Negative Effects of Long Distance On Romantic Relationships

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Negative Effects of Long-Distance on Romantic Monogamous Relationships

A romantic monogamous relationship is defined as a bond between two


people that, generally speaking, involves emotional closeness and physical intimacy.
According to Peterson (2019), at least 75% of college students have been in a long-
distance relationship (LDR); this might be due to students attending college out of
their hometown. This high percentage indicates that many couples are open to
letting their relationship be based purely on expectations and mutual understanding,
despite them being apart from each other. However, long-distance relationships lack
physical intimacy and constant verbal communication due to the geographical
location of the members, and consequently, affects their previous dynamic. Long-
distance relationships have several negative effects on the partners’ mental health,
such as anxiety, depression, and a feeling of loneliness.

Anxiety is the first and most common effect produced by LDRs. People start
to recreate scenarios, imagine hypothetical situations, worry whether it will work out ,
or even wonder if they are on the right track. Constantly seeking reassurance from
the other person might be a new experience and it is important to state from the
beginning of the journey where they are heading to. This anxiety and uncertainty
may turn chronic, and it could transform the relationship into a source of resentment
instead of love and joy. The more anxious the person is, the more difficult it would be
for them to be happily in love. Furthermore, depression and loneliness are both
feelings that overlap in LDRs. Missing their partner may lead to a sense of loss and
emptiness. When one of the parts is depressed, it is highly probable it will affect the
other; therefore, they may feel confused, helpless, and even responsible for what the
other person is going through. This can produce a communication breach, loss of
commitment, and generate darker thoughts that will consequently lead to an
unavoidable break-up.

In short, long-distance relationships’ particular feature is lack of physical


intimacy. By being apart from each other, the couple may experience feelings of
loneliness, depression, and anxiety due to the change of their routine. These could
affect their relationship by creating a place filled with resentment and irritability,
instead of mutual understanding. Consequently, this would create a loss of verbal
communication and lead to a progressive break-up. Finally, it is recommended for
couples to establish the relationship’s goals and new dynamics before embarking on
this long-distance journey, since it could considerably reduce its negative effects.

List of References

Petersen, R. (2019, September 14). 5 Well-Researched Long-Distance Relationship


Statistics (2020 Update). Dating at a Distance. https://datingatadistance.com/long-
distance-relationship-statistics/

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