Burns Tom - Psychotherapy
Burns Tom - Psychotherapy
Burns Tom - Psychotherapy
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Preface
List of illustrations
1 What is psychotherapy and who is it for?
2 Freud and psychoanalysis
3 Post-Freudians: moving towards the interpersonal
4 Time-limited psychotherapy
5 Counselling
6 Cognitive behaviour therapy
7 Family, group, and interactive therapies
8 Psychotherapy now and in the future
References
Further reading
Index
Preface
Psychology is the science of mental processes and behaviour. It uses all the
standard scientific methods of observation, experimentation, and theory
development. It isn’t even restricted to humans—many psychologists study
animal behaviour, both for its own sake and also to model human thinking.
Psychologists examine emotions, perceptions, thoughts, etc., and
increasingly use very high-tech equipment such as computers and brain
scanners. Some ‘clinical’ psychologists work in health services and apply
what they learn from their science to help people with problems.
Psychotherapy or psychotherapies?
Psychotherapy has never stood still. It has not only expanded its range and
extent, but there have been exciting and lasting changes in its practice. The
traditional psychoanalytic psychotherapy described at length in Chapter 2
dominated the earlier years, but various styles and adaptations evolved up
until World War II. The Nazis’ persecution of the Jews (almost all the early
psychoanalysts were German-speaking Jews such as Sigmund Freud) drove
psychotherapists abroad to the US, South America, and the UK. The result
was a variation in practice in different societies and the beginning of
radically different ways of thinking (see Chapter 3). Since the war we have
witnessed the establishment of time-limited therapies (Chapter 4), the
exponential growth of counselling, psychotherapy’s less formal relative
(Chapter 5), and more recently the rapid development of a strikingly
different approach called cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT, Chapter 6). As
psychotherapeutic thinking became bolder it began to escape its traditional
one-to-one format and experimented with group and interactive therapies
(Chapter 7).
Just how different are these therapies from each other, and how much are
they variations on the same theme? Is counselling just another form of
psychotherapy, or is it something quite new and different? In writing a book
like this we have described the differences, so that you can get a sense of
the range. Many practitioners insist that they are radically different from
each other, but we are not convinced. Our view is that they have more
factors in common than separate them. All have the same starting point in
their commitment to help fellow human beings who are struggling with
distressing problems. All assume that things can get better, and that an
honest, reliable, and tolerant relationship can provide a setting for change.
Lastly, all are based on some form of belief that what matters in our lives is
not simply what happens to us, but crucially what we make of it and how
we deal with it, often based on mental processes we may only be dimly
aware of. Psychotherapy aims to bring these processes into clear
consciousness—to help us make sense of them and take more control of our
lives.
A final word of warning. This is not a self-help book. There are plenty of
those around and many are excellent. This VSI may help you decide which
of the various types of psychotherapy appeals to you if you are thinking of
seeking help. But that is all it can do. Psychotherapy, and particularly
counselling, is now much more accessible and the old stigma that used to be
attached to seeking such help is, mercifully, shrinking fast. So if you are
thinking of talking things over there is absolutely nothing to be lost by
making the move, and it could make all the difference. A good place to start
is usually to discuss matters with your family doctor, or to access the
websites of reputable psychotherapy organizations. Currently,
psychotherapy registration is not statutory in most parts of the world, but
responsible therapists would welcome you enquiring into their level of
training or accreditation. We would recommend meeting with two or three
therapists for assessment sessions before making a final decision on whom
to see. Psychotherapy is a very personal business, and the ‘fit’ between you
and your therapist will play a crucial role both for the experience and for
the outcome of the process.
List of illustrations
3 Freud’s consulting
room
© Archive Photos / Getty Images
4 Triangle of persons
5 Triangle of conflict
7 A shell-shocked soldier
© Jack Sullivan / Alamy
8 A CAT diagram
10 Pavlov’s dog
and conditioning
© Robert Leighton / The New Yorker
Magazine / Conde Nast
13 Emotional baggage
© Cartoon by Carl D’Agostino,
carldagostino.wordpress.com
Chapter 1
What is psychotherapy and who is
it for?
The rise of psychotherapy was one of the most striking features of the 20th
century. What started as an obscure treatment for wealthy, intellectual
neurotics in fin-de-siècle Vienna has changed not only the nature of
psychiatric practice but how we understand ourselves. Psychotherapeutic
language and thinking is now part of everyday life, and we hardly get
through a day without using it: he ‘made a Freudian slip’, their relationship
‘is a bit Oedipal’, my ‘inferiority complex’ is showing. Counselling is now
seen as a natural response to many of the problems in our lives.
What links the sober psychoanalyst, the careful and scientific psychologist,
and the mystical and dramatic shaman? At its most basic psychotherapy
involves using an agreed relationship with specific characteristics,
involving a trained practitioner and a patient, to obtain relief from
emotional suffering. Most Western psychotherapies are based on talking
and discussion. They aim for a very personal understanding of the origins
and meaning of problems in order to remove symptoms and obtain relief.
Not all emphasize understanding the causes; in fact, existential philosophies
do quite the opposite. Some discourage such a search for unique personal
meanings, and some psychotherapies rely on a dramatic discharge of
emotion.
1. The image of the traditional bearded analyst with the mittel-European accent sitting behind
the couch dominated our view of psychotherapy for many decades
Who is it for?
In Freud’s day, patients usually sought help for very severe, often dramatic,
symptoms. His patients had to have a high level of education and drive to
be taken on for psychoanalysis. Treatment was very intensive and rather
intellectual. It delved into internal conflicts, making links between
symptoms, unconscious wishes, and disturbing early experiences. By
making these conscious (becoming aware of them) the patient could gain
greater control. Current psychoanalytic practice focuses more on problems
in relationships and self-fulfilment, and is sought by a much wider range of
people. This is not surprising. Our happiness depends most of all on our
relationships, so if they go wrong, we want to understand why and try to
repair them.
Not only are those who seek psychotherapy now more varied, but it is
provided in a much wider range of settings, including in family doctor
practices and occupational health schemes. It is no longer restricted to
‘intellectuals’, and accepts patients with more pervasive difficulties, such as
self-harm and substance abuse, as well as those from more disturbed or
deprived backgrounds.
Much has been made of psychological mindedness (the ability to reflect and
think about thoughts and feelings) as a requirement for psychotherapy. We
think this is putting the cart before the horse. People often seek therapy
precisely because they are not able to reflect on their lives in a
psychological manner. Psychotherapy can provide the tools to develop this
capacity. The popularity of the more transparent and ‘democratic’ recent
therapies such as interpersonal therapy (IPT), solution focused therapy
(SFT), and cognitive analytic therapy (CAT) (Chapter 4), and CBT (Chapter
6), testify to this trend, as does the increasing use of written aids and
questionnaires.
Psychotherapy in the 21st century is more accessible and varied than it was
a hundred years ago, and this book will reflect that scope—from the unique
and specialized to the more generic and familiar. We will restrict ourselves
to the forms of psychotherapy generally available for adults. Child
psychotherapy is a very specialized activity with its own theories and
practices, and neither of us is an expert in this field. While early
psychoanalysis did not see older adults as suitable candidates for analysis,
this view has changed, and many current psychotherapy models are suitable
for this age group and for people with learning disabilities. Although there
is a growing body of psychotherapy practice for these groups, we will not
address them in this book.
In Paris, in 1789 after the French Revolution, Philippe Pinel took charge of
two enormous institutions and ‘struck off the chains from the insane’. He
was convinced that their brutal treatment made their disturbances worse,
rather than reduced them. In England at about the same time a Quaker
family, the Tukes, were appalled at practices in their local madhouse. They
established an alternative, the York Retreat, providing a calm and tolerant
setting where patients were kept busy and constantly encouraged.
Punishment and harsh treatments were expressly prohibited. They called
this approach moral treatment.
The success of the York Retreat became world renowned. Along with
Pinel’s fledgling attempts at the classification of mental illnesses, it formed
the basis of modern psychiatry and the asylum movement that was to
dominate it for the next century and a half.
Back in Vienna, Freud began to use hypnosis and suggestion to treat his
neurotic patients. Despite some initial success he soon realized that
powerful suggestion followed by emotional release did not always work.
For many patients the detailed nature of their unconscious conflicts had to
be understood. Initially he believed that neuroses were caused by childhood
sexual abuse, which gave rise to memories that had to be kept unconscious
because they were too distressing. Later he changed his opinion and came
to believe that the abuse was imaginary, and that the neurotic symptoms
really arose from unacceptable impulses and drives. Psychoanalysts created
relationships with their patients, in which it was safe to dive deep into the
unconscious and confront what previously had been too threatening.
Unconscious processes had become firmly established as the source of
neuroses, and the substance of psychotherapy.
After World War II, society changed rapidly and new psychotherapies were
developed to reflect this. Psychoanalysis had itself contributed to these
changes, with its emphasis on the universality of emotional conflicts and
complexes, and its demonstration of the benefits of emotional honesty. It
now stressed the importance of early childcare and explored real
relationships, not just painful memories. With an increasingly egalitarian
society it became inevitable that such benefits should be made more widely
available. Psychoanalytic psychotherapy responded with shorter and less
intensive treatment regimes, once a week for a number of months rather
than daily for several years. However, the changes soon to come were even
more fundamental.
Counselling
In times of distress we need to be listened to and feel understood, and
counselling provides a kindly and tolerant ear. Counselling has become
available to those who would never have considered themselves as
‘neurotic’ or candidates for formal treatment with psychotherapy. It
provides help for ordinary people facing problems in everyday life or in
their relationships. Counselling was established by the work of Carl Rogers
(Chapter 5). He called it client-centred or person-centred to emphasize its
independence from rigid theories and dogma. It provides a calm, safe, and
supportive relationship that allows self-reflection and emotional healing.
Rogers recognized that simply having time to ponder your feelings and
thoughts is enormously valuable in its own right.
CBT’s ‘technological’ quality is probably its most significant break with the
past. Out goes the long training analysis and the mysterious and aloof
manner. In comes the therapy manual and democratic engagement, with
repeated exercises and measurement. CBT is probably now the most widely
practised therapy in healthcare and has a strong evidence base for treating
anxiety and depression. Its therapists see no conflict between ‘drugs’ or
‘therapy’, and are quite comfortable with ‘drugs and therapy’.
