’re
having, your life’s purpose, or your core values.
T is for Truth: Don’t set a goal just because your neighbor is doing it
or your parents expect it of you. Make sure your goal is something you
want, something that remains true to you. If your goal isn’t true to you,
you’re far more likely to procrastinate and sabotage yourself.
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Do you know your life’s purpose? Even if you don’t yet, write down a
little bit about what it could be.
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Take 60 seconds and, stream of consciousness, write down some “I
am” statements.
A HIERARCHY OF VALUES
Next, we need to consider our values. You can set up the most well-thought-
out habits, but if your values are not in alignment with the ultimate goal,
you’re not going to do it. For example, someone who wants to remember
people’s names should value relationships and their connection to other
people. Your behavior has to support your values in some way, or there is
no drive for it.
Our values have a hierarchy to them. If I asked you what’s most
important to you in life, you might tell me family is one of your core values.
I would then ask what family does for you. For me, it provides love. For
you, it might provide belonging. The important distinction here is that
family is a means value—a means to an end. The end value is actually love
or belonging. When we look at our values, we can determine whether the
value we’ve stated is an end or whether it evokes something else.
Values need to be prioritized. My values are love, growth, contribution,
and adventure, in that order. Each value builds on and contributes to the
next. One’s values tend to not change from year to year unless you
experience life conditions that change them—such as having a kid, losing a
loved one, or ending a relationship, to name just a few.
When we’re unaware of our values and the values of the people closest to
us, it creates a space for conflict to arise; discord usually results from values
conflicting. Let’s say your values include adventure and freedom. If your
partner values safety and security, it’s no surprise that you’ll often be at
odds. It’s not that one set of values is right and the other is wrong—it’s that
they aren’t in alignment. Or let’s say both of you highly value respect, but
what you consider to be respectful or disrespectful differs. There’s still
room for disagreement unless you’ve talked about what constitutes respect.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
Finding your passion is about giving yourself novelty and putting yourself
in a new environment to see what lights you up. It’s difficult to do that if
you feel limited or if you’re self-conscious about looking bad, so let that go
and enjoy the experience. Those initial moments of discomfort just might
lead you to an entirely new passion and purpose in life. Here are a few
things to try before moving on to the next chapter:
ENERGY
How do you make sure your brain is as healthy and energized as it
can be?
You have a clear purpose for doing something, and you’ve broken down the
project or goal into small, simple steps. Does that guarantee sustainable,
limitless motivation?
For example, even if you have a reason to read daily and have a plan to
read for just five minutes a day, what can keep you from doing so is fatigue.
Mental and physical vitality is the fuel needed to drive your actions. We
know the importance of time management. Well, motivation is all about
energy management and optimization.
Here are my 10 recommendations for generating limitless brain energy.
For each tip, please rate, on a scale of 1 to 10, how much attention you are
putting into that specific area. You may be surprised by your answers.
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What are your favorite brain foods? How can you incorporate one
more into your daily diet?
I met Mona Sharma when she was featured on Facebook’s Red Table Talk
as the nutritionist for Will Smith and his family, alongside Dr. Mark
Hyman. She shared with me how “the foods we eat can have a big impact
on our energy, the quality of our health, and the function of our brains.
Focusing on key ingredients like good quality omega-3 rich fats, vegetables
loaded with antioxidants and phytonutrients, and spices to enhance our
digestion and focus, and can support both short- and long-term brain
function.” Here’s a sample day of some of her go-to recipes to optimize
brain power and vitality:
Add all ingredients to a blender, blend, and start your day with brain and
body fuel!
Place all salad dressing ingredients (except sesame seeds) into a bowl or
mixing container and blend/shake well. Set aside.
Add the arugula, spinach, pomegranate seeds, and walnuts to a large salad
bowl.
Pour salad dressing on top of the salad and mix together.
Transfer the mixed salad onto two plates. Top each salad with ½ sliced
avocado and 2 sliced eggs. Garnish with sesame seeds. Enjoy!
Line a large sheet pan with parchment paper and preheat the oven to 400
degrees F.
Mix the lemon juice, chopped garlic, and 2 tablespoons olive oil in a small
bowl.
Lay the salmon down in the middle of the sheet pan and pour the lemon–
garlic–olive oil mixture on top of each fillet evenly. Then place the lemon
slices on top of each fillet.
Mix the broccoli florets, 2 tablespoons olive oil, and 1 teaspoon sea salt
together in a large bowl. Place the mixture around each salmon fillet on the
sheet pan.
Place in the preheated oven and bake for 20 minutes.
While the salmon and broccoli are baking, heat the remaining 1 tablespoon
olive oil on low heat in a skillet. Add the chopped shallot, stirring often
until clear and cooked. Add the Swiss chard with 2 tablespoons water to the
skillet and cook for 3 to 5 minutes, stirring occasionally until the chard is
softened. Remove from heat.
Add the salmon, broccoli, and chard to two serving plates. Sprinkle the
broccoli with mustard seed powder to boost anti-inflammatory benefits.
Serve and enjoy!
Heat the almond milk and ginger slices in a medium saucepan over
medium-high heat, stirring occasionally. Bring to a gentle simmer.
Add the cocoa powder, cinnamon, coconut sugar, vanilla, and sea salt and
whisk until dissolved.
Bring to a gentle simmer once again before removing from the heat. Pour
into two mugs, using a strainer to prevent the ginger from going into the
cups. Add one cinnamon stick to each mug and enjoy!
Note: This drink can be served cooled during the summer months. Also, if
serving as a dessert, add one dollop of coconut cream and blend for a
sweeter, frothier taste.
2. BRAIN NUTRIENTS
As we’ve discussed, diet affects brain function. But what if you aren’t able,
because of your schedule or lifestyle, to regularly eat a rich brain-food diet?
Research has shown that particular nutrients have a direct effect on your
cognitive ability. I always prefer getting my nutrients from real, whole,
organic foods. Talk to your qualified health practitioner to learn what you
might be deficient in.
In my podcast episode with Max Lugavere, author of Genius Foods, we
discussed the benefits of supplementing with phospholipid DHA—your
brain uses this to create healthy cell membranes.3 This is important because
our cell membranes form all the receptors involved in mood, executive
functioning, attention, and memory. B vitamins have been shown to
improve women’s memories. Curcumin, the nutrient found in turmeric, can
forestall cognitive decay. You can get a list of nutrients and their effect on
the brain from the National Institutes of Health website.4
There are natural sources for all of these nutrients, but getting all of them
into your diet might not fit your lifestyle or your palate. The good news is
that supplements are readily available for all of these (though not all
supplements are created equal; make sure to do some research). You can
also combine these with the brain foods discussed in this chapter to give
your brain the fuel it needs. For a list and links to my favorite brain
supplements, go to www.LimitlessBook.com/resources.
3. EXERCISE
“Exercise changes the brain in ways that protect memory and thinking
skills,” writes Heidi Godman, the executive editor of the Harvard Health
Letter. “In a study done at the University of British Columbia, researchers
found that regular aerobic exercise, the kind that gets your heart and your
sweat glands pumping, appears to boost the size of the hippocampus, the
brain area involved in verbal memory and learning.”5
I can almost hear some of you complaining or making excuses as you
read that last paragraph: Exercise is boring. You don’t have time for it. You
can’t afford a gym membership. But the simple fact is that exercise is
enormously valuable if you want to unshackle your brain. Think about it:
When you’re active and moving, you feel sharper, right? Some of us even
need to move around in order to get our brains operating at top efficiency.
That’s because there’s a direct correlation between exercise and brain
function. And you don’t need to become an Olympic athlete in order to
keep your brain sharp. There’s lots of evidence to show that even 10
minutes of aerobic exercise a day can have enormous benefits.
As your body moves, your brain grooves. Check out a few of my favorite
exercise videos at www.LimitlessBook.com/resources.
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Set your phone alarm to remind yourself to move for a few minutes
every hour.
4. KILLING ANTS
Dr. Daniel Amen, a clinical neuroscientist, author of the bestseller Change
Your Brain, Change Your Life, and a frequent guest of ours, came home one
night after a particularly bad day at the office dealing with suicide risks,
angst-ridden teens, and dysfunctional couples to find thousands of ants in
his kitchen. “It was gross,” he wrote. “As I started to clean them up, the
acronym came to me. I thought of my patients from that day—like my
infested kitchen, my patients’ brains were also infested by the negative
thoughts that were robbing them of their joy and stealing their happiness.
The next day, I brought a can of ant spray to work as a visual aid and have
been working diligently ever since to help my patients eradicate their
ANTs.”6
ANTs are “automatic negative thoughts” and, if you’re like most people,
you place limitations on yourself in the form of these thoughts at least some
of the time. Maybe you tell yourself that you aren’t smart enough to learn a
skill that you’d really like to have. Or perhaps you repeat on an endless loop
how pushing yourself to accomplish something is only going to lead to
disappointment.
ANTs are everywhere, and there isn’t enough ant spray in the world to
get rid of all of them. But eliminating them from your life is an essential
part of unlimiting your brain. The reason for this is simple: If you fight for
your limitations, you get to keep them. If you regularly tell yourself that
you can’t do something, or that you’re too old to do something, or that you
don’t have the smarts to do something, you won’t do that thing. Only when
you move on from this kind of destructive self-talk can you truly
accomplish what you want to accomplish.
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What is your biggest ANT? What could you replace it with?
5. A CLEAN ENVIRONMENT
A 2018 piece in the medical journal The Lancet identified that “air pollution
might cause 30 percent of all strokes and thus might be one of the leading
contributors of the global stroke burden.” It went on: “Given the strong
association between stroke, vascular risk factors, and dementia, the
suggested link between air pollution and dementia is to be expected.”7 The
air you breathe is critical to the way your brain functions. If you’ve ever
been stuck in a room with a smoker, you know how hard it is to even think
while you’re breathing that toxic air. Conversely, if you’re hiking in the
mountains and take a deep breath from the crisp, clean atmosphere, you can
feel your senses thriving.
If you live in a factory town or a big city with pollutants everywhere,
there isn’t a lot you can do about the air around you. Fortunately, there are
devices available to clean the air in your home and in your office, and you
can make an increased effort to get to cleaner spaces more frequently.
A clean environment goes beyond air quality. Removing clutter and
distractions from your surroundings will make you feel lighter and improve
your ability to focus, so take time to Marie Kondo your mind and remove
any unnecessary stuff.
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What is one thing you can do today to clean your environment?
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Who is someone you need to spend more time with? Reach out and
make a date with that person now.
7. BRAIN PROTECTION
This probably goes without saying, but protecting your brain is critical if
you’re going to make the most of your brain. You have only one brain. If
you were given only one car to use for the rest of your life, how well would
you treat that car? You would take care of it as if your life depended on it.
Accidents are unavoidable, but putting yourself in situations where brain
injury is less likely improves your chances of avoiding the worst. Hard-
contact or extreme sports are not ideal if you want to make the most of this
precious asset. Driving 20 miles an hour over the speed limit all the time on
your motorcycle isn’t advisable, either. If you love these things too much to
give them up, at the very least take as many precautions and use as many
safety tools as you can.
8. NEW LEARNING
One of the most important things you can do for the health of your brain is
to keep learning. We are all capable of expanding the capacities of our
brains, even as we get older, which we discussed when we talked about
neuroplasticity in Chapter 3.
What this means is that, as long as we keep learning, we continue to
create new pathways in our brains. We keep our brains plastic and supple,
capable of processing new information in relevant ways. This is especially
true if we give ourselves genuine challenges in our learning. Attempting to
master a new skill, to discover a new language, to embrace parts of your
culture or the cultures of others that are new to you all keep those neurons
firing and creating new pathways. By increasing the ways you use your
brain, you increase the capabilities of your brain.
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Create an ongoing “To Learn” list. What are some things on that list?
Write two down.
9. STRESS MANAGEMENT
We all experience some level of stress in our everyday lives, sometimes a
great deal of stress. Whenever we experience stress, a hormone known as
cortisol is released to alleviate the physical rigors of stress on our bodies. If
this happens occasionally, it’s not a problem, but if it happens with great
regularity, the buildup of cortisol in our brains can lead it to cease
functioning properly.
But there’s more. “There is evidence that chronic (persistent) stress may
actually rewire your brain,” says a piece on the Harvard Health Blog.
“Scientists have learned that animals that experience prolonged stress have
less activity in the parts of their brain that handle higher-order tasks—for
example, the prefrontal cortex—and more activity in the primitive parts of
their brain that are focused on survival, such as the amygdala. It’s much like
what would happen if you exercised one part of your body and not another.
The part that was activated more often would become stronger, and the part
that got less attention would get weaker. This is what appears to happen in
the brain when it is under continuous stress: it essentially builds up the part
of the brain designed to handle threats, and the part of the brain tasked with
more complex thought takes a back seat.”9
With such clear evidence that stress can be debilitating to your brain,
finding ways to reduce or avoid stress becomes critical. I’m going to offer a
number of suggestions in this area over the course of this book.
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What is your favorite thing to do to cope with stress? When was the
last time you did it?
10. SLEEP
If you want better focus, you need to get good sleep. If you want to be a
clearer thinker, you need to get good sleep. If you want to make better
decisions or have a better memory, you need to get good sleep. According
to the National Institutes of Health:
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What is your top sleep tip? Write it down.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
Fueling your brain is fundamental to becoming limitless, and we have lots
more to get to in order to make this happen. But first, let’s stop and focus on
a few things from this chapter:
Put a shopping list together for all the brain foods you don’t currently
have in your home. I realize that not all of these foods are going to be
compatible with your palate, but really try to include as many as you
can. Then take this list with you to the store.
Spend some time identifying your ANTs. What limitations are you
placing on yourself? Give yourself a few minutes with this. What are
you telling yourself you can’t do? Write this down.
Think about how you’d like to expand your learning. What have you
always wanted to master that you haven’t found the time to master? Is
it a different language? Computer coding? A new sales or marketing
technique? What can you do to fit that into your life right now?
Use one of the tools we talked about here to improve the amount and
quality of your sleep. Keep track of this for at least a week.
I made two videos for you on how to easily memorize the top 10 brain
foods and my 10 brain energizing recommendations. Go to www.Limit
lessBook.com/ resources to watch.
9
BE KIND TO YOURSELF
If you struggle to get something done with some amount of regularity,
there’s a good chance that you feel guilty about this and you beat yourself
up over it. It’s likely you give yourself a much harder time about it than is
helpful. We already know that unfinished tasks create tension in your brain.
If you layer guilt and shame on top of this, you’re making it even harder to
get a task done, and you’re making yourself miserable.
“Feeling guilty when you’re away from work, when you aren’t in a
position to do anything about it, is not helpful, and can be painful,” writes
Dr. Art Markman, a professor of psychology and marketing at University of
Texas, Austin. “It will make you feel worse about your job in general and
spoil time that you could be spending with friends, family, or engaging in
an enjoyable activity. Shame, though, is a different story. There is evidence
that people will explicitly procrastinate to avoid shame. Feeling shame
about work you have not completed is likely to make the problem worse,
not better, making it an emotion that is almost never helpful.”2
Feeling bad about your lack of progress is likely to make it more difficult
for you to stop procrastinating. So, give yourself a break. Beating yourself
up isn’t going to improve anything, and, since you’re reading this book
now, you’re already taking steps to avoid procrastinating in the future.
In my experience, the best way to deal with this is to find a way to break
the task into bite-size pieces, which lead to habits that lead toward success.
Circling back to the Zeigarnik effect, every time you complete one of these
smaller tasks, you get to take that weight off your mind. And as each of
these subtasks is finished, you’re that much closer to completing the task
overall.
A King was watching a great magician perform his act. The crowd
was enthralled and so was the King. At the end, the audience roared
with approval. And the King said, “What a gift this man has. A God-
given talent.”
But a wise counsellor said to the King, “My Lord, genius is made,
not born. This magician’s skill is the result of discipline and practice.
These talents have been learned and honed over time with
determination and discipline.”
The King was troubled by this message. The counsellor’s challenge
had spoiled his pleasure in the magician’s arts. “Limited and spiteful
man. How dare you criticize a true genius. As I said, you either have it
or you don’t. And you most certainly don’t.”
The King turned to his bodyguard and said, “Throw this man into
the deepest dungeon.” And, he added for the counselor’s benefit, “So
you won’t be lonely, you can have two of your kind to keep you
company. You shall have two piglets as cellmates.”
From the very first day of his imprisonment, the wise counselor
practiced running up the steps of his cell to the prison door carrying in
each hand a piglet. As the days turned into weeks, and the weeks into
months, the piglets steadily grew into sturdy boars. And with every
day of practice the wise counselor increased his power and strength.
One day the King remembered the wise counselor and was curious
to see how imprisonment had humbled him. He had the wise counselor
summoned.
When the prisoner appeared, he was a man of powerful physique,
carrying a boar on each arm. The King exclaimed, “What a gift this
man has. A God-given talent.”
The wise counselor replied, “My Lord, genius is made, not born. My
skill is the result of discipline and practice. These talents have been
learned and honed over time with determination and discipline.”4
One of the only things that is likely to change your behavior is to make
incremental progress. You really don’t want to make dinner? Make
something simple for your family to snack on while you cook dinner later.
You’re having trouble writing that big speech for next month’s conference?
Just write the keynote to the speech now. You’re overwhelmed by the
amount of reading you need to do for your economics class? Set a goal for
yourself of reading the first chapter. Like the wise counselor, you must take
it one step at a time, one day at a time.
What you’ll notice in all of these scenarios is two things. One is that they
present you with something achievable—a win on the way to reaching the
championship of getting this job done. The other is that they all put you in a
situation where you’re likely to get even more accomplished. You’re
already in the kitchen now, so you might as well finish making dinner.
You’ve gotten through the keynote and you’re on a roll, so maybe it makes
sense to draft some more pages. The first chapter of your economics text
wasn’t nearly as dry as it seemed from the outside, and you already have the
book open; you can handle a few more chapters.
By breaking a task that you’re procrastinating about into smaller pieces,
the path to getting it done becomes clear.
The best way to deal with the tension between what you want and what
you’ve done so far to achieve it is to remember what the Zeigarnik effect
teaches us. You’re not going to be able to ease your mind about this task
until you complete it, so get yourself moving toward completion. Start
somewhere. Anywhere. Even if you don’t have the energy or the motivation
to get the entire thing done, get started on getting it done. You’ll be thankful
for the relief.
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Think about an important task you’ve been putting off. What is it?
How can you break it down into simpler steps that you can do each
day?
