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It is certainly a surging uptrend amongst women to look for new ways to enjoy
the pleasures of their bodies. After all, what were once seen as taboo sexual
subjects, are now mainstream and talked about openly without shame or
embarrassment. One of these methods of pleasure that’s on the lips of many a
lady, is the technique of female genital massage referred to as a Yoni Massage in
London and other parts of the world.

For those of you who have been wondering what a yoni massage actually is, I
would like to take some time to delve deep into this mysterious practice and
uncover the truth. In doing so, I will share with you exactly how to perform this
vaginal massage, either on your partner or yourself. You can also follow my
instructions in this yoni massage guide to learn some tips to help you master this
orgasmic vagina massage technique for yourself. So let’s get to it…

What Is Yoni Massage Therapy?

In the practice of tantra, a real yoni massage is the ritual of erotic connectivity
between a man and a woman or two females focusing on massaging the parts of
the vagina known as the yoni area. Yoni is defined as vagina in Sanskrit which can
be interpreted as a sacred space or divine portal. Traditionally, a yoni
practitioner carefully massages the vulva and vagina whilst the receiver
performs breathing exercises. The idea is that both mental and physical tensions
are freed, resulting in being able to take pleasure from the delicate yet

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enchanting tantric touches of another man or woman. Interestingly, orgasm is

not mandatory but can be a welcomed side effect for many women!

Did you know? – In a recent survey by Karma Tantric, 60% of straight women said
that they would consider a yoni massage performed by another woman and did not
consider it a lesbian act?. That means most females going for a Yoni massage see it as a
therapeutic holistic therapy rather than a sensual one.

What Are The Benefits of Yoni Massage?

1. Supports Mental Healing

Many women have reported Yoni Massage supporting the mental healing
process. There can be lots of negative emotions attached to our genitalia
including shame and sexual trauma issues. Learning how to touch and be
touched in your Yoni area can release many of these emotional
connections and reprogram them into a positive, pleasurable feeling.

2. Improves Sexual Relationships

Yoni Massage can help unlock your fear of intimacy and touch if that is
what is holding you back. It can be fun and add excitement into your alone
time with you partner or even improve trust and connection between you.
Learning the pleasures of touch with another is a bonding experience that
also supercharges your sexual confidence.

3. Releases Your Higher Energy

Yoni stimulatory techniques can help to achieve a greater connection with

your mind, body and soul. It’s no surprise that Yoni massage is so closely
linked to Tantra and the ancient methodology that goes along with it. By
searching inside ourselves we can unlock our potential to connect on a
much higher spiritual level with others.

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4. Promotes More Intense Orgasms

Many women have reported an increase in the intensity of their orgasms

after regular Yoni Massages. This is probably a result of a combination of
the above mentioned factors. After all, we are all very aware that it is the
mind that allows us to achieve orgasm and the level in which we
experience it.

How To Give A Yoni Massage

The following steps give a general guide on how to perform a Yoni massage
session with a partner, or for our readers who are single, to induce insane
amounts of pleasure upon yourself personally. There are of course many ways to
manipulate and stimulate the Yoni area, however these techniques will certainly
help you get started.

Step A – Setting Your Yoni Massage Environment

Tantra is originally a holistic practice and is not always about tantric sex and
orgasm – it’s about the journey. So before the actual yoni massage is performed
and any intimate touching takes place, it’s important to set an accommodating
atmosphere in order to prepare your mind and body, fully relax and let go of
stress. You can do this by:

1. Preparing your space

Find an area that is most suitable for your Yoni session, either on a bed, a
sofa or even on the floor. The important thing is to have enough space to
move freely and not to restrict yourself. Use cushions or pillows to prop
yourself into the correct position ready for bliss.

2. Preparing your items

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Many ladies choose to perform a yoni massage with oil or cream, which
not only provides a very nice sensation but also serves to moisturise and
replenish the skin at the same time. Be careful to use only hypo-allergenic
items as you may be touching yourself internally. A good option is a home
made Yoni Oil or a high end paraben free massage oil.

3. Setting the room temperature

Turn on a heater if it’s too cold or let some fresh air in if it’s too stuffy and
hot. You don’t want to have to pause your Yoni pleasure to adjust things to
be more comfortable, after you have already begun.

4. Creating ambience with mood lighting and

scent

Dim the lights a little or use a scented candle to tingle the senses and
create a wonderful candle lighting effect. Remember, if using candles, to
do so safely and never leave them unattended!.

5. Playing some suitable music

Create a either an energetically sexy or calm and relaxed atmosphere by

listening to music during your massage. Music not only stimulates the
mind but also provides natural rhythmic value when synchronising touch
with the rhythm.

6. Ensuring complete privacy

You definitely don’t want to get interrupted by any guests, roommates or

children so make sure you choose a quiet, private space. Putting your
mobile phone on silent or aeroplane mode is also a very good idea.

7. Preparing your mind

Traditional yoni massage is a spiritual practice so preparing your mind

through meditative breathing exercises will improve your experience.
Take 5 minutes before you begin to sit in your space, close your eyes and
meditate a little. The aim of this is to cleanse your mind of any worries or

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stress before you start, so you can have a wonderfully peaceful

experience without anxieties or other thoughts.

8. Preparing your body

Feel your best by making sure you (and your partner if using one) are
clean from a recent shower or bath. Ensure you are well moisturised and
any fingernails are trimmed nicely to avoid any scratches or sharp
sensations. Many people choose to use latex gloves if they have long
fingernails.