Sorting different therapies neatly into tidy boxes risks caricaturing them and
oversimplifying. In truth there has been a steady process of development,
refinement, and diversification of all therapies. Several have made radical
changes in theory and practice, although clearly with links to
psychoanalysis. Examples of this group (taken up in Chapter 4) are IPT,
DIT, and CAT.
Family therapy was first used in the treatment of disturbed children and
adolescents. Sometimes a child’s disturbance is a symptom of a wider
family dysfunction which needs to change. Even where this may not be the
case the whole family may be affected and need help, as when a child is
gravely ill. Treatments can sometimes be very short, involving only a
handful of meetings. Family therapy usually focuses on current
relationships rather than digging into ancient history, and the emphasis is on
the structure of the relationships. The same is true of couples and marital
therapy. What is locking family members into sterile and repetitive
conflicts? How can they escape to something more supportive and
liberating?
Harnessing the power of the group has become a central plank in addictions
treatment, such as in AA. Self-help organizations form the mainstay of
support in alcohol and drug abuse worldwide, and they have spread to other
addictions such as gambling.
Interactive therapies
All the newer psychotherapies are more active than psychoanalysis. Freud
wanted to understand his patients’ mental processes and was keen to avoid
contaminating them with his presence. This gave rise to the ‘blank screen’
therapist, who strove to reveal nothing about himself by word or deed. Later
psychotherapists are less concerned about this and believe a well-timed
active intervention can move things along. More interactive therapists are
particularly needed with less ‘typical’ psychotherapy patients. The ‘right’
sort of psychotherapy patient was flippantly described as YAVIS—young,
attractive, verbal, intelligent, and successful. Clearly not all who need
psychotherapy fit this narrow caricature. Children, less introspective
individuals, those with less education, and those with less self-confidence
or motivation may need more active help.
Some therapies are based entirely on action, such as music therapy, dance
therapy, art therapy, and drama therapy (Chapter 7). These activities may be
healing in themselves. Intensely self-conscious children and adolescents can
lose themselves in music or dance, freed temporarily from doubt and
anxiety. Alternatively, the therapist may use the activity as a platform for
exploration: ‘Tell me about your painting. Why such dark colours?’
‘Hamlet’s speech seemed to stir you up—what do you think he was getting
at?’
Risks in psychotherapy
When you read articles comparing psychotherapy with antidepressants, they
always list the side effects and risks for the pills. Psychotherapy is assumed
to be risk free: ‘It may not always work, but it can’t do any harm’. This is
not so. Any effective treatment carries risks. Longer psychotherapies carry a
risk of overdependence or inertia. Issues can also be opened up which feel
overwhelming and result in increased distress, perhaps with a retreat into
alcohol or even self-harm. Good psychotherapists know this and carefully
assess patients’ character strengths and supports as well as their problems
before embarking on treatment.
There is also the rare risk of improper sexual conduct by therapists. The
intimate and private nature of all medical practice brings such risks. This
can be even more pronounced in psychotherapy where intimate wishes and
longings are ventilated, and where dependent and anxious patients can
come to idealize their therapists. Practitioners have always taken these risks
seriously, hence the existence of rigorous professional codes with severe
sanctions.
Throughout this book we describe how various therapies differ from one
another, so that you can get a grasp of them. In truth they have much more
in common. What can seem to be very diverse practices, using strikingly
different languages, often draw on a common set of processes and lead to
similar outcomes.
He met his future wife, Martha Bernays, in 1882 and promptly became
engaged. He needed to earn a decent salary to get married so he took a
clinical post in the Vienna General Hospital. He managed to continue
researching part time, and published on the properties of cocaine and on
some neurological disorders. All neurologists, then as now, are regularly
confronted with the puzzle of whether a patient’s symptoms result from
nerve damage or from underlying psychological problems. Neuroses,
especially hysterical disorders as they were called then, produced a range of
apparently inexplicable and disabling physical symptoms such as paralyses,
weaknesses, pains, and fits.
In 1885–6 Freud spent four months visiting the world renowned Jean-
Martin Charcot in Paris. Charcot specialized in distinguishing hysterical
from epileptic fits and used hypnosis to induce and control the seizures.
Freud was very impressed, and on his return to Vienna began to use
hypnosis in his practice.
Searching out the clues to neurosis revealed in dreams and free associations
remained the basis of all Freud’s subsequent work. He believed that nothing
was ever truly forgotten, and that nothing was ever just coincidence, hence
the ‘Freudian slip’. Everything had a meaning, and that meaning could be
uncovered by analysis. Over his lifetime Freud radically changed many of
his ideas about mental mechanisms, the origins of neurotic symptoms, as
well as practical aspects of psychoanalysis. However, he never deviated
from his search to understand and uncover unconscious conflicts.
Infantile sexuality
Freud initially believed that the hysterical disorders in his women patients
were the result of sexual abuse in childhood, often by their fathers. Over
time he came to doubt this explanation. He concluded that these stories of
abuse arose from fantasies, from the child’s desire for an intense, intimate
relationship with her father. To explain this he proposed that right from
birth we have strong instinctual (sexual) drives, which he called the libido.
Freud believed that it was possible to become stuck at any of several earlier
developmental stages, and that this would prevent healthy maturation. He
saw the successful resolution of the Oedipal triangle as essential for mature
sexuality. This was necessary for forming realistic and affectionate adult
relationships, and to tolerate sharing. Those who did not resolve it were
trapped into seeking unrealistic, exclusive, and oversexualized
relationships.
Psychoanalytic training
Psychoanalysis is very strict about who can call themselves analysts and
about what training and supervision is required. In the 1920s Carl Jung
insisted that analysts should have their own training analysis. Nowadays the
training is demanding, involving several years of training analysis,
attendance at seminars, and close supervision of early treatments. This
protracted and expensive training is thought by some to make analysis too
rigid and inhibit originality. It certainly makes analysis expensive.
Some time ago we both shared a flat in south London with a trainee analyst.
He headed off before seven in the morning to Hampstead, five mornings a
week, for his analysis. He then came back to his full-time job as a
psychiatrist, before returning to Hampstead to his patients or seminars every
evening, to come home exhausted at nine or ten at night. We often joked
with him that he could not have anything to speak about in his sessions
other than the analysis itself and the traffic jams between us and
Hampstead! His experience was that this very intensity allowed him to
delve deeper into personal understanding without daily life intruding too
much. This ‘time out’ from normal life, inhabiting a different mental zone,
is undoubtedly a special quality of a full analysis. But what should one
expect from weekly analytic treatment, often called psychoanalytic or
psychodynamic psychotherapy?
Having outlined the process the therapist will encourage you to talk about
your problems. ‘Tell me in your own words what is going on in your life
and why you are here. Just describe it, don’t try to explain it, and take your
time.’ Many people find this first session highly emotional, often bringing
an enormous sense of release, with words and emotions flooding out. The
therapist will not interrupt much in the first session. This is not a time for
detailed clarification but for getting an overview; your emotions are as
much a part of this as your story.
Therapists usually take care to wind up the first session in good time. This
allows them to summarize and discuss with you any thoughts they have
about what you have said, for example:
The relationship you describe with your partner seems to be burdened with anger, possibly
carried over from your disappointment with your father. You have shown me how upsetting it
remains for you, and that probably needs to be better understood. We will need to continue
with this next time.
This reviewing also allows time for you to move back out of the
emotionally intense world of psychotherapy and prepare to face the
everyday world as you step outside. Do not be surprised though, if you do
not get any clever summary or psychological ‘diagnosis’. Many therapies
have identified assessment sessions, but analytic therapy has a much more
open-ended approach to how long treatment will last and what will be
worked on.
Analysts believe nothing you say is random. It is all important and it stems
from the preoccupations that are troubling you, but which you may be
trying to avoid. The meaning will become clear in time, as long as you are
patient and do not rush it. This sounds self-indulgent and easy but it is not.
Most of us can find the apparent lack of structure very stressful initially,
and want the therapist to be more directive. Very often in the beginning we
experience our mind as being totally blank. The analyst may reply that it is
almost impossible ‘not to think’, we should just take time, and the thoughts
will surface.
Analytic psychotherapy is based on the premise that if we understand what
is going on in our minds, then we have the possibility to change it—in
Freud’s words, ‘where id was, ego shall be’. So analysis aims above all else
for self-understanding, for insight. Over time the therapist will increasingly
make interpretations to promote insights. Imagine describing the surprising
anger you felt when your partner forgot your birthday:
It was ridiculous. I know he has been very busy, and I know he loves me, but when he sat
there chattering away and clearly had completely forgotten I felt hate, real hate. I wanted to
scream at him or pack my bags and leave. Yet he is considerate and affectionate and I knew
perfectly well he had been preoccupied with the house repairs. How could I feel such hate
over something so trivial?
This sounds very similar to how you described feeling left out and ignored by your father
when your sister was ill. How hurtful it felt, yet because of the worry about your sister you
could not have a tantrum or tell your dad. Could there be a link with that pain and not just the
forgotten birthday?
Using such links there is the possibility of working through the pain of past
experiences—coming to terms with them and moving on. Working through
is the main task of therapy; more time-consuming and less glamorous than
the interpretations, but essential for personal growth and healing. In
working through, the transference relationship to the analyst assumes a
central role. Old feelings of anger, despair, rejection, or resentment that
have festered under the surface for decades are reignited and experienced in
the room. The analyst is the object of these feelings and must withstand
them, neither retaliating or wilting under their attack, nor rushing to remove
discomfort.
4. Triangle of persons
The concerned but relatively reserved manner that analysts adopt, the blank
screen, makes it possible to project transferred emotions on to them.
However, they should be blank but not absent—without trust and a sense of
security in the relationship such projection would be altogether too
frightening to engage in. The relationship must have enough depth for these
storms to be both weathered and confronted while new patterns are evolved.
Working through enables us to make the hugely important shift from
understanding the problem intellectually (‘I see that this has upset me
because I tend to believe that nobody is capable of helping me’) to really
feeling it (‘I really did feel unloved and unsupported—yet now I sense that
people in my life can help me’).
Analysis of defences
Latterly, analytic therapists have focused more on helping us understand our
habitual defence mechanisms—the patterns we regularly use to deal with
things that would otherwise make us uncomfortable. So rather than going
straight for the troubling conflicts underlying our neurotic problems, they
may examine our routine ways of dealing with these uncomfortable issues.
The two are not mutually exclusive and most therapists will do both.