ON AUTOPILOT
Small simple steps repeated lead to habits. Our habits are a core part of who
we are. Various studies have shown that somewhere between 40 and 50
percent of what we do every day is the product of a habit. That means that
half of our lives is governed by what scientists term automaticity. This
percentage might sound high to you—it certainly did to me the first time I
heard it—but consider how many things you do every day without really
thinking about them. You brush your teeth without thinking about it. You
check your phone at predictable intervals. You drive to the office and don’t
particularly recall how you got there. You zip up your jacket, get a glass out
of the cupboard, and click on the TV remote automatically.
This, of course, is essential to how we conduct our lives. Could you
imagine how overwhelming it would be if you had to think about every
single thing you did? If even brushing your teeth required some conscious
level of calculation, you’d be exhausted by 10 in the morning.
“Without habit loops, our brains would shut down, overwhelmed by the
minutiae of daily life,” writes Charles Duhigg in his best-selling book, The
Power of Habit. “People whose basal ganglia are damaged by injury or
disease often become mentally paralyzed. They have trouble performing
basic activities, such as opening a door or deciding what to eat. They lose
the ability to ignore insignificant details—one study, for example, found
that patients with basal ganglia injuries couldn’t recognize facial
expressions, including fear and disgust, because they were perpetually
uncertain about which part of the face to focus on.”5
James Clear, author of the best-selling book Atomic Habits, says, “The
habits you repeat (or don’t repeat) every day largely determine your health,
wealth, and happiness. Knowing how to change your habits means knowing
how to confidently own and manage your days, focus on the behaviors that
have the highest impact, and reverse-engineer the life you want.”6
“All habits serve you in some way,” Clear told me. “As you go through
life, you face a variety of problems. You need to tie your shoe; your brain is
automating the solution to that problem. That’s what a habit is. It’s the
solution to a recurring problem that you face throughout life, one that
you’ve employed so many times that you can do it without thinking. If the
solution doesn’t work anymore, then your brain will update it.”7
Clear identifies the habit loop as having four components: a cue, a
craving, a response, and a reward. Using the example of turning on a light
when you enter a room, the cue is walking into the room and finding it dark.
The craving is feeling that there would be some value in the room not being
dark. The response is flipping on the light switch, and the reward is that the
room is no longer dark.8 You can apply this loop to any of your habits, such
as getting your mail when you come home from work. The cue is reaching
your driveway or front door at the end of the day. The craving is hoping
there’s something in the mailbox. The response is going to the mailbox to
find out. And the reward is getting the mail out of your mailbox. You
probably didn’t think about any of this until you actually had the mail in
your hands.
The Habit Loop
Motivation
We’ve talked about motivation already, but it’s worth revisiting the subject
here to see it from Fogg’s perspective. Fogg identifies three key motivators:
Prompts
Finally, Fogg notes three types of prompts:
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Can you identify the habits you want to break? What is that one habit
that’s holding you back from doing other important things in your
day? Write it down, then identify the prompts that trigger you to
perform that habit.
W is for Want: Make sure you really want it. It’s nearly impossible to
turn something into a habit if you don’t want to do that thing. Does one
of the motivators in the Fogg Model apply to the habit you’re trying to
adopt? If not, is there something close to this habit that might
accomplish something similar for you?
I is for Innate: Does the new habit you’re trying to adopt align well
with your innate abilities? Remember that you’re unlikely to make
something a habit when it is consistently difficult for you to perform.
If the habit you’re trying to adopt is something that you’re good at or
you know you can be good at, you’re well on your way.
N is for Now: Create a prompt for yourself that encourages you to
perform the new habit now. This can be anything from a reminder on
your phone to placing something in your office that makes you
remember to set aside time to do what you’re setting out to do.
GROWING YOUR LIFE ONE HABIT AT A
TIME
In case you’re still wondering how much of an effect establishing good
habits can have on your life, let me share a story about one of our clients.
Xiang suffered from schizophrenia and depression. He often heard voices
telling him to hurt himself or others, and he endured several stints in
psychiatric wards because of this. After finding the right medication and
emerging from his latest round of treatment, he discovered my podcast and
learned some of the tactics that I teach in my school. He started listening on
a regular basis and participated in the Kwik Challenge, a series of exercises
I take people through to introduce novelty to their thinking and therefore
keep their brains tuned for learning.
At first, this was hard for Xiang, but he focused on doing just two
particular challenges: brushing his teeth with his opposite hand and taking a
cold shower every morning. He increased his time under the cold water by
one minute each week and, in doing so, discovered that being able to do
something hard, like standing under freezing cold water for several minutes
each morning, made him realize that there were areas in his life in which he
was fighting for his limitations. Building from these Kwik Challenge
experiences, he started applying what he was learning about habits and
behavior change to other areas.
Xiang’s life improved dramatically. He took his driver’s license test and
passed. He changed his diet, cut out sugary drinks, and started taking a five-
minute jog in the park every morning. He started reading books—the first
being Mindset by Carol Dweck—and as he read, he listened to baroque
music to pace his reading and distract himself from hallucinations. It took
him a month to finish the book, but when he did, he felt a sense of
confidence he had never had before. Trips to the library became a regular
thing. Xiang has even taken his learning to the next level and enrolled in
computer science classes at a local college. And the best part is that he now
believes he is a lifelong learner.
You may think that because of all your past failed attempts to change
your habits and routines you’re doomed to failure forever. Xiang’s story
shows that by changing just one or two small habits in your day, incredible
progress can follow. Something as simple as brushing your teeth with the
opposite hand can be the start to an entirely new way of life.
ESTABLISHING A MORNING ROUTINE
Why is your morning routine so important? I strongly believe that if you
jump-start your day by jump-starting your brain with a series of simple
activities, you have a huge advantage. In addition, if you set up winning
routines early in the day, you can benefit from what Tony Robbins calls “the
science of momentum”: the notion that once you set accomplishment in
motion, you can keep it in motion with much less effort than if you were
trying to accomplish something from a standing start.
I have a carefully developed morning routine to help me win the day that
involves priming my mind. I don’t do every single one of these things every
day, especially when I’m traveling, but I always do most of them, and I
know for certain that it gets me mentally prepared and poised for
performance, productivity, and positivity from the minute I get up.
Let me walk you through a typical morning.
Before I even get out of bed, I spend some time reflecting on my dreams.
Dreams are an expression of the work your subconscious is doing while
you’re sleeping, and there’s gold to be mined from them. Many geniuses
throughout history have regularly accessed and often gleaned their best
ideas and made their greatest discoveries from their dreams. Mary Shelley
came up with the idea for Frankenstein in her dreams. A dream was the
source of Paul McCartney’s “Yesterday,” and Einstein’s theory of relativity.
So, the first thing I do every morning, even before lifting my head from
the pillow, is think back on my dreams to see if there’s an idea or a
perception or a new way of looking at something that can be useful to what
I’m trying to accomplish. I know that some of you have trouble recalling
your dreams, so I’m going to provide you with a quick mnemonic technique
designed to help you do so. Just think of the word DREAMS:
The first thing I do after I get out of bed is make the bed. This is a
success habit, my first accomplishment of the day. It’s an easy win, and it
has the added advantage of making my bedtime more pleasant, because it’s
always nicer to return that night to a bed that is made. It’s why, in the
military, they train you to make your bed first thing in the morning, because
it sets you up to be excellent at everything you do.
After that, I have a tall glass of water. Hydration is so important first
thing in the morning because our bodies lose a lot of water while we sleep
through the simple act of breathing. Remember: Our brains are
approximately 75 percent water, so if we’re going to fire up our brains, we
need to be well hydrated. I also have a glass of celery juice, which boosts
the immune system, helps flush toxins from the liver, and helps restore the
adrenal glands (hat tip to Anthony William, the Medical Medium, for this
idea). Right after this, I’ll take my probiotics to make sure my second brain
is getting what it needs.
Then I brush my teeth with my opposite hand. I do this to train my brain
to do difficult things, because it stimulates a different part of your brain,
and because it forces me to be present. I can’t be doing other things in order
to do this well.
Then I do a three-minute workout. This is not my full workout, but I
want to get my heart rate up first thing in the morning, as it helps with sleep
and weight management, and with oxygenation to the brain.
Once I’m finished with that, I take a cold shower. I’m sure some of you
will cringe at the idea of starting the day pummeling yourself with cold
water, but cold therapies of this type do a great job of resetting the nervous
system and have the added benefit of helping manage any inflammation.
When I’m out of the shower, I go through a series of breathing exercises
to fully oxygenate my body. Then I do about 20 minutes of meditation to
give me a clear mind as I enter the day. The process I use, Ziva Meditation,
was developed by my meditation coach, Emily Fletcher, a three-step
process that involves mindfulness, meditation, and manifestation. To watch
a video of it, go to www.LimitlessBook.com/resources.
Next, I make my “brain tea,” a combination of gotu kola, ginkgo, lion’s
mane, MCT oil, and a few other things. Then I’ll sit down to spend some
time journaling, getting my first thoughts of the day down on the page. My
goal in any given day is to accomplish three things for work and three
things personally, and I set this agenda now. I follow this with about a half
hour of reading. I set a goal to read a minimum of one book a week and
making this a part of my morning routine to keep me on course.
Finally, I drink my “brain smoothie,” a combination of many of the brain
foods we discussed earlier in this chapter (no salmon here, in case you were
wondering).
Now, admittedly, this routine requires a good deal of time. As I
mentioned, I can’t get to all of it every day, and I can appreciate if it seems
like more than you can handle, particularly if you need to get others started
on their day. But if your goal in reading this book is upgrading your brain,
then some variation on a morning routine of this type is an integral part of
the process. Here are the keys:
Check in on your dreams before you get out of bed. There’s so much
gold to mine here, so I strongly recommend that you not skip this step.
Get yourself hydrated and oxygenated.
Nourish yourself with some of the brain foods mentioned in this
chapter.
Set a plan for the day.
If you do at least these four things, you’ll be well on your way to revving
up your brain to operate at a high-octane level. Build as many of these
things into the start of your day as you can. The most important thing is
having a productive morning routine. I can’t stress enough how much of an
impact getting your day off to the right start has on how the day goes for
you overall.
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Create your new morning routine. Remember, it doesn’t have to be a
lot. Even a simple three-step routine can help jump-start your
morning. What are the three things you will always do when you first
wake up to set up your day to win? Write them down.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
None of us would be able to live without habits, of course, but consciously
working to bring constructive new habits into your life and to replace bad
habits with better ones will take your superpowers to a new level. Before
you move on to the next chapter, here are a few things to do:
Bolster your understanding of the habit loop by thinking about the four
components of some of your most common habits, like making your
breakfast or taking the dog for a walk. What’s the cue, the craving, the
response, and the reward for each of these?
Spend a few minutes thinking about a habit that you’d love to replace
with a more constructive one. Using the Fogg Behavioral Model, what
new behavior can you adopt that fits neatly into the model?
Walk yourself through the process of starting a valuable new habit
using WIN.
10
FLOW
Why is flow so important to becoming limitless?
How do I achieve a flow state?
What are the key enemies of flow?
I’m sure there have been times when you were so completely caught up in
what you were doing that everything else disappeared and it just felt like the
most natural thing you’ve ever done. Time probably melted away for you
during these experiences. People regularly tell me about focusing so deeply
on what they were doing that they had no idea that afternoon had become
night or that they’d missed multiple meals in the process.
This experience is flow.
In his groundbreaking book, Flow: The Psychology of Optimal
Experience, psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi describes flow as “the
state in which people are so involved in an activity that nothing else seems
to matter; the experience itself is so enjoyable that people will do it even at
great cost, for the sheer sake of doing it.” To Csikszentmihalyi, flow is an
expression of “optimal experience.”1
Dr. Csikszentmihalyi describes flow as having eight characteristics:2
1. Absolute concentration
2. Total focus on goals
3. The sense that time is either speeding up or slowing down
4. A feeling of reward from the experience
5. A sense of effortlessness
6. The experience is challenging, but not overly so
7. Your actions almost seem to be happening on their own
8. You feel comfort with what you are doing
Stage 1: Struggle
This is when you’re digging deep to access whatever it is that you need to
reach the flow state. It could be a workout regimen, extensive research, an
intense bout of brainstorming, or anything else that you are focusing on.
Warning: This often feels like a struggle and, in fact, the opposite of flow.
Stage 2: Relaxation
This is the break you take before fully diving into flow. It is an essential
step, as it keeps you from burning out over the struggle you’ve just been
through. This break—a walk, some breathing, anything that helps you relax
—is decidedly different from a distraction such as moving on to another
task or checking sports scores.
Stage 3: Flow
This is the stage that Kotler describes as “the superman experience.” This is
that flow state that hopefully you’ve experienced at various points in your
life, where you’re doing your absolute best work and it almost seems to be
happening automatically.
Stage 4: Consolidation
In this final stage you pull together everything you accomplished during the
flow stage. Often, this is accompanied by feeling somewhat let down. All
kinds of positive chemicals have been running through your brain while
you’re in flow, and now that high is ending. But another cycle can be
waiting just around the corner.
Kotler believes that finding flow is the “source code” of motivation.
When you find flow, you get “maybe the most potent dose of reward
chemistry” your brain can give you—which is the reason he believes flow
is the most addictive state on Earth. Once we start to feel flow in an
experience, we are motivated to do what it takes to get more. But it’s a
circular relationship—if you have motivation to accomplish a task but you
have no flow, you will eventually burn out. Motivation and flow need to
work together, and they must be coupled with a solid recovery protocol, like
good sleep and nutrition.
KWIK START
Have you ever experienced the flow state? Where were you? What
were you doing? How did it feel? What did you achieve at the end of
it? Visualize that state. Even if you can’t visualize, imagine that you
can.
FINDING FLOW
If you’re going to become limitless, you’re going to want to get yourself
into a flow state as often as possible. So how do you do this? I can offer five
ways:
1. Eliminate Distractions
Earlier, we talked about the importance of keeping distractions to a
minimum. If you’re going to find yourself in a flow state, eliminating
distractions is absolutely essential. It can take you up to 20 minutes to
reconnect with what you’re doing after you’ve been distracted from doing
it. How are you ever going to get into the flow if you’re constantly
rebooting because a text drew away your attention, or because you just
wanted to make a quick check of social media before you got back to work?
So, put everything else aside and concentrate completely on what you’re
doing.
1. Multitasking
We’ve talked about this before, even in this chapter, but it bears repeating.
Being a “master multitasker” is not synonymous with being limitless. In
fact, research repeatedly shows that people who multitask are considerably
less productive than those who focus on one task at a time. Given what you
now know about flow, it should be obvious that multitasking is the mortal
enemy of this feeling. You’re never going get into the flow state to craft that
epic solo or create that jaw-dropping presentation if you’re also checking in
with colleagues, sending off a quick note to a friend, and reading your
company e-mail. The only way to vanquish the supervillain Multitask is to
ignore him completely. Clear your schedule of everything else and get into
the flow.
2. Stress
This is a particularly deadly supervillain and one that sometimes requires a
monumental battle to defeat. If you have lots of outside stressors in your
life—deadlines, relationship issues, family problems, worries about your
job security, etc.—they’re likely to sneak up on you at any given moment.
I’m sure you’ve had the experience of thinking about something entirely
different when you’re suddenly ambushed by an anxious reminder that
you’re facing some troubles at home. Once that thought is in your head, any
opportunities for flow are crushed. Defeating this supervillain requires two
expert moves. The first is to look the supervillain in the eye before you start
and ask yourself if there’s anything that you absolutely must deal with
before you can get into flow. If the answer is yes, address that first. But in
all likelihood, the answer will be no. It isn’t that the stressors aren’t real, but
they often don’t need your immediate attention, and they aren’t going to be
worse two hours from now. If that’s the case, contend with this supervillain
by putting up your force field. Make your space impenetrable by outside
stressors so you can concentrate completely on the task at hand.
3. Fear of Failure
“Perfectionism reduces creativity and innovation,” writes Hara Estroff
Marano, editor at large and the former editor in chief of Psychology Today.
“It is a steady source of negative emotions; rather than reaching toward
something positive, those in its grip are focused on the very thing they most
want to avoid—negative evaluation. Perfectionism, then, is an endless
report card; it keeps people completely self-absorbed, engaged in perpetual
self-evaluation—reaping relentless frustration and doomed to anxiety and
depression.”5 If you go into a task with the belief that you absolutely must
perform this task perfectly and that failure will be devastating, you’re going
to be so focused on not failing that you’ll never get into a state where you
can truly excel.
Remember earlier when we talked about how one of the ideal conditions
for flow is pushing yourself just a little outside of your comfort zone? When
you do this, you increase the odds that you’re not going to get everything
right the first time. If you allow the supervillain of perfectionism to master
you at this point, your flow will be forfeited. To best this villain, you need
to convince yourself that lack of perfection is not only okay but is a clear
sign that you’re pushing yourself in ways that you must.
4. Lack of Conviction
Nearly as devilish a supervillain as perfectionism is a lack of belief in what
you’re doing. “The brain perceives uncertainty as a threat, which sparks the
release of cortisol, a stress hormone that disrupts memory, depresses the
immune system, and increases the risk of high blood pressure and
depression,” writes Travis Bradberry, president of TalentSmart.6
If you don’t believe you’re going to accomplish anything of importance,
you’ll guarantee that will be the outcome. If you go into a task doubting
your ability to complete it, ask yourself these questions: Do I have the
necessary skills to do this? Do I have all the information I need to do this?
Do I have enough passion for this project to do this? If the answer to any of
these is no, set the task aside until you can answer each of these questions
in the affirmative. But if the answer to all three of these questions is yes,
take this supervillain down and get into the flow.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
The flow experience is one of the greatest highs any of us will ever
experience. It is also fundamental to becoming limitless. By this point, you
should have a better sense of what flow is and how to get there. Before we
move on, take a little time to try out the following:
Reflect on a few times you’ve been in the flow. What were you doing?
What was consistent about those experiences? How can you get back
there more often?
Take out your calendar and find a spot in the next few days where you
can carve out 90 minutes to two hours. This needs to be a time when
you can free yourself of all distractions. Now, what are you going to do
with that time to dramatically boost your productivity?
How often do you go into a project with one of the supervillains we
talked about in this chapter stalking you? What can you do right now
to defeat that supervillain before going into your next project?
PART IV
LIMITLESS METHODS
THE HOW
method
meth·od (noun)
A specific process for accomplishing something, especially an orderly,
logical, or systematic way of instruction.
By this point, you’ve discovered how to unleash two of the elements
necessary to become limitless. You’ve learned how to approach every day
with a productive mindset, and you’ve learned how to do so with an optimal
level of motivation. But there’s one more M that differentiates limitless
people from those who are encumbered by their limitations: method.
