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TABLE!OF!CONTENTS!
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Foreword!.....................................................................................................................................................!4!
Chapter!1:!Why!Body!Language!is!Important!..............................................................................................!6!
Face!to!Face!Conversation!Isn’t!Dead!......................................................................................................!7!
Chapter!2:!The!Basics!of!Body!Language!.....................................................................................................!8!
Focusing!on!Faces!....................................................................................................................................!8!
Look!to!Her!Feet!for!the!Truth!.................................................................................................................!9!
Touching!is!Always!a!Good!Sign!.............................................................................................................!10!
Signs!of!Confidence!................................................................................................................................!10!
Chapter!3:!Master!Your!Body!(So!You!Can!Discover!Hers)!........................................................................!11!
How!You!Should!Carry!Yourself!.............................................................................................................!11!
Other!Ways!to!Look!Dominant!..............................................................................................................!13!
How!to!Handle!Yourself!When!Talking!to!Her!.......................................................................................!13!
Chapter!4:!The!Secrets!of!HER!Body!Language!..........................................................................................!14!
Breaking!It!Down!...................................................................................................................................!15!
Determining!Her!Baseline!Features!.......................................................................................................!16!
It’s!All!About!Context!.............................................................................................................................!17!
Other!Basics!to!Learn!and!Remember!...................................................................................................!17!
When!She’s!Attracted!................................................................................................................................!19!
The!Body!Language!of!Attraction:!The!Head!.........................................................................................!21!
The!Body!Language!of!Attraction:!The!Feet!...........................................................................................!23!
Other!Positive!Signs!of!Attraction!..........................................................................................................!25!
Chapter!6:!When!She’s!Not!Feeling!Attraction!..........................................................................................!27!
Your!Mind!Says!“Yes”,!Her!Face!Says!“No”!............................................................................................!28!
Keep!an!Eye!on!Her!Body!(But!Not!for!the!Usual!Reasons)!...................................................................!30!
The!Agony!of!the!Feet!............................................................................................................................!31!
A!Few!Other!Things!to!be!Conscious!Of!.................................................................................................!33!
Chapter!7:!Signals!That!Can!Go!Either!Way!...............................................................................................!34!
Why!Is!She!Blocking?!.............................................................................................................................!34!
Protect!Your!Neck!..................................................................................................................................!35!

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Watch!For!Her!Blinkers!..........................................................................................................................!36!
The!Eyes!Have!It!.....................................................................................................................................!37!
Using!Context!to!Interpret!Tricky!Signals!...............................................................................................!39!
Chapter!8:!Things!That!Can!Throw!You!Off!................................................................................................!40!
Does!Crossing!Her!Legs!Mean!She’s!Closed!for!Business?!.....................................................................!41!
Another!Look!at!Pursed!Lips!..................................................................................................................!41!
It’s!the!Little!Things!................................................................................................................................!42!
Misinterpreting!Her!Baseline!Features!..................................................................................................!43!
Are!Her!Smiles!Real!or!Fake?!.................................................................................................................!43!
Ensuring!You!Read!Her!Signals!Correctly!...............................................................................................!45!
Chapter!9:!Is!She!Being!Truthful?!..............................................................................................................!46!
The!Relationship!Between!Lying!and!Discomfort!..................................................................................!46!
Using!Your!Baseline!Measurements!......................................................................................................!47!
Don’t!Undermine!Your!Own!Efforts!.......................................................................................................!47!
Practice!Makes!Perfect!..........................................................................................................................!49!
Chapter!10:!Win!Her!Over!with!Good!Strategy!.........................................................................................!49!
Your!Clothing!Sends!a!Message!.............................................................................................................!50!
Being!Sly!About!Your!Observations!.......................................................................................................!51!
Changing!Directions!...............................................................................................................................!52!
Conclusion!..............................................................................................................................................!53!
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Foreword
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When!you!go!out!and!see!a!girl!you!want!to!take!home,!what’s!the!first!thing!you!think!about?!!

What%to%say%to%her.%

When!you!tell!your!friends!later!about!how!it!all!went!down,!what!are!you!going!to!tell!them!in!
your!recap?!!

What%you%said,%and%what%SHE%said%in%response.%

There’s!a!common!thread!here,!and!that!common!thread!is!that!like!most!guys,!you’re!probably!
focusing!way!too!much!on!what’s!being!said!and!not!on!all!of!the!other!communication!that’s!
going!on!“beneath!the!surface.”!And!you!know!what?!Your!results!are!suffering!because!of!it.!

The!fact!is!that!although!when!we!hear!the!word!“communication”!we!immediately!think!of!
words,!the!bulk!of!communication!actually!takes!place!outside!of!the!words!we!fixate!so!much!
on.!Verbal!tone,!facial!expressions,!and!yes,!body!language!reveal!tons!of!secrets!that!can!give!
you!valuable!insight!into!what!any!woman!you!talk!to!is!thinking,!even!if!she!is!trying!her!
hardest!not!to!reveal!her!feelings.!

Think!about!what!that!kind!of!knowledge!can!do!in!the!hands!of!someone!who!knows!how!to!
use!it.!

Have!you!ever!thought,!“If!only!I!could!read!women’s!minds,!I!could!take!home!any!girl!I!
wanted?”!Of!course!you!have.!It’s!a!great!idea!and!would!obviously!be!an!amazing!ability!to!
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What!I’m!here!to!tell!you!is!that!the!next!best!thing!is!being!able!to!all!of!a!sudden!interpret!all!
of!those!noncverbal!cues!that!other!guysc!your!competitionc!are!constantly!missing!out!on.!
When!you!understand!body!language!and!subtle!noncverbal!cues,!you’ll!know!how!to!adjust!
your!strategy,!when!you’re!on!the!right!track,!and!you’ll!be!taking!girls!home!while!the!other!
guys!are!left!wondering!how!in!the!hell!you’re!doing!it.!

These!tactics!and!the!knowledge!contained!in!this!report!all!come!from!incdepth!FBI!training.!
The!thing!is,!the!same!scientific!tools!used!by!the!FBI!to!tell!whether!someone’s!lying,!hiding!
something,!or!feels!uncomfortable!can!be!used!to!give!you!the!upper!hand!when!it!comes!to!
getting!hot!girls!into!your!bedroom!!

When!you!get!out!there!and!can!use!all!of!the!information!that!other!guys!are!just!wasting,!
you’ll!feel!like!you!have!a!superpower.!It!won’t!even!be!fair.!In!fact,!you’ll!wonder!how!you!ever!
were!able!to!talk!to!girls!without!knowing!all!of!these!techniques.!

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Chapter 1: Why Body Language is Important

We’ve!already!talked!a!bit!about!why!body!language!
is!important,!but!I!want!to!give!it!a!little!more!
attention!before!we!move!on.!After!all,!to!truly!
master!body!languagec!both!controlling!yours!AND!
interpreting!hersc!you’re!going!to!have!quite!a!bit!to!
learn,!and!I!want!to!make!sure!you!understand!why!
it’s!so!important!to!put!in!the!time.!

The!first!thing!to!think!about!is!something!we!
already!understand!on!some!level,!which!is!that!
people!aren’t!always!honest.!In!fact,!they!rarely!are,!
especially!when!first!meeting.!

Let!me!explain.!We!often!think!of!honesty!in!terms!of!
literally!telling!lies!or!telling!the!truth,!but!what!
about!when!someone!politely!declines!an!invitation!
when!they’re!really!thinking!“no!freaking!way”?!
What!about!when!you’re!at!the!bar!talking!to!a!hot!
girl!and!she’s!trying!to!play!it!cool!even!though!she’s!
impressed!with!how!you!look!or!how!you’re!
approaching!her?!

Body!language!is!all!about!truth,!and!being!able!to!interpret!it!gives!you!a!huge!advantage!over!
other!guys.!You’ll!have!access!to!her!true!thoughts,!feelings,!and!intentions.!You’ll!know!when!
you’re!on!the!right!track!and!when!you!might!need!to!switch!up!your!approach.!You’ll!know!if!
you’re!wasting!your!time!and!you’ll!be!able!to!move!on!to!the!next!girl.!You’ll!know!which!girls!
to!approach!based!upon!how!they!use!their!body!language!and!facial!expressions.!

Think!about!it!in!another!way.!How!often!are!you!completely!honest!with!the!opposite!sex?!
Probably!not!very!often,!at!least!at!first.!That’s!because!when!we!first!meet!someone,!our!
guard!is!up.!We’re!not!entirely!sure!how!to!conduct!ourselves!and!we!don’t!want!to!do!
anything!that!will!turn!the!other!person!off.!

Plus,!the!stakes!are!high!during!your!first!interaction!with!someone.!They’re!not!invested!in!you!
(and!vice!versa),!so!a!bad!experience!likely!means!your!door!has!closed.!Because!of!that,!we!try!
really!hard!to!make!a!good!first!impression,!even!if!it!means!presenting!a!false!image.!But!over!
time,!of!course,!the!real!you!(and!everybody!else,!for!that!matter)!always!comes!out.!

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Now,!when!you!go!out!and!hit!on!a!girl!and!you’re!really!not!interested!in!anything!besides!a!
little!casual!fun,!you!don’t!come!out!and!say!that.!What!girl!would!respond!well!to!that!kind!of!
honesty?!Even!if!she’s!also!not!looking!for!a!commitment,!you!can’t!just!come!right!out!and!say,!
“Let’s!go!have!sex.”!

Here’s!the!thing,!thoughc!sometimes!we!DO!say!that.!The!trick!is!that!we!say!it!with!our!bodies,!
we!say!it!with!our!facial!expressions,!and!we!say!it!without!words.!How!many!times!have!you!
been!sent!that!signal!and!misinterpreted!it?!How!many!times!did!your!missing!out!mean!that!
the!girl!you!could!have!been!taking!home!went!home!with!someone!else,!instead?!

I’ve!seen!it!a!million!times.!I’m!out!somewhere!and!one!of!my!friends!(or!even!a!stranger)!has!
an!attractive!girl!practically!drooling!over!him!and!yet!he’s!completely!oblivious!to!it.!What!
most!of!us!believe!is!that!maybe!he’s!just!playing!it!cool!or!that!she’ll!want!him!even!more,!but!
as!a!master!of!body!language,!I!know!when!a!guy!just!doesn’t!get!it.!And!guess!what?!Women!
eventually!get!bored!and!move!on,!and!you!may!very!well!miss!your!chance!if!you!don’t!
interpret!the!signals!correctly.!

Face to Face Conversation Isn’t Dead

With!Facebook,!texting,!and!other!forms!of!
communication!coming!to!the!forefront!in!our!
personal!lives,!someone!may!say,!“Why!spend!a!
bunch!of!time!learning!body!language!when!you!
can!hook!up!with!girls!by!sending!a!few!texts!or!
Facebook!messages?”!

Face!to!face!communication!isn’t!dead,!though,!
and!it!never!will!be.!At!some!point,!even!if!you’re!
lucky!enough!to!meet!a!girl!online,!talk!your!way!
into!her!bedroom!with!texts!and!a!few!phone!
calls,!and!meet!up!with!her!for!some!casual!fun,!you’re!going!to!be!face!to!face!with!her.!And!
then,!you’ll!need!to!know!how!to!interact.!Not!only!will!you!have!to!know!how!to!interpret!the!
signals!she’s!putting!out,!but!you’ll!need!to!know!how!to!control!YOUR!body!language!to!give!
the!right!impression!and!keep!from!screwing!the!whole!thing!up.!

No,!face!to!face!communication!is!never!going!to!disappear,!but!you!know!what!is!
disappearing?!The!ability!many!people!have!to!interact!in!person!with!the!opposite!sex.!That,!

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my!friend,!is!an!opportunity.!It’s!a!chance!for!you!to!take!advantage!of!the!fact!that!a!lot!of!guys!
are!spending!too!much!time!looking!at!screens!and!not!enough!actually!getting!out!there!and!
talking!to!girls.!!

Girls!will!always!prefer!a!guy!who!knows!how!to!talk!to!them.!While!us!guys!can!look!at!a!few!
pictures!and!develop!an!instant!attraction!to!a!hot!girl,!girls!are!attracted!to!more!subtle!things,!
like!confidence,!the!way!you!carry!yourself,!and!the!way!that!she!feels!when!you’re!around.!All!
these!things!are!highly!dependent!on!your!body!language.!

Chapter 2: The Basics of Body Language

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I’m!not!going!to!flood!you!with!a!bunch!of!little!details!to!look!for!before!you’ve!been!schooled!
a!bit!in!the!basics!of!body!language.!Hell,!you!could!go!out!tonight!and!do!pretty!well!with!the!
ladies!just!by!knowing!these!basics.!Of!course,!you!don’t!want!to!settle!for!“pretty!well”,!but!
we’re!still!going!to!kick!things!off!by!looking!at!some!fundamental!truths!to!look!out!for.!

Focusing on Faces
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In!most!cultures,!eye!contact!is!a!big!deal.!It’s!seen!
as!a!sign!of!truthfulness!(more!on!that!later),!
confidence!(ditto),!and!it!supposedly!gives!you!the!
best!opportunity!to!figure!somebody!out.!“The!
eyes!are!the!window!to!the!soul,”!say!corny!guys!
strumming!acoustic!guitars!and!trying!to!look!deep!
and!philosophical!to!impress!college!girls.!
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The!thing!is,!faces!are!what!most!of!us!focus!on!to!
interpret!other!people’s!intentions,!moods,!and!
reactions,!but!they’re!also!extremely!hard!to!trust.!
Why!is!that?!Because!we!KNOW!that!everyone!focuses!on!our!faces!when!we!speak,!so!we!
learn!at!a!very!early!age!to!use!our!faces!to!bluff!and!throw!people!off!when!we!need!to.!

Think!about!it!this!way:!when!you!were!a!kid,!were!you!ever!told!by!your!mom!not!to!make!a!
certain!face?!Maybe!you!stuck!out!your!tongue!and!looked!disgusted!when!you!heard!what!was!
for!dinner,!and!you!were!scolded.!You!might!have!been!at!school!and!gotten!lectured!by!a!
teacher!or!the!principal!and!had!to!hide!your!sarcastic!reactions!in!order!to!avoid!worse!
punishment!for!whatever!you!did.!

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Even!toddlers!are!taught!to!mask!their!unpleasant!feelings.!They’re!told!not!to!stare!at!people!
that!look!different,!not!to!say!what’s!on!their!minds,!and!not!to!make!unpleasant!faces!that!
might!hurt!the!feelings!of!others.!

Guess!what!we’re!not!taught!to!hide?!Our!body!language.!

Now,!don’t!get!me!wrongc!faces!can!be!extremely!telling,!but!you!have!to!know!what!to!look!
for.!Also,!compared!to!body!language,!there!are!a!lot!more!false!indicators!possible!in!
someone’s!facial!expressions!and!reactions,!so!you!have!to!be!much!more!nuanced!in!
interpreting!facial!reactions.!

Look to Her Feet for the Truth

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You!know!what’s!hard!to!lie!with?!Your!feet.!Think!about!itc!
how!many!times!were!you!ever!called!out!for!placing!your!
feet!a!certain!way!in!reaction!to!something!somebody!else!
did?!Never.!In!fact,!our!feet!rarely!ever!come!up!in!
conversation,!and!what!we!do!with!them!is!never!brought!
up.!That’s!why!in!many!ways,!they’re!the!most!honest!parts!
of!noncverbal!communication.!