Step B – Start To Breathe Tantrically

Breathing is central to the art of tantra and authentic yoni massage. It can allow
you to completely and freely let go of both mental and physical tension (down
there). It can also allow you to better connect with yourself or your partner if
you have one. This will tremendously enhance your yoni massage experience and
allow you to take in all the spiritual and therapeutic benefits so it should not be
overlooked. The following yoni breathing technique is designed to draw blood
into the vagina, thereby enriching your yoni massage. If with a partner, perform
the breathwork techniques together in synchronisation.

1. Start
by sitting upright (facing each other if
with a partner)

2. Exhale very deeply concentrating the energy in

the belly area

3. Closethe mouth then inhale softly through the

nostrils

4. Hold the breath for seven seconds

5. Exhale
completely for eight seconds through
the mouth and lower abdomen

6. Repeat this exercise three more times

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Did you know? – The male equivalent to the yoni massage is called a lingam massage –
with lingam being the Sanskrit translation for phallus or penis. These terms are often
used in tantric references.

Step C – Stimulate The Stomach and Awaken And

The Breasts

Instead of heading straight to the vaginal area as a way to warm-up, a more

appropriate way to initiate touching is with a gentle, focused massage of the
upper body and breasts. Remember that a woman generally takes a little longer
to become aroused than a man, so the aim is to build up arousal slowly. You also
need to awaken your body energy and promote blood flow.

Massaging the naval and stomach area is a great way to start as that area has
lots of nerve endings. Gently massage the belly with some oil, slowly caressing
the chest area, rib cage, lower belly and between breasts. This whole area is
often ignored when lovemaking but is very effective when igniting arousal.

When it’s clear that the body is beginning to heat up, now the breasts and
nipples can receive more attention. However before actually touching the
nipples, begin with gentle caresses of the breasts and then move onto playing
with the areola. The body will start to respond to this so now the nipples can
receive some love with very gentle pinches, teases and circling actions. It’s
important to not overdo this and to alternate the strength of the touches.

Yoni Massage Techniques

Now that the scene is set, the mind is prepared through breathing and the body
is aroused, you should be ready to receive a yoni massage. Be mindful that,
unlike most people assume, penetration is not necessarily required. The focus is
around the other areas of the vagina to increase the blood flow to the nerve
endings, so try and be open minded to avoid going too far internally. Below is a
basic step-by-step guide on yoni massage techniques to get you started:

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Circling the Yoni

Start by gently massaging around the clitoris, bringing sensation to the area but
not directly on it. Some females will have different thresholds of sensitivity here
as this is where most of the nerve endings meet, hence why the body hides the
tip of the clitoris with a small hood. Small circular movements using two or three
fingers around the clitoris hood should be performed slowly with extra attention
to ensuring the touch is slow and mindful.

It should be more of an exploratory style with varied circle sizes starting from
large circles further away from the clitoris, moving into smaller circles as you
progress. Try to imagine you are lightly pushing blood flow to your target clit
area, which sometimes, but not always, can be visibly seen as it starts to slightly
enlarge and swell.

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Lip Syncing

One of the most overlooked areas of the yoni is the labia. These are the lips that
mark the entrance to the internal vaginal area. Sometimes these will be
externally evident however on many females they are almost completely
concealed by the pelvis skin. These lips are also populated with a large amount of
nerve endings which means they are a perfect area to stimulate for arousal.

Once located, rub your fingers around each lip, making sure to be mindful and
touch each crevasse and contour slowly. You can try working on the outer areas
first then move to the inner parts after. Take consideration not to let your fingers
wander too far into the internal parts of the yoni at this point.

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The Push and Pull

Place one finger on the left and one to the right of the clitoris hood. Use a push
and pull technique to retract and reveal the tip, then conceal it again with your
next movement. This is similar to how you would approach masturbation of the
penis, with the clitoris head being the equivalent of the penis tip.

Apply only mild pressure to each side and again try to avoid hard pressure on the
very top of the clitoris. Your speed should be very slow at first, slightly faster as
you progress with alternating pressure to evoke stimulation and sensation. As
you continue, you can attempt to alternately press each finger as you push and
pull to enhance the clitoral massage.

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The Big Finish

It’s important to note that orgasm is not the purpose of all yoni massages, in fact,
in some authentic tantric techniques, it is actually avoided. For those of you who
would like to complete the yoni session with an orgasm, which let’s face it, its
most of us, you can proceed with the next step.

Start to consider the yoni area as a whole now, with multiple areas to be
stimulated in combination. Run your fingers from the very top of the vagina, over
the clit with a little more pressure than before, then down around the lips and
vaginal opening. Use a rhythmical touch to now proceed from the bottom up and
repeat, adjusting pressure and speed based on the pleasure of the journey your
partner is expressing.

Other Yoni Massage Considerations

If you would like to advance with two handed movements, use one hand to
perform a clit massage stimulating it with your fingers. Your other hand should

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embark on the vaginal lips and synchronise in a repetitive motion. If penetration

is something your partner is happy to receive, then you can use your second
hand to enter the vagina with your fingers with a ‘come here’ finger motion.
Those of you who are familiar with the location of the female sacred spot (or
g-spot) can use this opportunity to seek it and incorporate a g-spot massage.

Also, ensure you massage the skin around the vagina very gently and maintain
circular movement in your touch. Be mindful when directly touching the clitoris
if the hood is retracted. The exposed clitoris may not be ready for direct touch
stimulation. Communication is key here.

Did you know? – The clitoris has around 8,000 sensual nerve endings which is more
than any other physical part in the human body. – health.com, October 5th 2015.

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