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Jude Cassidy
The Pennsylvania State University
Steven R. Asher
University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign
CASSIDY,JUDE, and ASHER, STEVEN R. Loneliness and Peer Relations in Young Children. CHILD
DEVELOPMENT, 1992, 63, 350-365. Recent studies indicate that feelings of loneliness and social
dissatisfaction can be reliably assessed with third- through sixth-grade children, and that children
who are sociometrically rejected by their peers are significantly more lonely than other children.
The present research was designed (a) to examine whether loneliness could be reliably assessed
in a population younger than previously studied, (b) to learn whether young children who are
poorly accepted by peers report elevated levels of loneliness and social dissatisfaction, (c) to
assess whether young children understand the concept of loneliness, and (d) to examine the
behavorial characteristics of lonely young children. Kindergarten and first-grade children (N =
440) responded to a questionnaire about feelings of loneliness and social dissatisfaction in school.
A subset of children (N = 46) were individually interviewed to assess their understanding of
loneliness. To assess sociometric status and behavior, peers were asked to respond to various
sociometric measures and behavioral assessment items. Teachers also provided behavioral infor-
mation about children using a newly developed instrument. Results indicated that nearly all
children understood loneliness, that loneliness was reliably assessed in young children, and that
poorly accepted children were more lonely than other children. In addition, children who re-
ported the most loneliness were found to differ from others on several behavioral dimensions.
Children's abilities to form close rela- As part of this concern for children with
tionships and to function successfully within peer relationship problems, attention has
the peer group are increasingly viewed as been directed toward learning whether re-
important indicators of social competence jected children experience greater feelings
(Asher & Parker, 1989; Berndt & Ladd, 1989; of loneliness and social dissatisfaction than
Hartup & Sancilio, 1986; Sullivan, 1953; other children. It is now clear that for chil-
Youniss, 1980) and as reliable predictors of dren in the range of 8-12 years of age, lone-
adjustment in later life (Kupersmidt, Coie, liness is a meaningful construct and can be
& Dodge, 1990; Parker & Asher, 1987). Ac- reliably measured (e.g., Asher, Hymel, &
cordingly, considerable attention has been Renshaw, 1984; Asher & Wheeler, 1985; Bu-
focused recently on children whose peer re- kowski & Ferber, 1987; Hayden, Tarulli, &
lations are problematic and who are highly Hymel, 1988; Marcoen & Brumagne, 1985).
disliked by their peers (see Asher & Coie, Furthermore, several investigations examin-
1990, for reviews). ing third- through sixth-grade children have
This research was supported by an NIMH Postdoctoral Training Grant to the Consortium
on Family Process and Psychopathology, by grant HD05951 from the National Institute of Child
Health and Human Development to the second author, and by a grant from the W. T. Grant
Foundation to the second author. Portions of this paper were presented at the meetings of the
Society for Research in Child Development, April 1989, Kansas City. These data were gathered
as part of a larger project designed and conducted in collaboration with Ross D. Parke. This
project could not have been conducted without the generous assistance of the principals, teach-
ers, and students of the Champaign and Urbana public school systems. The authors wish to thank
Gladys A. Williams, who provided thoughtful comments on an earlier version of this paper. The
authors also gratefully acknowledge the help with data collection and data analysis provided by
Ed Anderson, Julia M. Braungart,Carol M. Bruene, Virginia M. Burks, Pam Dell Fitzgerald,
Jennifer Noel, Ben Wallace, and Gladys A. Williams. Requests for reprints or copies of measures
should be addressed to Jude Cassidy, Department of Psychology, 514 Moore Building, The
Pennsylvania State University, University Park, PA 16802.
[Child Development, 1992, 63, 350-365. ? 1992 by the Society for Researchin Child Development, Inc.
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Item-to-Total
Factor Score
Loading Correlation
1. Is it easy for you to make new friends at school? .............................. .25 .34
2. Do you like to read? ........ .......... .20 a
3. Do you have other kids to talk to at school? ..................................
..................................... .41 .39
4. Are you good at working with other kids at school? ............................ .35 .34
5. Do you watch TV a lot?a ................. . ............... -.07 a
6. Is it hard for you to make friends at school?b ................. 49 .55
7. Do you like school?a ......................................
................. .38 a
..................................................................