What!can!you!tell!by!looking!at!a!person’s!feet?!For!one,!you!
can!see!if!a!girl!is!feeling!anxious.!Is!she!moving!her!feet!in!a!
skitter!way,!or!leisurely!moving!them!or!even!performing!a!
little!shoe!dangle!with!her!heels!bouncing!up!and!down!as!
you!talk?!There’s!a!big!difference,!as!the!skittery!movement!
can!mean!she’s!uncomfortable!or!anxious,!while!leisurely!
movements!can!indicate!that!she’s!comfortable!with!you!or!
even!turned!on!by!what!you’re!doing.!

Even!where!her!feet!are!pointing!can!be!valuable!indicators.!Studies!have!repeatedly!shown!
that!when!a!person’s!feet!are!pointed!towards!a!door,!they’re!thinking!about!leaving.!Now,!
there’s!some!room!for!interpretation,!here.!Is!she!thinking!about!getting!out!of!there!because!
she!has!someplace!to!go,!or!because!you’re!making!her!uncomfortable?!

Fortunately,!we!have!more!than!just!feet!to!interpret,!so!we!can!get!a!better!total!picture!of!
what’s!going!on!in!her!head.!We’ll!talk!a!lot!more!about!feet!later,!both!in!terms!of!how!you!
present!yourself!and!how!she!reacts!to!you.!

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Touching is Always a Good Sign

Another!general!truth!about!body!language!that!you’re!
more!likely!to!already!have!a!good!grasp!on!is!touching.!
For!obvious!reasons,!touching!is!nearly!always!a!good!sign!
when!it’s!coming!from!the!girl!you’re!hitting!on.!When!she!
seems!to!be!looking!for!reasons!to!hit!you,!such!as!making!
contact!when!you!say!something!funny!or!even!picking!a!
hair!off!your!shirt,!you’re!on!your!way.!

Of!course,!not!all!touching!is!a!great!sign.!If!she’s!
interacting!with!you!as!more!of!a!“buddy”,!such!as!
playfully!punching!you!while!laughing!and!looking!around!
the!room,!you!probably!still!have!some!work!to!do.!

One!thing!that!we!can!always!assume,!though,!is!that!touching!means!she’s!comfortable!with!
you.!Whether!you’re!on!the!cusp!of!the!dreaded!friend!zone!or!going!to!get!a!chance!to!see!her!
bedroom!is!the!question,!but!the!good!news!is!that!girls!don’t!touch!guys!that!they!aren’t!
comfortable!with.!A!lot!of!body!language!is!about!comfort,!and!touching!is!always!a!dead!
giveaway!that!she’s!feeling!comfortable!around!you.!

Signs of Confidence
The!last!general!truth!of!body!language!I!want!to!discuss!before!
moving!on!to!more!specific!information!is!confidence.!It’s!no!secret!
that!women!LOVE!confidence,!so!being!able!to!master!confident!
body!language!is!extremely!important!for!you.!

Something!as!simple!as!your!walk!can!be!a!huge!turncon!or!turncoff!
for!a!girl.!Hey,!we’re!an!evolved!species,!but!there’s!still!a!lot!of!
caveman!left!in!us,!and!women!still!look!for!that!alpha!male,!
whether!they!admit!it!or!not.!That!means!when!you!walk!around!
the!bar,!the!beach,!or!even!down!the!street,!you!walk!with!a!
purpose.!

Confidence!means!that!you!don’t!do!things!like!scrunch!yourself!in!with!your!shoulders!
hunched.!It!means!you!don’t!hide!your!hands,!bite!your!nails,!or!engage!in!other!nervous!
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For!her,!the!same!things!are!all!true.!The!difference!is!that!when!she’s!doing!these!behaviors,!
you!have!to!interpret!whether!she’s!shy!or!whether!she’s!feeling!uncomfortable!because!she’s!
not!into!whatever!you’re!doing.!Fortunately,!you’ll!be!getting!the!tools!to!do!all!of!that!later!on.!

Let’s!get!out!of!the!general!truths!of!body!language!and!move!on!to!how!to!master!your!own!
body!language!and!give!off!the!impression!you!need!to!in!order!to!push!all!the!right!buttons!
and!find!yourself!in!her!bed!later!on.!

Chapter 3: Master Your Body (So You Can

Discover Hers)
You!know!that!girl!with!the!unbelievable!body!sitting!across!the!
room,!laying!down!at!the!beach,!or!walking!down!the!street?!You!
won’t!have!a!chance!of!getting!to!know!her!or!her!amazing!body!
until!you!can!master!your!own…your!body!language,!that!is.!

See,!even!though!most!people!are!uninitiated!when!it!comes!to!
what!subtle!nuances!in!body!language!mean,!everyone!
understands!certain!elements!of!body!language!on!an!instinctive,!
subconscious!levelc!especially!women.!

Women!may!not!even!know!what!it!is!that!is!turning!them!on!or!
off!about!a!certain!guy,!but!they!know!it’s!there.!That’s!why!you’ll!
often!hear!a!woman!often!say!when!asked!about!what!she!sees!in!
someone!that!there’s!“something!about!him”.!That!something!is!
often!how!he!carries!himself.!

How!can!we!take!this!truth!and!turn!it!into!something!you!can!use!to!your!advantage?!We!can!
do!that!by!helping!you!to!master!your!body!language!so!you!can!be!the!guy!that!has!that!
“something”!girls!can’t!resist.!

How You Should Carry Yourself

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When!it!comes!to!how!you!carry!yourself,!you!have!to!
be!prepared!to!make!changes!that!are!a!part!of!your!
entire!lifestyle,!not!just!certain!situations.!In!other!
words,!you!don’t!want!the!more!confident!version!of!
yourself!to!be!a!“character”!that!you!play!when!you’re!
out!trying!to!meet!girls.!You!want!it!to!be!the!new!you!
no!matter!what!situation!you’re!in.!After!all,!you!never!
know!when!you!might!meet!someone,!and!presenting!
yourself!as!a!more!confident!person!will!only!help!you!in!
all!areas!of!your!life,!anyway.!

There’s!an!overriding!philosophy!at!work,!and!it!is!that!everything!you!do!has!a!purpose.!This!
will!guide!the!way!you!walk,!for!example.!!

When!you!walk,!you!walk!with!a!purpose.!That!doesn’t!mean!you!have!to!walk!supercfast!or!
look!extremely!intense,!like!a!WWE!wrestler!on!his!way!to!the!ring.!What!it!means!is!that!you!
never!look!like!you’re!just!wandering!around!aimlessly,!not!sure!what!to!do.!You!can!be!relaxed!
or!even!browsing!in!a!store,!for!example,!without!looking!like!a!little!lost!lamb.!

See,!when!you’re!wandering!around!rather!aimlessly,!you!can!either!look!like!a!person!who!
lacks!confidence!and!isn’t!sure!of!himself,!or!perhaps!even!worse,!you!can!look!like!a!predator!
seeking!out!prey.!You!don’t!want!to!give!off!the!“creepy”!vibe,!so!when!you!see!someone!you!
want!to!approach,!you!approach.!No!halfcmoves.!

The!same!guidelines!apply!when!it!comes!to!your!posture.!When!your!head!is!down,!your!
shoulders!are!up!in!a!halfcshrug!position,!and!arms!are!hanging!limply,!you!look!weak.!It’s!your!
body’s!natural!way!of!avoiding!being!seen!and!making!yourself!small.!Contrast!that!to!a!
confident!person!who!wants!to!be!seen!and!doesn’t!slouch!or!slump.!Which!one!would!an!
attractive!girl!be!more!likely!to!want!to!date?!

There’s!also!something!called!“freeze!response”!that!comes!into!play,!where!your!body!literally!
looks!frozen!into!position!as!you’re!assessing!a!situation.!It’s!part!of!the!fight!or!flight!response,!
which!is!a!bit!of!a!misnomer!because!there’s!a!third!component!which!is!freezing.!Freezing!
often!happens!when!you’re!sizing!up!a!threat,!or!in!terms!that!are!more!applicable!to!picking!up!
girls,!when!you’re!not!sure!about!someone!that!you’re!just!meeting.!

To!sum!it!up,!you!want!to!look!animated!and!casual!in!social!situations,!while!looking!as!if!
you’re!comfortable!and!you!fit!in.!You!don’t!want!to!stand!out!as!someone!who!is!nervous,!shy,!
or!uncomfortable!around!others.!Again,!on!a!subconscious!level!women!are!generally!looking!
for!a!strong!personc!an!alpha!male.!

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There!are!other!ways!to!give!off!a!dominant!appearance,!even!when!you!aren’t!in!active!
conversation!with!the!girl!you’re!after.!These!things!are!important!because!when!you’re!in!a!
social!situation,!girls!aren’t!just!paying!attention!to!you!when!you’re!talking!to!them.!They’re!
noticing!you!when!you’re!interacting!with!other!people,!too.!They!sit!and!peoplecwatch!just!like!
guys!do!(although!with!maybe!a!little!less!perverted!of!an!approach,!let’s!be!honest).!

When!you!sit,!don’t!consciously!or!subconsciously!try!to!take!up!very!little!space.!Again,!this!is!
an!alpha!tactic!and!although!she!may!not!even!know!she’s!interpreting!it!this!way,!it’ll!affect!
her!impression!of!you.!Sit!or!stand!with!your!feet!apart,!not!together!or!crossed.!Spread!out!
and!put!your!arm!on!an!adjoining!chair!or!counterc!don’t!be!smushed!in!to!a!small!space.!

Other!dominant!poses!include!standing!with!your!hands!on!your!hips,!but!don’t!overdo!itc!you!
don’t!need!to!look!like!an!undercover!cop!that’s!scoping!the!place!out.!Avoid!hiding!your!hands!
by!selfcconsciously!shoving!them!into!your!pockets.!Avoid!nervous!habits!that!most!people!use!
to!soothe!themselves!when!feeling!uncomfortable,!like!nail!biting,!rubbing!your!hands!
incessantly!on!your!legs,!and!so!on.!These!are!all!pieces!of!the!puzzle.!

How to Handle Yourself When Talking to Her

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When!you’re!in!conversation!with!her,!a!lot!
of!the!previous!tips!still!apply,!but!you!might!
as!well!underline!them!and!put!them!in!bold,!
because!now!she’s!giving!you!all!of!her!
attention,!and!she’s!going!to!noticec!
consciously!or!subconsciouslyc!your!
characteristics!and!mannerisms.!

This!puts!you!under!the!spotlight,!and!this!is!
when!your!attempts!to!get!her!number,!take!
her!home,!or!whatever!you’re!going!for!will!either!be!made!or!broken.!When!you!sit!down!be!
conscious!of!the!fact!that!you!need!to!appear!relaxed.!This!is!just!as!true!if!you’re!standing!up!
when!you!approach!her.!Take!a!comfortable,!wide!stance!and!spread!out,!if!you!have!the!
chance.!Put!your!arm!across!an!adjoining!chair,!the!bar,!or!anything!else!that’s!convenient!if!
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Actually,!spreading!out!in!this!way!is!a!territorial!display!that!indicates!dominance!over!the!
immediate!area.!Think!about!itc!when!people!feel!least!at!home,!like!in!a!subway!(even!if!it’s!
not!particularly!crowded),!they!take!up!very!little!space.!Then!again,!when!you’re!at!home,!
you’re!more!likely!to!spread!out,!kick!your!feet!up,!and!take!up!a!lot!more!room.!That’s!because!
home!is!your!territory,!and!you!are!the!dominant!individual!there.!

So!perhaps!the!best!way!to!sum!up!your!general!posture!and!positioning!is!to!make!wherever!
you!are!your!home.!She!will!pick!up!on!your!territorial!display,!whether!consciously!or!
subconsciously,!and!react!accordingly.!

When!you’re!talking,!remember!to!use!your!hands!to!punctuate!conversation!or!even!to!
occasionally!make!contact!with!her!when!it!comes!naturally,!like!when!you!make!a!joke.!Never!
hide!your!hands!or!obscure!themc!it’s!an!age!old!sign!of!somebody!that’s!hiding!something!and!
comes!off!either!socially!awkward!at!best!or!suspicious!and!untrustworthy!at!worst.!

Another!thing!to!think!about,!although!not!to!fixate!on,!is!the!way!you’re!facing.!When!you!face!
her!all!the!way,!with!your!torso!completely!pointing!in!her!direction,!you’re!sending!her!a!
message!that!she!has!all!of!your!attention,!and!you’re!taking!some!of!the!appeal!away!from!her!
point!of!view.!She!doesn’t!want!it!to!happen!that!easily.!Adopt!an!open!stance!where!you!can!
turn!your!head!slightly!to!make!eye!contact!with!her,!but!if!you!looked!straight!ahead!you’d!be!
looking!a!couple!of!feet!or!more!to!her!left!or!right.!

When!it!comes!to!eye!contact,!give!her!eye!contact!when!you’re!talking!and!periodic!eye!
contact!when!you!talk.!There’s!a!fine!line!to!walk!herec!you!don’t!want!to!be!rude.!However,!
you!also!don’t!want!to!appear!like!you’re!hanging!on!her!every!word.!This!doesn’t!mean!you!
want!to!ignore!her!or!act!so!aloof!that!she!thinks!you’re!not!interested.!Listen!well,!but!do!so!
while!keeping!your!eyes!moving!around!when!you’re!not!making!direct!eye!contact!with!her.!

Chapter 4: The Secrets of

HER Body Language
Now,!controlling!your!body!language!and!sending!the!
right!signals!is!a!big!part!of!the!equation.!However,!the!
biggest!thing!to!learn!will!be!how!to!interpret!the!signals!
that!she’s!sending!out.!Therefore,!that’s!going!to!be!our!
focus!for!the!majority!of!this!report.!

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Whether!you!know!it!or!not,!women!are!always!sending!you!signals.!Whether!it’s!a!girl!you’ve!
talked!to!a!dozen!times,!that!you!used!to!date,!or!that!you!just!met,!they’re!sending!you!
information!with!their!body!language!and!facial!expressionsc!you!just!haven’t!been!able!to!
interpret!it!properly.!

Until%now.%

When!you!get!done!reading!this!report,!you’re!going!to!be!equipped!with!information!that!very!
few!guys!out!there!havec!the!ability!to!interpret!her!body!language.!

See,!most!guys!not!only!have!no!interest!in!worrying!about!anything!other!than!what’s!coming!
out!of!a!girl’s!mouth,!but!they!also!don’t!have!the!first!idea!of!what!body!language!means.!This!
is!a!huge!advantage!for!you,!almost!as!if!you!were!at!a!bar!where!only!you!and!all!the!women!in!
attendance!could!speak!English,!while!all!the!other!guys!had!no!idea!how!to!speak!to!the!girls.!

Being!able!to!pick!up!girls!means!more!than!just!knowing!how!to!take!advantage!of!your!own!
strengthsc!it!also!means!capitalizing!on!areas!that!other!guys!are!clueless!about,!such!as!body!
language.!

It!can!be!difficult!to!adjust!to!being!aware!of!body!language!because!it!means!looking!at!the!
world!in!a!different!way.!Once!you!learn!to!understand!body!language,!you’ll!have!a!lot!more!
information!coming!your!way!and!it!can!be!difficult!to!interpret!it!all,!but!it!will!happen!in!no!
time!once!you’ve!adjusted!a!bit.!

So!now,!your!job!is!going!to!be!observing!the!world!around!you!in!a!bit!more!detail!than!before.!
This!can!be!hard!to!do,!especially!if!you’re!frequently!lost!in!your!thoughts!rather!than!really!
taking!in!what’s!going!on.!But!if!you!take!some!time!to!observe!people!(casually,!not!obviously)!
at!your!work,!when!you’re!at!the!store,!or!at!the!park,!you’ll!see!tons%of!examples!of!the!body!
language!displays!we’ll!be!discussing!here.!