Methods are the procedures or processes for accomplishing something. In
this context, method is the process of learning how to learn, also called
meta learning. When we go through the education system, we are taught
very antiquated and inefficient ways of learning, such as sub-vocalization
and rote memorization. As I mentioned at the start of this book, when I was
struggling as “the boy with the broken brain,” I wasn’t incapable of
learning; history has shown that. But I wasn’t succeeding at learning in the
way I was being taught. It wasn’t until I mastered a new way of learning—a
method you will see over the course of the coming chapters—that I could
finally use my brain to excel.
In this section, you’re going to learn the science of accelerated learning
and meta learning in five areas: focus, study, memory, speed reading, and
thinking. These are the five flagship programs that we teach to individuals
and organizations at Kwik Learning. Take special note of the lead-in
questions at the start of these chapters, and make sure to try out all the
exercises I’ve included. Once you start using these tools, I think you’ll find
yourself using them all the time—and I think you’ll be amazed at what they
unlock for you.
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FOCUS
What can I learn from what I’m like when I’m most focused?
How can I increase my ability to concentrate?
How do I limit my distractions and calm my busy mind?
KWIK START
Rate your current level of concentration from 0 to 10. Now rate your
desire to increase this level. Your concentration is like a muscle. You
can train to become stronger with practice.
PRACTICING CONCENTRATION
“Concentration is at the crux of all human success and endeavor,” Hindu
priest, entrepreneur, and former monk Dandapani told me during one of my
podcasts. “If you can’t concentrate, you can’t manifest.”1 What Dandapani
is saying is that concentration is a critical component of anything you want
to accomplish. But, like so many other things we’ve discussed already,
we’ve never really been taught how to concentrate. Sure, our parents and
our teachers might have implored us to concentrate harder, maybe even
criticizing our lack of focus with a question such as, “Why can’t you just
concentrate?” But the simple answer to that is that most of us never learned
how.
Dandapani points out that concentration is like a muscle that gets
stronger the more you exercise it. “Concentration is something you can
learn and something you can practice to get better at,” he said.2 However,
what most of us practice instead is distraction. We allow our minds to jump
from thought to thought, often using technology to help us practice
distraction until we’re experts at it—and we should be, because we often
get a dozen or more hours of practice a day. Just imagine what it would be
like if we practiced concentration for even a fraction of that time.
Dandapani has a remarkably clear way of looking at this. “I define
concentration as my ability to keep my awareness on one thing for an
extended period of time. Every time my concentration drifts, I use my will
power to bring my awareness back.”3
Most of us think of lack of concentration as a function of our mind
bouncing from place to place. Dandapani has a different—and more helpful
—metaphor. To him, it isn’t your mind that’s moving; it’s your awareness.
He sees awareness as a glowing ball of light that moves to different parts of
your mind. In order to excel at concentration, you need to make yourself
keep that ball of light trained on one spot in your mind for an extended
period. This won’t be easy at first, but a conscious effort to exercise your
will power in this way is likely to lead to impressive results.
You can work on this during nearly any pursuit. If you’re having a
conversation with someone, make a concerted effort to pay attention to
nothing other than that conversation. If you notice your awareness drifting
away from the conversation, refocus your glowing ball of light. If you’re
reading a report for work, train your eyes on the words as though nothing
else exists. Again, if you notice the light of your awareness beginning to
shine on something else, bring that ball back to the report. If you make the
commitment to practice concentration an hour or so a day, it will soon
become second nature.
Whenever possible, try to do one thing at a time. We’ve talked a bit about
multitasking already, but for now just remember that multitasking is a
grossly inefficient way to get anything done. If at all feasible, allow
yourself to do whatever you’re doing to the exclusion of everything else. If
you’re on the phone, don’t scroll through social media at the same time. If
you’re making breakfast, don’t also work on your to-do list for the day. By
doing one thing at a time, your concentration “muscle” will become
incredibly strong, and your focus will reach limitless levels.
Another key to boosting your concentration is de-cluttering your
environment. A Princeton University study found that, “Multiple stimuli
present in the visual field at the same time compete for neural
representation by mutually suppressing their evoked activity throughout the
visual cortex, providing a neural correlate for the limited processing
capacity of the visual system.”4 In layperson’s terms, what this means is
that physical clutter in your surroundings competes for your attention,
which results in decreased performance and increased anxiety and stress
levels.
So, if you want to become a master at concentration, divest yourself of
the potential for distraction whenever concentration is critical. If you’re
working on your computer, shut down every application and every open tab
other than the ones you absolutely need to perform the task at hand. Limit
the number of items in your physical workspace as well. While I think
many of us consider a desk piled with books, magazines, papers, pictures of
our kids, and souvenirs from our vacations to be cozy or even the sign of an
active mind, every single one of those items creates a pull away from your
concentration. Family heirlooms are wonderful, and you already know how
I feel about books. Just limit the number of these things that share residence
with the place where you need to be most productive.
1. Breathe
We’ve already talked about the value of taking deep cleansing breaths as
part of your morning routine. But doing the same thing is valuable
whenever you need to re-center yourself. Holistic health expert Andrew
Weil, M.D., developed a breathing tool that he calls the 4–7–8 Method. It
works like this:
This is one breath. Now inhale again and repeat the cycle three more
times for a total of four breaths.9
KWIK START
What is that one important thing that you’re avoiding that is affecting
your focus?
KWIK START
Schedule your next distraction time.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
Unlimiting your focus is a key to unleashing your superpowers. When your
mind is truly focused, when you’re completely throwing yourself at a task,
you achieve at levels that are impossible when you’re distracted or divided
in your thoughts. Before we move on from this chapter, let’s try a few
things:
Take a good look at your to-do list and identify the thing (or things) on
it that is likely to invade your thoughts until you get it done. Formulate
a plan for dealing with that task using some of the antiprocrastination
tools you now have.
Do something right now that changes your productivity environment
so you can do a better job of staying on task.
Practice a technique for calming your busy mind. Does it work for
you? If so, commit to using it regularly.
12
STUDY
If I’m going to be a lifelong student,
how can I optimize my study time?
One Friday night, after a very busy workweek, I received a call. The person
on the other end of the phone told me that we had a common friend and that
this friend had suggested he reach out to me.
“Sure, how can I help you?” I said.
For the first 30 seconds of our call, this man had seemed entirely calm.
But with that question, his voice became more animated.
“You’ve gotta help me, please. My speaker can’t make it out tomorrow
because of an emergency. He was supposed to give our keynote.”
I told him that I was sorry to hear about his predicament but that I didn’t
take speaking assignments on the spur of the moment. I usually booked
speaking gigs six months in advance, and I always gave myself time to
prepare for them.
That didn’t deter this caller. He said that our mutual friend had raved
about speeches he’d seen me give and that if anyone could deliver a strong
presentation on short notice it was me.
“Please save me,” he said with even more emotion in his voice.
This guy’s plight was starting to get to me. I happened to be free on
Saturday, and the conference he was throwing was in Manhattan, where I
lived. I decided to ask him the topic of the keynote. When he told me, I
stared at the phone as though the caller were speaking to me in an alien
language.
“Why are you calling me about this?” I said. “I know nothing about that
topic.”
“Yes, but the speaker who canceled has a book.”
“I’m not sure how that matters.”
The caller responded so quickly that it was clear he’d already prepared
this argument. “I’ve heard you’re a speed reader. I was thinking you could
come in a little early, study the book, and then give the speech.”
This scenario was so completely outlandish that I did the only thing I
could do under the circumstances: I took the engagement. How could I turn
down a challenge like that? We agreed on the particulars, he told me a bit
more about the audience to whom I’d be speaking, and then I hung up,
asking myself what just happened.
I got to the conference center the next morning at 10 A.M. The man who’d
called the night before handed me a copy of the book and set me up in a
quiet room. I was to deliver the keynote at 1 P.M. Over the next three hours, I
read the book, made a ton of notes, and laid out the basic parameters of the
presentation I was about to give. I then went up on stage and gave a keynote
that turned out to be the most highly rated talk of the conference. I was
exhausted, but I have to admit that the entire experience was quite the rush.
You are unlikely to ever find yourself in a situation like this. But as
outrageous as the caller’s request had been, I knew I could do this, because
with competence comes confidence. I’m not saying this to to impress you;
I’m saying it to express to you what’s possible. To illustrate to you how any
sense of constraint fades when you’ve learned how to absorb a subject in a
sitting, remember what you’ve learned, have the ability to highlight the
most essential points, and have an understanding of how people learn—in
other words, many of the things we’re discussing in this book.
I never would have been able to deliver that particular keynote if I hadn’t
been a quick study. And just like the other skills we’ve been addressing
here, this isn’t an ability you either do or don’t have. Instead, it’s an ability
you’ve either cultivated or haven’t. You can learn how to unlimit your
studies. And when you do, it’ll be a superpower you’ll employ the rest of
your life.
KWIK START
Think about a topic or subject you’d like to learn this month. How
would you go about studying this topic? What’s your current approach
or process?
Make sure you have enough study time to allow yourself to go through
this process multiple times. As Klemm points out, the studies showed that
“optimal learning occurred when an initial learning session included
repeated study and forced-recall testing of all items at least four times in a
row.”4 This leads me to the next important habit to adopt.
KWIK START
While you are sitting in a chair, slump over, look down, take short
breaths, and put a frown on your face. Do this now. How motivated do
you feel to achieve success? How productive do you think you are in
this state? This is the posture a lot of students take while studying. Is it
any wonder they dislike studying and have to work hard to achieve
bare minimum results? Now sit up straight and smile. How much
better do you feel?
T is for Think: Before you begin any session where you’re going to
be taking notes, think about what you’re hoping to retain most from
this session. This will help you filter the high-value information from
the information that is less relevant to your goal.
I is for Identify: Listen carefully to the information being presented
and identify what is most important in the context of your goal.
Remember that attempting to write down everything is going to make
it impossible to process the information at the time and will probably
make studying harder. Identify what you need the most and write that
down.
P is for Prioritize: As you review your notes after the presentation,
prioritize the information that is most valuable to you, perhaps adding
additional notes as necessary to make the priority information clearer
or making an outline to highlight key points.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
If you acknowledge that unlimiting yourself means being a student for life,
then how you go about your studies is vitally important. Before we move on
to the next chapter, let’s try a few things:
Take your active recall out for a spin. Introduce yourself to some new
material and immediately assess how much of it you retained.
Find a music playlist that works for you. There are many of them
available, and the right music is likely to enhance your ability to
absorb information, so take some time to find one that you like. Maybe
you’ll even want to have it in the background while you read the rest
of this book.
Try out your new note-taking tools. Maybe go through this chapter
again and take notes about it. Or watch a TED talk and take notes on
that instead. Use the skills you’ve learned here to upgrade this
experience.
13
MEMORY
What can I do to improve my memory right away?
A few years back, I walked into our office early in the morning, before anyone else had
come in. The phone started ringing, so I went to answer it. Immediately, a woman’s
effusive voice sang out from the other end.
“I love you, I love you, I love you!”
Trust me that this was not a common response I received to answering a call.
“Whoa,” I said. “Who is this?”
“It’s Anne. I took your course.” She then quickly declared, “I found it!”
Okay, she had me. “What did you find?”
“I don’t know what it is, but I’ve been doing all of these exercises you’ve been
teaching, and I’ve started to remember things. Even when I’m not using the strategy,
I’m remembering names and conversations.”
So, she hadn’t answered that question, either. I realized I was just going to have to let
her tell her story the way she wanted to tell it. Over the next few minutes, I learned that
a few years earlier she’d been given a family heirloom from her grandmother. It was a
necklace that had been passed down from generation to generation, and her
grandmother skipped over her own daughter and her three older sisters to bequeath the
necklace to her. Anne was extremely honored to receive this gift and vowed to be
careful with it. There was only one problem: She’d been so concerned about keeping
the necklace safe that she’d hidden it somewhere that she couldn’t remember. When
she realized she didn’t know where the necklace was, she started searching, but to no
avail. This led to monumental levels of angst and an enormous amount of guilt
compounded by her family.
After three years, she’d come to the conclusion that she’d either misplaced the
heirloom forever or that someone had stolen it. Then, at 2 A.M. the morning of this call,
she woke up out of a dead sleep. She went down two flights of stairs to her basement,
ran over to the boiler, moved behind it, and reached into a crevasse there. She pulled
out the necklace and nearly died from the relief.
“That’s an amazing story, congratulations,” I said to her. “I’m curious, though. I
didn’t teach you how to find misplaced items. That’s not one of the things we’ve
covered in our classes.”
“Yes, but you did something way more valuable. I don’t know what it is, but for the
past few weeks I’m just remembering all kinds of things. Not just in the present, but
stuff I hadn’t thought about for years.
“Jim, thank you for giving me my brain back.”
What Anne was illustrating through her excitement is something I’ve been sharing
with people for a long time. Yes, your brain is an organ. But it acts like a muscle. And it
most significantly resembles a muscle in that it’s a use-it-or-lose-it device. Our brains
stay fit only when we make a concerted effort to keep them fit. If we fail to keep our
brains in shape—either through laziness or being overly dependent on technology to do
our thinking for us or by failing to challenge ourselves with new learning—it becomes
“flabby.” Think about it this way: If you have your arm in a sling for six months, you
don’t come away with a stronger arm. In fact, after you take the arm out of a sling,
you’re likely to have very little function at all. Your brain is the same way. If you don’t
exercise it regularly, it might not be at its best when you need it the most. But if you
make the effort to keep your brain in top shape, you’ll discover that it’s always ready to
do superhero-level work for you, just as it did for this caller.
If you’re going to perform a major upgrade on your brain, you’re going to want to
unlimit your memory, as memory is such a fundamental part of most brain function.
Since that’s the case, let me reassure you with a very important fact: There’s no such
thing as a good memory or a bad memory; there is only a trained memory and an
untrained memory. If you have trouble remembering people’s names, making
presentations without notes, or even finding your car keys in the morning, it’s
extremely unlikely that this is because you’re incapable of doing these things. Instead,
you just haven’t gotten the training.
Joshua Foer is proof positive that memory can be trained. In 2005, Joshua was a
journalist who had taken on the assignment of writing about the little-known world of
mental athletes. Fascinated by what he saw in elite memorization contests, he wanted to
discover more about the participants. To his surprise, he learned that almost every
participant he interviewed described themselves as having a poor or average memory
before they learned and practiced the principles of memorization. Now they were
competing at the highest levels of these contests.
It dawned on Foer that there were no restrictions to memory and that memory can be
trained just like athletic skill. He began to practice what he learned. One year later, he
returned to the U.S.A. Memory Championship but this time as a competitor. The day of
the event, we had lunch together between competitions and marveled at the fact that
often what appears to be genius can actually be learned. Later that day, Foer placed
number one and took home the trophy. He went on to write the groundbreaking book
Moonwalking with Einstein: The Art and Science of Remembering Everything.
Why is memory so important if you’re going to unlimit yourself? Because your
memory serves as the foundation for every action you take now and every one you will
take in the future. Imagine what it would be like if your computer had very little storage
or had inconsistent access to what it had stored. Most functions would be nearly
impossible to perform—you’d start to write an e-mail message, and your computer
might or might not have the addressee among your contacts and might or might not
remember how to send the message after you’d written it—and the ones that it did
perform would take excruciatingly long while your computer figured out how to do it.
While I’ve likened our brains to supercomputers, we all know that they’re so much
more than that. Perhaps the most significant difference is our ability to reason, to
consider the facts or the situation in front of us, and to act, innovate, or navigate
through circumstances based on those facts and situations. The process of reasoning
requires us to shift through our rich store of memories, using tools that have proven
useful in the past to make informed and productive decisions.
“It is impossible to think creatively into the future without a sense of what is
known,” writes Dr. Eve Marder, professor of neuroscience at Brandeis University. “We
commonly say that we are looking for interdisciplinary and synthetic thinkers who can
make connections between disparate fields and see new paths for discovery. I cannot
imagine finding those creative leaders for the future among the legions of students who
forget everything they have learned because they can ‘just look it up.’ How does one
know what to look up if one has forgotten so much?”1
Dr. William R. Klemm, who we met in Chapter 12, gives us five reasons why
improving memory is essential:
1. Memorization is discipline for the mind. Much needed in an age when so many
minds are lazy, distracted, have little to think about, or think sloppily.
Memorization helps train the mind to focus and be industrious.
2. No, you can’t always “Google it.” Sometimes you don’t have access to the
Internet. And not everything of importance is on the web (and a great deal of
irrelevant trash will accompany any search). Nor is looking up material helpful
under such situations as when you learn to use a foreign language, must write or
speak extemporaneously, or wish to be an expert.
3. Memorization creates the repertoire of what we think about. Nobody can think
in a vacuum of information. To be an expert in any field requires knowledge that
you already have.
4. We think with the ideas held in working memory, which can only be accessed
at high speed from the brain’s stored memory.Understanding is nourished by
the information you hold in working memory as you think. Without such
knowledge, we have a mind full of mush.
5. The exercise of the memory develops learning and memory schema that
promote improved ability to learn. The more you remember, the more you can
learn.2
I want to emphasize this last point. It’s not accurate that your memory works like a
container, cup, or hard drive in that once it’s full of data no more can fit. It’s more like a
muscle in that the more you train it, the stronger it gets and the more you can store.
In this chapter, we’re going to discuss some tools and techniques designed to train
your memory. You will be applying basic principles of the mind and developing your
memory in such a way that will make learning (remembering) more natural, easy, and
fun. The most fundamental of these, though, is this: always remember MOM, a
mnemonic device I created to kick up your memory instantly:
M is for Motivation: The simple fact is that we are considerably more likely to
remember things that we are motivated to remember. If someone says to you,
“Hey, remember our call tomorrow,” you may or may not remember that you’ve
scheduled a call with that person. If instead he says, “Hey, if you remember our
call tomorrow, I’ll give you $5,000,” you will definitely remember that you’ve
scheduled the call. You are overwhelmingly more likely to remember something
when you have a strong motivation to do so. So, if you want to train yourself to
have a stronger memory, give yourself a stronger motivation to do so. Reasons
reap results, so make remembering personal. If you can convince yourself that
there’s value in retaining a memory, there’s a good chance that you will.
O is for Observation: How often do you forget someone’s name as soon as you
hear it? The reason is likely that you weren’t entirely paying attention when you
heard that name. Maybe you were looking around the room to see who else you
knew. Maybe you were still thinking about a conversation you’d just had. For
whatever reason, you weren’t entirely present. Most of the time, when we fail to
remember something, the issue isn’t retention but rather attention. If you’re
serious about boosting your memory, condition yourself to be truly present in any
situation where you want to remember something.
M is for Methods: Over the course of this chapter, I’m going to provide you with
a set of tools that you’ll be able to use when you want to remember something.