8. Do you have lots of friends at school? ................. ......... .............. .48 .44
9. Do you feel alone at school?b .48
10. Can you find a friend when you......................................58
need one? ....................43 .38
11. Do you play sports a lot?a .....................
....................................... .10 a
12. Is it hard to get kids in school to like you?b 44 .44
13. Do you like science?a .......................................
................ .26 a
.................................................................
14. Do you have kids to play with at school? ........................................ .52 .41
15. Do you like music?a ....................... .12 a
.................
16. Do you get along with other kids at school? ....................... 48 .39
17. Do you feel left out of things at school?b ............................................ ................ .45
52
18. Are there kids you can go to when you need help in school? ............ .32 .26
19. Do you like to paint and draw?a .06 a
20. Are you lonely at school?b .................................................
.................. 58 .48
21. Do the kids at school like you? .......................................................
................................... .61 .47
a
22. Do you like playing card games?a ................. .06
.......................................
23. Do you have friends at school? .................... . ............... .36 .29
.....
NoTE.-Administration instructionsare available from the authors.One question was inadvertently omitted in
the present study. This question ("Is it hard for you to get along with the kids at school?"b)should follow question
19.
a Filler
items, focusing on hobby or interest items.
b Items for which response order was reversed in scoring.
lected photograph and repeated the proce- formula. A social preference (SP) score was
dure until three children viere chosen. The computed as the ML score minus the DL
experimenter then gathered all the photo- score, and a social impact (SI) score was
graphs and laid them out again in a different computed as the sum of the ML and DL
random order for the negative nomination scores. The SP and SI scores were then stan-
procedure. The child was then told, "Some- dardized within each classroom. Each child
times there are children in our class who we was classified as fitting into one of the fol-
really do not like to play with very much. Of lowing five groups: (a) popular, consisting
all these children, point to the child who you of all children receiving an SP score greater
really do not like to play with." The proce- than 1.0, an ML score greater than 0, and a
dure continued as in the positive nomination DL score less than 0; (b) rejected, consisting
procedure, until up to three children were of all children receiving an SP score less
nominated. To permit comparison of nomi- than - 1.0, an ML score less than 0, and a
nation scores across classrooms that varied DL score greater than 0; (c) neglected, con-
in size, a proportionscore was computed for sisting of all children receiving an SI score
each child (i.e., the number of nominations less than - 1.0, an ML score less than 0, and
received was divided by the number of a DL score less than 0; (d) controversial,
classmates contributing sociometric data), consisting of all children receiving an SI
and the proportionscores were standardized score greater than 1.0, an ML score greater
within each classroom. These standardized than 0, and a DL score greater than 0; and
most-liked (ML) and disliked (DL) scores (e) average, consisting of all children receiv-
were used to classify children following ing an SP score between -.5 and .5, and an
the Coie and Dodge (1983) computational SI score between -.5 and .5. Children not
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Yes Sometimes No
1. Is it easy for you to make new friends at school? ........................ 62.0 12.5 25.2
2. Do you have other kids to talk to at school? .................................. 92.3 3.2 4.5
3. Are you good at working with other kids at school? .................... 86.1 7.5 6.4
4. Is it hard for you to make friends at school? ................................. 25.7 6.8 67.4
5. Do you have lots of friends at school? ....................................... 83.9 2.7 13.4
6. Do you feel alone at school? ........................................ 12.0 9.5 78.4
7. Can you find a friend when you need one? .................................. 85.0 8.0 7.0
8. Is it hard to get kids in school to like you? ................................... 31.1 11.4 57.5
9. Do you have kids to play with at school? ..................................... 93.9 4.5 1.6
10. Do you get along with other kids at school? ................................. 85.5 10.7 3.9
11. Do you feel left out of things at school? .......................................... 17.0 13.4 69.5
12. Are there kids you can go to when you need help in school? ....... 82.6 6.8 10.5
13. Are you lonely at school? ............................. ................... 11.8 10.9 77.3
14. Do the kids at school like you? 80.1 15.3 4.6
15. Do you have friends at school? ..................................................
............................... ......... 97.3 .9 1.8
you lonely in school?" and a similar number (-.16 and .25, respectively) and for girls
responded "yes" to the question "Do you (-.23 and .30, respectively).