Breaking It Down
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Before!we!can!really!get!into!what!specific!displays!of!
body!language!are!likely!to!mean,!it’s!best!to!break!them!
all!down!into!two!rather!broad!categoriesc!comfort!and!
discomfort.!

Comfort,!of!course,!can!mean!all!kinds!of!things.!It!can!
mean!that!she!finds!you!funny,!that!she’s!wellc
acquainted!with!you,!that!she’s!attracted!to!you,!or!that!

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she’s!having!a!good!day.!The!trick!is!to!first!be!able!to!identify!signals!that!she’s!comfortable,!
after!which!you!can!get!to!figuring!out!why.!

Discomfort!includes!all!kinds!of!other!possibilities,!including!that!she’s!mad!(at!you!or!someone!
else),!nervous,!scared,!unhappy,!or!uneasy.!Again,!there’s!a!considerable!amount!of!
interpretation!work!to!do!once!you!determine!that!she’s!making!uncomfortable!displays!with!
her!body!language!and!facial!expressions.!

In!order!to!interpret!her!signals,!you’re!going!to!need!a!sound!understanding!of!two!important!
thingsc!her!baseline!features!and!the!context!in!which!the!signals!are!being!given.!

Determining Her Baseline Features

Her!baseline!features!are!something!that!will!take!a!
little!time!and!effort!to!establish.!They!include!her!
default!posture,!mannerisms,!idiosyncrasies,!and!facial!
expressions.!For!instance,!some!girls!are!just!plain!shy.!
Therefore,!if!a!cute!girl!is!acting!shy!around!you,!but!
you!know!from!observing!her!that!she!comes!off!shy!
with!everyone,!you!know!there’s!a!good!chance!that!
you’re!not!specifically!making!her!uncomfortable.!

Baseline!features!also!have!to!do!with!her!facial!features.!I!saw!a!funny!video!not!long!ago!on!
the!internet!about!“bitchy!resting!face”.!The!idea!of!the!video!was!basically!that!some!girls!are!
always!being!asked!if!they’re!mad!or!in!a!bad!mood!when!in!actuality,!their!faces!naturally!give!
them!a!kind!of!annoyed!look.!

You’ve!probably!known!a!girl!or!two!like!that!before!who!can!easily!look!angry!when!in!
actuality,!they’re!completely!content.!Knowing!how!a!girl’s!face!naturally!looks!when!she’s!not!
displaying!any!kind!of!signal!whatsoever!is!important,!because!then!you!can!detect!more!subtle!
differences!when!she’s!giving!you!a!slight!scowl,!a!look!of!amusement,!or!even!the!“bedroom!
eyes”!that!we!all!strive!so!hard!to!get.!

You’ll!notice!above!that!I!said!“subtle!differences”,!and!there’s!a!reason!for!that.!With!few!
exceptions,!as!adults!we!tend!to!hide!our!true!reactions!and!feelings!when!it!comes!to!our!facial!
expressions.!We’re!taught!that!as!kids,!when!our!parents!and!other!authority!figures!tell!us!to!
hide!unpleasant!reactions!so!as!not!to!be!rude!or!hurt!someone’s!feelings.!

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Of!course,!you’ll!still!get!some!genuine!reactions!from!people,!especially!when!you!take!them!
by!surprise.!If!you!get!used!to!looking!for!certain!signs!in!people’s!facial!reactions,!it!will!be!
even!more!obvious!when!you’re!given!something!to!work!with.!

It’s All About Context

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Almost!all!of!the!information!you’ll!get!in!this!report!comes!
with!a!giant!asterisk.!Why?!Because!in!relationships,!context!
is!everything.!How!many!times!have!you!blown!up!at!
someone!who!really!didn’t!do!anything!wrong!because!you!
were!still!mad!about!something!that!happened!earlier!in!the!
day?!That’s!an!obvious!example!of!context.!The!person!you!
blew!up!at!likely!didn’t!know!about!what!happened!to!you!
earlier,!and!they!think!you’re!pissed!at!them.!They!don’t!
understand!the!context!that!your!interaction!happened!in.!

In!terms!of!going!out!and!picking!up!girls,!context!is!extremely!important.!Is!she!playing!with!
her!hair!because!she’s!turned!on!or!because!she’s!bored?!Is!she!making!only!occasional!eye!
contact!because!she’s!disinterested!or!because!she’s!shy?!Is!she!blinking!her!eyes!more!often!
than!normal!because!she’s!uncomfortable!or!because!she’s!aroused!by!you?!

The!way!you!interpret!these!types!of!complex!signals!is!through!context,!and!context!requires!
you!to!absorb!as!much!information!as!possible.!If!all!of!the!other!information!you’re!getting!
shows!that!she’s!into!you!and!you!get!a!signal!that!can!be!positive!or!negative,!you!know!it’s!
likely!positive.!

The!timing!of!her!actions!is!also!a!valuable!aspect!of!context.!An!uncomfortable!response,!such!
as!drawing!her!feet!back!towards!herself!and!maybe!tucking!them!behind!her!bar!stool,!can!be!
extremely!telling!if!it!was!done!right!after!you!complimented!her!on!her!looks!or!made!physical!
contact!with!her,!for!instance.!

Other Basics to Learn and Remember

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We!discussed!the!freeze!response!a!bit!earlier!on,!and!it’s!important!because!it’s!something!
you’ll!see!quite!a!bit,!especially!if!you’re!approaching!hot!girls!out!of!the!blue!and!starting!up!a!

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conversation.!A!freeze,!even!a!slight!one,!means!that!she’s!figuring!out!what!to!do.!She’s!
unsure!about!you!and!maybe!has!been!taken!by!surprise.!

Either!way,!the!jury!is!out!when!you!get!the!freeze!response,!which!means!that!you’re!generally!
in!the!running!still!and!have!a!chance.!

There!are!other!common!responses!that!
include!shoulder!shrugs,!which!can!be!tricky!to!
interpret!the!right!way.!Everyone!knows!that!
shoulder!shrugs!show!either!indifference!or!
indecisiveness,!but!most!people!don’t!know!
that!there!are!multiple!types!of!shrugs.!

A!genuine!shoulder!shrug!is!full!and!equal,!
meaning!that!both!shoulders!reach!the!same!
height.!This!indicates!genuine!confusion!or!
indecisiveness,!and!pretty!much!mean!that!you!
can!take!what!she’s!saying!at!face!value.!

Now,!if!she!shrugs!halfway!or!partially,!often!with!one!side!shrugging!more!than!the!other,!
that’s!generally!an!indicator!that!she’s!not!completely!committed!to!whatever!she’s!saying.!If!
she’s!shrugging!like!that!while!you’re!asking!her!what!she’s!doing!later,!it!could!mean!she’s!not!
being!entirely!truthful,!or!it!could!mean!that!she’s!hoping!you’ll!ask!her!to!do!something!with!
her.!

Finally,!before!we!get!into!even!more!specifics!of!female!body!language,!it’s!important!to!
reiterate!a!vital!point:!

Don’t!let!her!catch!you!observing!her.!

There’s!nothing!that’s!going!to!turn!her!off!more!than!if!she!catches!you!dissecting!her!every!
move!or!staring!at!her!wideceyed,!trying!to!observe!every!detail!of!her!actions!and!reactions.!
It’s!not!a!very!attractive!thing!to!be!caught!doing.!

That’s!why!practice!makes!perfect,!and!you’re!going!to!want!to!observe!her!casually,!without!
ogling!her!up!and!down!at!all!times.!Remember!to!maintain!a!moderate!amount!of!eye!contact!
and!not!face!her!directly,!which!indicates!that!you’re!giving!all!of!yourself!to!her!and!shifts!the!
balance!of!power!in!her!direction.!

Observe!her!reactionsc!but!be!sly!about!it.!Don’t!make!it!obvious.!

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When She’s Attracted

For!simplicity’s!sake!and!to!help!you!learn!what!
you!need!to!know!without!wondering!how!to!
apply!it!to!real!life,!we’re!going!to!separate!the!
rest!of!the!information!on!her!body!language!into!
two!categories:!signs!that!she’s!attracted!to!you!
and!signs!that!she’s!not.!!

Let’s!start!off!with!some!of!the!signs!that!you!can!
look!for!that!often!indicate!an!attraction!on!her!
part.!!

The!way!her!body!is!oriented!in!relation!to!yours!is!
a!big!deal.!What!you’re!going!to!be!hoping!for!is!
that!when!you!approach!her!and!start!interacting,!
she!turns!her!body!towards!you.!When!I!say!“her!
body”,!what!I!mean!is!her!torso.!

Your!torso!is!a!big!deal,!and!not!just!because!it!houses!all!your!vital!organs.!Actually,!that’s!a!bit!
of!a!lie,!because!that’s!exactly!why!your!torso!is!a!big!deal!in!body!language.!

See,!we!still!have!some!tendencies!that!are!left!over!from!the!programming!we!had!during!our!
days!as!hunters!and!gatherers!defending!ourselves!from!beasts!and!fellow!men!alike.!One!of!
those!tendencies!is!to!protect!ourselves!by!only!facing!our!torsos!towards!people!we!trust.!

Although!now!we’re!not!interpreting!every!situation!as!life!and!death!anymore,!our!tendency!is!
still!to!only!face!our!torso!toward!those!that!we’re!comfortable!with!and!favorable!towards,!
rather!than!people!we!dislike.!

Think!of!it!this!wayc!when!you!hug!someone,!isn’t!that!the!ultimate!symbol!of!trust?!Not!only!
are!you!facing!your!torso!toward!the!other!person,!but!you’re!also!allowing!them!to!make!
contact!with!it.!

The!behavior!of!facing!people!who!you!are!open!to!with!your!torso!and!turning!your!torso!away!
from!unfavorable!things!can!be!observed!literally!everywhere.!Ever!seen!a!basketball!player!get!

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chewed!out!by!his!coach!during!a!timeout?!Afterward,!when!the!coach!is!drawing!up!the!next!
play,!most!of!the!players!will!be!facing!him!with!their!torsos,!but!the!player!who!got!yelled!at?!
He’s!usually!oriented!away!from!the!coach!and!perhaps!just!looking!at!him!diagonally.!

The!same!is!true!in!business!meetings.!People!don’t!turn!all!the!way!to!face!a!speaker!who!is!
saying!something!that!they!don’t!agree!with.!

You’ll!also!see!this!behavior!in!social!situations,!where!a!group!of!people!will!be!talking!and!
maybe!a!girl!in!the!group!isn’t!that!crazy!about!one!of!the!others,!so!she!doesn’t!turn!her!torso!
when!they!speak!and!maybe!doesn’t!even!look!at!them,!either.!

Getting!back!to!hugs,!the!other!big!deal!about!a!hug!is!that!when!you!hug!someone,!you!move!
your!arms!away!from!your!torso,!leaving!it!quite!literally!unprotected.!

This!brings!us!to!the!principle!called!“shielding”.!When!you!shield!yourself,!you!put!objects!
between!yourself!and!the!other!person.!

These!objects!can!be!a!briefcase,!a!pillow,!your!own!folded!arms,!or!in!the!case!of!a!girl!you’re!
trying!to!take!home,!a!purse.!The!idea!is!multicfaceted!here:!she’s!trying!to!add!distance!
between!you!and!shield!her!torso!at!the!same!time.!Obviously,!that’s!not!a!good!sign,!while!a!
lack!of!shielding!is!what!you!want!to!see.!

You!may!have!heard!that!when!someone’s!arms!are!folded,!they’re!either!not!listening!to!the!
person!who’s!speaking,!or!they!simply!don’t!agree!with!what!the!person!is!saying.!Those!are!
two!really!strong!possibilities,!but!another!is!that!the!person!isn’t!comfortable!or!doesn’t!like!
the!speaker.!

Whatever!the!specific!reasoning!is,!we!know!that!we!don’t!want!to!see!that!when!talking!to!
girls.!When!you!approach,!you!want!to!see!her!torso!facing!you!(unless!it’s!impossible!because!
of!the!sitting!arrangement!or!some!other!limitation)!and!no!unnecessary!objects!between!the!
two!of!you.!

Now!that!we’ve!talked!about!bodily!orientation,!let’s!talk!about!some!more!specific!positive!
signs!of!facial!expression!and!body!language,!starting!from!her!head!and!working!down!to!her!
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The Body Language of Attraction: The Head

Earlier,!we!talked!at!length!about!how!facial!expressions!can!be!a!bit!misleading.!One!thing!is!
not!when!it!comes!to!women,!though,!and!that’s!eye!contact.!

You!absolutely!want!her!to!be!making!eye!contact!with!you!regularly!as!you!interact.!While!
guys!will!often!avert!their!eyes!while!interacting,!it’s!not!something!women!like!to!do!except!in!
unpleasant!circumstances,!such!as!when!they’re!looking!for!a!way!out!of!the!conversation!or!
they’re!bored.!

Speaking!of!eye!contact,!there’s!something!I!call!the!Attraction!Triangle!that!you!will!always!
want!to!be!on!the!lookout!for!when!you’re!in!conversation!with!a!woman.!When!you!see!the!
Attraction!Triangle,!you!not!only!know!she’s!attracted,!but!depending!on!the!situation,!she!may!
be!ready!for!you!to!kiss!her,!too.!

The!Attraction!Triangle!usually!starts!with!her!staring!at!your!mouth!as!you!talk,!which!means!
that!she!already!has!kissing!you!on!her!mind.!She’ll!revert!back!to!one!of!your!eyes!and!then!
the!other!shortly!after,!not!wanting!to!be!caught!looking!at!your!mouth.!But!surely!enough,!
after!hitting!each!eye,!she’ll!be!looking!at!your!mouth!again.!

This!is!a!really!strange!phenomenon!when!you!think!about!it,!but!I’ve!seen!it!a!thousand!times!
and!it’s!indisputable.!Along!with!good!eye!contact!and!having!her!chest!pointing!toward!you,!

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the!Attraction!Triangle!is!one!of!the!very!best!indicators!that!you’re!definitely!working!your!way!
in!there.!

What!about!her!hair?!You’ve!almost!certainly!heard!before!that!if!a!girl!plays!with!her!hair!
when!she’s!talking!to!you,!she!likes!you.!

The!problem!is!that!there’s!only!a!bit!of!truth!to!that,!and!the!reality!is!that!depending!on!what%
she’s!doing!with!her!hair,!it!may!actually!be!a!bad!sign,!not!a!good!one.!

When!it’s!a!good!sign,!she’ll!be!playing!with!her!hair,!not!actually!stimulating!her!scalp.!Think!
about!it.!Is!she!touching!her!hair,!especially!further!down!toward!the!ends,!or!is!she!actually!
touching!her!head?!Now,!there’s!a!caveat!here,!because!if!she’s!stimulating!her!scalp!while!
making!good!eye!contact!with!you!and!staying!engaged,!she!may!be!associating!you!with!sexual!
stimulation,!since!the!back!of!the!head!is!an!erogenous!zone!for!most!ladies.!

Imagine!a!girl!who’s!twirling!her!hair!absentcmindedly!while!looking!around!the!room!and!
chewing!gum!animatedly.!Does!she!look!attracted!to!someone!or!bored?!

Now!imagine!a!girl!who’s!twirling!her!hair!while!maintaining!eye!contact!or!displaying!the!
Attraction!Triangle.!She’s!the!one!who’s!definitely!attracted.!Once!again,!you!can!see!that!not!
only!context!is!coming!into!play,!but!also!using!the!other!information!she’s!putting!out.!No!body!
language!occurs!in!a!bubble.!You!have!to!look!at!the!whole!picture.!