Make sure you’re always carrying these around in your mental toolkit, and be sure
to employ them to the point where they become second nature.
When you hear that the man in the photo is a baker, that fact gets embedded in a
whole network of ideas about what it means to be a baker: He cooks bread, he
wears a big white hat, he smells good when he comes home from work.
The name Baker, on the other hand, is tethered only to a memory of the person’s
face. That link is tenuous, and should it dissolve, the name will float off
irretrievably into the netherworld of lost memories. But when it comes to the
man’s profession, there are multiple strings to reel the memory back in.
Even if you don’t at first remember that the man is a baker, perhaps you get
some vague sense of breadiness about him or see some association between his
face and a big white hat, or maybe you conjure up a memory of your own
neighborhood bakery. There are any number of knots in that tangle of associations
that can be traced back to his profession.3
What the Baker/baker Paradox illustrates for us is that creating associations for
ourselves is likely to boost our memories dramatically. The exercises on the following
pages are tools along these lines that I have found particularly effective.
Balloon Knight
Battery Ox
Barrel Toothpaste
Board Sign
What was the method you used to remember this list? Did you repeat the words in
your head over and over? For instance, were you saying to yourself “fire hydrant,
balloon, battery, fire hydrant, balloon, battery, fire hydrant, balloon, battery, barrel,
etc.” Did you find that you needed to repeatedly say the words over and over again,
until they stayed in your head? Did you try to see the words as pictures in your mind?
Most people use one or a combination of the first two methods described. The process
of repeatedly saying or writing information down to remember it is called repetition
learning, otherwise known as rote learning.
You may have used rote learning in the second grade to remember your
multiplication tables. You would say to yourself “seven times seven is forty-nine, seven
times seven is forty-nine, seven times seven . . . .” Or you may have written it out “7 ×
7 = 49, 7 × 7 = 49, 7 × 7 = 49,” and would continue to fill up your sheet of paper. This
is also most likely the method you used in elementary school to learn how to spell.
Your teacher may have asked you to spell a word like chair 50 times on a piece of
paper. What was happening was your natural learning ability was being stifled. You
bored your mind continually with this method until it finally gave up and said You win!
For the 100th time, Columbus landed in 1492, just no more of this chanting!
Most people find rote learning to be a very tedious and boring process. It taxes your
mind and is extremely ineffective for remembering most things. We know that as much
as 85 percent of the information you take the time to remember in this fashion is lost in
only 48 hours. That is why some students find the need to cram, because they know
that the material will be lost in a very short period of time.
ELEMENTARY LEARNING
One of the reasons rote learning is inefficient is because it only involves a small part of
your brain. You’re using a more analytical part of your brain to process information and
store what you need to learn. By implementing rote learning, you only engage part of
your mind and an even smaller portion of your potential.
In the traditional education system, you probably learned this way in such topics as:
History: “Calvin Coolidge was the 30th president of the United States, Coolidge
30, 30 Coolidge . . .”
Chemistry: “Glucose C6H12O6, Glucose C6H12O6, Glucose C6H12O6 . . .”
French: “Comment allez-vous means ‘how are you?’ Comment allez-vous means
‘how are you?’ Comment allez-vous is ‘how are you?’ . . .”
The list goes on and on and on and on. The question you must ask yourself now: “Is
the way I learned in elementary school the best method for me to learn today?” The
answer is most likely no. In school, they taught you the three Rs: reading, ’riting, and
’rithmatic (too bad spelling wasn’t one of them). I always thought the fourth R should
have been recall. Your requirements for learning have changed a lot over the years.
Repetition learning had some decent results when you were younger, but in today’s
world, it will leave you drowning in information and mental fatigue. (Note: The word
rote literally means “an unthinking repetition or mechanical memorization.”)
In this section I’m going to show you the skills to remember more effectively than
you ever thought possible. These skills will help you to replace the feeling of hoping
you’ll remember with the feeling of confidence in knowing that the information you
possess will be available, whenever you need it.
Now, take a minute and, without looking back, try to recall the list in the order it was
presented. Write down as much as you can remember. Take a minute and do this now.
How did you do? If you are like most people, you probably were able to retain a few
of the words on the list.
KWIK START
Now let’s try something else. Take a minute and stretch. Take a few deep breaths.
Clear your mind and relax more with every breath that leaves your body. Just take
a moment and relax. When you are done, continue.
Next, make sure you are comfortable and imagine you’re standing next to a giant fire
hydrant, the biggest one you’ve ever seen. Now, attach a bunch of balloons on top of
the fire hydrant. There are so many balloons that it takes the hydrant out of the ground
so it floats up high in the sky. Then suddenly it is hit with a load of batteries and
explodes. The batteries are being launched into the sky in large barrels. The barrels are
being thrown up with a wooden board like a seesaw. The board is being balanced by a
large diamond, a big brilliant sparkling stone. Then a knight in shining armor takes the
diamond and runs away. He’s quickly stopped by an ox. The only way to get through is
to brush the teeth of the ox with toothpaste. The ox moves aside and reveals a big neon
sign with the word Congratulations on it, and then there is a huge explosion.
Now take a minute, close your eyes and review this little story. You may read the
story again if you need to. Do this now before continuing.
KWIK START
Without looking back, write the story down.
As you may be aware, we turned your list into a story. Now go through the story in
your mind and list as many of the words as you can remember. Check your answers and
write down the number you got correct.
How did you perform the second time? If you are like most students, you were able
to recall more of the words than you did previously. The amazing thing is that once you
start training your memory in this way, you can use this tool to memorize vast amounts
of information. I’ve used this technique to help actors learn all their lines in a script, to
help students memorize the periodic table, and to help salespeople speak about a
product with a level of granularity that made it seem as though they’d engineered the
item themselves. Remember that there’s no such thing as a good memory or a bad
memory, only a trained memory or an untrained memory. Employing this tool regularly
will give you the kind of training that you can access in all kinds of situations.
Association
This is the key to memory and all of learning: In order to learn any new
piece of information, it must be associated with something you already
know.
This is worth repeating. To remember any new piece of information, you
must associate it with something you already know. You have done this all
your life; you just might not have been aware of it. Here’s a simple test.
What comes to your mind when you think of a cherry? Perhaps red, sweet,
fruit, pie, round, seeds, etc. These are words and pictures that you have
learned to link to a cherry. You associated something you knew to
something you did not know. You use association to ride a bike, eat your
food, have a conversation, and to learn to do anything. In the same way, by
making a story out of the words on your list, you associated them
consciously, for easier recall. Your mind is constantly making countless
associations every minute, most of them without your conscious awareness.
This is how you learn. Do you have a song that reminds you of a special
person? That memory is an association. Do you have a smell that reminds
you of a time in your childhood? That memory is an association. Why not
use this information and make associations consciously to learn more
effectively?
Emotion
Adding emotion makes something memorable. Information by itself is
forgettable, but information combined with emotion becomes a long-term
memory. When we add emotions to something, we make it adventurous, we
make it action-filled, we make it humorous, and we’re much more likely to
remember it.
Location
We are really good at recalling places because as hunter-gatherers, we
didn’t need to remember numbers and words, but we needed to remember
where things were. We needed to know where the clean water was, where
the fertile soil was, where the food was. If you can associate something with
a place, you’re more likely to remember it.
These are some of the keys to having a great memory; the rest of this
chapter will be dedicated to showing you specific techniques and
applications you can use in different situations. If you did not have much
luck with the memory story, don’t worry. This is understandable, you may
just need a little practice. Most people have not used their imaginations
since they were children. You may want to review the story a few times as it
will be a good workout for your creative mind. Do this now.
Notice that you can also go through the story backward; the associations
can give you the list in any order. Practice this and see for yourself.
You should be truly amazed. For most people, using rote methods, it
takes anywhere from 10 to 30 minutes to memorize this list and with only
very temporary results. However, you’ll find that this story, which took you
no more than a minute to learn, will be available for you to recall days or
even weeks from now without reviewing it once. This is the power of
working smart and not hard. This is the power of your imagination. This is
the power of your mind. Let’s try it again.
Tell yourself a story using these 10 words, moving from one word to
the next. You’re not trying to win a literary competition with this story,
and it doesn’t matter if the story makes much sense. What’s important
is that you provide some kind of imaginative detail for all the words on
your list (for example, if one of your words is outside, imagine that
you’re in a vast field) and that you “link” your words in the story in the
order in which they appear on your list by creating an image for each.
Remember, the more emotional and exaggerated they are, the better
you will recall.
Now, on a separate piece of paper, write down the list again, using the
story you created to remind you of the words and of the order in which
they appeared. How did you do this time? In all likelihood, you did
better, though there’s a good chance you still didn’t get all of them.
Now write down the list again (not looking at any previous versions of
the list you created), but this time write it down backward. You’ll need
to access the story you invented in a different way in order to do this,
but this is really going to help lock these words down for you.
At this point, you’ve probably memorized most if not all the words on
your list. At the same time, you’re likely wondering how this is going to
help you remember all the details in a presentation you’re giving.
Identify the 10 major talking points from your presentation. These can
be keywords or phrases or perhaps quotations that you want to
incorporate. They should not, however, be multiple paragraphs long, as
that will make this process cumbersome and your presentation feel stiff
and overly rehearsed. The assumption here is that you know your topic
well and that you have some facility with the material. This method is
designed to help bring each of the key points to the forefront of your
mind when you need them.
Now imagine a place that you know well. This can be a part of your
home, a street that you walk often, a nearby park, or anything else with
which you have a great deal of familiarity and that you can easily
recall vividly.
Now consider a path through that location. If it’s a room in your house,
for example, imagine walking into that room and traveling through it.
Identify 10 spots in this room that you can quickly see in your mind.
Maybe one is the lamp in the corner that you see as you enter the
room. Perhaps another is the chair just to the left of that lamp. The
next might be the side table next to that chair, and so on. Make this
path as procedural as possible. Zig-zagging around the space is likely
to be less productive. Just see yourself walking through this space
clockwise noticing what you always notice as you pass each item.
Once you’ve picked out your 10 locations, assign a major talking point
to each of these locations. Be sure to make the order of your talking
points match the order in which you walk through the room. For
example, using the room we just described, if the first thing you want
to say is the keynote message to your entire presentation, assign that to
the lamp. If the next major talking point is an essential product detail
or a key historical fact, assign that to the chair, and so on.
Now practice your presentation, using your walk through the location
as a tool for remembering each of the primary messages in the
presentation. Each component of the presentation should come to you
as you need it.
As with all tools, this memory tool might require some time for you to
become expert at it, but it will likely begin to help you immediately. With
practice you should find it possible for you to access large chunks of
information without referring to your notes. Your recall will improve
dramatically, and your speeches and reports will seem more natural. You
can employ this approach whenever you need to memorize in bulk.
The main idea behind word substitution is coming up with a picture (or
series of linked pictures) that sounds similar enough to remind you of the
original word. This abstract word, idea, or concept that was once so difficult
to understand is now not so foreign. By creating a picture of the word, you
now have something more tangible, something you can see. Remember that
we tend to remember that which we create. Some more examples:
Cytology, the study of cells. You see a towel with a huge “G”
(cytology) on it. You have always wanted one, so you take it, and you
are thrown in a jail cell. Or you sigh, looking at your toe, in a low G
(sigh toe low G), but this is not allowed and you are put in a cell and
forced to study. Even though this is thoroughly bizarre, it is very
memorable, and it works!
Lenient, compassionate, gentle. Picture a leaning ant (an ant leaning).
The ant is leaning on a clean wall and getting it dirty. His mother,
instead of being angry, is compassionate and gentle.
Très bien (French), which sounds like tray bean, means “very good.”
Picture yourself babysitting and rewarding the child a silver tray with a
giant bean on it. The child was very good.
Facile (French), which sounds like face eel, means “easy.” Picture a
friend challenging you to hold an eel close to your face; you do it and
say, “That’s easy!”
Travailler (French), which sounds like traveler, means “to work.”
Picture a traveler coming up to you and inviting you on a vacation, but
you can’t go because you have to work.
Escargot (French), which sounds like scar go, means “snail.” Picture a
snail getting into an S-car (car shaped like an S) and making the car go.
Merci (French), which sounds like mare sea, means “thank you.”
Picture yourself saving a mare from drowning in the sea. She then says
“thank you.”
Aprender (Spanish), which sounds like a blender, means “to learn.”
Picture yourself taking your books and putting them in a blender.
Escuela (Spanish), which sounds like S-quail, means “school.” Picture
a quail with a giant superman S on its chest going to your school.
Ayuda (Spanish), which sounds like are-you-the, means “help.” Picture
yourself drowning (in need of help) and someone comes to rescue you
and asks, “Are you the person drowning?”
Mando (Spanish), which sounds like man (or moon) doe, means “to
command.” Picture a man commanding a doe to jump to the moon.
Estrada (Spanish), which sounds like extra day, means “road or
highway.” Picture yourself going on vacation and being stuck in traffic
for an extra day on the highway.
Desventaja (handicap)
Pelo (hair)
Bolso (handbag)
Dinero (money)
Leer (read)
I’ve used these examples to better introduce you to the basics. Build upon
them and understand their significance. You can use these skills for
practically anything. These systems are both flexible and universal. For
example, if you want to remember whether a word is masculine or
feminine, simply add the picture of a top hat for masculine words and a
dress for feminine words. There are no rules, so be creative and outrageous,
and have fun with them!
STACK IT
To learn new vocabulary or foreign-language words, combine the strategy
above with methods that you’ve already learned from our chapter on study.
For example, we talked about spaced repetition. That would be extremely
valuable in this application. We talked about using music. Baroque music is
very effective at helping to learn languages. The study techniques already in
your toolkit will serve a bold new purpose here.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
I hope you can see now that having a well-trained memory is an essential
part of unlimiting yourself. When your memory is finely tuned, you’re
exponentially stronger than if you’re trying to get by with an untrained
memory. This book covers the foundation to jump-start your memory. Visit
www.LimitlessBook.com/resources to get the three-part memory training
videos as my gift to you. Before we move on to the next chapter, try a few
things:
SPEED READING
What do Oprah Winfrey, Thomas Edison, John F. Kennedy, and Bill Gates
all have in common? They were all great readers. Leaders are readers.
Welcome to the age of data. Never in history has there been such an
information surplus. More information has been produced in the past few
decades than in the previous few thousand years. According to Eric
Schmidt, the former CEO of Google, “There were 5 Exabytes of
information created between the dawn of civilization through 2003, but that
much information is now created every 2 days.” And it’s only getting faster
and faster. All of this information makes today’s age extremely competitive.
Those people who can keep up with the latest information will have the
competitive edge needed to succeed, not only academically and
professionally, but in other key areas of life as well.
Studies show that there is a direct relationship between your ability to
read and your success in life. Skilled readers enjoy better jobs, higher
incomes, and greater opportunities for success in all realms of life. Think
about this: If you have average reading skills, then you have the same
understanding that most people have. That doesn’t give you much of a
competitive advantage, does it?
Unfortunately, for most people reading is regarded as a boring task,
something very time-consuming and tedious. Have you ever gone through a
page in a book and found yourself asking, “What on earth did I just read?”
If the answer is yes, you are not alone.
We’ve talked before about the challenges I faced early in my college
career. As you know, those challenges were so great for me that I seriously
considered quitting school altogether. But as I rose to the task of reading a
book every week in addition to the reading I needed to do for my classes, I
started to make considerable progress with my learning. I didn’t realize how
much progress I’d made, though, until one surprising day.
Growing up, I’ve always tried to keep myself out of the spotlight. I was a
shy kid, and I felt more comfortable blending into the scenery than being
front and center. That continued when I went away to school. Big classes
held in lecture halls were especially appealing to me, because I could sit in
the corner and avoid being noticed.
I was in one such classroom one day along with a few hundred other
students. Up front, the professor was lecturing to us and using an overhead
projector to show images. At one point, he put some text up on the
projector, and I instantly burst into laughter. This was an entirely natural
reaction for me; the quote was funny. But it was otherwise completely quiet
in the hall, which caused a huge number of people to swivel their heads in
my direction. I’m guessing most of these people would never have been
able to identify me as one of their classmates before this moment.
I was hugely embarrassed. I’d made so much effort to be invisible, and
now it was as though I’d stormed the stage to draw attention to myself. I
was blushing so hard that I thought my face was going to combust, and I
shrank back as far as I could.
Then several seconds later, others in the hall started laughing. At first, I
thought they were laughing at me, but as more joined them, I looked out
and noticed that they weren’t staring at me at all; they were reading the text.
And that’s when I realized the source of my embarrassment: I’d read the
words so much faster than my classmates that I’d reacted to it way sooner
than everyone else. I’d known I improved the speed at which I read and the
level at which I comprehended it, but until that moment I had no idea how
rare but learnable an ability it was.
While still feeling a bit awkward about my unintended outburst, I left that
class buoyed by the understanding that my learning had risen to an entirely
new level. Due to the techniques I’d taught myself, reading had become one
of my superpowers, paving the way to enormous breakthroughs in my
learning. While I vowed not to laugh so loudly in the future, I walked out of
that lecture hall with an incredible sense of excitement about learning and
about discovering the other superpowers that were just emerging.
Reading kicks your brain into gear. When you read, you’re using
your brain for many functions at once—which is a vigorous and
rewarding workout. As Dr. Ken Pugh, president and director of
research at Haskins Laboratories, points out, “Parts of the brain that
have evolved for other functions—such as vision, language, and
associative learning—connect in a specific neural circuit for reading,
which is very challenging. A sentence is shorthand for a lot of
information that must be inferred by the brain.”1 In other words,
reading gives you an incomparable level of mental exercise, and the
brain is always a “muscle” that gets stronger the more you challenge it.
Reading improves your memory. Because you’re giving your brain
such a great workout when you read, your brain functions at a higher
level. One significant benefit of this is with regard to memory. In a
study conducted by Dr. Robert S. Wilson at Rush University Medical
Center in Chicago, reading was shown to have a meaningful effect on
memory decline. “We shouldn’t underestimate the effects of everyday
activities, such as reading and writing, on our children, ourselves, and
our parents or grandparents,” he noted. “Our study suggests that
exercising your brain by taking part in activities such as these across a
person’s lifetime, from childhood through old age, is important for
brain health in old age.”2
Reading improves your focus. One of the things we do when we sit
down with a book or even spend some dedicated time with a
newspaper is train our focus on this one thing. Unlike when we browse
the Internet or click through YouTube, when we’re reading, we usually
give the vast majority of our attention to what we’re reading. This
practice makes it easier to apply the same level of focus to other tasks.
Reading improves your vocabulary. Some people just sound smarter.