feel alone in school?" Seventeen percent
of children responded affirmatively when Using groups created by the Coie and
Dodge (1983) classification approach (popu-
asked, "Do you feel left out of things at
school?" lar, average, rejected, neglected, and contro-
versial), children of different sociometric
Results of a factor analysis (quartimax status groups were compared. Table 4 pre-
rotation) of the loneliness questionnaire in- sents the means and standard deviations of
dicated that all but one of the principal items loneliness for each group, separately by gen-
and only one filler item ("Do you like der. A 5 x 2 (status group x gender) analy-
school?") loaded above .30 on the principal sis of variance (ANOVA) revealed a signifi-
factor. Factor loadings for each item and the cant effect of status group, F(4,195) = 4.59,
item-to-total correlations are shown in Table p < .001. Follow-up Tukey tests indicated
1. In order to be consistent with previous that rejected children were significantly
research with older children, each child's more lonely than average children, than ne-
score was created using all principal items. glected children, and than popular children.
Cronbach's alpha, a measure of internal reli- No other comparisons were statistically sig-
ability, was .79 for the principal items, indi- nificant. There was no significant main effect
cating satisfactory reliability. for gender, nor was there a significant status
Loneliness and Sociometric Status group x gender interaction.
We next examined connections between In a parallel analysis, we compared chil-
loneliness and the sociometric measures. A dren classified as high-, average-, or low-
total loneliness score was calculated for each accepted based on their mean rating-scale
child. Children's scores could range from sociometric scores. Table 5 presents the
15 to 45, given 15 primary items each on means and standard deviations of loneliness
a 3-point scale. Children's total loneliness for each group, by gender. A 3 x 2 (accep-
scores were found to be significantly corre- tance group x gender) ANOVA indicated
lated with rating-scale scores of acceptance a significant effect of acceptance group,
for all children, r(440) = -.23, p < .001, as F(2,437) = 12.84, p < .001, and follow-up
well as for boys, r(226) = -.14, p < .05, and Tukey tests indicated that low-accepted
for girls, r(214) = -.33, p < .001, separately. children were more lonely than average- or
Loneliness was also significantly correlated high-accepted children, and that average-
(p < .05 in all cases) with both positive and accepted and high-accepted children did not
negative nominations for all children (-.19 differ significantly. There was no significant
and .24, respectively), as well as for boys main effect for gender, nor was there a sig-
STATUS GROUP
nificant acceptance group x gender inter- related to status and gender in ways congru-
action. ent with previous literature. Acceptance
groups were used as the basis for defining
Given that the 15 principal items from sociometric status so that all children could
the loneliness and social dissatisfaction be included in the analysis. A 3 x 2 (accep-
scale focus on several different kinds of di- tance group x gender) multivariate analy-
mensions (e.g., loneliness, perceptions of so- sis of variance (MANOVA) with all three
cial competence, expectations that friend- peer behavioral assessment items as the
ship needs will be satisfied), it becomes dependent variables was conducted. There
importantto assess whether significant find- was a significant effect of acceptance group,
ings again emerge when only the items di- F(6,888) = 41.44, p < .001, a significant ef-
rectly focused on loneliness are used. Ac- fect of gender, F(3,444) = 16.45, p < .001,
cordingly, a subscale was created using the and a significant acceptance group x gender
following three items: "Do you feel alone at interaction, F(6,888) = 2.19, p < .05. A
school?"; "Do you feel left out of things at follow-up series of 3 x 2 (acceptance group
school?"; and "Are you lonely at school?" x gender) ANOVAswas then conducted, ex-
The pattern of relations between loneliness amining each item separately. Acceptance
and sociometric status obtained with the en- groups differed significantly for prosocial
tire scale were once again obtained when behavior, F(2,449) = 126.63, for aggressive
this subscale was used. behavior, F(2,449) = 111.63, and for shy be-
Behavioral Characteristics havior, F(2,449) = 16.96 (all p < .001).