The!next!thing!to!look!out!for!in!terms!of!what!her!head!is!doing!is!whether!her!face!is!relaxed.!
A!relaxed!face!shows!that!she’s!not!feeling!stressed,!which!means!she’s!comfortable!with!you,!
which!is!a!big!part!of!female!attraction,!as!we!discussed!before.!

To!determine!this,!you!need!to!know!her!baseline!facial!features,!which!we!also!discussed!
earlier.!If!you!know!what!her!face!looks!like!normally,!when!she’s!not!particularly!angry,!
stressed,!happy,!or!whatever,!you’ll!know!when!her!face!is!relaxed!and!when!there’s!some!
tension!there.!

She!may!also!tilt!her!head!a!little!bit,!showing!her!neck!ever!so!slightly!to!you.!This!is!huge!in!
terms!of!displaying!comfort.!Another!one!of!the!traits!that!we’ve!hung!onto!from!the!caveman!
days!is!not!displaying!our!necks!to!those!that!may!harm!us,!or!to!put!it!more!in!modern!terms,!
those!that!make!us!uncomfortable.!

If!she!tilts!her!neck!ever!so!slightly!and!has!a!relaxed!facial!expression,!it’s!definitely!a!good!
sign,!especially!if!these!signs!are!being!displayed!alongside!some!of!the!other!positive!reactions!
we’ve!mentioned!already.!

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The Body Language of Attraction: The Feet

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Earlier!we!talked!about!how!people!barely!
ever!think!of!what!their!feet!are!doing!
when!they!interact!with!someone.!
Ironically!enough,!because!nobody!cares!
about!what!their!feet!are!doing,!the!feet!
are!often!the!most!telling!aspect!of!body!
language!!

Going!back!again!to!much!earlier!in!human!
history,!the!feet!show!us!a!lot!about!
whether!someone!is!accepting!us!or!not.!In!
terms!of!fight!or!flight,!feet!will!tell!you!just!
about!everything.!

For!our!purposes,!what!this!means!is!that!
you!always!want!the!girl’s!feet!to!be!
pointing!yours!unless!it’s!somehow!
impossible!with!the!way!you’re!sitting!or!
positioned.!This!can!be!a!very!dynamic!
thing,!actually.!!

Consider!this!example:!You’re!hanging!out!on!St.!Patrick’s!Day!and!having!some!drinks!at!a!huge!
outdoor!party!sponsored!by!a!local!Irish!pub.!There!are!people!everywhere,!there’s!a!band,!and!
everyone’s!either!standing!around!talking,!dancing!over!by!the!band,!or!walking!to!meet!up!
with!friends,!buy!a!beer,!or!use!the!restroom.!

You’ve!made!eye!contact!with!a!girl!that’s!in!a!group!of!four!a!few!times,!and!you’re!convinced!
that!she!likes!what!she!sees.!Now,!you’re!going!to!approach!the!group!(either!alone!or!with!a!
wingman!or!two,!doesn’t!matter),!and!you!want!to!know!right!away!not!only!what!she!thinks,!
but!whether!there’s!going!to!be!a!cockcblocker!or!two!in!the!group.!(Hey,!it’s!best!to!know!right!
off!the!bat,!so!you!can!deal!with!the!jealous!friend!if!you!have!to.)!

What!you!want!to!see!when!you!approach!the!group!is!the!group!“opening!up”!to!admit!you.!
Not!only!do!you!want!to!see!four!torsos!opening!up!towards!you,!but!more!importantly,!four!
sets!of!feet.!If!their!feet!remain!in!the!same!position!and!they!don’t!open!up!to!admit!you,!at!
least!a!couple!people!in!the!group!don’t!want!you!joining!them.!

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Hopefully,!the!girl!you’re!after!is!not!one!of!those!people,!but!even!if!she’s!not,!you!may!be!
looking!at!an!uphill!battle!to!keep!the!other!girls!from!thwarting!your!efforts.!And!especially!in!a!
busy!social!environment!where!people!are!moving!around!a!lot!and!you!don’t!have!a!lot!of!time!
to!work!your!magic,!that!can!be!a!problem.!

To!sum!it!up,!you!always!want!her!feet!to!be!pointing!towards!you.!Feet!pointing!away!can!be!
taken!extremely!literally,!as!they!almost!always!mean!that!the!person!you’re!talking!to!wants!to!
leave.!Next!time!you’re!talking!to!some!friends!and!you!can!tell!that!one!of!the!guys!has!to!go!
to!the!bathroom!or!needs!to!get!going!because!he’s!running!late!to!be!somewhere,!check!his!
feet.!At!least!one!of!them!will!likely!be!pointing!away!from!the!group.!

Another!thing!to!think!about!in!terms!of!her!feet!is!how!close!they!are!to!yours.!When!her!feet!
are!close!to!yours,!she’s!showing!that!she’s!ready!for!more!intimacy!with!you.!Since!the!feet!are!
largely!subconscious!while!the!upper!half!is!easier!for!us!to!control!to!avoid!showing!our!true!
feelings,!the!feet!can!be!trusted!much!more.!If!her!feet!have!made!their!way!towards!yours,!it’s!
a!great!sign,!even!if!the!rest!of!her!isn’t!quite!ready!to!admit!it.!

If!you’re!at!a!restaurant!sometime!and!there’s!a!couple!on!a!date!somewhere!in!the!dining!
room,!give!a!couple!of!looks!in!their!direction!and!check!the!positioning!of!their!feet.!If!they’re!
close!together!or!even!touching,!you’ll!probably!also!notice!that!they’re!holding!hands!or!in!
active!conversation,!having!a!good!time.!

If!their!feet!are!withdrawn!or!sitting!under!their!chairs,!you!might!notice!that!the!conversation!
is!much!more!reserved,!one!or!both!of!them!are!on!their!phones,!or!there’s!little!to!no!contact!
with!each!other’s!hands!going!on.!

The!couple!in!the!second!example!probably!won’t!be!together!much!longer!(which,!of!course,!
could!present!an!opportunity!to!you,!though!you!probably!don’t!want!to!approach!until!he’s!
not!around!).!

Earlier!when!I!was!telling!you!about!women!playing!with!their!hair,!you!may!have!gotten!the!
idea!that!movement!isn’t!usually!a!good!thing.!She!should!be!sitting!there,!almost!motionless,!
completely!transfixed!on!you,!right?!

Wrong.!

In!fact,!movement!is!often!a!good!thing.!You!know!why?!Because!when!she’s!moving,!she’s!
subconsciously!saying,!“Notice!me!”!

This!is!especially!true!when!it!comes!to!the!last!foot!characteristic!we’ll!talk!about!for!nowc!
shoe!dangling.!Shoe!dangling!is!that!move!girls!will!do!where!the!heel!of!their!shoe!comes!off!

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completely,!leaving!the!shoe!dangling!by!their!toes.!It’s!generally!done!in!a!gentle!rocking,!
circular,!or!upcandcdown!motion.!

This!kind!of!maneuver!indicates!three!things.!One,!it!means!that!she’s!comfortable!with!you.!
This!movement!is!not!a!nervous!one,!after!all.!Furthermore,!in!order!to!shoe!dangle,!her!feet!
can’t!be!withdrawn,!which!means!her!feet!are!in!closer!proximity!to!yours.!

The!second!thing!it!means!is!that!she’s!stimulated!by!you.!When!someone!is!occupying!your!
thoughts,!emotions,!and!yes,!desires,!many!parts!of!your!body!go!on!autopilot.!That’s!when!
she’ll!start!doing!things!like!the!Attraction!Triangle!with!her!eye!contact!or!dangling!her!shoe!
absentcmindedly.!

The!third!thing!it!means!is!that!she!wants!you!to!notice!her,!as!mentioned!a!moment!ago.!Think!
about!it!in!terms!of!what!I!told!you!earlier!about!making!your!body!large!and!spreading!out,!
rather!than!shrinking!down!in!an!effort!not!to!be!seen.!The!female!version!of!this!involves!
making!little!movements,!like!dangling!your!shoe!or!playing!with!your!hair.!When!a!girl!does!
this,!she!wants!to!be!noticed.!

Other Positive Signs of Attraction

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Along!with!not!using!them!to!shield!your!torso,!a!great!reaction!in!terms!of!her!arms!is!when!
she!has!them!up!high.!Now,!you!won’t!see!this!all!that!often,!but!you!could!see!it!in!certain!
situations,!such!as!on!the!dance!floor.!If!you!get!her!out!there!and!she’s!got!her!arms!up!at!
times!when!she’s!dancing!with!you,!she’s!not!only!comfortable!with!you,!but!she’s!not!worried!
about!being!vulnerable.!

In!short,!she’s!likely!down!for!something!to!happen!between!you.!If!you!play!your!cards!right,!
that!something!could!be!a!lot.!Think!about!it!this!way:!ever!seen!someone!on!a!roller!coaster!
who!wants!to!have!their!arms!in!the!air!like!all!the!other!cool!people!who!aren’t!scared!of!the!
ride,!but!they!can’t!quite!keep!the!courage!to!do!it?!When!the!ride!gets!a!little!scary,!their!
elbows!pull!in!and!downward!ever!so!slightly,!even!as!they!consciously!try!to!keep!their!hands!
up.!When!you!feel!threatened!or!cautious,!you!keep!your!arms!in!front!of!your!torso.!

And!guess!what?!Threatened!and!cautious!
women!don’t!want!to!go!home!with!you.!

As!you!continue!talking!to!her,!another!huge!
thing!to!take!stock!of!is!whether!she’s!leaning!
into!you!or!leaning!away.!Now,!don’t!expect!her!

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to!look!like!an!Olympic!ski!jumper,!angling!toward!you!in!ridiculous!fashion.!It’s!a!more!subtle!
thing.!Is!her!weight!on!her!heels!or!more!on!her!toes?!If!she’s!sitting,!is!her!upper!body!angled!
toward!you!or!away?!

You!can!use!this!to!your!advantage,!too.!Occasionally,!mix!in!leaning!toward!her!with!leaning!
ever!so!slightly!away.!Don’t!let!her!think!that!you’re!already!committed!to!her!and!that!you’re!
“chasing!her”c!it’s!a!turncoff.!

Leaning!in!shows!that!she’s!open!to!making!contact!with!you!and!closing!the!distance!between!
you.!When!you!notice!it,!you!want!to!test!the!waters!by!making!physical!contact!when!it!comes!
across!naturally.!

Hell,!she!may!even!beat!you!to!the!punch.!If!she’s!making!excuses!to!touch!you,!you!need!to!
escalate!immediately!and!not!only!respond!to!her!initiative,!but!take!it!to!the!next!level!by!
upping!the!frequency!and!intensity!a!bit.!

Finally,!I!think!it’s!important!to!reiterate!here!that!although!you’re!going!to!be!observing!a!lot!
of!thingsc!there’s!already!a!lot!to!think!about!here,!with!a!lot!more!to!comec!you!don’t!ever!
want!to!look!like!you’re!observing!her.!This!is!particularly!true!when!it!comes!to!her!feet!and!
other!things!you!won’t!be!able!to!check!out!while!looking!natural!in!certain!situations.!If!there’s!
a!table!there!and!you!can’t!get!the!look!that!you!want,!you’ll!just!have!to!go!without!it.!It’s!
better!than!having!her!notice!that!you’re!checking!out!her!every!move.!

You’ll!look!desperate!if!she!notices,!and!just!as!badly,!she’ll!start!to!put!more!attention!into!
masking!her!body!language,!which!means!you!won’t!be!able!to!get!genuine!actions!and!
reactions!anymore.!

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Chapter 6: When She’s Not Feeling Attraction

Nobody!wants!to!spend!a!lot!of!time!focusing!on!signs!that!a!girl!
might!not!be!digging!them!at!all,!but!let’s!face!itc!it’s!a!part!of!
picking!up!girls.!Since!approaching!women!is!all!about!confidence,!
it!makes!sense!to!want!to!avoid!such!a!negative!topic,!too,!but!the!
point!I!want!to!get!across!here!is!threecfold.!

First!of!all,!attraction!is!not!all!black!and!white,!and!there!are!a!lot!
of!shades!of!gray.!With!women!especially,!attraction!isn’t!
something!that’s!either!all!the!way!there!or!completely!absent.!
She!doesn’t!look!at!you!and!instantly!know!that!she!wants!to!have!
sex!with!you!right!then!and!there!or!she!wouldn’t!touch!you!with!a!
tencfoot!pole.!

Instead,!she’ll!likely!be!undecided!until!you!convince!her!otherwise,!for!better!or!for!worse.!
Hopefully,!you’ll!convince!her!that!she!needs!to!consider!going!home!with!you,!rather!than!
convincing!her!that!she!should!definitely!not!give!you!a!chance.!Either!way,!only!in!absolute!
extreme!situations!does!a!girl!already!absolutely!know!one!way!or!another!that!she’s!
completely!interested!or!disinterested!in!you.!

The!second!reason!we!need!to!talk!about!these!negative!signals!is!that!just!because!things!
aren’t!going!as!well!as!they!couldn’t!doesn’t!mean!you!can’t!turn!them!around.!

At!any!given!moment,!knowing!that!you’re!doing!or!saying!something!she!isn’t!crazy!about!is!
valuable!information!because!you!can!change!directions!and!go!with!a!different!tactic,!if!
needed.!Even!if!the!door!is!only!open!a!couple!of!inches,!it!hasn’t!closed!yet!and!you!still!have!a!
chance!to!get!in!there.!

Finally,!the!third!reason!we!need!to!look!at!negative!signals!is!that!if!she’s!making!it!clear!that!
you!don’t!have!much!of!a!chance,!you!should!move!on!instead!of!wasting!your!time.!!

For!one!thing,!there!are!likely!plenty!of!other!girls!wherever!you’re!at!that!you!could!be!hitting!
on,!instead.!

Another!thing!is!that!when!you’re!swinging!and!missing,!other!girls!in!the!area!are!not!oblivious.!
You!don’t!want!to!quickly!get!the!reputation!at!the!party,!bar,!or!wherever!you’re!at!for!being!
the!guy!who!clumsily!hits!on!every!girl!around!and!gets!turned!down!right!and!left.!

Social!status!is!huge!to!girls!and!if!they!see!a!girl!that!they!don’t!think!has!their!social!value!
shooting!you!down,!they!may!not!want!any!part!of!you,!either.!If!you’re!getting!a!lot!of!negative!

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signals,!you!at!least!know!you!can!cut!it!short!and!move!on!gracefully!before!she!gives!you!the!
hard!pass.!

Hey,!and!you!never!know…if!she’s!giving!you!bad!signals!and!you!choose!to!cut!it!short!and!
walk!away,!she’ll!often!feel!intrigued,!because!she’ll%feel!rejected!all!of!a!sudden!and!start!
wondering!why!you!changed!your%mind.!She!won’t!know!that!you!preemptively!sensed!her!
attitude!towards!you!because!of!her!body!language.!

Your Mind Says “Yes”, Her Face Says “No”

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Just!as!a!seductive!smile!or!a!pair!of!bedroom!
eyes!can!let!you!know!that!you’re!heading!in!
the!right!direction,!a!girl!can!flash!you!a!facial!
expression!or!two!that!will!let!you!know!that!
things!aren’t!going!your!way!at!all.!

Although!as!we!discussed!earlier,!faces!can!be!
very!deceiving—as!we’ve!been!taught!since!
childhood!to!hide!unpleasant!facial!reactions—
it’s!also!what!you’ll!be!looking!at!most!often,!so!
you’ll!get!a!lot!of!your!information!from!looking!at!her!face.!