Sometimes work on defence mechanisms is needed in order to get to the
underlying conflicts. A patient may, for instance, routinely intellectualize
their problems, denying the emotional impact of them:
5. Triangle of conflict
I realize that he has been too busy to remember my birthday; he’s been altogether far too
busy. I just got a bit irritated because I worry he is not looking after himself enough and
allowing time for himself.
The analyst David Malan, who inspired the triangles used in Figures 4 and
5, pioneered a sharply focused thirty-session analysis, sometimes referred to
as ‘short-term psychodynamic psychotherapy’. However, it is more likely
that at the start you and the therapist will agree to see each other for a
defined period, say once a week for twelve months, and then review.
Having an end in sight right from the beginning focuses the mind and
avoids coasting along with no sense of urgency. Too much urgency,
however, would inhibit the free-floating exploration essential to
psychoanalytic work, so a balance has to be struck. A year seems a long
time at the start, although it may not feel like that as the time approaches.
The ending of therapy is often experienced as its most productive period.
Ending can be painful, even if the therapy has done its work—perhaps
especially if it has. Strong feelings about the therapist are common, often of
an idealizing nature, as they have been experienced as understanding and
tolerant. The goal in analysis is to end with a balanced view of the therapist
—neither all-knowing and wise, nor cold and insensitive. Achieving such a
neutral appraisal while continuing to separate is difficult, so a ‘wobble’ is
common towards the end. The gains may seem to be lost and symptoms
may suddenly recur. This is a sign that the work of ending is underway, not
a reason to delay it or to prolong therapy.
Jung had always been somewhat mystical. Unlike Freud he came from a
religious family, and his earliest interest had been in paranormal
phenomena. He eventually fell out with Freud over what he saw as Freud’s
excessive emphasis on the role of the sex drive, but also more generally as a
reaction to Freud’s unremittingly rational approach. Jung was
fundamentally a romantic individual who believed that analysis had the
potential to bring patients to an emotionally richer, more spiritual state.
Jung’s constant striving for something more, and his dissatisfaction with the
mundane, characterized both his thinking and his life. He broke sexual
boundaries with patients and during a particularly turbulent period he
probably tipped over into a brief psychosis. Despite all this (or perhaps
because of it) he was enormously productive and creative. He introduced
the concepts of introvert and extrovert, but he is probably best known for
his ideas on symbolism.
Prominent archetypes include the anima (the feminine side of men), the
persona (the face we present to the world), and the imago (our ideal self).
The shadow is particularly important in Jungian thinking. It contains all our
most shameful and frightening experiences, thoughts, and feelings—those
that we keep hidden both from ourselves and from others. Jung thought that
our shadow grew stronger and more threatening the longer it was ignored
(like Oscar Wilde’s ageing portrait of Dorian Gray). For us to develop
healthily it needed to be brought into the daylight and confronted.
While Freud was fairly modest in his aims for therapy (‘to convert your
neurotic anxiety into day-to-day misery’), Jung believed it could make us
better people. His emphasis on personal integration, his preoccupation with
symbols and Eastern mysticism (see Figure 6), and his tolerance of
uncertainty, have meant that Jungian psychotherapy is particularly attractive
to creative and artistic individuals and also to people later in life.
Adler was very energetic and forthright. He actively spread his ideas
throughout workers’ education movements, schools, and various other
institutions. He situated the patient firmly as a whole person in his social
context, and believed that you had to understand this context in order to
understand the individual. He often interviewed family members and
encouraged frank exchanges between them. Many of his ideas about social
inclusion and the power imbalances in society (especially that between the
sexes) seem strikingly modern. He saw neurotic symptoms as barriers to
achievement and self-fulfilment, and would often start his therapies with the
question ‘If you didn’t have this problem, what would you be doing?’
Neo-Freudians
Adler moved to the US in 1930 and was followed by many Jewish
psychoanalysts fleeing the Nazis. These arriving analysts were exposed to a
dramatically different lifestyle in America and were taken aback by it. The
impact of culture and the wider society on them and on their patients was
revelatory. The effects of society and culture in shaping patients’
aspirations, their values, and also their neuroses could not be ignored. Neo-
Freudian practice and writing embraced a broader, more interpersonal,
perspective.
Erik Erikson
The neo-Freudians had initiated a process that would, in time, lead to
counselling and person-centred therapy. Erik Erikson helped set this
transformation on its way by radically rethinking the maturational crises we
experience in our lives. He proposed that we continue to face new
challenges to our sense of identity throughout our lives, calling them the
eight stages of development. Problems can arise at any of these stages, even
if earlier ones have been resolved perfectly well. For example, Erikson
believed that we can develop serious psychological disturbances when
confronted by a crisis such as a serious illness, despite having been
perfectly well adjusted previously. This is in stark contrast to traditional
analytical thinking where such late-onset psychological crises are explained
as reactivations of unresolved earlier conflicts.
Erikson, despite his name, was also a German-speaking Jewish analyst from
Vienna. He was tall, blond, blue-eyed, and had been taunted from an early
age from both sides (Aryans about his Jewishness, Jews about his Aryan
looks). His work reflects this experience. His eight stages in life each
present us with a potential identity crisis (Box 1). Each of these identity
crises contains two opposites that have to be recognized and accepted, with
both making their unique contribution to who we are.
Obviously these ages are just rough indications. Erikson’s stages provide a
structure for understanding problems that takes age and experience into
consideration, and even later challenges and stages have been added more
recently to his original eight in response to working with our increasingly
ageing population. Erikson did believe, like Freud, that getting stuck in
personal development later in life was more likely if earlier conflicts had
not been resolved. However, he also believed we could break down later in
life, even if all the earlier conflicts had been surmounted. For instance, a
successful and well-balanced man who has been enormously productive in
his career might still struggle with the end of that career. His ‘generativity’
may become eroded by the ‘stagnation’ in his leadership position.
7. The great numbers of soldiers who developed shell shock in the trenches demonstrated that
psychological stress could cause breakdowns and psychological treatments were needed to help
them
In his highly influential book Maternal Care and Mental Health, Bowlby
stressed the importance of a consistent and warm early bond with the
mother for emotional development. His insights have revolutionized the
care of children in day nurseries and hospitals across the world. He
emphasized the importance of the quality of this real relationship rather
than the infant’s fantasies about it—such as the real experience of
abandonment, deliberate or otherwise—and this initially made him
unpopular with analysts.
These developments may seem a bit academic, but they have had an
enormous influence on psychotherapy and more widely on how we manage
our personal and family relationships. What is characteristic of all of them
is the elevation of the importance of real experiences in the process of
psychotherapy. The reality of the mothering experience matters as much as,
if not more than, any fantasies and conflicts surrounding it. What sort of life
the patient is living now also matters—whether or not she has the potential
to establish and maintain close and fulfilling relationships.
Lastly, the tone of the psychotherapy matters, not just its success in the
technicalities of uncovering conflicts or interpreting defences. The
psychoanalyst Nina Coltart stressed how ‘people not only like, but need, to
tell their stories, especially to an attentive listener equipped with certain
skills’, someone who ‘listens in a particular way’. Freud believed that the
analyst should be a neutral figure, and that any transference was to be
understood and interpreted away. Now it is no longer considered a failure of
therapy if the patient comes away with a fond memory of the process and a
genuine affection for their analyst.
Early psychoanalytic treatments were often brief. Freud treated two of his
most famous patients over a very short period: ‘Dora’ only for eleven
weeks and the ‘Rat Man’ for eleven months. He saw the composers Bruno
Walter and Gustav Mahler for only six and four session each. Some of his
contemporaries attempted to develop shorter treatments as well as varying
the analytic technique to make it more active.
Despite its very medical language IPT insists that mood and life situation—
and especially relationships—are closely interrelated. Patients are helped to
make links between life events and the onset of their depression. IPT has an
explicit relationship focus, and the patient’s aims for therapy are usually
linked to bringing about changes in their relationships. Therapy is based on
common therapeutic factors such as developing a strong treatment alliance
and emotional engagement, so that patients can feel understood and
supported during a difficult phase in their lives. However, the therapy
relationship is not explored in any detail as in psychodynamic therapy.
For role transitions, the therapy starts by identifying which spheres of life
are affected. These can include work roles or social roles such as moving
home or the children leaving, or they can be biological to do with health or
ageing. What often matters most is whether the transition was planned,
whether it was wanted or not, and whether it was accompanied by a loss of
support. The therapist helps the patient recognize the feelings connected to
the transition, particularly any sense of loss. The patient’s capacities and
resources are not neglected—both internal and external strengths are
identified. Opportunities arising from the change are sought which might
require learning new skills or managing new challenges. Learning how to
assert needs and preferences, or even taking risks, can be part of this
process.
The end phase of therapy focuses on reviewing and consolidating any gains,
and if necessary making contingency plans for the future. As the ending is a
transition in itself, some of the skills learned earlier can be applied to it.
As with most therapies, the initial model has been refined by experience
and research. Dynamic Interpersonal Therapy or DIT is a recent such
development in the UK, which lasts for sixteen sessions. It is an approach to
IPT which combines an interpersonal focus with a more psychoanalytic
stance, following a clear manual through the different stages of therapy. It
uses interpretations of unconscious feelings and reactions in combination
with what is known as mentalization. This comprises techniques to enhance
the patient’s capacity to reflect on her own states of mind, and through this
to better understand what others might be feeling or thinking. By becoming
more aware in this way she can improve her ability to understand and
manage relationships.
The patient and therapist together then look for exits or alternative ways of
self-management and of interacting with others, and will use the therapy
relationship or transference in this process. Change moments often come
when a familiar interpersonal pattern is reactivated in a session, but
accompanied by a new way of being or relating. This challenges the
person’s familiar expectations and habits. A common example is to expect
rejection or criticism after having been angry with the therapist in a session
or after revealing what were believed to be shameful secrets.
The main difference from IPT lies in the way these patterns are outlined
very explicitly in CAT, especially in the form of a diagram, which the
therapist and patient draw up together (see Figure 8). This identifies the
interpersonal patterns that most commonly occur in the patient’s life,
including how these are linked. Such a visual representation helps her take a
step back from the overall picture and develop what is called an observing
eye (or ‘I’), aiming for a more integrated sense of self. With this overview
she can start to join up the dots, see a fuller picture, and get a different
perspective on herself. The diagram can also help the person recognize
patterns or voices that have been handed down through the generations and
help them find their own, authentic voice through dialogue with the
therapist.