The next majorset of analyses compared Follow-up Tukey tests revealed aggressive
to be more
the behavioral characteristics of lonely and and shy/withdrawn behavior to be
characteristic and behavior
nonlonely children. Prior to this, a series of less characteristic prosocial
of than of
low-accepted
preliminary analyses were conducted to ex- children. These
amine the properties of the peer and teacher average- or high-accepted
findings are consistent with previous liter-
behavior assessment measures.
ature (see Coie et al., 1990, for a review).
Peer assessment.-The first preliminary Significant univariate gender differences
analysis was intended to examine whether emerged for prosocial behavior, F(1,450) =
peer assessments of behavior in this study 28.22, for aggressive behavior, F(1,450) =
TABLE 5
MEAN TOTAL LONELINESS AND SOCIAL DISSATISFACTION SCORES
AS A FUNCTION OF LEVEL OF ACCEPTANCEAND GENDER
ACCEPTANCEGROUP
E 4
0 ( *
?
: :
S:O
? d .
V
0• .
LEVELOF LONELINESS
High Low F
CHARACTERISTICS
BEHAVIORAL (n = 85) (n = 355) (1,438)
Peer measure:
Prosocial ................................................. .68 (.25) .76 (.21) 9.83**
Aggressive ............................................... .34 (.26) .25 (.23) 9.98**
Shy/withdrawn ......................... ............... .29 (.15) .22 (.13) 17.28***
Teacher measure:
Prosocial ..................................... ................. 3.56 (1.11) 4.00 (.95) 14.07***
Aggressive ..................................... ................ 2.05 (1.18) 1.55 (.90) 18.69***
Shy/withdrawn .................................... .... ................ 1.77 (.79) 1.70 (.73) N.S.
Disruptive .................................. ...................... 2.58 (1.36) 2.06 (1.16) 13.09***
NoTE.-Standard deviations are given in parentheses. The peer measure reflects the proportionof classmates
who described the behavior as characteristicof the subject.The teacher measure is based on ratingson 5-point scales.
** p < .01.
***p < .001.
loneliness was examined while covarying fers evidence that young children have a co-
out the influence of sociometric status. Chil- herent concept of their own school-based
dren's average rating on the rating-scale so- loneliness and social dissatisfaction. These
ciometric measure was used as the covariate. findings are made even more meaningful
Analyses were first conducted using the total given that the subset of children inter-
loneliness and social dissatisfaction scale viewed about their understanding of lone-
to derive the high- and low-lonely groups. liness had a basic understanding of the
Results indicated that high-lonely children concept.
were considered by teachers to be less pro-
On the majority of items, a considerable
social, F(1,438) = 4.43, p < .05, more aggres-
sive, F(1,438) = 8.06, p < .005, and more proportion of children (over 10%) expressed
feelings of loneliness or dissatisfaction with
disruptive, F(1,438) = 4.37, p < .05, and by their social relationships at school. It seems,
peers to be more shy, F(1,438) = 10.29, p
< .001, independent of the effects of peer then, that even among very young children
loneliness is a fairly common problem. In-
acceptance. It appears, then, that although
deed, a comparison of the data with previous
controlling for peer acceptance reduced the research with older children suggests that
number of significant relations, several sig-
nificant connections remained. However, feelings of loneliness are comparable or
even somewhat greater among young chil-
when loneliness groups were based on the
dren (Asher et al., 1984; Asher & Wheeler,
pure loneliness items only, no connections
between loneliness and behavior emerged 1985; Zill, in press).
once children's sociometric status was con- As expected, children's reports of loneli-
trolled. ness were linked to social status in meaning-
ful ways, congruent with studies examining
Discussion older children (Asher et al., 1984; Asher &
The findings from this study suggest Wheeler, 1985). The finding that poorly ac-
that the modified loneliness and social dis- cepted children experience the most loneli-
ness suggests that even young children rec-
satisfaction questionnaire presented here is
ognize when they have peer relationship
psychometrically sound for use with chil- difficulties and experience unhappiness as-
dren as early as kindergarten and first grade. sociated with their rejection in school.