Furthermore,!when!you’re!talking!to!someone!for!the!first!time,!there’s!a!big!element!of!
surprise,!and!even!the!most!pokercfaced!people!may!display!a!slight!reaction!to!what!you!say!or!
do!before!quickly!recovering!and!regaining!their!composure.!You!might!as!well!learn!how!to!
interpret!negative!facial!reactions,!so!you!can!adjust!accordingly.!

Right!off!the!bat,!a!lot!of!very!telling!signs!will!come!from!her!eyes.!Earlier,!you!read!that!when!
a!girl!is!into!you,!she’ll!let!you!know!with!her!eyes,!making!a!lot!of!contact!and!looking!at!you!
dead!on.!

On!the!other!hand,!when!a!girl!is!not!into!you,!she’ll!be!looking!at!you!a!little!bit!sideways,!and!
maybe!not!making!a!lot!of!eye!contact!at!all.!She!may!look!anxious,!casting!her!gaze!around!the!
room!instead!of!settling!upon!you!for!any!length!of!time.!

Then!again,!she!may!reside!in!that!frustrating!middle!ground,!not!giving!you!a!great!indication!
either!way.!Maybe!she’s!being!polite,!maybe!she!kind!of!likes!you,!who!knows?!That’s!why!you!
use!your!other!tools!and!indicators,!too.!

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A!lot!of!the!facial!expressions!you’re!looking!for!will!be!momentary!reactions!to!what!you!do.!If!
she!isn’t!outright!disinterested!in!you,!it!means!you!have!a!chance!and!it’s!all!about!how!you!
play!it.!!

This!is!the!space!where!probably!80%!of!your!encounters!with!single!women!will!take!place,!
with!another!5c10%!each!occurring!within!the!“definitely!down”!or!“definitely!not!interested”!
areas.!In!other!words,!the!vast!majority!of!the!time,!you!will!have!some!sort!of!chance,!but!it’s!
all!about!how!you!handle!it.!Being!able!to!interpret!how!she!reacts!to!what!you!do!is!huge,!
since!you!can!avoid!doing!things!that!aren’t!working.!

One!facial!expression!to!look!for!is!a!slight!squint!or!a!raise!of!her!eyebrows.!When!she!does!
that,!she’s!usually!expressing!either!dislike!or!skepticism.!Now,!be!careful,!because!it!might!be!
that!she’s!aiming!her!disdain!at!whatever!you’re!saying,!and!not!you!personally.!If!you’re!telling!
a!story!(or!she!is)!about!a!person!that!did!something!shady!or!about!something!negative,!her!
reaction!could!be!appropriate.!If!you’re!bragging!about!your!accomplishments,!though,!she’s!
not!buying!it.!

The!slight!nose!crinkle!is!another!obvious!tell,!and!it!will!usually!be!a!very!quick!one!that!she!
erases!from!her!face!very!quickly!after!giving!just!a!flash!of!it!(remember,!we’re!all!taught!to!
hide!disgust!and!all!that).!Nose!crinkles!can!mean!anything!from!literal!sensory!disgust!to!
disagreement!with!what!someone!is!saying,!but!it’s!never!a!positive!signal.!

When!she!furrows!her!brow!by!bringing!her!eyebrows!inward,!it!means!she’s!feeling!anxious,!
annoyed,!or!uncomfortable.!If!she!does!it!right!after!you!said!something,!consider!what!you!
said!and!why!it!may!make!her!feel!that!way.!If!you’re!telling!her!an!unpleasant!story!(which!you!
honestly!shouldn’t!really!be!when!first!talking!to!her),!she!may!be!reaction!appropriately,!but!
otherwise,!you!don’t!want!to!see!that!facial!expression.!

Another!sign!of!discomfort!or!stress!will!be!when!she!presses!her!lips!together!firmly.!Her!lips!
should!look!loose!and!relaxed,!not!tightly!pressed!together.!Contrast!the!pressing!of!lips!
together!with!another!motion,!such!as!when!she!licks!her!lips!or!pushes!them!inward!so!that!
they!momentarily!disappear.!Both!of!those!are!also!nervous!movements,!but!they!don’t!have!
the!negative!connation!that!lips!firmly!pressed!together!do.!

On!the!other!hand,!another!thing!she!may!do!with!her!lips!is!purse!them!together!ever!so!
slightly,!as!if!in!the!beginning!stages!of!making!a!kissycface!(or!duck!lips,!as!girls!often!
annoyingly!did!on!Facebook!pictures!not!all!that!long!ago).!This!generally!indicates!
disagreement.!!

When!someone!slightly!purses!their!lips!together,!they’re!either!saying!that!they!don’t!really!
agree!with!what!you’re!saying!or!they!don’t!really!buy!what!you’re!saying.!Again,!you’re!not!

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really!looking!to!get!either!of!those!reactions!when!you’re!hoping!to!take!her!home!at!the!end!
of!the!night.!

Keep an Eye on Her Body (But Not for the Usual

Reasons)
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Bodily!positioning!is!not!as!much!of!a!dynamic!thing!as!it!is!a!constant!thing!that!doesn’t!change!
a!lot!during!the!conversation,!but!it!will!give!you!a!solid!idea!of!where!you!stand!at!the!
beginning!or!at!later!stages!of!interacting!with!a!woman.!

Like!we!talked!about!earlier,!you!want!her!to!
open!up!with!her!torso,!ideally!with!her!chest!
pointing!towards!you!(which!is!a!pleasant!
experience!for!more!than!one!reason).!This!
indicates!her!openness!toward!you,!which!means!
you’re!not!fighting!an!uphill!battle!by!trying!to!
get!her!to!entertain!your!advances.!

The!other!huge!thing!mentioned!earlier!is!torso!
shielding,!and!when!it!comes!into!play,!you!will!
almost!always!see!it!in!the!form!of!a!purse!on!her!
lap.!!

If!it!was!already!there,!you’re!not!necessarily!in!trouble,!but!if!she!had!it!resting!on!the!table!or!
the!bar!in!front!of!her!and!then!put!it!in!her!lap,!it’s!a!definite!defensive!gesture.!She’s!either!
reacting!negatively!to!part!of!your!advances!or!she!is!uncomfortable!with!you!for!some!reason.!

Remember!that!torso!shielding!can!also!come!in!many!other!forms,!including!her!having!her!
arms!folded!in!front!of!her.!If!it’s!not!particularly!cold!in!the!room!and!she!suddenly!puts!on!her!
jacket!or!zips!it!up,!taking!away!your!previously!great!view,!it!could!be!something!to!worry!
about,!as!it’s!another!type!of!shielding!at!play.!

To!understand!the!concept!better,!just!remember!that!torso!shielding!is!when!she!does!
anything!that!puts!something!between!your!torso!and!hers.!Clothing,!purses,!her!armsc!
anything.!

The!distance!she!is!away!from!you!is!a!big!indicator,!as!if!she’s!looking!to!expand!the!distance!
between!you!during!conversation,!what!are!the!chances!she’ll!be!looking!to!close!that!distance!
in!the!bedroom!later!on?!

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Even!if!her!body!is!close!to!you,!she!can!nonetheless!create!some!distance!between!her!torso!
and!yours!by!leaning!away.!This!can!even!happen!sometimes!in!really!busy!environments!where!
there!isn’t!a!lot!of!room.!

I’ve!seen!guys!hitting!on!girls!before!and!probably!thinking!that!they’re!making!progress,!
because!the!bar!was!so!crowded!that!their!legs!were!almost!touching.!But!looking!at!her!upper!
body,!it!would!be!angled!away,!even!to!the!point!where!her!back!was!up!against!the!person!
behind!her,!which!shows!that!she’s!looking!to!maintain!distance,!even!with!the!packed!
environment.!Sure!enough,!eventually!he’d!be!shot!down!and!moving!along!to!the!next!girl.!

At!the!same!time,!she!could!have!a!lot!of!distance!from!you!and!be!leaning!in,!with!the!distance!
just!being!a!result!of!the!chairs!being!fixed!a!certain!number!of!feet!away!from!one!another.!
You!have!to!look!at!it!all!in!context!and!understand!the!setting!to!really!know!how!to!interpret!
some!of!the!more!subtle!signals.!

The Agony of the Feet

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Excuse!the!pun!above,!but!a!lot!of!what!your!night!
ultimately!holds!will!be!told!far!below!the!waist,!in!
the!Wild!West!of!body!language,!her!feet.!Earlier,!
we!discussed!how!since!we!aren’t!taught!to!worry!
about!the!messages!our!feet!are!sending;!they’re!
often!the!most!honest!body!part!in!terms!of!body!
language.!

This!gives!you!an!opportunity,!and!you’ll!want!to!watch!out!for!some!negative!messages!being!
sent!by!her!feet!during!your!conversation!with!her.!

As!mentioned!before,!her!feet!should!be!pointing!toward!you!when!you!approach!and!start!
talking!with!her.!If!she!was!facing!the!other!direction,!she!should!turn!her!body!to!meet!you,!

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including!her!feet.!If!her!feet!are!pointing!away!from!you!(even!just!one!of!them),!it!shows!that!
she!isn’t!entirely!committed!to!hearing!what!you!have!to!say.!

It!goes!without!saying!that!if!she!isn’t!entirely!committed!to!hearing!you!out,!she’s!far!from!
decided!to!let!you!into!her!bedroom!at!any!point!later!in!the!night.!

Likewise,!you!don’t!want!her!feet!to!be!withdrawn!from!yours.!She!doesn’t!have!to!be!playing!
footsie!with!you!right!off!the!bat,!but!you!certainly!don’t!want!her!to!have!her!feet!as!far!back!
as!possible,!tucked!behind!her!chair!and!away!from!yours,!either.!

If!you’re!sitting!side!by!side,!she!obviously!can’t!really!face!you!with!her!feet,!but!she!can!face!
away!by!having!the!leg!that’s!closest!to!yours!crossed!away!from!you!on!top!of!her!other!one.!
That’s!closed!body!language!and!can!indicate!that!she’s!closed!off!to!you,!tooc!at!least!for!the!
moment.!

If!her!feet!are!in!a!neutral!position!or!even!in!a!positive!position!and!after!you!say!something,!
she!withdraws!them,!she’s!pulling!back!from!you!a!little!bit,!literally!and!figuratively.!Whatever!
you!just!said!is!making!her!pull!away!a!bit.!Reign!it!in!and!regroup.!If!you!were!making!a!pass!at!
her,!you!might!have!just!moved!a!little!too!fast.!!

A!quick!joke!can!bring!her!back!and!add!some!levity!to!the!conversation,!allowing!her!to!relax!
so!that!you!can!work!your!way!back!into!position!to!make!a!move!later!on!when!she’s!more!
ready.!By!noticing!the!way!she!moves!her!feet,!you’ll!know!that!you!need!to!adjust!your!
strategy!accordingly.!

Let’s!say!her!feet!are!in!a!neutral!position,!perhaps!with!her!legs!crossed!and!midway!between!
the!two!of!you.!If!you!can!easily!see!them,!you!can!look!for!certain!reactions!to!give!you!an!
invaluable!window!into!how!she’s!feeling!about!you.!

The!negative!signal!you!don’t!want!to!see!is!when!her!feet!start!kicking.!Now,!if!they’re!
comfortable!rocking!a!bit,!that’s!one!thing,!but!a!more!frantic!kicking!motion!is!usually!a!clear!
sign!that!she’s!uneasy!and!uncomfortable.!

If!it’s!more!of!a!jiggling!motion,!it!means!she’s!more!nervous,!whereas!kicking!is!a!stronger,!
more!unpleasant!feeling.!Either!one!means!she’s!not!currently!in!the!mood!to!go!home!with!
you,!which!means!you’ve!got!some!work!to!do.!

Another!thing!to!keep!an!eye!out!for!if!you!can!do!it!subtly!without!it!catching!her!attention!is!
whether!she!changes!tempo!with!her!foot!movements.!In!other!words,!let’s!say!she’s!swaying!
her!foot!casually!throughout!your!conversation.!Then,!all!of!a!sudden,!she!starts!picking!up!the!
pace!and!rocking!her!foot!more!frantically.!

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That’s!when!you’ve!got!to!think:!did!I!do!something?!Did!I!say!something?!Don’t!get!me!wrong,!
you!don’t!want!to!outwardly!secondcguess!yourself,!because!that!makes!you!look!weak!and!
completely!unappealing.!

However,!without!acknowledging!that!you!noticed!something!is!wrong,!you!can!gently!change!
course!and!take!things!in!a!different!direction!if!needed,!looking!for!better!visual!cues!from!her!
body!language!as!you!go.!It’s!an!art.!

A Few Other Things to be Conscious Of

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Between!her!head!and!feet,!there!are!some!other!
areas!you’ll!want!to!keep!an!eye!onc!besides!her!
boobs,!obviously.!

One!of!them!is!her!hands.!Does!she!withdraw!them!
all!of!a!sudden!and!place!them!under!the!table?!That!
could!mean!you’ve!made!her!uncomfortable.!

Does!she!mess!with!them!a!lot?!If!she!does!so!
absentcmindedly!while!maintaining!eye!contact!with!
you,!it!means!she’s!feeling!a!bit!shy,!but!nonetheless!comfortable!with!you.!However,!if!she’s!
looking!at!her!nails!out!of!boredom,!it!means!you!obviously!need!to!step!up!your!game!a!bit.!

If!she!plays!with!her!hair,!it’s!good!as!long!as!she’s!not!stimulating!her!scalp!out!of!boredom.!
Again,!eye!contact!also!rules!herec!if!she’s!making!good!eye!contact!and!playing!with!her!hair,!
it’s!a!great!sign.!If!she’s!looking!everywhere!but!your!direction!and!playing!with!her!hair!to!
entertain!herself,!step!it!up!!

Another!thing!she!might!do!with!her!hands!is!block!her!eyes!on!occasion.!You!don’t!want!to!see!
this!happen.!It!means!she’s!giving!her!brain!a!break!by!momentarily!removing!herself!from!the!
situation!and!turning!off!the!sensory!function!of!her!eyes.!It’s!something!we!do!when!we’re!
stressed!out!or!when!we!hear!or!see!something!we!don’t!like.!

If!she!blocks!her!eyes!by!rubbing!the!area!around!them!or!near!her!eyebrows,!she!may!be!
showing!that!she’s!tired.!Again,!not!the!greatest!sign.!She’s!either!bored!with!you!or!she’s!
literally!physically!tired,!in!which!case!she’s!probably!not!having!an!amazing!time!and!will!be!
looking!to!head!out!in!the!near!future.!You!have!to!turn!it!up!a!notch!at!that!point!to!regain!her!
attention!and!show!her!you’re!worth!her!time.!

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One!last!sign!of!discomfort!to!be!aware!of!is!her!freezing!reflex.!This!can!manifest!in!her!hands,!
face,!shoulders,!legs,!feetc!anywhere,!really.!It’s!essentially!a!momentary!thing,!as!she’ll!“snap!
out!of!it”!quickly,!but!it!means!you!said!and!did!something!(not!necessarily!negative)!that!has!
surprised!her!and!made!her!think!a!bit.!

Now,!establishing!a!baseline!for!her!is!important!for!noticing!the!freeze!reflex.!Earlier,!
establishing!a!baseline!was!discussed!in!terms!of!getting!used!to!her!facial!expressions!so!you!
can!accurately!decipher!her!reactions.!This!time,!it!means!more!in!terms!of!how!much!and!how!
often!she!moves.!