The diagram uses the person’s own words as much as possible, and the
therapist will take care to build on their strengths and ‘push where it
moves’. The aim is to enhance the patient’s (self-)reflective capacity and to
gradually make the tools for this her own. Anthony Ryle wrote, ‘what the
person can do with the therapist today, s/he will do on her own tomorrow’.
As with CBT, the patient is helped to become aware of their thought and
behaviour patterns and to devise homework tasks. These usually involve
small steps to break unhelpful patterns such as beginning to say no to others
or creating time for self-care.
8. With the help of this CAT diagram the patient could see how her attempts to feel better
about herself just led back to old, unhelpful patterns
Difficulties may emerge towards the end of therapy, often relating to past
losses or unresolved separations. These will have been identified and
anticipated in the early letter or in the diagram, which helps to address
reactions to the ending, such as anger or sadness. The ending is also
attended to by the patient and therapist each writing a goodbye letter. This
is a letter to the other person, but also an opportunity to summarize the
therapy. It covers what has been gained and learned, but also openly
acknowledges missed opportunities, and realistically predicts challenges
ahead. It is a chance to say a ‘fare well’ or an explicit ‘goodbye’, rather than
repeat painful ‘byes’ of the past.
SFT seeks solutions which ‘fit the client rather than the problem’. In this it
is very like IPT and CAT, but it is more explicitly directed towards solutions
for the future rather than linking with the past. SFT uses a number of
specialized techniques referred to as skeleton keys. One is inviting people to
become aware of exceptions, times when they succeeded in solving their
problems. It also involves identifying and mobilizing the client’s personal
and social resources, and imagining how they would like their future to be.
This might include asking the miracle question discussed below, but mainly
uses small, manageable steps when trying to change.
Personally relevant and realistic goals are generated. These are very
concrete and require specific actions, rather than being vague formulations
expressed in negative terms, such as wanting ‘not to feel depressed any
more’. The aim is for ‘good enough’ or satisfactory outcomes, with agreed
ways of recognizing when these are achieved. Links are made between
outcomes and what clients have done differently, so that they can take credit
for their own achievements. Problems are discussed openly, with the
therapist taking their share of responsibility. The therapist might ask
questions such as ‘What have I missed?’ or ‘What needs to happen today?’
SFT pays very close attention to the use of language. Questions are usually
framed positively: ‘What are your best hopes for this session?’ ‘What are
you already doing that is helpful?’ ‘How will you know that today has been
helpful?’ This engages the person in examining their expectations and their
own role in changing. Questions cover how the person will know when
things are getting better or how many sessions are needed.
The miracle question, a striking SFT technique, goes something like this:
Imagine that while you are asleep tonight a miracle occurs, and when you wake the problem
you have told me about has disappeared. You are now problem free. However, because you
have been asleep you won’t know that the miracle has happened. What will you notice when
you wake up that shows you things are different?
You are encouraged to ask yourself about the experience, again using
positive language: ‘What will I be doing differently?’ ‘What will I be
saying?’ ‘How will it affect my life?’ ‘How would I know that?’ ‘What will
others notice and how will they describe it and react?’ ‘What else will be
different?’ ‘And what else … ? And what else … ?’
SFT therapy sessions use scaling. So in relation to the miracle question the
therapist might say: ‘If on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 means you have already got
there, and 0 means you haven’t even started, where would you say you are
today?’ If the young man thinks that he is on a 3, he might review with the
therapist what he did to get there, and what he needs to do to get to point 4
before next week. Scaling can be used at any time during or between
sessions. One can rate where one was before, what one did to get from there
to here, what are realistic hopes, what might sabotage change, and how to
prevent this. SFT always uses positive questions, such as ‘What makes me
hopeful that I will move up the extra two points?’
Much of the work in SFT takes place between sessions using tasking or
homework assignments. These involve thinking about the change you
desire and the actions needed to achieve it. It means trying out and
practising new skills independently and in the contexts where they belong.
Some homework simply involves observational tasks, such as noticing
things that already work well or keeping notes of positive changes. These
can then be combined with behavioural tasks—doing things differently,
such as saying no rather than giving in. Similarly, cognitive tasks will
provide alternatives to negative thinking habits, such as ‘Today I didn’t let
my worry stop me from going to the shops on my own’ rather than ‘I will
never get back to having an independent life’. Using rituals or metaphors
that mark a new stage or symbolize the achievement of a task can boost
morale and give a sense of achievement.
What these and other brief or time-limited therapies share is the sense that
because time is at a premium, every session counts. Both parties have to
make active use of the time available to them. A focus is created at a very
early stage, and the patient or client plays an active role in addressing their
difficulties, both within and between sessions. There is also an unspoken
belief that once people begin to do things differently, those around them
will respond differently, and therefore much of the working through will
occur naturally within these relationships. Obstacles in this process can be
anticipated in the therapy, and new alternatives practised. In this way, the
therapy quickly starts to look towards the future and draws on the person’s
own resources. This in itself reduces the risk of dependency with its
potential to undermine confidence, and represents one of the major
advantages of time-limited psychotherapy.
Chapter 5
Counselling
The titles of Rogers’ most influential books (On Becoming a Person and A
Way of Being) demonstrate his outlook and underscore his fundamental
principle of counselling. Counsellors have to embody the counselling
process; it is not a technique to be learned but a philosophy to be embraced
and lived. Counsellors must accept the basic value and goodness of
everyone (including themselves) and recognize the healing power of self-
awareness and human relationships in the conduct of their daily lives.
Without this their counselling would be a hollow sham. Rogerian
counsellors disapprove of technique and explanations, relying instead on
their style of relating and on clarification.
Congruence or genuineness
This means that the counsellor is fully engaged both in himself and in the
relationship. Rogers originally used ‘congruence’ to convey that the
counsellor’s personality matched (was ‘congruent with’) her behaviour in
the session. She is not putting on a professional front, so can legitimately
draw on her own experiences in the therapy. The declared aims of the
counselling—those agreed by counsellor and client—then really are shared
objectives. Congruence is now more often described as genuineness or
authenticity. The three core conditions will vary in intensity over time, but
genuineness is a precondition for the other two. A counsellor who denies
that she is anxious in a session, while her body language clearly
demonstrates she is, will find it hard to help a client to be honest.
Empathy
The counsellor has to gain an understanding of what the client is going
through, emotionally as well as intellectually. Empathy means being able to
feel what the other person is experiencing. It is not the same as sympathy,
which is to feel for their plight. Accurate empathy is a core skill in all
therapy. We need to be able to ‘get under the skin’ of our patients and to see
the world through their eyes. Empathizing with a client means acquiring an
‘as if’ experience of what they are going through, not sharing it directly.
The therapist does not have to be personally anguished to empathize—in
fact this could be most unhelpful.
Of course it is not at all like this. Mirroring and clarification are active
processes to deepen understanding, without which change cannot take place
or freer and healthier choices be made.
Existential therapy
Person-centred counselling derives its thinking in great part from existential
philosophy. Existentialists believe that what matters is what we do, rather
than who or what we are. It is our own actions (our existence) rather than
some preconceived view of human nature (an essence) that is important. We
constantly create our identity rather than being determined by it, and our
lives are driven by motives rather than causes. Every choice we make
defines us, and we have no option but to continually make choices.
Existentialists emphasize that we are active agents in the world, not objects,
so therapists strive strenuously to avoid objectifying or categorizing the
patient. They emphasize a mutually interacting relationship, focused on the
here-and-now and an immediate relationship with the world.
Berne’s approach achieved instant popularity, not only through his easily
grasped structure of the parent, adult, and child roles, but via his description
of a series of ‘games’ with catchy titles. The ‘games people play’ are based
on the various permutations of the three roles (I act like a child that forces
you to act as a parent, I act as a parent forcing you to respond as a child,
and so on). Our tendency to fall into these roles in different situations will
depend on our own issues (see Figure 9). We may feel driven to exploit the
child role when we feel particularly insecure, or perhaps the parent role
when we want to avoid the intimacy that can come from adult sharing.
9. The three possible roles or ‘ego-states’
The most famous of these games is the ‘yes, but’ gambit, which is very
familiar not only to counsellors and therapists but surely to us all. The client
describes a problem that is troubling her, but when the counsellor points to
an obvious solution this is countered with an explanation of why it will not
work:
CLIENT: People dismiss me, even when they know I’m right, because I’m a scruffy dresser
and they are all snobs.
COUNSELLOR: What would it be like for you to ensure that when you are going to those
sorts of meetings you put on a suit? You don’t have to wear one all the time.
CLIENT: If I weren’t myself, if I had to put on a show, then it would all be a waste of time
and I wouldn’t care if they agreed.
Psychodynamic counselling
Distinguishing psychodynamic counselling from client-centred counselling
is fairly easy, but distinguishing it from psychodynamic psychotherapy is
not so straightforward. This is probably where the boundary between
counselling and psychotherapy is the least clear. Many counsellors describe
themselves as psychodynamic, so being clear what it is, and the difference
between them, is worth some effort. While retaining many of the core
features of counselling outlined at the beginning of this chapter,
psychodynamic counsellors base their practice on traditional
psychodynamic or psychoanalytic theory. They focus on helping the client
become aware of unconscious conflicts and making sense of them, often
using interpretations (see Chapter 2). The aim in psychodynamic
counselling is ‘to make the unconscious conscious’—Freud’s ‘where id
was, ego shall be’. Once the client is properly aware of the unconscious
forces shaping their experiences and behaviour, they can start to sort
themselves out.
Telephone counselling
The Samaritans in the UK and their sister organizations across the world
have long demonstrated the value of fast access by telephone, and now
often by e-mail, to a sympathetic listener. They provide an opportunity to
express and share acute distress rather than simply soldiering on or
resorting to drastic acts such as self-harm or suicide attempts. The
telephone service Child Line in the UK offers similar opportunities to
children who experience neglect or abuse. In our age of the Internet and
Skype the lessons learned from these services have been taken on board by
counsellors and psychotherapists. In very dispersed communities such as
rural Australia it is now possible to have quite extensive tele-counselling or
tele-psychotherapy.
CBT is very different to the other therapies covered in this book, so this
chapter is also going to be different. Like the therapy itself it will have lots
of structure and lots of lists. CBT emphasizes thinking and thoughts. The
underlying premise is that ‘faulty’ thinking gives rise to anxiety and
depression rather than the other way round. CBT is the product of bringing
together the strengths of behaviour therapy and those of cognitive therapy.