How do you react when you encounter one of these people? In all
likelihood, you offer them increased respect and even a certain level of
deference. People who sound smart tend to have access to and a
facility with a wider vocabulary than the average person. Reading
allows you to build vocabulary organically. The more you read, the
more you are exposed to an expanded range of language and the use of
that language in a variety of contexts. And because reading is such a
superior focusing tool, you’re absorbing a great deal of this, and it will
be accessible to you as you need it.
Reading improves your imagination. If you were ever given a story
prompt at school or at work, you know that it is often easier to think
creatively when using a tool to get started. Reading is essentially one
story prompt after another. “What would it be like to be in this
person’s shoes?” “How can I use this technique to be more
productive?” “What am I going to do first, once Jim Kwik helps me
become limitless?” A great imagination helps you see more
possibilities in your life, and reading keeps your imagination on high
alert.
Reading improves understanding. Learning comes in many forms,
and learning as a success tool has many elements. And while agile
thinking and mastery of skills are critical to success, empathy and
understanding can’t be overlooked. Reading exposes you to lives
you’d never known before, experiences you’d never imagined, and
modes of thinking far different from your own. All of this builds both
your empathy for others and your understanding of how the world
works beyond yourself.
KWIK START
If you can read faster with greater comprehension and enjoyment,
what books would you start reading this month? Create a list of three
books you want to start reading.
READING SELF-ASSESSMENT
The first thing you must do is discover your present reading speed, also
known as your base rate. This reading rate is measured in words per minute.
In order to measure it, you will need an easy reading novel, a pencil, and a
timer. Then do the following:
KWIK START
If you can save two hours each day, what would you do with this extra
time? Take a moment to write down how you would spend those extra
two hours daily.
CHALLENGES TO READING
People either don’t read or choose to read very little for a variety of reasons.
You work long hours, and you’re exhausted at the end of the day. It’s easier
to be entertained passively (through television, film, music, etc.) than to
engage in the activity required to read. If you’re going to work for your
entertainment, you’d rather be playing a videogame. I hear you, but if
you’ve absorbed the benefits I just listed above, you know that you need to
fit some time into your day—every day—to read.
Another key reason why people don’t read is that they find it a laborious
process. It can take them five minutes to get through a single page in a
book, making the idea of reading a 300-page book akin to walking from
New York to Georgia. People tend to read slowly for a few reasons. One is
that they stopped learning to read relatively early—maybe second or third
grade—and their reading level (and, more importantly, their reading
technique) never increased much beyond this, even as they continued to
learn in spite of this constraint. The other is that they don’t allow
themselves to focus when they’re reading. They’re listening for the kids,
half-watching television, checking e-mail every few minutes, and so on.
They therefore find themselves reading the same paragraph over and over
again, because they’re not focused enough to comprehend what they’re
reading.
There are a couple of primary reasons why people read slowly. Your
reading efficiency is made up of two main parts: Your reading rate (speed)
and reading comprehension (understanding). Before we look at various
ways to increase your reading efficiency, we first need to look at three of
the barriers and obstacles that prevent us from reading more quickly.
1. Regression
Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever read a line in a book and
found yourself rereading that same line again? Or do you ever find yourself
“wander reading” (going back mindlessly and rereading words)? Regression
is a term used to describe the tendency that your eyes have to go back and
reread certain words. Almost everyone does it to some degree, and most of
the time it is done subconsciously. By doing so, people believe they will
increase their comprehension, but usually they hamper it. By regressing, or
back-skipping, it is very easy to lose the meaning and essence of your
reading. Regression seriously disrupts the reading process as well as slows
down reading speed.
2. Outdated Skills
Reading is not so much a measure of intelligence as it is a skill and with
any skill, it can be learned and improved. When was the last time you took
a class called reading? For most, it was back in the 4th or 5th grade. And if
you’re like most people, your reading skill is probably still the same as it
was back then. Here’s the challenge: Has the amount and difficulty of what
you’re reading changed since? The complexity of material has likely
increased dramatically, yet our reading skill has remained the same.
3. Subvocalization
Subvocalization is a fancy word for your inner voice. Do you notice a voice
inside that is saying the words as you read this? Hopefully, it’s your own
voice. Subvocalization limits your reading speed to only a couple hundred
words per minute. That means your reading speed is limited to your talking
speed, not your thinking speed. In reality, your mind can read a lot faster.
Where did subvocalization come from? It occurred, for most people,
when you were first learning to read. Then it was necessary for you to read
out loud so that your teacher knew you were doing it correctly. Do you
remember when you would have to get into a circle with the other children
and you each took turns reading aloud? For a lot of us, this was a very
stressful event. There was a lot of pressure on you to say the word properly.
How you pronounced the word was very important. It was then that your
brain made the association: If I want to understand a word when I am
reading, I must be able to correctly say it.
Later on, you were told to no longer read aloud, but rather silently, to
yourself. This is when you internalized that “reading voice,” and most of us
have been doing it ever since. In essence, you believe if you don’t hear the
words, then you won’t understand the words. This is not the case.
Here’s an example: We know that President John F. Kennedy was a very
fast reader, reading somewhere between 500 and 1200 words per minute.
He brought speed-reading instructors to train his staff. He also gave
speeches at approximately 250 words per minute. Clearly, when he was
reading, there were a lot of words he wasn’t saying in his mind. It is not
necessary to say the words in order to understand them.
Take a moment and think about a specific car, yours or someone else’s.
What does it look like? What color is it? Do this now.
What was it that you thought about? You might have said, “It is blue, has
four tires, and brown leather seats.” Question: Did the words blue, tires, or
leather appear in your mind, or did you picture a car with all of these
things? For most of us, our minds think primarily in images, and not words.
As we discussed in the previous chapter on memory, words are just a tool
we use to communicate our thoughts or pictures.
As you are reading, you can greatly increase both your speed and
comprehension by visualizing the material. It is not necessary to “say” all of
the words, as it takes too much time, just as you don’t read and say “period,
comma, question mark,” when you see them in a sentence. You wouldn’t
read a sentence like this: “I just bought some avocados comma blueberries
comma and broccoli period.” You understand that punctuation marks are
just symbols that represent various meanings.
Words are symbols as well. You’ve seen 95 percent of the words you read
before. You don’t need to pronounce those words, just as you don’t need to
pronounce filler words like because, this, or the. You know them by sight,
not by sound. It is the meaning of what the word represents that is
important. And the meaning is usually better described and remembered in
the form of pictures. Understanding this concept is the first step in reducing
subvocalization.
READING MISCONCEPTIONS
Myth 1: Faster Readers Don’t Comprehend Well
This is a rumor spread around by slow readers, and it is not true. In fact,
faster readers often have better comprehension than slower readers. Here’s
an analogy: When you’re taking a slow drive down a quiet street, you can
be doing many things. You may be listening to the radio, drinking a green
juice, waving to a neighbor, and singing your favorite song. Your attention
is not in any one place; it just flows and wanders.
But imagine you’re driving pedal to the metal down a racetrack taking
hairpin turns. Do you have more focus or less? I would bet that you are very
focused on what is in front, behind, and ahead of you. You’re not thinking
about your dry cleaning. The same holds true for reading. The key to better
reading comprehension is focus and concentration. But some people read so
slowly that they completely bore their own minds. A bored mind doesn’t
concentrate well. Your mind can handle vast amounts of information, and
yet most people as they read feed it one . . . word . . . at . . . a . . . time. This
is starving the brain.
If your mind ever wanders and daydreams, this could be the reason. If
you don’t give your brain the stimulus it needs, it’ll seek entertainment
elsewhere in the form of distraction. You may find yourself wondering what
you’ll have for dinner, what to wear on your date tomorrow, or listening to a
conversation out in the hall. We’ve asked before about reading a page or a
paragraph and not remembering what you’ve just read. It may be because
you read so slowly that you bored your brain and it simply lost interest. Or,
you may be using reading as a sedative and you fall asleep. By reading
faster, you keep your mind stimulated, find yourself more focused, and have
better comprehension.
Myth 2: It’s Harder and Takes More Effort to Read Fast
Reading faster requires less effort, primarily because trained readers tend
not to back-skip as much as slower readers. Slow readers stop at words,
reread them, go to another word, regress to a previous one, and so on, and
this continues throughout their reading. This takes a lot more effort and is
extremely draining and boring. Faster readers go through words much
easier and in a lot less time. This makes them more efficient because they
put in less time, and get more out of the process!
How did that feel? By doing this exercise, you will notice that your rate
has increased. Here’s an analogy: If you are driving on the highway at 65
mph, and then slow down to 40 mph for some mild traffic, you will notice
quite a bit of difference. This is because you are used to driving at a higher
speed. But in reality, you are not going very slowly, because it is all relative.
The same principle applies to reading. If you push yourself to read two or
three times faster than what you are used to, when you finally decrease your
rate to a comfortable speed, your original rate feels slow.
You want to practice this 4-minute exercise at least once a day until you
reach a level that you are pleased and satisfied with. Schedule your reading.
Just as with exercising, you cannot expect to work out only one time and be
done for life. You must read on a regular basis, otherwise your reading
muscles will grow weak.
3. Counting
By using the exercises I’ve outlined, the challenge of subvocalization will
begin to decrease. The process of reading faster naturally makes it more
difficult to say all the words, even inside your head. When you have passed
a certain rate (about 300 to 350 words per minute), it will be impossible to
subvocalize all the words. As you hit this threshold, your brain will begin to
make the shift from saying the words to seeing them more as images.
Reading a book will be more like watching a movie.
Counting is another tool you can use to drown out this inner voice. The
process is deceptively simple: count out loud as you are reading, “one, two,
three . . .” and so on. You’ll find it is very difficult to count out loud and
talk inside (subvocalize) at the same time. Doing this process conditions
you to subvocalize less, allowing you to see the words rather than say them,
thus leading to better speed and comprehension.
People tend to remember and understand what they see, more than what
they hear. This makes sense, as most people can recall someone’s face they
see, more than the name they hear. By practicing these other exercises, your
reading speed will improve because you are no longer saying every word.
Initially, you may be a little confused (and your comprehension may even
decrease), but in a very short time, your mind will grow bored of counting
and will eventually stop. With practice, your comprehension will soon
increase and expand because you will be able to more fully see and
understand the material.
SUCCESS STORIES
I could fill an entire book with speed-reading success stories from students,
and we post them regularly on social media. Here’s one we received today.
Sarah was a very slow reader, had difficulty focusing, and felt it impossible
to remember names and events. After years of struggle in this arena, she
was convinced that there was very little chance she’d ever be capable of
improving her reading ability or her ability to study.
In my programs, I make it a point to reassure my students that we are not
aiming for perfection but for progress, and this resonated with Sarah. She
realized she had been looking for complicated solutions, but that the tools
and techniques we teach—which are easy to ignore or overlook because
they are simple—were the best to use. She decided to show up with
dedication and do her best, no matter what doubts she might have.
The results speak for themselves; Sarah’s reading speed is now three
times faster—she went from reading 253 words per minute to 838 words
per minute. She starts her day by reading, which starts each morning with
positive momentum and makes her feel like she’s already achieved
something for the day.
Lou, another student, also experienced a profound difference in his
reading ability once he learned a technique that could truly help him. Lou
excelled at high-level left-brained topics such as engineering and math and
obtained a bachelor of science in electrical engineering. But he struggled in
every single English class he ever took. Throughout his school years, he
had enormous trouble understanding the words he was reading and
comprehending the lessons behind them. In fact, he’s convinced that he
graduated only because his teachers gave him undeserved Cs out of
sympathy.
Hold your book upright. If the book is flat on your desk, you may
be doing one of two things, either
When he was 35, Lou began to take lessons to learn how to read. These
were helpful, but he still found himself at a second-grade reading level after
four years of work. This was a vast improvement from where he had been,
but it wasn’t nearly what he wanted, and he continued to be frustrated with
his inability to master words and concepts. A big part of the problem was
that he had been trying to learn by rote memorization—reading the same
passages over and over in the hope that he would absorb what he was
reading. But he consistently found himself having learned nothing by the
end of the page.
While he had made significant progress, finding programs was the key
for Lou. As our memory program taught him how to absorb the material he
was reading, he began to take a little more time to visualize words as he
read them, and he used his left hand as a pacer to help stimulate the right
side of his brain. Finally, for the first time, he found himself reading books
and understanding them.
KWIK START
Block out at least 15 minutes each day for reading and put it in your
calendar like an important appointment. Commit to making reading
part of your daily habit.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
Unlimiting your reading and learning will offer you an unparalleled level of
freedom. People who make the most of their capacity to learn find
themselves experiencing the world with a sense of mastery and with the
confidence that no task or challenge will intimidate them. Visit www.Limitl
essBook.com/resources and put what you learned here into practice. You
can watch an hour speed-reading masterclass where I walk you through
these methods. Before we get to the next chapter, try a few things:
THINKING
Why is it important to think from a variety of perspectives?
KWIK START
Think of a problem you need to be solved right now. It can be
anything from “How can I get that job,” to “How can I communicate
better with my family?” Use the Six Thinking Hats model to run
through the different perspectives of looking at the problem you’re
trying to solve.
HOW ARE YOU SMART?
Why is it important for us to have tools to help us think in different ways?
Because people usually have a dominant way of using their intelligence. Dr.
Howard Gardner, professor of cognition and education at the Harvard
Graduate School of Education, has studied intelligence extensively and has
identified eight distinct forms of intelligence:2
2. You are about to give a friend directions to your home. Would you:
3. You are staying in a hotel and have a rental car. You would like to
visit a friend whose address you do not know. Would you like them
to:
5. You are going to cook a dessert as a special treat for your family.
Do you:
6. You are about to purchase a new sound system. Other than the
price, what would most influence your decision?
a. Pictionary
b. 20 Questions
c. Charades
11. You are not sure whether a word should be spelled “separate” or
“seperate.” Do you:
a. See the word in your mind and choose the best way it looks?
b. Sound it out?
c. Write down both versions?
12. A new movie has arrived in town. What would most influence your
decision to go or not go?
Once you’ve written down your answers, use this key to see which type of
learning comes most naturally to you:
MENTAL MODELS
Mental models are constructs for thinking that help us make sense of the
world around us. Think of them as shortcuts. For example, we’ve all heard
of the economic mental model of supply and demand. You’re probably
familiar with the idea that supply is representative of the amount of
something available within a market, whether that’s a service, product, or
commodity. When that is juxtaposed against the demand for that item, value
is determined, and that often dictates the price of the item. This model is a
quick way to understand what’s happening in a market. It’s not always
accurate and doesn’t explain every factor involved, but it serves as a simple
way of evaluating the price or value of an item.
Mental models train your mind to think; after all, you don’t rise to the
level of your expectations, you fall to the level of your training. Models can
act as shortcuts that save you valuable energy and time when you’re
evaluating an idea, making a decision, or problem-solving.
In the following pages, I’m including some of my favorite mental models
for faster and sharper decision-making and for creative problem-solving.
First, write down tasks that might be important but can’t be done
because of outside circumstances. Maybe you’re waiting for an e-mail
from someone else, or you’re waiting for a colleague to finish their
portion of a project.
Next, include tasks that you think need to be done but that don’t add
value to your life; you might also think of these as busywork. You
might ask yourself if you can delegate or hire someone else to do
them. You can also ask if anyone but you will notice whether the task
is left undone. The idea here is that your time is best spent on tasks
that will move your life and goals forward.
Then include current and ongoing tasks that don’t benefit from
additional attention. This might include systems that are already set up,
such as making the kids’ lunches or having a brief meeting with your
team at the start of the work day. These are part of your routine and
shouldn’t be clogging your to-do list on a daily basis.
Last, include urgent tasks that are often to-do lists given to us by other
people, such as getting some background research on a project or
making follow-up calls. These are tasks that might be necessary to do
but perhaps don’t need to be done by you.8
When you’re finished with your don’t-do list, it should read like an anti-
menu, a list of items that aren’t available for your time. You will then be
able to easily identify what will actually move you forward and do those
activities instead.
KWIK START
Do this right now. Take a moment to create your not-to-do list for
today. What are the things you need to avoid today to focus and
achieve your goals? Be specific and check off that list by not doing it.
First, get clear on what did or didn’t happen. Often, we confuse cause
with correlation, so be sure you understand what happened and what
led to the mistake or error.
Next, ask yourself why those mistakes happened. Look for the deeper
layers behind the incident. You might ask “why” until you’ve run out
of layers to question.
Then ask how you can best avoid the same mistakes in the future. If
some of the factors that caused the error are out of your control, ask
how you can prevent causes that can’t be eliminated.
Finally, using what you’ve gleaned from this exercise, determine how
you can create the best conditions to support your desired outcomes in
the future.9
To help illustrate this strategy, let’s imagine this scenario: the fundraising
project you orchestrated for your child’s school greatly underperformed
your expectations. First, you need to be clear on what happened. Did you
and your team fail to inspire people to give, or did the donors fail to show
up? In this case, let’s assume that the donors were available, but they didn’t
give as much as you anticipated or sometimes didn’t give at all.
Now, you need to ask yourself why. Did it have something to do with the
way you presented the need? Did it have something to do with the time of
year? Did it have something to do with the economy? Remember that your
answer here might lead to additional questions. In the scenario we’re
playing out, let’s determine that you decide that you might not have
emphasized the importance of this campaign, because there’d been a
fundraiser at the school only two months prior and you didn’t want to
appear pushy, and that your being overly polite caused potential donors to
think the cause wasn’t critical.
So, how do you avoid this in the future? You decide that the next time
you run the campaign, you’re going to do it earlier in the school year and,
regardless of the proximity of any other fundraiser, you’re going to go out
of your way to stress the value and importance of this one and why donors
need to open up their checkbooks. The upshot of this is that you realize that
you need to improve the way you send out the message about your
campaign, and you determine to take a class on this so you will be much
better prepared when next year’s campaign comes along.
THINKING EXPONENTIALLY
So, how does an individual think exponentially? Maybe your goal isn’t to
solve all the world’s problems, invent a new technology, or start a billion-
dollar company, but you can see how applying exponential thinking might
make a real difference to your school, your business, or your personal
growth. How can thinking less linearly and more exponentially make
dramatic changes in your life?
The first step is having a good understanding of what the exponential
mindset looks like. In a piece for the Harvard Business Review, Mark
Bonchek, founder and chief epiphany officer of Shift Thinking, describes
the linear mindset as a line appearing on a graph that rises gradually over
time. He then juxtaposes this with a second line that curves upward, slowly
at first, and then shooting over the other line before heading far off the
graph. This is his visual depiction of the exponential mindset.
Phase of a Business
“The incremental mindset focuses on making something better, while the
exponential mindset is focused on making something different,” he notes.
