4TH Quarter Summary Reflection
4TH Quarter Summary Reflection
4TH Quarter Summary Reflection
The topic is all about respecting one another, particularly spouses, and we will start with chastity.
Chastity is sexual self-control. It means placing sexual intimacy within one relationship and one
relationship only: marriage. Although we've used the word abstinence, we actually prefer the term
chastity when talking about sexual morality. Abstinence is about what you cannot do (engage in
sexual intimacy). Chastity is about what you can do: lead a positive lifestyle that respects self
and others. For centuries, chastity has been an admired moral virtue. Author Pat Driscoll defines
chastity as sexual goodness living out the truth, beauty, and goodness of human sexuality.
In the development of the human person and in the well-being of society, the observance of
chastity does occupy a rather important place. The high value and the nature of chastity are best
approached by a consideration of God’s plan in creating man and woman. Because chastity
promotes the integrity of the human person and respect for human life, it is a virtue for everyone.
The benefits which its observance brings and the damage done by offenses against it help us to
appreciate its importance. We shall finally consider some of the means that help us to live chaste
lives and thank God for the wisdom of the teaching of the Catholic Church on chastity. The
practice of chastity brings many benefits to individuals, families, and societies. The discipline
and self-mastery which it entails bring much peace and self-respect to the individual. Chastity is
related to justice and genuine love of other people. It therefore nourishes respect for others who
are not regarded as objects for one’s enjoyment. All this is very helpful for growth in maturity.
In particular, there is a need for education about the value of life from its very origins. It is an
illusion to think that we can build a true culture of human life if we do not help the young to
accept and experience sexuality and love and the whole of life according to their true meaning
and in their close interconnection. Only a true love is able to protect life.
Many people enter marriage expecting it to be a life of uninterrupted bliss and happiness. But
marriage isn't always that way. Instead, love grows stronger in the midst of life's trials. In God’s
help we can surpass all of this challenges which life encompasses.