The most famous (or perhaps infamous) exponent of this learning theory
was B. F. Skinner, who believed that all behaviours were learned by this
process of association. Skinner invented a special cage for rats which
became known as a ‘Skinner box’. In this they were either rewarded with
food or punished with electrical shocks when they performed specific
actions, and they demonstrated remarkably quick learning. His conclusion
was that any behaviour, whether in a rat or a human, could be trained by
‘reinforcing’ it with positive stimuli (rewards), or extinguished by
associating it with negative stimuli (an unpleasant taste, a small electric
shock). In clinical practice relaxation was most often used as the positive
stimulus to enable patients to confront feared situations, usually in a
stepwise manner. Behaviour therapy is particularly successful in phobias
(simple phobias such as fear of spiders and also in more complex phobias
such as agoraphobia) and in sexual therapies. ‘Aversive’ behaviour therapy,
where unwelcome behaviours are associated with unpleasant stimuli (e.g.
alcohol with a nausea-inducing drug), has been less influential.
10. Behaviour therapy derives from learning theory and the conditioned reflexes that Pavlov
noticed when his dogs associated the bell before feeding with the food itself
CBT therapists are not naïve about this focus on thinking. They know that
thinking, feeling, and behaviour (indeed even physical health) are all
interconnected and continually influence each other. There are constant
feedback loops between them. However, CBT emphasizes how thinking
drives emotions, and it selects thinking as the point in the system where
change can most effectively be achieved. Sessions are consequently very
different from most other therapies, but before describing that practice it
helps to understand some of the theory.
Box 2 Three layers of thinking
1. Negative automatic thoughts
2. Underlying assumptions
Here comes the first list of three. CBT theory identifies three layers of
thinking to address (see Box 2). The first is negative automatic thoughts,
below this our underlying assumptions, and then at the very fundamental
level our core beliefs often called schemas. Most CBT will concentrate on
negative automatic thoughts and only dive deeper during more complex and
protracted therapies.
When we are stressed our assumptions can become more rigid and negative
—we easily assume the worst. We are unaware of this happening but it
affects what we do, and soon also how we feel, so we may become anxious
or depressed and not be sure why. We are unaware of how such automatic
thoughts can cause and maintain anxiety and depression.
CBT aims to help us identify and then challenge these negative automatic
thoughts. The processes used are called Socratic questioning and
collaborative empiricism. Essentially it starts with a simple question: ‘What
is going through your mind right now?’ Clarifying and challenging
thoughts, collaborative empiricism, involves three further questions:
Underlying assumptions
These assumptions shape the way we understand how the world works.
They are the maxims, or principles, we apply in managing our everyday
lives. They state a consequence to an action, which we believe to be
inevitable. ‘If I do this then this will happen.’ ‘I should do this because … ’
‘Unless I do this then … ’ ‘I must do this or … ’ These assumptions
underlie the negative automatic thoughts, and Beck highlighted three that he
regularly encountered:
I am nothing unless I am loved—acceptance
I am what I accomplish—competence
I cannot ask for help—control
CBT practice
The immediately striking thing about CBT is that it is short, sometimes
very short. Beck recommended between four and fourteen weekly sessions
for anxiety states, although most therapies hover between six and twenty
sessions. You also usually know exactly how long it is going to take right
from the start. Many services are very strict about how many sessions are
offered. The IAPT service (see Chapter 5) offers four to six sessions.
Socratic dialogue
Socrates was a Greek philosopher whose teaching consisted of asking
questions (see Figure 11). He believed that we already know the answers
we seek but need help in finding them. This process came to be known as
Socratic dialogue. You are the one who has the automatic thoughts and only
you can identify them (think back to Carl Rogers’ client-centred approach
in Chapter 5).
11. Socrates was a Greek philosopher known to us through the writings of Plato. Socrates was
so influential that he was condemned to death by drinking hemlock for ‘corrupting the minds
of the youth of Athens’ by his teaching. His method used probing questioning to bring out
knowledge
The therapist’s function is to help you do this using careful questioning. She
will insist on clarity, especially in distinguishing thinking from feeling. It is
remarkable how often we say ‘I feel’ when we mean ‘I think’. If we say ‘I
feel that the banking crisis is now resolving’ we hardly register that what
we mean is we think the banking crisis is now resolving. We may also have
feelings about it, perhaps relief or anger that it was allowed to happen, but
that is a different matter from our thoughts.
Asking patients to describe the worst potential outcomes from their current
train of thought is also used:
What’s the worst thing you think would happen if your wife thought you were being
impulsive? Do you think she would despise you or perhaps even leave you?
Collaborative empiricism
Once negative automatic thoughts have been identified they need to be
tested and examined. This is referred to as collaborative empiricism. It is
called empirical because it tests ideas in practice rather than in theory, and
collaborative because therapist and patient do it together. For example, a
patient reports a setback: ‘It was disastrous, a hopelessly public screw-up.
Nobody will ever take my opinions seriously again.’ The therapist
encourages him to think through the evidence for and against this belief.
She may ask him to give examples of when his opinion has been ignored
and when it has not. The patient is encouraged to find examples of how
people have recently followed his advice and taken him seriously.
Collecting such evidence can demonstrate that the negative automatic
thought is grossly exaggerated, if not downright wrong. Catastrophizing is a
common feature in automatic thinking. There may indeed have been a price
paid for some mistake, but it does not mean everything is lost, despite how
it may feel. Introducing shades of grey into such black-and-white thinking
characterizes collaborative empiricism.
Collaborative empiricism has two functions. The first, and most obvious, is
to identify, test, and modify negative automatic thoughts. The second is to
teach the patient to become his own therapist. The process of questioning
matters as much as the answers. Learning to recognize and test
dysfunctional thoughts and internalizing this process is held to be
responsible for CBT’s long-term effects. You are no longer a passive victim
of your thinking.
Homework
With so few sessions it is important to make every one count. In dynamic
psychotherapy holding on to an emotion or thought until the next session
can be important learning in itself, but CBT therapists don’t want patients to
keep things on hold for a week. They want them to work on what they are
learning, to practise and test it out between sessions. Therapists encourage
clients to keep putting into practice what they learn in sessions and so
devise homework tasks. The end of each session is used to review what has
been learned and to plan together how to practise it before the next session.
Most homework consists of deliberately trying out feared actions to learn
their real consequences, but there is a whole range of possible tasks.
Many cognitive homework tasks are things you can do alone. One is simply
to read and learn more about your problems and the possible treatments.
CBT therapists strongly encourage self-education and may suggest chapters
from specific books, especially CBT self-help books. Another is writing,
usually writing a daily thought record. This records the occurrence of
negative automatic thoughts, noting their context and perhaps how you
challenged them. Listening again to tape-recorded sessions is particularly
useful, as it isn’t always easy to take in everything during a session.
Remembering upsetting events in great detail, visualizing them happening
(imagery), can feed back into the next session. Listening to recorded
sessions or writing down your thoughts also helps get over the shyness of
early psychotherapy.
CBT homework is agreed between patient and therapist. It is not like school
where the teacher sets the same homework for the whole class. CBT
homework, especially behavioural experiments, has to be very specific. It
must cover the where, when, and how, not just the what. It is specific to the
issues under examination and is negotiated and usually written down. Often
the tasks are practised in the session: ‘OK, we have agreed on what you are
going to say at work, try it out on me first.’ The homework experiences are
reviewed in the following session.
The structure of CBT sessions
So far we have focused on the content of CBT sessions, but CBT has a
well-developed structure which is also important for its success. CBT
therapists always start with a careful formulation of your problems in the
assessment session. As with everything else in CBT there is nothing secret
about it and your therapist will share it with you. Because CBT is brief, the
formulation must include an agreement on what will be worked on. The
formulation takes account of the past, but in shorter, simpler CBT therapies
past experiences take a back seat to what is going on now. In more
extensive therapies for complex problems understanding the past may be
crucial to properly understanding current concerns, and the formulation will
take account of this. If there are more problems than can be addressed in the
time available, the formulation will prioritize them.
Individual sessions are also structured. They start with a review of the
previous session and any homework. An agenda is set for the session,
agreeing what will be worked on. Towards the end of the session what has
gone on will be reviewed and summarized. Homework for the upcoming
week will be negotiated and agreed. All this sounds businesslike and very
hard work, but as with all therapies the CBT therapist is closely attuned to
how the patient is feeling. Also, as with everything in CBT, these are joint
decisions and not simply imposed on you.
All therapies aim to bring lasting change. CBT helps you to learn the
techniques that make you your own therapist, so that you can continue
practising what you have learned. Having one or more ‘booster’ sessions
after the therapy ends is common, sometimes the final sessions are spaced
out with longer intervals between them. Negative thoughts are not abolished
by CBT—we all have them. However, CBT should make you much better
at dealing with them. Some falling off of improvements is inevitable after
almost any therapy, and CBT therapists warn patients that it will happen. A
review session between a month and three months after finishing can serve
to re-energize and fine tune the self-therapy. It also helps make the point
that the work goes on long after the therapy ends.
CBT therapists rely heavily on measurement. They use questionnaires in
their work to measure symptoms and track changes. These include scales
for specific disorders (obsessive compulsive disorder, eating disorders,
etc.), but anxiety and depression ratings are the ones most widely used.
Scales are generally completed at the start and again at the end of therapy,
to assess the outcome, but sometimes they are used to track changes during
treatment. Filling out such questionnaires is more often a useful exercise in
itself, training the patients to make judgements about degrees rather than
catastrophize.
Specialized CBT
Because the different components in CBT practice are so well described,
they can be mixed and matched to different clinical needs and can be
‘branded’ for them. This can involve relatively minor, but highly effective,
changes in practice such as that developed for eating disorders. CBT-E as it
is called (the E stands for enhanced, not eating) is used with patients
suffering from both anorexia nervosa and bulimia. It lasts for twenty
sessions, forty for underweight patients, and requires from the outset that
the patient tries to eat regularly and that they be weighed at each session. It
downplays the examination of automatic thoughts, focusing more on the
responses to change in behaviour and weight. Neither the dietary diary nor
taped sessions are used, as they have been found to encourage unhealthy
rumination. This is an example of CBT adapted and shaped to a specific
clinical problem, rather than a major departure in practice.