“Incremental is satisfied with 10 percent. Exponential is out for 10X.”14
“The incremental mindset draws a straight line from the present to the
future,” Bonchek continues. “A ‘good’ incremental business plan enables
you to see exactly how you will get from here to there. But exponential
models are not straight. They are like a bend in the road that prevents you
from seeing around the corner, except in this case the curve goes up.”
Bonchek is speaking specifically about applying exponential thinking to
business, but the same perception can be brought to bear on thinking in
other parts of life. Imagine, for example, that you were trying to figure out
how to have everyone in your family at the dinner table at least three times
a week. A linear mindset would involve looking at everyone’s work
schedules, school schedules, activities schedules, and social schedules to try
to find a way to clear out some space. But an exponential mindset would
take the approach of turning your family’s harried schedules into something
different.
Maybe “dinner” isn’t the goal at all, but rather finding key moments
during the week when everyone can be in the same place and focus
exclusively on each other. Maybe the issue isn’t your schedules at all but
how each of you has chosen to commit their time. Progress might not seem
much like progress (three months later, you’re barely better off than when
you started), but then the changes you’ve been developing start to take
shape, and suddenly you have lots more time together.
If you want to fire up your exponential thinking ability—and take a huge
step toward unlimiting your genius—consider these four steps the next time
you contemplate a problem or task in need of a solution:
Step 4: Extrapolate
You’ve now identified the underlying problem, posed questions that allow
you to imagine a world without the problem, and done your research. Now,
it’s time to try out a scenario. Let’s play one out here: You’re convinced that
you’ve filled your lives with activities because you need these to maintain
your status in your community. You’ve asked the question, “What if we
lived somewhere else?” and found that everyone in your family is intrigued
by this notion. You’ve done your reading and discovered that you could be
happier and more satisfied if your job/sports/school/philanthropic goals
were revised and reconceived.
So, what would happen if you moved a hundred miles away, across the
country, or even to a different country? You know that doing something this
dramatic might not immediately seem like progress. You’ve seen the
straight line and the curved line, and you realize that it might even seem
you’ve taken a huge step backward because of all the adjustments you’d
need to make. But say the four of you play out the scenarios and decide that
making a move is the right thing to do. Two years later, the family is
thriving —and you have dinner together nearly every night.
BEFORE WE MOVE ON
This is the last of the method chapters, and I’m sure you’re itching to put
everything you’ve learned in this book to use. Before we end, I’m going to
give you a vision of how this might work for you and a 10-day plan to
jump-start applying what you’ve learned to your life. But before we get to
that, let’s try a few things:
Review Howard Gardner’s eight forms of intelligence starting on
HOW ARE YOU SMART?. Which forms on this list align most
closely with your own intelligence?
Now that you know what your learning style is, what can you do to
incorporate the other styles into your thinking?
Try on all six thinking hats during a test case. Give yourself a
relatively simple task, and approach it using Edward de Bono’s
method.
AFTERWORD
RETURN OF THE POSSIBLE
You know . . . If you think about the very nature of life—I mean, in
the very beginning, the development of the first cell divided into two
cells—the sole purpose of life has been to pass on what was learned.
There was no higher purpose. So if you’re asking me what to do with
all this knowledge you’re accumulating, I say . . Pass it on.
So, now the question becomes this: What are you going to do with what
you’ve learned? Solve a challenging problem at work so you and your
colleagues have an impact on your industry, and maybe your world? Start a
book club? Make a dent in that huge stack of periodicals on your coffee
table, and then teach your children what you’ve just learned? Connect with
people in more dynamic ways? Throw a brain-food dinner party? Sign up
for the class that is going to open new doors for you? Or maybe sign up to
teach a class yourself? Which would you choose?
That’s what a superhero would do. That’s what the limitless you can do.
Throughout this book, you’ve had the opportunity to take some of your
new skills out for a spin. In the pages that follow, I’ve laid out a program to
get you started. Now is the time to start to use all of what you’ve learned in
concert. Start with one thing, but start somewhere. Anywhere. And when
you do, I think you’re going to be stunned by what you uncover about
yourself. The limitless you is the person you truly are and the person who,
over time, will become things you can’t even conceive of now.
Know yourself. Trust yourself. Love yourself. Be yourself.
And remember, the life you live are the lessons you teach. Be limitless.
Congratulations on making it to the end of this book. You are one of the few who
completes the task at hand. I applaud you.
We’ve covered a lot in this book. My advice is to implement everything you learned.
If you’re not sure where to begin, then this 10-day plan is here to help you jump-start
your limitless journey.
You can follow this plan I made for you, or you can handpick three top tips you’d
like to integrate from each main section: Mindset, Motivation, and Methods. In this
way you can focus on the areas where you feel you’re currently lacking and need more
support. You can also download this 10-Day Kwik Start program in video format from
www.LimitlessBook.com/resources.
Thank you for allowing me to be your brain coach through this book. I look forward
to hearing about your progress.
Forget: The key to laser focus is to remove or forget that which distracts you.
There are three things you want to forget (at least temporarily).
Act: Traditional education has trained many people to think that learning is a
passive experience. But learning is not a spectator sport. The human brain does not
learn as much by consumption as it does by creation. Knowing that, I want you to
ask yourself how you can become more active in your learning. Take notes. Do the
exercises in this book.
State: Your state of being is a current snapshot of your emotions. It is highly
influenced by your thoughts (psychology) and the physical condition of your body
(physiology). Change your posture or the depth of your breathing. Consciously
choose states of joy, fascination, and curiosity.
Teach: If you want to cut your learning curve dramatically, learn with the
intention of teaching the information to someone else.
Enter: If it’s not on your calendar, there’s a good chance it’s not getting done.
Take out your calendar and enter blocks of time to invest in yourself, even if that’s
only 10 or 15 minutes a day.
Review: You are better able to retain information by reviewing multiple spread-
out sessions. Get in the habit of reflecting on your day and do a daily review of
what you’ve learned.
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PARENTING
“If a child can’t learn the way we teach,
maybe we should teach the way they learn.”
—IGNACIO ESTRADA
It’s not how smart your children are, it’s how are they smart. Traditional education teaches children what to learn,
what to focus on, what to think, what to study, and even what to remember. But not how to learn, how to focus, how
to think, how to study, and how to remember.
Having grown up with my own learning difficulties, one of my passions is teaching our youth about their mindset,
motivation, and methods of learning.
How can you start? I’ve put some of my favorite strategies in a “kwik” bonus chapter.
LimitlessBook.com/parenting
LIMITLESS TEAMS
BUSINESS
“An organization’s ability to learn, and translate that learning into action rapidly, is the ultimate competitive
advantage.”
—JACK WELCH
Can you apply the Limitless model to your business? Absolutely! For over two decades, we’ve used these methods
to train organizations of all sizes, from entrepreneurial start-ups to corporate clients, including Google, Virgin, Nike,
GE, Fox Studios, and Zappos.
Human capital (the collective education, skills, knowledge, training) is an organization’s most valuable and most
underutilized asset. For your business to grow, your team’s collective brainpower must grow.
How can you harness your team’s limitless cognitive potential? I wrote a bonus chapter to help you on your way.
LimitlessBook.com/Business
We’ve assembled the ultimate set of resources that complement this book and will magnify your results.
These include:
Video tutorials of select lessons (as an example: watch me teach you how to quickly memorize the top brain
foods, and demonstrate the remembering names technique in front of a live audience)
Written exercises and assessments to test your skills
Brainpower food recipes from meals to teas
Recommended reading
Special interviews with top experts delving deeper into the topics covered in this book—sleep, exercise,
nutrition, meditation, and others
And so much more!
LimitlessBook.com/Resources
DO YOU WANT TO
DIVE DEEPER INTO THE
5 LIMITLESS
METHODS?
How do you train yourself, your family, or your team the methods of focus, study, memory improvement, speed
reading, and thinking skills?
We’ve created for you the ultimate proven and simple-to-add-into-your-life online training for anyone looking to
uplevel their capabilities.
All you need is 15 minutes a day to build a new learning habit in each area.
Visit KwikLearning.com/Online-Courses and use the code “LIMITLESS” to get 25% off your registration as a
thank you for purchasing this book.
When you do, you will join our community of Kwik Brains from 195 countries. Your success is our success,
every program comes with an unconditional 30-day money-back guarantee.
SUGGESTED READING
This is the hardest part of the book for me to write because it takes a village
to bring a book into the world. One may think it’s a solo adventure of sorts
but in reality, it was a heroic group effort.
In the pages I’m allotted, it would be impossible to thank by name all
those who have led and supported me to this moment. The list is long—you
can say it’s pretty limitless.
I know this because you all have a special place in my heart and I feel
your presence when I do my gratitude exercises.
Let’s start with YOU the reader. Thank you for not only getting this book
but more importantly for reading and using it.
To our podcast guests, listeners, and anyone who has ever watched and
shared one of our videos, thank you for tuning in each week and getting all
brainy with me.
To our online students all over the world, so much appreciation for your
time and trust. Thank you for allowing our team to fulfill our purpose of
building better, brighter brains.
To all our speaking and training clients, gratitude for having me share
with your audiences and teams.
To my private coaching clients, you know who you are, thank you for
your friendship and for teaching me so much in return.
To my longtime business partner Alexis Banc. This book and this
business would not exist without you. You wear every hat imaginable, your
dedication is only matched by your vision for a better brighter world, I am
eternally grateful.
To James Banc, thank you, brother, for being a brain warrior.
Gratitude to my personal assistant Elena, thank you for being my right
hand (and sometimes brain). Appreciate all you do.
To our amazing Kwik Team who works hard every day serving our
community. Thank you for your caring and commitment, Jonie, Sasha,
Brittany, Jade, Iris, Denyce, Nicole, Jessica, Kyle, Dallas, Jen, Zareen, Jena,
Lauren, Louie, Romario, Elizabeth, Miriam, Julia, Matilda, Alex, Dmitri,
Jena, Kristie, LJ, Arthur, Marcin, Angelo, Pawel, Radek, Agata, Natalia,
Katia, Hugo, Michal, Chris, Marta, Drew, Kris, Rusty, and the rest of our
team past, present, and future. (Yes, our team is mostly made up of
incredible females.)
I believe everyone can be your teacher on life’s journey. From my college
friend’s father who got me to read one book a week to the person who said I
had a broken brain, thank you for the lessons.
To my friends Brendon Burchard, Scott Hoffman, Lewis Howes, and
Nick Ortner, who encouraged and kept on me to write this book. Thank you
for inspiring the world, and for inspiring me to transform my mess into my
message.
I am grateful to Reid Tracy and Patty Gift, who saw the potential for this
book. Honored to be part of the Hay House family. Thank you, Anne, Mary,
Margarete, Lindsay, Patricia, Cathy, Alexandra, Sally, Marlene, Perry,
Celeste, Tricia, Julie, Yvette, Diane, John, Karen, Steve, and everyone else
who had a hand in creating the book what it is.
Special thanks to our creative team, who made significant contributions
to this book.
Lou Aronica, thanks for helping me craft these pages and making this
book the best it can be.
Sara Stibitz, you were invaluable. Grateful for all the research,
interviews, wordsmithing and getting us to the finish line.
Clay Hebert, for years of support and for quarterbacking this project from
A to Z. You put the clay in clarity.
Courtney Kenney, thank you for managing and mobilizing so many
moving parts.
Jose Alonso, thanks for the new kwik design. Nick Onken, photographer
extraordinaire.
Rodrigo and Anna Corral for the beautiful book cover art.
Dr. Mark Hyman, thank you for believing in our work and writing the
book’s foreword. Appreciate you and Mia so much for your support on this
book.
Special thanks to Michael Robertson and the entire team at The Beverly
Hilton for hosting me and our events.
To our brain merch team, what we see is what we take care of. Thank you
for bringing brain awareness to the world, Daniel, Tom, Mitchell, Jakob,
Anthony, and our entire team.
Thank you to the legends and luminaries who inspired my imagination
early on this journey—Quincy Jones, Neil Gaiman, Gene Roddenberry,
George Lucas, Joseph Cambell, Oprah Winfrey, Piers Anthony, JK
Rowling, Napoleon Hill, Bruce Lee, Howard Garner, Tony Buzan, Harry
Lorraine, Norman Vincent Peale, Brian Tracy, Jim Rohn, Les Brown,
Arianna Huffington, Sir Ken Robinson, Mister Fred Rogers, and of course
Stan Lee.
To the original accountability group, Michael Fishman, Brian Kurtz, and
Ryan Lee.
Thank you Vishen Lakhian, team, and all our Super Brains at Mindvalley
for helping us share meta-learning with the world.
To my superhero friends and the communities they lead. Giovanni
Marsico and ArchAngels. Tom & Lisa Bilyeu and your Impactivists. Ken
Rutkowski and METal brothers. Elliot Bisnow and Summit. Chris
Winefield & Jen Gottlieb and UAL. Chris Anderson and TED. Roman
Tsunder and PTTOW & WORLDZ. Michael Fishman and CHS. Jack
Canfield and TLC. JJ Virgin and Mindshare. Cole & Sanja Hatter and
Thrive. Dan Fleyshman and Joel Marion and their MME 100 Group. Joe
Polish and your Genius Network. Anthony Tjan and On Cue. Gareb
Shamus and ACE.
To all my friends who have done everything from checking in on me to
helping us share our teachings with the world: Aaron Alexander, Adam
Braun, Alex Banayan, Alex & Mimi Ikonn, Alex Ortner, Amy Jo Martin,
Andres Roemer, Anna Akana, Ari Meisel, Audrey Hagen, Ben Greenfield,
Dr. Ben Lynch, Ben Rawitz, Benny Luo, Beth Comstock, Bing Chen, BJ
Fogg, Bo & Dawn Eason, Bob Proctor, Branden Hampton, Brandon Routh,
Brian Evans, Brian Florio, Brian Grasso, Brooke Burke, Carrie Campbell,
Carlos Gardes, Chalene Johnson, Charles Michael Yim, Chervin, Chloe
Flower, Chris & Lori Harder, Christina Rasmussen, Christopher Lee, Chris
Pan, Claire Zammit, Collin Chung, Craig & Sarah Clemens, Craig
Kielburger, Cynthia Kersey, Cynthia Pasquella, Dr. Daniel Amen, Dan
Caldwell, Dandapani, Danica McKellar, Dan Schawbel, Dave Hollis, Dave
Nurse, David and Lana Asprey, David Bass, David Goggins, David Meltzer,
David Michail, David Wolfe, Dawn Hoang, Dean Graziosi, Derek Halpern,
Derek Hough, Dhru Purohit, Donna Steinhorn, Ed Mylett, Elizabeth
Gilbert, Emily Fletcher, Emily Morse, Erik Logan, Erin Matlock, Frank &
Natalia Kern, Gail Kingsbury, Gary Vaynerchuk, Dr. Halland Chen, Henk
Rogers, Hutch Parker, Ian Clark, IN-Q, Jack Delosa, Jack Hidary,
Jacqueline Schaffer, James Altucher, James Colquhoun, Jason Stuber,
Jayson Gaignard, Jay Shetty, Jeannie Mai, Jeff Krasno, Jeff Spencer, Jelena
& Novak Djokovic, Jesse Itzler, Jessica Ortner, Jim Poole, Dr. Joe Mercola,
Joel & Laurin Seiden, John Assaraf, John Lee, John Romaniello, Jon
Benson, Jonathan Fields, Jon Fine, Jules Hough, Jon Levy, Kandis Marie,
Katie Wells, Keith Ferrazzi, Ken Hertz, Kerwin Rae, Kevin & Annmarie
Gianni, Kevin Pearce, Kevin Rose, Khaled Alwaleed, Kimberly Moore,
Kimberly & James Van Der Beek, Kris Carr, Kute Blackson, Larry Benet,
Larry & Oksana Ostrobsky, Laurel Touby, Leigh Durst, Liana Werner-Gray,
Lisa Garr, Dr. Lisa Mosconi, Lisa Nichols, Liz Heller, Luke Storey, Manny
Goldman, Marc Kielburger, Marie Forleo, Mariel Hemingway, Mari Smith,
Mark Anthony Bates, Mark & Bonita Thompson, Mary Shenouda, Matt
Mullenweg, Max Lugavere, Mel Abraham, Mel Robbins, Mia Lux, Dr.
Michael Breus, Michael Gelb, Michael Lane, Mike Cline, Mike Koenigs,
Mike Wang, Mikkoh Chen, Miki Agrawal, Mimi Pham, Mindpump Guys,
Mona Sharma, Montel Williams, Naomi Whittel, Natalie & Glen Ledwell,
Naveen Jain, Nick Kuzmich, Nicole Patrice, Nikki Sharp, Nina Sugasawa,
Nusa Maal, Ocean Robbins, Oz Garcia, Paul Hoffman, Penni Thow, Pete
Vargas, Peter Diamandis, Peter Hoppenfeld, Peter Nguyen, Rachel
Goldstein, Radha Agrawal, Ramit Sethi, Randy Gage, Randy Garn, Rene &
Akira Chan, Richard Miller, Richard & Veronica Tan, Richard Saul
Wurman, Rick Barber, Rick Frishman, Robin Farmanfarmaian, Robin
Sharma, Rudy Tanzi, Ryan Holiday, Ryan Kaltman, Ryan Levesque,
Sabrina Kay, Sam Horn, Sandy Grigsby, Sashin Govender, Sazan & Stevie
Hendrix, Scooter Braun, Scott Flansburg, Sean Croxton, Sean & Mindy
Stephenson, Dr. Seeta Narsai, Selena Soo, Shaman Durek, Shannon
Elizabeth, Shannon Lee, Seth Godin, ShaoLan, Shawn & Anne Stevenson,
Dr. Shefali, Simon Kinberg, Simon Mainwaring, Simon Sinek, Sonia
Ricotti, Sony Mordechai, Sophie Chiche, Dr. Stephanie Estima, Stephanie
McMahon, Steven Kotler, Steve Sims, Steven Tyler, Sunny Bates, Susan
Cain, Tana Amen, Tara Mackey, Thomas Bahler, Tim Chang, Tim Larkin,
Tim Ryan, Todd Herman, Tom Ferry, Tony Hsieh, Tracy Anderson, Trent
Shelton, Tucker Max, Vani Hari, Whitney Pratt, Will Eppes, Wim Hof,
Yanik Silver, Yanjaa Wintersoul, Yue-Sai Kan, Yuka Kobayashi, and so
many more.
To the children’s education nonprofits we love and support (including
with part of the proceeds of this book)—WE Charity, Pencils of Promise,
Unstoppable Foundation and others—thank you for the schools you build
and the healthcare and clean water you provide for kids in need.