Some!people!are!just!active!with!their!hands,!for!instance.!Even!when!they’re!calm!and!
comfortable,!they!fiddle!with!objects!while!they!talk.!If!someone!like!that!freezes!momentarily,!
it’s!extremely!noticeable.!

If!someone!is!more!calm!and!stationary!with!their!body!movements!in!conversation,!a!quick!
freezing!reflex!is!a!lot!harder!to!pick!out.!Of!course,!you!have!plenty!of!other!areas!to!observe!
to!give!you!the!clues!you!need!to!help!you!work!your!way!into!her!bedroom.!

Chapter 7: Signals That Can Go Either Way

So!far,!the!body!language!that!we’ve!discussed!is!usually!either!
clearly!positive!or!clearly!negative.!While!you’ll!always!have!a!
little!work!to!do!deciphering!the!reasons!for!her!reactions,!you’ve!
at!least!got!a!nice!list!of!both!positive!and!negative!body!language!
that!will!help!you!to!find!the!right!path!to!her!heart…or!at!least!
her!bedroom.!

Unfortunately,!not!every!type!of!body!language!is!going!to!be!
obviously!positive!or!negative.!Come!on,!you!didn’t!think!it’d!be!
THAT!easy,!did!you?!

Let’s!go!over!a!few!things!the!she!might!do!which!could!be!either!
positive!or!negative,!depending!on!the!magical!word!we!discussed!
a!bit!earlier!in!the!report:!context.!

Why Is She Blocking?

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While!torso!shielding!with!her!purse,!her!arms,!or!anything!else!possible!is!never!a!good!sign,!
there’s!a!cousin!of!torso!shielding!called!facial!blocking!that!can!be!either!positive!or!negative,!
depending!on!the!reason!for!it.!

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One!top!of!facial!blocking!is!as!simple!as!touching!your!face,!and!when!a!girl!does!that!in!front!
of!you,!she’s!subconsciously!selfcsoothing!herself!while!struggling!with!some!emotional!
discomfort,!doubt,!or!insecurity.!

This!can!be!good!for!you,!because!the!doubt!may!be!caused!by!her!reconsidering!her!feelings!
for!you!in!a!positive!way.!

She!could!also!be!feeling!insecure!because!she’s!impressed!by!you!and!doesn’t!feel!good!
enough!to!be!in!the!position!she’s!in,!talking!to!you!while!you!flirt!with!her.!

It’s!hard!sometimes!for!us!to!think!of!hot!girls!feeling!this!
way,!but!even!attractive!women!have!some!level!of!
insecurity!to!them.!While!the!stereotype!of!the!beautiful!
girl!is!someone!who!is!not!only!confident,!but!full!of!
herself!to!the!point!of!being!nearly!impossible!to!deal!
with,!there!are!a!lot!of!good!looking!girls!out!there!who,!
for!whatever!reason,!are!much!more!down!to!earth!and!
may!react!with!a!little!nervousness!when!approached.!

Hey,!don’t!run!away!from!these!girls.!Many!times,!
they’re!the!ones!that!you’ll!actually!want!to!talk%to!after!
the!first!night.!

Protect Your Neck

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Another!interesting!display!that!women!make!
on!a!regular!basis!is!when!they!take!a!hand!
and!place!it!to!their!neck,!covering!what!I’ll!
call!the!“neck!dimple.”!The!neck!dimple!is!
straight!down!from!your!chin!where!your!
neck!meets!your!torso,!right!between!where!
your!collarbones!end.!

Women!will!touch!this!area!with!their!hands,!
or!even!play!with!a!necklace!that!will!
generally!be!located!in!that!specific!area,!with!
either!signal!being!the!same!for!our!purposes.!

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What!does!it!mean?!Well,!many!of!the!possible!meanings!are!negative.!She!could!be!showing!
you!that!she!feels!uncomfortable,!threatened,!or!even!fearful.!Hopefully!it’s!not!either!of!the!
last!two,!since!you’re!just!talking!to!her.!

However,!she!also!may!be!feeling!insecure,!which!at!first!thought!would!seem!to!be!a!bad!
thing.!Is!it,!though?!You!have!to!determine!why!she’s!feeling!insecure.!Just!as!some!women!will!
become!shy!when!a!guy!that!they!like!approaches!them,!some!women!will!feel!a!bit!insecure!
and!uncomfortable,!too.!

If!that’s!the!case,!it’s!not!really!a!bad!sign.!You!may!have!to!do!a!bit!of!work!to!make!her!feel!
comfortable,!because!she’s!not!going!to!want!to!escalate!anything!when!she!doesn’t!feel!
relaxed.!However,!you’ve!already!accomplished!what!most!guys!would!call!the!hard!partc!she’s!
attracted!to!you.!

Now,!if!she’s!been!acting!completely!relaxed!and!casual!and!then!you!say!something!that!leads!
her!to!touch!her!neck!dimple,!you!may!have!a!problem.!At!the!very!least,!something!you!just!
said!or!did!made!her!feel!a!bit!uncomfortable.!Gauge!her!reactions!after!that,!though.!Does!she!
feel!uncomfortable!because!you!essentially!read!her!mind!when!you!asked!her!what!she’s!
doing!later!on!in!the!night,!or!does!she!feel!uncomfortable!because!she!really!doesn’t!want!to!
be!in!the!conversation!in!the!first!place?!

Watch For Her Blinkers

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Just!as!when!you’re!driving!down!the!
street,!it’s!important!to!look!for!blinkers!
when!you’re!in!conversation!with!a!cute!
girl.!Of!course,!her!blinkers!are!her!
eyelids,!and!what!you’re!looking!for!is!
spontaneous,!rapid!blinks.!

Earlier,!I!told!you!that!sudden,!speedy!
blinking!can!indicate!discomfort!or!even!
a!struggle!going!on!inside!of!a!girl’s!mind.!
Generally,!it’s!not!a!good!struggle!either.!!

She’s!not!likely!struggling!over!whether!to!go!to!your!place!or!bring!you!to!hers,!for!instance.!
She’s!probably!struggling!with!how!to!get!herself!out!of!the!conversation.!

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All!is!not!lost,!though!!Besides!the!fact!that!you!can!almost!always!do!something!to!get!things!
back!on!track,!there’s!also!a!distinct!possibility!that!she’s!actually!indicating!arousal.!

To!determine!which!one!it!is,!you!need!to!take!into!account!the!rest!of!her!body!language.!Is!
she!pulled!back!from!you!or!close!to!you?!Is!she!leaning!away!from!you!or!toward!you?!!

Where!are!her!feet?!Close!to!yours?!Is!she!casually!rocking!them!or!shaking!them!more!
frantically?!

If!you’re!seeing!more!than!one!sign!of!stress!to!go!along!with!some!distancing!on!her!part!and!
rapid!blinking,!it’s!definitely!not!a!good!thing.!You’re!probably!going!to!notice!that!her!lips!are!
slightly!pressed!together,!too.!

However,!if!everything!else!looks!good,!she’s!in!decent!proximity!to!you!(or!even!better,!she’s!
close),!and!so!on,!the!blinks!likely!indicate!that!she’s!feeling!some!arousal!towards!you.!Look!for!
the!Attraction!Trianglec!if!it!comes,!it’s!time!to!make!a!move.!

The Eyes Have It

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What!if!she’s!not%making!eye!contact?!

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As!we!talked!about!a!bit!earlier!in!this!report,!this!is!one!of!the!trickier!signals!to!interpret,!as!it!
could!literally!mean!anything!from!her!being!woefully!bored!or!completely!disinterested!to!her!
being!so!into!you!that!she!doesn’t!trust!herself!to!make!responsible!decisions!(what!a!glorious!
place!to!find!yourself!in,!by!the!way).!

In!this!kind!of!situation,!you!need!to!use!your!other!context!clues!to!help!make!the!picture!a!
little!clearer.!

When!she!makes!eye!contact!with!you,!what!does!she!do?!Does!she!smile?!After!she!makes!eye!
contact!with!you,!does!she!look!down!when!she!looks!away,!or!either!up!or!to!the!sides!of!you?!

Looking!down,!especially!after!a!smile,!just!shows!nervousness!on!her!part!and!is!nothing!to!
worry!about.!That!means!that!you’ll!just!have!to!take!the!lead!when!it!comes!to!the!
conversation!and!your!mission!will!go!from!trying!to!make!her!attracted!to!you!to!just!trying!to!
get!her!to!open!up!a!bit.!

If!she’s!looking!at!you,!but!not!smiling!a!lot!(or!not!giving!a!genuine!smilec!more!on!that!later)!
and!then!looking!around!the!room,!or!even!worse,!upwards,!it’s!either!a!sign!that!she’s!bored!
with!interacting!with!you!or!she’s!not!impressed!by!whatever!you’re!doing!or!saying.!

The!other!thing!to!pay!attention!to!is!when!she’s!losing!eye!contact!with!you.!Is!it!when!you’re!
talking?!That’s!not!a!great!sign,!because!unlike!men,!who!feel!very!comfortable!listening!to!
other!people!talk!without!looking!at!them,!women!don’t!naturally!do!that.!If!she’s!looking!away!
while!you’re!talking,!she’s!escaping!and!not!really!paying!much!attention.!

If!she’s!looking!away!while!she’s!talking,!it!can!mean!the!same!thing,!but!it!can!also!mean!that!
she’s!feeling!a!bit!shy.!Again,!which!direction!is!she!looking?!When!you!lock!eyes,!is!she!smiling!
at!allc!even!a!little?!

There!are!a!lot!of!other!things!to!take!into!account!here,!too.!Although!unless!you!like!to!travel!
a!lot,!you!won’t!really!have!to!worry!about!it,!there!are!many!cultural!differences!that!govern!
eye!contact.!In!some!cultures,!most!notably!in!Asian!countries,!people!often!avoid!eye!contact!
other!than!quick!glances.!

There!are!other!cultures!where!the!men!are!expected!to!maintain!eye!contact,!but!women!
aren’t.!There!are!also!places!where!eye!contact!is!reserved!for!certain!situations!or!for!when!
you!know!someone!well!enough!to!maintain!it.!

The!best!advice!there!is!to!know!about!the!place!you’re!visiting!before!you!go!out!and!try!to!
observe!body!language!while!hitting!on!the!local!ladies.!This!is!especially!important!because!if!
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accent!they!use,!body!language!may!be!just!about!all!you’ve!got.!Trust!me,!though,!it’s!usually!
all!you!need!!

Using Context to Interpret Tricky Signals

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Earlier,!we!associated!discomfort!with!a!girl!not!
being!into!you!and!wanting!to!end!the!conversation,!
but!as!you!can!see,!with!some!types!of!body!
language!that!are!not!necessarily!negative!or!
positive,!the!discomfort!can!come!from!what!many!
of!us!have!often!heard!called!“butterflies”.!

While!there!are!some!universal!truths!of!body!
language,!context!is!how!you’re!going!to!get!the!
actual!specific!truths!of!her!individual!movements!and!signals.!

Think!about!context’s!relationship!to!body!language!as!you!would!the!relationship!of!voice!tone!
to!spoken!language.!Imagine!that!you!go!up!to!a!girl!and!ask!her!what!she’s!up!to!and!she!tells!
you!she’s!meeting!someone.!Without!knowing!her!tone,!you!don’t!know!what!she!specifically!
means.!!

Depending!on!how!she!says!it,!it!could!be!sarcastic,!like!she’s!meeting!someone!she!doesn’t!
want!to!hang!out!with,!dismissive,!like!she’s!trying!to!tell!you!she’s!not!available,!or!even!a!bit!
disappointed,!as!if!she’s!telling!you!she!wishes!she!wasn’t!already!meeting!someone!so!she!
could!talk!to!you,!instead.!Her!tone!could!even!indicate!to!you!that!she’s!just!meeting!a!friend,!
but!she’s!interested!in!talking!to!you!in!the!meantime.!

Context!is!the!same!way.!Most!of!the!body!language!signals!we’ve!talked!about!so!far!can!mean!
a!number!of!different!things,!and!even!when!a!signal!almost!always!means!the!same!thing,!you!
still!have!to!figure!out!what!caused!the!reaction.!Is!it!something!you!did?!Said?!Is!she!just!
disinterested!in!you!in!general?!Is!she!in!a!bad!mood!cause!she’s!having!a!terrible!day?!

Use!context!to!determine!the!truth.!Context!includes!every!single!clue!that!you’ve!gotten!from!
interacting!from!her!so!far.!

It!includes!the!tone!of!her!voice!and!what!she!just!said!to!you!as!well!as!everything!she!said!
earlier.!

It!includes!whatever!you!just!said!or!did!right%before!she!sent!the!signal.!

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It!even!includes!her!behaviors!before!you!approached!her,!when!you!were!just!checking!her!out!
casually!from!across!the!room.!All!of!this!information!has!to!be!taken!into!account.!

As!we!discussed!earlier!in!the!report,!baseline!features!and!mannerisms!are!also!a!huge!part!of!
context.!If!you’ve!observed!her!a!bit!while!talking!to!her!friends!and!she’s!someone!that!prefers!
smaller,!more!conservative!smiles!over!the!kinds!of!smiles!that!show!her!teeth,!you!know!not!
to!freak!out!later!on!when!she’s!displaying!more!conservative!facial!expressions!to!the!things!
you!say!and!do.!That’s!just!how!she!is.!

If!you!know!she’s!an!animated!person!who!laughs!and!smiles!a!lot,!you!know!that!her!laughing!
at!your!jokes!isn’t!necessarily!a!sign!that!you’ve!got!a!sure!thing,!and!you!need!to!check!out!her!
other!body!language!signals.!

Another!great!example!has!to!do!with!proximity.!Some!people!need!less!personal!space!than!
others.!If!you!can!see!that!she!generally!has!no!issue!being!close!to!other!people,!you!know!not!
to!overreact!when!she’s!close!to!youc!and!that!if!she’s!distancing,!it’s!definitely!a!bad!sign.!

Without!understanding!context!and!looking!at!the!whole!picture!instead!of!interpreting!every!
body!language!signal!in!a!bubble,!you!won’t!be!able!to!make!any!sense!of!what!her!body!is!
trying!to!tell!you.!

Chapter 8: Things That Can Throw You Off

I!want!to!take!a!little!bit!of!a!turn!from!the!last!
chapter,!although!there!will!be!some!
similarities!here,!because!we’re!going!to!be!
taking!a!further!look!into!tricky!body!language.!

However,!the!difference!here!is!that!these!
aren’t!so!much!body!language!signals!that!
could!be!positive!or%negativec!instead,!they’re!
things!that!generally!look!like!the!opposite!of!
what!they!are.!Maybe!they!look!like!they’d!be!
positive!when!they’re!actually!negative,!or!vice!versa.!!

Either!way,!you!should!be!aware!of!them.!

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Does Crossing Her Legs Mean She’s Closed for

Business?
With!everything!that!we!talked!about!before!in!terms!of!torso!blocking,!if!you!had!to!guess!you!
may!assume!that!when!a!woman!crosses!her!legs,!it’s!a!negative!sign.!It!probably!means!that!
she’s!feeling!reserved,!right?!

Not!so!much.!In!actuality,!leg!crossing!is!a!good!sign!for!you,!or!at!the!very!least,!a!sign!that!she!
feels!comfortable!in!your!presence.!Why!is!that!the!case?!Let!me!explain.!

See,!one!of!the!things!that!has!remained!for!thousands!of!years!when!it!comes!to!our!body!
language!is!that!we!don’t!cross!our!legs,!either!while!sitting!or!standing,!unless!we!feel!
comfortable.!