CBT has a very different feel and a different ethos to the other
psychotherapy and counselling approaches we have covered so far. It is
much more structured and predictable. Some patients react against what
they experience as a rather mechanical quality, far removed from
explorations of personal narrative and sense of self. Others, however,
welcome this clarity and structure. Longer and more complex CBT
treatments often concern themselves with relationships and blur the sharp
distinctions from more dynamic approaches, particularly when applied by
more senior practitioners. Be that as it may, CBT is a radical departure
which has changed the face of psychotherapy. It is still a relatively young,
vigorous, and expanding innovation, and a Very Short Introduction devoted
entirely to the subject is soon to be published. It will be fascinating to see
how CBT looks in ten to fifteen years’ time.
Chapter 7
Family, group, and interactive
therapies
There are countless variations of these more active therapies. In this chapter
we will describe the practice of systemic family therapy, couples therapy,
and group therapy, which are now widely established. We will also briefly
introduce the practice of psychodrama, art therapy, and music therapy.
We are all born into ‘the hands of others’, the cradle of the family. Salvador
Minuchin, an influential early family therapist, describes families like this:
In all cultures, the family imprints its members with selfhood. Human experience of identity
has two elements: a sense of belonging and a sense of being separate. The laboratory in which
these ingredients are mixed and dispensed is the family, the matrix of identity.
Robin Skynner wrote that the best way to learn how to create a happy and
healthy family was to have been born into one. That way we learn how to
‘find satisfaction in harmonious relationship to one another’. Aware of the
enormous creative potential of the family it is not surprising that, when it
becomes disordered, it possesses an equal potential for destruction.
The same would apply when the identified patient is seen by an adult
mental health team, whether dealing with the painful consequences of a
psychotic disorder in a member of the family or when an ‘adult child’ has
become ‘stuck’ at home.
Family therapists are very active and use a number of tried and tested
‘tools’. One is the genogram (see Figure 12). This is a family tree, usually
drawn up at the beginning of therapy. It outlines diagrammatically all the
family members and their relationships to each other, and usually covers the
last three generations. This helps the family see itself in context and with a
wider perspective. Intergenerational patterns can emerge with startling
clarity in this shared exercise.
12. A family tree, or ‘genogram’, used in family therapy to demonstrate recurring family
patterns. In this example we can see repeated broken relationships and also possible additional
pressures on Simon as the only male offspring
Examining the genogram helps the family and the therapists to undertake
what is called a script analysis. This is rarely done in a particularly formal
manner, but involves working out the rules, spoken or more often unspoken,
that govern how they relate. Four family ‘scripts’ are usually identified: the
circumstantial script is what all the members know about their family
history, and on which they base their overall behaviour; the assumptive
script describes beliefs about, and emotional attitudes towards, their roles,
both within the family and in the outside world; the delivered script is what
they actually say to one another, the words they use to convey these
assumptions; and finally the subscript is what we hold back from
expressing, whether deliberately or not. This nevertheless continually
affects our interactions, and all the more powerfully so for being unspoken.
In family and group therapies the participants are both agents and
observers. So while the mother and her son Simon may be at loggerheads in
a session over his recent truancy, the father and his sister Naomi observe
how they constantly interrupt one another, ramping up the tension despite
their best efforts to calm the situation down.
Collaborative team working is another striking feature of systemic family
therapy, usually with two therapists working together. In some settings
other members of the team may watch from behind a two-way mirror, even
phoning in advice to the therapists! Obviously this only happens with the
full agreement and consent of the family, and mainly in training settings.
However, it demonstrates a remarkable break with psychotherapy’s usual
insistence on intimacy and confidentiality. So why does it happen? Family
scripts can be inordinately powerful, with a whole set of well-entrenched
routines devoted to keeping things as they are. It takes intense, concerted
effort for therapists to get into this system enough to obtain a good grasp of
it. Yet they also have to remain something of an outsider to be able to
‘shake it up’ and create new experiences and a space to reflect. Conjoint
work ensures that therapists can be both agents and observers. It also means
that their working relationship can model more constructive and less
defensive ways of interacting, such as when they ask each others’ opinions
or discuss their different experiences of what is going on.
Many things happen all at once in family therapy, and each member may
have a different experience of it, so family therapists often write therapeutic
letters in which they summarize what went on in the session. With the
agreement of the family, these letters can also be a way of involving and
communicating with other systems engaged with the family, such as school
or a nursing team. This is particularly important as other professionals may
inadvertently be maintaining or exacerbating a family’s difficulties. Their
responses, while entirely well-intentioned, may get in the way of change. A
school nurse trying to support Simon by allowing him off lessons might
need to understand that him telling his mother each evening that he had
been in the sick bay was getting in the way of them getting to the root of
their difficulties. Systemic work sometimes involves bringing more distant
family members or other professionals into the sessions.
Couples therapy
Couples and marital therapy are more commonly available than family
therapy. RELATE (previously called the Marriage Guidance Council) is
best known in the UK for this, but almost all countries have similar
organizations. The approach is very similar to family therapy, although it is
not so common to have two therapists. Where there are, they are usually
one man and one woman, and their collaboration in the sessions acts as a
potent modelling experience.
Group therapy
As its name implies, group therapy involves several people together. Unlike
family therapy these individuals do not generally know each other before
coming to the group. Groups usually consist of between six and eight
members plus the therapist (two co-therapists is quite common). They meet
in the same place at the same time, usually for about ninety minutes once a
week. The emphasis is on what goes on in the group, and members are
asked not to meet outside. If they do meet (which almost invariably
happens), they should be sure to report it back.
Not all groups are drawn from such a diverse population. Groups are also
used extensively for individuals who share a similar problem such as eating
disorders, addiction, or depression. Their advantage is that they can learn
about different ways of coping. They are very supportive, as members
realize they are not alone with their difficulties and can identify with each
other’s struggles. They can also be challenging, as members will know all
the tricks and be able to confront the person using them.
Group processes
Irvin Yalom, a leading exponent of group psychotherapy, identified three
underlying assumptions in group therapy. First, the central importance of
interpersonal relationships for a robust sense of self. Second, that we can
develop less distorted and more gratifying relationships through corrective
emotional experiences. And finally, that the social microcosm of a group
provides an ideal setting for relearning. As in life around us, group
members will sooner or later recreate the same interpersonal universe they
have always inhabited. A patient, abandoned by her mother and adopted
into a high-achieving family with two children, had always felt of less
value, that she was never going to fit in or be good enough. Finding it hard
to trust relationships, she attacked them, creating the very rejection she
feared. On joining a group she was antagonistic, instigated rows, and was
often on the verge of leaving the group. Only this time round she was able
to observe and change old patterns by using feedback from the other group
members.
In groups, therapeutic activity does not originate from the therapist alone,
but occurs naturally between group members. The sense of altruism this
generates can be particularly therapeutic, as group members find they have
something to offer others rather than constantly feeling like they are a
burden. Collectively, these processes enable members to share events and
feelings they have rarely, if ever, told anyone about. Making such
revelations can constitute another therapeutic factor, the cathartic
experience.
13. We all bring our emotional baggage to therapy. In groups we are increasingly forced to
leave this outside the room in order to deal with relationships in the here-and-now
Group members invariably bring old family conflicts and historical
preoccupations into the group (see Figure 13), but the power of the group
lies in the melting pot of the here-and-now. This is where the real
interpersonal learning takes place. It is here that members become aware,
through feedback and self-observation, of what they do to others and how,
in turn, this rebounds on them. It is also where people can learn to see that
they have the power, and ultimately the responsibility, to do something
about it.
It’s not all hard work. The group is a place to experiment with new ways of
being and relating to others. These can be discovered by simply imitating
others or by becoming aware of new feelings and ideas in the group.
Groups provide an unparalleled opportunity to discover new and surprising
aspects of yourself and your abilities. Simply accepting an offer of a tissue
when talking about something upsetting can be liberating, just as finding
yourself doing the same for another group member can be cathartic.
The group therapist will always return the attention of the group to the here-
and-now, to the purpose of the group, and to the reason why each member
is there. In addition to attending to what is being said, he will notice how
things are expressed as well as enquiring into the why. With his experience
the therapist also listens out for what is not being said or is being avoided,
such as competitiveness or envy.
Interactive therapies
The therapies we will outline here occupy a special place in health services.
They are all registered therapies, but in practice they often straddle the
boundary between psychotherapy and a therapeutic activity. They may lack
the specific characteristics of psychotherapy, such as an explicit agreement
between a therapist and patient on the specific problems of an individual,
and a relatively formal and tailored plan based on a detailed assessment.
Obviously this is not a hard-and-fast divide—many psychotherapies are
fairly open-ended in their initial goals, and individuals often discuss in
detail what they want to gain from drama or music therapy, especially if
provided in specialist settings or in private practice. In our experience
however, it is rare for these therapies to be offered or sought independently
of other treatment programmes within general mental health services.
Psychodrama
Psychodrama was initially created by Jacob Moreno in the early 1900s. He
was equally frustrated with the overly formal, analytical approach of
psychoanalysis, and with the strictures of the drama and theatre of his day.
He stressed the need for spontaneity and improvisation to explore internal
conflicts and painful memories, and to resolve unfinished business.
Although it is group-based, psychodrama is essentially an individual
approach, with one protagonist taking centre stage in each session. The
group members are allotted different roles—for example, someone’s
powerful father figure—or act out different responses, such as one person
challenging and another being more submissive. It has been widely used to
explore family conflicts.
Drama therapy is a term used rather loosely to cover the use of drama to
promote emotional awareness and personal growth. There have been a
number of successful initiatives in prisons, as it recommends itself to men
who are not used to talking about their feelings. Plays usually touch on the
issues that matter powerfully to us, and often in dramatic and violent forms.
Both acting and watching allows prisoners to identify with, and express
their feelings through the actions of characters in a play.
Music therapy
Music therapy emerged in both the UK and the US in the aftermath of
World War II in treatment programmes for soldiers recovering from
physical and emotional injuries. It can be supportive and resource-building,
but in Europe it is primarily psychodynamic, with musical improvisation at
its core.
In a typical music therapy session therapist and client play together, in both
senses of the word. The therapist will encourage the client to express her
feelings through jointly creating music. Interacting with the therapist in this
process, the client will often reveal her patterns of relating, initially with no
need for words. No previous musical experience is needed. Instruments are
generally provided, such as piano, guitar, drums, or xylophone, which are
easy to use and highly expressive. The therapist is active and interactive,
inviting an inhibited individual to exaggerate and let go of their feelings, or
with others to contain and vary the expression of theirs. This can then be
further explored through role play and discussion. The aim is to gain a
fuller and less intellectual experience of the self, and to improve social
interaction.