To the brain health nonprofits who are changing the world funding and
conducting research on Alzheimer’s—Steve Aoki and the Aoki Foundation,
Maria Shriver’s Women’s Alzheimer’s Movement, Dr. Rudy Tanzi, the
Cleveland Clinic Lou Ruvo Center for Brain Health, Dr. Lisa Mosconi’s
Women’s Brain Initiative and Alzheimer’s Prevention Clinic at Weill
Cornell Medical College
To all my school teachers (and teachers everywhere), having worked with
so many educators and my mother recently retired in public education, I
know it’s not easy. Thank you for your caring, compassion, and
commitment. You are the true superheroes, we appreciate the capes you
wear.
To the original geek squad—Dakota, Morris, and Dave. Thank you for
comics, video games, and card play. Not only for your friendship but for all
the long tutoring sessions. I wouldn’t have made it through school without
you.
Sensei Rick for years of martial arts training, wisdom, and friendship.
And Bryan Watanabe, you blow me away with your integrity and ability to
affect those around you so positively.
Thanks, Rocky, for keeping me company all those early mornings
writing, best dog ever!
To my beloved, I’m so lucky to be on this journey with you. Thank you
for living through my obsession with all things brain and superheroes.
Every day with you is an adventure of learning and laughter, I’m in awe of
your limitless love and support. You are the greatest blessing of my life.
To our families, love flows strong and deep, leaving us lifetimes of
memories to treasure and keep.
To my sister and brother, thank you for all you do and are. You inspire
me as people and as parents. Love you biggest.
Thank you to my parents, my original heroes, not only for your
encouragement in this book but also for believing in me from the start.
Anything that I’ve ever become that is decent or done that is good is
because of you. Anything less than that is on me.
And again, thank YOU, the reader. It is our honor to serve you as we
work together to create a brain, a life, and a world without limits.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Jim Kwik (his real name) is a widely recognized world expert in memory
improvement, brain optimization, and accelerated learning. After a
childhood brain injury left him learning-challenged, Kwik created strategies
to dramatically enhance his mental performance. He has since dedicated his
life to helping others unleash their true genius and brainpower. For more
than two decades, he has served as the brain coach to students, seniors,
entrepreneurs, and educators. His work has touched a who’s who of
Hollywood elite, professional athletes, political leaders, and business
magnates, with corporate clients that include Google, Virgin, Nike, Zappos,
SpaceX, GE, Twentieth Century Fox, Cleveland Clinic, Wordpress, and
such institutions as the United Nations, Caltech, Harvard University, and
Singularity University.
Through keynote speeches, he reaches in-person audiences totaling more
than 200,000 every year; his online videos have garnered hundreds of
millions of views. Kwik is regularly featured in media, including Forbes,
HuffPost, Fast Company, Inc., and CNBC. He is the host of the acclaimed
“Kwik Brain” podcast, which is consistently the top educational training
show on iTunes. KwikLearning.com’s online courses are used by students
in 195 countries.
Kwik, an advocate for brain health and global education, is also a
philanthropist funding projects ranging from Alzheimer’s research to the
creation of schools from Guatemala to Kenya, providing health care, clean
water, and learning for children in need. His mission: No brain left behind.
CHAPTER 2
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2. Suzana Herculano-Houzel, “The Human Brain in Numbers: a Linearly Scaled-up Primate Brain,”
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3. Ferris Jabr, “Cache Cab: Taxi Drivers’ Brains Grow to Navigate London’s Streets,” Scientific
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3. Oliver Wendell Holmes, “The Autocrat of the Breakfast-Table,” Atlantic Monthly 2, no. 8 (June
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CHAPTER 5
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2, 2019, https://kwikbrain.libsyn.com/114-break-through-your-beliefs-with-shelly-lefkoe/.
2. Jan Bruce, et al., Mequilibrium: 14 Days to Cooler, Calmer, and Happier (New York: Harmony
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3. Jennice Vilhauer, “4 Ways to Stop Beating Yourself Up, Once and For All,” Psychology Today,
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Controversial,” The Conversation, accessed August 16, 2019, https://theconversation.com/the-iq
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6. Ibid.
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CHAPTER 7
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2. Christopher J. Bryan, et al., “Motivating Voter Turnout by Invoking the Self,” PNAS, last
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Turnout,” Stanford University, last modified July 19, 2011, https://news.stanford.edu/news/2011/
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CHAPTER 8
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try-your-brain-on-food-201511168626.
2. Jim Kwik, “Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik: Eating for Your Brain with Dr. Lisa Mosconi,” Jim
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with-dr-lisa-mosconi/.
3. Jim Kwik, “Kwik Brain with Jim Kwik: When to Eat for Optimal Brain Function with Max
Lugavere,” Jim Kwik, last modified July 19, 2018, https://jimkwik.com/kwik-brain-066-when-to
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4. “Table 1: Select Nutrients that Affect Cognitive Function,” National Institutes of Health, www.nc
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6. Daniel G. Amen, Change Your Brain, Change Your Life: the Breakthrough Program for
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13. Ibid.
14. Sandee LaMotte, “One in Four Americans Develop Insomnia Each Year: 75 Percent of Those
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21. Ibid.
CHAPTER 9
1. Sarah Young, “This Bizarre Phenomenon Can Stop You from Procrastinating,” The Independent,
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2. Art Markman, “How to Overcome Procrastination Guilt and Turn It Into Motivation,” HBR
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3. B. J. Fogg, “When you learn the Tiny Habits method, you can change your life forever,” Tiny
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4. Deepak Agarwal, Discover the Genius in Your Child (Delhi: AIETS.com Pvt.Ltd., 2012), 27-28.
5. Charles Duhigg, The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business (New York:
Random House, 2012), 20–21.
6. James Clear, “The Habits Academy,” The Habits Academy, habitsacademy.com/.
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8. Ibid.
9. Phillippa Lally, et al., “How Are Habits Formed: Modelling Habit Formation in the Real World,”
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11. Ibid.
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14. Ibid.
15. Ibid.
CHAPTER 10
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2009).
2. Mike Oppland, “8 Ways To Create Flow According to Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi,” PositivePsycho
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CHAPTER 11
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2. Ibid.
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8. Kristin Wong, “How Long It Takes to Get Back on Track After a Distraction,” Lifehacker, July
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4. Ibid.
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11. Ibid.
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CHAPTER 13
1. Eve Marder, “The Importance of Remembering,” eLife 6 (August 14, 2017), https://www.ncbi.nl
m.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5577906/.
2. William R. Klemm, “Five Reasons That Memory Matters,” Psychology Today, January 13, 2013,
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com/2012/06/10/opinion/foer-ted-memory/index.html.
CHAPTER 14
1. Lauren Duzbow, “Watch This. No. Read It!” Oprah.com, June 2008, www.oprah.com/health/how
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7. Ibid.
8. Rimm, Allison, “Taming the Epic To-Do List.” Harvard Business Review, June 14, 2018, https://
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9. Peter Bevelin, Seeking Wisdom: from Darwin to Munger (PCA Publications LLC, 2018).
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INDEX
A
Ability, in Fogg Behavior Model, 160
Accelerated learning
focus, 183–190
memory, 211–221
science of, 180
speed reading, 237–253
studying, 193–209
thinking, 255–275
Active recall, 54, 199, 208
Alexis (Kwik Learning online partner), 73–75
Alzheimer’s disease, 143
Ambivalence, 159
Amen, Daniel, 137
Answers
asking right questions and, 59
generalization and, 60
looking for, 74–75
neuroplasticity and, 63
questions and, 56–60, 61, 63
Anterior cingulate cortex (ACC), 187
ANTs (automatic negative thoughts), 137–138, 146, 282
Anxiety, 187
Association, 224–226
Attention
brain nutrients and, 136
calming mind and, 186
conscious, 196
focused, 145
memory and, 217, 223
paying, 59, 81, 185
positive emotions and, 86
shifting, 25
supervillains and, xv, xvi
wandering, 48
Auditory learners, 260
Aureliu, Marcus, 192
“Automaticity,” 153, 157
Automatic negative thoughts (ANTs), 137–138, 146, 282
Autopilot, 153–157
Avocados, 131, 133, 134, 245, 284
B
Bad habits, 157, 159
Baker/baker Paradox, 217–218
Bannister, Roger, 71–72
Baroque music, 203, 235
Barriers, moving through, 71–72
“Beginner’s mind,” 50
Behavior change, 159
Beliefs
accepted, 16
core, xviii
iceberg, 75–76
intelligence is fixed, 90
limiting, xvii, xviii, xxii, 19, 72–85
mindset and, 66
new, creating, 84
as not constraining, xxii
Belief systems, 66
BE SUAVE mnemonic, 231–232
Beyerstein, Barry, 94–95
Binet, Alfred, 91–92
Black, David S., 145
Black hat, 256
Blaze genius, 78
Blueberries, 131, 133, 245, 284
Blue hat, 257
Bohórquez, Diego, 40
Bonchek, Mark, 271–272
“Boy with the broken brain,” 5–8, 9
Bradberry, Travis, 177
Brain
about, 34–35
blueprint for upgrading, xviii
broken, boy with, 5–8, 9
cerebral cortex, 35
connections, 40
as deletion device, 56
as energy hog, 94
environment influence on, 35–36
evolving understanding about, 34
exercising, 213
gene influence on, 35–36
health and fitness of, xvi
limited knowledge about, 34
limited use LIE, 93–95
limitless, 33–45
listening with, 203–205
memory and, 27
as muscle, 27, 212–213
neurological peak and, 35
neuroplasticity, 35, 36–38
outsourcing, 27–28
regions and functions, 94
reticular activating system (RAS), 56–59
space description as, 9
supervillains, xvi–xvii
upgrading through reading, 45
Brain Boost Salad, 133–134
Brain coaching, 14
Brain cycles, 160
Brain diet
foods in, 130, 131
recipes, 132–135
Brain energy
ANTs, killing and, 137–138
brain protection and, 140
clean environment and, 138–139
diet for, 130–135
exercise and, 136–137
limitless, generating, 129–146
in motivation, 111
new learning and, 140
nutrients, 136
positive peer group and, 139
sleep and, 141–146
stress management and, 141
in 10-Day Kwik Start program, 284
Brain foods, 130, 131, 146, 147
Brain function
air quality and, 138
changing, 36, 38
diet and, 130, 132, 136
exercise and, 137
limited use assumption, 93–95
memory as fundamental in, 214, 239
positive peer group and, 139
sleep and, 142
Brain nutrients, 136
Brain protection, 140
Brain stem, 35
Breathing, 52, 114, 138, 145–146, 166, 172, 188–189, 201
Broccoli, 131, 134–135, 245, 284
Brown, Les, 82
Bruce, Jan, 75–76
Bryan, Christopher, 120
C
Calendar use, 53–54
“Capture and create” method, 207
Carrey, Jim, 100–101
Central nervous system (CNS), 34, 39
Cerebral cortex, 35
Challenging yourself, flow and, 174–175
Chocolate, dark, 131, 135, 284
Cirillo, Francesco, 48
Clean environment, 138–139
Clear, James, 155
Cocoa-Cinnamon-ginger “Hot Chocolate,” 135
Coelho, Paulo, 182
Cohen, Gillian, 217
Commitment page, 56, 57
Commitments, 115, 123
Competence, four levels of, 195–196
Comprehension, reading, 245–246
Comstock, Beth, 96
Concentration
ability research, 48
de-cluttering environment and, 186
defined, 185
in learning how to learn, 12
as a muscle, 185, 186
practicing, 184–186
in reading comprehension, 246
success and, 184
Connection, 25, 37
Conscious awareness, 31
Conscious competence, 195–196
Conscious incompetence, 195
Consolidation stage, flow, 172
“Conventional wisdom,” 106
Conviction, lack of, 176–177
Cortisol, 141, 176
Counting, reading and, 250–251
Coyle, Daniel, 105
Cramming, 197–198, 199. See also study
Creighton, Mandell (Bishop), 58
Criticism of others matters LIE, 100–102
Csikszentmihalyi, Mihaly, 169–170
D
Dandapani, 184, 185
Da Vinci, Leonardo, 7
De Bono, Edward, 256–257
Decision-making
cerebellum and, 35
digital deduction and, 28
mental model for, 265–266
De-cluttering environment, 186
Deduction, 28. See also digital deduction
Dementia, xvi, 5, 138. See also digital
dementia
Depression
cortisol and, 177
fear of failure and, 176
lack of sleep and, 114, 142
refined sugar and, 130
Diet, brain, 130–135
Digital deduction. See also supervillains
about, 28–31
defined, xvi, 30
Kwik Start, 31
technology and, 28–29
Digital deluge. See also supervillains
about, 22–24
defined, xvi
half-life of information and, 24
health risks, 23–24
Kwik Start, 24
Digital dementia. See also supervillains
about, 26–28
defined, xvi, 26
Kwik Start, 28
outsourcing brain and, 27–28
Digital depression, 30
Digital distraction. See also supervillains about, 24–26
defined, xv
information processing and, 25
Kwik Start, 26
multitasking and, 26
Distractions
de-cluttering environment and, 186
eliminating, 173, 177
focus and, 186
learning how to learn and, 12
memory and, 235
time and, 187–188, 189
Dopamine, 25
Doughtie, Lynne, 108
DREAMS mnemonic, 164–165
Dreams, remembering, 164–165
Drucker, Peter, 20
Dryden, John, 148
Duhigg, Charles, 155
Dweck, Carol, 90–91, 163
Dwyer, Ryan, 25
Dyer, Wayne, 88
Dynamo genius, 78
Dyslexia, 99
E
Eagleman, David, 94
Easy Roasted Salmon & Broccoli with Swiss
Chard, 134–135
Edison, Thomas, 210
Education
questions and, 58
system, 41–43
taking into own hands, 92
Edwards, Tyron, 223
Eggs, 131, 133, 134, 284
Einstein, Albert, 7, 11, 64, 95–96, 258, 259
Eliot, T. S., 276
Emmons, Nathaniel, 158
Emotional energy, 52
Emotions
goals fitting with, 116–117
limiting beliefs and, 83
memory and, 226, 228
motivation and, 124
negative, 85
positive, 86
red thinking hat and, 256–257
End value, 121
Energy. See brain energy
Energy management, xvii
Enteric nervous system (ENS), 38–39, 40
Environment, clean, 138–139
Errors, studying your, 267–268
Exercise
brain energy and, 136–137
sleep and, 143–144
Exponential mindset, 271–272
Exponential thinking. See also thinking
about, 271–272
defined, 270
extrapolate and, 274
posit a new approach and, 273
read about it and, 274
steps for, 272–274
underlying problem and, 272–273
F
Facilitator (prompt), 161
Facts, 81–83, 84
Failure
fear of, flow and, 176
to learn, 97
to make connection, 37
mistakes as LIE, 95–97
FASTER acronym, 281–282
Fields, Jonathan, 119
Finger, in reading, 247–248
Fixed mindset, 90–91, 92, 118
Flow
about, 169–170
challenge and, 174–175
characterization of, 170
clear goals and, 174
consolidation stage in, 172
defined, 169
eliminating distractions and, 173, 177
enemies of, 175–177
fear of failure and, 176
finding, 173–175
flow stage in, 172
as fundamental to limitless, 177
Kwik Start, 172
lack of conviction and, 176–177
motivation and, 111
multitasking, 175
productivity and, 170
relaxation stage in, 172
something you love and, 173–174
as “source code” of motivation, 172
stages of, 171–172
stress and, 175–176
struggle stage in, 171
time and, 173
winning with, 170–171
in the workplace, 170
Focus. See also accelerated learning
about, 183–184
anxiety and, 187
calming mind and, 186–189
concentration, 184
distractions and, 186
importance of, 183
in learning how to learn, 12
reading and, 240, 243
in reading comprehension, 246
unlimiting, 190
Foer, Joshua, 214, 218
Fogg Behavior Model
ability, 160
changing behaviors with, 167
defined, 159
motivators, 159–160
prompts, 160
Fogg, B. J., 151, 159–161
FOMO (fear of missing out), 123
Foods, brain, 130, 131, 146, 147
Ford, Debbie, 154
Ford, Henry, 254
Foreman, Richard, 29
Forgetting curve, 47, 48, 54
40/70 rule, 265–266
Fredrickson, Barbara, 85–87
Frost, Robert, 225
Funt, Juliet, 187
G
Gardner, Howard, 258, 275
Generalization, 60
Genius
blaze, 78
dynamo, 78
as grown, 105
is born LIE, 102–105
Kwik Start, 79
multiple forms of, 77–79
steel, 78–79
tempo, 78
you as, 77–79
Gig economy, 44
Goals
breaking down into small steps, 129
fitting with emotions, 116–117
flow and, 174
mindset alignment to, xvii
note-taking, 206
SMART, 116
Goodall, Jane, 260
Gordon, Barry, 95
Greenberg, Melanie, 187
Greenfield, Patricia Marks, 29
Green hat, 257
Green leafy vegetables, 131, 284
Greider, Carol, 98–99
Growth mindset, 90–91, 92, 118
Guilt, 150–151
Gupta, James, 200
H
Habit loop, 155, 156, 167
Habits
bad, 157, 159
creating, 156, 157, 161–162
Kwik Start, 161
morning routine, 163–167
negative, 156
new, in 10-Day Kwik Start program, 284
new, WIN acronym for, 162, 167
old, confronting, 154
