Social Anxiety Is
Social Anxiety Is
Social Anxiety Is
Contents [hide]
1 Forms and
degrees
1.1
Child
development
1.2
Ordinary
adult form
1.3
Disorder
2
Communication
Issues
3 See also
4 References
5 External
links
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Forms and degrees
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Child development
Social anxiety first occurs in infancy and is said to be a normal and
necessary emotion for effective social functioning and developmental
growth. Cognitive advances and increased pressures in late childhood and
early adolescence result in repeated social anxiety. Adolescents have
identified their most common anxieties as focused on relationships with
peers to whom they are attracted, peer rejection, public speaking,
blushing, self-consciousness, and past behavior. Most adolescents
progress through their fears and meet the developmental demands placed
on them.[2]
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Ordinary adult form
Common adult forms of social anxiety include shyness,[5] performance
anxiety, public speaking anxiety, stage fright, timidness, etc. All of these
may also assume clinical forms, i.e., become anxiety disorders (see
below).[1]
The term social anxiety is also commonly used in reference to experiences
such as embarrassment and shame. However some psychologists draw
distinctions among various types of social discomfort, with the criterion for
anxiety being anticipation. For example, the anticipation of an
embarrassment is a form of social anxiety, while embarrassment itself is
not.[6]
Criteria that distinguish between clinical and nonclinical forms of social
anxiety include the intensity and level of behavioral and psychosomatic
disruption (discomfort) in addition to the anticipatory nature of the fear.[1]
Social anxieties may also be classified according to the broadness of
triggering social situations. For example, fear of eating in public has a very
narrow situational scope (eating in public), while shyness may have a wide
scope (a person may be shy of doing many things in various
circumstances).[1] The clinical (disorder) forms are also divided into
general social phobia (i.e., social anxiety disorder) and specific social
phobia.
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Disorder
Main articles: social anxiety disorder and specific social phobia
Extreme, persistent and disabling social anxiety may be diagnosed as
social anxiety disorder. The experience is commonly described as having
physiological components (e.g., sweating, blushing), cognitive/perceptual
components (e.g., belief that one may be judged negatively or looking for
signs of disapproval), and behavioral components (e.g. avoiding a
situation).
The essence of social anxiety has been said to be an irrational or
unreasonable expectation of negative evaluation by others.[1] One theory
is that social anxiety occurs when there is motivation to make a desired
impression along with doubt about having the ability to do so.[7] Although
the "official" clinical name for the disorder, as listed in the DSM and ICD, is
Social Phobia or Social Anxiety Disorder, support groups for people who
have the disorder (whether through clinical diagnosis or self-diagnosis)
often refer to it as simply "social anxiety" or even "SA".[3][4]
Criteria in the DSM and ICD attempt to distinguish clinical versus
nonclinical forms of social anxiety, including by intensity and levels
of behavioral and psychosomatic disruption:[1] The validity of the
"disorder" diagnosis has been challenged, however, on scientific and
political grounds; people satisfying DSM social phobia criteria may simply
be temperamentally high in social anxiety rather than suffering from a
disorder, although such problems in living in society may still deserve
attention as a matter of social justice.[8]
Clinicians and researchers continue to struggle with definitional problems
regarding the constructs of shyness, social anxiety, and social anxiety
disorder. Each shares similarities, yet each has been used to define
distinct aspects of psychological life as it relates to interpersonal
functioning and how easy or difficult different cases of social anxiety are to
overcome. A continuum describes some of the distinctions yet there is no
absolute consensus yet as to where one disorder begins and another
ends, although it is widely agreed that there are differences.[9]
Social anxiety disorder may sometimes be symptomatic of an underlying
medical disorder, such as hyperthyroidism.
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Communication Issues
Social Anxiety causes something called Communication Apprehension,
this can be thought of as an‘‘internally experienced feeling of discomfort’’
(McCsroskey, 1983, p. 16) that causes ineffective communication when in
a social or public situation. “Communication apprehension is the level of
fear or anxiety associated with either real or anticipated communication
with another person” McCrosky 1984. Early communication researchers
described physiological sensations experienced while giving a public
speech as "profound discomfort" (Lomas, 1944, p. 479), patients with
social anxiety typically experience embarrassment, distressing panic
attacks, and self conciousness impairing their speech. According to a
study done by Robin and Mills children experiencing social anxiety show
issues in social perspective-taking ability, fewer successful problem solving
skills, and use less interpersonal problem solutions. This brings up a
problem with people who experience social anxiety getting help for their
problems. The feelings of embarrassment, inferiority, and shame that
social anxiety causes inhibits the ability to seek help. Basically, avoiding
social situations because of their fear eliminates the opportunities for social
growth which reinforces their fears which will of course lead to more
avoiding,creating a pattern thats hard to break.
Although it may feel like you’re the only one with this problem, social
anxiety disorder is actually quite common. Many people struggle with
these fears. But the situations that trigger the symptoms of social
phobia can be different.
For example, it’s perfectly normal to get the jitters before giving a
speech. But if you have social anxiety disorder, you might worry for
weeks ahead of time, call in sick to get out of it, or start shaking so
bad during the speech that you can hardly speak.
To learn more about the types of therapy that help anxiety, see
Therapy for Anxiety Disorders.
Practicing the following breathing exercise will help you decrease the
physical symptoms of anxiety and stay calm:
▪ Sit comfortably with your back straight and your shoulders relaxed.
Put one hand on your chest and the other on your stomach.
▪ Inhale slowly and deeply through your nose for 4 seconds. The hand
on your stomach should rise, while the hand on your chest
should move very little.
▪ Hold the breath for 2 seconds.
▪ Exhale slowly through your mouth for 6 seconds, pushing out as
much air as you can. The hand on your stomach should move in
as you exhale, but your other hand should move very little.
▪ Continue to breathe in through your nose and out through your
mouth. Focus on keeping a slow and steady breathing pattern of
4-in, 2-hold, and 6-out.
▪ “I know I’ll end up looking like a fool.” ▪ “People will think I’m stupid.”
▪ “My voice will start shaking and I’ll humiliate ▪ “I won’t have anything to say
myself.”
Challenging these negative thoughts, either through therapy or on
your own, is one effective way to reduce the symptoms of social
anxiety disorder.
▪ Mind reading – Assuming you know what other people are thinking,
and that they see you in the same negative way that you see
yourself.
▪ Fortune telling – Predicting the future, usually while assuming the
worst will happen. You just “know” that things will go horribly, so
you’re already anxious before you’re even in the situation.
▪ Catastrophizing – Blowing things out of proportion. If people notice
that you’re nervous, it will be “awful,” “terrible,” or “disastrous.”
▪ Personalizing – Assuming that people are focusing on you in a
negative way or that what’s going on with other people has to do
with you.
How can I stop thinking that everyone is looking at me?
In order to reduce self-focus, pay attention to what is happening
around you, rather than monitoring yourself or focusing on symptoms
of anxiety in your body:
▪ Look at other people and the surroundings.
▪ Really listen to what is being said (not to your own negative
thoughts).
▪ Don't take all the responsibility for keeping conversations going—
silence is okay, other people will contribute.
Adapted from: Moodjuice
Social anxiety disorder treatment #3: Gradually facing
your fears
One of the most helpful things you can do to overcome social anxiety
disorder, or social phobia, is to face the social situations you fear
rather than avoid them. Avoidance keeps social anxiety disorder going.
It prevents you from becoming more comfortable in social situations
and learning how to cope. In fact, the more you avoid a feared social
situation, the more frightening it becomes.