Music, perhaps more than any other art form, has the capacity to affect our
emotions and mood. Even as infants we respond to the elements of music
(timbre, pitch, volume, rhythm), and these still affect us as adults. Music’s
capacity to link with our more primitive or freer responses is used to full
effect in music therapy. It is commonly used to help with communication
difficulties in autism and learning disabilities, in reminiscence and
orientation work with adults with dementia, with those recovering from
strokes, and also in child and adolescent settings.
Art therapy
Art therapy has its roots both in art and in psychotherapy. It is used in two
quite different ways, each prioritizing one of these origins. The first relies
on the healing power inherent in the creative act of simply making art. The
second uses the patient’s art as the basis for interpretation in a more
traditional psychotherapeutic format. What is created artistically is explored
to enhance self-awareness and insight. Art therapy originally drew directly
on psychoanalysis, but it became a profession in its own right in the mid-
20th century. It can be used with individuals or groups.
In an art therapy session the aim is not to produce beautiful art, but rather to
use a range of materials to create an image or a picture that speaks for an
experience or a feeling state. As with music therapy it removes the reliance
on words, but initially may have to overcome inhibitions: ‘I’m no good at
art’ or ‘I can’t draw’. After the creative part of a session, time is usually
spent discussing the personal meaning of what has been created or the
materials used. Over time, or through a sequence of images, new meanings
can be discovered or alternative feelings and identities experimented with.
All the interactive therapies we have described in this chapter make use of
direct interpersonal experiences. This makes it possible to bypass some of
the defences we described earlier, or at least for them to be identified and
worked with at an early stage and with real immediacy.
We started this book with formal psychoanalysis, and have moved through
time-limited therapies, CBT and counselling, to interactive therapies. We
hope we have provided an overview of psychotherapy in its many different
forms and current models. In the final chapter we will consider where
psychotherapy goes next, and the challenges it faces in that process.
Chapter 8
Psychotherapy now and in the
future
The 20th century has been called ‘the century of psychiatry’, and in many
ways one could read that as ‘the century of psychotherapy’. A hundred
years ago, at the onset of World War I, psychotherapy had touched the lives
of only a tiny number of people, and most of the population had simply
never heard of it. Since then it has reached into almost every aspect of our
lives—how we treat the mentally ill, how we understand our relationships,
our appreciation of art and artists, and even how we manage our schools,
prisons, and workplaces. Our culture has become one quite obsessed with
understanding how people feel and our daily language is peppered with
psychotherapy language.
What does the future hold? Have we witnessed the flowering of a cultural
movement that is tied to just one unique time and place, or is it a
fundamental step forward in human thinking and relationships? In our
increasingly global world will it spread ever more widely or perhaps fade
away altogether? Have the various changes in its practice made it more
relevant to modern man or less so? Will the enormous advances in
medicine, neuroscience, and psychology, and our move into the digital age
of social media, render it obsolete?
How we judge psychotherapy’s future will probably reflect what we think
of it now: as a profound breakthrough in understanding ourselves and a step
forward in social evolution, or as simply one among many technical
procedures to reduce distress and improve human well-being. Reducing
distress is certainly not a trivial achievement, but it does not satisfy
psychotherapy’s strongest advocates—they believe it has irrevocably
changed the way we see the world and how we behave. From a different
perspective, psychotherapy has been criticized right from the beginning for
having ‘cult-like’ and religious overtones.
Psychotherapy or psychotherapies?
We have roughly divided psychotherapy’s century into two halves. Up to
the 1960s it was either psychoanalysis or one of its modifications.
Therapies were verbal, protracted, and intensive, drawing on a detailed
theory of unconscious forces. Understanding was the key to recovery. Later
therapies have been much more experiential. Understanding remains
important, but the process of psychotherapy and the therapeutic
relationship have come to the fore. Some people are struck by the
similarities between these psychotherapies and some by their differences.
Are they adaptations of the same basic model or new and original
approaches? It is a bit like deciding whether a glass is half full or half
empty. Therapists usually stress the differences and the unique therapeutic
mechanisms in their approach. Psychoanalysts and CBT therapists have
traditionally had very little positive to say about each other’s practice.
You may have found yourself drawn to one or other specific therapy.
Alternatively you may come to the conclusion that they have more elements
in common than divide them. The latter perspective is probably how we
view things. Yes, CBT is undoubtedly radically different in tone, duration,
and immediate focus from psychoanalysis. But both work by helping
troubled individuals understand better the mental mechanisms that have
caused and sustain their problems.
One thing the psychotherapies share is that they have all expanded their
reach. The threshold for seeking psychotherapy or counselling has steadily
lowered over the decades, and our demand for it seems inexhaustible. Their
goals have also expanded—from just the reduction or removal of
symptoms, towards self-fulfilment and well-being.
Psychoanalysis paid a high price for its early dominance and undeniable
hubris in the US, where it is now almost totally excluded from mainstream
medicine. It has been replaced by an equally inflated and exaggerated
reliance on pharmacological treatments. Outside the psychiatric mainstream
however, psychotherapy remains widely available and very vigorous. In
Europe, it always played a much smaller part in public psychiatry, and its
rise and fall has therefore been nowhere near as dramatic. In the UK it is
not the availability and influence of psychotherapy that has changed, so
much as the type of psychotherapy and who delivers it. Now it is often
provided by psychologists and is almost exclusively CBT. In parts of the
UK CBT may be the only psychotherapy available in the National Health
Service. A much wider range of psychotherapies is readily available in
private practice and in other European countries.
Psychotherapy research
One of the reasons for psychotherapy’s fading influence within medicine
has been the increasing importance given to research findings. Medicine
now sees itself as an evidence-based practice, rigorously assessing and
comparing the effects of different treatments. Randomized controlled trials
(RCTs) are considered the strongest test of a treatment. In an RCT patients
are randomly allocated to either treatment A or treatment B (often a
placebo, or dummy treatment), with neither the clinician nor the patient
knowing which. The outcome is usually measured by an independent
researcher. You can see how this provides very strong evidence, but also
why it is incredibly hard to do in psychotherapy. It is almost impossible for
patients, therapists, or researchers to be ‘blind’ to the treatment. Treatment
also depends on sustained motivation by both therapist and patient. It is not
like simply swallowing a pill, and there is bound to be variation in how
individual therapists work.
Two possible explanations exist with no clear answer. The first is that
health-care staff fail to identify emotional and psychological problems in
individuals with a different cultural heritage. They simply don’t spot the
cues. One example is that depressed patients with Pakistani and Indian
backgrounds usually complain of tiredness and aches and pains, but only
very rarely of sadness. Most counselling and psychotherapy services strive
to be accessible to people from different cultures. They publicize their
services in local places of worship and social centres, produce leaflets and
posters in a range of languages, and provide interpreter services. This can
reduce the barriers to access, but it does little to address the second possible
explanation of the low uptake—that psychotherapy may not appear relevant
or acceptable.
These influences are not new. Eastern mysticism influenced Carl Jung at the
very beginning of psychoanalysis. Currently, mindfulness-based cognitive
therapy draws heavily on Buddhist thinking and practice. This focus on
being aware of, and accepting the present moment and freeing yourself
from past experience and future ambitions has been a persistent influence
from Eastern philosophy. It is in striking contrast to the Freudian obsession
with understanding and changing. At the time Freud was working in
Vienna, Zen Buddhist exercises were used in Japan specifically to
demonstrate how neurotic problems were absurd and inconsequential. In a
worldview that discourages individualism, the patient was helped to ‘let
nature take its course’. Fritz Perl’s gestalt therapy in the 1940s and 1950s
embodied much of the same approach, although derived from European
existentialism.
Think how different the Eastern emphasis on living vividly in the moment
is to Freud’s deferring of gratification. Some non-Western patients, less
wedded to extreme individualism, often also want a more directive
approach. They are happier to be instructed what to do, rather than be
endlessly encouraged to decide for themselves. This difference is not just a
reflection of a more hierarchical society. In much of the world people
consider themselves first and foremost as a member of a family or a group,
rather than as an individual. We Westerners are the odd ones out, and
probably only for the last three or four centuries. Our psychotherapy
embodies this view. For us, relationships are something we choose to
engage in. They are important, but the starting point is always the
individual. For most of the world the group we belong to (family or clan) is
the starting point, more important than any individual ambition or career.
The Zulu word ubuntu perhaps best conveys this. Widely used throughout
Africa, the commonest translation is ‘being a person through other people’
or ‘I am because we are’. It emphasizes the non-negotiable interdependence
of all humans. We cannot be meaningfully understood as isolated
individuals.
Conclusions
We hope this book has given you a sense of the richness and variety of
psychotherapy. Human beings have always wanted to find meaning in their
lives and to understand themselves and each other. The last century has seen
a systematic attempt to understand our problems and to find specific ways
of helping both those with severe disturbances and those with more
common life-problems.
We now have a range of therapies from which to seek help. They are no
longer an exclusive and expensive prerogative of the ultra-rich and the
intellectual. Most therapists are registered with professional bodies, which
provides reassurance about their training and skills, although you need to
check. As the stigma about psychological problems and their treatment has
receded, people now talk openly about their therapy, and can recommend
who and what helped and what did not. Psychotherapy may be challenging,
but it needn’t be feared and its results can be life changing. We believe it
will be here for the foreseeable future.
References
This book is only a brief overview of the main types of psychotherapy and
counselling. There are literally countless books on the subject at all levels
of complexity. Here we present a very limited list of books that we have
either found stimulating and informative, or which give an accessible
background to the issues raised.