one at a time, growing life and, 162–163
power of, 155
Habituation, 56–59
HEAR acronym, 204–205
HEART acronym, 116
Hero’s Journey, xxii, xxiii
Hierarchy of values, 120–121
Hobbes, Thomas, 97
Hope/fear motivator, 160
Human potential, xxiii
Hydration, 165. See also water
I
“I am” statements, 120, 126
Iceberg beliefs, 75–76
Identity, 119–120, 125
Iliff, Jeff, 142–143
Imagination and reading, 241
Incremental mindset, 272
Information
delivering great deal of, 229–231
half-life of, 24
intention of teaching, 53
processing and filtering, 25
recalling great deal of, 218–220
Inner critic, 76, 77, 83, 84–85
Insomnia, 143, 144. See also sleep
Inspiration, 18, 87
Intelligence
bodily-kinesthetic, 258
as fluid, 93
growth mindset and, 92
interpersonal, 259
intrapersonal, 259
linguistic, 259
logical-mathematical, 259
musical, 258–259
naturalistic, 260
spatial, 258
types of, 93, 258–260
Intelligence is fixed LIE, 89–93
Internet, reliance on, 29, 30, 240
IQ
defined, 77
scores, 91, 92
tests, 92
J
Jain, Naveen, 269–271, 272–273
James, William, 93
Jobs, changing nature of, 43–44
JOMO (joy of missing out), 123
K
Kaku, Michio, 32
Kelly, Fred, 101–102
Kennedy, John F., 244–245
Kim, Jean, 142
Kinesthetic learners, 260
Klemm, William, 199, 215–216
Kline, Christopher E., 144
Knowledge
as potential to be power, 98
as power, 13, 97–98
in promoting neuroplasticity, 50
trying to fit in a box, 104
“The Knowledge,” 36
Kotler, Steven, 168, 171, 172
Kwik Brain app, 51
Kwik Brain podcast, 14
Kwik Challenge, 162, 163
Kwik Learning community, 22
Kwik Start exercises
ANTs (automatic negative thoughts), 138
asking questions, 62, 63
books to read, 241
brain foods, 130
calendar use, 54
clean environment, 139
concentration, 184
digital deduction, 31
digital deluge, 24
digital dementia, 28
digital distraction, 26
distraction time, 189
doing, 63
flow, 172
focus, 189
genius, 79
habits, 161
“I am,” 120
learning as social, 53
“To Learn” list, 140
LIEs of learning, 105
memory, 213
morning routine, 167
movement, 137
passions, 118
positive peer group, 139
problem solving, 258
purpose, 119
reading and remembering, 50
reading as active experience, 52
reading time, 253
recall, 222
relaxation, 221
review, 54
sleep, 146
as small simple steps, 149
small simple steps (S3), 153
spending extra time, 242
state-dependency of learning, 52–53
state of mind, F
stress management, 141
study, 195
supervillains, 31
writing down extraneous thoughts, 51
L
Languages. See also vocabulary
baroque music and, 235
remembering, 232–235
spaced repetition and, 235
word substitutions, 233–234
Lashley, Karl, 93
“Laundry cycle” metaphor, 142–143
Learning. See also accelerated learning
active approach to, 224–227
benefits of, xvi
better, reasons for, 122–123
capacity, as limitless, 13
consistency in, 100
criticism matters LIE, 100–102
as difficult LIE, 98–100
elementary, 220–223
as empty vessel, 50–51
expanding, 146–147
genius is born LIE, 102–105
how to learn, 12–14
intelligence is fixed LIE, 89–93
knowledge is power LIE, 97–98
as lifelong process, 20
limited brain use LIE, 93–95
listening and, 203–205
as making new connections, 37
mistakes are failures LIE, 95–97
music and, 202–203, 208–209
neuroplasticity and, 38
new, brain energy and, 140
primacy and, 48, 49, 198, 227
problem-solving through, 99
recency and, 48, 49, 198, 227
small steps in, 100
as social, 53
state-dependency, 52–53
supervillains of, 21–22
taking charge of, 44
Learning curve, 53
Learning disabilities, 99
“Learning disabled,” 13
Learning environment, 52
Learning styles
auditory, 260
determination quiz, 262–264
kinesthetic, 260
mix of, 265
other, incorporating, 275
visual, 260
Lee, Bruce, 102–104, 105
Lee, Stan, 67
Lefkoe, Shelly, 73
Levitin, Daniel J., 25–26
Lewis, Jordan Gaines, 202
LIEs of learning
criticism of other people matter, 100–102
genius is born, 102–105
intelligence is fixed, 89–93
knowledge is power, 97–98
Kwik Start, 105
learning new things is difficult, 98–100
limited brain use, 93–95
mistakes are failures, 95–97
LIEs of motivation, 110
Life purpose, 117
Limited ideas entertained (LIEs), 66, 89
Limiting beliefs. See also LIEs of learning
commonly held, 106
effects of, 73
emotions and, 83
facts and, 81–83, 84
fixed mindset, 91
inner critic and, 83, 84–85
limitless mindset versus, 80
minimizing, 80–85
most common, 87
naming, 80–81
reframing, 80–85
as self-talk, 72–73
source of, 81
as starting in childhood, 73, 81
as wrong, 81–83
Limitless
becoming, 3–19
as a choice, 54–56
as progressing beyond, 16
you as, 277–278
Limitless Model, 17–18
Limitless (movie), 3, 93, 110
Limitless secrets, xvii–xviii. See also methods; mindset; motivation
Limits
belief in, xxii
as growth and learning obstruction, 30–31
as preconceived notions, 51
Lipszyc, Hadassah, 150
Listening
HEAR acronym, 204–205
importance of, 203
learning and, 203–205
note-taking and, 207
with whole brain, 203–205
Location, 226, 230, 231
Loci method, 229–231
M
Mackie, Evie, 273
Maguire, Eleanor, 36
Mai, Jeannie, 59
Marano, Hara Estroff, 176
Marder, Eve, 215
Mark, Gloria, 188
Markman, Art, 151
Means value, 121
Meditation, 145–146
Memorization, 215, 216, 219–220, 222, 228
Memory. See also accelerated learning
active focus in, 224–227
association and, 224–226
attention and, 217, 223
Baker/baker Paradox and, 217–218
brain strengthening and, 27
delivering a great deal of information and, 229–231
digital dementia and, 27
distractions and, 235
emotion and, 226, 228
exercise of, 28, 216
as foundation for every action, 214–215
as fundamental brain function, 214
great, keys for, 224–227
as greatest asset, 213
importance of, 213, 214–215
Kwik exercise, 227–229
Kwik Start, 213
of languages, 232–235
location and, 226–227
loci method and, 229–231
long-term, 41
methods, 217
MOM mnemonic, 216–217, 285
motivation and, 216–217
of names, 231–232
not-to-do list, 267
observation and, 217
reading and, 240
recall of a great deal of information and, 218–220
reference points, 217–218
short-term, 41
trained, 222, 229, 235
training videos, 235
visualization and, 224
vocabulary and, 232–235
working, 216
Memory lapses, 38
Mental models
for decision-making, 265–266
defined, 265
40/70 rule, 265–266
not-to-do list, 266–267
for problem-solving, 267–268
for productivity, 266–267
second-order thinking, 269
for strategy, 269
study your errors, 267–268
as thinking constructs, 265
Meta-learning, 180
Methods. See also focus; memory; motivation; speed reading; study
defined, 18, 179
key, xviii
limit in, 19
in Limitless Model, 17–18
mastering, xxi
memory, 217
as process of learning how to learn, 180
right, using, xviii
Mind
broadening, 192
calming, 186–189
calming techniques, 188–189, 190
memorization and, 215
preparing, 62–63
wandering and daydreaming, 246
Mindset
alignment to desires and goals, xvii
beliefs and, 66
characterization of, 66
defined, 18, 65
exponential, 271–272
fixed, 90–91, 92, 118
growth, 90–91, 92, 118
incremental, 272
intersection with motivation, 18
limit in, 17
limitless, 17–18, 67, 80, 277
in Limitless Model, 17–18
mastering, xxi
positive, building, 85
shifting, 12
silencing the inner critic and, 87
Mistakes
as failures LIE, 95–97
feelings about, 106
as signs of trying something new, 96
studying, 267–268
you as a person and, 97
MOM mnemonic, 216–217, 285
Monet, Claude, 258
Money, simplicity and, 160
Morning Brain Tonic, 132
Morning Magic Smoothie, 133
Morning routine. See also habits
“brain smoothie,” 166
“brain tea,” 166
breathing exercises, 166
brushing teeth with opposite hand, 165
celery juice, 165
cold shower, 165–166
DREAMS assessment, 164–165
establishing, 163–167
hydration, 165
importance of, 163, 167
keys to, 166
Kwik Start, 167
making bed, 165
three-minute workout, 165
Morpheus, 55
Morris, Eddie, 110
Mosconi, Lisa, 130
Motivation. See also energy; purpose
culture as nourished by, 108
defined, 18, 109
empowering sense of, 12
enjoyment and, 110
finding flow and, 111
flow as “source code” of, 172
in Fogg Behavior Model, 159–160
forcing, 126
formula, 110
hope/fear, 160
identity and, 119–120
intersection with mindset, 18
LIEs of, 110
limit in, 18
limitless, 277–278
in Limitless Model, 17–18
as limitless secret, xvii-xviii
mastering, xxi
memory and, 216–217
as not fixed, 110
passions and, 117–119
pleasure/pain, 159–160
reasons and, 122
as set of emotions, 124
as set of habits and routines, 126
social acceptance/rejection, 160
as something you do, 110
sustainable, 110
tapping into, 10
Mozart, Wolfgang Amadeus, 259
Mueller, Pam A., 207
Multitasking, 26, 175, 185, 187
Music and learning, 202–203, 208–209, 235
N
Names, remembering, 231–232
Negative habits, 156
Neurological peak, 35
Neurons, 23, 32, 35, 37, 40, 140
Neuroplasticity
answers and, 63
defined, 35, 37
dependency, 37
knowledge promotion of, 50
learning and, 38
understanding, 36–38
Neurotransmitters, 35
Nonroutine, simplicity and, 160
Note-taking. See also study
ability, upgrading, 205–208
“capture and create” method, 207
goals, 206
impaired learning and, 206–207
ineffective, 205
intention, clarity of, 206
listening and, 207
own words in, 206
practicing, 209
purpose of, 205–206
reviewing notes after, 207–208
TIP mnemonic, 208
tips, 208
writing and, 206–207
Not-to-do list, 266–267
Nutrients, brain, 136
O
Obama, Michelle, 128
Observation, 217, 255, 285
Opinions, 81
Oppenheimer, Daniel M., 207
Organization, this book, 19
P
Pain, 124
Passion(s)
finding, 117–118, 126
Kwik Start, 118
learning and, 125
purpose and, 117–118
reasons and, 122
simultaneous cultivation of, 118
underlying meaning in, 119
Peer group, positive, 139
Peripheral vision, vision and, 249–250
Perlman, Adam, 75–76
Phospholipid DHA, 136
Physical effort, simplicity and, 160
Plante, Thomas G., 157–159
Plato, 260
Pleasure/pain motivator, 159–160
Pomodoro technique, 48, 49
Positive mindset, 85
Positive peer group, 139
Positive thinking, 79–80
Posture, 52, 201, 282
Powell, Colin, 265
Power, knowledge is LIE, 97–98
Presentations, delivering without notes, 229–231
Primacy, 48, 49, 198, 227
Priming, 120
Problem-solving
in adding value, 45
Kwik Start, 258
study your errors and, 267–268
technology and, 28–29
thinking hats for, 256–257
Procrastination, 151, 197, 199
Productivity
environment, changing, 190
flow state and, 170, 177
mental model for, 266–267
Pomodoro technique for, 48
Promise, 56
Prompts, 161, 162
Protection, brain, 140
Pugh, Ken, 239
Purpose
becoming clear on, 115
as driver to act, 111
in guiding decisions, 117
Kwik Start, 119
life, 117
passion and, 117–118
reasons and, 121–123
in 10-Day Kwik Start program, 283
values and, 120–121
Q
Questions
as the answer, 56–60, 61, 63
asking, 60, 62–63
dominant, 60–63
education and, 58
in guiding RAS, 59
for priming focus, 63
questioning, 283
right, asking, 10–12
this book, 63
wrong, asking, 11
R
Reading. See also speed reading
about, 237–239
appreciation, 246–247
average speed, 242
barriers and obstacles, 243–245
books, 10
as boring task, 238, 243
challenges to, 242–245
comprehension, 245–246
efficiency, 243
in exponential thinking, 274
focus and, 240, 243
as foundation for learning, 239
fun of, 75
imagination and, 241
Kwik Start, 253
for limitless brain, 239–241
in memory improvement, 240
methods for increasing speed of, 248–251
outdated skills, 244
power of, embracing, 285
regression and, 243, 248
self-assessment, 241–242
slow, reasons for, 243
speed, limited, 250
subvocalization and, 244–245, 250
tips, 252
understanding and, 241
in upgrading your brain, 45
visual pacer, 253
in vocabulary improvement, 240
wander, 243
words as symbols and, 245
writing down extraneous thoughts while, 51
with your finger, 247–248
Reading circles, 4
Reality, facing, 8
Reasoning, 215
Reasons
commitments and, 123
finding, 121–123
learning and, 122–123, 125
for learning skills and techniques, this book, 124–125
motivation and, 122
passion and, 122
results and, 112
values and, 122
Recall, 221, 222
Recency, 48, 49, 198, 227
Recipes, brain
Brain Boost Salad, 133–134
Cocoa-Cinnamon-ginger “Hot Chocolate,” 135
Easy Roasted Salmon & Broccoli with Swiss Chard, 134–135
Morning Brain Tonic, 132
Morning Magic Smoothie, 133
Red hat, 256–257
Regression, 243, 248
Regret, 102
Reid, Kathryn J., 143–144
Relaxation stage, flow, 172
Resistance, persistence and, 51
Reticular activating system (RAS), 56–59
Review, 54
Richtel, Matt, 23
Ries, Eric, 42
Robbins, Tony, 163
Robinson, Ken, 41
Roche, Bryan, 92
Rowling, J. K., 2
S
Salmon, 131, 134–135, 284
Sartre, Jean-Paul, 54
Schellenberg, E. Glenn, 262–263
“Science of momentum,” 163
Second-order thinking, 269
Self-talk, 38, 51, 72–73, 81, 83, 138
Shame, 151
Sharma, Mona, 132
Shatté, Andrew, 75–76
Shenk, David, 92
Signal (prompt), 161
Simon, Theodore, 91
Simplicity, categories of, 160
Sinek, Simon, 31, 115
Sleep
brain energy and, 141–146
“catch-up” mentality, 143
DREAMS assessment, 164–165
exercise and, 143–144
good, accomplishing, 143–144
improving, 147
insomnia and, 143, 144
Kwik Start, 146
lack of, 113, 114, 142
meditation and, 145–146
as not a choice, 142–143
quality, 142
turning off mind and, 145–146
Small simple steps (S3)
autopilot and, 153–157
baby steps and, 151–153
behavior change and, 152–153
be kind to yourself and, 150–151
defined, 149
Kwik Start, 149, 153
overwhelm and, 150
Zeigarnik effect and, 150, 151, 153
SMART goals, 116
Smell, sense of, 201–202
Smith, Will, 62
Social acceptance/rejection motivator, 160
Social deviance, simplicity and, 160
Social media, xv, 25–26, 30, 56, 59, 98, 186, 251
Spaced repetition, 199–200, 235
Spark (prompt), 161
Speed reading. See also accelerated learning; reading
comprehension misconception, 245–246
counting and, 250–251
effort misconception, 246
as exercising, 248–251
finger use in, 247–248
John F. Kennedy and, 244–245
masterclass, 253
misconceptions, 245–247
peripheral vision and, 249–250
progress as aim in, 251
reading appreciation misconception, 246–247
speed, increasing, 248–251
success stories, 251–253
tips, 252
Spitzer, Manfred, 26
Start with Why (Sinek), 115
State of mind
Kwik Start, 201
learning and, 52–53
managing, 201
posture and, 201
Steel genius, 78–79
Stress
cluttered environment and, 186
doing something that causes, 188–189
flow and, 175–176
ill-health and, 23
oxidative, brain, 130, 131
prolonged, 141
Stress management, 79, 141
Struggle stage, flow, 171
Study. See also accelerated learning
active recall and, 199, 208
better, 196–197
competence and, 195–196
cramming and, 197–198
habits, 199–208
importance of, 193–195
Kwik Start, 195
listening with whole brain and, 203–205
music and, 202–203, 208–209
note-taking and, 205–208
note-taking tips, 208
optimizing, in 10-Day Kwik Start program, 284
procrastination and, 197, 199
sense of smell and, 201–202
spaced repetition and, 199–200
state of mind and, 201
success and, 196–197
time, 199
Subvocalization, 244–245, 250
Superheroes, xix, 3, 5, 14–15, 21, 69–70, 175, 278–279
Superpowers, xxi, 5, 15, 21, 70, 167, 239, 278
Supervillains
about, xvi–xvii
cumulative effects of, xvi
defined, xv–xvi
digital deduction, xvii, 28–31
digital deluge, xvi, 22–24
digital dementia, xvii, 26–28
digital distraction, xvii, 24–26
keeping at bay, 31
Kwik Start, 31
learning and, 21–22
limits of, xv
Synaptic pruning, 95
T
Taylor, Jim, 29
Teaching, learning with intention and, 53
Technology, 22, 27, 28–29, 31, 33
Tempo genius, 78
10-Day Kwik Start program
about, 279, 281
brain energy, 284
FASTER acronym, 281–282
kill your ANTs, 282
MOM mnemonic, 285
new healthy habit, 284
power of reading, 285
purpose, 283
question your questions, 283
study optimization, 284
what you want most, 283
Thinking. See also accelerated learning
exponential, 269–274
incorporating other learning styles into, 275
intelligence types and, 258–260
learning styles and, 260–265
mental models and, 265–269
as process of reasoning, 60
second-order, 269
supercharging, 30
with thinking hats, 256–257
Thinking hats, 256–257, 275
Time
distractions and, 187–188, 189
flow and, 173
as important asset, 47
simplicity and, 160
study, 199
with uncluttered mind, 187
TIP mnemonic, 208
Toffler, Alvin, 178
Trained memory, 222, 229
Trained readers, 246–247. See also reading; speed reading
Transcending, this book as, xxii
Turmeric, 131, 132, 136, 284
Twain, Mark, 68, 236
U
Unconscious competence, 196
Unconscious incompetence, 195
Underlying problem, getting to, 272–273
Unlimiting together, 16–17
V
Values
core, 117
creating list of, 127
hierarchy of, 120–121
in iceberg model, 76
learning and, 125, 126
prioritization of, 121
reasons and, 122
unawareness of, 121
Vilhauer, Jennice, 76
Visualization, 224, 229–231, 232, 283
Visual learners, 260
Vocabulary
as cornerstone of learning, 232
masculine or feminine, 235
reading and, 240
remembering, 232–235
spaced repetition and, 235
word substitutions, 232–233
W
Walnuts, 131, 133–134, 284
“Wander reading,” 243
Water, 131, 132, 142, 157, 165, 270, 272–273, 284
Weil, Andrew, 188
What-if-statements, 273
White hat, 256
Whitespace, 187
“Why” question, 127, 268
William, Anthony, 165
Williams, Venus, 260
Wilson, Woodrow, 46
Wimber, Maria, 27
Win acronym (habits), 162, 167
Winfrey, Oprah, 78, 79, 237, 259
Words as symbols, 245
Word substitutions, 232–233
Work, changing nature of, 43–44
Working memory, 216
“Worthy rivals,” 31
Wright brothers, 101–102
X
X-Men cast, 15
Y
Yanek, Lisa, 79
Yellow hat, 256
Yip Man, 103, 105
Yourself, knowing, 60–63
Z
Zarom, Rony, 28
Zeigarnik, Bluma, 149–150
Zeigarnik effect, 150, 151, 153
Ziva Meditation, 166
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