That’s!because!when!your!legs!are!crossed,!you’re!vulnerable.!Think!about!it.!When!you!want!
to!maximize!your!balance,!you!adopt!a!wider!stance.!Imagine!if!I!told!you!I!was!going!to!shove!
you!and!I!wanted!you!to!try!not!to!move,!you!wouldn’t!stand!with!your!legs!crossed.!You’d!
probably!stand!with!your!feet!shoulder!width!or!a!little!farther!apart.!

Even!while!sitting,!we!adopt!this!body!language!without!thinking!about!it.!!

It!may!seem!countercintuitive,!right?!If!you’re!hitting!on!a!girl!and!she!crosses!her!legs,!you’d!
almost!thing!that!she’s!putting!a!barrier!between!you!and!the!place!you’re!hoping!to!explore!
later!in!the!night.!In!actuality,!though,!legs!crossed!can!be!a!great!sign,!particularly!if!it’s!
combined!with!other!positive!signals!such!as!her!legs!pointing!in!your!direction,!a!gentle!foot!
bobbing!up!and!down,!and!other!signs!of!relaxation!or!interest!in!you.!

So!no,!when!you!see!her!legs!cross,!it!doesn’t!mean!she’s!literally!closing!herself!offc!it!just!
means!she’s!relaxed!with!you!and!probably!very!much!into!your!interaction.!Both!are!good!
signs,!of!course.!

Another Look at Pursed Lips

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Reading!lips!can!be!difficult!because!there!are!
a!number!of!different!signals!that!can!look!
pretty!much!the!same,!if!you!aren’t!used!to!
knowing!what!to!look!for.!

The!first!thing!to!look!at!is!when!her!lips!
literally!disappear.!This!is!kind!of!the!“my!lips!

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are!sealed”!pose!that!you!might!have!seen!kids!do!when!you!were!little.!When!the!lips!turn!all!
the!way!inward,!it!indicates!stress!or!anxiety.!!

You’re!literally!hiding!your!lips!as!a!defense!mechanism!to!something!that’s!making!you!
stressed!out.!

If!that’s!the!case!when!you’re!talking!to!her,!then,!something!is!making!her!anxious.!You!may!
have!made!her!uncomfortable!with!something!you!said!or!did.!

Lip!compression,!on!the!other!hand,!is!just!when!she!presses!her!lips!together!more!slightly,!so!
they!reduce!in!size!but!don’t!disappear.!As!you!might!expect,!this!can!also!be!a!sign!of!stress,!
though!it!also!may!be!sign!that!she!doesn’t!know!how!to!react!to!something.!It’s!not!as!severe!
as!when!her!lips!disappear!completely!as!in!the!previous!example.!

If!she!compresses!her!lips!and!her!corners!of!her!mouth!turn!downward,!she’s!likely!in!
disagreement!with!you!or!is!feeling!something!unpleasant.!

Then,!there’s!pursed!lips,!which!are!the!beginning!of!a!“kissy!face”,!as!we!talked!about!earlier.!
This!is!another!sign!that!she’s!either!not!in!agreement!or!feeling!a!bit!awkward.!She!could!just!
not!be!sure!what!to!say.!In!that!case,!you!want!to!pick!up!the!reins!a!bit!and!take!more!control!
of!the!situationc!but!be!on!the!lookout!for!further!body!language!that!may!indicate!that!she’s!
not!buying!into!whatever!you’re!saying.!

It’s the Little Things

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Not!every!body!language!signal!or!facial!
expression!is!black!and!white,!and!a!lot!of!it!
comes!down!to!being!comfortable!with!the!
person!you’re!talking!to!and!knowing!their!
own!personal!mannerisms.!

These!little!mannerisms!or!quirks!are!also!
called!idiosyncrasies.!Idiosyncrasies!are!
essentially!behavioral!patterns!that!are!
particular!to!a!specific!person.!!

Everybody!has!them,!but!if!you!aren’t!usually!looking!for!body!language!you!may!not!even!
notice!them!in!somebody!that!you’ve!known!for!a!long!time.!

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One!mannerism!that!a!lot!of!women!have!that!can!mean!many!different!things!is!when!they!
bite!their!lower!lip.!

For!some!women,!this!is!something!they!do!when!they’re!feeling!sexually!turned!on,!or!even!
because!they’re!trying!to!turn!you!on.!Remember,!the!lower!lip!bite!has!been!a!go!to!pose!for!
everyone!from!supermodels!to!centerfolds!for!generations!now,!so!women!know!that!it’s!
something!that!works,!and!it’s!become!a!flirtatious!tactic.!

At!the!same!time,!some!women!bite!their!lower!lip!when!they’re!feeling!a!bit!nervous.!It!could!
be!that!they’re!nervous!to!talk!to!someone!that!they!like,!but!it!could!also!mean!just!general!
nervousness!or!an!awkward!feeling.!

Still!other!women!might!bite!their!lower!lip!when!they’re!concentrating!on!something!or!
putting!a!lot!of!thought!into!something.!

As!you!can!see,!it’s!important!to!pick!up!on!a!girl’s!idiosyncratic!behaviors!as!quickly!as!possible!
to!get!the!context!you!need!to!interpret!these!kinds!of!signals.!

Misinterpreting Her Baseline Features

Depending!on!whether!you!observed!her!at!all!before!you!approached!her,!you!may!not!have!
an!understanding!of!her!baseline!features.!Like!we!discussed!earlier,!baseline!features!mean!
the!way!a!person’s!face!looks!in!its!natural!state,!with!a!blank!expression.!The!important!thing!
here!is!to!avoid!assuming!what!her!baseline!features!are!if!you!don’t!know!them!for!sure.!

One!of!the!advantages!to!checking!out!a!girl!for!a!bit!before!approaching!is!that!you’ll!be!more!
familiar!with!both!her!little!facial!and!body!language!quirks!as!well!as!her!baseline!features.!
Knowing!her!baseline!features!allows!you!to!determine!more!easily!when!she’s!feeling!stressed!
out,!when!she’s!amused!by!something!you!said,!and!so!on.!

Are Her Smiles Real or Fake?

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Unlike!with!men,!not!all!female!smiles!are!created!equal.!

One!of!the!things!you’ll!need!to!learn!not!only!for!picking!up!
girls,!but!just!for!your!everyday!life,!is!the!ability!to!be!able!to!
tell!a!real!from!a!fake!smile.!

In!your!regular!life,!being!able!to!tell!real!smiles!can!help!you!
know!when!a!friend!is!having!a!rough!time!and!hiding!it,!
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job!interview,!or!when!someone!you’re!just!meeting!is!or!isn’t!hitting!it!off!with!you.!

When!it!comes!to!picking!up!girls,!though,!being!able!to!separate!real!and!fake!smiles!is!
absolutely!essential.!That’s!because!her!smile!is!one!of!the!absolute!top!tipcoffs!that!she’s!into!
you.!

If!she’s!flashing!you!fake,!polite!smiles!and!the!whole!time!you’re!misreading!them!as!genuine!
smiles,!you’re!in!for!an!embarrassing!letdown.!You’re!also!missing!the!chance!to!change!up!
your!style!a!little!bit!to!get!onto!her!good!side,!too.!

Now,!the!first!clue!as!to!whether!her!smile!is!real!or!fake!is!a!bit!hard!to!really!decipher.!That’s!
because!it’s!looking!for!the!emotion!in!her!eyes!that!should!come!with!a!real!smile.!This!is!one!
of!those!traits!where!having!a!baseline!reading!of!her!features!really!helps.!Does!she!have!
lively,!active!eyes?!If!so,!it!should!be!easy!to!read!her!eyes!and!see!if!her!smile!is!genuine.!If!she!
doesn’t,!it’ll!be!harder.!

Fortunately,!there!are!other!ways!to!decide!if!it’s!a!real!smile!or!not.!The!most!basic!one!is!
where!the!corners!of!her!mouth!are!headed.!During!a!fake!smile,!most!people!tend!to!pull!the!
corners!of!their!mouths!toward!their!ears.!

On!the!other!hand,!with!a!real!smile,!the!corners!of!the!mouth!should!be!headed!more!upward,!
instead!of!straight!across!as!with!a!fake!smile.!The!upward!movement!at!the!end!of!each!side!of!
the!corner!of!her!mouth!is!a!great!tell.!

A!real!smile!does!something!else!that’s!even!easier!yet!to!seec!it!shows!her!teeth.!That’s!
because!it’s!hard!for!most!people!to!put!on!a!real!smile,!where!their!corners!of!their!mouths!
are!turned!upward,!without!showing!them.!

Maybe!she!doesn’t!look!how!she!likes!when!her!teeth!show!in!a!smile.!That!isn’t!usually!the!
case,!but!you!never!know.!In!that!case,!with!a!real!smile!you’ll!see!her!bottom!lip!move!up!a!bit!
to!provide!coverage!over!her!teeth!to!compensate!for!her!top!lip!moving!upward.!You!may!also!
see!a!flash!of!teeth!before!she!pulls!back!the!reins!a!bit.!Either!way,!you’re!looking!at!a!real!
smile.!

One!last!quick!tip!about!fake!smilesc!look!at!her!jaw!muscles.!You’ve!probably!seen!somebody!
getting!ready!to!confront!another!person!or!getting!angry,!and!you’ll!see!that!they!clench!their!
teeth!and!their!jaws!flex!in!a!certain!way.!This!is!a!sign!that!not!only!is!someone!faking!a!smile,!
but!they’re!hiding!some!real!displeasure.!Not!something!you!want!to!see!when!you’re!talking!to!
a!hot!girl.!

A!fake!smile!isn’t!the!worst!possible!thing,!mind!you.!For!one!thing,!there!are!different!degrees!
of!“fake”.!There’s!one!where!she’s!just!being!polite,!which!is!definitely!not!what!you!want.!But!

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there!are!others!where!maybe!she’s!just!having!a!rough!day!and!you’re!cheering!her!up,!in!
which!case!the!fact!that!she’s!bothering!to!give!a!little!smile!means!that!you’re!headed!in!the!
right!direction.!It’s!all!about!context,!as!I!keep!repeating!in!this!report.!

Ensuring You Read Her Signals Correctly

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If!there’s!one!thing!I’m!going!to!
preach!to!you!regularly!in!this!
report,!it’s!the!value!of!context.!
This!last!section!has!to!do!with!
using!the!context!that!gives!her!
actions!and!reactions!meaning!
to!allow!you!to!read!the!signals!
she’s!sending!correctly.!

Now,!I’m!not!going!to!liec!a!lot!of!this!has!to!do!with!practice.!You’ll!get!better!at!this!the!more!
you!do!it,!which!means!that!on!the!other!hand,!you!won’t!be!that!great!at!it!at!first.!

The!key!is!to!stick!with!it.!Don’t!assume!that!reading!her!body!language!just!isn’t!going!to!help!
you!and!go!back!to!ignoring!it!completely!when!you!pick!up!girls.!

The!more!you!talk!to!girls,!the!more!you’ll!be!able!to!supplement!the!information!that!you’re!
getting!from!this!report!with!your!own!experiences!and!interpretations.!The!thing!is!that!body!
language!is!largely!about!feel,!and!when!you!finally!get!truly!in!tune!with!female!body!language,!
you’ll!sense!things!and!interpret!them!without!even!consciously!looking!for!them!anymore.!It’ll!
be!like!an!awesome!sixth!sense!that!helps!you!pick!up!women.!

In!the!meantime,!though,!you’re!going!to!have!to!work!at!it.!When!you’re!not!doing!anything!
and!you’re!in!the!position!to!observe!people,!watch!people!who!are!talking!to!one!another!and!
check!out!their!body!language.!Look!at!how!people!orient!themselves!when!they’re!obviously!
having!a!disagreement,!or!check!out!a!new!couple!that’s!obviously!in!love.!

All!of!this!is!practice,!and!it’s!all!going!to!help!you!to!further!your!knowledge!and!comfortability!
when!it!comes!to!body!language.!

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Chapter 9: Is She Being Truthful?

Using!and!deciphering!body!language!
doesn’t!end!when!you!get!her!phone!
number!or!even!get!her!into!bed.!If!you!
plan!on!having!any!kind!of!relationship!
with!her,!or!even!a!completely!different!
girl!later!on,!there!are!a!lot!of!good!
applications!for!body!language!that!can!
help!you!when!you’re!consistently!
dating!someone,!including!being!able!to!
tell!if!she’s!being!truthful.!

Now,!I’m!not!here!to!advocate!that!you!
should!always!be!skeptical!of!everything!
she!says!or!constantly!be!checking!to!
see!if!she’s!lying!to!you!about!things.!

!That’s!not!really!any!way!to!build!a!relationship,!and!if!you!think!she’s!lying!that!often,!you’re!
not!off!to!much!of!a!start!and!should!probably!just!scrap!it.!

However,!there!are!many!different!kinds!of!lying.!It’s!not!just!about!finding!out!if!she’s!cheating!
on!you!or!another!huge!lie,!although!being!able!to!see!signs!of!dishonesty!is!surely!important!
for!those!unfortunate!situations.!But!even!something!like!knowing!when!she!doesn’t!really!feel!
comfortable!around!a!certain!friend!of!yours!or!that!she’s!hiding!something!that!is!bothering!
her!can!help!your!relationship!run!more!smoothly!as!you!avoid!certain!problems!and!possible!
pitfalls.!

The Relationship Between Lying and Discomfort

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The!reason!that!we!can!use!a!lot!of!the!body!language!techniques!and!indicators!to!help!
determine!whether!someone!has!been!honest!with!you!or!lying!to!you!is!that!lying!is!closely!
tied!to!discomfort.!

Of!course,!comfort!and!discomfort!is!a!big!focus!of!body!language,!so!when!we’re!trying!to!
figure!out!if!someone’s!lying,!we’re!going!to!be!looking!for!signs!that!they’re!not!feeling!very!
comfortable.!

On!the!other!hand,!very!few!people!can!maintain!a!comfortable!disposition!when!they’re!lying.!
Lying!naturally!takes!you!out!of!your!normal!routine,!unless!you’re!a!compulsive!liar!and!you’ve!

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become!very!good!at!not!telling!the!truth.!Obviously,!that’s!not!the!kind!of!girl!you!want!to!
spend!much!time!with,!anyway.!

Using Your Baseline Measurements

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One!of!the!first!things!to!discuss!when!it!
comes!to!detecting!lies!from!the!girl!you’re!
dating!is!how!to!use!her!baseline!
behaviors.!

This!is!a!little!different!than!the!baseline!
features!we!talked!about!earlier,!because!
now!we’re!looking!more!at!actual!
behaviors!and!mannerisms!than!her!facial!
expressions!alone.!

Think!about!itc!even!if!people!don’t!know!that!they’re!interpreting!body!language,!they!are.!
You’ve!probably!heard!somebody!saying!that!they!know!another!person!is!lying!because!they’re!
“acting!funny”.!Hell,!maybe!you’ve!said!that!to!somebody!(or!they’ve!said!it!to!you!).!

That!statement!really!gets!to!the!heart!of!being!able!to!detecting!if!someone!is!lying,!because!
what!you’re!doing!is!looking!for!unusual!signs!of!discomfort.!You’re!looking!to!see!if!they’re!
displaying!their!usual!behaviors!or!acting!unusually!nervous!or!behaving!erratically.!

Therefore,!having!a!baseline!idea!of!the!other!person’s!actions!are!extremely!important,!but!
even!that!won’t!help!you!if!you!undermine!your!own!efforts!to!get!to!the!truth!of!the!matter,!
which!we’ll!discuss!next.!