A
action therapies 12–13
activity scheduling 82
addiction therapy 12, 68–9
Adler, Alfred 34–6
age groups 4
ageing 34
alcohol 68–9
altruism in group therapies 97–8
America 36
analytical psychology 34
anima 33
anorexia nervosa 88–9
archetypes 33
art therapy 101–2
asylums 5
attachment theory 41–2, 113
B
Beck, Aaron 74, 76, 77
behaviour therapy 72–4
behavioural experiments 82
bereavement 48
Berne, Eric 66
Binswanger, Ludwig 64
Bleuler, Manfred 32
Bowlby, John 41–2
Breuer, Joseph 18
brief therapies 44–6, 57
British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) 59
Buddhism 111
Burns, Robert 96
C
catastrophizing 80
catharsis 98
Charcot, Jean-Martin 6–7, 17–18
Child Line 71
children, attachment theory 41–2, 113
choices 64
client-centred therapy 60, 69, 78–9
cognitive analytic therapy (CAT) 50–4
cognitive behaviour therapy (CBT) 10–11, 45, 72–84
in medicine 106
research 108
specialisms 85–6
cognitive therapy 74
collaborative empiricism 76, 80–1
collaborative team working 91
Coltart, Nina 43
communication analysis 49
conditioning 72–3
core beliefs (schemas) 76–7
core conditions 61–3
counselling xvi, 9–10, 58–61
addiction 68–9
core conditions 61–3
psychodynamic 69–70
telephone 70–1
counter-transference 22, 63
couple therapy 11–12, 93–4
courses of CBT, length 77
courses of psychoanalysis
length 29–30
process 24–9
courses of treatment
frequency 23–4
length 3, 44–6
process 82–4
cultural relevance 109–11
D
daily thought records 81–2
defence mechanisms 21, 29
denial 21
depression 46–9, 82, 109
development of psychotherapy 104–5
diagrams in CAT 52–3
dialectal behaviour therapy (DBT) 85, 86
domains in development 39
drama therapy 99–100
dreams 18–19, 34
drugs 68–9
Duerzen, Emmy van 65
dynamic interpersonal therapy (DIT) 50
E
Eastern philosophies 13–14, 111–12
eating disorders 85, 88–9
effectiveness, research into 106–8
ego 21
ego-states 66–7
eight stages of development 37–8
empathy 61–2
ending therapy 30, 57
Erikson, Erik 37–9
ethnicity 109–11
existential therapy 63–4
British 65
existentialism 60
existentialist-humanistic approach 64–5
F
false self 42
family therapy 11–12, 88–93
feminism 36
free association 18, 26
Freud, Sigmund 3, 6–7, 8–9, 14, 17–22, 43
contrast with Eastern philosophies 111
future, focus on 54–7, 64–5
G
‘games people play’ 66–7
gender xvi–xvii, 36
genograms 89–91
genuineness 61
good-enough parenting 42
group therapy 11–12, 87–8, 94–9
H
happiness, pursuit of 8–9
helplines 70–1
holding 70
homework 56, 81–2
hormones, oxytocin 113
Horney, Karen 36
humanism 60
hypnosis 5–7, 18, 41
hysterical disorders 6, 17
I
IAPT programme 45
id 21
identity crises 38
imago 33
inferiority complex 35–6
interactive therapies 12–13, 99–102
interdependence 112
interpersonal inventory 47–8
interpersonal psychotherapy (IPT) 46–50
interpersonal relationships 96
interpersonal therapy 37
interpretation 20
J
Jewish psychoanalysts 22
Jung, Carl 13–14, 22, 23, 32–4, 35
K
Kahneman, Daniel 113
Klein, Melanie 21, 23
L
Lacan, Jacques 23
letters
in CAT 51, 53–4
in family therapy 93
libido 20
losses 48
M
Malan, David 30
mandala 35
Markowitz, John 46
maturational crises 37–8
May, Rollo 64
medical application 105–6
meditation 14
mental structures 20–2
mentalization 50
Mesmer, Anton 5–6
metacognition 85
migrants 109
mindfulness 85–6, 111
mindfulness-based cognitive therapy (MBCT) 14, 85
Minuchin, Salvador 88
miracle question 55–6
mirroring 61–2
Mitchell, Julian 88
Molnos, Angela 45
moral treatment 5
Moreno, Jacob 99
multiculturalism 109–11
music therapy 100–1
N
negative automatic thoughts 75–6, 79–80, 82, 85
neuroscience 112–14
neuroses
as barriers 36
physical manifestations 17
unconscious 7–8, 18–19
O
Oedipus complex 20
oxytocin 113
P
parent, adult and child roles 66–7
past experiences 27–8
patients 3–4, 12, 30–1
Pavlov, Ivan 72
Perl, Fritz 111
persona 33
Pinel, Philippe 5
Porter, Roy xiv
positive approach 64–5
present, focus on 98–9
professional bodies 59
professional standards 14–15
projection 21
psychiatry xiv–xv
psychoanalysis 7–8, 16, 18–31, 36
group therapy 95
in medicine 105–6
psychodrama 99–100
psychodynamic counselling 69–70
psychological mindedness 4
psychology xiii
R
randomized controlled trials (RCTs) 106–7
reciprocal roles 51
reinforcement, positive and negative 73
RELATE 93
relationship between therapist and patient 2–3, 7, 22, 28, 43
in counselling 60–3
relationship therapy 11–12, 93–4
relationships between members in group therapy 97–8
relationships in the patient’s life 47–8, 51–2
remote counselling 70–1
respect for clients 62–3
risks 14–15
Rogers, Carl 9, 59–63
role disputes 49
role play 100
role transitions 49
Ryle, Dr Anthony 50, 52
S
Samaritans 70
scaling 56
schemas 76–7
scientific research 84, 106–8
script analyses 91
self, false and true 42
self-awareness 13–14, 96
self-belief 77
self-management 51–2
sexual drives 20
shadow 33
Shazer, Steve de 54
shell shock 39–41
skeleton keys 54
Skinner, B. F. 72–3
Skynner, Robin 88
social withdrawal 47–8
Socrates 78–9
solution-focused therapy (SFT) 54–7
splitting 21
stages of development 37–8
Stern, Daniel 39
Stoicism 74
suggestion 6–7
Sullivan, Harry Stack 37
super-ego 21
T
tasking 56, 81–2
telephone counselling 70–1
terminology 108
therapists, core conditions 61–3
time-limited therapies 44–6, 50, 57
training for psychoanalysts 23
transactional analysis (TA) 66–7
transference 22, 27–8, 43
true self 42
Tukes family 5
U
ubuntu 112
unconditional positive regard for clients 62–3
unconscious
awareness of 69–70
collective 33
unconscious decision-making 113
unconscious neuroses 7–8, 18–19
underlying assumptions 76
W
Weissman, Myrna, 46
Winnicott, Donald 42, 70
World War I, shell shock 39–41
Y
Yalom, Irvin 64–5, 96–7
York Retreat 5
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138.Fossils
139.Journalism
140.The Crusades
141.Feminism
142.Human Evolution
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146.Contemporary Art
147.Philosophy of Law
148.The Renaissance
149.Anglicanism
150.The Roman Empire
151.Photography
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153.Existentialism
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156.Economics
157.International Migration
158.Newton
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160.African History
161.Racism
162.Kabbalah
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166.The Great Depression and The New Deal
167.Classical Mythology
168.The New Testament as Literature
169.American Political Parties and Elections
170.Bestsellers
171.Geopolitics
172.Antisemitism
173.Game Theory
174.HIV/AIDS
175.Documentary Film
176.Modern China
177.The Quakers
178.German Literature
179.Nuclear Weapons
180.Law
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182.Galaxies
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184.Religion in America
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187.Sexuality
188.Nelson Mandela
189.Science and Religion
190.Relativity
191.The History of Medicine
192.Citizenship
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198.Catholicism
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202.Modern Japan
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207.The Soviet Union
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210.Fashion
211.Forensic Science
212.Puritanism
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214.Thomas Aquinas
215.Deserts
216.The Norman Conquest
217.Biblical Archaeology
218.The Reagan Revolution
219.The Book of Mormon
220.Islamic History
221.Privacy
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224.Epidemiology
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227.Innovation
228.Witchcraft
229.The New Testament
230.French Literature
231.Film Music
232.Druids
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234.Advertising
235.Forensic Psychology
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238.Christian Ethics
239.Tocqueville
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247.The Blues
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251.Aristocracy
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253.Michael Faraday
254.Planets
255.Pentecostalism
256.Humanism
257.Folk Music
258.Late Antiquity
259.Genius
260.Numbers
261.Muhammad
262.Beauty
263.Critical Theory
264.Organizations
265.Early Music
266.The Scientific Revolution
267.Cancer
268.Nuclear Power
269.Paganism
270.Risk
271.Science Fiction
272.Herodotus
273.Conscience
274.American Immigration
275.Jesus
276.Viruses
277.Protestantism
278.Derrida
279.Madness
280.Developmental Biology
281.Dictionaries
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284.Environmental Economics
285.The Cell
286.Ancient Greece
287.Angels
288.Children’s Literature
289.The Periodic Table
290.Modern France
291.Reality
292.The Computer
293.The Animal Kingdom
294.Colonial Latin American Literature
295.Sleep
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297.The Cultural Revolution
298.Modern Latin American Literature
299.Magic
300.Film
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302.Chinese Literature
303.Stem Cells
304.Italian Literature
305.The History of Mathematics
306.The U.S. Supreme Court
307.Plague
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309.Engineering
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311.Rivers
312.Plants
313.Anaesthesia
314.The Mongols
315.The Devil
316.Objectivity
317.Magnetism
318.Anxiety
319.Australia
320.Languages
321.Magna Carta
322.Stars
323.The Antarctic
324.Radioactivity
325.Trust
326.Metaphysics
327.The Roman Republic
328.Borders
329.The Gothic
330.Robotics
331.Civil Engineering
332.The Orchestra
333.Governance
334.American History
335.Networks
336.Spirituality
337.Work
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339.Colonial America
340.Rastafari
341.Comedy
342.The Avant-Garde
343.Thought
344.The Napoleonic Wars
345.Medical Law
346.Rhetoric
347.Education
348.Mao
349.The British Constitution
350.American Politics
351.The Silk Road
352.Bacteria
353.Symmetry
354.Marine Biology
355.The British Empire
356.The Trojan War
357.Malthus
358.Climate
359.The Palestinian-Israeli Conflict
360.Happiness
361.Diaspora
362.Contemporary Fiction
363.Modern War
364.The Beats
365.Sociolinguistics
366.Food
367.Fractals
368.Management
369.International Security
370.Astrobiology
371.Causation
372.Entrepreneurship
373.Tibetan Buddhism
374.The Ancient Near East
375.American Legal History
376.Ethnomusicology
377.African Religions
378.Humour
379.Family Law
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381.Revolutions
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386.Microeconomics
387.Landscape Architecture
388.The Eye
389.The Etruscans
390.Nutrition
391.Coral Reefs
392.Complexity
393.Alexander the Great
394.Hormones
395.Confucianism
396.American Slavery
397.African American Religion
398.God
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402.Theatre
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404.The Middle Ages
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407.Peace
408.Iran
409.World War II
410.Child Psychology
411.Sport
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413.Microbiology
414.Corporate Social Responsibility
415.Love
416.Psychotherapy