The factor analysis revealed a single factor,
suggesting that feelings of loneliness in Recently, attention has been given to
school cohere with perceptions of having the issue of subgroups of rejected children
few friends, being socially incompetent, and (e.g., Coie, 1985; Rubin, LeMare, & Lollis,
not having basic friendship needs satisfied. 1990). Indeed, there is evidence that, in the
The emergence of this single factor, along later elementary school and in the middle-
with the scale's good internal reliability, of- school years, withdrawn or submissive re-
jected children may be more lonely than such as feelings of adequacy or appraisal of
aggressive rejected children (Parkhurst & whether important relationship provisions
Asher, in press; Williams & Asher, 1991). are being met. This diversity of item content
The sample size of the present study pre- leads us to stress that we view our measure,
vented us from making this comparison with as its title suggests, as a measure of loneli-
younger children. It is notable, however, ness and social dissatisfaction. The assess-
that, as was the case in studies with older ment in its present form should prove useful
children (e.g., Asher & Wheeler, 1985; Wil- for researchers interested in capturing both
liams & Asher, 1991), the variance in loneli- loneliness and a global sense of dissatis-
ness was greater for the rejected and low- faction with social relationships in school.
accepted groups than it was for the other However, for researchers focused on con-
groups. nections between loneliness and related
constructs (e.g., self-esteem, perceived peer
The present findings also provide addi- acceptance, and depression), the use of only
tional information about the relative risk for items that directly tap loneliness is recom-
loneliness of various nonrejected groups of mended to avoid overlapping item content
children. First, the findings that average (see Nicholls, Licht, & Pearl, 1982; Parker
children and popular children (identified & Asher, in press).
using nomination-based data) did not dif-
fer in loneliness, and the parallel finding Findings from the present study on the
that average-accepted children and high- behavioral characteristics of lonely children
accepted children (identified using the rat- are convergent with the literature on loneli-
ing-scale measure) did not differ, suggest ness and behavior in adults. Lonely chil-
that children do not need to be exceptionally dren, like lonely adults, were more shy and
well liked to avoid feeling lonely. Second, less prosocial than other individuals. In ad-
unlike rejected children, neglected children dition, lonely children were more aggressive
were found to be no more lonely and socially and more disruptive than other children.
dissatisfied than other children. Apparently These relations remained, albeit less consis-
it is children who are actively disliked by tently, when the influence of peer accep-
their peers who experience distress with tance was statistically controlled. However,
their social lives in school. This finding con- findings emerging when the three "pure"
tributes to the growing body of data that loneliness items were used to create the
suggests that neglected children are not loneliness groups suggest caution in inter-
distressed about their social relationships preting links between loneliness and be-
(Asher & Wheeler, 1985; Crick & Ladd, havior in children. The pattern of relations
1988; Parkhurst & Asher, in press; Williams between loneliness and behavior obtained
& Asher, 1991). with the entire scale were once again ob-
tained, but once social status was controlled,
It is important to note that in the present these relations were no longer significant.
study loneliness and social dissatisfaction This suggests the need for additional re-
were assessed in the school context. This re- search on the link between loneliness and
flects our focus on the link between chil- behavior while controlling for sociometric
dren's loneliness and social dissatisfaction status.
in school and their peer status in school. Re-
searchers interested in examining loneliness An additional contribution of this study
in contexts other than the school may wish was the development of a new behavior
to modify the wording of the questionnaire rating measure for completion by teachers.
items. This measure is simple to administer and as-
sesses several behavioral dimensions found
It is also important to keep in mind the to be important in previous peer-relations
diverse item content of the loneliness and research (e.g., Coie et al., 1990). The rela-
social dissatisfaction questionnaire, and to tively brief length means that the measure
consider the extent to which item content will be manageable even for a teacher with
of the present scale focuses specifically on many students. The four expected factors
loneliness. Some items directly measure the were found, and each corresponding sub-
construct of loneliness, and others can be scale had good internal reliability. Further-
viewed as relevant to loneliness given that more, teacher assessments of children's be-
all children interviewed mentioned being havior were related to peer acceptance and
alone as a component of loneliness. How- gender in ways consistent with previous lit-
ever, still other items seem to assess di- erature (Coie et al., 1990; Huston, 1983).
mensions less directly related to loneliness, Finally, expected connections emerged not