Don’t Undermine Your Own

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One!of!the!worst!things!that!you!can!do!when!you’re!trying!
to!get!the!truth!out!of!someone!is!acting!funny!yourself.!If!
you!come!across!as!extremely!accusatory,!aggressive,!or!
upset,!you’re!going!to!immediately!put!the!other!person!
into!an!uncomfortable!mode,!which!isn’t!going!to!help!you!
determine!whether!they’re!lying!or!not.!

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Why?!Because!you!won’t!know!if!she’s!nervous!and!uncomfortable!due!to!lying!to!you!or!just!
because!you’re!making!them!feel!uneasy!with!the!way!you’re!acting!towards!her.!Think!about!
itc!if!you!came!home!from!work!and!your!girlfriend!immediately!jumped!down!your!throat!
about!something!you!didn’t!do,!you!might!react!angrily!or!even!with!nervousness!due!to!not!
knowing!exactly!what!her!deal!is.!

Therefore,!one!thing!you!should!do!is!remain!calm!and!try!not!to!come!right!out!with!an!
accusation.!Instead,!take!the!time!to!have!a!more!normal!conversation!with!some!questions!
that!you!know!she’ll!answer!honestly.!Then,!you’ll!just!be!looking!for!inconsistency!with!the!
details!involved!instead!of!coming!right!out!with!asking!if!she!did!something!like!cheated!on!you!
or!lied!about!where!she!was.!

That’s!a!police!as!well!as!an!FBI!tactic.!The!reason!that!an!officer!or!an!agent!will!often!ask!
about!the!details!surrounding!someone’s!story!over!and!over!is!to!find!some!inconsistencies!
that!will!let!him!or!her!know!to!probe!further.!When!you!catch!someone!lying!about!a!
seemingly!inconsistent!detail,!you!know!you’re!on!to!something.!

If!it’s!not!a!huge!matter!and!it’s!something!more!routine,!like!her!saying!she’ll!go!out!when!
she’d!probably!rather!stay!home!and!relax!with!you,!you’ll!be!able!to!easily!tell!if!she’s!straying!
from!her!baseline!behaviors!since!she!won’t!be!feeling!cornered!and!it’s!a!more!casual!
situation.!

The!thing!to!take!away!from!all!of!this!is!twocfold.!For!one,!you!can’t!tell!if!someone’s!lying!if!
you!don’t!know!their!baseline!behaviors.!You!need!to!know!not!only!their!baseline!behaviors!if!
they’re!in!a!regular!mood,!but!also!when!they’re!really!happy,!a!little!depressed,!had!a!rough!
day,!or!whatever!else.!That’s!because!baseline!behaviors!vary!based!on!mood.!

The!other!thing!you!need!to!remember!is!that!you!can’t!make!someone!uncomfortable!and!
then!take!those!signs!of!discomfort!as!signals!that!she’s!lying.!Nervous!or!suspicious!behavior!is!
only!reliable!if!you!know!that!it’s!due!to!something!that!she’s!saying!and!not!something!that!
you’re!doing!that’s!making!her!uncomfortable.!

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Practice Makes Perfect

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Just!as!with!other!body!language!signals!
indicating!that!she!may!be!attracted!to!you,!
or!that!something!you’re!doing!or!saying!
might!be!turning!her!off,!it’ll!take!some!
practice!to!tell!when!someone!might!not!be!
being!truthful!to!you.!

Another!thing!to!consider!is!that!practice!
makes!perfect!not!only!for!you!when!it!
comes!to!detecting!lies,!but!also!when!it!
comes!to!women!who!are!used!to!lying!and!
have!become!good!at!it.!

When!it!comes!to!a!girl!who!may!be!cheating!on!you!or!pulling!some!other!dishonest!behavior,!
it’s!not!usually!something!where!she’s!entering!that!territory!for!the!first!time.!Because!of!that,!
she!will!have!been!in!this!position!before!and!will!be!better!at!pulling!off!a!believable!lie!than!a!
girl!who!you!can!actually!trust!would.!

Ultimately,!take!the!information!you’ve!been!given!in!earlier!chapters,!solid!baseline!knowledge!
of!her!mannerisms!and!actions,!and!the!context!of!the!situation!as!well!as!what!you!know!
about!her!and!what!you’re!asking!about!to!come!to!a!conclusion.!When!in!doubt,!trust!your!gut!
instinct.!Eventually,!your!ability!to!read!body!language!will!become!instinctual,!anyway.!

Chapter 10: Win Her Over with Good Strategy

This!entire!report!so!far!has!been!about!how!to!interpret!body!language.!We’ve!talked!about!
signs!that!she’s!comfortable!or!uncomfortable!around!you,!signs!that!she!doesn’t!agree!with!
what!you’re!saying,!signs!that!she’s!attracted!to!you,!and!even!signs!like!the!Attraction!Triangle!
that!show!that!it’s!probably!time!to!make!your!move.!

However,!one!thing!we!haven’t!really!touched!upon!is!how!to!react!and!play!the!game!when!
you!see!she’s!sending!you!specific!signals.!Although!I’ve!mentioned!a!couple!of!times!that!you!
may!need!to!change!up!your!strategy,!I!think!it’s!worth!going!over!a!few!general!ways!to!do!
that!when!you!aren’t!getting!the!body!language!from!her!that!you!were!hoping!for.!

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Your Clothing Sends a Message

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A!lot!of!your!seduction!game!starts!before!
you!even!leave!your!house.!Why?!Because!
just!like!we!do!with!women,!women!will!
size!up!men!based!upon!their!appearance.!
Therefore,!you!need!to!make!sure!that!the!
way!that!you!dress!yourself!sends!the!right!
message.!

I’m!not!here!to!tell!you!how!to!dress!(for!
advice!on!this,!check!out!one!of!the!other!
bonus!reports!that!comes!with!the!Tactical!
Attraction!system,!“How!To!Get!The!Look!Women!Love.”)!!

For!now,!what!I!will!tell!you!is!that!you!need!to!make!sure!that!your!clothing!agrees!with!two!
thingsc!the!setting!you’ll!be!in,!and!your!own!personal!style.!

When!you’re!going!out!to!a!nice!club!for!New!Year’s!Eve,!for!example,!it’s!a!little!different!than!
hitting!the!local!college!bar.!Instead!of!rocking!the!tcshirt!and!jeans!combo,!you!may!need!to!
dress!it!up!a!bit!more.!That!doesn’t!mean!you!can’t!add!a!little!of!your!personal!style,!but!it!
does!mean!to!take!it!up!a!notch!from!usual.!

One!good!guideline!is!to!never!be!the!obviously!best!or!worstcdressed!person!in!attendance!
wherever!you!go.!You!want!to!stand!out,!sure,!but!not!for!not!understanding!how!to!dress!for!
the!occasion.!

When!it’s!a!more!casual!thing!and!you!have!more!latitude!to!bring!your!attitude,!do!so!but!
make!sure!that!you’re!presenting!a!consistent!package.!This!may!sound!stereotypical,!but!it’s!
truec!women!will!expect!a!certain!personality!based!on!your!appearance.!That’s!what!they’ll!
base!their!initial!attraction!on!many!times,!too.!When!you!approach!them!and!you!don’t!
provide!what!they!were!expecting,!things!might!not!go!your!way.!

Therefore,!don’t!wear!the!clever!tcshirt!if!you’re!a!guy!with!a!dry!personality.!If!you’re!a!bit!
reserved,!your!rocker!gear!may!throw!her!for!a!loop!and!leave!her!wanting!more.!If!you’re!an!
alpha!male,!dress!like!it.!

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A!lot!of!guys!have!made!a!big!deal!about!having!something!in!their!attire!that!stands!out,!even!
if!it’s!a!stupid!looking!hat!or!a!random!bracelet!or!something.!I’m!not!a!believer!in!thatc!I!think!
that!like!I!said!earlier!in!this!report,!80!percent!of!the!time!you’re!going!to!have!a!chance!with!
any!given!girl!when!you!open!the!conversation,!and!it’s!all!about!performance!from!then!on!
out.!

Having!a!characteristic!that!stands!out!as!an!icebreaker!isn’t!a!big!deal!if!you’re!comfortable!
approaching!a!girl!without!one.!Now,!you!want!to!stand!out,!but!for!the!right!reasons.!You!want!
to!stand!out!because!you’re!confident,!because!you!carry!yourself!like!someone!who!knows!
how!to!treat!a!woman,!and!because!you!look!clean!or!attractive…not!because!you’re!wearing!a!
bright!pink!shirt!or!a!feather!boa.!

Being Sly About Your Observations

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One!thing!I!can’t!stress!enough,!which! is!
why!I’m!going!to!touch!upon!it!again,! is!
that!you!have!to!make!sure!she!
doesn’t!catch!you!observing!her.!I’m!
not!saying!that!you!don’t!want!to!lock!
eyes!with!herc!that’s!one!of!the!ways!
in!which!you!get!valuable!information!
on!where!she’s!at!in!terms!of!her!
attraction!to!you.!

However,!you!don’t!want!her!to!catch!you!observing.!If!you!lock!eyes,!you!want!it!to!seem!like!
you’re!checking!her!out,!but!not!dissecting!her!every!move!like!you!actually!will!be.!Girls!want!
to!believe!that!their!interactions!with!you!are!all!about!spontaneity!and!passion,!and!we’re!just!
going!to!let!them!go!on!believing!that.!Use!the!magic!that!you’ve!got!and!the!tips!from!this!
report!and!others,!but!don’t!let!her!get!a!look!behind!the!curtain.!

Plus,!if!she!catches!you!outright!studying!her,!she!may!misinterpret!it!and!find!you!a!bit!creepy.!
Not!a!good!thing,!obviously.!

This!continues!when!you’re!in!conversation!with!her.!If!you’re!obviously!studying!her!from!head!
to!toe!and!watching!her!body!language,!she’s!going!to!wonder!what’s!going!on.!She’s!going!to!
be!used!to!guys!either!making!eye!contact!with!her!or,!well,!checking!out!her!boobs.!She!won’t!

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be!used!to!guys!sneaking!a!peek!at!her!foot!positioning!or!checking!out!the!tilt!of!her!neck!or!
torso.!It’ll!throw!her!off!a!bit.!

Use!your!peripheral!vision!to!check!out!these!things!and!snatch!a!sneak!peek!when!you!can,!but!
don’t!make!it!obvious.!Furthermore,!if!you’re!spending!a!ton!of!time!obviously!studying!her!
movements,!you’ll!be!giving!her!too!much!attention!and!taking!a!considerable!amount!of!the!
fun!and!challenge!out!of!it!for!her,!causing!her!to!lose!interest!and!maybe!even!see!you!as!
desperate.!

Therefore,!you’re!going!to!have!to!sneak!in!those!observations!while!also!making!sure!to!look!
away!regularly!when!she’s!talking!to!show!that!you’re!not!completely!giving!yourself!to!her!just!
yet.!Give!her!something!to!work!toward.!

Changing Directions
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The!other!major!strategic!aspect!we’ll!talk!about!
before!we!move!on!is!how!to!change!directions.!
Obviously,!you’ll!be!changing!strategies!when!
you!see!something!in!her!body!language!that!
indicates!she!isn’t!digging!what!you’re!doing.!

However,!you!have!to!be!subtle.!If!you!do!it!right,!
you!can!salvage!your!chance!to!get!in!her!pants.!
If!you!do!it!wrong,!you!can!come!off!like!you!
have!multiple!personalities.!Obviously,!the!
former!is!a!better!outcome!than!the!latter.!

So,!if!you!make!a!joke!that!she!doesn’t!appreciate!or!that,!worse!yet,!makes!her!visibly!
uncomfortable,!move!on!and!make!a!note!of!it.!It!doesn’t!mean!that!you!stop!making!jokes!or!
using!humor!altogether.!It!means!that!you!make!a!change!to!the!style!of!humor!so!that!you!can!
get!more!information!and!recalibrate!your!comments!to!what!she!finds!funny!or!charming.!

If!you!made!a!sexual!joke,!you!try!something!a!little!different!next!time!and!maybe!back!off!the!
sexual!jokes!a!bit.!If!you!were!being!sarcastic,!you!ease!up!on!the!sarcasm!a!bit,!and!so!on.!

Furthermore,!you!don’t!stop!flirting!altogether!just!because!she!doesn’t!respond!well!to!your!
flirtatious!remark!or!gesture.!There!are!a!lot!of!variables!involved,!and!you!have!to!go!through!
them!to!come!to!an!accurate!conclusion.!

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Was!she!uncomfortable!because!you!touched!her?!Because!of!how!you!touched!her?!Because!
she!doesn’t!like!to!talk!explicitly!about!sex?!Because!she’s!coming!off!of!a!bad!breakup?!
Because!she’s!worried!you’ll!think!she’s!a!slut!if!she!goes!along!with!it!too!easily?!

These!are!all!possibilities,!so!while!you’ll!play!it!a!little!bit!safer!in!the!near!future,!you!don’t!
abandon!flirting!altogetherc!that’s!crazy.!There’s!also!that!distinct!possibility!that!we!talked!
about!earlier!that!you!may!be!getting!signs!of!her!being!shy!or!nervous,!rather!than!her!being!
disinterested.!Only!when!she!does!something!dramatic,!like!physically!pull!far!away!from!you,!
do!you!want!to!make!that!kind!of!assumption.!

Conclusion
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Understand!how!to!read!body!language!is!one!of!the!most!powerful!tools!in!your!seduction!arsenal,!and!
will!give!you!a!huge!advantage!over!all!the!other!guys!out!there!who!don’t!have!the!tiniest!bit!of!
knowledge!about!the!messages!that!women!are!constantly!sending!out!during!social!situations.!

However,!it’s!still!just!one!tool,!and!it’s!not!going!to!be!as!useful!to!you!as!it!could!be!if!your!other!tools!
aren’t!sharp.!All!of!the!body!language!knowledge!and!intuition!in!the!world!isn’t!going!to!be!completely!
helpful!if!you!don’t!feel!comfortable!talking!to!girls,!if!you!don’t!know!how!to!present!yourself,!or!if!you!
don’t!know!how!to!change!things!up!when!they!aren’t!going!the!way!you!want!them!to.!

That’s!why!your!knowledge!of!body!language!has!to!be!just!one!part!of!your!overall!game!if!you!want!to!
really!have!a!chance!at!getting!that!hot!girl!to!be!interested!in!you.!If!you!can!add!good,!intuitive!use!of!
your!body!language!knowledge!to!an!ability!to!confidently!talk!to!women!and!present!yourself!
positively,!you’re!going!to!be!hard!to!shut!down!out!there.!

At!first,!it!may!seem!like!you’ve!taken!a!step!backwards,!especially!if!talking!to!women!naturally!comes!
easily!to!you.!You’ll!wonder,!“Why!am!I!stressing!out!about!which!way!her!torso!is!facing!or!what!her!
feet!are!doing?!I!know!how!to!talk!to!girls!”!

But!after!a!bit!of!practice,!you!won’t!have!to!obsess!over!body!language.!Your!brain!will!interpret!it!
naturally.!Before!you!know!it,!you’ll!be!better!than!ever!at!getting!women!interested!in!you,!and!it!will!
be!because!you!can!understand!everything!she’s!saying,!even!the!stuff!she’s!NOT!trying!to!show!you.!

Don’t!settle!for!less!than!the!amazing!girls!that!you’ve!always!wanted!to!date.!Take!your!game!to!the!
next!level!and!make!sure!you’re!using!every!advantage!available!to!you.!With!this!knowledge!of!body!
language,!you’ll!be!one!step!closer!to!being!unstoppable.!

Your!Wingman,!!

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